Thankyou for your comment. Greatly appreciated. I am not consuming him anymore. Like you have said. my medicine is devouring knowledge. something that a narc could never awaken with.
@@injashiran that is hard when they've isolated you and there's no support. The only support you've got is their flying monkeys watching and the internet to get by
I truly believe you reap what you sow both here on Earth and in the afterlife. My Narcissistic "Family" believe they are Untouchable. They believe their own lies and delusions. God is a God of Justice and He will not be mocked. He will make wrong things right when you give it to Him. Trust Him to be your defender and vindicator and He will give you double for your trouble. God Bless everyone who has suffered at the hands of Narcissists.
My husband was raised by a narcissistic mother and he grew up to be a narcissistic man and was also diagnosed with PTSD from Vietnam. I was married to him for 52 yrs... he passed away 5/11/22 of pancreatitis. I NEVER felt loved. Our adult children, and I have PTSD now too. My husband, a few years before his death, said that anything he said to me was the same as God saying it, and I must submit to him. I did love him, but lived in fear of his anger and didn't trust he wasn't on the edge of a tirade. He was never satisfied and always wanted more. We were always struggling financially, but he passed away of pancreatitis. It was a painful death. I was devastated because I always hoped and prayed for his recovery that someday all would be better. And he would be cured. 😢
@@janicejohnson2168 Sometimes you don't know, and the doctors diagnose only what may be physical or on the surface. Sorry you all suffered with your husband and his problems but if he was saved, perhaps he is cured now, and God will give you all the peace that surpasses all understanding. He will make it right. God does say Love covers a multitude of sins but only if we or others repent and ask for forgiveness. It doesn't not mean we are called to be in bondage but to peace. He is the One who sets us free. Blessings and may God comfort and protect you and your family. 🙏
This is not exactly related but it’s funny how when a narcissist takes the Myers Briggs personality survey they say they are INFP or INFJ and they are actually nothing like these personalities
@@ritavega1606 So weird. Mine is top of the line INFJ and demands everybody take the test just so he can explain to them how superrior his personality is compared to theirs... This comment is golden. It took me a while to realize how much of a BS Outcome his personality test resuolts really were
@@ekinsenan9886 That's what I was going to say. Everyone loses their looks and gets less healthy. I'm like duh, that's NOT punishment. Hell, I'm not a narcissist and I don't need that sh*t either 🙄
@@ekinsenan9886Not everyone. Wickedness has a certain look that seeps through the countenance that’s hard to explain. Watch Kenneth Copeland’s “Inside Edition” interview. You can’t tell me his face is normal. Some narcs will stop dressing well like they used to and become unkept. I know one that gained hella weight in a short time after a marriage because it wasn’t working out to his favor like he planned. A lot of it has nothing to do with the normal physicality; it’s their mindset and how they carry themselves when they feel their worlds are crumpling.
They have pride & arrogance in gang stalking someone that they are afraid to show their face to lol who takes their goofy ass seriously wasting their time harassing 1 person 😂😂 imagine how their group meetings go feeling powerful being powerless roaches who pick weak battles because they know they are not about that life. Yea I’m done with the weird shit & dgaf about their obsession or reasons behind it. This is not a movie & I do not know their weird ass so they need to have charges pressed against them for illegal criminal activities ✌🏿
My narcissistic husband was paid back with KARMA. 1 week after he retired he went to our GP had tests and on getting his results, our GP told him he had liver cancer. Further test and a first appointment with an Oncologist and that first diagnosis changed. He had metastatic Pancreatuc cancer. A death sentence. 2 years and 10 days later, he died. I am still healing from this. I was diagnosed with CPTSD. But my life is so much better now.
😮Wow! Right after he retired and was probably expecting to relax and instead he was given a death sentence … Was he having issues before the appt or was it just a regular check up?
This is very similar to my husband and my life. He died of lymphoma at 64 after the regular treatment, 15 months of remission, and then 2 more years of worse treatment ending in a failed stem cell transplant. I knew from the start it wouldn't work and would just extend the suffering, mine and his. He's been dead for 6 years now and they've been the best years of my life.
My narcissistic mother has alot of supply. She has 5 siblings of her own and two of my siblings are narcissistic. My mother is turning 74 this year. I chose NC almost two years ago. It's ironic that my mother took pleasure in triangulating my siblings and I, but my mother has her siblings to this day. It angers me that my mother did that to me. Total isolation just because I spoke truth and asked for accountability.
Omg this post I needed 😤😫😭 Everything she said we “didn’t need” or take from me and she still has hers in tact and gloats takes everything in me not to feel resentment for all the loss that can never be expressed or explained smgdh thank u my spirit needed to express this with someone who innerstands 😢 we will be alrite tho sometimes i feel suicidal then my anger kicks in and says don’t let her or “them” win!
Same with me. I know my mother will always have supply from my narcissistic sisters. Maybe her punishment is she won't have as much as she used to and she can't abuse me on a daily basis or send my siblings as flying monkeys to do her dirty job. I don't even think they will ever have the terrible nightmares I have due to their lifetime abuse on me. Anyway, we need to leave it in God's hand because it's not in ours and that will keep us miserable. At least I have overcome the fantasy of believing they will addmit their wrongsdoing or will have remorse. More fantasies that keep us stuck. I have already watched many channel and I have read enough comments about what happens when they are close to dying to know that doesn't happen. Some victims feel relief others feel rage and mourn the fact they left without a good word towards them. Most people abused by their parents don't even get an inheritance, their narcissistic siblings get them. That's why expecting a miracle from them keep us stuck. Many victims can't cry, they have no tears left. Take care 💜
I keep trying no contact but then close family members die and I get swept back into the shitstorm and have to go the full cycle again. I remember being scared to even think in my mind that she was evil. Caused me so much pain shame isolation needless suffering and couldn’t get her out my head or know who I am. Life was great without her in it we all were very close and healing from the lies soons she returned everyone divided and bs again . Such a strange kind of grief dealing with these types but to God be the glory everyday I wake up without suicidal thoughts and instead the will to rebuild on a righteous foundation of truth and joy of life. May I never be like them is my Motto
I feel u on giving up the fantasy that they will ever admit they were wrong or Apologize. I’m ok if I’m in no contact but notice a sort of hypnotism or something when in her presence it’s just like being sucked back in. I fight the urge to pick up and move across across without a trace . I feel like any part of my life she had access to in any way is tainted and I’m willing to leave it all just to be untied completely from her. But also just making mental effort to redirect my thoughts away from her entirely bc the rumination causes major stagnation. I will take back my mind and rebuild a new life that she cannot touch or destroy!
No. Their victims are left all alone and- often times- permanently disabled as a result of the abuse. Meanwhile, the narc will have a supply of sorts for the rest of his/her life.
They are never happy or content no matter how much they have…..my ex Narc wanted more women,more money and more worldly things. How greedy can you be when you have it so much better than many others? They are so ungrateful and unappreciative people,so sad 😞
It can be frustrating, but eventually they will pay, I've seen them pay over and over. They like you to think they're doing so well, but they're not. Just do your own thing and they will collapse at some point.
The TRUE punishment is that the narcissist is unable to feel love, joy or peace of mind. Imagine never being able to feel those emotions that make life worth living? It is truly hell on earth.
This was shown strongly in the Boondocks Color Ruckus episode. Uncle ruckus grandma was a malignant narcissist in decay & displayed all the traits well
its actually a living hell. they dont need to die to experience the hell they gave to others. they live n die every moment untill they r gone forever..
It’s not they are unable to feel love, joy, or peace of mind. They choose NOT to feel! No matter how kind you are to them and cater to their needs, they still choose to hurt you!!!
My mom was a covert narcissist and my brother was a narcissist. They tortured me and I was frustrated, depressed and scared. This is my 1 st year that I’m not scared. I’m praying for the Lord to heal my health
How do you reconcile that with His love for you and the things you suffered especially if your testimony involves narcissistic parents as well? I'd like to hear your story if you are willing to share.
Make sure that you get your devices checked for stalkerware. They can buy a software program that gives them full remote access to your devices. Including your location. Congratulations on leaving him.
I kept in contact with my narcissistic Mother till the bitter end …….read her poetry as she lay dying. Yes, she never approved of me and possibly never loved me but she had turned her back on her own Mother as she lay dying. My brother and I were never allowed to meet my Grandmother……..I was five when she died and my brother ten. I suspect she may have been a narcissist as well. But the cycle stopped with me ………only because I believed that in the end love is the greatest gift given to all of us is the ability to love. Some will think I was a fool but I have no regrets………I truly loved her in spite of herself. I raised two son’s and have a beautiful grown granddaughter and with the grace of God none of them are narcissists.
This really hits home as my husband was a huge narcissist and as his health declined in the last 10 years of his life everyone around him disappered exceot for me - and I've just recently discovered I have adhd which is a very hard combination - anyway - a month before he passed he went in and was put on a vent and he told me at that time he "died and came back" I guess there was a priest in the room that saw his spirit rise about 6-8" off the bed and come back down - he pulled all the tubes out cuz he thought he was alone and no one was there - nurses came in and didn't put the vent or the pic back in - he went to rehab for 2 weeks (and this was during covid) and came home - at that time he was changed - he was very prejudiced duirng his life and this changed - I noticed he was different - it was the start of dementia for him but the times he was lucid he was different - the last week of his life he apologized for everything he did to me - physical/emotional/mental - cuz he knew that if he didn;t he would go to hell instead of heaven - he constantly apologzed and told me he loved me - so in my thinking he died and when he went to the other side he was told he had to make amends to me or he would not to go to heaven - I told people after that that this week was what I had hoped our marriage of 45 years should have been
That sounds like the worst of the worst. I’m so sorry that happened to you it would have been better had he just died so that you didn’t have to heal with all these conflicting emotions. They would have been conflicting anyways but his last week of showing you love And apologizing… To me that seems like his final slam. I wish you happiness and healing and forgiveness of yourself 🙏🏼💕
Thats sad, waiting all that time to have him love you all because he was threatened with heaven or hell. He had his choice. You can choose too whether you forgive him or not ! Forgive, let go !!
I took care of my father until he died. For about nine months of his life. And he was an alcoholic and very distant man, emotionally, and physically. As I’m reading your statement that your husband apologized, I think how much I would’ve appreciated hearing that from my father as well. at least you got to hear him say he was sorry and that he had loved you. He loved you the best he could and how he knew how to love. My ex-husband is not in very good shape either at the age of 63. He was a narcissist, alcoholic, drug addict. He’s been homeless for quite a few years now. He has apologized and I have accepted. And now I’m learning to live in peace, joy, and happiness.
I prayed for GOD to show me how best to interact with my narcissist parents and brother. I got a very clear message back, letting me see how sick and hateful they all were towards me. After years of taking the abuse, I finally hit the saturation point and went no contact with them all. GOD is more than enough to replace all of them! I'm so grateful to not be going through this alone. I know GOD is with me and will help me when I am forced to be around them again. I'm at peace, but I know they definitely are not. I'm also extremely grateful for a community of others dealing with the same destructive people I am. I've learned so much from these insightful podcasts and others comments. ❤
Here is my take: I had not been much of a believer until I experienced narcissistic abuse. "Thanks" to the narc, who is out of my life forever, I found faith. I believe God let the narc hurt me "just enough" (trust me, it was a lot) to reveal the true nature of everything I have ever known about myself and the narc and the world. And some truly odd things happened to the narc. Basically, it feels like I dodged a bullet. Today, I am more mindful, more grateful, definitely wiser, and even kinder to people. It feels like a lesson I simply had to learn. And for a narc, "Let go and let God" works like a charm.
