Why Most Relationships Fail Without Overcoming Your Past | Dr. Gabor Maté

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  • @KranthiKumar-e3s
    @KranthiKumar-e3s 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The past showsup in the present all the time is spot on.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Absolutely! Our past experiences definitely shape how we navigate our present relationships. It's important to acknowledge and work through them.

  • @PERSONALACCOUNT11122
    @PERSONALACCOUNT11122 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Love and Peace to you and your family Dr Gabor. ❤ I love all your teachings. Thankyou.

  • @yourinnerchildmatters
    @yourinnerchildmatters  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Dr. Gabor Maté’s message about commitment and healing in relationships really resonated to me. He talks about how our past, especially childhood experiences, can affect the way we connect with others today. It’s eye-opening to think about how fear, trust, and old wounds shape our ability to truly love and commit.
    ❤Please take a few minutes to listen to his insights-you might see yourself or someone you love in his words. Have you experienced any similar challenges with commitment or trust? What did you do to overcome it? Share your thoughts and let’s support each other on this journey to better, more loving relationships. #DrGaborMaté, #CommitmentIssues, #HealingRelationships, #OvercomingTrauma, #RelationshipAdvice, #MentalHealth, #TrueConnection, #LoveAndTrust

    • @AspieGamer1986
      @AspieGamer1986 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm 38. What do I have to say of my life in this corrupt world. I experienced childhood trauma early on along with many years of abuse. I'm avoidant attachment while on the Autism spectrum. Tell me what does the world gain when you neurotypical humans always run this world your way without any consideration for people socially different than you. My apologies for getting a bit heated as someone on the Autism spectrum. I know what it's like to be ignored and disrespected by others. It's had me jaded. I've lived out of my home state for 7 years and I've never made much in the means of having friends.

  • @ianmack5068
    @ianmack5068 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you for the insights ❤ Have a blessed Sunday 🙏

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I'm glad you found the insights helpful! Wishing you a wonderful and blessed Sunday too!

  • @ianmack5068
    @ianmack5068 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Great topic and beneficial information. This channel has helped me learn many ideas

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you so much for your kind words! It really means a lot to know that the content is making a positive impact. bless you!

  • @petersouza6554
    @petersouza6554 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Re;ationship incredible and necessary ipprtunity tp heal the past, if you both do the work, courage

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely! Healing takes effort from both sides, but it's so rewarding when you put in the work together.

  • @AspieGamer1986
    @AspieGamer1986 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I experienced childhood trauma at an early age. Toddler years, literally. Then I went through many years of abuse leading up to recent years. I'm also the Avoidant attachment style as well while lastly adding the biggest insult to my life being on the Autism spectrum. All this and you have a recipe for disaster which is me.
    I'm 38 I don't know of love. It doesn't exist in my life. I haven't dated a woman since I was 23. I haven't even lived and dont know what to make of anything. The woman i did love will never talk to me, though i never got to tell her what i know now. I never got to tell her of all the pain and abuse ive endured and dealt with over many years of my life. I'm almost 40 and my life is going nowhere.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for sharing your story-it takes so much strength and courage to open up like this. I’m deeply sorry to hear about the pain and challenges you’ve faced throughout your life. You’ve been through so much, and it’s completely understandable to feel the weight of it all. Please know that your experiences and feelings are valid, and you are not alone. Many people are walking similar paths, trying to heal from childhood trauma, navigate attachment struggles, or find their place in the world. It might feel overwhelming, but healing is possible, even after many years of pain. If you haven’t already, consider reaching out to a therapist or counselor who specializes in trauma and attachment styles. Sometimes, having someone guide us through the process of understanding and healing can open up new doors we didn’t know were there. You deserve love, peace, and happiness-even if it doesn’t feel that way right now. Healing takes time, and small steps forward are still steps forward. Keep going, even when it’s hard. You are more resilient and worthy than you might believe right now.Sending you strength and support, happy new year

  • @monaasmr2936
    @monaasmr2936 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I too have intermediate explosive disorder😢😢

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for sharing your experience! It's always helpful to see others opening up about similar challenges.

  • @Happy-tc2jt
    @Happy-tc2jt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @gaiasgrowschool3592
    @gaiasgrowschool3592 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

  • @Nonfiction.Reader
    @Nonfiction.Reader 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    👏🎯

  • @sheradenart7907
    @sheradenart7907 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    your camera could use a cleaning, so much lint.

  • @415423591
    @415423591 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm very interest in Gabor's words, but the b-roll can get pretty cringe.