BREAST REDUCTION STORY & Q+A | Why it was the best thing I've ever done | The Beeston Fam

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  • Getting a breast reduction was hands down one of the best decisions I've ever made. It improved my quality of life so much! I never thought I'd be sharing this experience publicly, but I realized how helpful it could be. I talk all about the details of my experience and answer questions asked by my Instagram followers!
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  • @kamilahschwab6094
    @kamilahschwab6094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +455

    It’s so nice to hear someone actually talk openly about Breast Reduction instead of always just Breast Implants! Bigger Breasts aren’t always worked up to be what everyone who doesn’t have them think they are!

    • @mouath_14
      @mouath_14 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      As a man, I honestly don’t care. But hearing what she had to say, this sounded like more of an insecurity towards her looks and how would people judge her body. I’m against doing stuff to your body just to please people in a way or the other. But then again, it’s their choice.

    • @freckles3705
      @freckles3705 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@mouath_14 until you carry them around and experience the pain and discomfort then we don't care about your opinion. It's not vanity.

    • @samg873
      @samg873 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@mouath_14 do you know how much natural, saggy, big boobs hurt?

    • @Uuber2Jupiter
      @Uuber2Jupiter 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@mouath_14 she literally said she had incredible back pain and the clothing struggle is real. The extra attention is more then just self confidence issues.

    • @alicemoraldenis4286
      @alicemoraldenis4286 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@mouath_14 Perhaps when she spoke about the drastic change in her breast size in the span of a year at the age of 12-13 years old, there may have been some insecurities going on as it’s not uncommon for very young girls to feel awkward from all the unsolicited attention a young girl may receive, however past that point it was clearly not about her wanting this procedure because of what other people thought. Not once did she say anything about her peers or other people making comments nor attracting the wrong attentions from makes, etc. Back pain and overall upper body pain is very commonly heard by females as a problem when having very large, natural breasts, and even more so, as she mentioned, on someone who has a very petite body size otherwise.

  • @Paula-fu6pr
    @Paula-fu6pr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +474

    First time I’ve heard someone talk about the joys of breast reduction surgery! I love it. I was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2020 and learned just before the surgery that I could get my breast done for free during the surgery. I was so excited and jumped on it. Definitely gave me something positive to focus on during a difficult time. Having the reduction surgery not only allowed the doctor to take out more tissue that could have been cancer and allowed me to get my perfect C breast back. Thankful that today my cancer is gone and I have smaller boobies. 😊

    • @nicolehein8285
      @nicolehein8285 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I'm so sorry to hear that you had to experience this but so delighted to hear you're doing well now. 🙏🙏🙏

    • @claireetally
      @claireetally 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hey! This is random but I wanted to put this out here today God will provide!!! Jesus loves you, and he died and rose again to save you and me. He will help you with whatever you're struggling with right now

    • @Paula-fu6pr
      @Paula-fu6pr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@claireetally thank you Claire! He is so good and has always provided. 😊

    • @vikkil2586
      @vikkil2586 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I had lumpectomy and need to know who can fix them bith to same size? Can't get any info where I am.

    • @Paula-fu6pr
      @Paula-fu6pr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@vikkil2586 hi, you’d would need to find a reconstructive doctor in your area.

  • @nicolebuchanan229
    @nicolebuchanan229 2 ปีที่แล้ว +684

    When you suddenly become greatful your a member of the itty bitty club lol

    • @alison4316
      @alison4316 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Same. But I'm 6' tall, so I've always thought mine look too small on my frame 😞
      However, I've had two kids, and they're still perky 👍🏻

    • @Unknown-kk6ni
      @Unknown-kk6ni 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I m still sad.... Can we get at least A or B..... Why our itty bitty don't want to get bigger lol.

    • @nicolebuchanan229
      @nicolebuchanan229 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@alison4316 after two kids mine look like deflated water balloons. Really want implants but at the same time don't want to go through all that.

    • @alison4316
      @alison4316 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@nicolebuchanan229 I would looooove implants. If you _do_ get them, don't get textured--they can cause breast cancer.

    • @thenickfoxx
      @thenickfoxx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Itty bitty titty committee

  • @elainearnold3965
    @elainearnold3965 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Give Derek a GOLD Star. I think it is so brave of Sarah to talk about her breast reduction and being totally honest about how it was for her.

  • @melinalarsen6156
    @melinalarsen6156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +313

    Gold star for SARAH!!! This was something personal that you were willing to shed light on for others so I commend you!!

    • @DerikAndSarah
      @DerikAndSarah  3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      I couldn't agree more! She went all out on this one!! :)

    • @KLP99
      @KLP99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@DerikAndSarah
      Derick should get 2 gold stars. I mean, there were 2 huge . . . uh, never mind

    • @Rachel-iSverige
      @Rachel-iSverige 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I had breast reduction surgery 9 years ago after giving birth to twin girls. I have 3 kids...
      I wanted to be a runner and my breasts were so big from my pregnancy so I went for it.
      I have my body back, my confidence, and most importantly, in the last 9 years, I have run so many half marathons I have lost count! Just finished the Stockholm marathon this last weekend.
      Hooray for smaller boobs!💕❤️
      And a healthier more comfortable mother! Win win!

