1. BE DISTANT. Focus on your life,let him do the first move. 2. EXCITEMENT. Create something different . Do new things, activities . 3. NO SEX ALL THE TIME 😂 See each other without going to bed. Dont give him what he wants. Let him crave. Ur amazing Alex,thanks :)
I dnt agree with all these things on utube to make your ex come back or to make him miss u...u can do the world things they wont come back ....the man who love u will come by his own will stay in bad or good with u....i think woman first of all should make herself stable n make herself busy dnt feel too much love for anyone...love hirt us lots....well my experience n opinion take it or leave it ❤
Zahira Abdool Hey, I totally hear you and feel you on this one. Know that we have all been there. But if you approach this differently, you might perhaps see that whilst your ex isn't apt to do those things (because some men, and even some women for that matter, are on a whole different, not to say lower, level), there are plenty of other men (and women) who either already have these aptitudes or *CAN* work towards them. Just approach it from a place where you see your ex as possibly not being able to be this way (for now.. or maybe never) as opposed to all men are like your ex. They aren't ! That's giving your ex the power to make you feel and think this way! All the best :) .
@@mixcaramelwithzahii7353 I completely agree with you.. You do hell lot of things they won't return or they won't stay.. It's like making fun of yourself
Main idea is only to better ourselves and not run after guys as guys who love you wont leave you and the fake ones will play distant and coming back mind games and waste your time.correct person dont need space or distance if they love you they want more of you and if they aren't interested they will play distance and space mind games to waste our time and emotions.
Generally, I believe you are right! But people who love each other can still need some space from one another. I think that the number one thing that makes me miss my wife is when she is busy doing her thing! What do you think?
Even if you’re always available, at his heels , chasing after him? Instead of being sexy and having things to do and goals . You live in la la land. There’s no such thing as a man will be excited for you when you’re not being exciting and him having to seek after you.
@@ShlomoJesmerRelationshipCoach men fall in love in absence . Men need to miss a woman and she needs to be away doing something other than obsessing over him.
@@gabrielamartinyuk9894 What about if he forgets & moves on in the absence.? His feelings could diminsh within time & then go look for someone else who he finds more interesting. Never know. They can change their mind in a moment..don' t like that part..
I told myself that I will never give my heart to anyone. There is a man in my life who is chasing me. The more I don't have time for him, the more he is chasing.
Thank you for this. I am creating so much distance because he is not being consistent nor considerate. So, I spoke my peace one last time and moved on.
These are the right things I am doing with my man. And I think it's working. Just enjoying time together it's not about sex everytime but having good time, getting to know each other.
U have changed my life, to pay sex the man does not love you he continues say the way u give him u give others thxs for uploading any person watching make sure give thumb
I was listen to ur video my daughther is 7 years old and she dosent understand english.. she cames to me and she lough ... she said mum about what is he talking .... i said why? She said he is so in action .. i think he talks about something very important ..... it was so sweet . Thanks Alex ur videos are the best.
Alex, thanks alot. I have been lately following all of your tips and everything. It really worked well with my relationship. Its totally worth the wait .
Thank you Alex for the video, your videos are simple, compact (not talk too much like the other motivator) straight to the meaning and very useful. Cheers 🥂
It's absolutely true lolol. Here's the flip side, I do all these things easily with the men I don't really like lol and they are smitttteeennnnnnnnn and desperate to be with me or just spend some time with me. The ones I like, I have to make the effort to be distant lol. The other two I can manage pretty well but the distance one I'm trying to do and I've found that I'm not as restless/missing him as much when I'm focused on my own things in my life!
Thanks for encouraging tips.. I'm a single parent my children finished college..I am happy being single mom..But if God give me a chance to meet a good guy it's a blessing to me...
Alway works. I ignore them or stay away and they alway come back. The recent one was weird before I went on 3 week vacation !, saw me back at work and tried to talk to me 2 times today. I told you about him… until he comes around and stable and does the work I’ll speak yo him
Shlomo Jesmer Is it ok when he call you and you talk for along time but like two days no more here from him ...is ok when he never say Even good morning ...no good night ...please tell me
I wish all the men would understand what we women want ,the way u do,coz once married even though a love marriage, the romantic phase is over.Thanks 👍👍👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏🙏
Because of the way he acted I lost love for him. I want to move on .. but he still bothers me.. I don’t want him anymore.. because of how he had been.. I don’t think that is selfish. I need to take care of myself to live in this world 🌎 and be around others. Can I ask Alex what do you think about this..
