6 Ways A Narcissist Reacts When You Go No Contact

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  • @narcabusecoach
    @narcabusecoach  หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Heal After Surviving a Narcissistic Parent:
    www.emotionalabuserecovery.com/offers/s3Q6zwwh

    • @danishkhan-gp9mm
      @danishkhan-gp9mm หลายเดือนก่อน

      Danish please make video on clinical depression a person suffer from narcissist family cult when there is no way to go how to fight with it

    • @laralara7978
      @laralara7978 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@danishkhan-gp9mmyesss good idea

  • @carparthero
    @carparthero หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    when i left my parents place for good, they were both in shock. they actually believed that i would never amount to anything.
    they both lost their emotional punching bag. i was also paying rent at the time but had no problem paying it, it was respect for after finishing college and working, and it was also to keep them out of my hair somewhat.
    the validation of making the right move came from them NOT offering any congratulations or encouragement.
    my dad after getting over the disbelief, said, "well if it doesn't work out, you can always come back here."
    my response was, "i'm going to make sure it does work out for me."
    my narc mother who had been dying to get rid of me for years, suddenly started playing the victim.
    once i left she started a smear campaign with the neighbors.
    the more times change, the more that narcissist stay the same lol.
    i've never met or seen someone that ever regretted cutting ties with a toxic person, including family.
    cheers from southern ontario, canada 🍁

  • @Just_Me_Tee
    @Just_Me_Tee หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    My mother was just fighting with me, I don't want to be disrespectful but I stood up for myself just stating facts...still doing this in front of my cousins, I was going to feel bad until this video came in. Thank you so very much❤

    • @joseenoel8093
      @joseenoel8093 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Keep watching and learning, this stuff's fascinating, they're always victims, of course you almost felt back, they never acknowledge any wrong doings hence make themselves their own worst enemies!

    • @hettykoster9447
      @hettykoster9447 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Well done , proud of you ❤

    • @Sophie-ur2qb
      @Sophie-ur2qb หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm proud of you 🩷
      We shouldn't have to feel guilty for standing up for ourselves.
      When I look back at the times I tried to stand up to my mother as a small child.. I am proud of her for trying 😊 we don't have to tolerate any abuse ever! Especially not from a family member who supposedly loves us. Abuse is never love. Wishing you peace and healing 💖

    • @Just_Me_Tee
      @Just_Me_Tee หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@hettykoster9447 thank you, it's so hard because she's getting old now, but she knows that too! It's a hard line to walk but I'm praying with Time, it will get easier!🙏❤️🫂

    • @DennisWanjiku-en5or
      @DennisWanjiku-en5or หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same case here. I thought I was alone

  • @hettykoster9447
    @hettykoster9447 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Run for it !! ❤
    You sat in the cage and felt helpless and hopeless, like you couldn’t get out. That learned helplessness made you not even try to escape. You sat in the corner and kept accepting it. But one day, something happend: you stood up, had this new sense of courage, and you made a run for it, realizing that you just passed right through those bars. They weren’t even real; it was just a hologram, an image, a cage that didn’t really exist.😮

    • @piku8700
      @piku8700 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      is feeling helpless and hopeless is same as feeling trapped??
      i am feeling like i have been trapped since covid and before that i at least had a hope that i will be able to move out of this cage.

    • @YasmineCarusi
      @YasmineCarusi หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is very difficult when the narcissist is your husband and you are foreigner living in his country having kids that you can't take with you so you are forced to stay. Adding that he has cutted your wings to you can't have any real good income that let you leave

  • @DreaminToo
    @DreaminToo หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    My sister ghosts me since I refused to move in with her. She wanted me to be her servant and live my life in her home. Changed her number and never contacts me now. I was raised as if we were twins and she has always been an evil narcissistic baby sister. I suffered a lot at first but now my life is free from manipulation and abuse!!!