    • @hadesisbaby
      @hadesisbaby ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@KLP99 some dude always has to make it creepy huh

  • @JacindaH
    @JacindaH 3 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    This happened to my daughter and honestly it just destroyed her. She became reclusive...wore extremely large sweat shirts...was humiliated and so uncomfortable with the attention....she turned to drugs and ultimately lost her life. People don't easily accept this as the reason why she declined so rapidly..but I was there. I watched my beautiful girl crawl into herself...hide...try to numb her insecurity...it's anything but funny. ( please know I'm only sharing because I want everyone to understand how much this matters. People tend to trivialize this)

    • @kadenmahaffa7727
      @kadenmahaffa7727 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Whoa I'm sorry.

    • @JacindaH
      @JacindaH 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@kadenmahaffa7727 thank you. I only shared because I don't think people understand how difficult it can be for young girls. I had no clue.

    • @c0ronariu5
      @c0ronariu5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I am so, so sorry. Much love.

    • @marissah3125
      @marissah3125 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      My deepest sympathy.

    • @chiefswife1212
      @chiefswife1212 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I undetstand:( I wanted to kill myself for years, the large breast were destroying me, finally had the reduction, worth it all!! Years later I had breast liposuction and life got even better, I'm so sorry your daughter had to live with that horrible feeling, I was her, I know exactly what you are saying.

  • @carol.stoeser
    @carol.stoeser 2 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    A friend had reduction. The grooves cut into her shoulders, the backaches! Eight pounds of tissue removed (seriously). She was so happy she had it done.

    • @Gwaycee
      @Gwaycee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Eight pounds! That could easily be a whole new-born baby! 😮

    • @peggyandersen1416
      @peggyandersen1416 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      My surgeon removed 11 1/2 pounds. I wish I'd had done it many years earlier. My posture is still bad, but the shoulder grooves are gone. I went from a H cup to a B.

    • @tamarascherette4946
      @tamarascherette4946 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What size did you go down to?

    • @joaniweiss5870
      @joaniweiss5870 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, the bra straps!

  • @teresajose2280
    @teresajose2280 2 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    I love how Derik acts when talking your ex boyfriend. Haha. It’s quite funny. GOLD STAR FOR DERIK!!⭐️

    • @FrogeniusW.G.
      @FrogeniusW.G. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Derik didn't answer!!!

  • @kathyflorcruz552
    @kathyflorcruz552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    I can tell you - I had reduction surgery after having been TOO BIG since I was 10 years old & I absolutely hated it. Had it done after I'd had my 3 babies & I've never regretted it. Wish I could have had it much earlier in life. 👍👍👍

  • @chrism9294
    @chrism9294 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I have a friend who is about 5’2” and was wearing a G. Her back was always hurting her and picking up her baby was a struggle. She got a reduction and said it was the best thing ever. Her insurance did pay for it because she had a year (maybe more) of documented doctors visits for back pain, etc.

  • @jillbodnaruk1576
    @jillbodnaruk1576 2 ปีที่แล้ว +310

    I'm a 32K and only 5'1". I've been in pain my whole adult life from this. I'm currently nursing my last baby and so giddy over the prospect of finally being able to get a reduction! Thank you for being so candid about your experience, especially with regards to the pain and scars.

    • @kimberlyclark5757
      @kimberlyclark5757 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Make sure you research the doctor before you allow him/her to cut on you. I had a not so competent doctor so things aren’t good but it’s still better than the pain I had being a 36h at 5’2”. But I’ve known others now that have had fantastic results. Just do your research and you’ll be fine!!

    • @mheuphoria
      @mheuphoria 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      It’s literally gonna be the best thing you’ve done for yourself like ….EVER!!!

    • @Erin_The_Lotus
      @Erin_The_Lotus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They grow back over time

    • @eveoakley6270
      @eveoakley6270 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Blooming heck I’m a 32FF and I HATE IT. I feel for you girl 😱

    • @grammichal6759
      @grammichal6759 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Erin_The_Lotus Breasts are mostly fat so that can increase their size if you gain weight. I breast-fed three kids but never had that deflating balloon effect. I’m considerably heavier than I was in my 20s and 30s but too much of that weight is breasts.

  • @chgallina
    @chgallina ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I had a breast reduction and I 100% recommend it!! It changed my life. I hated the way I looked, I hated the way clothes fit me and I was super, super self-conscious. I felt like I never would want to be naked in front of anyone and it was depressing. I had a friend that briefly went before me and I was so Blown away by her results that I made a consultation appointment immediately and moved forward with it. I don’t even remember it being very painful. All I remember is the joy when I woke up and all that extra weight was gone and I could wear a tank top with a little bralette and not being self conscious! Thank you for sharing❤️

  • @pacificbug
    @pacificbug 2 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    Gold ☆ for Derik! I have a friend who had hers reduced. She hated how big she was up top. She's SOO much happier now!

