You hit the nail on the head!! I have your Enough is Enough book, and it is refreshing and empowering. I left 4 years ago, and he hunted me down and begged me to come back, promised help and made empty promises of how he was going to complete all the unfinished projects he started at home. I am so sorry I ever came back, but I’m getting stronger and making a plan. It’s hard because he keeps love bombing me. He calls me 10 times a day while he’s at work and is very codependent and smothering. I feel suffocated. Everything revolves around him. Lord, give me strength to not waver going forward!
I was wondering about unfinished projects. He started about 15 projects in our home and never finished them. Our home is in worse shape than when we bought it.
Dr. Clarke, I cannot thank you enough!! I have needed this resource for SO long. It gives me something concrete I can put in motion to get away from this dirt ball! Thank you!!
Thank you Dr. Clark for all you are doing. It took me five years to get my divorce in Tennessee. He beat me filing by manipulating me into thinking reconciliation was possible. In reality, he was waiting for one of my order of protection to expire and he filed the date it expired. I had to do the whole divorce including paperwork. He told me I could not be disabled and he got a new supply. I did not know he was a narcissist until a year after he filed for divorce. It took 2 attorneys and working on #3. God had to be with me. It was impossible. I have 2 women now filing for divorce from their nar husbands. I will share them this link. 💜
My husband discarded me and filed for divorce the first moment he could get. He blamed me for the reason he left and blamed me for his filing of divorce.
I’m Catholic, and was just told by a fellow Catholic, that my soul would go to hell because I filed for divorce! I was also told I needed to obtain an annulment to save my soul ! Can u please help me and address this issue in a future podcast?????!!!!!
For the men out there, this applies to women as well. They can definitely be narcissist too! They're usually more on the covert side, but narcs none the less.
Ok so pretend you’ve finally decided to separate from your abusive husband. You have no money and no vehicle and your not in an area where public transportation is available. What do you do the start? Who do you call? How do I start this? He’s gotta stay away thou
Pray & fast. God is a rescuer and deliverer. Record the abuse discretely. Do not give any indication as to what you're up to in leaving and you'll have more time to plan. Get a savings account in your name. Do you have anything to sell for cash?
You can call a woman’s shelter and get ask them for help and then ask if somebody can meet you and you have no transportation where you are. Make a plan and do not let him know anything. Take only what you can bring especially your birth certificate, SSN, passport or anything else that is important. Hide it in a good place so when you leave you grab it and go!! I’m not sure if you have family? If so try to see if you can get help from them and stay with them for now. Don’t fall for going back with the Narc!! Once you’re done and gone work on yourself and possibly you can get on section 8 for housing and medical? Or if able to work start saving money for yourself and find an affordable place or a roommate. Good luck and stay safe and healthy
Forgot to add!! Important to ask for a restraining order and please try to get into a woman’s shelter!! They can assist you and help you with the restraining order and divorce proceedings as well as where you can get help finding somewhere to live
To anyone in this situation, God be with you and stay strong. You and your children deserve SO much better.
"Well, he's a dirtball too!" 🤣🤣
Omg you are a treasure in this nightmare.
Amen
You hit the nail on the head!! I have your Enough is Enough book, and it is refreshing and empowering. I left 4 years ago, and he hunted me down and begged me to come back, promised help and made empty promises of how he was going to complete all the unfinished projects he started at home. I am so sorry I ever came back, but I’m getting stronger and making a plan. It’s hard because he keeps love bombing me. He calls me 10 times a day while he’s at work and is very codependent and smothering. I feel suffocated. Everything revolves around him. Lord, give me strength to not waver going forward!
I was wondering about unfinished projects. He started about 15 projects in our home and never finished them. Our home is in worse shape than when we bought it.
Thanks Dr.Clarke❤
Dr. Clarke, I cannot thank you enough!! I have needed this resource for SO long. It gives me something concrete I can put in motion to get away from this dirt ball! Thank you!!
Thank you Dr. Clark for all you are doing. It took me five years to get my divorce in Tennessee. He beat me filing by manipulating me into thinking reconciliation was possible. In reality, he was waiting for one of my order of protection to expire and he filed the date it expired. I had to do the whole divorce including paperwork. He told me I could not be disabled and he got a new supply. I did not know he was a narcissist until a year after he filed for divorce. It took 2 attorneys and working on #3. God had to be with me. It was impossible. I have 2 women now filing for divorce from their nar husbands. I will share them this link. 💜
Thank you Mr Clarke,for helping people and telling how it is and the truth.And God Bless You.
SO GOOD🎯💯🙏
My husband discarded me and filed for divorce the first moment he could get. He blamed me for the reason he left and blamed me for his filing of divorce.
#metoo
What about when he filed against you and tried to leave you with nothing?
It is tough. Ask God to help you and he will. Fast and pray a lot.
Do you have any book recommendations for reading with young children to go over these topics?
I’m Catholic, and was just told by a fellow Catholic, that my soul would go to hell because I filed for divorce! I was also told I needed to obtain an annulment to save my soul ! Can u please help me and address this issue in a future podcast?????!!!!!
Hes the biggest mistake i ever made.But i wish i knew how to get away,but he watches my every move. Please pray for me.Thanks
What if you can’t afford an attorney?
For the men out there, this applies to women as well. They can definitely be narcissist too! They're usually more on the covert side, but narcs none the less.
I’m merry to one of those we separate 9 moths a ready, 0 contact I have a order protection and he filed divorce ; but now he’s very silent about it 🙄🤔
NEVER PHYSICALLY STAY AFTER YOU’VE ANNOUNCED DIVORCE
Ok so pretend you’ve finally decided to separate from your abusive husband. You have no money and no vehicle and your not in an area where public transportation is available. What do you do the start? Who do you call? How do I start this? He’s gotta stay away thou
Pray & fast. God is a rescuer and deliverer. Record the abuse discretely. Do not give any indication as to what you're up to in leaving and you'll have more time to plan. Get a savings account in your name. Do you have anything to sell for cash?
You can call a woman’s shelter and get ask them for help and then ask if somebody can meet you and you have no transportation where you are.
Make a plan and do not let him know anything. Take only what you can bring especially your birth certificate, SSN, passport or anything else that is important. Hide it in a good place so when you leave you grab it and go!! I’m not sure if you have family? If so try to see if you can get help from them and stay with them for now.
Don’t fall for going back with the Narc!! Once you’re done and gone work on yourself and possibly you can get on section 8 for housing and medical?
Or if able to work start saving money for yourself and find an affordable place or a roommate.
Good luck and stay safe and healthy
Forgot to add!! Important to ask for a restraining order and please try to get into a woman’s shelter!! They can assist you and help you with the restraining order and divorce proceedings as well as where you can get help finding somewhere to live
1/2 in the bank is yours. No mercy.
Wish i could afford a lawyer for this divorce 🙏🩷
Thanks Dr. Clarke!