How to Find Mr. or Ms. Perfect with Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche
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- How do you find the perfect partner? Is that even possible? Mingyur Rinpoche shares his wisdom on why expectations can lead to obstacles when developing relationships. Although we have basic innate goodness, everyone experiences confusion, craving, and aversion. Rinpoche shares how we can learn to appreciate the good qualities in ourselves and others while also holding space for mistakes and challenges. Doing so allows for healthier and longer-lasting relationships.
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I never thought that Rinpoche will deliver this kind of topic, but it's kinda insightful really; not forcing anything and accept imperfection with a light heart. Thankyou for this 🙏
100 percent true!
This is not only about relationships but also about everything else that we do in our lives, no expectations - freedom, love, miracles and surprises from life!
Thank you for sharing your wisdom!
Blessings 🙏🏻
I found him. The connection we have goes beyond words, a glance, a touch, we're able to "connect" on a spiritual level. Sometimes we pop on each others minds and we get a call seconds later. It's like we communicate before the incoming call. This man is so intune with his emotions, is able to fulfill all my needs. We're about to celebrate 19 years of marriage.
Be careful, he can die. When my mom died, my father had a deep deppression.
@@matcollins6503 I'm aware we can all die any second.
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Congrats on finding Mr OK!
Not married yet but will definitely practice this if I ever get married thank you Rinpoche still looking forward to meeting you not so far away still its like I am a thousand years away
Ahhh perfection… always sneaking up on me. But how can we meet anyone sitting on our meditation cushions at home? 😂 …no, seriously, I need that video.😊
What a great smile can do in this world ! Only wise know after a full life of dedication ..
a profound meaning that beyond words yet embodies a full time life experience feeling !
This is the Smile You Can SEE in movies or theaters when the character a legend who he/she story was told from birth he/she, till the end of existence, thus before death smiles that way (with all the experiences has been through it is now time to leave this world knowing what it is exactly and what has to be done, bringing deep joy calm and peace for others ultimate goal), smiling the way with that meaning very special very powerful very profound !
Inspiring smile mysterious in some aspects, smile is an amazing capacity, a vast and open power!
"Don't expect to much. Mind don't fix to much." 💟🌌☮️
He still surprises me with new wisdom 💟🌌☮️
Mr Okay, Mrs Okay
You made my day!
So well taught! In such simple language! You are a blessing for anyone who listens to you dear Rinpoche🙏
Understand & Accepting the total baggage comes in a relationship is important fundamental.
once a while of ego & emotional is fine as long having the fundamental to support.
thank you for your kind sharing.
I never even found Mrs Ok. Love is a feast to which I'm obviously not invited.
I love your talking❤
You open people's eyes with your words. Your teachings are so simple and clear. Most people wouldn't think to do these things on their own so we are blessed to have you to lead the way through problems. Thank you Rinponche. You are much loved and respected.
What to do if you fall in love like crazy, loose your mind, and become not yourself? It is not healthy? Is there a need to fight that?
How to find Mr and Mrs perfect after marriage 😂
What happens when acceptance (of the differences in another) , means accepting the emotional abuse of someone else? Is there not a limit to acceptance?
I want to emphasize "eachother" as for some this video may be used as an excuse to give more of themselves to someone who does not care about working on the relationship with you.
You can "accept that".
But what that really means is that it is time to move on from the relationship.
Im projecting because i used to be that person.
I understand this in a way that we should accept people for who they are in the moment we meet, not for who they remain to be. I saw that with my closest friends to this day: we grew spiritually and emotionally together throughout years, we fought, we reconciled, but we were changing. And people who didn't - I just tossed them aside. I will not allow in my life people, who want to remain who they are, when they don't want to change bad habits.
*"LIFE The Real Self" is Neither the human body nor the human spirit !* Ref. Quote; we can learn to appreciate the good qualities in ourselves and others while also holding space for mistakes and challenges. Doing so allows for healthier and longer-lasting relationships... End Quote... *Why do many referring to ourselves and others are referring to the human species, when the human Anatomy is NOT "AWARE" of anything ??? Only "AWARENESS" can be "AWARE" of anything ! Discover and Understand The DIFFERENCE, between the human body, and "LIFE The Real Self" an Offspring, and Child of "The LIGHT", "The LIFE of GOD"...*
look fwd to learning from u!
नमस्ते गुरु । हजुर को प्रवचन नेपाली मा पनि सुन्न पाएको भए, म जस्ता अन्य व्यक्तिहरूले पनि बुद्ध भगवानले दिनुभएको ज्ञान र ध्यान का कुराहरु आफ्नो जीवनमा उतार्न सक्थे। मलाई English को त्यति ज्ञान छैन तै पनि हजुर को प्रवचन सुन्ने गर्छु।
Acceptance is a two way street. I found it impossible to love someone who liked me because he was abusive. Then the other fellow who liked me, I had no interest in. Then the next fellow had no interest in commitment to me, he was waiting for what might be around the next corner. I was a filler or place holder for him.
