If "Red Flags" Was A Dating Show w/ James Marriott
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jerry springer had a dating show called "Baggage" and it was interesting to say the least.
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Jerry really said “whats belly dancing? Im a visual learner btw”
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What came over me I dunno my phone was in my pocket and I don't know what this comment thread is about
''i can't be associated with any illegal activity'' locking someone in your car unwillingly has to be breaking SOME KIND of law right??
It's kidnapping I believe
Edit: it is kidnapping.
You're on a bottom of-the-barrel "dating" show with the sleazy king of trash TV, Jerry Springer. NOW your reputation matters?
false imprisonment or kidnapping lol
Kidnapping and probably other shit like domestic violence
I bet she was probably fine with it afterward because if he hadn’t she might’ve made them crash
Contestant: I wear womans jeans
Jerry: WHAT ARE YOU? GAY? HAHAHAHAHA
@@froodlenoodle are you being sarcastic??? please tell me you are, sorry
@@wrendraws2361 of course lmao
@@wrendraws2361 what did he say
Hey! There's nothing wrong with being probed!
why are you gae?
the way he was like "40 questions is a bit intrusive for a first date"
you know what else is intrusive? *_forcing a drunk woman into the trunk of your car_*
I love how this woman literally makes surveys for the first date lmao
2010s really were like "I'd rather date a psychopath than a man who wears women's jeans"
"I want 10 kids and locked a woman in a car“ so he likes to trap women, got it.
i wanna laugh but he said adopted so i'm conflicted if i should like your comment or not
@@xaraxchnidx if you adopt kids as a couple they’re your kids and which I assume he meant since it’s harder for single people to adopt. Not that these people actually ended up together lol
Funniest joke in this comment section
DANG ITTTTTTTT I HAVENT GOT TO THAT PART YET
I hope he likes men too bc he’s gonna be in *my* trunk soon /j
All pink shirt dude had to say at the end was "Pick me, I have never locked anyone in my trunk"
I think it will be a bonnie and Clyde situation
Yo man U got 1k likes
Unless…
the comment about her not wanting him in her closet is giving the vibes of that girl who goes “just don’t fall in love with me” when her friend comes out as a lesbian
Ikr. She's obviously at least mildly homophobic if a guy wearing girls jeans throws her off. Would hate to see her reaction to the entire 80s
She came across as so judgmental and juvenile, in that particular cisheteronormative way some straight people are, the whole show. She'd literally rather have a gender-conforming guy who seems like a serial killer or abusive than date someone who's GNC or just maybe a guy who's not very masc. If that Michael guy was actually bi, she would definitely have been turned off by the idea of that and for no other reason.
She came off like the kind of person who's learned everything she currently knows about relationships and men from reading those magazines that tell you how to specially tilt your head to signal the inner alpha-ness of your boyfriend or whatever, and from sitcoms where everyone hates their husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend. Just... peak hetero
@@sholem_bond lol what? idk his explanation for the trunk thing makes it a lot less weird and more of him trying to phrase it badly for the suitcase just for the drama and then explaining its not that bad.
plus that Michael guy was weird af aside from that, so even minus the jeans and trunk thing he's a bad choice.
also abusive? what? whats abusive about protecting a drunk person from idk, causing a car crash while they're driving? sure it wasn't the best way for him to deal with it but he said he was in college so he was young and maybe he didn't have any other options.
lastly the way you're speaking so derogatorily about straight people pisses me off, you obviously think some sexualities are superior which is just as bad as being homophobic. just accept that everyone is different and move on.
@@sholem_bond She's clearly vain, ignorant, and shallow... but why is "peak hetero" a default insult? Don't spread the same flavor of hate towards straight folks that's typically thrown at the GNC crowd.
@@lizc6393 Usually when someone calls someone else "peak hetero", that really means something more along the lines of "judgemental about other sexualities and extremely insecure about their own" (I think it may even be short for "peak heteronormative", although that's hard to know for sure). For instance, someone buying into all of the stereotypes about what sexuality is, like thinking that wearing jeans from the "wrong" section makes you gay, would be an example of someone being "peak hetero", but a man marrying a woman wouldn't be. No one really believes being straight is bad in and of itself (gay/bi people have got plenty of experience with where that road goes).
That said, none of that context is clear when someone says "peak hetero" if you haven't heard it before - it sounds pretty bad on it's own, and it's usually only said in queer communities, so it's not really fair to assume everyone will understand it and not be upset when they hear it in a random conversation. (Honestly I wish it was worded differently, but it's kinda hard to shift course now that it's caught on.)
I hope this guy realizes that being on a show and admitting you locked a woman in your car doesn't look good to the social workers clearing you to adopt
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I like how Michael didn't seem to get all offended for being called gay. That's a confident man right there.
Honestly, Michael was too good for her.