  • @Nandrea7627
    @Nandrea7627 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I had breast reduction surgery nearly 30 years ago. I was a FF cup, reduced to a C cup. They took 11lbs of tissue away. Best thing I’ve ever done, scars aren’t even noticeable at this point ❤️

    • @yupitsme9713
      @yupitsme9713 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Me tooooo! 10lbs. 5 from each tah-tah. Was an F went to a B. Zero regrets.

    • @rowanjoy419
      @rowanjoy419 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      am a c cup and its so weird, i feel is too big, but now what you had, wow i want you to know you were strong.

    • @keelidavenport1245
      @keelidavenport1245 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I can't imagine taking out 11 pounds of breast. You had to be miserable. I'm glad you had the surgery.

    • @Nandrea7627
      @Nandrea7627 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@keelidavenport1245 thank you, I have to be honest and tell you I had real joy and giggled the first time my boobs jiggled.

    • @Nandrea7627
      @Nandrea7627 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@rowanjoy419 sorry I missed your comment! I’m a C cup now and I’m still overjoyed. It’s really whatever you’re comfortable with and what your frame can carry 🫶

  • @2poofsandaplaystation468
    @2poofsandaplaystation468 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I love when people use their platform to talk about things like these. It could literally be life changing for a young girl or any woman. You help remove stigma and encourage people to talk and ask about it. Really inspirational. You guys are great 💕

  • @GoldenSDBR
    @GoldenSDBR 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Your mom is drop dead gorgeous and You're an exact replica, what a beautiful family. Thanks for sharing 💪😊

  • @charlottemorison5658
    @charlottemorison5658 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I used to have JJ cup, and had a reduction down to a full C/small D. Life changing!

    • @michelebella677
      @michelebella677 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      JJ!?! 😮😮 God bless you. I’m sure that was a literal load off your back.

    • @MartheBishopMcDonald
      @MartheBishopMcDonald ปีที่แล้ว

      Currently I'm a 32JJ... I think I'd cry tears of pure joy if I were anything smaller than E.

  • @geremygraham2735
    @geremygraham2735 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Gold star for Derik ⭐️

  • @blueeyedbatman
    @blueeyedbatman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    I have double H cups and have been considering getting this done for years. Every time I bring it up, all I hear is vane people saying don't do it. It makes me so glad that you posted this! You answered some genuine questions I've had and helped me to be more confident in my decision. ❤ You guys are absolutely wonderful, keep being you!!

    • @amyblack1052
      @amyblack1052 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Me too..never could afford reduction..but would if I could..now I'm 56 and it's worse than I ever imagined..thanks for this

    • @NicciStarzz
      @NicciStarzz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It's your body, don't listen to those vain people who are projecting their beliefs onto your body. If you're in pain, and it's something you've seriously been considering, you should start researching and discuss it with your doctor. Some insurances will even pay for some or all of it if it's adversely affecting your health! To be honest, I myself have never had anything beyond a small B. I spent half my life wishing I could get implants, and it had been suggested multiple times to me. I decided I'm going to do what's best for me and my body. Once I stopped listening to other people, I started feeling better about myself. So, long story short, do what's best for you and your body.

    • @brookiebakerie
      @brookiebakerie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      DO IT! Seriously, one of the best decisions of my life. Make the decision for YOU, no one else. No one else has to live in your body.
      I started complaining in 9th grade and my mom REPEATEDLY told me it wasn't a big deal and she'd seen the horrible scars of a patient she worked on in the ER, and I'd get smaller after having kids, etc... News flash: I got BIGGER. I finally had it done when I was 26. I was engaged at the time and I didn't ask my fiance's opinion at all. I told him I was doing it. I'd been fighting with my insurance company for a long time. I finally got a new job and new insurance and JUMPED at the chance when it came! Like she said in the video, LIFE CHANGING!

    • @chiefswife1212
      @chiefswife1212 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      DO IT!!

    • @xxxvcvv
      @xxxvcvv ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I've had people say all's sorts of terrible things to me. Don't listen to them. It will improve your life in every way. You just have to do it. Breath through the fear and nerves. Do it. You will never regret it, I promise. I'm 50 today, got mine when I was in the navy in 97, I was 24. I didn't have anyone to help me at all. Drove myself to and from the surgery. Took 6 weeks of bed rest. By myself. Best thing I ever did for myself. Do it. You will be so happy 😁

  • @EmilyH42024
    @EmilyH42024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Poor sweet awkward supportive Derik. My dude is sweating bullets. He's the best 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @pinkrainbow1
    @pinkrainbow1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Since you had back pain it could have been covered by insurance. Anytime it's causing you a physical problem then it's no longer just for cosmetic reasons. You could have gotten it covered and so could anyone who's having back pain. The doctor can help you prove that to the insurance company

  • @luckydragon9779
    @luckydragon9779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Normally a 32G and currently pregnant and no longer fitting my bras. Thank you for this video. I've struggled with back and neck pain and it's even more of a challenge now.