Yes you are very correct,im happy of my life having a nice guy with me now,its so nice to be loved,i always tell to him. Wait and more he become in love with me
Awesome! 💖 Alex I teach French and English for midschool. My advice to you: never never change your accent... it's unique ❤ never never take extra English Lessons 😊
True.. tips#1..kerp destance for him to miss you... Agreed tips #2..also.. Gosh..tios #3...awesome..dont guve those what he wsnt in anytime or everyday.. keep saying no..man will vomet us after they swallow us that much... Greet job sir.thank you for advise..
Alex thank you for this advice now i open my eyes..and why my bf egnore me evrytime..bcos i always him 24/7 in call ..im a longdistance relationship.im first always to do something communication..but im not happy bcos he always egnore me....im not him priority ..just like im.option ..bcos maybe om.always there
My bf is changed....he is not as b4 ..and also he used to chat with most of the girls.when I used to ask him he says as ur not giving me time,but actually I used to give more preference to him.but I want to change as he is only for me.what I should do???? I m also feeling depressed by thinking of this....plz anyone give me a gud suggestion....
Anyway, I am living far from him, there are many moutains, and rivers. I am busy with myself, sometimes he asks why you don't text me or call me, he worries. Good tips!
Loved this video! So true. Thank you for making this for us! But next time or sometime can you please say “come on ladies”!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂👏👏👏👏 makes me laugh so much when you say that to us all!
So I withheld sex because I informed him I don't sleep with anyone not my boyfriend. He told me he respected that and then started messaging other girls on the dating app. Guess he thought he could do better 🤣🤣
Your video teach me so much. I love it Alex....you know what a surprise i got from her .after 6 months he came to me telling me he miss so much...then i sad ok.. .nvr talk to much. Bcs what i noticed he wants me help him with finance wich i can't Alex.
No man miss me so I don’t miss anyone!!! Nearly 4 years single n am happy “ I got no feelings for any man at this point in life!! I came alone in this world n I will die alone..
All this things are opposite, Love is magic its depends on the two person how their handle thier relationship. We have all different way to love someone. Dont worry i will subcribe in your channel. Sir this is just my opinion. 😍😍😍
I love your video! I have a problem just like this, we were dating without sex amd finally we did it but after dating a month he just ignoring me , he has a frkend that came around that time she is from spain and he is just dating with her and not even text me, everything was soo good with him, he texted me all the time and i want him back, i dont know what to do, help
Fall back allllllll the way!!! You will always get a better view from there. Unfortunately his actions have shown you all you need to know. I know it hurts! But he hasn’t made you or your feelings a priority
In my earlier years, a guy I was talking to was ALWAYS online messaging on google hangouts and always giving me so much annoying, indecent attention. I didn't like it because he had nothing more to do. To me, he was not a special person at all.
why would you have to do all that for a man to miss you. if they love you you do not have to do a thing. in fact it should be a man who will do all those tricks to get a woman miss you. I just realized that.
Instead of running after a guy, use the time to build your self respect and self esteem. A confident and independent woman drives a man crazy.
Sandy Minta correct
Well said
Exactly
I,m with u
Confident and independent woman doesn't need a man 😄
Don't always give your man what he wants..he'll miss you terribly! excellent trick! 💞
3)Do not give him what he wants
2)Excitement
1)Distant
😂😂😂
The guy wanted sex for being in a relationship I didn't give him what he wanted and he left me
@@anurekhamukherjee9633so he is not serious guy
Absent makes the heart grow fonder
1. BE DISTANT. Focus on your life,let him do the first move.
2. EXCITEMENT. Create something different . Do new things, activities .
3. NO SEX ALL THE TIME 😂 See each other without going to bed. Dont give him what he wants. Let him crave.
Ur amazing Alex,thanks :)
Aries Gurl I do this naturally with my husband. I just enjoy my alone time 😹
Thank you for the tips summary 💓💓
I dnt agree with all these things on utube to make your ex come back or to make him miss u...u can do the world things they wont come back ....the man who love u will come by his own will stay in bad or good with u....i think woman first of all should make herself stable n make herself busy dnt feel too much love for anyone...love hirt us lots....well my experience n opinion take it or leave it ❤
Zahira Abdool Hey, I totally hear you and feel you on this one. Know that we have all been there. But if you approach this differently, you might perhaps see that whilst your ex isn't apt to do those things (because some men, and even some women for that matter, are on a whole different, not to say lower, level), there are plenty of other men (and women) who either already have these aptitudes or *CAN* work towards them. Just approach it from a place where you see your ex as possibly not being able to be this way (for now.. or maybe never) as opposed to all men are like your ex. They aren't ! That's giving your ex the power to make you feel and think this way! All the best :) .