@@StoutShako For real, I hope he's well now and found someone right for him
That’s not even confidence, it’s just common sense. Honestly who tf cares ab strangers opinions that much?? Ur literally never gonna see them ag, who cares if they think ur gay? Not even an insult bro, people need to grow the hell up
@@sarahlinares-yikes I'm sorry? I agree 110% but it feels like you think that I don't lmao /gen
@@sarahlinares-yikes I mean it was on public TV back in 2010-12..
Imagine choosing a possible kidnapper over a dude who is barely even weird
420th like 😎
Honestly I don't think it was the baggage it was the hair and fit which to be fair 100% his fault he's a hairdresser do better
@@chasejones7008 yeah, it was purely aesthetical. Incredibly ironic coming from someone who literally judged a guy for focusing on the body.
Some girls just don’t like the (sort of) feminine type of guy. Her loss! More soft bois for us!
But the thing is. Appearance is relatively minor. A guy who locked his ex in his trunk is absolutely terrifying
My sister was an audience member for this show and she said this:
“I can tell you that it’s not scripted but they practice what they want to say and do a few takes. And sometimes the main person wouldn’t have a reaction to the baggage because they didn’t care and would need to make one up. I think I saw 9 episodes filmed and I can almost guarantee you that none of those people actually went on a date with each other”
Thanks for sharing :)
Sounds like my college dating experience....
Well good she wasn’t dense enough to date a possible abuser
@@bekcha4170
let's not call people dense for being with abusers. that's victim blaming. :)
@@oats8854 If you dont know someone is an abuser then yes, thats totally understandable for me (frustraiting but its not victims fault at all), but why in the world would you get into a relationship with a stranger (so you have no feelings or connection to them yet whatsoever), without being threatened or anything, out of your free will, knowing they are abusers? Sorry but that for me is quite... nicely said illogical.
Im talking here in aspect of a show, not situations where victims are manipulated, threatened etc. Where they were already in relationship with someone and they turned abusive. Im talking about this show precisely.
Its still 100% abusers fault, dont get me wrong, but I just dont get it.
😭imagine hating someone's jeans so much that you would rather risk getting locked in the trunk of a car
literally. this show is dystopian af lol
literally, she said yeah i'll take possibly being abused over sharing a closet with somebody
Literally just homophobia, any sign of effeminacy and it’s too much for the straight girl 😂 sad!
@@lexthequeer YEAH LIKE.. "ew u wear womens jeans??? that's gay" dude 😭
at least they weren't bootcut jeans
ana: makes fun of a guy because she’s not okay with him wearing women’s-cut jeans (which were pretty much the only skinny jeans available at the time) or doing sex work
also ana: he’s so judgmental omg
EXACTLY 😭 I was like “what the hell?!”
He was pretty bad in the interviews, but definitely nowhere near “lock my ex in the trunk”
Exactly lile she was the only one being judgmental and then she picks a guy who's abusive so like 🥴
Im pretty sure it was just an excuse cuz she didnt find that guy manly enough and he had the least bad baggage so she didnt know what to come up with. That guy didnt even say a word about anyone but himself and only nice things, how is he the judgmental. But people do see their own bad characteristics in others though, she goes on a show about peoples baggages and she criticizes them the whole time
and she called him judgemental right after the other guy made fun of him?!?!
I remember being obessessed with this as a kid and trust me this was not even the craziest episode. What they consider "baggage" ranges from weird toxic masculinity shit to legitimate crimes
I mean, that's baggage... Is it not?
@@universalpower419 i remember one episode where the guy liked eating dog food as a kink. not a crime or anything too wild, but 8 year old me was like “wtf that’s weird” and ive carried that with me all these years
Or just like being bisexual or dating a trans woman, or even being circumcised 💀
@@anna_banana414 huh 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 a kink
It feels like they picked this woman from a Fox News audition with her energy.
She has SUCH mean-girl-from-highschool vibes
i spat out my drink this is so spot on
stoppp that's so accurate
Oh my god!
Alternatively, she sounds just like Elaine from Seinfeld
her saying "ethnic food" and then right after theres the """belly dancing""""...... That activated my fight or flight
Right, the ethnic food, Thai massages, and belly dancing had me scratching my head.
As an Arab I feel like I can criticise others when they do the dance of my people
She didn’t belly dance well either
Very stiff and she just did random moves
And "thai massage" (I think she said). She has a dreamcatcher hanging somewhere in her home, for sure. She also might have a tattoo in badly-punctuated Hebrew despite not being at all Jewish (and not in the process of converting). Or something in Chinese or Japanese that she doesn't actually know the meaning of.
Also, when people say "ethnic food" it always makes me want to ask them what they think "ethnic" means.
Like, pizza could be considered an ethnic food, technically. But something tells me that's not what you meant by "ethnic."