    • @gabrielaantunes4108
      @gabrielaantunes4108 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm glad you're free! My sister literally called me servant last year, I was about to move with my husband to other state ( we just got married) and she was also mad because we didn't want to live with her. She blocked me but this time I blocked her back. I can finally say I'm starting to heal, no contact is the only way

  • @junedaylejelm-jelm3359
    @junedaylejelm-jelm3359 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I do deeply regret the painful horror that you have been through, but I also am deeply grateful for your gift of a heroic return from the underworld, and therefore the carrier of truths that are almost impossible for many to understand. These words are short, but I know what they represent. 😢 A million thanks again. June

  • @MelissaCoup
    @MelissaCoup หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    You are one of the few people whose experience is so severe...it's akin to mine. I love your channel, thanks so much

    • @johnschmid865
      @johnschmid865 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too. Sadly I feel like it’s very common, we are not alone. Much love ❤️

  • @Isabela2024-yr
    @Isabela2024-yr หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Narcissists make threats when you ignore them.

  • @jenpad2008
    @jenpad2008 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Danish, I can't thank you enough for all your videos. All your advice has helped so much in dealing with my narcissistic mother. I have been doing this very limited contact and it works. Now it's a blame game like I'm mad or something. Still it's much easier this way. I told her i now know how to deal with her and she can't handle having me around so i limit my time.

  • @zhoucheng7141
    @zhoucheng7141 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this is so fucking insidious and disgusting, ive been thriugh all this, just remembering even bits of the shit this person made me go through and ruined me or tired their best.. when theyre supposed to be the most trustworthy person, the most loving, the more accepting.. is so disgusting.
    specially bc they do this since your early age when you cant defend and still trust them blindly. until my 30 years of age ididnt know narcissism existed. Now i see theres a world in which this is an actual thing and there are even more ppl like this. Im so glad you are making these videos. Thank you.

  • @avivabillington5514
    @avivabillington5514 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Mental health, yes they use that one as well!! Trying to use this as their crutch to control your life & so you doubt yourself constantly it's a bad stigma they always have as their worst weapons in their manipulative narcissitic games

  • @gracesanity6314
    @gracesanity6314 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I am so shocked at the amount of family problems. As an Orphan ...l craved a loving family. I realise their are more toxic families than healthy. Maybe l dodged an atom bomb? Maybe l was blessed.

    • @p.roy96
      @p.roy96 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You know dear you have no family (in person), we have family without relationship with each other.... WE HAVE FAMILY BUT WE DON'T.... It was also very painful.

    • @XygA2g
      @XygA2g หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I was kept locked in room for eight months and they throwed food in tiffin box through the window and bottle of water. After eating I kept the tiffin box and bottle at the window so they will refill for me. They took away my phone so I should not inform any of my friends who tried to arrange job for me to escape from them .

    • @joseenoel8093
      @joseenoel8093 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Whatever whomever is going through best to make best out of it and see situation on bright side, you're great, many adopted feel sorry for themselves and yes all families have problems, many back stab for financial reasons, such are humans and they don't need to be blood relatives for doing so!

    • @piku8700
      @piku8700 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i also still crave for loving, caring and healthy family as someone who has both parents who are narcissist
      and i am sure most of the people who come from narcissist, toxic families craves for loving and caring and healthy families

    • @piku8700
      @piku8700 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@XygA2g they put you in isolation forcefully, this is an extreme form of abuse
      how did you get out of there?

  • @davidhalldurham
    @davidhalldurham หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    A narc woman I used to know would complain to me, "Why don't my children love me more? I've been a perfect mother!"

  • @sbpriesthood
    @sbpriesthood หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    only a minute in and you’ve rung multiple bells. genuinely dumbfounded 😂😂😂

  • @nawan2348
    @nawan2348 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    First time comment here, Excellent Danish.👍

  • @margiechism
    @margiechism หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Make an escape route ■ if you're indoors to unexpected visit that is much easier to manage. But, if you are outdoors and [t]heir approach is accelerating an escape route can "save lives." Make a plan which includes food, water, and bathroom concerns for many hours...as long as [t]hey are irate and have not backdown to go. M

  • @lindafarwell3408
    @lindafarwell3408 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    For me it was a big relief. Unfortunately I got sucked back in

  • @stroumpimango
    @stroumpimango 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Spot on!

