Reacting To The "Two Weeks' Notice From Hell"

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ความคิดเห็น • 273

  • @johnsales710
    @johnsales710 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    If I was one of the 25 people on that call, I would be planning an exit strategy asap. Very shameful.

    • @wiseowl2020
      @wiseowl2020 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Exactly! They will soon be replacing most of those 25. I sure as heck wouldn't stick around.

    • @vickieclark5931
      @vickieclark5931 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@wiseowl2020 I agree. Even if I liked working there, I would never look at that company with a positive attitude again. I would be uncomfortable from now on going in there knowing what will happen if I ever quit.

    • @malichicu
      @malichicu ปีที่แล้ว +1

      100%

    • @StuJones-gn7te
      @StuJones-gn7te 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah. I've been in meetings where management just complained about one person (never me though) and they never really made the company look good.
      If the employee is so bad, why's she still here? Give her more time to muck things up? Good planning. Lol.

    • @angelisa368
      @angelisa368 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes! Yikes!!!

  • @freedomring3022
    @freedomring3022 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    Never believe a company that says “we are family here”. You’re not. You are a useful tool to make them money. Nothing more nothing less. Make as much money as you can and learn all the skills you can then move on and upward. Never work for the same company more than 5 years. It makes no sense. You are costing yourself thousands of dollars in pay and benefits

    • @amireallythatgrumpy6508
      @amireallythatgrumpy6508 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You are better off working for the same company for your entire career if conditions are bearable.

    • @vickieclark5931
      @vickieclark5931 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      With my company it would have been dumb to leave cause of the pension and insurance that comes with it. Yes, the pay is crappy, but the benefits, sick pay, & vacations make it better. I know many that don't have everything my company has. They jump from job to job and sometimes make more and many times make less. But in the end, they never had a chance to settle where they started to get the benefits from the job.

    • @travelnurseadventures3225
      @travelnurseadventures3225 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@vickieclark5931 never depend on pensions-they could be gone

    • @travelnurseadventures3225
      @travelnurseadventures3225 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are so right!

    • @jpii8468
      @jpii8468 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Depends on where you work. Large corporations usually suck, but small companies can actually be a family.

  • @lauragb3677
    @lauragb3677 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    I gave 4 wks notice when I worked as a financial analyst for the treasurer of a $6B publicly traded company. We were short staffed, I was leaving bc of constant 70 hr work weeks that interfered with raising my sons. I did it so they could hire and I could train my replacement. Everyone including the treasurer stopped talking to me, a hire wasn’t made for 6 months…total waste of my life on my end. I was glad to get out. Bottom line: we are a tool for management, not their friend. Replaceable.

    • @wiseowl2020
      @wiseowl2020 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Everyone is expendible. Good for you for putting your family ahead of corporate greed.

    • @travelnurseadventures3225
      @travelnurseadventures3225 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It’s like that in healthcare-only you have crappy pay, assault risks, and crappy benefits.

    • @splatninja9447
      @splatninja9447 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@travelnurseadventures3225sucks for you. Bad benefits? So you got a taste of how shitty the medical field is, not only to their employees, but to patients. If you can't afford treatment, go find a dark corner to die in. That's the field you work in.

    • @simon_does
      @simon_does 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Now you know I guess but you should have seen that coming a mile away. Our societal structure on every level is at war with its citizens and also promotes us exploiting each other.
      Spread this knowledge and fight well.

  • @jewelrybox777
    @jewelrybox777 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    At my last job I gave a 2 week notice... They asked me to extend it totaling 3 weeks. When I told them No they let me go that weekend lol..... I was so happy that I stood my ground. Looking back I can thank them for letting me go early I was able to get more time to relax.

    • @vickieclark5931
      @vickieclark5931 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yep, the 2 week notice is for respect for the company. If they aren't happy with that and let you go right away, it was their loss not yours. They actually did you a favor.

    • @engineered-mind
      @engineered-mind ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good for u

  • @adamblessing8528
    @adamblessing8528 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    "You have to stay for 6 weeks" "Sorry, can't hear you over the sound of me leaving right this instant"

    • @janae09
      @janae09 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      100%

    • @joelsegovia6971
      @joelsegovia6971 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Facts!!

    • @InternetUser._
      @InternetUser._ ปีที่แล้ว +3

      “You have to give 2 weeks notice!”
      “In 2 weeks, you’re going to notice I’m not here”

    • @idiotbutransrights
      @idiotbutransrights ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly

    • @Sonicmask
      @Sonicmask 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂

  • @jacqjacq5920
    @jacqjacq5920 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    The only reason why the bosses would have a meeting with team about her is to create a chilling effect for those left behind to not resign like she did. I think this a good reason for the rest of the team to start looking for other jobs.