@@annalysethevexedvixen I’m not Arab but when I saw her belly dancing I was 200 percent sure she wasn’t doing that right😂😂
"revealing your worst traits on television" is such a bizarre concept for a DATING GAMESHOW
It reminds me of Moment of Truth but with the purpose of dating instead of ruining people's relationships
The whole thing feels early 2000s AND YET it’s 2020
@@cleverhaunts he said it was actually like 2010-2012. Just that it was reuploaded to TH-cam recently.
I feel like a lot of game shows came up with their concept by reading over a list of common expressions and saying… “Is… is that anything?”
Just like the elections, pick the one you think is the man that'll ruin the country less
"You're a bit judgmental and a little mean" she says after berating a guy for literally doing nothing wrong.
Also making dudes take a FORTY QUESTION quiz on the FIRST DATE, but the jeans dude is judgmental and mean ok yeah
imagine choosing "i want 10 kids and think locking someone in my trunk is justifiable" over a 2012 emo
tbf, at the time men’s skinny jeans didn’t really exist. It was normal for emo / scene boys to wear women’s pants hahah
he was a trendsetter
the video was uploaded two weeks ago??
@@georgeharrisonfricklas7927 lol nick mentioned somewhere that it’s actually a reupload from like 2008
@@georgeharrisonfricklas7927 absolutely no chance his haircut or her dress are from anytime after 2010
This is so true! I was emo in high school back in 2006 and my boyfriend at the time was too. He always wore my red skinny jeans and also my element t shirts from pacsun 😎🤣
I love that she was mad about the nude beach thing cause "he only thinks about one thing" and not because its literally an assault on these women who just want to sunbath in peace and its litwrally the nr 1 rule not to do that
Right? Like damn, this is why us Americans can't have nice things; nude beaches are specifically supposed to be NON-SEXUALIZED and allow people to be nude in peace with other like-minded individuals who don’t freak out about bodies being bodies. Guys like that violate everyone’s consent in a shared space with his ill-intent. Also you know when he said “no tension” he means “I don’t have to worry that she’s secretly fat and wearing shape wear” or some other bullshit like that with his first thing being about counting women’s calories.
@@QtPieMarth Yeah but nude beaches are full of fat people, old people, hairy people etc, its a place when u can be natural and its a veeeery body neutral space so I can't even imagine him being there. People go there to spent time in nature, feel free and not be judged, its a place where no one will care about ur saggy boobs, no one will even look cause theyre minding their bussiness. I'm sure he made a lot of people feel awful judging by what he said in the show
@@jajdhck I’m not sure I understand the “but” as I fully agree with you, which is why I said people like that violate EVERYONE’S consent the moment they arrive with ill intentions. I honestly think it’s not only sad and gross, but truly despicable.
@@QtPieMarth Oh I know, I agree with you too, the "but" was cause its ironic to look for traditionally attractive women there while also being fatphobic cause its a place full of bodies I think would gross him out judging my the fact he counts his parnters calories, its literally a body postive space. So I guess the "but" was more to him that to you.
@@jajdhck ah, gotcha! Yeah, it’s ridiculous that someone like that guy would go into very body positive spaces but, at the same time, it’s unsurprising as people like him are generally extremely narrow-minded and think dumb shit like “only hot skinny people would go and show off, duuuuuhhhhh” and it’s just absurd in so many different ways. God forbid people are going there to be comfortable around like-minded individuals, no _obviously_ people only go there for if they’re “hot” and they _definitely_ want to get hit on and not just enjoy a nice day at the beach [insert world’s longest eye roll here]
(also I'm using “hot” in the narrow-minded way of people like him use it, where they think their idea of what’s attractive is the end-all-be-all whereas literally every single person - even people like that - has a different opinion on what traits are and are not attractive to them that builds into their unique idea of what makes someone physically attractive)
I’m tired and have been up for too long, so sorry if this is an incoherent mess lol
I remember the only time I watched this show as a kid, one of the “baggages” was that the guy was uncircumcised, which 1. I didn’t know what that meant, and 2. As an adult, I can’t believe that was considered baggage.
I remember that too! Fucking weird. "My penis has not been altered from it's original state" is somehow gross? I've heard of this sentiment from some of the more shallow sorts of women in the U.S., where circumcision is unfortunately normalized, but it's just ... such a weird thought.
@@mastermarkus5307 The USA is such a "developed" country they still routinely mutilate babies - so much so that NOT being mutilated is viewed as baggage 🙃 Absolute lunacy!
It still is for some people. It’s sad.
Bizarre. Its something that has never crossed my mind when thinking about a guy.
