Ausi Phetola is always on point😭😭❤️😍 most women after getting the rock on the finger are just like "I have no one to impress" mara yena, wow🏆🏆❤️😍 I hope I have the same motivation after I get married, that's if I do😂😂
Nothing frustrates me like an undecided guy. I consciously choose to be 'lonely' because I know my worth. As hard as it is at times, I'm not playing games.
Just broke up an unlabelled relationship 😂. And I feel so peaceful because really, I deserve better. He's not a bad person but I deserve way better. Thank you Abuti Lerato le Aus Phetola. Turning 25 on the 24 and it's great to just go for what I deserve nje with this new age. ❤ You two are much appreciated 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
This came at the right time... I'm going thru "I met this guy I really like a lot and I want things to be serious between us" but the problem is he doesn't call me, I'm always the one initiating conversations and when he talks to me, he doesn't even give me his undivided attention, sometimes I feel like I'm just pushing a door he is not even ready to open to let me in and it's so annoying and draining.
As a young man your conversations challenge me so much and they expose so many of my flaws and I can't help it but change. One of the hardest pills to swallow as a guy is how so many decisions we make are soo based on our egos, and we're always seeking to redeem or inflate our egos through our partners, which is unhealthy. Thank you so much guys for this conversation❤
I love what you said about ending things Mr Makhs... Ladied please follow that advice. When I met my husband, he told me he had just gotten out of a hectic relationship and he felt he wasn't ready for a relationship. I remember having a conversation with him with my mind and not heart. I told him I understand you are not ready, but I am and I want serious. So take all the time you need but I am not going to wait for you cause I know what I want. You can check me when you are ready, if im still available we will take it from there but I am not waiting. Nigga came correct and gave me what I wanted, 3 years later we married. It wasn't easy to put my foot down like that but I am glad I did.
best best reminds me of Steve Harvey and his now wife , he was still playing around Marjorie (his wife ) walked out on him just after hearing him on a call with another girl and she just said call me when you ready to have some special and Steve came correct I guess sometimes you have to put your foot down
I needed that soo much..."sometimes its not about you" sometimes there is nothing you could do to save a relationship because you're probably not even the problem nor the one with issues. For the longest time I've been holding on a relationship... yes because I loved him but probably I also stayed more because he ticked every box . I also wanted this to work, I desperately wanted it to work so much that I ignored ALL the red flags. Never ignore the red flags😑
Such a timely conversation. I needed to hear this, even in my single season. Recovering from being with an undecided man, we need to talk about the after effects of being with someone who is insecure and how hard it is to understand that the problem is not with you as the partner but the actual person himself. It’s as though the insecurities rub off on you, where you start to question why you were/are “not enough” to be taken seriously. Necessary conversation. Thank you Guys!♥️
🕯 🕯 🕯 For God to bless me and all other single ladies that know their worth with a respectable and man of honor like Mr Makhs🙏 I love this duo please!!
Lovely installment guys thank you. I'm a super fan of #TheMakhs In your closing statement Lerato mentioned that it's lonely at the top and only the 1s that know their story will approach you. Like you've been saying Mr Makh, dating in 2022 has become tricky. Someone will approach you as a challenge to themselves, to prove that they can melt even the hardest hearts. Not because they want a good woman but because they want to break her confidence to prove they've still got game.
DreamTeam, this has been a very important conversation you've had. Thank you for sharing this with us. As a young man, a topic like this really makes me think about what I need to work on with regards to courtship and relationships as a whole. May God continue to Bless Your Marriage and Your Family. One Love 🙏🏾✨️
People have made it seem so illegal to reside kwa "know your worth" when in actual it is better to be at peace until such time there is a person who wants to reside with you kwa "know your worth" ...
Hello DreamTeam 🥰🥰🥰🥰 Today I was actually thinking to myself we need The Makhs merchandise. The way I would love to rock a T-shirt with your print on it 🔥🔥🔥 Anyway, beautiful instalment.
The friends part: Not everyone has the a supportive circle. I generally keep away things very "surface-y" with my friends & family. I'm a closed person. S I wouldn't share someone/thing I feel vulnerable about to my friends & family.
Enjoy this establishment thank guys🤗, indeed she's sooo beautiful.. Yeah ne, I'm 33 years, the pool is getting smaller.. I love the point you just made in closing, it's worth it ♥️👌
💫🤍 I recently discovered your channel and am overwhelmed at how much catching up I have to do. I really loved the honesty and conversation in this particular video and it's safe to say I am here to stay. As a young lady who believes in value and intent whilst manoeuvring her twenties, being exposed to such a platform/channel honestly feels like a blessing. Having a proper female, male and young couple's perspective all in one.