  • @dianaburke628
    @dianaburke628 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I love the way you work out the events in your life together no matter how personal and life changing. I’m so very proud of you and excited for your amazing future . 👏😍❤️❤️❤️😘

  • @mikimarkusen4108
    @mikimarkusen4108 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I watched your channel for the first time today….you are adorable. When you were sharing your breast reduction surgery, I immediately thought of my daughter, Summer. Her story is so much like yours. She wore the multiple bras, just like you. She was a cheerleader, and an amazing dancer. I was so proud when she put herself in front of audiences to dance and cheer. She had enough self-confidence, without a moment of embarrassment. When she was 15, I took her to a consultation for breast reduction. She was so petite (5 feet tall, perfect figure everywhere else, but her bra size was 32 DDD). She had the surgery, and was (and still is) 32 C. She has 3 daughters, and it’s looking like her oldest, my granddaughter, Mia, might be facing the same thing. I’m so happy that both you and Summer healed perfectly. She was able to breastfeed all of the girls, and she produced so much “leftover”, so she pumped and donated it. I didn’t even know that was a thing lol. I’m so glad I pursued that option for her. It was hands-down the best parental decision I have ever made.

  • @cassidyb.2942
    @cassidyb.2942 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I am a DDD and once I get down to my pre-covid weight I am getting a breast reduction!! Can't wait to be rid of the back pain and be able to wear the correct size dresses and bathing suits!

  • @hollyannross
    @hollyannross 3 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    Gold star for Derik!!! ⭐️⭐️⭐️ You guys are so down to earth! Love watching your videos. Such a sweet family 🥰

  • @JustJ-Me
    @JustJ-Me 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Really interesting to hear and it's good to hear you talk candidly about it. The jokes and connection between the 2 of you is adorable.
    Your mom is equally as beautiful as the rest of ya (even having been on baby duty)

  • @NettyG444
    @NettyG444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    How can I be 52 and just adoring you guys so much?!? And your other Beeston fam too? I found you while in recovery from Covid and I’m doing great! But wanted to share that I explanted my toxic breast implants in March 2021 😬 I had them for 25 years and have survived so much sickness and pain. I’m sooooo freaking happy I did it. I also got a lift (much needed, trust me lol) and holy sheesh it was all so painful but completely worth it. My only regret is that I waited so long! Much love to you guys, keep the goodness flowing 💪

  • @happieveal
    @happieveal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Loved watching this. I'm in a similar situation except for I was an A cup and got breast implants thinking that I needed them to "feel like a woman" and now that I've matured and found my husband I cannot wait to get then removed. I'm 32 weeks pregnant so I have to wait until after I finish breastfeeding, but I seriously cannot wait. I am so ready to get them removed and I know I will feel like a completely new person!

  • @HBFaulkner
    @HBFaulkner 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    OMGoodness, just like my daughter!! She wore 3 bras too! Her grandma paid for her to have her breast reduction. She's so, so much better & happier now.

  • @asigridpreiser4970
    @asigridpreiser4970 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have 2 children, they went back to a smaller size than before after the first one. After the second child, large and have stayed that way. Had a friend that had it done for backpain. She is so happy to have it done. Thank you Sarah, for sharing and the encouragement. Thanks Derik for being supportive or Sarah.

  • @MrsRachel_kinderqueen
    @MrsRachel_kinderqueen ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I am somehow just seeing this video. I had a reduction done in 2009 and like you and many others said it was THE BEST thing I could’ve done, even though it also affected my ability to breastfeed. I went from a 40 H to a DD. Every time, before my surgery, I gained weight it was the first to gain and last to lose. That’s not the case now! I am so glad you did this video (even if it was weird for you to do) and shed light on this. I wish insurance covered it more often. I was fortunate and Tricare paid 100% for me with minimal proof needed.

  • @maridepp53
    @maridepp53 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Sarah your mom is beautiful, I can see where you get your good looks from. Derek is a cutie and so is Jack 😊

  • @mlew3434
    @mlew3434 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you so much for talking about this! I have been wanting to get one for years, but I’m trying to figure out when I will have time for the surgery and recovery (plus who my support person would be since I live so far from home). I really appreciate the candid answers and I’m so glad that you don’t regret it at all and your quality of life significantly improved! Much love! ❤️

  • @zekefoonman2921
    @zekefoonman2921 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I commend you both for sharing this information with others. The benefits of doing so may never be known, but the relief given to other women contemplating or facing this procedure is immeasurable. God richly bless you both.

  • @videokles3852
    @videokles3852 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Golden star to both of you! It is so brave to talk about personal issues like this to help others. Just the fact that you're talking about it makes others with similar issues feel that they're not alone.