This week I finally come out of 32 yrs captivity and the best part he thought he wouldn't have to pay child support, as 2 months from now last child graduate high school. I had to learn the whole process of filing myself, with no monetary support from him the last 7 months. Well he now has back support of 3 months and 2 going forward. And he wasn't given an opportunity to get any of my retirement plan, also had to sign paperwork to honor 4 years of tuition free college. I had to learn to trust God and obey,so now on the other side of this divorce, I can look back and see the ultimate Heavenly Judge had complete control and showed in court. His choice of new supply has 3 young kids and she is 6 yrs younger and very much shorter than I, but our 3 children are grown and have futures. 30, 28, 19 yrs old. So I will proudly be empty nested and the only person I have to listen and answer to is.. My Heavenly Father who has always had my back. As I was fatherless and mother less all my childhood, so I now know that made me very vulnerable as ex and I met at young age in military. But lessons and experiences now make me wiser and stronger . Btw, he really showed out when he literally moved in with new supply while our divorce wasn't even set for court date Farewell ex of 32 yrs.. I am free of captivity
Religion is a tool used by narcissists to control the weak minded. Don’t be a weak mind. Seek guidance from real existing people that live here on earth.
@@madeforsomuchmoreGod bless you 🙌🙌🙌. This is soooooo true. The verse the steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord and Romans 8:28 come to mind. All things work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to purpose. When I won the divorce he tried to stop paying and this was right after thanksgiving. Little did he know God at the divinely right time sent a job to me that afforded me to move after 2 years of being in my parents basement on an air mattress with 3 kids. It seemed like he got off easy but God was allowing and blocking things to do what He wanted to do to me. The Lord sent me the info on his cheating and lies and it blew me away but I realized that God shielded it from me the 16 years because for 14 of those I was a homemaker. The narc had his intentions but God used it to honor my prayer to raise my children in the Lord. They are amazing kids and gave me little to no problems, all know God for themselves, and we laugh and have fun and peace in our home but back to my point. Once I got the divorce he stopped paying but now I know if I was making all I made and then the ordered child/spousal support I would’ve been over the max income to live here. Also, God had a stimulus come out at that time to help me take care of the kids and have the money for moving fees and to fully furnish our home. The narc thought they were hurting me but didn’t know God used them like pharaoh. We never lacked a thing and he too had to do back pay and had to pay a significant amount they stressed him out. Played victim to the kids but the evil they do will not go unpunished. I have learned to trust God on everything regarding the narc. Like I said God sent info to me with no money and represented myself in court and did so well he had to just put his hands up. I am forever blown away at how God fought for me and these kids. I kept my hands clean and let him dig his own ditch. These memories are keeping me now as he has moved in with a lady and proposed in 5 myths didn’t even tell kids until the weekend they moved in her home. I say my God they never stop, never learn but I looked at it again that my kids will be in a better home are old enough to know what he’s teaching is sin and they will make better choices. When they were sick recently he does nothing now he is sick with pneumonia and they are starting to know the truth even when it is hard for them to accept. In the end the narc will stand before GOD and give account for how they handled their spouse and children. He will have to answer for much but I try to keep my eyes on God and keep thanking Him IAM FREE🙌😭🤯. God bless you on your journey as well. ❤
These are such good points! I have often wondered why they just get to go on and on not being held accountable for their crimes, but this makes sense. In fact, a verse occurred to me while I was listening to you: “And just as they did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a depraved mind, to do those things that are not proper…” Romans 1:28
This is the actual truth. God knows what He’s doing. It is not the universe but the duty of a man to humble themselves, surrender to Christ, and live a life of love and support to others. The Creator God Elohim Yahweh has told us this over and over in His Word. They indeed have a reprobate mind and their pride will not allow them to humble themselves under Him and obey living a life of LOVE and obedience to Jesus Christ to the glory of God.
@@GodsChosenMekAmoRlol and they are making this about me like I actually need their help to level up in life when they are here to distract me from doing just that. No this is about THEM 😂😂 this is their test & this is my purpose to humble them in the eyes of God 🤷🏿♀️ He knew I wouldn’t back down & bring them all the way to the finish line & reveal their heart’s most wicked desires. Will they pass the test well that’s not my problem. They signed up for this & I was chosen for this ✌🏿
@@eyeamphree3337 I soooo understand no overstand what you are saying. I went through the same. The narc was a weapon sent by the devil to steal, kill, and destroy my purpose. He did NOT succeed. He wanted to be my god so bad and hates God for it. Not my problem, left him long ago and even FOUR years later and kids almost grown he recently tried to come reason with me for us to coparent and be friends as if “WE” need each other 🤔. I had to remind him I don’t bother you nor checking for you. Life is peaceful and I got the kids stable. Too late to be saying “THEY” need us. No YOU THE NARC ARE STILL NEEDY FOR SUPPLY and need me. They love trying to bring you down to their level. Just shows demonic people never stop. Do not trust their lips stay focused on your own life and purpose. If they are a narc I can tell you without a doubt they never experience peace. No peace for the wicked says the Lord.
I'm 77 year old lady I live in a senior building before this year I've never heard of the word narcissism but I know somebody that's like that I hired him years ago do Penny and Plumbing in my mother's house when she passed away and that's what he did he always came to me for a while and we had dinner and movies and then he went away and he never came back I called him he never responded to my calls or texts or anything it's like you just disappeared I don't understand what the situation is but now I know what is they're grown children they want attention from everybody else without giving back attention no matter what they're grown children they work and they are educated to a point but emotionally they've never grew up I've known him for 15 years I thought he cared about me but now that I know what narcissism is I'm done thank you for all this education about what that person is that I know
@@marilynschmidt6400How so? I had a narcissist parent that was a nightmare from birth. Did your god punish me and my 4 siblings and my catholic mother by sending us a narcissist to raise us and mentally abuse his catholic wife using religion to cheat on her and threaten to kill her if she even thought about divorce? I’ll tell you what your GOD did. He rewarded the narcissist parent with a second wife half his age, another child at age 70 and he’s a much worse father at this point. Plus after his entire family got away from him, god sent him some new loyal slaves that made sure he was well taken care of till he died. Yeah god sure does work in mysterious ways. If he existed.
@kbar3612 I honestly think God put you through that challenge so that you could help someone in that similar situations. We are here to help/love/restore each other. God bless you.
My narc is a very very sick man. I should have known when he didn’t even say I looked beautiful on our wedding day. He took off on our wedding night and went gambling with his aunt. Now we are getting divorced 18 years later. Why did I put up with him for so long?! I don’t know! God will take vengeance on him.
My soon to be ex actually told me I was beautiful on our wedding day . His narcissism didn’t show up till a week or so later. I prayed back in November for God to deal with him because after 26 years of marriage I couldn’t take it anymore. Early January he told me out of the blue that he wanted to leave because of him driving 2 hours a day wasting his time going to work and not doing what he wanted. Then a week later he wanted a divorce because he was tired of being married. All because I stopped taking his bait and not responding to his accusations
Oh my! Mine never says I'm pretty (although countless others....). It's our 29th yikes and, as usual, I'll go around saying don't know if we'll make it to buds... Got married in white rugby pants/white sweatshirt (it did say Banff) no ring 💍 that's just gross, a lamb 🐑 to the slaughter are we! Honeymoon 1 night then he needed to detox to turn me into baby churner, now he sneak texts and calls the other woman when I'm out (our daughter) cuz I need fixing, oh well, hope she can fix her own baby sitting requirements when her much wanted baby arrives, not wanting a local boy, like me, family all in EU, very unhandy! Hope you do well, maybe more people should be divorced than married, my husband dribbled on, encouraged my daughter's boycott of me, it is like parenting with a toddler!
I've never been married but it seems like that would be one the first things the groom would say upon seeing the bride, if not the very first thing. It should just flow out naturally.
Matthew 10:34-39 NKJV “Do not think that I came to bring peace on earth. I did not come to bring peace but a sword. For I have come to ‘set a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law’; and ‘a man’s enemies will be those of his own household.’ He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me. He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for My sake will find it.
My cabal of narcs led by 'Zippity's Circus' all love bomb each other. They do hate wholesome things & kindness but that doesn't stop them from treating each other like royalty.
Romans 12:19-21 ”Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord. On the contrary: “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.” Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.“
I'd like to hear more stories of narcs getting beat up. I'm really strong but I've gotten tons of online abuse from narcs that I could fold up in person. Internet has made narcs alot nastier & more comfortable being their full selves.
My ex too... his own cousin beat him up when he realized he was abusing and cheating on me. I had no idea at first... he just showed up late from work one day all beat up. Then i remarried (too soon), and it was second verse same as the first... and his "martial arts instructor" beat him up. I used air quotes because it was really a bunch of stoners playing kung fu in their basement.
My narc ex girlfriend and her family was so evil to me especially when the relationship was ending. My narc and her family especially her brother got their karma with legal trouble, mental illness, health crisis, and financial hardship. Like back to back. I don’t wish trouble on no one but God/ the universe leaves no stone unturned. The real karma is living in a constant state of hating yourself. That seems like hell on earth.
I've seen and experienced it myself that all spiritual progress, and real religiosity always starts with the Self. Your access to God is always your own Self. And since narcissists abhor their own self and their own soul, they actively destroy their own soul, cummulate endless sins they will be held accountable for. And I 100% agree that bad people will go to hell. And not the kind of hell where souls are released from after sitting out their bad Karma, but that worst kind of hell, where their soul is ultimately destroyed. And if you think about it: the very base for narcissism is just those things that every religion warns you of: jealousy, pride, arrogance, lust, greed, cruelness. If narcissists or any type of bad person would actively fight against a single bad quality then surely God would help them and give them strength for their fight. But they chose not to fight against their bad qualities and even side with their bad qualities, become a slave of their bad qualities and ultimately are lead to their own destruction. And I also believe that if good people are harmed by bad people, the good people will receive a compensation from God, be it time, or tears or energy or recognition or just good things that were out of reach for them because they were caged by a narcissist.
You get back what you have given out,the evil person suffers within,the good person lives in peace, joy, happiness, contentment,let us pray for the narcissist, it's very sad way to live
Respectfully, I somewhat agree with your statement "You get back what you have given out..." How does this apply to the person that is being violated? In what ways is this part of the statement true for children of narcissistic parents and those who have narcissistic family members and others outside the family aimed at destroying the "good " in their life. I agree with the second part of the statement but I ask, at what cost? I think about Joseph and Job yet I often perplexed by the lived experience of how the evil assaults from these entities are causing so much damage in my life and I know that I didn't sow that. Nevertheless, I am discovering some areas of my life that were in desperate need of attention in order for me to become my best self. The process is difficult and complicated.
I was with a narcissist for 7 years and the hardest part is in the end I was left on the streets with nothing but a trash bag full of clothes and I never heard or saw one negative thing happened to that person everyone just felt bad for them because they played a victim and their family felt pity for them and took them in and started taking care of him again all the while saying I made them miserable while I was sleeping on the street
Sick family. I'm very very sorry this happened to you. Please, you must be mentally and emotionally prepared if/when that monster come again in your life.