  • @robertr2602
    @robertr2602 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you bro. I am listening to this and my mom does the exact thing even now

  • @XygA2g
    @XygA2g หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They used to challenge as by the title of tears and curse of parents will ruin my career ' shraap' !!! 💔

  • @ttytlithg
    @ttytlithg หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm so glad that I moved country to a place so completely despised by my mother that she never cared to know anything about, changed my address, my phone number, and my workplace after I cut contact so my mother has never again been able to contact me. She would 100% have been knocking on my door screaming the place down, sending letters etc if she knew where I lived or stayed in my birth country. She would unlock the bathroom door or pound on my bedroom door shouting and whining that she didn't care I was unclothed and didn't want her there, SHE wanted to see me, so that was that. I mourn the mother I wish I had, but I'm only relieved to not have to worry about her 24/7 and I can't say I've once missed her as a person since I cut her off. Which is deeply sad, she brought nothing but misery to me, when all I wanted was to be loved just a little

  • @hermosotino
    @hermosotino หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    In my experience, they invited me to family functions last minute anonymously, like two or three days prior to the event when I lived 3 hours away by plane when the event was planned a month or two in advanced. Then when i didn't show up, i was blamed

  • @pheart2381
    @pheart2381 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Fortunately my "dad" is too old to drive up here,and I think he realises he has blown it for the final time. Havnt had a text for months thank God.

  • @Healing454
    @Healing454 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Danish bhaiya.. I have been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. Also suffered narcissistic abuse. It's a long road to recovery. As a borderline we have lot of inner turmoil. It's a slow recovery bhaiya. I feel fed up sometimes. I also have anxiety disorder. I get anxiety attacks. This time I feel scared that i may not survive. I have to tell this to my psychiatrist and psychologist too

  • @debbiegalica2992
    @debbiegalica2992 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You hit a nerve just now. My Mom said that to me once. I hope your kids treat you the same way. I was thinking what?? It's her fault I ended up having problems because she never protected me from my older sister. Yet she was a Narcissist too.

  • @tinekespa1190
    @tinekespa1190 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Danish, you are a life saefer ❤

  • @loriw1189
    @loriw1189 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Not just the parent but the whole Occult

  • @m0ckingB1rd42
    @m0ckingB1rd42 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The last thing my ex narc did repeatedly once I left was calling me to tell me he’d unalive himself. He knew it was extra traumatizing for me because as a kid I’d had a number of friends that that happened to and a family member. The first few times, I caved and gave him attention. The last two, I just called the cops and let them handle it. He created new email addresses to get around my blocks and let me know he’d do it one day and I’d be sorry because I ignored him. That was almost 10 years ago. Guess what? He’s still alive and trying to f 18 year old girls (he’s almost 50).

  • @myisha9254
    @myisha9254 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well thanks for the heads up….

  • @sacredwaters9
    @sacredwaters9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow!!! My parents must be a new kind of 😈 because neither one of them did this or will do it!!!😅 I don't know if that is a good thing or a bad thing. My father hasn't contacted me in 7 years. There was no "ending" other than me stopping myself from calling him. He has not reached out to find out anything, or why😮
    My mother? She is a bugaboo but I'm in the process of going no contact with her and she knows I know she's a cluster B with a covert Narcissist comorbidity. At this point I have no one she can use, my daughter is definitely not one she knows what and who she is. 😏Shrug🤷🏽‍♀️ looks like we'll be FREE SOON.

  • @nz.kamran500
    @nz.kamran500 หลายเดือนก่อน

    They never beg for it

  • @LiminalDrag
    @LiminalDrag หลายเดือนก่อน

    "I'm your next of kin, whether you like it or not!".
    You better believe they will find a way to drag you through the legal system, even if they have to perjur themselves to do it.