Meanwhile I had to make a living, get an education......
I've been the friend, the successful matchmaker, for others, the girl who is easy to talk to and why cant my girlfriend be like you (the dreaded friend zone). I was good friends with a gay guy who frankly said I was a great person but the wrong sex. He said he wanted to marry me if only I was a guy. Sweet but kind of a moot point. At one of my jobs I was the shoulder to cry on for a trans transitioning who was a sad and lonely soul.
But in all that,
I never got to say yes to the dress and get the picket fence dream. No 2.5 kids, no hubby in my corner, no shoulder for me to cry on.
Women friends are fickle and unreliable.
Relatives are mercurial, controlling, judgemental, and unreliable.
And now I'm too old and have lost all my youth, looks, and marketability. Guys still think I'm good to talk to, but they don't even want to meet for coffee, dinner, or a movie. So I end up feeling used.
I'm just on the conveyor belt of time moving through the warehouse of life to eventually be shipped out. Destination: unknown.
funny dose of life saving advice in 3..2..1 ❤
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Segnalo puntualmente questo canale, dato che l'ho già bloccato in quanto ripetitivo e invasivo, ma che continua a ripresentarsi incessantemente, pure con nuove pubblicazioni. La conferma che TH-cam è un social inutilizzabile e del tutto privo di funzionalità di base.
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Understanding each other is the backbone of every beautiful relationship
Sir you gave an example of a couple who approached you, both of them agreed each other on approaching you together for your suggestion i think there's a good understanding between them but I don't know why couldn't they both understand eachother for other things as well else they would have been living peacefully
Western women expect perfection when they are FAR from perfect themselves. Their sense of entitlement is extraordinary.
I don’t know Rinpoche… You look like Perfect for me and I try to see other people like you. I think about you and I feel joy instantly. 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you Minghur Rinpoche for your kind teachings🙏🌹Your words taste like a good sweet🙏🌹🕊️😊
I am Mr perfect but nobody recognise me as that could you help me? 🤣
Thank you Rinpoche for this great advice. There is a lot of wisdom in it.
Open your eyes before married , close one eye after married.
God created this universe including our earth purposefully imperfect to be balanced on it's perfection! by it's own for each and every living species including humans like us
Pure comedy from start to finish!
How often do you meditate in 1 week I'm just curious?
La soledad iluminadora, es un privilegio...
I am happy if I find myself, that's enough for me
You will never find the self. It is an illusion. This is the subject of a koan between Bodhidharma and the second patriarch of Zen in China.
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Friend Rinpoche!
I did not know where to ask you some questions, so I'm doing it here:
Can you make a video explaning about the significance of each color on your robes? Why these colors are used? There are colors for each hierarchic grade in Tibetan Buddhism?
There are special significance for the rainbow colors?
P.S.: I've called you 'Friend', because is that what I feel coming from your words.
Learning how to meditate.
Thank you, God bless!
Well, of course the more expectations the more problems, imagine having "no expectations" going into surgery, we know how that's gonna end. The higher your expectations, the more you gotta learn skills and overcome obstacles.
I heard this "expectation" thing among spiritual people and i think they mean it's a bad thing, and I hate that idea. I'd like to hear your opinion on it and why
i wonder if he will talk about anxiety in relationships
Thank you you are a wise man ❤
So much fun here.
Thank you Rinpoche for such a great sharing🙏 A very good sharing and advice on how to accept each other's weakeness as we all have room for improvement. By doing so we will be able to minimize conflicts and leverage on each other strength and weakness and become a better person and live in harmony🙏🙏🙏
Thank you Master🙏🙏🙏
Expectations = craving = suffering
Thank you, it came at the right time for us. Very much grateful for that, om shanti🙏🏾
I was having a fight with my partner very frequently and now I know why. Thanks a lot : )
Some people get this wrong. It is not that you should look at everything with a screwed eye. It is being aware of the reality❤
That's an extremely cute story about Mr and Mrs. control and worry freak
Wonderful teaching and advices, thank You!
Wonderful advice, thank you very much!
Been waiting for this video thank you for everything rinpoche 💪
Clickbite eh? 😅❤
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Well, finding someone who doesn’t smell bad is hard enough.
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Do seek to find Mr Perfect or Ms Perfect, seek to be Mr or Ms Perfect.
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Anyone ❤?
Hello master its so good to see you again your videos helps me so much ❤
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Good lecture, thanks 🙏 🙏🙏
HH can you tell why you did not get married?
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🙏 Thank you very much!
Love you Rinpoche! 😂
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Gracias maravillosa enseñanza🙏🙏🙏
Thanks for pointing out the simple truth of relationships.
please pray for me ☺❤
Very nice talk!!❤
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I found it!
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Sir US is struggling with finding if they themselves are Mr. Or Ms. ...you are talking very high level for them
What a cheesy title
You must be single
Yes what a pizzaaa title
WARNING!!!
Not for people with low Lactose Intolerance.