I want to give you a bit of encouragement. I'm 54 years old and I can see by your picture I have seen a little bit more then you and have a bit more experience. First of all, JUST WAIT. That's all you gotta do is wait. I have a sister that was very beautiful when she was young, had her PICK of men. Men I couldn't even dream of getting a date with. High value, high quality men and she dogged them all out and was mean as a snake to everyone around her, including the family and her friends. Fast forward thirty five years. She's no longer pretty, age has taken hold, she got really chubby, she developed a hump on her back. Men use her as a DNA receptacle, nothing else. My family ignores her because she has used up all their resources. People get tired of cleaning up the mess. Man or woman. So, just WAIT. It might take two weeks, two months, two years or twenty years. But it WILL come back around.
@@beautypablotamarini7315 lol trust me they already tried. I love me I love Jesus Christ. I have a nice new car and my peace and freedom. I could care less about that situation anymore. The only thing that still is a wound is the love in time I put into something and I genuinely thought was going to be forever. Love and time I cannot get back. And it just turned into a lesson. Open my eyes and gave me some knowledge
These people have traded their soul for Narcissism and are now dead inside..And what they hate about you is that you have a healthy soul and they are very jealous of that and they very much WANT IT! This is why they get angry when you fight them on their Narcissism because THEY WANT A SOUL! Every Time they get supply from you they take a piece of your soul and it feels soooooo good to them They want to take your soul and give you theirs..A soul exchange,. their dead soul for your healthy soul. Every time they get supply from you, there is an exchange, they feel good and you feel bad. This is why after a while you start feeling dead inside yourself.. This is why victims says they are evil. because they feel this..
I feel like they have no soul, or they just let go of their original human soul they see as weak and powerless in trade for a demonic, nasty replacement they feel more powerful with.. Then the thing inside is now ready to go about throughout the world for the loss of more... Their ultimate goal is to destroy as many souls as possible.. I don't think they "take" a piece, but destroy pieces, as many as they can, until their victim is as empty and lifeless inside as they are.
That's why Nick nobody, Zippity & RubberShogun actually hate me. They're late stage sociopathic narcs who have to troll people to feel happy. They may swear up & down I'm a pedo for liking anime girls who are 16 but they treat me as narcissistic supply.
I remember vividly the first time I saw that glee in my daughter’s eyes while I suffered over her behavior toward me. Sixteen years later, I learned she was a covert narcissist l. Now she has zero power over me and knows it. None of her tactics work on me anymore. Now I’m the gleeful one.
Definitely a deterioration of health and looks. Blessings they may have received while with their supply is stripped away like a job, home, friendships
I see the narcissist collect other narcissists as friends . They meet, communicate, and rake other people - the more vulnerable and unable to defend themselves the better - over the coals and abuse them to alleviate their own self-loathing.
That's what my narcissist bullies do. They're part of a discord cult & they make trashy live streams about lolcows or anyone that gets on their bad side. I got into one discord argument with them & trolled them, they planned on triggering me but it backfired.
Thank you for explaining. Our son is married to a narcissist. She has destroyed our family and he let her. He can't see the forrest for the trees. How does anyone forget 50+ years of family. Always supported, loved and encouraged him. Prayers everyday for a miracle.
They are weakest among us. They have allowed/chosen to allow demons to work through and possess them. They are already gone unless they take up the HARD JOB of finding themselves and moving towards goodness. Unlikely.
Yeah I'd like to see more join the path of light like Lee Hammock but sadly most narcs are demons to the core. Lee Hammock type narcs are as rare as tamed alligators
Honestly, what I see is that he moved on from one day to another to the new supply and he is living a happy life. I’m destroyed. After 2 years of loving him and giving him all my attention, he just disappeared. At first I didn’t understand what is going on. Later I came to know that he was meeting with other women during our relationship. He was registered on dating apps. And the reason for his disappearance was a new long term supply. When I asked for explanation, I couldn’t recognise him anymore. He was so cruel, the monster. I even asked him: who are you? And he said: the devil. He was joking, but I was shocked. Zero emotions. He saw my pain and suffering and kept on joking. My health is destroyed, I’ve lost a lot of weight. I am the shadow of the person I used to be. I don’t think this is fair that they go on, destroying so many lives.
They drain your power center ( solar plexus) by attaching etheric cords . Get a healer to do a cord cutting session with you , it works wonders to regain your energy as well as to stop obsessing over them.
In the end they will get what the Lord has planned. Let Go you will be okay. I was abandoned 6 times in a 7 year span of time begging pleading trying to keep the relationship alive as hard as I could. Then was abandoned and left alone on the street in a rain storm. On the street with nothing for over a month. Just last June. Now only the last few months I've become free of that pain. But my eyes are open I've gained so much knowledge from our Lord Jesus Christ and from other people who understand. Just forgive, pray for them hope them the best and take care of yourself. You will be okay I promise. I still cry I still have pain from it but I know it's from the amount of love I had put into it that was abused. I pray for you and the wounds you have are healed, in Jesus Christ of Nazareth name I pray. He loves you, I love you, I love everyone and i can not stand seeing people in pain from their heart being abused. You deserve so much more
He wasn't lying when he said he's the devil. Feel sorry for whoever is his new supply. You know what she will get but I agree they are given too many chances to keep on destroying more lives. I'm not as concern with their karma as much as their future victims. It's feels terrible to not being able to stop them from damaging more people. I'm not surprised the amount of narcissistic people in this world is rising up; they either corrupt others or make more victims and healing takes years, economical means, strengh, patience...it's not something you can heal from in a month.
Believe it or not, after much examination I’ve deduced and see it is alllll fear!! Moving goalposts all the time for fear of having a vulnerable emotion or things out of place because something out of place disturbs their fear of being uncomfortable. It’s very interesting it’s all fear based!
i needed to here this! 🙏. Although the relationship wasn’t real for them it was for me so i know i will receive real joy, happiness, and a healthy relationship. My time is coming. Knowing they will never experience this is satisfying.
This was incredibly insightful; thank you! I unfortunately have a narcissistic mother, and it took me a long time to realize that I am lovable just as I am. I think when narcissists are faced with their reality, they physically fall apart, still pushing even doctors away with the best intentions of caring for them. They are their own worst enemy and don't have any capacity to learn. They suffer from the poverty of the soul, of humanity, and of dignity. Wishing everyone love and understanding ❤.
So sad, I pray for every narcissist to find God and heal. No matter what type. Although I’ve been hurt…My heart still hurts for them. I’ll continue to keep my distance but this is no way to live. My all their broken pieces be healed in the mighty name of Jesus 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
No one wants to die alone. I know a narc who dies not want to be alone, he wants to be married again. I am alone and I am more than content, more than happy because I believe God planned it that way.
Hi, I grew up w a narcissistic sister. I see it now and I'm 60 yrs old...she is 5 years older than me. I grew up w her "brow beating" and bullying. I had a ?? I dont know what the word is but I grew up in her shadow. Luckily, I got married, had kids and my life is beautiful! Thank the Lord! But, my sister? Still tge same. No kids, no marriage, always right in her own eyes. Always looking for her next target. Luckily we don't live in same city. But, when we do see each other on family get together, like Christmas,nor Resurrection Sunday, I always offer a hug and a "hello". I dont think I have ever had a real conversation w her bc I walk away from her. You ask what do I think God does w a narcissist? I think He has mercy for them all their breathing days on this planet. Our duty, or at least mine, because I belong to the Most High, is to pray and repent for her...Prayerfully this spirit of narcissim, hate, unforgiveness, jealousy, oppression and bitterness will be lifted and my sister will be delivered before eternity comes her way. That's what I think God does with a narcissist. Eternity is for everyone, with or without God Almighty, Creator of the Universe, Who was, and is and will come again, the Most High. Thanks for asking!❤
And what is the "lesson" that I had to learn as a victim? Being permanently disabled with 20 seizures a day and excruciating fibromyalgia- and nothing to look forward to but more of the same? Being all alone, fending for myself ever since I was a little kid, never knowing what normalcy looks like/feel like? Suffering from su*cidal depressions for 20 + years?
When it’s a parent and they feed you nothing but bull shit from birth to purposely sabotage you from being able to survive as an adult, then throw you away, beg you to come back even though they somehow have half a dozen new people already kissing their ass 24/7 till the day they died. I didn’t see god punishing the narcissist in ANY way. More like rewarding the narcissist with many more WILLING victims.
It’s hard to believe that Narc will suffer but I surely believe in law of karma and justice of the almighty Also I believe that god wants us to stand up for ourselves and not fear them
Romans 3:19 (NKJV) Now we know that whatever the law says, it says to those who are under the law, that every mouth may be stopped, and all the world may become guilty before God.
Honestly I know a lot of bad narcissists and they don't get karma because they find another unwitting victim who has a low IQ or who also has narc traits and they feed off each other. Eventually narcs make money in this world because society today worships vanity, ency and fake people. If they even do experience karma, they wouldn't even know it because they probably are ingrained in popular religions and think they are holy and good for going to church. This is my real life experience and until I see otherwise, I don't believe they get karma. They do, however, ruin their friends; ,family members', and other associates' lives though, and that looks like karma for their victims to people who are shallow, superficial and low IQ.
I don't want my father's money. It's dirty money and that was my choice and my choice alone. If I accept money from him it's going towards my composting toilet in my tiny home
That's when they don't hold the money. If they do, they will hold on to it till they died. They use money to keep people caged because they have nowhere to go and they are isolated.
@@marilynschmidt6400 I would accept my deceased father's money he worked so hard to earn it. The problem is my mother, she's the narc alive and kicking and she said she will cut me from the will and I'm sure she meant it.
Romans 3:19 (NKJV) Now we know that whatever the law says, it says to those who are under the law, that every mouth may be stopped, and all the world may become guilty before God.
Thank you so much! It was so soothing and relieving to listen to your explanation. I have a narcissistic mother who has been abusing me since many years, I am unable to leave her but trying to find out a way to cut off! Praying about it.
It sometimes works but more often than not, narcs never receive what they put out. Illuminaightii might have lost a lot of subscribers but she's living quite comfortably.
I called my Narc “beautiful” after only knowing her for a few weeks. Her reply was a horrific expression of terror followed by “I don’t allow people to love me.” That is their eternal punishment: refusal to be loved or give love 💔
Once I become close to God I began to see my mother for the narcissistic that she is. I know my absence bothers her, whether she’ll ever admit it or not. I, however, I’m at peace i’ve been no contact for over a year now 😊
I've personally witnessed how a narcissistic father suffers after his children are all grown up and see their father for what he really is, this in itself is torture to the father who thought he would always be all powerful and a God unto himself, children never forget how he treated and abused them and their mom, this becomes his punishment, and he too realizes this.
1 Samuel 24:12 May the Lord judge between you and me. And may the Lord avenge the wrongs you have done to me, but my hand will not touch you. John 16:8 (NKJV) And when He has come, He will convict the world of sin, and of righteousness, and of judgment.
The priest at my church said: God is both the Ultimate Mercy and the Ultimate Justice. He is merciful but also has to judge our actions. Here’s what happened to my father after I was saved by St Nicholas he got a major heart attack suddenly after which his health declined and he eventually looked much older his age. I cant say he changed 180 degrees but he did realized he needed God’s forgiveness and started going to church for some time. He never said sorry to me directly but he did become less violent and died a horrible sad death. I hope he can fully repent his wrongdoings in afterlife now before the final judgement comes.
You are only saved by JESUS. No other deity in humankind has EVER claimed to "save" except HIM ALONE. Time to start thanking and giving praise to HIM asap. You need NO priest or pastor to save you either.. Start a relationship directly with Yeshua Jesus today.