Not trying to body-shame anyone but if anything being circumcised would be more of a baggage than not being. I didn't know this was common in the US, but why tho?
as a trans guy myself, i'm just trying to imagine the absolute chaos that would ensue if one of the contestants put their mystery baggage as I'm Transgender. the absolute panic that would come from the other contestants, the lady short circuiting as she tries to clock them. i just think it'd be funny
I’d love to see that honestly. The only thing I can think of that might top it is saying “I’m genderfluid“ and seeing the lady absolutely shut down at the concept of potentially dating a woman on some days. Either way, this one definitely seems like the type to be “fine with lesbians” but also say they’re a danger in womens’ changing rooms, which makes me really want to see how she’d respond to a contestant being not cis.
there WAS an episode where the woman deciding between three contestants was trans, and that was her baggage. the man she chose rejected her. I can’t find the episode for the life of me, but her name is Helen Wong.
I'd love for it to be
Contestant 1: I'm a murder
Contestant 2: I'm wanted by the fbi, and not allowed anywhere near schools or small children
Contestant 3; I'm trans
And see her trying to find a good argument to choose 1 or 2 bc she wouodn't choose 3
As a trans enby I was thinking the same, that one of my baggages would be "I'm transgender"
one guys said he dated a trans woman and it didn't work out because it was long distance and she booted him
My sister, her boyfriend wears women's pants. When he told her that she said "That's okay, so do I" and I'll never forget how excited he was that she was chill 😂
She said the women’s jeans guy was too judgmental, but we never really saw him be judgmental. But she was only ever judgmental towards him, but not judgmental towards a guy who locked an ex in the trunk of his car? I’m so confused lol
Mom! The Straights TM are being weird again!
To be fair they skipped the part where they talked about themselves, but even so, being judgmental is the less of the problems in there XD
Yeah I had a major issue with it, he can wear whatever he wants, she was so mean to him for no reason lmao
Exactly 😭
I don't want to say it's because she's a queerphobe, but it's because she's a queerphobe
James' "..he's calling you fat" was so unexpected it made me almost spit coffeffe
Coffeffe 😂
covfefe
Don't you just hate when you spit out your coffeffe? (I'm joking please ;-; )
@@cmccocc232 Lmaooooo, I completely forgot about that!! 🤣🤣
@@smollilremedy covfefr
Dating shows have always been so awkward and weirdly uncomfortable and they always pick the most toxic people to engage in them.
[CW: murder]
Do you know about the US serial killer, Rodney Alcala, who went on an episode of The Dating Game in 1978 and won?
The woman didn't go through with the date because she found him creepy. But the fact that he won says a lot about dating shows, at least here in the US.
It's performative. A performance. Men come on to act out a certain type of traditional masculinity.
Sometimes people enjoy acting for fun. Maybe a guy goes on a dating show to kickstart his acting career.
Some men always perform the same role and take it REALLY seriously. They are the ones who bring the creepy vibe, I think. Them and anyone else on the show who takes it way too seriously.
They are the ones who are liable to hurt others. It wasn't a dating show per se, but you have the example of gay man Scott Amedure being murder after his appearance on The Jenny Jones Show. He surprised a male friend on an episode of the show by telling him he had a crush on him.
The male friend self-identified as straight, but had a super homophobic father so if he was queer he probably repressed it. He was very serious about presenting himself as a macho, straight man.
So he killed Amedure after their appearance on the show, for making him look less masculine.
@@kiraina__8735 shush please
and they always pick the most toxic people
you just did
“Tell Anna why she should choose you and not Jason” “Well, Anna, I have never locked my girlfriend in the trunk of my car.”
Yeah, baggage is like "I have trust issues because my dad left." "I kidnapped my girlfriend because she was drunk" is a confession of a crime & "I wear women's jeans because they fit me better" is just a choice that could be a deal breaker for some people lol
nick is such a kind-hearted dude, giving all these small creators a platform
This is satire right?
@@samkai2468 of course it is
@@samkai2468 Its a running joke on this channel!
Ahhh gotcha. I’m new to the channel and came from James’ channel
@@samkai2468 We're always excited to see new viewers! :D
everytime a man shows emotions or has a more feminine preference
Jerry: "WHATA RE YOU GAYY?????"
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Nick is so cool, ive been subscribed for quite a while now and i will stick around for a long time
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As someone learning bellydance, that is definitely NOT bellydance. Of any sort 🤣 girl was stiff as a board
jerry springer was aswell
@@ash2833 LMAOOOOO
@@ash2833 AHHHHAAAAHAHAHHAHAHAHAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAH LMAOOOOOOOO THAT MADE ME LAUGH truly as much as I put in that comment
idk why people are freaking out over him wearing women’s jeans when women’s jeans are usually more form fitted to your body… and they just look better?… she really picked a psycho over a guy who cares about his looks
@Demon Slayer there's still a lot of variation within men and women's bodies. There are a lot of (cisgender) women who have trouble fitting into "women's" jeans, and a lot of (cis) men who have trouble fitting into "men's" jeans, whether it be because of height, weight, body type, etc. So yeah, for some men, women's jeans do legitimately fit better
bro i know, and she was like "you have great style, that's very clear" then proceeds to pick the psycho?? like you know why he wears women's jeans and you really can't get over that in comparison to a guy stuffing his ex in his trunk lol
This feels like deal or no deal meets the Jerry Springer show
But even more shit /hj
I love watching this show with my family. The worst part of this show is the homophobia and transphobia. All of the contestants would rather date a serial killer than someone who has slept with a trans person or someone of the same gender in the past
its def written by boomers for boomers , very dated show
kinda wild to think that this episode was filmed just 13 years ago
@@JaneDoe-po4gu litterally 🤣🤣🤣
@@starryeyes999 13 years ago culturally was so insanely different
@@athenajaxon2397 yeah, id know, i was a baby 13 years ago, shit was different
I DISTINCTLY remember watching an episode of this show where the girl was like, a blonde southern US lady wearing a cross and the final "baggage" that the guy she chose had was "I'm Bisexual" and she REJECTED HIM FOR _THAT_ AND I WAS FURIOUS.