  • @DavidBrowningBYD
    @DavidBrowningBYD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Kudos for sharing so openly, and also for making it clear that you are sharing your experience and not giving advice.
    I had cosmetic surgery after a huge weight loss. No regrets at all. It sounds like your surgeon recommended sticking to a schedule with meds, rather than “chasing the pain”, as my surgeon phrased it. I don’t regret taking the effort to maintain a schedule.

  • @sorrie2758
    @sorrie2758 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Any video like this that can help people, is wonderful. This can be a painful and awkward subject for many young girls, and having a platform to tell them, look it is okay, and this is what happened to me. Thank you for making this video, you will probably never know how many people you have helped. New subscriber love your videos!

    • @karenrothery5696
      @karenrothery5696 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am a young 80 yr old (recoving from hip replacement) and married 46 yrs no children. I found your story compelling. I was thankful that Derek was with you during this discussion. I love your vlogs and the unbounded love you share with one another and the littles. Wow, what a better world this would be if we all experienced this. My favorite was giving Jack his 1st skateboard!! Thank you for being you!!!❤😊

  • @karenhouser4123
    @karenhouser4123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Gold Star for Derek! I think it's awesome that you are supporting your beautiful and sweet wife , good on you!

  • @iloveGod1105
    @iloveGod1105 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for being so honest about this. Love you guys!!! Y'all are such a light! 💛💛💛

  • @rebecacontreras7699
    @rebecacontreras7699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Gold Star for Derik! He was so brave!... Love for your fam guys, thanks for sharing and being so fun.

    • @DerikAndSarah
      @DerikAndSarah  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      hahah yess thanks! 😊Of course!!

  • @goldeneyes2214
    @goldeneyes2214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I had mine at 39 best thing I ever did. Hard! And wish it had been sooner. You are an amazing woman. Once upon a time summer prior to 7 th grade….fall on 7th grade I suffered ridicule from then until 20’s. I feel your pain. A fishing trip on rough seas made the final decision for me. I am sooooo. Glad I had it done!

  • @jessicashlager7193
    @jessicashlager7193 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gold star for Derek.
    Thanks for being so open and sharing an experience you had.

  • @stephaniek1076
    @stephaniek1076 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    A gold star for EACH of you for the courage do a frank discussion about a sensitive and very personal topic.

  • @michellebrown5084
    @michellebrown5084 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are so strong and brave to share your experience with everyone!😊💗Your mom is beautiful just like you!😊💗

  • @debraroberson9232
    @debraroberson9232 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Gold star for Derik! I love watching your families videos. Please keep up the good work!

  • @jessies3236
    @jessies3236 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gold star for Derik and Sara. Thanks so much for sharing. I needed this.

  • @lynettealexanderxoxo
    @lynettealexanderxoxo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I want a reduction so bad so thank you for answering all those very personal questions!! 1000 Gold stars for Derek for being so supportive!!!

  • @hollylowery26
    @hollylowery26 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    As a child my best friend wore a DDD in 5th grade. She was not even a heavy kid. She ended up being a K cup. She had a reduction for her high school graduation gift. When she woke up she said oh my gosh 😳 you turned me into an a cup. The dr said no honey I could get you smaller than a D cup. The funniest part was I had almost zero boobs. No joke an A cup was to big on me. We joked that she ended up with my boobs by mistake. I finally got implants when I was 21, for the same reasons you got a reduction. I just wanted to be able to buy clothing that fit. I am happy to say I am now a perfect C cup.

  • @brittanycox-alderson5013
    @brittanycox-alderson5013 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Gold ⭐ for Derik! And Sarah you are beautiful inside and out!

  • @brcbjacobs
    @brcbjacobs ปีที่แล้ว

    2 yrs later I finally watched this one and got all the answers I was wondering about. My sister got hers a long time ago and I felt weird asking questions as i was so young then. That was super insightful and brave. And derik still gets a gold star 🌟

  • @Yourlocalyxrii
    @Yourlocalyxrii 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are so adorable and your honesty and realness is humbling

  • @dabzprincess92
    @dabzprincess92 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I cannot get enough of you guys. And Jack!!!!!

  • @happygardener7755
    @happygardener7755 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Very proud of you Derrick for surviving this discussion. You've earned a gold star 🌟

    • @melbawhite2614
      @melbawhite2614 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Derick deserves a gold star.and another one for being a super husband and dad.

    • @graceeliz8339
      @graceeliz8339 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Extra gold star 🌟

    • @terrigarcia2750
      @terrigarcia2750 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hey Derick.. I've been watching you and your interactions with your beautiful wife and then with little Jack ever since you came on to TH-cam, and in my opinion, you deserve a night sky filled with bright and beautiful golden stars!! I wish more young husbands and fathers would follow your example.
      But now in all fairness, I have to pay equal attention to Sarah, because I see just as much love for you and Jack coming out of her too!
      Yep..all in all I'd have to say that little Jack is a very lucky little boy!
      Blessings to the whole Beeston Fam!! ⭐🌟💫✨💫🌟⭐

  • @sharonisaac445
    @sharonisaac445 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I had Breast Reduction, and everything Sarah, said is exactly what I went through. You look great Sarah.❤💎👑

  • @wendyturner21
    @wendyturner21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Adorable young family, and very responsible. I love following their life conquests. Inspiration to others. 🐾🌹

  • @rawdaaljawhary4174
    @rawdaaljawhary4174 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Your mom is an awesome guest. She added so much! She's so generous for taking Derek when he was crying during the video, too.