Jesus is the only one that can save human race, Saints are dead men, they cannot save you sir, seek Jesus, ask him into your heart, repent of your sins and believe that he died for you, make him Lord is your life, then watch what he does for you! It’s amazing to follow Jesus and thank him for everything!
@@RS-xe2uq its a pity you dont believe in saints. They were given power to even resurrect dead while still being alive, even more so now after ascending to Heaven. Its even testified by Jesus himself in the New Testament. You should really read carefully there.
So far, after one full year of no contact, all I see is that he is living his best life, prospering, and I have been left in the dust suffering the wreckage of having lost almost everything including my sanity. He looks better than ever and I look worse than ever. I am trapped in my mind with hideous ruminations and a heart which has been devastated. He gets to just continue on doing his thing, looking impressive while fooling his friends and family. I on the other hand, have nobody other than my three young adult children and I am completely isolated; shell of who I used to be, and a tortured anxious and depressed wreck of a person 💔 If I wasn’t afraid that he would retaliate against me and my kids, I would out him to everyone who knows him for being the psychotic monster he is.
You are telling the story of my life. I worked so hard, he hardly worked. During out divorce proceedings I found out how much money he had set aside for himself. I was paying his health insurance and alimony, he couldn’t find a job ( with a PhD in engineering). Now he is making more money than he ever did, treating the kids and their families to vacations, etc. i am frozen I can’t make a decision regarding my future after retirement. I have been filled with rage, to the point it is unhealthy. I have prayed that God would take this from me. Little by little I spend less time thinking about my anger. I am learning things will play out but in God’s time. 12:23
Wow!!! Thank You Danish! This was the BEST explanation of what I've been asking for a while now! I am a Christian, however (Truth is Truth) so I related very much to this video I was VERY at one point ... However, the more I learn the more I am able to understand, adapt, and overcome this situation. The Narcissist in my life is my own Father! A Pastor and very well respected leader in our religious community. In most people's eyes this man can do no wrong. So it has been extremely hard dealing with him and trying not to cut all ties.
Thank you Danish 😊❤ Wonderful! I feel at bliss right now knowing that they do get punished after causing so much injustice to good hearted people that were genuinely there for them. I always told my husband "You are your own worst enemy". They create their own hell in this world - very, very sad unfortunately but God is a good Good full of mercy and justice ✝️🙏
I have lived with a narcistic for 13 yrs & it was hell! He finally died of cancer 2.5 years ago. The Devine gift you mentioned he once told me that. That lasted for a very short time. The things I lived through were so cruel! I loved him in spite hoping things would change.Wrong! I bear the scars!
The narc I knew for many years left a horrible, scathing lasting wound on a fellow flying monkey she nurtured/ enabled like there was no tomorrow to pay, and he did the same to his family. She died miserable and angry at God but he has a heart disease now and is angry , too. The legacy lives on? Remember the Pharoah in the Bible who hardened his heart? What was his fate? He knew better too. Thanks for your wonderful wisdom, Mr. Danish. 🙏Keep praying for you and us. Praise God for His mercies everyday.
My ex narcissist husband did get his consequences and still experiencing it. But it did look for a while nothing was happening to him and I was suffering. I left him when our daughter was 2 yrs old. I was crying a lot, almost went broke. He was just pretending he was fine cuz he always wanted to look good, keep up appearances. But every time I saw him, his hair was quickly going grey, he was losing his charm, he was looking tired and older fast. Eventually, he was fired from his job, squandered his money til he went broke, lost his friends, lost other women partners. His bank account was garnished by the government, then lost his drivers license and passport, cuz he refused to pay child support. I got a well paying job, saved up enough money for myself and my daughter to be fine. He ended up mentally insane and living on the street (so someone told me when they saw him last). He then texted me and started begging me for money, a computer, then he suddenly disappeared. My daughter hasn’t heard nor seen him since. That was 2 years ago. She’s now 15 years old. That’s Karma for all the pain I went through. 😊
All true! Being an INFJ I am their main prey. My mother is a narcissist too. I know they will receive their karma for their evil ways and trust in that. Just wish I could see it💖🙏💖
I learnt so much from your channel, and then you said the words frequency, and vibration, so I truly came home. Thank you for all the education you are providing.
I still see him happily enjoying while he emotionally abuses me all the time. I wondered what happens to him as there is no justice here. And I found your video.
Proverbs 6 verse 15 says, His disaster will come suddenly. In a moment he will become broken beyond healing ....Once a narc is exposed, the liars reputation is destroyed instantly. Who will ever trust him/her again?...
I dis agree my Mom always starved me in the name of God and religion, saying it will help you in next world, she lived for 92 yrs did whatever she liked to, to the extent of assassinating my character, was on bed for 2 yrs she was not alone I took care of her, died peacefully, and here I am still suffering alone physically as well as mentally. She was never exposed, to me this is total injustice to me
I was very sceptical before I opened the video, because who are we to know what God has planned for our fellow humans under the sky? but you really grabed the core essence of it, and it was a confirmation for me. in the beginning I prayed that it was a waste of time, effort, love and money. but lately I started to change my prayers, and I am actually thankful. I dont see it as a waste of time anymore, because God used me to guide them, and to bring them to light. I think I have done my part, and I left it at God's feet. 🙏❤
I married a narcissistic that was ‘the worlds greatest conman’, Sam Cutler. Look him up. He wasn’t who he said he was. Lived on the coattails of famous people by getting a few good photos and conning a lot of people. I was in the dark till I wasn’t and then divorced him. You are so right about the old man narcissist. His own children didn’t even keep in contact with him. I was the only one, even though divorced and in a completely different country, who called for a wellness check, after he went silent on social media, his main source of fuel because he had everyone convinced he was famous too. Needles to say, the police found him dead, and what looked like for several months. I wish I knew about narcism earlier!
My ex-narc of 15 years biggest fear was realized after his death. “He is all hat and no cattle” is what his peers and friends said about him. The Truth about his facade was revealed under his own roof during the estate sale...The fountain of ‘what do you want to know. I will tell you everything’ was there...How I enjoyed purging the good, bad and ugly. It was painful, humiliating, embarrassing, cathartic, liberating, and beautiful. I was not ugly about anything. Lovely and delicate with the jaw dropping truth. God knew exactly what I needed to begin to heal The best way to finally to say goodbye, start to let go as I close the book of him in a healthy manner.
My mother is a narcissist...my in laws both were narcissistic. My husband is a narcissist. My children recognized him and they are insisting me to leave him. I want to but waiting for the appropriate time
My x was a narcissist. He died at 50. 12 years ago. I’m 72 now. He was a horrible man. I stayed with him 13 years of suffering with him. A lot of Verbal abuse.
Judgement was set in place ,recieving those that rejected God's way thru Jesus.The blessing of Abraham,protection ,health.They walk away from .Choosing theyre own way ,money ,admiration,praise.Justlike satan wanted and God kicked him out!
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Thankyou for your comment. Greatly appreciated. I am not consuming him anymore. Like you have said. my medicine is devouring knowledge. something that a narc could never awaken with.
Total silence in my experience,is the only way to handle a narcissist.... (sadly but true.)
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@@injashiran that is hard when they've isolated you and there's no support. The only support you've got is their flying monkeys watching and the internet to get by
Proverbs 11:17 “Your own soul is nourished when you are kind, but you destroy yourself when you are cruel”. (new living Translation)
amen!!
Yes. Right.
Proverbs 11:17 King James Version
17 The merciful man doeth good to his own soul: but he that is cruel troubleth his own flesh.
True
God is so wise. yes, this is very true!
I truly believe you reap what you sow both here on Earth and in the afterlife. My Narcissistic "Family" believe they are Untouchable. They believe their own lies and delusions. God is a God of Justice and He will not be mocked. He will make wrong things right when you give it to Him. Trust Him to be your defender and vindicator and He will give you double for your trouble. God Bless everyone who has suffered at the hands of Narcissists.
AMEN sister!!!
It is called grace. His grace, and He is a merciful God.
Never forget .
His Love is a perfect . ❤
My husband was raised by a narcissistic mother and he grew up to be a narcissistic man and was also diagnosed with PTSD from Vietnam. I was married to him for 52 yrs... he passed away 5/11/22 of pancreatitis.
I NEVER felt loved. Our adult children, and I have PTSD now too.
My husband, a few years before his death, said that anything he said to me was the same as God saying it, and I must submit to him. I did love him, but lived in fear of his anger and didn't trust he wasn't on the edge of a tirade. He was never satisfied and always wanted more. We were always struggling financially, but he passed away of pancreatitis. It was a painful death. I was devastated because I always hoped and prayed for his recovery that someday all would be better. And he would be cured. 😢
@@janicejohnson2168 Sometimes you don't know, and the doctors diagnose only what may be physical or on the surface. Sorry you all suffered with your husband and his problems but if he was saved, perhaps he is cured now, and God will give you all the peace that surpasses all understanding. He will make it right.
God does say Love covers a multitude of sins but only if we or others repent and ask for forgiveness. It doesn't not mean we are called to be in bondage but to peace.
He is the One who sets us free.
Blessings and may God comfort and protect you and your family.
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Thank you i can show this to my daughter...god bless you
The narcs in my life have died horrendously, but not humbled...They narced until their final breath. They're of the darkness
This is not exactly related but it’s funny how when a narcissist takes the Myers Briggs personality survey they say they are INFP or INFJ and they are actually nothing like these personalities
@@ritavega1606 So weird. Mine is top of the line INFJ and demands everybody take the test just so he can explain to them how superrior his personality is compared to theirs... This comment is golden. It took me a while to realize how much of a BS Outcome his personality test resuolts really were
They do die sad deaths, and alone. Where are your druggie side-chicks? Your precious, ever-mooching “Friends?” Was it really worth it?
The fact your name is witchy woman is scary.
this so true . they never change never ever. everything what they r dies with them .
Also, they start to experiences various illnesses, loose their looks, always upset about something.
100% correct.
Normal people too cmon everybody gets old and start to look like a peace of shit.
Yep, always upset about something
@@ekinsenan9886 That's what I was going to say. Everyone loses their looks and gets less healthy. I'm like duh, that's NOT punishment. Hell, I'm not a narcissist and I don't need that sh*t either 🙄
@@ekinsenan9886Not everyone. Wickedness has a certain look that seeps through the countenance that’s hard to explain. Watch Kenneth Copeland’s “Inside Edition” interview. You can’t tell me his face is normal. Some narcs will stop dressing well like they used to and become unkept. I know one that gained hella weight in a short time after a marriage because it wasn’t working out to his favor like he planned. A lot of it has nothing to do with the normal physicality; it’s their mindset and how they carry themselves when they feel their worlds are crumpling.
I love how you said they can’t even stay in their own company when they’re by themselves that was the best line I ever heard
My ex has been from woman to woman since we parted just sad smh
You reap what you sow. The narcissist’s pride and arrogance blinds them and leads to their fall.
I believe in heaven..here I m suffering a lot..but God has a plan for every one
Correct
They have pride & arrogance in gang stalking someone that they are afraid to show their face to lol who takes their goofy ass seriously wasting their time harassing 1 person 😂😂 imagine how their group meetings go feeling powerful being powerless roaches who pick weak battles because they know they are not about that life. Yea I’m done with the weird shit & dgaf about their obsession or reasons behind it. This is not a movie & I do not know their weird ass so they need to have charges pressed against them for illegal criminal activities ✌🏿
@@sheeschannel439 It definitely challenges your faith.