Like, I had no interest in the show, but that made me so mad. That guy could clearly do better.
On the upside, she outted herself as a biphobic bigot to a national audience.
Saves us the trouble of finding out through direct interaction with her.
do you know which episode it was exactly? i’m looking through the official baggage channel and i can’t find it lol
@@bingflop81 Sorry, it was ages ago and that's all I remember from it. They might not have even uploaded the episode yet.
@Невада большевик Nobody OWES you attraction, sure, though I do think "being attracted to your gender, but also other genders" is a weird, almost certainly prejudiced "turn-off" since it wouldn't change your life if you're monogamous (i.e. a straight woman with a straight guy or a bi guy would have basically the same relationship), also the way she rejected him was framed like "I don't want a man who is going to cheat on me with a guy" so it was definitely bigoted and based on harmful stereotypes like "bi people are promiscuous".
@Невада большевик But why bring up consent? Of course consent trumps everything, no one is advocating for rape..?
Calorie counting your girlfriend's meals is definitely a worse baggage than picking up women at nude beaches. The fact he doesn't realize that is an even worse red flag.
I don't know... The first is toxic, but the second could be even harassment, so...
@@universalpower419 I mean, that is not really harassment, if he is also doing the nude on the beach and following their rules? At most it is pretty shallow from him to do so
Boths really sucks in my opinion. I really prefer the "I wear women's Jean" and "I cry watching the Bachelorettes" , they're the real mvps
@@smirglepapier531 Picking up people at any beach is annoying but nude beaches is a level above.
@Demon Slayer lol, it would be creepy if they don't take a no for an answer. If they are taking the L than I see no problem with it.
Like, nobody goes anywhere to get hit on (safe for maybe a club) but if it happens it happens.
It'd be really creepy if he'd be fully clothed checking out girls but we do not even know the other details. So I don't want to say that flirting/hooking up with someone that you met on a nude beach is any worse than any other place.
Nick has awoken a distant memory of 13 year old me watching this show. I didn’t want to remember it.
same. i completely forgot about this show until i saw the thumbnail and remembered me being 9-10 years old and watching this show lol
@@starylize I even remember my mom would just put the show on and eat dinner and I was watching like O.O
Fucking same
Family feud aired right after too
@@julianorton8992 let’s not forget the original family feud guy who would kiss every single girl on the lips for “good luck”
Locking a girl in the trunk of your car isn’t “baggage” it’s called a 🚩Red flag🚩
that’s not a red flag that’s straight to abuse lol. I really hope it’s all fake
@@alaskaroller2192 Well, I think abusing your partner is a red flag, or You don't care about that?
@@universalpower419 I mean. I kinda view red flags as signs someone MIGHT be abusive. Maybe I misunderstood the lingo? But yeah, it does matter. I wasn’t trying to imply it doesnt ._.
No honey that's called a crime
That flag is like Brain of Cthulhu levels of fucking CRIMSON.
"My Chemical Romance isn't getting back together." Mate, I have some news for you. I even have tickets for the tour. That man has been WAITING for this moment.
i have been waiting for it my whole life too 😭😭😭
Too bad the tour has been postponed like 3 years in a row now 🤣
@@FrauStormm ngl just got into their music and in 3 years ill be old enough to go see them on my own so I'm kind of happy about that
the mcr stans watching the video and laughing maniacally
That man really went from
“I cry to the bachelorette”
To
“I locked my ex in the trunk of my car”
*“I killed a man”*
“Yeah, I mean…..that’s one”
Why is no one talking abt how funny that was 😭✋🏻
"None of those are real jobs"
Me, a licensed massage therapist who does Thai massage and is also a belly dancer: 🙃
yeah that was a bit uncalled for
@@melanieg.9092 I mean I get that they're both pretty niche fields to work in, so that statement didn't bother me I just thought it was a funny coincidence that I happen to do both of those things
@@melanieg.9092 fr like I've heard of people doing these jobs since forever, it was a weird thing to say of them lol
@@violetbitch9492 I mean it isn’t a weird thing to say after you’ve seen her belly dance. Any belly dancer could tell you that wasn’t belly dancing.
