Want To Feel More Connected To Your Partner? Watch this.
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 1 ธ.ค. 2021
- Do you have questions and doubts like...
"What if I'm not connected to my partner?"
"Why do I feel so disconnected from them?"
"How long is too long to feel disconnected?"
"How do I feel connected to my partner?"
... and you struggle with Relationship OCD & Anxiety?
Then this video is for you.
Understand the hidden meaning behind "connection" with ROCD/anxiety, our view of what connection is, why you feel the need to always be attached, and how to do exposure work with "connection", and how to continually build connection in a relationship.
#herestobeinghuman, #yana
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I love how she actually gives us answers and doesn't try to sell us shit😂
girl you have no idea how much this helps me rn
Hi awakening loves! just a reminder to be careful not to use the comment section to go into reassurance seeking
Hi lovely just letting you know that your links in the description don’t seem to be working -it could just be my phone I’m not sure :)
I’m only 6 minutes into this video and already feel so grateful that I found this channel. I have recently experienced symptoms of ROCD and I had no idea what that was until today (compulsively scouring the Internet for a reason I feel the way I do) and I realized this feeling has happened to me in every single relationship. I never thought I’d go through it with my current partner. It seemed like a small sudden thought turned into this horrible downward spiral. I feel heartbroken because I truly do love my boyfriend and I know if we broke up I’d be absolutely devastated. I never want to hurt him. Just want to feel normal about him again. Thank you so much for these open discussions.
Be strong ❤👍🥺
You’re not alone!
How you feel now.
From germany
How are you doing now?
yana love and we so understand. know that there is hope in healing in ROCD/RA. ❤
sometimes my mind is feeling like i need to be by myself to find myself and it scares me typing this but i dont want too be by myself to find my self i want be happy like i have always been with my partner and i still am but i get worried these thoughts will take over me and our relationship persway me into thinking i need to be away from him to do so which i god hope i never have to do and i find that connection while with him. please help we are long distance and im so happy and in love and i dont want anything to break us apart.
I understand you... give me your instagram please
we understand and know that you are not alone. Also, resistance is a good sign to step in and do the inner work to find freedom from ROCD. -AIL Team
My boyfriend is the exact same person as me I believe we are truly soulmates he is truly such a angel and I’m so thankful for him. Last month I got a tattoo and my mind switched on me and told me I looked gay and then I went into a spiral of HOCD and I told my bf about it and he was super supportive, but I recently figured out that I have ROCD and the issue for that is bc my HOCD. I am not bi or lesbian but it seem so hard to love my bf like the way I used bc of it and idk what to do anymore
tell me relationship OCD and relationship anxiety are the same thing?
@@levostapchuk7715 no no, See the latest video on this channel
you are not alone love and there is hope ♥
Yay! Love this!!!
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This is such a good video ❤
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Could you make a video on being an Avoidant person and dealing with ROCD simultaneously. I love my boyfriend and thoughts of marriage triggered this fear of forever, being in a way trapped and ugly feelings. He makes me so happy and comfortable. But he is also getting a bit tired of me.
Thank you so much ❤️
may I ask? When I introduce a girl, I immediately feel that it’s cold, I don’t like it okay? It also seems that the thoughts are not so obsessive, that if I don’t think about these thoughts, they will go away, is this also OCD? And tell me, does love pass after 4 months? Because the emotions are not so bright, calm, because of this, I thought that I fell out of love with this, too, part of the relationship OCD?
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this is 100% me. reaaaalllyy needed this today. Thank you!
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I remember when my mother first took me to kindergarten and when she leaved me i started crying crazy. Is this that disconnection about she told to us?
We feel disconnected because of my SO-OCD, it hold months ago with ROCD too. I feel better but i panicing and feel stress. Mostly in the week i have some bad days. My partner told me that he can't to live in himself when i'm not feel bad because I'll be shitty about something anyway. I threat my ocd more better than summer. I can drawing again. My OCD is active when we mad to be eachother or just feeling bad, like ,,is this means we need to break up?" Im not get anxious because i know it's OCD and i used the thoughts. We love eachother so we can handle this and going throught on this. Everybody loves their partner and i hope everbody is getting better. Shit down the thoughts and not doing compulsions, delete browser or any app, watch series, and trust in yourself. ❤️
may I ask? When I introduce a girl, I immediately feel that it’s cold, I don’t like it okay? It also seems that the thoughts are not so obsessive, that if I don’t think about these thoughts, they will go away, is this also OCD? And tell me, does love pass after 4 months? Because the emotions are not so bright, calm, because of this, I thought that I fell out of love with this, too, part of the relationship OCD?