@@mixcaramelwithzahii7353 I completely agree with you.. You do hell lot of things they won't return or they won't stay.. It's like making fun of yourself
Main idea is only to better ourselves and not run after guys as guys who love you wont leave you and the fake ones will play distant and coming back mind games and waste your time.correct person dont need space or distance if they love you they want more of you and if they aren't interested they will play distance and space mind games to waste our time and emotions.
This video gives me strength to stay strong and distant and let him come to me !!!
I believe that when u are in a relationship, if a man really loves u he will miss u no matter what.
Generally, I believe you are right! But people who love each other can still need some space from one another. I think that the number one thing that makes me miss my wife is when she is busy doing her thing! What do you think?
Even if you’re always available, at his heels , chasing after him? Instead of being sexy and having things to do and goals . You live in la la land. There’s no such thing as a man will be excited for you when you’re not being exciting and him having to seek after you.
@@ShlomoJesmerRelationshipCoach men fall in love in absence . Men need to miss a woman and she needs to be away doing something other than obsessing over him.
@@gabrielamartinyuk9894 What about if he forgets & moves on in the absence.? His feelings could diminsh within time & then go look for someone else who he finds more interesting. Never know. They can change their mind in a moment..don' t like that part..
Gg
I told myself that I will never give my heart to anyone. There is a man in my life who is chasing me. The more I don't have time for him, the more he is chasing.
Godly man we need, and we pray that God send us a godly man.
It is very important for a woman that she should be passionate,creative and confident, fun loving.She must value herself.
Your so right .. 🧚♀️
so better to be single. nobody will torture your emotions...
Thats right
True ☺️
Haha so true..
Gladys Ordez very true
Hahahaha exactly
Just do you ladies the interested men will persue you no matter what😉💯
Thank you for this. I am creating so much distance because he is not being consistent nor considerate. So, I spoke my peace one last time and moved on.
Thank you for this
Thank u so.much have shown videos quitei interested.
Me too....
These are the right things I am doing with my man. And I think it's working. Just enjoying time together it's not about sex everytime but having good time, getting to know each other.
Thank you Alex For reminding us Girls that we have the power. You are a Real Man
If a man love u he will automatically miss u but if he is not, how much u give or how much u care he will find an excuse to ignore you
We Value what we dont have.
This is so true! I have been in a relationship for 8 years and I have started doing this
U have changed my life, to pay sex the man does not love you he continues say the way u give him u give others thxs for uploading any person watching make sure give thumb
We need mature relationship, more patience understanding and caring each other, cultivate the relation.
If you give too much you start getting too little :)
Correct
Love this. Have to remind myself everyday
Also true....
Sure
So bad... I gave too much unfortunately
Woman have got a power within us. We have to learn how to use it corectly specifically when we are with our man!
I was listen to ur video my daughther is 7 years old and she dosent understand english.. she cames to me and she lough ... she said mum about what is he talking .... i said why? She said he is so in action .. i think he talks about something very important ..... it was so sweet . Thanks Alex ur videos are the best.
You should do a video on distance relationship. What to do when you break up and can't stop thinking about him.
Thank you Alex, because of you, my man started to chase me and put me on pedestal now 😍
Alex, thanks alot. I have been lately following all of your tips and everything. It really worked well with my relationship. Its totally worth the wait .
Thank you Alex for the video, your videos are simple, compact (not talk too much like the other motivator) straight to the meaning and very useful. Cheers 🥂
My guy is always after me...I love it so much...
It's absolutely true lolol. Here's the flip side, I do all these things easily with the men I don't really like lol and they are smitttteeennnnnnnnn and desperate to be with me or just spend some time with me. The ones I like, I have to make the effort to be distant lol. The other two I can manage pretty well but the distance one I'm trying to do and I've found that I'm not as restless/missing him as much when I'm focused on my own things in my life!
Thanks for encouraging tips.. I'm a single parent my children finished college..I am happy being single mom..But if God give me a chance to meet a good guy it's a blessing to me...
All the best
Tip no 3..,is so real..I have done this myself n the results are perfect
Mary Muthoga me too and his crazy In love with me 😘
Alway works. I ignore them or stay away and they alway come back. The recent one was weird before I went on 3 week vacation !, saw me back at work and tried to talk to me 2 times today. I told you about him… until he comes around and stable and does the work I’ll speak yo him
Mr.Alex...you are one of the best expert man in a world about love..you are the best 😘
Love you 💞
I accept and admit that being single for many years is most beautiful happened in my life 😊😊..