I was looking for this comment. I'm also a licensed massage therapist and belly dancer and what he said hurt a bit😞
the fact that she asked the guy the writers deemed " effeminate " with his fashion and profession , to leave , juxtaposed with a man who declared he abducted someone, is proof positive this was written by boomers for boomers.
It's actually not scripted, so You're wrong XD
@@universalpower419 it's absolutely scripted , the actress they had in this is probably a co producer if not co writer. Maybe you're a minor or something so you're more gullible to stuff like this but it's 100% written and scripted. Most shows on the game show network are.
@@JaneDoe-po4gu Apparently its not fully scripted, but they do multiple takes when their reaction isn't big enough.
“I wear women’s jeans” and “I count my girlfriends calories” are definitely comparable in terms of red flags.
Again one is bad and one only remembers you how insecure you are
I watched an episode of this many years ago where a woman’s baggage was that she always sleeps with a hairdryer blowing directly into her face and I still think about it all the time
“I’ve appeared on an adult website” That’s disgusting. There’s so many of them though, which one?
Sick Always Sunny reference
@@zdiggitydawg 😏 😏
actually can you just text me the link? like, just so i can report it, you know…cuz that’s gross…
"You're a little mean"
The other guy locked an ex in his car...
once my brother and i got stoned on vacation and watched 12 straight hours of baggage and then he came out to me. i know this doesn’t matter but it’s funny to me
awww, that's cute
it's wild how she claimed that the bachelorette dude was desperate when she went on a TV show looking for a date
And also chose him after he revealed he locks women in the trunk of his car like hello desperate much???
She picked a crazy man over a guy who wears women’s jeans 😭
the dude did say he was a ''nice guy'' which is kinda sus if you ask me
@@ash2833 to be fair it was like 2008-2010 or something so before "nice guy" became slang for "misogynist" so eh
yeh the whole nice guy thing is a modern awareness
This show just screams “the cishets are not okay” because how in the world do you pick the guy with the BIGGEST RED FLAGS
My personal theory is that these episodes are entirely scripted beforehand, and they have the women choose the absolute worst man so that the audience will cringe/laugh/complain about it, generating word-of-mouth advertising and drawing people back in to watch more batshit insane episodes.
@@aaaah540 turns out someone in the comments who’s sister was an audience member said it’s actually not scripted but they had to do multiple takes for some of their lines because TV has to be dramatic or attention grabbing
@@scarletsage6267 She also said that they never go on a date, so the point is still valid, it doesn't matter who she chooses
To be fair she kicked out a guy with biggest red flags first, if first two were so bad I wonder how bad his third had to be. But yes, u have to lack braincells to choose a kidnapper over slightly (for those times) weird dude
@@bekcha4170 yeah but he seemed like the annoying kind of weird
The out and out gay jokes make more sense because theyre super old episodes they're just reuploading bc this show stopped running in 2012
Yeah, it was a very "straight" show. There were a lot of "LOL, you're gay" jokes and people (mostly women looking for men) who were like "I'm worried that you seem gay".
Finally someone else with an anti-James Corden sentiment
I think a lot of people hate him though ha
I still don't get why though
idk hes always "not mom" from dr who to me so i like the guy
Is this your first day on the internet
@@pieisawsome3 i avoid any content containing him like the plague so I just assumed people like him since he's just....everywhere constantly. But then again so is Logan Paul and well...here we are
The shady gay jokes omg. definitely a product of its time 💀
Is nobody gonna address that the audience literally went “BOOOOO” when Jerry said we welcome gay men here….. I think Girl Defined was holding the audience response cards lol
these people talk like little kids trying to pretend they’re a disney channel character
that's the vibe. I was trying to put my finger on it. Thank you. Disney Channel but PG-13/R-rated.
I remember watching this as a kid on GSN and feeling super self-conscious because the biggest baggage was being a 30-some year old virgin and that was a deal breaker for the other person. Made me feel as a kid that I needed to lose my virginity as quickly as possible to be accepted by others.
Fun show, but wow affected me way more negatively than it should have lol.
Damn, it's sad you felt that way. I hope that ridiculous expectation didn't push you to take uncomfortable decisions and that now you know what a load of bs that is.
My ex didn't tell me he was a virgin until 7 months after we had sex for the first time because he was worried I would judge him for being a virgin at 30, but 1. I wouldn't have judged him for that, I'd say most people who would be caring partners wouldn't care about that and 2. the sex with him was amazing anyway because being a virgin is not a synonym for not knowing anything about sex.
@@vuivraalbastra It’s also worth mentioning that virginity is a myth- you’re not losing anything or proving anything, it’s just an experience.
i kinda expect her to chose the insane guy who locked up his ex but GOD she didnt hesitate 😭
“I cry at tv shows.”