  • @shell1951
    @shell1951 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes , that is exactly what a narcissistic parent does

  • @ariemarkell8365
    @ariemarkell8365 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m thinking it depends on which child you are. I think I’m the scapegoat so when I did this, my mother said good riddance and when she talked about me, it was awful. my sister on the other hand I think is the golden child right now and she does do those things you’re speaking about to my sister .
    Right now she’s 83 and so is my father and my father recently got out of the hospital with CPOD pneumonia and heart failure. He’s back at home doing his own laundry, being on oxygen very little because my mother doesn’t like it and he won’t use his inhaler because the smell makes her sick. She’s also told him it’s all in his head and to get up and move around.
    So right now the golden child, my sister, who I love very much is at their beck and call. My sister though is to the point where she is going to walk away.
    When my brother was alive, he was the golden child, and the scapegoat role was between my other sister and myself. My brother, and that sister have now since passed on, so it is just me and my youngest sister, who is now the golden child I never was the golden child.

  • @deepaligupta9753
    @deepaligupta9753 หลายเดือนก่อน

    In every Divine person's life , 1 or more narcissists play an important role . They give The Divine Supply of Energy extracted from u , as an offering to their controllers __ the super hive mind . U cannot escape from ur destiny . So Meditate & become fearless

  • @Just_Me_Tee
    @Just_Me_Tee หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    14:10 she has done this to me...smh

  • @prutha555
    @prutha555 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Psalm 121 its enough..still God is on the throne..He is a creator...and narcissist is a creation..

  • @sonjamila
    @sonjamila หลายเดือนก่อน

    I experienced all, all those things, but the worst was her cursed exactly the SAME you were mentioned. I got stiff stomach while I was listening to you. All my life, I was wondering if it's necessary or even possible to remove all those cursed? I feel they work still.

  • @lewishenderson7004
    @lewishenderson7004 หลายเดือนก่อน

    my narc parents hated my disabled son. after mom died i had to go no contact with my step dad

  • @alexparris5289
    @alexparris5289 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My neighbor and father doing me that all time the dont want nobody be there for the labels me as sick when they can get to control me my neighbor wife try to break my marriage and is after my daughter and my spouse my father in law and my sister and my niece and my nephew and the things she don't relate to us and pushes her way in our family and drag her disrespect energy in our family to cause drama in our family life i feel how long my narcissist neighbor didn't die she and he wouldn't left we or our family will not live happy also with my spouse and my my only kid i go true alot with this two neighbor that stalking me and my daughter

  • @connie9492
    @connie9492 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Going no contact with my parents, not that difficult. They had always chosen to self isolate. I did not. When I left the only way for them to have contact was for them to come out of some of seclusion but I never really let them back in just an occasional 3 four times a year meet. I had several siblings so it was totally doable. They seemed to know when I eloped they had lost control.

  • @thejavandenberg4509
    @thejavandenberg4509 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes , now he has to go to a therapist himself but he will not do that most probably

  • @bonitas.7106
    @bonitas.7106 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She threw me out right after college. Had to move in with a boyfriend! Then she would call me to come over for Sunday dinner!

  • @karimawilliams9417
    @karimawilliams9417 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Don’t walk , run from Narcissists
    Sad and true some members of you family can destroy you . Know what you are talking about.

  • @daisynadal6909
    @daisynadal6909 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Danish how long have you gone no contact with your parents? My narc mother tried calling me again yesterday...next month will make a year since I went no contact with her.

    • @AC-jg2dg
      @AC-jg2dg หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      you should block her or change your number, why are you allowing her to call you if you are going noncontact? I had blocked my entire family for 3 years.

    • @daisynadal6909
      @daisynadal6909 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AC-jg2dg I did block her...I can see she called when I go into recent calls.

