I think also “Not being able to say sorry” comes from brokenness, thus saying sorry in that instance feels like losing something rather than being empowered.
Phethola you married well la "Lerato". The man is wise. In fact you guys are so wise, I just love your humility and your sacrificial love for one another. Qhubekani, ngithi qhubekani. The Great I AM loves you
AH bra ya ka, yoooh🤦. O pressitse dibuttons tse di serious, yesses. Mo o bolela le nna straight. Sorry e boima my bra, ho nore sorry banna. Thankyou for changing my life by sharing this wisdom.I am commiting to practice apologizing verbally and learning to walk away. My life will never be the same👊👊. Definitely gonna share this with my friends and fam. #SERVANT LEADERSHIP #Character is KING #Young FAN.
"Your partner is on your side" mind blown! God is working wonders through the two of you. Guys please consider being mentors/mediators!? You might not see yourselves as such but I know i'm not the only one yerning for that from the two of you. Much love❤❤❤
Oh! I loved this! I don't know how many times I've listened to Lerato unpacking on what the real FEAR is! Because quite frankly I can't control my spouse's behavior...but what I've control of is ME! Very enlightening even to me as a woman...profound! THANK YOU
"I hear you" - hubby and I have also adopted this phrase when we "hear" but don't necessarily understand the other's view point - it helps us "chew over" an issue, search our hearts and when we address it later - the situation is usually diffused and we can then hear AND understand each other... Really goes a long way in adding good building blocks in this thing called marriage...
"Love is not easily angered (1 Corinthians 13:1-...)". Sometimes we get caught up in our offenses...but may the Holy Spirit help us to learn to communicate and overlook an offense (Proverbs 19:11) in love and through Grace and to humbly apologize even if one may not be wrong. Grace in love is the foundation 🙌
What Lerato is saying is very deep and true wisdom. It is not a man thing but a human thing and I believe we ladies are capable of also doing with the help of the Holy Spirit
This installment just made me think of a verse in the Bible that says man shall not live on bread alone. The wisdom here. God bless you. "Get over the offense to get perspective" says Lerato
Yhooo🤭🤭 guys I wish I could listen to you the whole day and I'm really glad to be part of this family especially now that I just got married. I'm learning a lot, this came at the right time ❤️❤️❤️.
This was so deep yhuu.When Mr Makhs said "Learn to say I'm sorry sincerely especially when you're right."😭❤thank you so much for this we truly learnt alot🤗
Ntate Makhetha....you hear the respect in my tone!!!it's because of what you said about letting fear take over us.i have, for a long time come to accept that love will never work for me because I have been done wrong. And I won't walk that path again
Aa 👏.. I stumbled upon your channel this past week, and I must say Uri I'm hooked.. I'm loving all your conversations, very profound. I'm here to stay shem
“Feelings are neither wrong nor right” -this really resonated with me so much even in friendship and family. I really need my feelings acknowledged, whether warranted or not, because they’re real. ❤️ Thank you so much! This is truly appreciated🙏 -Will be watching with my partner and sharing with friends because everyone needs these hacks 👏🏼🔥
Iv had my comment section open for a while....but I'm so taken by so much that is said....that I dont know which part to comment on... @Mr Lerato.....you have unpacked and taught me so much on how to deal with self #choosepeace❤
I really agree with tip2. For both platonic relationships & otherwise. Don't rush solutions. Allow yourself to be in better space, to step out of defence mode, to think about what your partner is saying
I love watching you two learn from each other. The idea of not going to bed angry fits here though. It doesn’t mean not to go to bed without resolution… it just means do not be angry. In other words, choose to still be loving and respectful of your partner before you go to bed, but also realizing that a conclusion doesn’t have to be reached tonight.
Hi Makhs. As I’m watching the last part and the last point that Lerato was making I started getting the feeling that sure these conversations that you are having with us must be very therapeutic for you both. Surely your relationship&/ marriage is getting stronger has entered a new dimension of greatness. I love this for you guys. God works in mysterious ways. You have these conversations with us (your audience in my mind) so give us content but I Imagine and I’m actually convinced that God is healing old wounds, strengthening your current position in your marriage ,blessing your family and moving in your marriage in a way that you never imagined. Thank you for sharing yourselves with us, Thank you for allowing God to minister to us through you. My prayer is for the enemy to fail dismally in all his attempts to attack marriages in this country because this what you are doing is God covering and protecting yours and other marriages in the world.
Oh well Mr Makhs all I can say today is definitely a better man than most. I take my hat off to you. Phetola you are a lucky lady. Loved this installment
These 2 installments are very powerful Thank you guys, and I love the real life examples you make, we all go through the same (1 year married )! Thanks again!❤️❤️
This episode was mind blowing and transforming guys. Its the "fear" neh..!! You are so right, letting it go helps us not get "stuck in offense". Thank you for taking time to share. Modimo a le hlohonolofatse
Sooo relatable!! Very insightful, thank you for being so vulnerable and helping so many couples out there. May God continue to bless you so that you may continue to be a blessing to others.