    • @j.barnard2669
      @j.barnard2669 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol Derrick is the dad...Jack is the baby. I had to laugh 'cuz I was picturing Sarah's mom carrying a crying Derrick out of the room.

    • @j.barnard2669
      @j.barnard2669 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I meant Derik. Autocorrect changed the spelling.

  • @icykittenlunatic1122
    @icykittenlunatic1122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Your whole family is beautiful ❤️ seems to be on the inside as well as out! Blessings love.

  • @SandraMYake
    @SandraMYake 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Keep the videos coming I love every single one!!!! Thank you!!!!!

  • @ajhwood1961
    @ajhwood1961 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I had a breast reduction for my 30th birthday present to myself and I’m now 61. I had very little pain and was back to work in 2 weeks. The most painful part was having drain tubes removed. My insurance did pay for it all because of my back pain and dips in my shoulders from bra straps. I was in 7-8 size pants with 38DD boobs in 7th grade! I wanted a reduction for years and finally did it and I have had absolutely no regrets!

  • @moll619
    @moll619 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I just got a reduction 2 weeks ago!! It’s already the best decision I’ve ever made. I was in a ton of pain and went through some hoops to get it covered by insurance. It took longer to get it approved and I went to a chiropractor for 5 weeks and got a note from them. But if you’re thinking about it DO IT

    • @DerikAndSarah
      @DerikAndSarah  3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      So happy to hear this! Thanks for sharing :)

    • @grammadoh1
      @grammadoh1 ปีที่แล้ว

      I never paid attention but I didn't see big boobs on her???

  • @laurabyers5172
    @laurabyers5172 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    You two, now 3, are just absolutely precious! If im feeling down, I just open your channel and before long, I'm laughing! Thank you for sharing your joy.
    ~ Laura in Idaho~

  • @Darkrose91
    @Darkrose91 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Gold star for Derrick =) and I'm so glad you got what you needed done to be happy and feel more confident

  • @deanarjones9114
    @deanarjones9114 3 ปีที่แล้ว +272

    My granddaughter went through this just this last year and she’s 11, heading to 7th grade. I myself have had 7lbs removed. It’s terrible to have too much, physically and mentally.

    • @tmalloy9
      @tmalloy9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      As a teenager, I helped take care of an elderly woman who had EE sized and lived before such an option existed. They eventually destroyed her back and she died of pneumonia due to immobility.

    • @InspektoraDeFrutas.
      @InspektoraDeFrutas. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It has to be all in the hormones, GMOs and other poisons they’re feeding you people in America! All your filthy fast food, McDonald’s, Taco Bell’s, carbonated soda drinks, chips, and such…
      In every other country in the world, we have the opposite problem. For the most part.
      Except for Central and South America, maybe, but they are fed pretty much the same junk you do. 😢🤢🤮

    • @Wheezersmom02
      @Wheezersmom02 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I grew boobs pretty early and got unwanted attention. It really feels scary and awful to have older guys making comments and staring when mentally, you just weren't there yet. Now, I love having them, but back then, I did not.

    • @nbrown8464
      @nbrown8464 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@tmalloy9 Oh my gosh, that's sad.

    • @heavenlybound981
      @heavenlybound981 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen

  • @jackiesasara2247
    @jackiesasara2247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Gold star for Derek! Love to watch your beautiful family!

  • @shirleymurphy1958
    @shirleymurphy1958 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Always what's best for you! God bless your honest answers about this so many of us gals needs to hear this.

  • @spagetd1526
    @spagetd1526 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i applaud derick for being a part of this conversation

  • @delaneykluth1800
    @delaneykluth1800 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Gold Star for Derik! Thanks you two for this open & honest convo!

    • @DerikAndSarah
      @DerikAndSarah  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank youu! Of course 🤗

  • @dougrockhold723
    @dougrockhold723 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    This is a really nice young couple and could they be more gorgeous. There son is so handsome

    • @barbieblue3336
      @barbieblue3336 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Their

    • @dougrockhold723
      @dougrockhold723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@barbieblue3336 give me a break Karen

    • @jenner1115
      @jenner1115 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know. When ppl talk about "The beautiful ppl" this is who they're talking about. Jack. What a gorgeous child. They have so much fun with him. He's a lucky kid. Jack looks exactly like Sarah. Wonder what they do for a living. Can u make much of a living as TH-camrs?