    • @avivabillington5514
      @avivabillington5514 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      In my experience, with having no contact I ensured they don't have any details with no knowledge of my 📞 number & 🏡 so no more stalking & harrassment anymore 🙂

    • @daisynadal6909
      @daisynadal6909 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @AC-jg2dg I did block her...I can see she called in my recent calls.

    • @avivabillington5514
      @avivabillington5514 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@AC-jg2dgsame, I ensure my number is not accessible to them & my address is not available to them either

  • @heartful369
    @heartful369 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🙌

  • @sweswarupini9732
    @sweswarupini9732 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Narc Evil tacts

  • @klarissam8719
    @klarissam8719 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My narcissist mother always wanted to take control of my daughter when she was born. And to have power over her. And when she grew up she always wanted to tamper with her appearance. Her hair, and clothes, even though they were completely appropriate. She wanted her to not be herself. And my mother wanted me to give out money to my narcissist older sister when I barely had enough for me and my daughter, she wanted to see us suffer, she doesn't think we deserve to have our basic needs met. And still try it today. These family members are very toxic and it's a painful situation to be in. They all want power and control when they have neither in their own lives. And my narcissist older brother is hateful too, he's always talking about something he knows nothing about. Always cursing me and victim blaming. Very evil and power hungry. I stay far away from these people and keep them out of my house. My whole family consists of religious narcissist nuts.

    • @avivabillington5514
      @avivabillington5514 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Religious nuts are the worst narcissitic people in my experience as well!!

  • @margaretaklemming2492
    @margaretaklemming2492 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My mother recently said, I will be 80 next year. But you will not even live to be 60! She hopes to win the competition of surviving! Against me, her daughter! Thats a mothers true love indeed. I ask myself what is it my mother believes, I would never want to live without her? That she would never die? What is going on???

    • @piku8700
      @piku8700 หลายเดือนก่อน

      my mother also keep saying all the time that we are good and strong people, she is 58 right now
      and she says to me that you are so weak, can't do even things on your own
      we are living at least until we are 60-70 but i have doubts if you ever will be able to reach at least 40
      if i die then you are going to die too because you are nothing wihtout me
      so yes narcissist parents makes us think that if they die then it is our loss

    • @margaretaklemming2492
      @margaretaklemming2492 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@piku8700 I hope for you a long lasting lovely life and I must try my best here where I live.

    • @margaretaklemming2492
      @margaretaklemming2492 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@piku8700 So sorry you are experiencing this as well. I am applying the Grey rock metod as someone else here suggested and it made me feel a little better, it felt I held my head up high so she not so easily will have reason for disdain.

  • @muneshkumari8049
    @muneshkumari8049 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hindi Mein video Banaye Please

  • @mortishacanniba
    @mortishacanniba หลายเดือนก่อน

    🔥🔥🔥💯🔥🔥🔥

  • @laralara7978
    @laralara7978 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My mother is runnig a smearcampaign and my sister also not contacting me anymore

  • @junedaylejelm-jelm3359
    @junedaylejelm-jelm3359 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is a pathology, right? 10:16

  • @nz.kamran500
    @nz.kamran500 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I dont think they do this

  • @rohinirabha6715
    @rohinirabha6715 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please hindi main sir 🙏🙏🙏

    • @piku8700
      @piku8700 หลายเดือนก่อน

      he has another youtube channel named danish bashir hindi

  • @pankajshah-ge7hj
    @pankajshah-ge7hj หลายเดือนก่อน

    I want to request you please don't Send Videos and Messages.
    Thank you giving me wright advice.
    Thank you.

  • @apubanerjee5496
    @apubanerjee5496 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😃 Their fake stories never ends 😃 .
    But ,
    As in my case , their's each & every
    fake stories bounced back to them
    only 👍, & the net result came to them ,
    Is nothing worked In favour of them 👍
    other then their complete failure to ,
    lure me back to again , to them .
    ✔✔✔ .

  • @JetLagRecords
    @JetLagRecords หลายเดือนก่อน

    Danish Bashir, Let's collaborate, wanna be friends?