Our relationship is in grade 8🤣🤣🤣 I love it hear❤ this episode makes me think that life is not always black and white and we will forever learn each other as human beings hence we need the Holy Spirit always
But you know what would be nice sis Pheto le abuti Lerato, if you could list the points in the description because sometimes I'll want to unpack the things you said later or just remind myself what you said and then I need short notes. So it would be really lovely if you write those points you read from your phones in the description if that's possible
Now this is a good topic! One thing I've mastered in my relationship with my boyfriend is learning to apologize! Whether being wrong or right! After watching this I know now to walk away, even if I don't agree with something or just sleep on it. I like to talk about my problem right then and there, but you guys helped me to find a better way to communicate. My boyfriend and I are 3 months in and we feel like we've been together forever. We've learned what we like and don't like. We've learned so much through you guys and our own experiences. Thank you so much for the Love Trivia questions by the way! Him and I aren't perfect, but through prayer him and I are willing to keep going and stay strong!
🙈 love this, am told I love to argue. Isn't argument when two are Exchanging words. An I so don't want to go to bed nothing being sorted or not being said.. Tomorrow it's a new day new marcy. New day how do ask about yesterday
Wow 👌 👏 Mr M you are preaching right at me the whole part of not choosing peace, joy and forgiveness because they might hurt me again 😢 💔..I struggle with they I choose walking away instead but what am I going to do when I'm married. I need to ask God to help me. 🙏 thank you fam
This was wholesome as always loved it🔥👍🏾 we need a here is a thought and our love journey podcast 😌 this combination 🔥 I pray it happens some day #Dreamteam
So when you go away and think about it do you guys then act normal after the conversation or that tension energies are still around and you guys give each other space
It really depends on the heaviness of the situations. Sometimes we are able to carry on while we digest the issue. Other times we give each other space (but not for too long). We try not to drag issues.
If you can't beat them join them. I have also learnt how to sleep peacefully, and roles have reversed, he will do the tossing and turning till he wakes me up lol and I get the conversation I want out of him! Or he will start the conversation the next morning. Just sleep sis.
The portion of this conversation about the character of a person struck me. I appreciate these discussions...from Philadelphia, USA...shout me out!!!
I think also “Not being able to say sorry” comes from brokenness, thus saying sorry in that instance feels like losing something rather than being empowered.
This is so good! So profound!
"Being able to love even when THEY making it hard to love them." A real test.
I love how you always base it on yourselves and not make it a fairytale❤
“Our relationship is in grade 8” 😂😂
Phethola you married well la "Lerato". The man is wise. In fact you guys are so wise, I just love your humility and your sacrificial love for one another. Qhubekani, ngithi qhubekani.
The Great I AM loves you
AH bra ya ka, yoooh🤦. O pressitse dibuttons tse di serious, yesses. Mo o bolela le nna straight. Sorry e boima my bra, ho nore sorry banna. Thankyou for changing my life by sharing this wisdom.I am commiting to practice apologizing verbally and learning to walk away. My life will never be the same👊👊. Definitely gonna share this with my friends and fam.
#SERVANT LEADERSHIP
#Character is KING
#Young FAN.
"Your partner is on your side" mind blown! God is working wonders through the two of you.
Guys please consider being mentors/mediators!? You might not see yourselves as such but I know i'm not the only one yerning for that from the two of you. Much love❤❤❤
Oh! I loved this! I don't know how many times I've listened to Lerato unpacking on what the real FEAR is! Because quite frankly I can't control my spouse's behavior...but what I've control of is ME! Very enlightening even to me as a woman...profound! THANK YOU
Lerato and Phetola, you two are such a blessing. Thank you for letting God use you.
"Feelings are neither right or wrong." Deep stuff right there, gets one thinking....
Me Makhs dropping some pearls!🙌🏾🙌🏾♥️
"Your partner is on your side, Figure out what the real issue is" 📌🖤
"I hear you" - hubby and I have also adopted this phrase when we "hear" but don't necessarily understand the other's view point - it helps us "chew over" an issue, search our hearts and when we address it later - the situation is usually diffused and we can then hear AND understand each other... Really goes a long way in adding good building blocks in this thing called marriage...
"Love is not easily angered (1 Corinthians 13:1-...)". Sometimes we get caught up in our offenses...but may the Holy Spirit help us to learn to communicate and overlook an offense (Proverbs 19:11) in love and through Grace and to humbly apologize even if one may not be wrong. Grace in love is the foundation 🙌
Saze sasebenza kwa marriage sibancane. Thank you guys for being vulnerable with us
Mr Makhs is so wise yho 👌🏾🔥🙌🏾 Angifuni ungasho. Ke kopa a hoste "Men's conference" this year 🤧😅😂 His wisdom is needed 💯
What Lerato is saying is very deep and true wisdom. It is not a man thing but a human thing and I believe we ladies are capable of also doing with the help of the Holy Spirit
True hey
Hi consistent fam. Location SILAAAAAAAAH ☺️.