    • @jennyhammond9261
      @jennyhammond9261 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes, I hope they were flooded with resignations after that!

    • @YourFunkiness
      @YourFunkiness ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And, not give notice.

    • @BillClinton228
      @BillClinton228 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      My ex boss did a one hour presentation about how "we don't need negative people in the company" after a quarter of the staff quit in a span of 2 months. It was weird and petty and I left shortly after.

  • @thegenxgamerr
    @thegenxgamerr ปีที่แล้ว +99

    I learned years ago, the hard way, that when you give your two week notice you make it as short and professional as possible. No elaboration no emotion none of that. Its extremely hard, you want to say things (good or bad) never do it. If you are thinking of doing that, rewatch this video.

  • @GrandpasPlace
    @GrandpasPlace ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I think the most liberating thing I learned in all my years of employment is just what "At Will" employment really means. It is very entertaining when you tell HR what it means after they give the notification to you that your employment is "At Will"
    It means "I can pack up my desk and leave with or without notice should I encounter bad management." I think more managers need to know and understand this.

  • @SharonPorts
    @SharonPorts ปีที่แล้ว +92

    This explains a lot of what quiet quitting is all about.

    • @larslee5341
      @larslee5341 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      But quiet quitting is about passive aggressive revenge without actually quitting…

    • @BobaDavis
      @BobaDavis 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@larslee5341Right, they're probably referring to "Ghosting".

    • @StuJones-gn7te
      @StuJones-gn7te 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I thought both were just about not coming in. It isn't new though. I quit lots of jobs that way in the 1980s and 90s.

  • @CB-vt3mx
    @CB-vt3mx ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I never give reasons for leaving a job. It really is none of their business. In the case where you have been treated poorly, they know they did what they did. If it a case of finding a better opportunity, they know that as well. Work to live, don't live to work.

    • @atlantic_love
      @atlantic_love 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      And I figure that if they give a fVck about what you really thought about the company, they would have come to you for your opinion long before you decided to leave. They're only asking because they're worried about their liability in all of it, and worried about their own jobs.

  • @privacyplease1556
    @privacyplease1556 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    FYI, Dave Ramsey does not allow employees to put in two weeks. If you announce that you’re leaving, they just fire you. Dave always says “when your heart leaves, take your butt with it.”

    • @Chesu360
      @Chesu360 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ride on

    • @travelnurseadventures3225
      @travelnurseadventures3225 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

    • @redclayscholar620
      @redclayscholar620 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That seems like a good idea. No need for stringing out a mismatched job if you find a better one.

    • @mrskitty7929
      @mrskitty7929 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is standard at IT jobs and places where you can damage the company equipment or programs. Dave is smart to have that policy. It may be unexpected and upsetting, but it’s the norm for tons of companies

    • @jacqjacq5920
      @jacqjacq5920 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

  • @Bob-yh7ir
    @Bob-yh7ir ปีที่แล้ว +42

    If it were me, the first call and pushback would have resulted in my immediate goodbye. Don't take this crap from employers.

    • @vickieclark5931
      @vickieclark5931 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah she could have dropped them that day when she saw what she was really dealing with.

  • @Nothingtoya
    @Nothingtoya ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I recently learned a very hard lesson. I worked for the same people for 21 years. Never, under any circumstance, give more of yourself than what they're paying for. I also see no reason to give them a 2 week notice anymore. These companies don't give you a notice, so screw them

  • @alittlepieceofearth
    @alittlepieceofearth ปีที่แล้ว +45

    When she mentioned that they didn't make her a counter offer, I don't think the point was that she expected a counter offer. Rather, I think the point was that if they were so intent on her staying, they might have given a reason to extend her notice or reconsider it all together. A contrast to the bullying they opted for instead.

    • @Matt-cr4vv
      @Matt-cr4vv ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly. I left a job yesrs ago and our CEO drove to my office to try and counter offer. And face to face he was so amenable. And I didn’t actually ask for more money I only asked to not be forced to relocate like they were originally forcing. And once he was back in his office he was sending douchey emails about it and was suddenly cold about it and denied everything he said he’d be likely to do. So I confirmed I was leaving. The next day I had a bid on my desk and got paid to go home for my notice and was escorted out. But the two weeks off was nice.