"She ticked a lot of boxes, but my heart wasn't there," Yoh, yeah, neh, I love this. It's possible to tick a lot of boxes, and the dude doesn't love you. Nothing is wrong with you. Dude just dnt love you. Men know what they want! ALWAYS ❤️
What happens if a lady is the one that shot her shot within the DMs? Does she now have to do all the things call’s texts…? Because ke 2022 anyone is now allowed to say hey uphi😂😂 next thing ziyakhala ku mjolo land they were ok going ahead with the first step now they need moguy to take over but hai he won’t because Mogurl did the honours 😩
I'm the girl Lerato is talking about at 15 minutes in somebody's life, and it hurts like hell, I'd never wish this on my worst enemy, and it's hard to not feel like something is wrong with me yk. I wish to find peace at the end of all this.
Now this fam!!! This was...🔥 couldn't be more relatable! 'Cause a dintshe there by di relationship tsa this era weeeeh 😪 But in the words of mr Makhs "we stay up there " 'Twas 2 real in here!!!🗣❤❤❤
The breadcrumbing could also be because the person feels bad for rejecting you. So they don't pursue you but are open to you when you reach out because they dont want to be rude. I've done it and working on openly rejecting nice people
" I realised later that I was insecure and in a relationship on convenience" Lerato @15:00-16:03 😥😥😥 this took me back to years back with my Ex when I had to look in the mirrow and admit to myself that this man you made this precious baby with never loved you Keo , you were convenience ant that is that, period .
"When a man loves you you will know when he doesn't you will be confused." This is my mantra!
To be honest I'm really shedding tears because this is just a harsh truth I wasn't ready to hear🥺😭
Xolo babe but its the truth. Don't allow men that don't deserve you dribble you. Good men still exist
Ausi Phetola is always on point😭😭❤️😍 most women after getting the rock on the finger are just like "I have no one to impress" mara yena, wow🏆🏆❤️😍 I hope I have the same motivation after I get married, that's if I do😂😂
Sooo true I wanna be phetola when I grow up by the way I'm 23🤣🤣🤣
Very true, I've never seen ausi Pheto a le feela(simple if I may put it). She's always on point rocking it. Re kopa ditip ausi @phetola
@@MrsTay we need those tips tlhe.....she is honestly always so put together
“No person is that busy” and that is the gospel👌🏾
Lerato your empathy is so remarkable. Your ability to understand things out of your context is amazing. Lovely instalment Phetola 🙌🏽❤️
So remarkable. They are amazing.
Wait, did I just see abuti Lerato blush after you said "my hubby"? I can't 🥺
Nothing frustrates me like an undecided guy. I consciously choose to be 'lonely' because I know my worth. As hard as it is at times, I'm not playing games.
That's the def of self respect
Thank you.. me right there
Just broke up an unlabelled relationship 😂. And I feel so peaceful because really, I deserve better. He's not a bad person but I deserve way better.
Thank you Abuti Lerato le Aus Phetola. Turning 25 on the 24 and it's great to just go for what I deserve nje with this new age. ❤
You two are much appreciated 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
Red flags, red flags. Don't ignore the promptings of the Holy Spirit. I always say "Ask for the vision from the get go."
The Great I AM loves you
People make time for what’s important in their lives! That’s just it! ❤
That Futsikie for you! You had to say this............this is what you say always!
This came at the right time... I'm going thru "I met this guy I really like a lot and I want things to be serious between us" but the problem is he doesn't call me, I'm always the one initiating conversations and when he talks to me, he doesn't even give me his undivided attention, sometimes I feel like I'm just pushing a door he is not even ready to open to let me in and it's so annoying and draining.
Block and move on.
I am sorry babes, it seems as if the efforts are not being reciprocated, let it go.
sorry sis......but maybe you need to leave him and pray for a partner
@@nozimbalindlovu105 I think so too plus all my relationships don't even last
@@Goodness222 Hey Goodness, can you please give me your number?
I'd like to get to know you.
As a young man your conversations challenge me so much and they expose so many of my flaws and I can't help it but change.
One of the hardest pills to swallow as a guy is how so many decisions we make are soo based on our egos, and we're always seeking to redeem or inflate our egos through our partners, which is unhealthy.
Thank you so much guys for this conversation❤
I love this.
👏🏼👏🏼
Wow
This instalment makes me so nervous. I just started watching and I'm afraid of what will be said😭😭
Hahahha I know the feeling 😂
I love what you said about ending things Mr Makhs...
Ladied please follow that advice. When I met my husband, he told me he had just gotten out of a hectic relationship and he felt he wasn't ready for a relationship.