My narcissistic husband was paid back with KARMA. 1 week after he retired he went to our GP had tests and on getting his results, our GP told him he had liver cancer. Further test and a first appointment with an Oncologist and that first diagnosis changed.
He had metastatic Pancreatuc cancer. A death sentence. 2 years and 10 days later, he died.
I am still healing from this. I was diagnosed with CPTSD.
But my life is so much better now.
😮Wow! Right after he retired and was probably expecting to relax and instead he was given a death sentence … Was he having issues before the appt or was it just a regular check up?
This is very similar to my husband and my life. He died of lymphoma at 64 after the regular treatment, 15 months of remission, and then 2 more years of worse treatment ending in a failed stem cell transplant. I knew from the start it wouldn't work and would just extend the suffering, mine and his. He's been dead for 6 years now and they've been the best years of my life.
Happened to me also.My narcissist husband passed away in January due to CKD, chronic kidney disease.He suffered lot of pain during these last 3 yrs
@@laurabfromvt6197 Praise God!! The best is till in front of you. ❤
Ooooooo 😮😢
My narcissistic mother has alot of supply. She has 5 siblings of her own and two of my siblings are narcissistic. My mother is turning 74 this year. I chose NC almost two years ago. It's ironic that my mother took pleasure in triangulating my siblings and I, but my mother has her siblings to this day. It angers me that my mother did that to me. Total isolation just because I spoke truth and asked for accountability.
Omg this post I needed 😤😫😭
Everything she said we “didn’t need” or take from me and she still has hers in tact and gloats takes everything in me not to feel resentment for all the loss that can never be expressed or explained smgdh thank u my spirit needed to express this with someone who innerstands 😢 we will be alrite tho sometimes i feel suicidal then my anger kicks in and says don’t let her or “them” win!
Same with me. I know my mother will always have supply from my narcissistic sisters. Maybe her punishment is she won't have as much as she used to and she can't abuse me on a daily basis or send my siblings as flying monkeys to do her dirty job. I don't even think they will ever have the terrible nightmares I have due to their lifetime abuse on me.
Anyway, we need to leave it in God's hand because it's not in ours and that will keep us miserable.
At least I have overcome the fantasy of believing they will addmit their wrongsdoing or will have remorse. More fantasies that keep us stuck.
I have already watched many channel and I have read enough comments about what happens when they are close to dying to know that doesn't happen.
Some victims feel relief others feel rage and mourn the fact they left without a good word towards them. Most people abused by their parents don't even get an inheritance, their narcissistic siblings get them. That's why expecting a miracle from them keep us stuck. Many victims can't cry, they have no tears left.
Take care 💜
I keep trying no contact but then close family members die and I get swept back into the shitstorm and have to go the full cycle again. I remember being scared to even think in my mind that she was evil. Caused me so much pain shame isolation needless suffering and couldn’t get her out my head or know who I am. Life was great without her in it we all were very close and healing from the lies soons she returned everyone divided and bs again . Such a strange kind of grief dealing with these types but to God be the glory everyday I wake up without suicidal thoughts and instead the will to rebuild on a righteous foundation of truth and joy of life. May I never be like them is my
Motto
I feel u on giving up the fantasy that they will ever admit they were wrong or Apologize. I’m ok if I’m in no contact but notice a sort of hypnotism or something when in her presence it’s just like being sucked back in. I fight the urge to pick up and move across across without a trace . I feel like any part of my life she had access to in any way is tainted and I’m willing to leave it all just to be untied completely from her. But also just making mental effort to redirect my thoughts away from her entirely bc the rumination causes major stagnation. I will take back my mind and rebuild a new life that she cannot touch or destroy!
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Try mindfulness and guided meditation. Yoga Nidra works good too. It's on TH-cam. God bless you 💜
They end up alone because no one can stand to deal with them.
Or they join online cabals with other terminal narcissists & have to pick on people to feel happy
I DONT THINK THEY WILL BE ALONE, THEY ALWAYS HAVE A NEW SUPPLY.
No. Their victims are left all alone and- often times- permanently disabled as a result of the abuse. Meanwhile, the narc will have a supply of sorts for the rest of his/her life.
True
Bingo.
They are never happy or content no matter how much they have…..my ex Narc wanted more women,more money and more worldly things. How greedy can you be when you have it so much better than many others? They are so ungrateful and unappreciative people,so sad 😞
Ungrateful, showing No mercy, but expecting Mercy.. & expecting Gratitude to them
Yes, exactly! They are some toxic people @@tinaureta9891
they are toxic.
It can be frustrating, but eventually they will pay, I've seen them pay over and over. They like you to think they're doing so well, but they're not. Just do your own thing and they will collapse at some point.
@@PervertHoover2full circle.
The TRUE punishment is that the narcissist is unable to feel love, joy or peace of mind. Imagine never being able to feel those emotions that make life worth living? It is truly hell on earth.
This was shown strongly in the Boondocks Color Ruckus episode.
Uncle ruckus grandma was a malignant narcissist in decay & displayed all the traits well
its actually a living hell. they dont need to die to experience the hell they gave to others. they live n die every moment untill they r gone forever..
It’s not they are unable to feel love, joy, or peace of mind. They choose NOT to feel! No matter how kind you are to them and cater to their needs, they still choose to hurt you!!!
Some never had dad and took on moms persona
And they still have an eternity of being separated from God in hell to endure.
Narcissist are professionals and there are plenty desperate people. Sad, but true😢
My mom was a covert narcissist and my brother was a narcissist. They tortured me and I was frustrated, depressed and scared. This is my 1 st year that I’m not scared. I’m praying for the Lord to heal my health
Your best video yet. Once you peel back the layers, you realize it is a spiritual issue not a mental one.
So very true. It is a spiritual battle for their lost souls.
Or a combination of both
God gives them A LOT of time to change their ways. His love is INCREDIBLE and patient ❤
How do you reconcile that with His love for you and the things you suffered especially if your testimony involves narcissistic parents as well? I'd like to hear your story if you are willing to share.
1.God gives chances to change
2.God cuts off all sources of supply
3.God keeps them dissatisfied from their life and they suffer till the end
Yesssss
God doesn't exist
@@byronfoppola8676 still karma call it bc what you want. Divine correction
@byronfoppola8676
I feel very sorry for you.
"Seek and you will find"
I m proud of myself I left my husband tonight and moved in with our daughter n never ever going back again thank you Jesus
That’s major. Congratulations as I know that had to take a lot to get to that point. God lead you into your future in peace ❤
@@GodsChosenMekAmoR yes it did but I'm free and never going back god helped got out and me peace as well thank you
40 years of abuse being cheating on disrespected it got worse until with no other choice but to go n save myself
Make sure that you get your devices checked for stalkerware. They can buy a software program that gives them full remote access to your devices. Including your location. Congratulations on leaving him.
So many blessings are going to pour out! I promise you!
I kept in contact with my narcissistic Mother till the bitter end …….read her poetry as she lay dying. Yes, she never approved of me and possibly never loved me but she had turned her back on her own Mother as she lay dying. My brother and I were never allowed to meet my Grandmother……..I was five when she died and my brother ten. I suspect she may have been a narcissist as well. But the cycle stopped with me ………only because I believed that in the end love is the greatest gift given to all of us is the ability to love. Some will think I was a fool but I have no regrets………I truly loved her in spite of herself. I raised two son’s and have a beautiful grown granddaughter and with the grace of God none of them are narcissists.
Absolutely beautiful
This really hits home as my husband was a huge narcissist and as his health declined in the last 10 years of his life everyone around him disappered exceot for me - and I've just recently discovered I have adhd which is a very hard combination - anyway - a month before he passed he went in and was put on a vent and he told me at that time he "died and came back" I guess there was a priest in the room that saw his spirit rise about 6-8" off the bed and come back down - he pulled all the tubes out cuz he thought he was alone and no one was there - nurses came in and didn't put the vent or the pic back in - he went to rehab for 2 weeks (and this was during covid) and came home - at that time he was changed - he was very prejudiced duirng his life and this changed - I noticed he was different - it was the start of dementia for him but the times he was lucid he was different - the last week of his life he apologized for everything he did to me - physical/emotional/mental - cuz he knew that if he didn;t he would go to hell instead of heaven - he constantly apologzed and told me he loved me - so in my thinking he died and when he went to the other side he was told he had to make amends to me or he would not to go to heaven - I told people after that that this week was what I had hoped our marriage of 45 years should have been
That sounds like the worst of the worst. I’m so sorry that happened to you it would have been better had he just died so that you didn’t have to heal with all these conflicting emotions. They would have been conflicting anyways but his last week of showing you love And apologizing… To me that seems like his final slam. I wish you happiness and healing and forgiveness of yourself 🙏🏼💕
Thats sad, waiting all that time to have him love you all because he was threatened with heaven or hell. He had his choice. You can choose too whether you forgive him or not ! Forgive, let go !!
peace be with you
I took care of my father until he died. For about nine months of his life. And he was an alcoholic and very distant man, emotionally, and physically. As I’m reading your statement that your husband apologized, I think how much I would’ve appreciated hearing that from my father as well. at least you got to hear him say he was sorry and that he had loved you. He loved you the best he could and how he knew how to love. My ex-husband is not in very good shape either at the age of 63. He was a narcissist, alcoholic, drug addict. He’s been homeless for quite a few years now. He has apologized and I have accepted. And now I’m learning to live in peace, joy, and happiness.
A narcissist is never happy for a long term! When your satisfied, happy and content, you don’t have an interest in hurting others! Very simple! ✌🏻
It is in them to find or create new circle of problems anyways with each new time of happiness it is a check box and brief. Like 5 minutes lol
I prayed for GOD to show me how best to interact with my narcissist parents and brother. I got a very clear message back, letting me see how sick and hateful they all were towards me. After years of taking the abuse, I finally hit the saturation point and went no contact with them all. GOD is more than enough to replace all of them! I'm so grateful to not be going through this alone. I know GOD is with me and will help me when I am forced to be around them again. I'm at peace, but I know they definitely are not.
I'm also extremely grateful for a community of others dealing with the same destructive people I am. I've learned so much from these insightful podcasts and others comments. ❤
I’m also no contact with my entire family. I’ll be 60 this year and I have no regrets.
Their biggest punishment is they way they are and the way they feel every day, their inability to receive love... very, very sad!
Here is my take: I had not been much of a believer until I experienced narcissistic abuse. "Thanks" to the narc, who is out of my life forever, I found faith. I believe God let the narc hurt me "just enough" (trust me, it was a lot) to reveal the true nature of everything I have ever known about myself and the narc and the world. And some truly odd things happened to the narc. Basically, it feels like I dodged a bullet. Today, I am more mindful, more grateful, definitely wiser, and even kinder to people. It feels like a lesson I simply had to learn. And for a narc, "Let go and let God" works like a charm.
Praise God. So glad you found positives from your situation ❤
This week I finally come out of 32 yrs captivity and the best part he thought he wouldn't have to pay child support, as 2 months from now last child graduate high school. I had to learn the whole process of filing myself, with no monetary support from him the last 7 months. Well he now has back support of 3 months and 2 going forward. And he wasn't given an opportunity to get any of my retirement plan, also had to sign paperwork to honor 4 years of tuition free college.