  • @sagrammyfour
    @sagrammyfour ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I am a nurse, and have always been an "at will" employee. I have a good friend who gave two weeks' notice and suffered this same thing. I learned that "at will" GOES BOTH WAYS. They don't have to have a reason for firing you, and you don't have to have a reason for quitting. For the first time in 32 years with a spotless, impeccable record, I encountered an impossible situation (related to some impossible people at work), I met with my boss (a "pumps and pearls" nurse who hasn't been in the clinical area since she graduated from nursing school) with my politically correct nicely worded effective immediately resignation letter in my pocket. I listened to her chastise me and make a "plan for improvement" for me, then I slid my letter across the desk without a word and enjoyed seeing her open the envelope, study my note, and enjoyed even more seeing her big fat brightly lipsticked mouth drop open so wide a truck could have driven through it. There were a few moments of awkward silence as she read my short but sweet note and she said "You don't mean this!" I said "Yes I do. It's been a pleasure and an honor working with my colleagues" I had already cleaned out my locker, and I turned my back on her and walked out.This was my day off, so I did not abandon my patients. Now the company (HCA) has a new policy--the 401K match money is only paid on Dec 31st--if you are fired or resign prior to that time, you don't get your match money. I'm pretty sure this is because of people like me. THANKS, HCA, for lying and disrespecting all the RN's who give so much so you can look good and make lots of money. Maybe this is why your company is going tits up and taking on water.

    • @CarnivoreStork
      @CarnivoreStork ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good one ☝🏽

    • @mattwebb6056
      @mattwebb6056 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Did/had almost exactly the same experience when I left my retail job 11 years ago!

    • @smithrr6
      @smithrr6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Aren't nurses in high demand right now? why would you make a policy that easily allows for another hospital to compete better in the work force? A policy like this means that only the nurses that can't get better options will be working there.

    • @travelnurseadventures3225
      @travelnurseadventures3225 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@smithrr6 hospitals don’t care

    • @travelnurseadventures3225
      @travelnurseadventures3225 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      When I gave my 2 weeks noticed they wanted be to give 2 MONTHS with a dollar raise. I told them no, I trained the last 2 months 2 nurses and a lazy travel nurse and then after I signed them off gave the 2 weeks. In nursing, it’s never enough. Healthcare invented Gaslighting and Bullying. One just has to leave. Good job you got out!

  • @ericmoore9444
    @ericmoore9444 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I put in my two weeks at a restaurant I worked at for 3 years during college. The boss was mad and I overheard him saying that he thought I was trying to be “hot sh*t.”
    Another person got a going away party when they left.
    It felt great! 👍🏻

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It sounds like your boss was jealous you were leaving for what I assume was a business environment. Why was the other person treated differently and given a party? Were they moving away, or quitting to stay home with kids?

  • @9liveslisa
    @9liveslisa ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Many years ago, I had a row with the VP of the company, so I typed up a resignation letter on the spot and I told them I would give them 2 weeks notice in the letter. They escorted me out of the building that day, and I was perfectly happy to leave that day. When I offered them 2 weeks notice, I was fully aware they may want me out that day but I felt giving them notice was the right thing to do.. I never looked back. Sometimes you have to cut your losses and just move on. P.S. The VP was a sleeze ball and she had an affair with with one of our clients and split up a 25 year marriage. I didn't want to work with her anymore. She got fired 2 years later. I lived happily ever after.

  • @R_W_Goodson
    @R_W_Goodson ปีที่แล้ว +17

    “We no longer own your life so please follow Security out of the door.”

  • @BadBrad119
    @BadBrad119 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I experienced this in a kitchen, put in my 2 week notice and endured bullying so I could leave with entegrity. On my last day the unaware restaurant manager told me I'm always welcome back, I told him that bridge is now burnt thanks to the kitchen management 👍

    • @Brenaenae
      @Brenaenae ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ha! If there was an intended pun, I caught it😂

  • @LuisSaulny
    @LuisSaulny ปีที่แล้ว +12

    They don't care about people... in corporate is just business and you are 100% replaceable... don't work for them work for yourself while you work in a job.

  • @RivasMichelle
    @RivasMichelle ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I relate to her so much. I managed up the courage to leave a job in April 2021 after working there for two years, thanks to you Ken! I sometimes kick myself in the teeth with the loyalty that’s engraved in my brain.. I gave them a one month notice; same thing the young lady said, I waited to train another supervisor and waited for the new campaign to launch… and I was asked to give another 2 weeks… like.. what? They then had the nerve to ask me in the exit interview if it was because I wasn’t considered for the promotion… which then made me realize.. I stuck it out for two years and not once was I given a yearly raise… the nerve.

  • @YourBestFriendforToday
    @YourBestFriendforToday ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Check your HR policy on separation. Because the 2 jobs I have left, if I initiate separation, I had to give 2 weeks. If I did not, my PTO would not have been paid out. Just something to check if you’re like me and keep your PTO bank stacked.