😂😂😂 Phetola "Yhoo babes I'm glad u speaking to men"
This was communication hacks for him but yhoo it spoke to me so much. Yazi ndiguqukile😅
Ow man. Communication is so key to get right to maintain a healthy relationship
This installment just made me think of a verse in the Bible that says man shall not live on bread alone. The wisdom here. God bless you. "Get over the offense to get perspective" says Lerato
You guys never cease to amaze me!! Yoh - so real and honest. Sooo many lessons in this conversation. Love you guys❤
Keep doing this, the impact is huge, more grace... Your vulnerability is on another level and makes your content relatable
Wow I’m loving this 🙌🏾🔥 so profound and fruitful
Fam!!♥️♥️♥️
PASS DA COLLECTION PLATE!!! Lerato gave us a WORD! 🔥🔥
Dear God bless Lerato&Phetulo 🙌.You guys are true servants....
Yhooo🤭🤭 guys I wish I could listen to you the whole day and I'm really glad to be part of this family especially now that I just got married. I'm learning a lot, this came at the right time ❤️❤️❤️.
"Get perspective to get over offense" 🙌🙌
This was so deep yhuu.When Mr Makhs said "Learn to say I'm sorry sincerely especially when you're right."😭❤thank you so much for this we truly learnt alot🤗
I get excited everytime I see a new upload🤗.
Totally agree Abuti Lerato, how we feel or how we even regulate our thoughts is also a choice.
The fear explaining part reminded me soo much of the bible verse "perfect love casts out fear"... fear prevents us from loving fully
Ntate Makhetha....you hear the respect in my tone!!!it's because of what you said about letting fear take over us.i have, for a long time come to accept that love will never work for me because I have been done wrong. And I won't walk that path again
OMG this installment is everything 👏👏👏👏👏👏🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
Aa 👏.. I stumbled upon your channel this past week, and I must say Uri I'm hooked.. I'm loving all your conversations, very profound. I'm here to stay shem
Lots of love ❤ watching from Thailand 😘
There by the last point, PREACH Lerato! !!🙌🙌🙆
Everytime Lerato speaks, he reminds us of the book "7 habits of highly effective people"
“Feelings are neither wrong nor right” -this really resonated with me so much even in friendship and family. I really need my feelings acknowledged, whether warranted or not, because they’re real.
❤️ Thank you so much! This is truly appreciated🙏
-Will be watching with my partner and sharing with friends because everyone needs these hacks 👏🏼🔥
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾♥️♥️
Iv had my comment section open for a while....but I'm so taken by so much that is said....that I dont know which part to comment on...
@Mr Lerato.....you have unpacked and taught me so much on how to deal with self
#choosepeace❤
I really agree with tip2. For both platonic relationships & otherwise. Don't rush solutions. Allow yourself to be in better space, to step out of defence mode, to think about what your partner is saying
💯💯💯🙌🏾🙌🏾
I love watching you two learn from each other. The idea of not going to bed angry fits here though. It doesn’t mean not to go to bed without resolution… it just means do not be angry. In other words, choose to still be loving and respectful of your partner before you go to bed, but also realizing that a conclusion doesn’t have to be reached tonight.
Love Language guys 😭😭😭 Pray for my man kubi 😩😩😩😩
Hi Makhs. As I’m watching the last part and the last point that Lerato was making I started getting the feeling that sure these conversations that you are having with us must be very therapeutic for you both. Surely your relationship&/ marriage is getting stronger has entered a new dimension of greatness. I love this for you guys.
God works in mysterious ways. You have these conversations with us (your audience in my mind) so give us content but I Imagine and I’m actually convinced that God is healing old wounds, strengthening your current position in your marriage ,blessing your family and moving in your marriage in a way that you never imagined.
Thank you for sharing yourselves with us, Thank you for allowing God to minister to us through you. My prayer is for the enemy to fail dismally in all his attempts to attack marriages in this country because this what you are doing is God covering and protecting yours and other marriages in the world.
thank you Ausi le Abuti, watching your show always helpful may God continue to bless you
Oh well Mr Makhs all I can say today is definitely a better man than most. I take my hat off to you. Phetola you are a lucky lady. Loved this installment
Wowwww you guys! The way you talk about stuff is raw. In a nice way
We early I love this channel, the fruits of the mind I get here
Hayi bo! Do we even deserve Mr Makhs' wisdom?