I had to learn to trust God and obey,so now on the other side of this divorce, I can look back and see the ultimate Heavenly Judge had complete control and showed in court.
His choice of new supply has 3 young kids and she is 6 yrs younger and very much shorter than I, but our 3 children are grown and have futures. 30, 28, 19 yrs old. So I will proudly be empty nested and the only person I have to listen and answer to is.. My Heavenly Father who has always had my back. As I was fatherless and mother less all my childhood, so I now know that made me very vulnerable as ex and I met at young age in military. But lessons and experiences now make me wiser and stronger .
Btw, he really showed out when he literally moved in with new supply while our divorce wasn't even set for court date
Farewell ex of 32 yrs.. I am free of captivity
Religion is a tool used by narcissists to control the weak minded. Don’t be a weak mind. Seek guidance from real existing people that live here on earth.
Beautiful ❤❤❤
@@madeforsomuchmoreGod bless you 🙌🙌🙌. This is soooooo true. The verse the steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord and Romans 8:28 come to mind. All things work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to purpose. When I won the divorce he tried to stop paying and this was right after thanksgiving. Little did he know God at the divinely right time sent a job to me that afforded me to move after 2 years of being in my parents basement on an air mattress with 3 kids. It seemed like he got off easy but God was allowing and blocking things to do what He wanted to do to me. The Lord sent me the info on his cheating and lies and it blew me away but I realized that God shielded it from me the 16 years because for 14 of those I was a homemaker. The narc had his intentions but God used it to honor my prayer to raise my children in the Lord. They are amazing kids and gave me little to no problems, all know God for themselves, and we laugh and have fun and peace in our home but back to my point. Once I got the divorce he stopped paying but now I know if I was making all I made and then the ordered child/spousal support I would’ve been over the max income to live here. Also, God had a stimulus come out at that time to help me take care of the kids and have the money for moving fees and to fully furnish our home. The narc thought they were hurting me but didn’t know God used them like pharaoh. We never lacked a thing and he too had to do back pay and had to pay a significant amount they stressed him out. Played victim to the kids but the evil they do will not go unpunished. I have learned to trust God on everything regarding the narc. Like I said God sent info to me with no money and represented myself in court and did so well he had to just put his hands up. I am forever blown away at how God fought for me and these kids. I kept my hands clean and let him dig his own ditch. These memories are keeping me now as he has moved in with a lady and proposed in 5 myths didn’t even tell kids until the weekend they moved in her home. I say my God they never stop, never learn but I looked at it again that my kids will be in a better home are old enough to know what he’s teaching is sin and they will make better choices. When they were sick recently he does nothing now he is sick with pneumonia and they are starting to know the truth even when it is hard for them to accept. In the end the narc will stand before GOD and give account for how they handled their spouse and children. He will have to answer for much but I try to keep my eyes on God and keep thanking Him IAM FREE🙌😭🤯. God bless you on your journey as well. ❤
More than God punishes them, they themselves punish themselves.
John 16:8 (NKJV)
And when He has come, He will convict the world of sin, and of righteousness, and of judgment.
These are such good points! I have often wondered why they just get to go on and on not being held accountable for their crimes, but this makes sense.
In fact, a verse occurred to me while I was listening to you: “And just as they did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a depraved mind, to do those things that are not proper…” Romans 1:28
Wow!!!’ Wow!!!! Incredible verse. Yes indeed… it’s so sad, but they refuse to be merciful and loving and grateful to God and others
That’s a good one.
This is the actual truth. God knows what He’s doing. It is not the universe but the duty of a man to humble themselves, surrender to Christ, and live a life of love and support to others. The Creator God Elohim Yahweh has told us this over and over in His Word. They indeed have a reprobate mind and their pride will not allow them to humble themselves under Him and obey living a life of LOVE and obedience to Jesus Christ to the glory of God.
@@GodsChosenMekAmoRlol and they are making this about me like I actually need their help to level up in life when they are here to distract me from doing just that. No this is about THEM 😂😂 this is their test & this is my purpose to humble them in the eyes of God 🤷🏿♀️ He knew I wouldn’t back down & bring them all the way to the finish line & reveal their heart’s most wicked desires. Will they pass the test well that’s not my problem. They signed up for this & I was chosen for this ✌🏿
@@eyeamphree3337 I soooo understand no overstand what you are saying. I went through the same. The narc was a weapon sent by the devil to steal, kill, and destroy my purpose. He did NOT succeed. He wanted to be my god so bad and hates God for it. Not my problem, left him long ago and even FOUR years later and kids almost grown he recently tried to come reason with me for us to coparent and be friends as if “WE” need each other 🤔. I had to remind him I don’t bother you nor checking for you. Life is peaceful and I got the kids stable. Too late to be saying “THEY” need us. No YOU THE NARC ARE STILL NEEDY FOR SUPPLY and need me. They love trying to bring you down to their level. Just shows demonic people never stop. Do not trust their lips stay focused on your own life and purpose. If they are a narc I can tell you without a doubt they never experience peace. No peace for the wicked says the Lord.
I'm 77 year old lady I live in a senior building before this year I've never heard of the word narcissism but I know somebody that's like that I hired him years ago do Penny and Plumbing in my mother's house when she passed away and that's what he did he always came to me for a while and we had dinner and movies and then he went away and he never came back I called him he never responded to my calls or texts or anything it's like you just disappeared I don't understand what the situation is but now I know what is they're grown children they want attention from everybody else without giving back attention no matter what they're grown children they work and they are educated to a point but emotionally they've never grew up I've known him for 15 years I thought he cared about me but now that I know what narcissism is I'm done thank you for all this education about what that person is that I know
He blocks them from all angles. Their plans are shattered.
AMEN 🙏
God blocks them from the good angels 😇
@@marilynschmidt6400How so? I had a narcissist parent that was a nightmare from birth. Did your god punish me and my 4 siblings and my catholic mother by sending us a narcissist to raise us and mentally abuse his catholic wife using religion to cheat on her and threaten to kill her if she even thought about divorce? I’ll tell you what your GOD did. He rewarded the narcissist parent with a second wife half his age, another child at age 70 and he’s a much worse father at this point. Plus after his entire family got away from him, god sent him some new loyal slaves that made sure he was well taken care of till he died. Yeah god sure does work in mysterious ways. If he existed.
AMEN!!!!!!
@kbar3612 I honestly think God put you through that challenge so that you could help someone in that similar situations. We are here to help/love/restore each other. God bless you.
My narc is a very very sick man. I should have known when he didn’t even say I looked beautiful on our wedding day. He took off on our wedding night and went gambling with his aunt. Now we are getting divorced 18 years later. Why did I put up with him for so long?! I don’t know! God will take vengeance on him.
Yea, I can count on 1 hand the compliments I received in 23 years
My soon to be ex actually told me I was beautiful on our wedding day . His narcissism didn’t show up till a week or so later. I prayed back in November for God to deal with him because after 26 years of marriage I couldn’t take it anymore. Early January he told me out of the blue that he wanted to leave because of him driving 2 hours a day wasting his time going to work and not doing what he wanted. Then a week later he wanted a divorce because he was tired of being married. All because I stopped taking his bait and not responding to his accusations
Oh my! Mine never says I'm pretty (although countless others....). It's our 29th yikes and, as usual, I'll go around saying don't know if we'll make it to buds... Got married in white rugby pants/white sweatshirt (it did say Banff) no ring 💍 that's just gross, a lamb 🐑 to the slaughter are we! Honeymoon 1 night then he needed to detox to turn me into baby churner, now he sneak texts and calls the other woman when I'm out (our daughter) cuz I need fixing, oh well, hope she can fix her own baby sitting requirements when her much wanted baby arrives, not wanting a local boy, like me, family all in EU, very unhandy! Hope you do well, maybe more people should be divorced than married, my husband dribbled on, encouraged my daughter's boycott of me, it is like parenting with a toddler!
Same here ! He told be his back hurt when he saw me! Hes such a horrible person. I’m trying to leave after 20 years
I've never been married but it seems like that would be one the first things the groom would say upon seeing the bride, if not the very first thing. It should just flow out naturally.
Never receive LOVE!! I would absolutely hate being them! You are right!! Right ! Right!
They abuse all love, respect and good.
Matthew 10:34-39 NKJV
“Do not think that I came to bring peace on earth. I did not come to bring peace but a sword. For I have come to ‘set a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law’; and ‘a man’s enemies will be those of his own household.’ He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me. He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for My sake will find it.
My cabal of narcs led by 'Zippity's Circus' all love bomb each other.
They do hate wholesome things & kindness but that doesn't stop them from treating each other like royalty.
Romans 12:19-21 ”Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord. On the contrary: “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.” Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.“
My narcissistic ex-boyfriend got jumped and beat up just like he used to hit me but worse and he too mentioned how his actions come around.
Thank you for sharing this , it's comments like this that tell me to keep going strong in life 🫶❤️
I'd like to hear more stories of narcs getting beat up.
I'm really strong but I've gotten tons of online abuse from narcs that I could fold up in person. Internet has made narcs alot nastier & more comfortable being their full selves.
My ex too... his own cousin beat him up when he realized he was abusing and cheating on me. I had no idea at first... he just showed up late from work one day all beat up.
Then i remarried (too soon), and it was second verse same as the first... and his "martial arts instructor" beat him up. I used air quotes because it was really a bunch of stoners playing kung fu in their basement.
My narc ex girlfriend and her family was so evil to me especially when the relationship was ending. My narc and her family especially her brother got their karma with legal trouble, mental illness, health crisis, and financial hardship. Like back to back. I don’t wish trouble on no one but God/ the universe leaves no stone unturned. The real karma is living in a constant state of hating yourself. That seems like hell on earth.
Forgotten literally. It’s so bizarre and traumatizing. Lost everything
I've seen and experienced it myself that all spiritual progress, and real religiosity always starts with the Self. Your access to God is always your own Self. And since narcissists abhor their own self and their own soul, they actively destroy their own soul, cummulate endless sins they will be held accountable for. And I 100% agree that bad people will go to hell. And not the kind of hell where souls are released from after sitting out their bad Karma, but that worst kind of hell, where their soul is ultimately destroyed. And if you think about it: the very base for narcissism is just those things that every religion warns you of: jealousy, pride, arrogance, lust, greed, cruelness. If narcissists or any type of bad person would actively fight against a single bad quality then surely God would help them and give them strength for their fight. But they chose not to fight against their bad qualities and even side with their bad qualities, become a slave of their bad qualities and ultimately are lead to their own destruction.
And I also believe that if good people are harmed by bad people, the good people will receive a compensation from God, be it time, or tears or energy or recognition or just good things that were out of reach for them because they were caged by a narcissist.
You get back what you have given out,the evil person suffers within,the good person lives in peace, joy, happiness, contentment,let us pray for the narcissist, it's very sad way to live
Respectfully, I somewhat agree with your statement "You get back what you have given out..." How does this apply to the person that is being violated? In what ways is this part of the statement true for children of narcissistic parents and those who have narcissistic family members and others outside the family aimed at destroying the "good " in their life. I agree with the second part of the statement but I ask, at what cost? I think about Joseph and Job yet I often perplexed by the lived experience of how the evil assaults from these entities are causing so much damage in my life and I know that I didn't sow that. Nevertheless, I am discovering some areas of my life that were in desperate need of attention in order for me to become my best self. The process is difficult and complicated.