  • @CarnivoreStork
    @CarnivoreStork ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I knew there is no ‘law.’ And I always have been an advocate for people giving a 2 week notice & not leaving the company high & Dry.
    But after 23 years, and a 3rd new ownership, the lies & deceit piling up,
    I decided to just give a resignation email effective immediately & thanking the company.
    Told them I’m retiring; which I was. Knowing full well they would NOT buckle down and hire someone in that 2 weeks to replace me. Because they are idiots.
    Gave it to them on the last hour before my scheduled 3 days off. HR called me on the 3rd day to see if I was coming in the next morning.
    I had to explain what ‘effective immediately’ meant. 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @sagrammyfour
      @sagrammyfour ปีที่แล้ว +3

      WELL DONE!

    • @wiseowl2020
      @wiseowl2020 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I walked away from 11 years at a nonprofit because the CEO was insulted that a client let their car go to repo. I was told I'd be out on a PIP. I stood up, looked my supervisor in the eye and said "Nope!" I threw my laptop and phone in the wastebasket and left it on my desk. Enough said.

    • @kikiriki8742
      @kikiriki8742 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @herielina, good for you!!

    • @yesthejets3377
      @yesthejets3377 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why is it leaving a company “high and dry” when u quit but when u get fired that’s not the case for the company?

    • @CarnivoreStork
      @CarnivoreStork ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@yesthejets3377
      I should of said; “leaving my co-workers high
      & dry, because they would have to pick up the slack.

  • @ILENEmusic
    @ILENEmusic ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I’m surprised this video went viral, maybe I’ve worked in toxic workplaces for long but nothing she said was shocking or new, this is how a lot of corporate managers worked. Especially in banking. People called me while I was on leave. I have had to block every male boss I’ve ever worked for due to out of pocket contact outside of work. Sad

  • @model3forever91
    @model3forever91 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I manage a whole department with a small team of 20 people. It is very depressing to me to hear these kinds of management out there. Numerous people have left to pursue different jobs over the years and not once have I ever heard of think of something like this happening.

  • @wiseowl2020
    @wiseowl2020 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    There is no excuse to belittle someone whose given notice. You say "thanks" and start the search process. All these bozos did was give 25 people a reason to update their resume.

  • @MsBlue68
    @MsBlue68 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I worked for a terrible manager who I complained about. She threatened to fire me if I didn't withdraw my complaint. I refused and left that same day. Never think that they are your friends. They will throw you under the bus. Put yourself first always. I'm in a much better job now. Never looked back.

  • @abbyoneill4473
    @abbyoneill4473 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Managers and companies in general will show their true colors when you decide to leave them. Some weirdly view it as a personal rejection even when it isn't. You can leave in the best most respectful way ever and there will still be many employers who take issue with it and make the process hell for you. That's why I never make the mistake of thinking any manager of mine is "different" and actually cares about me anymore. It's just a job, not a family.

  • @jdudefun1755
    @jdudefun1755 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    What company is this? Call them out.

    • @vickieclark5931
      @vickieclark5931 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah, I wouldn't feel bad calling the company out. They tried to ruin her. I think it should backfire and that's the way to get justice. Eye for an eye. Do to them what they did to you.

  • @iyeshaluker23
    @iyeshaluker23 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    When I gave my two weeks notice at my last job, I was immediately offered a 40% raise (which I knew was less than my male co-worker). Then I was asked to stay past the notice so he could go on his Hawaiian vacation.

    • @wiseowl2020
      @wiseowl2020 ปีที่แล้ว

      For real? What idiots! 🤣

    • @travelnurseadventures3225
      @travelnurseadventures3225 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow 40%! I’m an acute nurse in covid unit I was offered a dollar 🧐

  • @vickieclark5931
    @vickieclark5931 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    If I was one of those team members that saw the way the leaders treated someone that was leaving and harassing her up to her 2 weeks, that would let me know NOT to give a 2 week notice. Sounds to me like these leaders have just taught all of their employees to just leave with no notice cause it'll make them afraid of giving one knowing how they will get tortured up to the last day. I'm glad she got out of that toxic environment and wish her well in finding something much better with much better pay and much better leadership.