Single life...awesome life...no boys in life wow life😂😂😂❤❤❤
😂
😄😄😄😄😄💖💖💖💖
It sounds like you dated a bunch of jerks. My wife and I are very happy! :)
Shlomo Jesmer Is it ok when he call you and you talk for along time but like two days no more here from him ...is ok when he never say Even good morning ...no good night ...please tell me
No them fuckboys,hydrated, glowing winning sis doing good
I can see your sincerity in every word ,and it's also show on your face as well.
Thank you for being here.
Loving and respecting myself that's what I learned from you. Thank you so much❤. From Philippines😇
You are so welcome!
I’m putting myself on the pedestal from now on. Let’s see how it works 🤞🏼merci Alex!
Good for you! Be proud of yourself and wait for the right man to come along. Don't settle for second best.
me too
Did it work?
It works a lot....dear Sir Alex, how amazing coach you are, thanks Lord for giving you as the powerful talent to help us,☺️👍🥰 be blessed by Lord
Thanks God,and i did all these things to my bf..he is in new york,and am in amman..and we are now 8yrs..
What if he only like sex before getting into real relationship? Men focus on sex not on commitment.
it's true
I wish all the men would understand what we women want ,the way u do,coz once married even though a love marriage, the romantic phase is over.Thanks 👍👍👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏🙏
You are crazy, man. I love you because you made me to change my life with your videos!
Amazing thank you!
i want the same thing to happen to me
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert hi watching from hk
Alex you are my favourite relationship coach.. 🌷
Love from Mauritius ❤❤
I believe you Alex you're always on point. I am going to try it. Time to be with me for a while🌞
Because of the way he acted I lost love for him. I want to move on .. but he still bothers me.. I don’t want him anymore.. because of how he had been..
I don’t think that is selfish. I need to take care of myself to live in this world 🌎 and be around others.
Can I ask Alex what do you think about this..
Yes you are very correct,im happy of my life having a nice guy with me now,its so nice to be loved,i always tell to him. Wait and more he become in love with me
Thank you so much for watching Caroline!
www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
Awesome! 💖 Alex I teach French and English for midschool. My advice to you: never never change your accent... it's unique ❤ never never take extra English Lessons 😊
You can never really change your accent unless your faking it
@@misskia2582 with elocution yes you can.
True.. tips#1..kerp destance for him to miss you...
Agreed tips #2..also..
Gosh..tios #3...awesome..dont guve those what he wsnt in anytime or everyday.. keep saying no..man will vomet us after they swallow us that much...
Greet job sir.thank you for advise..
Thank you so much Alex,I totally agree with you, it may sound crazy but it really works!
I am older than my man whom i love but we have not seen or met yet but we talk about love and he is doing the first move to reach me,
When a man really love you he will miss you every time, how about marriage if we need distance just for make him miss us..
even me the same I think
Ask me oooooh?
Same
You are the best. I started to exercise all your tips. And then boom it works.. thank you very much 💕😌
So glad!
Alex thank you for this advice now i open my eyes..and why my bf egnore me evrytime..bcos i always him 24/7 in call ..im a longdistance relationship.im first always to do something communication..but im not happy bcos he always egnore me....im not him priority ..just like im.option ..bcos maybe om.always there
I learned some good advice here today I will start doing it immediately
You are 100 %right. What about those men who don't express their feelings . Even if they they miss us?
Naushaba Saleem ok
I also need this answer
I have the same qn.. how to deal with someone who don't express their feelings at all? and also how to tackle a Mamma's boy..
@@srijani11tackle the mama
Ur right..ive done that to my husband...those tips...its effective..still doing it....have a nice day....
l don't know how l landed here, nice one.watching from Africa
Same 😂😂😂
My bf is changed....he is not as b4 ..and also he used to chat with most of the girls.when I used to ask him he says as ur not giving me time,but actually I used to give more preference to him.but I want to change as he is only for me.what I should do???? I m also feeling depressed by thinking of this....plz anyone give me a gud suggestion....
When ur distance he will find other woman.efff
Windy Ali yes, the nearest is the sweetest.
Yeah💔😭😭😭
Windy Ali
Right
More than likely. Then he doesn't deserve us. We become the winner cos if that's all he wants there is our answer. We walk away with self respect.
😪😪😪
So dont give him what he wants...thats d whole story♥️thanxx alex luv from pakistan
You earned a new subscriber.. this video deserves it.. ❤ and I love the way you pronounce the word *tip* 🙈
Anyway, I am living far from him, there are many moutains, and rivers. I am busy with myself, sometimes he asks why you don't text me or call me, he worries. Good tips!
Thank you so much Alex for all your encouraging words and motivation,👍👌
I will do it to him. Need your support Alex!
Thank you for your support.