I was with a narcissist for 7 years and the hardest part is in the end I was left on the streets with nothing but a trash bag full of clothes and I never heard or saw one negative thing happened to that person everyone just felt bad for them because they played a victim and their family felt pity for them and took them in and started taking care of him again all the while saying I made them miserable while I was sleeping on the street
Sick family.
I'm very very sorry this happened to you.
Please, you must be mentally and emotionally prepared if/when that monster come again in your life.
I want to give you a bit of encouragement. I'm 54 years old and I can see by your picture I have seen a little bit more then you and have a bit more experience. First of all, JUST WAIT. That's all you gotta do is wait. I have a sister that was very beautiful when she was young, had her PICK of men. Men I couldn't even dream of getting a date with. High value, high quality men and she dogged them all out and was mean as a snake to everyone around her, including the family and her friends. Fast forward thirty five years. She's no longer pretty, age has taken hold, she got really chubby, she developed a hump on her back. Men use her as a DNA receptacle, nothing else. My family ignores her because she has used up all their resources. People get tired of cleaning up the mess. Man or woman. So, just WAIT. It might take two weeks, two months, two years or twenty years. But it WILL come back around.
@@beautypablotamarini7315 lol trust me they already tried. I love me I love Jesus Christ. I have a nice new car and my peace and freedom. I could care less about that situation anymore. The only thing that still is a wound is the love in time I put into something and I genuinely thought was going to be forever. Love and time I cannot get back. And it just turned into a lesson. Open my eyes and gave me some knowledge
Not right. 😢
John 16:8 (NKJV)
And when He has come, He will convict the world of sin, and of righteousness, and of judgment.
In general they are very spiritually Evil,have been grown up with a bunch of narc's! I'm surprised I've survived so looong!🙏❤️🙏💜
These people have traded their soul for Narcissism and are now dead inside..And what they hate about you is that you have a healthy soul and they are very jealous of that and they very much WANT IT! This is why they get angry when you fight them on their Narcissism because THEY WANT A SOUL! Every Time they get supply from you they take a piece of your soul and it feels soooooo good to them They want to take your soul and give you theirs..A soul exchange,. their dead soul for your healthy soul. Every time they get supply from you, there is an exchange, they feel good and you feel bad. This is why after a while you start feeling dead inside yourself.. This is why victims says they are evil. because they feel this..
I feel like they have no soul, or they just let go of their original human soul they see as weak and powerless in trade for a demonic, nasty replacement they feel more powerful with.. Then the thing inside is now ready to go about throughout the world for the loss of more... Their ultimate goal is to destroy as many souls as possible.. I don't think they "take" a piece, but destroy pieces, as many as they can, until their victim is as empty and lifeless inside as they are.
That's why Nick nobody, Zippity & RubberShogun actually hate me. They're late stage sociopathic narcs who have to troll people to feel happy.
They may swear up & down I'm a pedo for liking anime girls who are 16 but they treat me as narcissistic supply.
I remember vividly the first time I saw that glee in my daughter’s eyes while I suffered over her behavior toward me.
Sixteen years later, I learned she was a covert narcissist l. Now she has zero power over me and knows it. None of her tactics work on me anymore. Now I’m the gleeful one.
Definitely a deterioration of health and looks. Blessings they may have received while with their supply is stripped away like a job, home, friendships
1000000%
I've noticed narcs tend to age harder & faster than normal people.
In my experience the narc’s in my life ended up with health issues and being alone.
God did take the narcissist in our family . Finally. The damage he did still lingers.
My ex narc was finally taken out of our lives also in October last year. Died alone in hospital after an unfortunate accident.
I see the narcissist collect other narcissists as friends . They meet, communicate, and rake other people - the more vulnerable and unable to defend themselves the better - over the coals and abuse them to alleviate their own self-loathing.
I wonder if that is because the only ones who can cope with their toxicity is their own - everyone else has fled or will once they understand
That's what my narcissist bullies do. They're part of a discord cult & they make trashy live streams about lolcows or anyone that gets on their bad side.
I got into one discord argument with them & trolled them, they planned on triggering me but it backfired.
Thank you for explaining. Our son is married to a narcissist. She has destroyed our family and he let her. He can't see the forrest for the trees. How does anyone forget 50+ years of family. Always supported, loved and encouraged him. Prayers everyday for a miracle.
They are weakest among us. They have allowed/chosen to allow demons to work through and possess them. They are already gone unless they take up the HARD JOB of finding themselves and moving towards goodness. Unlikely.
Yeah I'd like to see more join the path of light like Lee Hammock but sadly most narcs are demons to the core.
Lee Hammock type narcs are as rare as tamed alligators
I actually watched my ex narcissist eyes turn coal black when I caught him in a lie. They are EVIL.
Honestly, what I see is that he moved on from one day to another to the new supply and he is living a happy life. I’m destroyed. After 2 years of loving him and giving him all my attention, he just disappeared. At first I didn’t understand what is going on. Later I came to know that he was meeting with other women during our relationship. He was registered on dating apps. And the reason for his disappearance was a new long term supply.
When I asked for explanation, I couldn’t recognise him anymore. He was so cruel, the monster. I even asked him: who are you? And he said: the devil. He was joking, but I was shocked. Zero emotions. He saw my pain and suffering and kept on joking.
My health is destroyed, I’ve lost a lot of weight. I am the shadow of the person I used to be.
I don’t think this is fair that they go on, destroying so many lives.
They drain your power center ( solar plexus) by attaching etheric cords . Get a healer to do a cord cutting session with you , it works wonders to regain your energy as well as to stop obsessing over them.
In the end they will get what the Lord has planned. Let Go you will be okay. I was abandoned 6 times in a 7 year span of time begging pleading trying to keep the relationship alive as hard as I could. Then was abandoned and left alone on the street in a rain storm. On the street with nothing for over a month. Just last June. Now only the last few months I've become free of that pain. But my eyes are open I've gained so much knowledge from our Lord Jesus Christ and from other people who understand. Just forgive, pray for them hope them the best and take care of yourself. You will be okay I promise. I still cry I still have pain from it but I know it's from the amount of love I had put into it that was abused. I pray for you and the wounds you have are healed, in Jesus Christ of Nazareth name I pray. He loves you, I love you, I love everyone and i can not stand seeing people in pain from their heart being abused. You deserve so much more
He wasn't lying when he said he's the devil.
Feel sorry for whoever is his new supply. You know what she will get but I agree they are given too many chances to keep on destroying more lives.
I'm not as concern with their karma as much as their future victims. It's feels terrible to not being able to stop them from damaging more people.
I'm not surprised the amount of narcissistic people in this world is rising up; they either corrupt others or make more victims and healing takes years, economical means, strengh, patience...it's not something you can heal from in a month.
@@agotahorvath
It hurts everything. The psoas too.
@@Manderz-df8xt thank you for your kind wishes
I believe God gives everyone free will and loving forgiveness. But we are all here to learn
I like to think that divinity is love and narcissists cannot find love outside of self love, and for them it's mixed with fear and hate.
Believe it or not, after much examination I’ve deduced and see it is alllll fear!! Moving goalposts all the time for fear of having a vulnerable emotion or things out of place because something out of place disturbs their fear of being uncomfortable. It’s very interesting it’s all fear based!
i needed to here this! 🙏. Although the relationship wasn’t real for them it was for me so i know i will receive real joy, happiness, and a healthy relationship. My time is coming. Knowing they will never experience this is satisfying.
This was incredibly insightful; thank you! I unfortunately have a narcissistic mother, and it took me a long time to realize that I am lovable just as I am. I think when narcissists are faced with their reality, they physically fall apart, still pushing even doctors away with the best intentions of caring for them. They are their own worst enemy and don't have any capacity to learn. They suffer from the poverty of the soul, of humanity, and of dignity. Wishing everyone love and understanding ❤.
Namastey 🙏🏻 Danish watching your video gave me some peace .I thought narcs die unpunished
The bad people make you better. God gives you them to get better.
Give me an example.
I agree with this video. I also believe God puts certain people in a narcissists life to plant a seed of hope 🌱
So sad, I pray for every narcissist to find God and heal. No matter what type. Although I’ve been hurt…My heart still hurts for them. I’ll continue to keep my distance but this is no way to live. My all their broken pieces be healed in the mighty name of Jesus 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Amen 🙏🏾
this is the narc parent's worst thing for them is being left on their own.
But if the narcissist plays victim they get the family and the partner is left alone.
(My mother)
That was my father (the narcissist) worst fear was to die alone
No one wants to die alone. I know a narc who dies not want to be alone, he wants to be married again. I am alone and I am more than content, more than happy because I believe God planned it that way.
Hi, I grew up w a narcissistic sister. I see it now and I'm 60 yrs old...she is 5 years older than me. I grew up w her "brow beating" and bullying. I had a ?? I dont know what the word is but I grew up in her shadow. Luckily, I got married, had kids and my life is beautiful! Thank the Lord! But, my sister? Still tge same. No kids, no marriage, always right in her own eyes. Always looking for her next target. Luckily we don't live in same city. But, when we do see each other on family get together, like Christmas,nor Resurrection Sunday, I always offer a hug and a "hello". I dont think I have ever had a real conversation w her bc I walk away from her. You ask what do I think God does w a narcissist? I think He has mercy for them all their breathing days on this planet. Our duty, or at least mine, because I belong to the Most High, is to pray and repent for her...Prayerfully this spirit of narcissim, hate, unforgiveness, jealousy, oppression and bitterness will be lifted and my sister will be delivered before eternity comes her way. That's what I think God does with a narcissist. Eternity is for everyone, with or without God Almighty, Creator of the Universe, Who was, and is and will come again, the Most High.
Thanks for asking!❤
I asked god why he has given a good person this awful man. Then I realised it was the other way around. God gave me to him as a gift, as a lesson.
It’s a hard lesson to learn for sure…
very hard lesson yes...
And what is the "lesson" that I had to learn as a victim? Being permanently disabled with 20 seizures a day and excruciating fibromyalgia- and nothing to look forward to but more of the same? Being all alone, fending for myself ever since I was a little kid, never knowing what normalcy looks like/feel like? Suffering from su*cidal depressions for 20 + years?
i can understand what you are saying, seems a strange lesson, who would need a lesson like that?
When it’s a parent and they feed you nothing but bull shit from birth to purposely sabotage you from being able to survive as an adult, then throw you away, beg you to come back even though they somehow have half a dozen new people already kissing their ass 24/7 till the day they died. I didn’t see god punishing the narcissist in ANY way. More like rewarding the narcissist with many more WILLING victims.
It’s hard to believe that Narc will suffer but I surely believe in law of karma and justice of the almighty
Also I believe that god wants us to stand up for ourselves and not fear them
Romans 3:19 (NKJV)
Now we know that whatever the law says, it says to those who are under the law, that every mouth may be stopped, and all the world may become guilty before God.
Honestly I know a lot of bad narcissists and they don't get karma because they find another unwitting victim who has a low IQ or who also has narc traits and they feed off each other. Eventually narcs make money in this world because society today worships vanity, ency and fake people. If they even do experience karma, they wouldn't even know it because they probably are ingrained in popular religions and think they are holy and good for going to church. This is my real life experience and until I see otherwise, I don't believe they get karma. They do, however, ruin their friends; ,family members', and other associates' lives though, and that looks like karma for their victims to people who are shallow, superficial and low IQ.
If karma exists why do terrible things happen to the best of people?
They age awfully and their own family disowns them, cuts them off financially.