You guys are a high level couple... This is precious. The highest level couple I have come across
Was looking forward to this next installment 👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
🎉🎉🎉♥️♥️♥️
These 2 installments are very powerful
Thank you guys, and I love the real life examples you make, we all go through the same (1 year married )!
Thanks again!❤️❤️
A content I signed up for 💃💃💃💃💃💃hey faves❤️
♥️♥️♥️♥️
This episode was mind blowing and transforming guys. Its the "fear" neh..!! You are so right, letting it go helps us not get "stuck in offense".
Thank you for taking time to share. Modimo a le hlohonolofatse
Dream team u guys are blessed with the fruits of the spirit.... Most of them all is peace that you maintaining in every situation love you fam🥰
Better late than never! How did I miss this? ❤️❤️❤️
Sooo relatable!! Very insightful, thank you for being so vulnerable and helping so many couples out there. May God continue to bless you so that you may continue to be a blessing to others.
Our relationship is in grade 8🤣🤣🤣 I love it hear❤ this episode makes me think that life is not always black and white and we will forever learn each other as human beings hence we need the Holy Spirit always
We are here!!❤
Among the first. Love from Kenya.
Love there way you are so real with us. Keep it up.
Wow 😮 Lerato. Just brilliant
But you know what would be nice sis Pheto le abuti Lerato, if you could list the points in the description because sometimes I'll want to unpack the things you said later or just remind myself what you said and then I need short notes. So it would be really lovely if you write those points you read from your phones in the description if that's possible
Another riveting installment 🎉
This is definitely helpful...thank you soo much!!
Now this is a good topic! One thing I've mastered in my relationship with my boyfriend is learning to apologize! Whether being wrong or right! After watching this I know now to walk away, even if I don't agree with something or just sleep on it. I like to talk about my problem right then and there, but you guys helped me to find a better way to communicate. My boyfriend and I are 3 months in and we feel like we've been together forever. We've learned what we like and don't like. We've learned so much through you guys and our own experiences. Thank you so much for the Love Trivia questions by the way! Him and I aren't perfect, but through prayer him and I are willing to keep going and stay strong!
🙈 love this, am told I love to argue.
Isn't argument when two are Exchanging words.
An I so don't want to go to bed nothing being sorted or not being said..
Tomorrow it's a new day new marcy. New day how do ask about yesterday
Wow 👌 👏 Mr M you are preaching right at me the whole part of not choosing peace, joy and forgiveness because they might hurt me again 😢 💔..I struggle with they I choose walking away instead but what am I going to do when I'm married. I need to ask God to help me. 🙏 thank you fam
So true because I struggle as well when it comes to choosing I think because of fear
This was wholesome as always loved it🔥👍🏾 we need a here is a thought and our love journey podcast 😌 this combination 🔥 I pray it happens some day #Dreamteam
So profound Dreams Team... Thank you
Yho that part about fear!😭😭😭
Have been waiting for this 💪
First point, just the first point and I sent this to my partner!!😂😂
I think it is "I hear you. But, I don't understand right now, so I can't agree right now. And, I realise we won't reach an understanding right now"
Another heat session.. M
👏👏👏👏👏👏I love you guys.
You guys 😭😍😇ni powerful maaan🤞❤
You guys never disappoint 👌❤️
Amen to the conversation
Came at the ✅ time
😘😘😘
Fam im loving these communication hack
First one 🙈😍♥️
i love the sound, so perfect
I wana share this video with my husband but Lerato said "the guys will hate me for this" but I'm sharing it anyway 👌🏼❤😂
So good guys you helping us
Today ....Lerato didn't come to play:(.. learning Aaaalot tho👌
Ohh bless yall. ❤❤❤❤
Hi dream team, we are listening
This is very profound. Thank you guys for sharing
Thank you so much for watching ♥️♥️♥️
So rather "I hear you. But, I won't reach an understanding right now. So, let's park this" NOT "Sure, No problem"
stop it, l like it....this was amazing.
Yaaay!! So glad you enjoyed it♥️♥️♥️
Lots of love ❤❤
This is golden
You guy speak sense🤞
So when you go away and think about it do you guys then act normal after the conversation or that tension energies are still around and you guys give each other space
It really depends on the heaviness of the situations. Sometimes we are able to carry on while we digest the issue. Other times we give each other space (but not for too long). We try not to drag issues.
So true while we as woman toss and turn they snoring that also frustrates me even more like moguy just like that🤣🤣🤣😂🤣😂
If you can't beat them join them. I have also learnt how to sleep peacefully, and roles have reversed, he will do the tossing and turning till he wakes me up lol and I get the conversation I want out of him! Or he will start the conversation the next morning. Just sleep sis.
Hello dream team!sila!
You guys attended 'Maturity 101 University' because there's no way!🙆♀️
This was wholesome 💝. So very profound! Thanks Mr Makhs! God bless your union and your girls guys!
Hey dream team 🥰