“I wear jeans.”
*”I locked someone in a car once”*
"He always sings louder than the guests"
He was literally louder than the entirety of BTS (7 members)
Okay but James is saying she’s a mule and she’s saying she literally wants a dude WHO IS LIKE A FAMOUS SPY
The plot thickens
I don't get it
666, you're welcome
Isn't being a famous spy bad for a spy? Hahaha
Ana's body language and tone is very similar to Tina Fey's and maybe Julia Louis-Dreifus and that makes me feel like she's just there for a performance
I couldn’t quite put my finger on it but it’s so true lol
“but by the looks of you i guess you won’t have that problem”
i feel like this man is a cannibal
*cough cough* Armie Hammer
How did the guy who LITERALLY had an ex as baggage have "less baggage" than a guy who wears woman's jeans?!
I knew she was racist when they said Tulsa, then she said "ethnic" and it was written in stone 💀😭
how did they gloss over the fact James predicted the drugs mule thing
Ik!!!!
This is the collab I didn’t know I needed right now
Don't think we didn't notice!!! Nick is trying to make the dropouts forget that he hates British people and their accent by collabing with James.
lmfao
But he’s tri-lingual! :)
and the reaction with jordan atika on the greenisnotnick channel... tsk tsk tsk
@@Chris-fh3db He Said Us
why is James pretending he’s not literally James corden 😭
"My Chemical Romance are not getting back together"
My Chemical Romance: *got back together literally 2 years ago*
i liked michael, he seemed rlly chill and cute. the only thing i didnt like was when he said he was “chivalrous” (HUGE red flag in dudes 9 times out of 10)
I'm pretty sure that's just Your experience, the guys I dated that happened to use that word were just cute "nerdy" types, really sweets.
@@universalpower419 not "happened to use" but rather "using it to describe oneself". There is a difference
nah it just means he plays dark souls and or is a closet weeb (and or dated a 40yo)
I’m not sure but the set looks like it could be filmed in the same place as Shark Tank
maybe it's the same set designer
At first I thought you meant like in the lounge in the movie shark tale and baggage with animated fish I would binge all seasons
Hold on! That guy made his ex into literal baggage. He put her in a trunk!!!
This is the most 2000's, early 2010's show I've ever seen I can't believe yall thought this was from 2021
The aesthetic, the clothes, the camera quality 💀 like ??
the first round is just:
i wear clothes that suit my body and i feel comfy in
i need to know my s.o’s weight which is unnecessary and weird
i have empathy
Belly dancing is different from regular dancing because the whole point is that the majority of movement is in the hips and thighs; you’re hands are used to help show the flow of your hips to a song.
I have a very vivid memory of my infants school bringing in a belly dancer to dance for us during an assembly. I don't remember if she was teaching us or just performing. It was pretty wild. She was really nice though.
Did she actually belly dance then?
@@rena4919 Yes actually, just not very well..
@@punkgothbby6195 Yeah I was wondering if I was the only one thinking that her belly dancing was kinda bad
The goal is to isolate your movements in individual sections of the body.
Hips and thighs are *part* of it, you can isolate the chest, shoulders, and main core. It takes extreme focus and control and is hard to master
But *I dunno wtf that chick was doin’*
This is legit that episode of Bob's Burgers where Detective Bosco has all the people at Linda's speed dating thing reveal all there deepest darkest secrets to each other
YES OMG IT IS
i need to know which episode this is
the funniest part of the video is that you both just straight up believe this is like a TH-cam show that only came out on TH-cam like 2 weeks ago
"I could have wined and dined you every night."
And count her calories while you're at it? You know that night is probably going to end in tears right?
i'm sorry but that last dude clearly has the most red flags out of all of them. i feel like he pulled back on more serious baggage compared to tommy & the women's jeans guy. "i cry over a show", "i want to adopt children", both instances which can be easily twisted into something positive. makes me feel like they're only shields for the shit that's actually wrong with him, which also isn't hard to believe given he already followed up two nonissues with "btw i locked someone in the back of my trunk lol :P". dude seems skilled at covering up his worse qualities
also the way he completely switched up his personality at the end.. at the mere prospect of answering 40 questions about himself? "seems intrusive" you just went on a dating show about sharing your baggage. and that comment alone 100% cements in my mind that he wasn't even fully transparent. you mad about spending some quality time just talking about yourself..? undoubtedly suspicious i swear to god
like, fuck tommy obviously, but a dude that is secretive is often worse than one that's open. one can be avoided, the other is already trying to carefully construct a narrative around himself so who knows what other way they're gonna fuck you up.
i also could just be paranoid, however i have good reason since i've experienced the secretive kind of guys first hand and my life was thoroughly destroyed as a result. speaking from experience *shrug*
You're over sharing a little bit too much for someone who is so paranoid XD
@@universalpower419 sure, if you consider me ranting about my perception of someone else's actions "oversharing" lol /s
maybe 2 vague details about my life at most. should at least let me squeeze in my whole autobiography before claiming i'm "oversharing" /lh
nah you're right that dude is a clear abuser
I remember one episode where one piece of baggage was "I mix drinks using dirty panties" and this episode somehow tops that
Do I want to know exactly what that means?