I don't want my father's money. It's dirty money and that was my choice and my choice alone. If I accept money from him it's going towards my composting toilet in my tiny home
yep.....
That's when they don't hold the money. If they do, they will hold on to it till they died. They use money to keep people caged because they have nowhere to go and they are isolated.
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I would accept my deceased father's money he worked so hard to earn it. The problem is my mother, she's the narc alive and kicking and she said she will cut me from the will and I'm sure she meant it.
Romans 3:19 (NKJV)
Now we know that whatever the law says, it says to those who are under the law, that every mouth may be stopped, and all the world may become guilty before God.
Thank you so much! It was so soothing and relieving to listen to your explanation. I have a narcissistic mother who has been abusing me since many years, I am unable to leave her but trying to find out a way to cut off! Praying about it.
There is GOD, the CREATOR, who set a natural law and a spiritual law, and that is, 'You must reap what you sow'. That law never fails.
It sometimes works but more often than not, narcs never receive what they put out.
Illuminaightii might have lost a lot of subscribers but she's living quite comfortably.
Thank you, Danish for sharing your wisdom with us. Everything you said about the narc creating their own hell makes complete sense.
I called my Narc “beautiful” after only knowing her for a few weeks. Her reply was a horrific expression of terror followed by “I don’t allow people to love me.” That is their eternal punishment: refusal to be loved or give love 💔
OMG that is something my terrible ex would say. Dont caress me with love, it makes me cringe.
@@peggyeldridge4827 They literally hate genuine love.
Always, I am great full for your education. Plus, I like 👍 your hairstyle. Blessings. Amen 🙏🏽
Yes. Married to a covert narcissist for 42yrs. They get worse with age. The mask falls off after many years 😢
God took me away from my narcassist husband at the time. It was good thing cuz my spirit was almost destroyed
Once I become close to God I began to see my mother for the narcissistic that she is.
I know my absence bothers her, whether she’ll ever admit it or not. I, however, I’m at peace i’ve been no contact for over a year now 😊
I've personally witnessed how a narcissistic father suffers after his children are all grown up and see their father for what he really is, this in itself is torture to the father who thought he would always be all powerful and a God unto himself, children never forget how he treated and abused them and their mom, this becomes his punishment, and he too realizes this.
1 Samuel 24:12
May the Lord judge between you and me. And may the Lord avenge the wrongs you have done to me, but my hand will not touch you.
John 16:8 (NKJV)
And when He has come, He will convict the world of sin, and of righteousness, and of judgment.
I appreciate this because I feel like he gets to stay on top of the world while I remain in pain.
The priest at my church said: God is both the Ultimate Mercy and the Ultimate Justice. He is merciful but also has to judge our actions.
Here’s what happened to my father after I was saved by St Nicholas he got a major heart attack suddenly after which his health declined and he eventually looked much older his age. I cant say he changed 180 degrees but he did realized he needed God’s forgiveness and started going to church for some time. He never said sorry to me directly but he did become less violent and died a horrible sad death. I hope he can fully repent his wrongdoings in afterlife now before the final judgement comes.
You are only saved by JESUS. No other deity in humankind has EVER claimed to "save" except HIM ALONE. Time to start thanking and giving praise to HIM asap. You need NO priest or pastor to save you either.. Start a relationship directly with Yeshua Jesus today.
Jesus is the only one that can save human race, Saints are dead men, they cannot save you sir, seek Jesus, ask him into your heart, repent of your sins and believe that he died for you, make him Lord is your life, then watch what he does for you! It’s amazing to follow Jesus and thank him for everything!
Thx for writing this
@@rosiemcking72 Of course I was saved by Jesus but havent you heard about StNicholas??
@@RS-xe2uq its a pity you dont believe in saints. They were given power to even resurrect dead while still being alive, even more so now after ascending to Heaven. Its even testified by Jesus himself in the New Testament. You should really read carefully there.
Yes.
The Almighty doesn't like pride and arrogance. ❤
Or even False representations of it
So far, after one full year of no contact, all I see is that he is living his best life, prospering, and I have been left in the dust suffering the wreckage of having lost almost everything including my sanity.
He looks better than ever and I look worse than ever.
I am trapped in my mind with hideous ruminations and a heart which has been devastated. He gets to just continue on doing his thing, looking impressive while fooling his friends and family. I on the other hand, have nobody other than my three young adult children and I am completely isolated; shell of who I used to be, and a tortured anxious and depressed wreck of a person 💔
If I wasn’t afraid that he would retaliate against me and my kids, I would out him to everyone who knows him for being the psychotic monster he is.
No one will believe you. They are masters at manipulation.
Life is unfair noh? The bad ones thrive. Karma and god isn't real.
Always and forever be no contact. Get help. It's there, and it will help you. It takes time, but it will help. You have the potential to heal.
Love yourself. Heal yourself.
You are telling the story of my life. I worked so hard, he hardly worked. During out divorce proceedings I found out how much money he had set aside for himself. I was paying his health insurance and alimony, he couldn’t find a job ( with a PhD in engineering).
Now he is making more money than he ever did, treating the kids and their families to vacations, etc.
i am frozen I can’t make a decision regarding my future after retirement. I have been filled with rage, to the point it is unhealthy. I have prayed that God would take this from me. Little by little I spend less time thinking about my anger.
I am learning things will play out but in God’s time. 12:23
Very Good Danish! Loved this one! Thank you!
👋 hello Danish! I always look forward to seeing your videos! Have a blessed day 🙏🕊️💞😊
Narcs become a boat with no oars, no rudder, no map and no coast in sight.
And they are heading toward a huge waterfall! 😏
Excellent video, absolute detail of my “previous “ life! Thank you kindly.
Wow!!! Thank You Danish!
This was the BEST explanation of what I've been asking for a while now!
I am a Christian, however (Truth is Truth) so I related very much to this video
I was VERY at one point ... However, the more I learn the more I am able to understand, adapt, and overcome this situation. The Narcissist in my life is my own Father! A Pastor and very well respected leader in our religious community. In most people's eyes this man can do no wrong. So it has been extremely hard dealing with him and trying not to cut all ties.
YOU ARE READING MY MIND and my current situation, again.
Thank you Danish 😊❤ Wonderful! I feel at bliss right now knowing that they do get punished after causing so much injustice to good hearted people that were genuinely there for them. I always told my husband "You are your own worst enemy". They create their own hell in this world - very, very sad unfortunately but God is a good Good full of mercy and justice ✝️🙏
Excellent presentation! 100% correct.
I have lived with a narcistic for 13 yrs & it was hell! He finally died of cancer 2.5 years ago. The Devine gift you mentioned he once told me that. That lasted for a very short time. The things I lived through were so cruel! I loved him in spite hoping things would change.Wrong! I bear the scars!
The narc I knew for many years left a horrible, scathing lasting wound on a fellow flying monkey she nurtured/ enabled like there was no tomorrow to pay, and he did the same to his family.
She died miserable and angry at God but he has a heart disease now and is angry , too. The legacy lives on?
Remember the Pharoah in the Bible who hardened his heart? What was his fate?
He knew better too.
Thanks for your wonderful wisdom, Mr. Danish.
🙏Keep praying for you and us.
Praise God for His mercies everyday.
My ex narcissist husband did get his consequences and still experiencing it. But it did look for a while nothing was happening to him and I was suffering. I left him when our daughter was 2 yrs old. I was crying a lot, almost went broke. He was just pretending he was fine cuz he always wanted to look good, keep up appearances. But every time I saw him, his hair was quickly going grey, he was losing his charm, he was looking tired and older fast. Eventually, he was fired from his job, squandered his money til he went broke, lost his friends, lost other women partners. His bank account was garnished by the government, then lost his drivers license and passport, cuz he refused to pay child support. I got a well paying job, saved up enough money for myself and my daughter to be fine. He ended up mentally insane and living on the street (so someone told me when they saw him last). He then texted me and started begging me for money, a computer, then he suddenly disappeared. My daughter hasn’t heard nor seen him since. That was 2 years ago. She’s now 15 years old.
That’s Karma for all the pain I went through. 😊
All true! Being an INFJ I am their main prey. My mother is a narcissist too. I know they will receive their karma for their evil ways and trust in that. Just wish I could see it💖🙏💖
I learnt so much from your channel, and then you said the words frequency, and vibration, so I truly came home. Thank you for all the education you are providing.
I still see him happily enjoying while he emotionally abuses me all the time. I wondered what happens to him as there is no justice here. And I found your video.
7:22 Thank You...!!!
10:20 Can not be alone;can not tolerate their own presence.
Their controlling, deliberate cruelty festers inside of them and manifests as illness within them. ❤
Proverbs 6 verse 15 says, His disaster will come suddenly. In a moment he will become broken beyond healing ....Once a narc is exposed, the liars reputation is destroyed instantly. Who will ever trust him/her again?...
I dis agree my Mom always starved me in the name of God and religion, saying it will help you in next world, she lived for 92 yrs did whatever she liked to, to the extent of assassinating my character, was on bed for 2 yrs she was not alone I took care of her, died peacefully, and here I am still suffering alone physically as well as mentally. She was never exposed, to me this is total injustice to me
Sam, sadly for her, she will receive justice, and it will go on for eternity.
I was very sceptical before I opened the video, because who are we to know what God has planned for our fellow humans under the sky? but you really grabed the core essence of it, and it was a confirmation for me. in the beginning I prayed that it was a waste of time, effort, love and money. but lately I started to change my prayers, and I am actually thankful. I dont see it as a waste of time anymore, because God used me to guide them, and to bring them to light. I think I have done my part, and I left it at God's feet. 🙏❤
I married a narcissistic that was ‘the worlds greatest conman’, Sam Cutler. Look him up. He wasn’t who he said he was. Lived on the coattails of famous people by getting a few good photos and conning a lot of people. I was in the dark till I wasn’t and then divorced him. You are so right about the old man narcissist. His own children didn’t even keep in contact with him. I was the only one, even though divorced and in a completely different country, who called for a wellness check, after he went silent on social media, his main source of fuel because he had everyone convinced he was famous too. Needles to say, the police found him dead, and what looked like for several months. I wish I knew about narcism earlier!
Wonderful analysis, thank you....
Narcissists avoid thinking about God...
My ex-narc of 15 years biggest fear was realized after his death. “He is all hat and no cattle” is what his peers and friends said about him. The Truth about his facade was revealed under his own roof during the estate sale...The fountain of ‘what do you want to know. I will tell you everything’ was there...How I enjoyed purging the good, bad and ugly. It was painful, humiliating, embarrassing, cathartic, liberating, and beautiful. I was not ugly about anything. Lovely and delicate with the jaw dropping truth. God knew exactly what I needed to begin to heal The best way to finally to say goodbye, start to let go as I close the book of him in a healthy manner.
You have one of the best channels on this topic. I love how you thoroughly explain with examples.
My mother is a narcissist...my in laws both were narcissistic. My husband is a narcissist. My children recognized him and they are insisting me to leave him. I want to but waiting for the appropriate time
My x was a narcissist. He died at 50. 12 years ago. I’m 72 now. He was a horrible man. I stayed with him 13 years of suffering with him. A lot of Verbal abuse.
Judgement was set in place ,recieving those that rejected God's way thru Jesus.The blessing of Abraham,protection ,health.They walk away from .Choosing theyre own way ,money ,admiration,praise.Justlike satan wanted and God kicked him out!
Alhamdulilah this means the most to me. Allah swt is the most merciful