Im with an amazing person. He is so loving and caring all way. In the beginning i used to think whether he loved me or not and i got reassurance. And it would come back again.then it switched to me. I have never found a person like this in my life. I dont want to lose him. I want to feel happy. I keep chasing those feelings that i had before. But the thing is its been a while now so it makes sense. With my ex i never had this problem but that relationship was mentally tiring. Im getting the love i deserve in this. But like you mentioned it feels like its behind a glass door. This is so frustrating.
I’m in a healthy, calm relationship right now and I’m stressing because I’m not feeling the love feelings that I felt in my past relationship. In my past relationships I felt so in love however, it was toxic and mentally tiring like you said. It doesn’t make any sense!!!! Why don’t I have the passionate feelings that I had in my toxic relationship 😭
I feel a connection, but it's like it's not enough for me. I don't want to leave my partner, but I feel that I don't have enough feelings and I can't calm down☠
this is me rn!! help me out:((
we understand and know that you are not alone. ❤
I think i have rocd i keep searching and searching to get the love feeling again
may I ask? When I introduce a girl, I immediately feel that it’s cold, I don’t like it okay? It also seems that the thoughts are not so obsessive, that if I don’t think about these thoughts, they will go away, is this also OCD? And tell me, does love pass after 4 months? Because the emotions are not so bright, calm, because of this, I thought that I fell out of love with this, too, part of the relationship OCD?
Thank you so much for this video, i really needed to hear this. Your videos helped me so much these past weeks. Without your informative video and blog posts i wouldnt be where i was today. For the first time in weeks i felt so much love and happiness with my partner. My thoughts, emotions and feelings are still bullying me. But i know better than them.
I am not sure if you have a video or blogpost about the different attachment styles. If not, do you recommend any websites that explain in debth wat kind of attachment style you are having?
Hi I have a question please help me. I have a feeling that I dont love my boyfriend, I mean its not those thoughts, I know I have rocd, but right now its a feeling that I dont love him but on the other hand I can't lose him at all. Can you please help what is this? I am really very stressed🥺
@@sidakkaur2644 hey what did you end up doing?
@@lamahaytham908 hii...I am much better now....learned to cope up....there are phases when it returns but still not that worse....see I have practiced on an app called GGROCD OR GG relationship ocd
@@sidakkaur2644 Hi I couldnt find this app. Is it a website? Can you please help?
Hi love, we're so glad that Kiyomi's videos have been helpful in your healing journey. And yes we have the attachment styles video. Check it here: th-cam.com/video/ke5QEg5enLk/w-d-xo.html -AIL Team ❤
I am 😵
Good evening. tell me, I started to agree with my thoughts and feelings that I don’t love, I fell out of love .. but it only got worse😭 Panic disappeared and the feeling of thought that they were mine and it’s real, as if I really fell out of love when I think about her .. I already doubt OCD or not, it feels like feelings have disappearedA, I’m afraid that this is all real😭😭
i'm feeling exactly like you. This what i feel now, is so much worse that the ocd thoughts before...It's like pure emptiness, no love, no sadness just this wrong feeling.
@@sandrerobobaric8982 since with a girl at a distance there are still very small obsessions. Especially that what if I suddenly stop loving at a distance? and suddenly, due to the fact that we will communicate less often, feelings will go away. And the most interesting thing is that these thoughts are not so tormenting, they interfere a little and it seems that they are not so intrusive and not like OCD and do not bother so much. What if I don't think it will go away now. And I deliberately think about it so that it doesn't go away. Though the thoughts themselves sit for a long time. Is that OCD too?