@@astoldbynickgerr I mean it literally says it in the comment. They mix drinks using dirty pants 😬😬
@@rubyswan9880 panties*
Jordan, Jarvis, Nick, and Danny all posting. Good days
I don't see Danny's post?
@@lachimoleah just saying that the whole group is great whenever they post
Wait can u please tell me who’s Jordan?
@@rohangarg2468 Oh okay :) Thought this was one of those days where they all post on the same day! 😊
@@Lomzy I assume they’re talking about Jordan Adika
Me and my best friend used to go to her house after school and bake cookies and snacks and watch baggage for hours. It was entirely cringe and it was amazingly horrible; an integral part of my high school experience.
homegirl’s so threatened by the concept of someone not living up to her toxic masculinity standards that she’d risk getting locked in the trunk of a dude’s car
Lady: I belly dance all night long
James: DRUG MULE, DRUG MULE, DRUG MULE
Every time i see this kind of show all i can think of is how everyone just really sucks, both the main character and the 'contestants', they seem like exaggerated caricatures of people you'd see in a movie. Which i guess makes this format perfect cause all these people are totally made for each other.
Or You can go the logical way and think it's all fake... But do as You want
"I don't know the difference between belly dancing and regular dancing" she just appears to be very bad at it, so I can understand why you'd come to that conclusion
He's crazy for wanting women's jeans, lol. Why would you want our small pockets?
I wear mens jeans a lot because of the fit but yeah i love the pockets!
from what ive seen other ppl say, back when this ep was aired there was no such thing as men's skinny jeans, so if a man wanted skinny jeans he'd have to wear womens jeans
@@rowancook4369 Ah, that makes sense
@@rowancook4369 *skinny jeans?* canceled.
I love how the woman puts zero effort into not seeming like a paid actor
The fact that they see crying at the bachelorette being worse than locking someone in the boot of a car is so deeply American I can't describe it any other way.
Reminds me of a Japanese dating show where everyone had a "dark" secret but you only found out after, idk, they went on a date or so, but some of the secrets were so...dumb. Like, one womans "dark secret" was that she was a single mom. The worst thing? The person she was dating dropped her because of this. But yeah, anyways, just kinda reminded me of that because of the whole "ooohhhh I have secrets" premise haha
I know that show! It's called Rea(L)ove, and is a weird show that was clearly made by Netflix for Japan but ended up so weird and offensive they just like... disowned it or something. Great to heckle though.
I mean, not wanting to date a mother is extremely fair though? I wouldn't date a single mother either (or a mother in general), not because I have some problem with single mothers, but because I don't want kids whatsoever. Not wanting to be a parent is an extremely valid reason why someone might not want to be in a relationship with someone else.
I believe there's a stigma against single/re-married parents in Japan. It's a totally normal thing in the western world, but in Japan, it's much more controversial. Still a very small offense compared to locking an ex in your trunk tho 🤷♀️
@@argenteus8314 Except doesn’t make it a dark secret though. Thats just a preference and choice of lifestyle.
@@hanatemonstas4485 Sure, I agree. My comment was mostly in response to OP saying "The worst thing? The person she was dating dropped her because of this", since like I said, I think there are perfectly good reasons to say no on that basis, making it hardly "the worst thing".
Someone must have had blackmail on some of these producers to get these shows greenlit
I figure the production costs are pretty minimal for one like this. Sometimes I feel like networks just go 🤷”Why not?”
@@AVspectre that could be it too. Probably comes through an email or something
You have to remember this was a decade ago when cable really didnt have that much competition so the producers could pump out whatever slop they wanted
this brought back MEMORIES. i used to watch this show late at night as a kid, holy shit
frankly this alone is a baggage itself
@@_Tozzie_ very fair. i have no excuse other than i was like eight years old and didnt understand anything going on
omg same
why is the entire theme of this show just extremely toxic gender roles, every time they talk its just like physically painful
“Anna, I’m successful, I’m sensitive and I’m- (meanwhile his left eye slighty going sideways like 👁-->) confident.”
As soon as they said a “hair stylish from Las Vegas” I knew that man was gonna look a mess because I am a woman who lives in Las Vegas.
I would prefer to not have 10 children when the boyfriend is perfectly willing to lock people in the trunk of their car.
I thought it would be nice because he just wants a big family (as I do too, coming from one), wants to adopt, and just has emotions when watching a show he's invested in, then he pulls up with that like- Please keep an eye on him around children lol