I remember having a conversation with him with my mind and not heart. I told him I understand you are not ready, but I am and I want serious. So take all the time you need but I am not going to wait for you cause I know what I want. You can check me when you are ready, if im still available we will take it from there but I am not waiting.
Nigga came correct and gave me what I wanted, 3 years later we married.
It wasn't easy to put my foot down like that but I am glad I did.
best best reminds me of Steve Harvey and his now wife , he was still playing around Marjorie (his wife ) walked out on him just after hearing him on a call with another girl and she just said call me when you ready to have some special and Steve came correct I guess sometimes you have to put your foot down
Was avoiding this podcast cause I was afraid of getting triggered, but honestly it was good hear these things I tolerated in my past relationships.
watched and 10min in I switched if off... But I'm glad I finished it. Healing to you and everyone ❤🩹
honestly same here , i saved it but it took me some time to watch but i liked it
I needed that soo much..."sometimes its not about you" sometimes there is nothing you could do to save a relationship because you're probably not even the problem nor the one with issues. For the longest time I've been holding on a relationship... yes because I loved him but probably I also stayed more because he ticked every box . I also wanted this to work, I desperately wanted it to work so much that I ignored ALL the red flags. Never ignore the red flags😑
Awesome content . You don't just throw sentences and stuff , you really apply yourselves into every installment . Excellence is the word 🙌
Really needed to hear this. What a perfect timing!!!
I Already Feel Attacked By The Title Nje🙃
Kwaaaaa
The quality of this video, wow!
Such a timely conversation. I needed to hear this, even in my single season. Recovering from being with an undecided man, we need to talk about the after effects of being with someone who is insecure and how hard it is to understand that the problem is not with you as the partner but the actual person himself. It’s as though the insecurities rub off on you, where you start to question why you were/are “not enough” to be taken seriously.
Necessary conversation. Thank you Guys!♥️
🕯 🕯 🕯
For God to bless me and all other single ladies that know their worth with a respectable and man of honor like Mr Makhs🙏
I love this duo please!!
Lovely installment guys thank you. I'm a super fan of #TheMakhs
In your closing statement Lerato mentioned that it's lonely at the top and only the 1s that know their story will approach you. Like you've been saying Mr Makh, dating in 2022 has become tricky. Someone will approach you as a challenge to themselves, to prove that they can melt even the hardest hearts. Not because they want a good woman but because they want to break her confidence to prove they've still got game.
The relationship of convenience topic cuts deep! Very relatable. 😢
DreamTeam, this has been a very important conversation you've had. Thank you for sharing this with us. As a young man, a topic like this really makes me think about what I need to work on with regards to courtship and relationships as a whole.
May God continue to Bless Your Marriage and Your Family.
One Love 🙏🏾✨️
Nobody has time but they make time for things that are important 👌
Thanks so much for always sharing authentic nuggets
When I get a notification of a new installment 🥰🥰 .. my heart really jumps for joy. Love you guys so much 🥺❤️
Oh my word! The Makhs... I'm inlove!
1.He never contact me first
People have made it seem so illegal to reside kwa "know your worth" when in actual it is better to be at peace until such time there is a person who wants to reside with you kwa "know your worth" ...
Dream Team!!!! I'm here for the wisdom😘
This episode had me so emotional 😢. Thank you for sharing this with us. You're a beautiful couple
Hello DreamTeam 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Today I was actually thinking to myself we need The Makhs merchandise. The way I would love to rock a T-shirt with your print on it 🔥🔥🔥
Anyway, beautiful instalment.
Always coming with the truth bombs!!! Love you so much. Pheto looks amazing!
You both looking good ❤️
Also love your phone cover Mrs Makhs🤭♥️
Absolutely love you guys. God continue to pour over your lives. Thank you for these conversations and sharing the truth 🌻.
You came up in my suggestions. Had to subscribe. Love your vibe. God bless guys and thanks for sharing!❤️🙏🏾
The friends part: Not everyone has the a supportive circle. I generally keep away things very "surface-y" with my friends & family. I'm a closed person. S I wouldn't share someone/thing I feel vulnerable about to my friends & family.
The ending Mr Makhs? Come on!! 🔥🔥🔥
This was everything 🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
It’s actually my first watching you guys.
This video help me put some perspective in my situation. And honestly I needed this.
Liked before I even watched💕
Enjoy this establishment thank guys🤗, indeed she's sooo beautiful.. Yeah ne, I'm 33 years, the pool is getting smaller.. I love the point you just made in closing, it's worth it ♥️👌
Thank you for this. It is surely lonely at the top but I know what I want and I wont settle for anything less. Im a 36yr old mother of a 13year old.