  • @waynewallace9055
    @waynewallace9055 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I don't think a 2 week notice is necessary when a company can fire you at anytime. Does a company say hey we are going to let you go in 2 weeks. Yes, if you plan on working at that company again a 2 week notice is a good idea, if you have no plans of ever going back just resign on the spot

  • @Sophie3647s
    @Sophie3647s ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I quitted same day for 2 practices that always belittled me. Had owner crying the Monday evening I said was my last day. Both female doctors were so abusive verbally towards me. Didn't like my uniform, or that "I looked young for the role". Like what? I look young because I am young. Just tell me you don't want to pay me what I'm worth and I move on. Fortunately I found a lot nicer ppl to work for

  • @willkirk486
    @willkirk486 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    2 weeks is a cultural waste!!! Plan your exit strategy, and take the ramp. Own your decision. If you work for others, expect to walk someday. Know how to do. Dignity is one thing, but door mats and dumpster fires are quite another

  • @ricardofmartinez8693
    @ricardofmartinez8693 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great episode Ken , glad you posted and narrated this experience. Its a great example to the young ones and the timid on how to stay firm and confident in yourself. Identifying terribly toxic management and how to deal with them. Total bully tactics on the part of management. So despicable.

  • @marioherrerajr5293
    @marioherrerajr5293 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I do agree with no giving two week notice! Whenever you people get fire I've never seen anyone getting two weeks notice in order for them to get a new job!

  • @meisog2233
    @meisog2233 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    If I were her, I would’ve just left without the 2 weeks notice if they were to treat me like that.

  • @MichelleBuck-u1d
    @MichelleBuck-u1d 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I quit a job and left the same day because I didn’t want to deal with the toxic work environment any longer. That was two years ago. Today I quit my job and gave a 2 week notice. Corporate jobs are trash. I’m focusing on my own pursuits now since I don’t fit into these shitty environments that suck out your soul.

  • @jjg8605
    @jjg8605 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Disgusting they should be in jail that is defamation of character . Tell her to get a lawyer

  • @Jan-jk5li
    @Jan-jk5li ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow. Unbelievable. Thank you for sharing this (I don't have TikTok). My daughter works in the medical field and has told me crazy stories about the bullying she has dealt with (and sometimes left jobs over). I've not really ever dealt with this myself and haven't quite known what to think about it since, while I love my daughter, I know I'm only hearing one side of the story. But I am realizing that there really are some poorly managed companies out there that allow bullying to continue, both in management and employee to employee. I'm proud of this young lady for leaving and I wish her all the best. Learning this lesson now will serve her well in the years to come.

    • @travelnurseadventures3225
      @travelnurseadventures3225 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No it’s not one sided, your daughter is right, Healthcare is notorious for gaslighting and bullying-sad cause it’s a profession that deals with caring for human lives!

    • @Jan-jk5li
      @Jan-jk5li ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@travelnurseadventures3225, 100%. My daughter often comments that she doesn't understand why some of her co-workers ever got into their profession if they don't believe in caring for others as human beings. She is a CNA, so it isn't a high paying job! As far as hearing only 1 side of the story, I was simply acknowledging that my child is not perfect (no one's is), so there is always room for her to have had missteps now and again, but from the type of behavior she has described, agreed, it would seem the healthcare field is rife with gaslighting and bullying. So sad and so unnecessary. It does nothing but downgrade everyone's ability to provide excellent patient care. "Team work makes the dream work." I don't know who said it originally, but when people work as a team and pull in the same direction toward the same goals instead of having all the infighting and bullying, it can be a beautiful and joyous thing.

    • @travelnurseadventures3225
      @travelnurseadventures3225 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Jan-jk5li G*d Bless your daughter working as a CNA-CNAs are the eyes and ears of the hospital! I worked all through nursing school as a CNA-should be required before going to RN school, MD, PA, NP etc 🎉

    • @Jan-jk5li
      @Jan-jk5li ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@travelnurseadventures3225, thank you so much, and agreed! It is good prep for the other levels of medicine. ❤

  • @user-kj6iw1qv1c
    @user-kj6iw1qv1c 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I worked somewhere for years and the manager was abusive, a bully, and had a big ego. He used a lot of manipulation, could be nice one minute and mean the next. He lied too. When someone gave a 2 week notice, he chased them out the door the same day. He always tried to make himself look good and trashed the employees behind their backs

  • @michaeld.langiano1700
    @michaeld.langiano1700 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Many companies nowadays are so arrogant. If you work for one of these toxic companies, not only should you not give them any notice, just quietly clean out your office over a couple weeks time, then just stop showing up. Don't even bother telling them that you left their employ. Let them figure it out. F* them!

  • @chadnorris8257
    @chadnorris8257 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It's sad to hear that giving notice to a job can cause them to start treating you horribly. Especially if it's one of those "We're family" type businesses. Nobody has to give notice. Putting two weeks aside so as not to inconvenience your coworkers is a generosity. This is just going to discourage the next people who want to quit from giving notice. They'll just finish their shift and say they're not coming back, if they finish the shift at all.