  • @jackiepotvin5425
    @jackiepotvin5425 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My daughter has a similar story to urs. She was 17 when she had hers done and she had triple Es and she was in so much pain . She had trouble doing the simplest tasks because they were so heavy and she could never enjoy life. She was always mad at me because I had big breats as well so she took alot of her frustrations out on me cause she thought I passed them on to her. I had lots of talks with her and explained how things like this work. So your videos that u do on topics like this can really inspire and help others that are going through this or have gone through it because listening to someone else can give them that courage . I watch ur family all the time and the love that u 2 have for each other is inspiring even after years of being married and having a baby the way u two look at each other and how ur faces light up gives people like us hope that there is really loving, caring, down to earth, respectful people like yourselves out there. I watch alot of you tubers and u guys are my favourite because of how genuine u guys really are.

  • @magdalenahernandez1486
    @magdalenahernandez1486 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gold star for you both!! I'm so glad Sarah is happy with her reduction, the most important thing is what you want for your life. I love how supportive Derik is about anything that concerns you. You guys are an amazing couple, discovering your channel was the best thing of my week!! Love and kisses for the three of you from Chile💖

  • @ginaguard2758
    @ginaguard2758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Awww!!! 10 gold stars for Derek!!!!😜. I was always interested in getting a reduction, my mother in law had it done when she was young she was a J I think. I love that you two share your lives with us. Keep those videos coming🥰

    • @DerikAndSarah
      @DerikAndSarah  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's a lot of gold stars thank you! We definitely will :)

  • @doretsnyman7022
    @doretsnyman7022 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I had a reduction when I was 18. Also DDD at that stage. I'm 48 now and still have the most beautiful, naturally firm breasts. If I had my life over 1 million times, its the one thing I'd do over and over!

  • @SandraMYake
    @SandraMYake 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Your family is amazing!!!!!!! I love all of you guys!!!! I am so glad I found you!!! I definitely want to get rid of my boobs completely!!!!!!! I just wish I could do it financially!!!!! Gold Star for Derrick!!!!! I love you guys so much!!!!!

  • @anaycca
    @anaycca 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mom is totally gorgeous gran, thanks for sharing. Being a supportive spouse, your spot on mate! Gold Star!!!! Everyone has struggles, you're super supportive, keep up the good fight.

  • @cogreenqueen
    @cogreenqueen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Gold star for Derik! ⭐
    From the outside looking in, many people would wonder why someone would want to get a reduction but don't understand what that person may be going through. Thanks for sharing your story and explaining. I could imagine how much back pain it could cause and see how hard it would be to dress one's self properly.

  • @ebonyqueen_riri3510
    @ebonyqueen_riri3510 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    C cup going into middle school, 6th grade F cup by 8th grade but because of my height (5'8) and just genetics, it's been manageable for me but I'm glad you did what you needed to feel comfortable sis and that you prioritized your well-being instead of just going with what society says 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @bkjunkie1553
    @bkjunkie1553 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gold star for Derek.
    Thank you Sarah for sharing your advice & experience.

  • @florencelinderman3797
    @florencelinderman3797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I bet this helped a lot of girls and women, and will in the future as well. Love y'all

  • @mheuphoria
    @mheuphoria 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hey girl I got a breast reduction when I was 16. It helped so much. I played soccer & danced since I was like 3 yrs old! It was the best decision I ever made! I love that you made this video!
    I love you family. You have the prettiest smile, & your funny. Your husband is so awkward & cute & funny @ the same time! You guys are literally the cutest couple
    Ever!!!! And jack!!!!!! OmG!!!! His 👀eyes LOL!!!! Gorgeous!!!

  • @DryMrs
    @DryMrs ปีที่แล้ว +4

    GOLD STAR for Derick. HAHA! This was a great to listen to. I did the opposite and had breast augmentation. It is like you said. If you know it is what you want for your body then do it. I love my decision. It was really awesome how your mom supported you through the whole situation. She deserves a gold star as well. : )

  • @AfterlifeCoach4life
    @AfterlifeCoach4life 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm really glad I found this video on your channel! I've started to seriously consider getting a breast reduction lately so being able to watch this has really helped. I'm a DD/DDD now and hoping to go down to a C, and I got a growth spurt for them when I was in like 5th grade and going into middle school. Here's hoping that insurance will approve it soon

  • @jaynesheppard9251
    @jaynesheppard9251 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have a wonderful team of family that could help. I had one as well and never, regret doing this. Idid nothave any help afterwards but did ok. I now have no back or shoulder problems.
    Yes, Derek deserves a GOLD star.

  • @naomic4162
    @naomic4162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Gold Star for Derick!

  • @marybeals1114
    @marybeals1114 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I had this done about 14 yrs ago and have never regretted once. I was very fortunate that my insurance did cover it. Had terrible back and shoulder pain. Took about 6 months to get approval. Went from a D to a B. I am only 5 ft. tall and have a very small frame. Can't even see the scars now. And yes it was very painful but you get through it.