Loved this video! So true. Thank you for making this for us! But next time or sometime can you please say “come on ladies”!!!!
😂😂😂😂😂👏👏👏👏 makes me laugh so much when you say that to us all!
Wahaha.. funny you are.. what us if we do🤗🤗
😆 come on ladies. He is funny… yesh and yet passionate…
Hi am fayona from Jamaica i enjoy listening to your comments on relationships
Thank you so much for watching!
You can help me find my forever I been alone too long my husband passed away is there a man for me out there sincere with gentle heart true love .
Am here ,+254
Hope and pray God blesses you with a good person. Sorry to hear about your loss x
Best relationship channel so far ❤
I love listening you ...
Omg such a great accent 😍
😊 thank you
Why he speaks,, like this isn't he American??🤔🤦♀️love u from nepal if I too speak English how its gonna sound 🤦♀️🙈🙉🙉
Great advice! Now I know why my ex and I broke up. It makes sense. We were great for 3 month and then it went south. We end up breaking up.
So I withheld sex because I informed him I don't sleep with anyone not my boyfriend. He told me he respected that and then started messaging other girls on the dating app. Guess he thought he could do better 🤣🤣
😂😂😂 he probably thought u were indirectly asking him to make u his girlfriend. All the same just cut your losses. Let him go stress another girl
Powerful wise words !thanx alot Sir!u are teaching me a big lesson 👍
Your video teach me so much. I love it Alex....you know what a surprise i got from her .after 6 months he came to me telling me he miss so much...then i sad ok.. .nvr talk to much. Bcs what i noticed he wants me help him with finance wich i can't Alex.
psychological speaking I agree with you.
Thank you mister Alex.... From Sri Lanka. Very understanding your English & advices. Superb !!!!
But u are True. All ur words are 100% correct.
You've enlightened my mind.Thank you so much
No man miss me so I don’t miss anyone!!! Nearly 4 years single n am happy “ I got no feelings for any man at this point in life!! I came alone in this world n I will die alone..
Awww. ..I hope you meet someone special real soon xx
Vry soon Iam starting to be like u, these things of love can give u headache
Sometimes! I think it is better to feel that way!! No men!! Don't get hurt!
its really much relating on my situation ,haha ,got no man in my life
Same here😭
Yap mr alex,if miss him i msg him that i miss him.after that i make my self busy then he will msg me yeeeee!!!!
It is true
Now, I'm not there with him, I will not text him for a week
Better to be kind and respect are self be happy. Thank you this especial tips to learn better
You are so welcome!
Can you do another video on Long Distance Relationship?
Very true never be a priority
All this things are opposite,
Love is magic its depends on the two person how their handle thier relationship. We have all different way to love someone. Dont worry i will subcribe in your channel. Sir this is just my opinion. 😍😍😍
If u keep doing this he will find someone else coz he will think u don't consider him
Doing some self building to focus on me thanks Alex I love your advice
I love your video! I have a problem just like this, we were dating without sex amd finally we did it but after dating a month he just ignoring me , he has a frkend that came around that time she is from spain and he is just dating with her and not even text me, everything was soo good with him, he texted me all the time and i want him back, i dont know what to do, help
Fall back allllllll the way!!! You will always get a better view from there. Unfortunately his actions have shown you all you need to know. I know it hurts! But he hasn’t made you or your feelings a priority
In my earlier years, a guy I was talking to was ALWAYS online messaging on google hangouts and always giving me so much annoying, indecent attention. I didn't like it because he had nothing more to do. To me, he was not a special person at all.
My aunt said the same thing about sex many years ago. She said too much sex gets a guy bored of you.
First time watching your channel
I like it and the way you speak your English 😘
I will try your advice...I hope I'm gonna meet my loveones soon.. thanks!!
You are the best in all coaches I 've seen thank you Mr Alex
Alex u r so sweet 😅💖thank you!🙏🏻
I am from the Philippines , I love your advice about relationships thanks a lot. 😊
You are so welcome!
why would you have to do all that for a man to miss you. if they love you you do not have to do a thing. in fact it should be a man who will do all those tricks to get a woman miss you. I just realized that.
Hahaha. My boyfriend TRIED not having sex for nearly 3 weeks. He saw that I was not bothered. Next!!😅😂
Hello from 🇸🇪Thank you for your Advice Alex🙏I’ll do it
This really helps a lot! Thank you Alex. 😜
Yes you are right I also think like that wht u say I'm monalisha from India 🇮🇳. Thanks
I'm subscribing because I like your accent. It made me smile.. ALSO I'd like to learn about your chips 😉 chips 1 and so on.. 😊
A haha