  • @brad885
    @brad885 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I give two weeks notice when I leave, but I've also been in leadership/engineering roles where it's professional courtesy. Six weeks is probably the end of a project they feel they can't finish without her. To me this sounds like a poorly run engineering firm.

    • @mugentuner
      @mugentuner ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Depends on what her contract and terms of employment said

    • @brad885
      @brad885 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mugentuner we don't know all the details, but no one can force her to stay either. My words on that meeting would be "f*** you guys, Im leaving." Public humiliation isn't okay either.

    • @mugentuner
      @mugentuner ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@brad885 yeah that should have been a walkout on her part and give a piece of her mind professionally

  • @Mimi-pt4fo
    @Mimi-pt4fo 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Like my work, when somebody quits they say that person didn’t do well at the job. It’s called gaslighting

  • @wmason1961
    @wmason1961 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A team call about me would result in my sending a company wide email explaining my side and leaving that day. Forget the two weeks.

  • @curtisstewart3179
    @curtisstewart3179 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I bet management wonders why productivity dropped and more people are leaving. Having some experience leaving jobs I tell them I am leaving and do they need two weeks notice. (Most don't). Unless I am burning a bridge. Then I make sure they remember the fire.
    And for those of you who believe in NEVER burning bridges, you have not worked for the right company. By the way, I am 65 with 44 years experience still playing the game. I quit giving a wet poop about what management thinks of me over 20 years ago. I am hired to fix things and get things done. And I do not suffer fools. Labor or management.

  • @chaselesser3191
    @chaselesser3191 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Where is that cancel culture when you need it.

  • @StuJones-gn7te
    @StuJones-gn7te 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    BTW, the 2 week notice WAS customary, before about 1970. When almost every stats adopted "at will" hiring and firing, the 2 week notice went away or should have. Back in the old days, the company also gave 2 week notice.

  • @bullswoodworks8398
    @bullswoodworks8398 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That's called "installing fear into new employees" . I'd say ok. I'll stay for a month ...and show up at lunch everyday.

  • @emilyrogers3271
    @emilyrogers3271 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Horrible behavior from supposed professional leaders.

  • @thecuriousoutsider
    @thecuriousoutsider 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is what entitlement looks like in a company's leadership.

  • @sagrammyfour
    @sagrammyfour ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Years ago a man whom I loved decided to dump me. I was blind-sided and in shock. Of course there was another woman--anyone who buys that "It's not you, it's me" crap is a fool. I thought he loved me, things were going fine, and I had planned on a future with him. There were many things I wanted to say, but instead I wrote him a kind letter stating that although it was not my wish to part, I respected his opinion. I thanked him for the good times and wished him well. A few years went by and he contacted me, said he was sorry, he had made a mistake, and wanted me back since I was the best thing that ever happened to him. I ghosted him, refusing to even answer the phone. I WAS the best thing that ever happened to him, but the best thing that ever happened to me was him dumping me.

    • @peteranon8455
      @peteranon8455 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, but did he give you two weeks notice?

    • @sagrammyfour
      @sagrammyfour ปีที่แล้ว

      @@peteranon8455 Ha ha. I think he counted on a few more days of nooky , but I'm pretty sure he spent the next few nights high and dry.

  • @ShayKMBR
    @ShayKMBR 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You're not going to get an employee to stay, regardless of notice, if you insult them. No reasonable person will tolerate disrespect for longer than they have to.

  • @mattwebb6056
    @mattwebb6056 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    In the UK we have to give 4 weeks notice.

  • @adelainamercado3333
    @adelainamercado3333 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice to see you on the air I watched you today because I got fired for no reason . As I went to a knew job that I got 2 days after . I looked you up ! I find you interesting since you know a lot of what’s good for you and what’s not and my goal was DONT give up . Thank you for your insights . From NJ !

  • @Justsayingthat
    @Justsayingthat ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Really, most just do the 2/3 weeks notice because they care about the business not struggling to fill role. Plus leave with a reference. If she did not care, she could have just left. So they reward her by minimizing her ability? Truly mean and uncalled for.

  • @plaguedoctor5892
    @plaguedoctor5892 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would have told them that as soon as I left the phone call, it would be my last moment with the company.

  • @kiranrao4375
    @kiranrao4375 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Difference between employer and employee is that the employer is the pay master and holds all the cards. I have seen employers just blocking emp access cards, the employees hang around for a few more hours to know they are terminated.

  • @richystar2001
    @richystar2001 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She could leave seconds after her notice... she is not a slave.... She could get up and walk away anytime.