Lovely installment fam😻❤!
💫🤍 I recently discovered your channel and am overwhelmed at how much catching up I have to do. I really loved the honesty and conversation in this particular video and it's safe to say I am here to stay. As a young lady who believes in value and intent whilst manoeuvring her twenties, being exposed to such a platform/channel honestly feels like a blessing. Having a proper female, male and young couple's perspective all in one.
And I made a permanent decision to stay away from relationships 😭😹
Kenyans 🇰🇪in the house...Lerato looks a bit like Joho 001 in this installment, no?😅
Thank you so much for this conversation. You guys articulate it very well.
I loved this installment, thank you!
I Love this, you guys are the light of this generation ❤
This video was so so good...Looooved it.Thank you to the Makhs❤❤❤
"She ticked a lot of boxes, but my heart wasn't there," Yoh, yeah, neh, I love this. It's possible to tick a lot of boxes, and the dude doesn't love you. Nothing is wrong with you. Dude just dnt love you. Men know what they want! ALWAYS ❤️
What happens if a lady is the one that shot her shot within the DMs? Does she now have to do all the things call’s texts…? Because ke 2022 anyone is now allowed to say hey uphi😂😂 next thing ziyakhala ku mjolo land they were ok going ahead with the first step now they need moguy to take over but hai he won’t because Mogurl did the honours 😩
To timeless conversations, thank you for serving us well on 2022, I am honoured to be part of the dream team❤️❤️❤️
Lovely installment, stay at the top 😇
Hey hey.....1st comment? Excited to be here
Heeelllloooo!!!♥️♥️♥️
Sesi Phetola's beauty😍😍my goodness!!
Mabakoena ke chipi lonaaa🔥😍
Blessed by this.Thank you so much.
I'm the girl Lerato is talking about at 15 minutes in somebody's life, and it hurts like hell, I'd never wish this on my worst enemy, and it's hard to not feel like something is wrong with me yk.
I wish to find peace at the end of all this.
Now this fam!!! This was...🔥 couldn't be more relatable! 'Cause a dintshe there by di relationship tsa this era weeeeh 😪
But in the words of mr Makhs "we stay up there "
'Twas 2 real in here!!!🗣❤❤❤
Well said .I'm introspecting myself
So good. But can someone please list it out. I’ve rewatched but I’m missing a few
Loved this! Staying at the top!!!!
The breadcrumbing could also be because the person feels bad for rejecting you. So they don't pursue you but are open to you when you reach out because they dont want to be rude. I've done it and working on openly rejecting nice people
It's nice to be here ❣❣❤
I love you guys❤️.
This was truly therapeutic for me. Thank you thank you wow 🙏🏽
I always enjoy your conversations. I love you guys
Hello dream team, could you guys make a video on if you think the church has idolised marriage or rather Christians in general
This is so good!!!💯
Stay at the top!
Loneliness or not. Stay at the top
What a lovely installment.
#DreamTeam
I really loved this! Thank you!
That was good y’all!!!
So true
You left the best friend stage Fam
This content I learnt a lot and took everything said into consideration
This was such a good video guys!
My newest fave channel💞
" I realised later that I was insecure and in a relationship on convenience" Lerato @15:00-16:03 😥😥😥 this took me back to years back with my Ex when I had to look in the mirrow and admit to myself that this man you made this precious baby with never loved you Keo , you were convenience ant that is that, period .
Phetolo you are 100% sis you need to release yourself, knowing we are enough, and thank you dream team
Yohhhh GEMS on GEMS .... enjoyed this
I'm so scared. Because I already have my insecurities
Phetola you look gorgeous 😍 💖
the quality of video🥳🥳❤️🔥❤️🔥 I love,love❤❤
DREAM TEAM HAS ARRIVED🖤🖤
Hi fam, so what if you spiritually connect with your partner but his signs or actions are not the same with the connectivity, i hope i make sense
Hmmmm this was deep👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾And so needed
Notification gang
Come all the way through! ♥️♥️♥️
Any kenyans here? 😀
♥️♥️♥️♥️
Yes..... always here
Always here.. Love, love, love the Makhs! 💝
Loved this🔥🔥🔥
On point, as always.
My favorites 🔥...... 🇿🇼🇿🇼
lol a tlise Dineo. not Phetola using my name as an example...😂❤
Loved it❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you... It's lonely at the top☺️👌
Ah guys 😍 I love this 👌
Am so happy that we have believers doing what you are doing guys keep it up you are changing lives in a godly way.
Stay At The Top!!!!!
Mara Ausi Phetho you already have such great teeth. Congratulations though.
"Ending" 🙈🙈 Sisengxakini