  • @levt2156
    @levt2156 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I relate to everything you're saying. My story is exactly like yours, right down to competitive tennis. Holy crow! You're right about needing to stay ahead of the pain. Best thing I ever did! Thanks for sharing 👍

  • @Pixie.Little
    @Pixie.Little 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is one of my favourite videos of Sarah, Derik and your story💙 from UK

  • @simpleguh7835
    @simpleguh7835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Gold star for Derek BUT mom is a gorgeous💚 I absolutely love your story

  • @brendabrock7560
    @brendabrock7560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Triple gold stars for Derik! And Sarah!

    • @DerikAndSarah
      @DerikAndSarah  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hahah yesss triple! We are honored

  • @UCREFingerLakes
    @UCREFingerLakes ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are so sweet and cute and devoted. This 60 year old grandma just loves you and the Beeston Bunch.

  • @maryelizabeth34
    @maryelizabeth34 ปีที่แล้ว

    My reduction is in one month!! I am so glad I found this video before. I'm definitely feeling the same way you were because I have absolutely no fear and just want it to happen already. Can't wait to start my new life!

  • @karilyn8311
    @karilyn8311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don’t know how I BARELY am subscribing to y’all! I love you guys

    • @DerikAndSarah
      @DerikAndSarah  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hahah were just stoked you found us! We love you!

    • @karilyn8311
      @karilyn8311 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DerikAndSarah OMG! Y’all replied too 🤩🤩 I think I’ve seen and liked all of your tiktoks on both y’all’s accounts! I’m ngl I’m kinda fan girling rn! You guys very much so encompass a lot of my life goals!

  • @NsTheName
    @NsTheName 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I feel this in my soul. I have DD's that I've hated for a long time. I've only just gotten to the point (over the last couple years) where I don't despise them, but I still want them down to a B or a C. People without naturally large breasts just don't understand the physical and emotional pain. For years I would cry because I felt like all people saw me as was a giant walking boob. I worried constantly that, that was all people would see when I would walk into a room. I've had people leave comments on pictures about them, I've been sexually assaulted because of them (and I know that can happen regardless, but I've been assaulted on multiple occasions and it's the boobs they go for 100% of the time.) You just don't feel fully human. That's not even dealing with the physical pain and discomfort. Certain types of exercise are just no goes without multiple sports bras. Running up and down the stairs...painful. I feel so much for all the women who have breasts even larger than mine. Just know you're not alone! If I had the money, I'd get them done. It'll be one of the first things I ask God for when He returns :P
    Thank you so much for talking about your experience. It feels easier to deal with when you know there are other people out there who are feeling the same pain you are. Also, just as a funny side note, I started growing breasts when I was around 8-9 and I remember having a dream, sitting between two boys in my 3rd grade class. It was one of those naked dreams and they were both staring unabashedly at my chest while I covered myself in shame. In 3rd grade! What a tragedy that even little kids know when something is different and feel bad about it.

  • @dawndixon402
    @dawndixon402 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Gold star for Derick. And 2 gold stars for Sara. Thank you for sharing your experience with us. May
    God continue to bless you and your's Amen.

  • @cookie5335
    @cookie5335 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Everyone I've ever known to has gotten the surgery they are so happy
    so grateful
    and
    they just wish they did it earlier
    I'm an OR nurse and everything that Sarah is saying is 100% correct
    my daughter wants that surgery and I said okay let's do it whenever you're ready to do it we will do it

  • @allisonvonbuelow1338
    @allisonvonbuelow1338 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Congratulations. As a hairstylist I see and hear all kinds of issues with body abnormalities…. Both real and imagined. I myself had hip lipomas that were detrimental to my self esteem growing up. They made daily life so hard cuz there was nothing I could do to make them less obvious. Nothing fit right. It made me obsessed about my weight cuz no matter what I wore. i had an odd shape. Forget what it looked like naked. Omg. The day I had them removed was probably one of the best days of my life. I could finally wear normal, off the rack clothes and not feel so awkward…. I was so misshaped….. I felt so much shame about how overweight they made me look…. Pants cut into me at the waist…. It was horrible. My parents just thought it was a weight thing. But even at my skinniest I was misshaped…..when I finally had the reduction…. I never again had to think about it. I was just a normally shaped lady… I can’t say how much of a relief I felt. Every one of my clients that had their breasts reduced or life long body issues corrected felt that it improved the quality of their lives tremendously. I had to save a long time to do it. Worth it? Oh yea!!!! So I congratulate you 100%.

  • @vanessasparks2324
    @vanessasparks2324 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I was flat in 5th grade and DD's in the 6th...my back has always hurt and there is a reason I love pools.

  • @RichKatRanch
    @RichKatRanch ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You two are so precious. I'm enjoying getting to know you and your sweet family. Congratulations on baby Sunny's arrival and Happy New Year! Love to you from RichKat Ranch (and GOLD STAR for DERIK) ♥

  • @crystalphillips696
    @crystalphillips696 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You hit the Jackpot Derek Sarah and her mom are so beautiful.

  • @meghanmeehan2182
    @meghanmeehan2182 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Gold star for Derek ⭐️ So awesome of you guys to share!!