  • @gabolujan3109
    @gabolujan3109 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Egregious

  • @GM-cd2dr
    @GM-cd2dr ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is an example of Narcism in the workplace, textbook example of manipulation followed by a public smear complain. Go follow Dr Ramani channel for more information on how to identify and deal with these people

  • @biscotti_8820
    @biscotti_8820 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was me , I’m a pastry chef an this is literally just like what I went through. My boss is trying to keep me through thanksgiving. An im already in transition for my new job.

    • @mikellyartisan1384
      @mikellyartisan1384 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hope your new job will be a lot better!

    • @smithrr6
      @smithrr6 ปีที่แล้ว

      You have your new job already lined up. Do not jeopardize your new gig for this old one.

  • @user-vb6sq9ml7b
    @user-vb6sq9ml7b 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just found this video. This hits close to home as my current employer is so similar. The culture is awful. I cam imagine them handling me leaving with a "bullying" response. They have no care, empathy, leadership, value, respect for anyone. During my 4 years there, several employees have passed away. They didn't even care to attend 2 of them. That's how much they DON'T CARE. I need to get out but don't want to jump into anything else that could be even worse. I know what I want and am working towards it. But in the meantime, working in a toxic environment is very hard.

  • @travelnurseadventures3225
    @travelnurseadventures3225 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love the reaction videos!

  • @chime-girl
    @chime-girl ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Two words. Law suit. Hostile Workplace Harassment. That would be my advice from 25 years of Human Resources

    • @travelnurseadventures3225
      @travelnurseadventures3225 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol, I guess in the corporate world. In Healthcare, hostile work environment is expected.

  • @cutlerylover
    @cutlerylover ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That call was NOT for her it was a threat to the existing employees to see what happens to people who decide to leave...

  • @fg-pd5mh
    @fg-pd5mh ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hopefully you learned from that. All the companies are happy aslong we are productive and they they stated we are a family but once you we a mistake or we are planning to leave for better, we face reality!!

  • @mohaimou6660
    @mohaimou6660 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't usually give a week or 2 as notice... but this time I tried to be nice and professional I gave this company that i work with a week notice..... then they walked me out the same day without saying anything, they said they still gonna pay me for this week and they just don't want me inside of the facility anymore

  • @aarontheblackfox
    @aarontheblackfox ปีที่แล้ว +4

    All those people just learned to not give 2 weeks to these people. What a joke.

    • @racpatrice
      @racpatrice ปีที่แล้ว

      That's right. My mindset would be to resign effective immediately. Give them the letter an hour before my shift ends lol

  • @rodneyevans8362
    @rodneyevans8362 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just quit! They wouldn't have got 2 weeks from me after their negativity. It's called bullying.

  • @Demonizar
    @Demonizar ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Had to give 4 weeks notice, gave 2 days short of 4 weeks which they insisted I owe, I think not, left when I said but knowing how they dealt with my notice was the nails in the coffin for leaving in the first place, never go back to a job either, history books

  • @ClessieCummins254
    @ClessieCummins254 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    When that happens to me, I just pretend like I'm 18 years old again in military basic training. Just let it go in one ear and out the other.

  • @amylyn722
    @amylyn722 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel for her. When I was laid off from a job they gave me a 2 week notice which I appreciated, but I wish they would have just walked me out. I worked in a department that worked with upper management closely and no one spoke to me AT ALL until the last day. When two people did and asked how I was doing, what was I going to do I looked at them, smiled, picked up my things and walked out the door.

  • @josemarquez86
    @josemarquez86 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Always have a recording on everything even on zoom calls. depend on your state laws as well. Yes, talking we people in American only 🇺🇲

  • @15KHPCLUB
    @15KHPCLUB ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm in an at-will state which means you or your employer can terminate employment at any time for any reason.
    Therefore I never gave a two week notice
    Now that I am an employer, I don't hold anyone to that expectation either.
    These managers have no issue leaving you high and dry, however feel so entitled when you do so and would retaliate so as long as they can get away with it.

  • @tem3111
    @tem3111 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'll give them a 2 day notice meaning I will leave this place today.

  • @engineered-mind
    @engineered-mind ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Corporate Abuse / bullying. It’s wicked leadership

  • @asunset8545
    @asunset8545 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've noticed the lack of leadership and professionalism from those in management positions at alot of these jobs. It's sad.

  • @alezandradavila2581
    @alezandradavila2581 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I give 2 weeks but it doesn’t have to be personable

  • @larryreynolds007
    @larryreynolds007 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The company I worked for, if you walked in the boss’s office and give a 2 week notice. They would say - Give me your keys and clean your desk out now. Then they would stay with you and walk you out. Then they would change the door lock combination. That is how the real world works.

  • @oa5828
    @oa5828 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is defamation and needs an immediate lawsuit against it and toxic work culture.