@@user-zg6yp8ew1m i thing that that what you're going through is ocd. It would be good for you to ask for professional help. That would make everything so much easier. You are thinking about the future and you are anxious about it and that is a thing that rocd is doing the whole time. I hope you will get better soon. You are not alone❣️
You panicking now. You love her. When you don't get anxious about thoughts then you started panicking about you don't feel anxious. This is the backdoor spike. Be happy, you used that thought, your brain protect you, that's why you feel numb. Your body can't withstand much stress so it defends itself.
@@kiradrawsbullshits well explained 👍🏼
I think iam emotionally numb and having literally zero feelings towards my girlfriend. Once i loved her more than my life but now I am so depressed because of this numbness. Is there anything I can do to fix our relationship
know that you are not alone and there is hope. You can step in and do the inner work to find freedom from ROCD. -AIL Team
@@Awakenintolove Thank you . Now i am in a better condition i realised what happened to me i can now understand that intrusive thoughts are not real and has nothing to do with my personality.
@@abhiramsajith8868 so happy for you and again know that you are not alone. and you got this. -AIL Team
Your videos always keep reminding me there’s hope❤️ 7 months in with ROCD and I’m almost there, it’s such a slow process when I’m struggling on how to do ERP properly so you’re vids with the explanations rly do help🥹💗
I'm confused about the 4 qualities of love that you mentioned. I feel those things for my partner, but are those things supposed to be ALL OF THE TIME? there are times when I don't feel/do those things, yet deep down I believe my relationship is a good and loving one and my partner says he's not concerned that I'm not ALWAYS feeling/acting on those 4 qualities. Should I be concerned?
That's part of it. I can feel you.
Sometimes I feel the same as you, thinking that if I don't miss my partner all the time, if I don't want to hug her all the time , kiss her or the time and feel connected all the time I'm a bad person, I don't love her as much she loves me and my love is fake. I feel like she should be with someone else that love her so much, because I can't.
But I'm learning that is not like that. You cannot feel 100% love all the time and it's normal. Even if the relationship is super strong and healthy you are not supposed to have your partner all the time in your head. That doesn't makes you a bad person.
Sometimes the love feels calms and warm
Hello , i have a question . I feel nothing To my wife. She is my everything , my Home . But i feel me alone. I have Depression too. We are together since 9 years. She Save my live Couple years ago. I have HOCD, Gay OCD too .
The Most i miss since my sickness is Thai uncomftable feeling and savety feeling.
I miss Thai feeling so much . What can i do ? Please Help.
Sorry for my english Not the Best one ?
Hi Marcus, please know we understand, you are not alone and there is hope in healing. -AIL Team
Hello everyone. I am also struggling with rocd, it had many forms, about appearance, etc. First I had OCD then rocd But now I have thoughts what if I feel something to ex, what if I lying to myself etc
And I feel soooo bad when it comes to my head. Without it I am very happy with my husband, I love him so much. All this started when he was joking with me and said something about ex. And I feel anxiety and trigger. I always like avoid this themes. And then I said my mother, why I feel anxiety when we talking about ex, or I am afraid of seeing ex, I am avoid etc and she said me such triggered thing " Maybe it means that you feel something " And after her words I am started to thinking, and crying, can't sleep, feel quilt and shame, started to search information about this
And I can't expain them that it's like a form of rocd. I am never thinking about ex with my husband that way, but it's starts when my mother said so. Who else face to this form of thoughts and is it rocd? And is feeling of enxiety to ex and avoid normal? Is it mean anything?because it started from this thoughts "is it normal to feel anxiety? You should act calm about exes, why you trigger?"I love my husband very much!
Why do we can scare to see our exes and is it normal? Does it mean anything!?
Your ex is a trigger. That's your one of your biggest fears that you feel something to your ex. Your mother don't know what is ocd. Don't ask people. They will triggering you and those are compulsions too. I think you can only ask people who know what is rocd. You don't feel safety when you think on that so calm down, your ocd playing with you.
may I ask? When I introduce a girl, I immediately feel that it’s cold, I don’t like it okay? It also seems that the thoughts are not so obsessive, that if I don’t think about these thoughts, they will go away, is this also OCD? And tell me, does love pass after 4 months? Because the emotions are not so bright, calm, because of this, I thought that I fell out of love with this, too, part of the relationship OCD?
yana love and know that there is hope. We have other videos that will be helpful for you. please feel free to check them out. -AIL Team