  • @detectiveconan2190
    @detectiveconan2190 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Mistake 1: There are some exceptions but never show your emotion to anyone at work, especially to your boss. Coworkers and your bosses are not your friends and 90% of the times they are manipulators, narcissist, sociopaths and psychopaths. They will try to throw you under the bus, manipulate, gaslight and snitch on you for their own good/agenda.
    Mistake 2: You do NOT need to show respect to the company that you are leaving. All you need to tell them is ‘As required by my employment contract/labour law of the state that I currently reside in, I am required to give a minimum of [notice period] weeks notice and as such I am giving you that [notice period] effective today’.
    Mistake 3: Waiting to give notice until the busy season is over. Give your notice before the busy season starts and simply give them “It’s not my problem mfers face”.
    Mistake 4: Picking up the phone call from the company. If they ever ask you to talk on the phone, just simply email them and say “I am going to need all future correspondences archived and on record. So email will be only mode of conversation from this point on” or “I’m sick and can’t talk on the phone so please email”. Define rules of engagement on your favourite terms.
    You learn life the hard way. People are not as nice as you would expect and you have to have a plan to screw over everyone you work with if push comes to shove. If this young lady recorded everything they said, she could probably sue the company for workplace harassment.

  • @terryhenderson424
    @terryhenderson424 ปีที่แล้ว

    In this area for decades and across industries, of you give a 2 week notice you should expect to be fired with cause (they provide a justifiable cause) up to and including bad things to have on your record. Sometimes you can immediately quit before the t's are crossed and the i's dotted thus preventing a formal termination; no guarantees what end up in the company's records. Most companies expect a 4 week notice for an executive position.

  • @kenpapal8552
    @kenpapal8552 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m going to need proof.

  • @TrumbleAudio
    @TrumbleAudio 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    After 8 years I gave my 2 weeks. 2 hours later got a surprise phone call they were around the corner to pickup the company’s property

  • @starlingswallow
    @starlingswallow ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Those managers showed their a$$es. They completely uncovered their true hearts 😮

  • @niaadent8788
    @niaadent8788 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey, just curious when upon putting in a two week notice if you are fired abruptly after that, would you potentially qualify for unemployment benefits since you were terminated?

  • @RichardLeo-mf3zb
    @RichardLeo-mf3zb หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I would have left that afternoon.

  • @houstonka
    @houstonka 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    2 week notice is only if you planning to one day maybe come back to work for that company. Otherwise you are wasting your time. Employees are only well oiled machines that are replaceable in a day or so. Better use those 2 weeks to rest and prepare yourself for next chapter in your life.

  • @AB-dn2bk
    @AB-dn2bk หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can't imagine why she would be leaving...

  • @christiansmith-of7dt
    @christiansmith-of7dt 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Everybody knows , if they dont i sure as hell told you guys , it hurts too much , i quit

  • @bamabigfoot
    @bamabigfoot ปีที่แล้ว

    Ken, I learned on TikTok that its 'Prerogative" and Bobby says it in the song. I was shaken.

  • @anthonykence9954
    @anthonykence9954 ปีที่แล้ว

    Companies have the at will employment that you sign . Were you can Be let go at any time or any reason. A two week notice is a courtesy for the employer. But you dont have to give them that. You can do a at will resignation and turn their turn the tables on them

  • @jaredgould2426
    @jaredgould2426 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Working in politics -- now journalism -- I have a truckload of horror stories about the workplace. Just make as much money as possible and try to retire early so you can enjoy more time before you die.

  • @sathdk79
    @sathdk79 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Slander and harassment. They created a hostile work environment

  • @roshinobi
    @roshinobi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Always amazing to me that employers are so quick to teach all the other employees not to give two weeks notice.

    • @kikiriki8742
      @kikiriki8742 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      why is it 'amazing'?

    • @roshinobi
      @roshinobi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kikiriki8742 You're nitpicking my phrasing a bit, but the point is it's against the company's interest to take actions that discourage other employees from providing notice, so it's amazingly stupid that they keep doing it.

    • @kikiriki8742
      @kikiriki8742 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@roshinobi Not nitpicking, just trying to understand what you meant. I wasn't attacking you. Sometimes, it's not easy to read what's on these threads because the screen, especially if you're on your phone, might not show the full message. The way you explained it, I fully agree with what you're saying.

  • @DIYHVAC
    @DIYHVAC ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Were not your damn slaves!

  • @ivybichon8582
    @ivybichon8582 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I put in my resignation and they’re pushing I don’t think I need to even answer that question. Any thoughts?

  • @jkopvo
    @jkopvo ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow!