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I never imagined we would get to a point in time where assuming a pregnant woman is married and her children are fathered by the same man is offensive and "outdated". God help us all.
I guess I'm outdated because I thought the same. However, looking closer, the tattoos on these women are a bit of a giveaway, and preggy girl has a few.
Its because these people's conscious feels bad when they silently realize that they're a slut and not doing the best they could for their kids. Most people safely assume if you have multiple kids you've settled down, because that is what most people do and because it is best for the kids. I've seen people who aren't even happily married stay together just for the kids so their kids don't need to go through it.
Honestly I thought the same and I think it was more of denial and hope that she would be the person with a 1 count and give me faith that somewhere out there, there was still one good high school sweethearts story… I think my hopeless romantic side wanted someone on here to be that way. Then she said there are some people who just like sex and said she had multiple baby daddies… then use a fucking condom 😂 I love sex too, but shit I’ve never risked having a kid for it
In college, I worked with a girl that was saving her virginity by having anal sex. She said it didn't count because it wasn't vaginal sex. People will find a way to justify what they do, but I'm not buying the whole virgin-by-technicality mindset.
Exactly... I felt Bob was adorable and simply proper. Reminds me of my British uncle (only Bob is Caucasian)...I am a West-Indian/Black woman and Bob was simply trying not to hurt the feelings of girls around his kid's age (from my POV)...
I once had a young woman with a couple of kids ask me if my 3 kids all had the same father. She then told me I was “lucky” when I said yes. Girl, luck had nothing to do with it😂
I worked with a girl who I ended up being really good friends with and she was telling me about her son's father and she met him because he knocked up her friend and he was an absent father then so I was like "did you actually expect him to be a present father to you son?" and she said yeah lol It's crazy because in life she was super smart, but in love I guess she was brain dead.
The amount of friends I warned in HS are now single moms. I mean trust me.. those women were not gullible they just had no self control. Because even in HS I knew.
300 is wild. That chick with 70 and pregnant all I could hear is that single mum song. “you let him hit it raw, didn’t have second thoughts, now you a single mum” 😂😂
Was talking to a girl on Tinder many years ago, she was 20 and the topic of body count came up to which she replied "oh not that many" so i said "whats not that many?". She had slept with over 50 guys, i said "in what world is over 50 not that many?" which was when she told me about her friends who had each slept with well over 100 guys each. I deleted tinder after that conversation.
This is why you don't ever talk about it lol. Too high is suspicious. Too low is suspicious. Better for both people to just keep it to themselves and see if they actually like each other.
That old white dude was pure comedy and needs to be in way more videos. Was dying at how quickly A&P came to his defense when that pregnant lady started being rude to him. I don’t know what her deal was but she was so aggressive to a man just trying to be polite.
Im sure its some kind of a defense mechanism because she knows deep inside that her situation and life choices are not ideal so she acts like that to avoid the other person calling her out first.
It's crazy how some girls don't consider no-vaginal-penetration sexual encounters as actual body counts. It's a sexual encounter. Intimacy was involved. It counts.
@@b4byheart726 my guy did you really need me to add a "physical" qualifier in the discussion of what qualifies for a body count? Would you also like me to point out that genitals need to be involved too? Get out of here with your goofy ass reddit neckbeard comment 🤓
Bob is the outward embodiment of everything anyone has ever wanted to cancel for any reason, I'm not surprised at all that he was uncomfortable, guy was walking on eggshells just showing up for this thing.
Erwin Schrodinger why does everybody want to cancel Bob? Is it because he's a kind of goofy straight white male?? So he's the type of man that women normally never see, he's invisible. And easy to s*** on. It's pathetic that Bob has to walk on eggshells just for existing. And that pregnant woman was angry as hell at everything anyone set it all her facial expressions were nothing but bitterness and vitriol!
She wasn’t even angry he was projecting what he thinks she feels on her. The black dude just kept it rolling after he asked the same thing. But this dude was scared to be offensive when he was only being honest.
That's why the chick is angry. Because she hates what she is, but REALLY hates it if other people point it out... No, having multiple children from multiple different fathers isn't normal and it isn't to be celebrated. She's just dumb asf and salty about her being a moron deep down.
You must not pick up on social ques, you can very clearly tell she got agitated when the old man said "I'm used to being around women who are committed," then proceeded to ask numerous times which part of her was committed, then gave him a deadpan look after he apologized for assuming....@@theinvisiblewoman5709
Some of these women have been failed by their parents and society. There’s no reason for someone to have 300 bodies unless you’re an adult film star. Sex addiction isn’t okay.
"If it feels good do it" we know what's up, our parents are a testament to how dislocated people are from proportionality in a system that justifies gluttony.
The thing is people *promote* it. And they looped acceptance so far that they’re promoting hedonism and addiction and swear on their life it’s a good thing
I agree with Preach on the "what people consider sex" thing, it's crazy the thought process that some people have. I knew a girl who said that she slept with a dude but didn't consider it sex because they didn't cum. I was full on giving her the people's eyebrow on that one.
I’m 28 years old and 100% a virgin I’ve never done anything sexual. Idk when it’ll happen. But hearing how many people have high body counts is really discouraging me from dating.
Given how much we value individuality/individualism today, I’ll suggest you to concentrate on being happy on your own first of all, instead of thinking that you NEED a partner. A partner is only complimentary. I’m trying to live by that now after a first relationship that was intense but ended badly.
@@kurovader4078 She's ugly as sin. That's why she has to get attention(sex being the only attention they're willing to give her ugly ass) from drunk guys.
@@slvrsnpr07 why do people say stuff like that?? "wtf are you doing on this video I'm the only one who's allowed to have a broad collection of TH-camrs I frequently watch"
@@GG.Sanchoo I was 19, my husband had just turned 21, I think it's a good age 😊 we built our adult lives from the ground up together all the way, good luck to you
@@Hearth123I should start dating younger then maybe. I Usually I date my age or older but lately everyone I see mention their marriages the woman is always younger by atleast 2 years.
When I hear three digit numbers, I immediately think they must be lying. I have a hard time imagining anyone taking the time to count them all, unless you’re literally keeping a list
@@darnellharrison3883 I had a girl one time pull up a fucking collage on her phone. All decorated and shit. And they were all either currently in prison or used to be. Shit was wild lol
Racking up numbers doesn't just mean you like to have sex, it means you have an issue with commitment and/or self-esteem problems. Lot of people love to hook up but keep bodies low(er) because they hook up with the same ones, many times.
That’s what I was thinking. I may be having the same amount of sex but it’s with my man so it’s not adding up. I guess “don’t stick your d in crazy” is an old-fashioned sentiment now, too.
For the last girl, I was thinking 300 at first but then she said her parents literally just named her rainbow I flipped to a very low number. I get the feeling that her parents are the kind that are more likely to talk to their children about sex and being responsible about it.
@@sixpains1635 I wasn't too far off on most of them except for the pregnant woman. The 18 year old seemed shy despite her low cut top, and considering her age you'd expect a low number. I feel like at that age dressing that way can be a way to get attention that you don't get from sex? idk. It doesn't necessarily mean much. The girl with pig tails and sweats mostly just looked laid back and comfortable in her body rather than dressed to get attention, and she looked like the second youngest in the group. So I expected a low number for her too. OnlyFans girl (pink hair) I expected to have had a moderate amount of partners, but not necessarily the biggest amount. A lot of OnlyFans content is solo so she's not necessarily that habituated to having casual sex with random people despite having most likely liberal views about sex. Also people in the sex industry might associate sex with work and seek it out less. But she might also have a hard time finding a long term committed relationship due to having OF, therefore having sporadic sex with various people is more likely than frequent and regular sex with a single person. So 16 makes sense. The black girl seemed sexually experienced and like she enjoys having sex, and being older, I'd have assumed several shorter lasting relationships when she was younger, transition into more long lasting relationships as she matured since people tend to be better at picking reliable partners as they're older? So a moderate number makes sense for her too. Pregnant girl... considering how she had several kids, I assumed she had most of those with 1 guy (maybe 2). And it takes a long time to have so many kids and she's still not that old, so I was expecting a relatively few partners in the past several years. Obviously she could've experimented with several guys when she was in her teens/early 20s before getting pregnant, but I was still expecting like, 3-10. So I was pretty far off with her. Girl with glasses, despite the glasses, she didn't really come off as the socially awkward cautious nerdy type. She has tattoos and dressed in all black. A rebellious phase with many hookups doesn't surprise me, but I still would not have expected 300. I was thinking more like 30-50.
When Preach talked about the younger generation at the end not considering oral sex and other activities that aren't penetration as sex, it made me think about last spring when I was talking to this guy and we fooled around (made out basically). He was trying to get me to blow him and say "we're not having sex" to try and persuade me; I told him it's a type of sex because it is a sexual activity and is called oral SEX. (I told him I didn't believe in casual sex, which includes ANY sexual activity with another person. He turned out to be a fuckboy and tried to prey on my lack of experience but that's another story for another day). As someone in my early 20s, I agree with Aba that the idea is stupid; while touching and oral are not the traditional act of sex, they are still SEXUAL activities which is sex in a sense. Even masturbation is referred to as solo SEX because it is a sexual activity. I don't think it's that complicated to understand; I feel like ppl just wanna use loopholes to justify their behavior.
I had a dude say the exact same thing to me. “We’re not going to have sex.” Awesome. Fine by me. Dude wouldn’t let me get breakfast and said “you have to earn it” and tried to get me to sleep with him. I told him no, I don’t have romantic feelings for you and that’s why I dont want to sleep with you. He retorted with “well you’re just easy because of the way you dress, talk, and act.” How I dress, talk, and act does not indicate that I am easy.
@@on-knee That's actually disgusting. Also, the audacity to for that guy to say you're easy when he's the one that brought that up. Like how are dudes gonna treat you like you're easy and act like they can get what they want out of you when they're the ones wanting to have sex and practically begging for you to satisfy their needs. THEY are the easy ones if anything, being straight up intrusive, he was just salty he didn't get any. Speaking of dressing, this same guy told me I could change my style and asked me why I don't show more skin.
I relate to the woman who didn’t have sex. I had very very little sex between teens and twenties. It was laughable compared to my peers. Several reasons, anxiety, guilt/shame, religion, for not wanting to have sex with people. Didn’t want to get stuck with a kid. It makes sense to us.
youre smart, Im a guy and im the same. Dont want to have a child with a woman who i wont marry. Children dont deserve the trauma of our bad decisions and lack of accountability
I think the 300 girl went through a phase of needing affirmation. People sleeping with her made her think "I'm pretty. People want me" She was finding her value within others. I wouldn't hit that with a brick.
Not complicated average to below average looking chicks put out more cuz they know they are not good looking and will not get relationships, so they make themselves available to highly attractive guys very easily. So they run up bodies way higher than cute girls who know they cute and have leverage and can make dudes chase them and jump through hoops. Below average chicks have no options than being a booty call or a side piece for attractive dudes
There was a group of women I hung out with in my 20s that would joke about not remembering who they had sex with after a night of partying. “If you don’t remember it, it doesn’t count.” They drank every night.
We need to add “Do you have an OnlyFans?” to the list of questions when you’re on a date. Because women with an OnlyFans has no intimacy boundaries. And that’s a massive red flag.
I see what gave you this opinion but you can’t assume things about complete strangers. The only thing it would guarantee is that the person doesn’t mind being seen naked or doing sexual acts by strangers.
100% agree with not wanting to date a girl with an only fans, I WOULD NEVER. but asking that on the first date could be super awkward and maybe a bit too soon.
I feel like the internet has led you to believe that having an OnlyFans as a side hussle is common, but it’s not. You can go on 100 dates and ask every single one this question, odds are they will ALL answer no and be a bit offended by your question. But go ahead if you want
3 or 4 baby daddies and 70 bodies? She got the biggest red flag of em all. 300 bodies is insane, but not getting pregnant is commendable. Can't imagine the type of person someone is to have that many baby daddies
Also, she got offended so easily compared to the others and even got irritated on behalf of the other girls. The girl in her 30s with the 300 count was chill. She owned up to it.
$5 says she's going to blame other people when she starts having trouble finding a long time partner after they find out she's been had by like 6 different football teams.
In that case i ain't gay or bi , i just give head and canoodle with my homie . I always said it's not gay it's just affection and Masculine bonding . It feels great being intimate and a little vulnerable with a strong handsome man whom you have close bond with
It is absolutely insane to me how high people's body counts are. It is a complete lack of respect for yourself to just give it out to just anyone. Whether you are a man or woman it is just nasty to me.
Fucking agreed. If your body count is in double digits (hell, I would say greater than the number of people you have been married to) then you have a noticeable lack of respect for your body and your partner.
I think if the show had just defined what "body count" consisted of, we would have had a more accurate set of numbers for each individual since many would define it differently.
@@opuil It's not that simple when people hate to define key words that are at the center of a conversation. Body count for some is anything with sexual intent including heavy kissing and feeling up a body, for others it's any sexual contact in bed at all like fingering and licking, for others it's penile penetration only and for some oral counts and for others it doesn't and some only count penis in vagina and not anal or oral. If we can't even agree on a definition how is it simple?
@@DaybreakPT it's simple because that's the definition of "body count" regardless if how u view it. It's simple. How many people have u fucked. If u wanna go in details u can that includes oral and anal
The “I just like to have sex” point cracks me up bc you can like to have a LOT of sex, just as much sex (usually MORE) and still have a low body count. What they’re trying to say is, I don’t like commitment/ no one wants to commit to me so sex with random people is my only option.
Yeah, you can totally just like sex with a single individual. And have lots and lots of sex with the same guy until you die. But nah man, they "like sex" with 70 different dudes.
I don't get this goofy trend of young women lying about being with hundreds of dudes. And I know because my friend group is mostly female and I see them do it now. My roommate literally started telling a fake story about getting a train run on her when asked what she did last Friday and I was looking at her, 'Why you lyin'? You spent the entire weekend on the couch watching Bridgerton 🧐' I don't know. I guess this is empowering for them to front as irresponsibly promiscuous people
It’s really really bad. I went through my early 20s being extremely insecure about the fact that I hadn’t had sex with anyone because I didn’t want to, did find anyone that I trust, found mentally and emotionally attractive, or who treated me with respect and intention. Literally women will mock other women for having a low body count. They treat you like your religious freak or that you’re just really naïve.
@@laela6289 they do that for their own selfish reasons because they feel uncomfortable with people who are different so if they can peer pressure them into living the same lifestyle they don't feel as bad about their own choices.
It's interesting that you say this because it sounds the same way as guys lying about their body count. And the funny thing is I never thought about that being a possibility until now. But it makes sense.
There was a couple I used to hang out with when I was like 15, the girl was super religious n she would always say she wouldn't have sex til they got married. She would give up the butt n thought that wasn't sex bcuz she couldn't get pregnant that way. 🤦♀️ They ended up getting married n they r still together but I always thought that was fkn weird.
@aisherwasher I understand, but in the end they are both trying to figure out if she's loose with men or not and it's the same implication: different daddies means more promiscuous.
most young people are to naive to realize their wants and needs are shallow. once theyve lived life a bit they can figure out what they actually want. thats why a good mentor is needed. im 33 and am figuring out bounderies, to respect myself, and not give my power away. now that i know what im doing i can see other people suffering from the something i was.
You're right about the women banning together even if they don't know each other. The same exact thing happens with race. People just need to have one major thing in common with each other to feel some type of connection. They will unknowingly have group think.
I think you mean "banding together" and what you are describing is tribalism. This is what happens when you regard others as groups instead of as individuals and it is what happens when you no longer agree with basic ideas. America used to be a nationalist country (this used to be the same thing as saying we were patriotic). We had the same values and we all liked freedom and liberty. Without that and feeling like we had a good country because the word nationalism has been demonized, we don't have any common culture to hold us together as a country. People in power benefit from people being divided. If they destroy institutions like family and community, then government is the only game in town when people need someone to turn to when they feel they need help. Becoming dependent on government is not a good thing as being dependent means you are easier for people in power to control. If certain politicians are giving you "free stuff" you want, then they will always have your vote. That means they can do whatever they want, essentially as the have nots will always keep voting to take away resources from the people who have them and everyone wants their "tribe" to succeed the most. You can't have a healthy and successful multicultural society in this type of environment, though.
I've never understood that, but I guess that's why I'm alone. I don't like to group think, I'm disagreeable. I call people out on their shit, I stick to my values consistently and hold myself and everyone else around me to the same standards I hold myself too. I rarely agree with a group just to fit in, it feels fake and lonelier. You have to lie and play along and be fake just to have friends? You must be extremely empty inside if you do that.
I think 0ral is a much bigger thing than all the interc0rse because it’s literally getting on your knees and putting yourself in a fully vulnerable position. Plus nobody does “safe” mouth stuff.
I've always agreed with this thought. During intercourse, you're both getting something out of it so it's easier, for me at least, to be present and happy and "go along with it." But oral is all give. You need to put yourself aside for a moment and be completely submissive to someone else.
@@Tenrou2 he was literally talking about the females position reread the comment, also no they’re not vulnerable and being used when they’re offering it plus the dudes in a way more vulnerable position I mean ur literally one step away from getting ur dick chomped on
Preach is right about the Gen Z. I'm 25 and basically everyone thinks a kiss is nothing unless you're cuffed. Most people saw their virginity as something to get rid of asap and one of my friend gave a bj to a guy and said it was nothing. Only people it bothers are guys who don't wear painted nails.
All physical intimacy counts for me. I’ll hold myself to the standards I expect of my partner, I don’t want a high count. I want someone saving themselves and reserved across the board for all types. It’s a reasonable expectation IF I hold myself to it, as I’d assume and hope they’d expect the same.
Here's the trick. Date someone, get to know them, if they want to have sex, run. Easy as that. Long-term dating, like years, or engagement risqué situations are understandable. However, anyone willing to "smash" while dating is not going to have a lifetime relationship. You can take that to the bank.
It’s wild to me how some people just have 100+ bodies. Like wtf, what do you get out of sex at that point? At some point there is diminishing returns. And it’s way before 100 bodies.
I just recently had a talk with my teenage boys and how kids these days don’t see oral and anal as sex and it most definitely is!!! Also talked to them how if they are involved in those forms of sexual acts they still have to be safe. It’s not just about preventing pregnancy. Told them they also have to remember I was their age once before and know how the world works lol
Girls and boys in their 20's today were taught and told by media that it was ok, and there was nothing wrong or unhealthy with engaging in oral sex casually. They were told it wasn't risky or dangerous. That it was "preferred" as a method so as to avoid pregnancy. In reality though grandmothers were telling girls that in laundry rooms for decades. When I was growing up every girl would give you a blowie, they weren't casual about sex though. It had consequences.
@@joane24 Yeah, the US has been screwing with the kids since the late 80s here. First they tried engineering the youth with mind altering drugs, mostly boys. Now it's propaganda against the parents to raise them to be useless.
@@joane24 probably just being hyperbolic with the "every girl" part probably just means it was something you could expect sexual from a girl if things got to that point but nothing more then that
ive had 4 sexual partners 3 of them were long term relationships with people I was in love with and passionate about 1 was me trying to get over a break up with a one night stand to see if (that life) was for me and I regret that experience to this day.
@@crashingxhearts its far too meaningless to me and souless I know some people don't care for commitment or romance and just want pleasure but for me I cant live without it
me too. i had one hook up and regret it, i increased my body count for nothing and that degrading feeling of being objectified, used then discarded still lingers. it was so damaging its crazy how people can live a promiscuous life style for years..i hate how our society tries to normalize casual sex. theres nothing casual about it.
As a person in your late teens early twenties, your hormones are on hyper drive. So to ask them to be celibate is hard, but it's worth it in the end. It's like investing, never fun in the moment but worth it over time. I am lucky I met my wife when I was 18 (36 now)
Dating that chick gon be like being invited to a dope ass house party only to get there and find that the party’s already over and everyone’s already gone home then you get handed a broom to clean up all the mess and bill for all the food and drinks.
For real what are you taking about? Are you one of those guys that thinks a woman retains the semen of her previous partners inside her??? Cause that ain't it bro
@@v.cjuancarlos6014 why should I lie on the internet? I come from a traditional family and my mom and sister had just 1 .I'm going to stop here tho because dating is disgusting, and the idea of sharing my intimacy with some other cheating piece of shit makes me puke
If you wanna sleep around, that’s a personal choice. But sleeping around and projecting that it’s something empowering has the opposite effect on others because then they don’t perceive you as a strong independent woman… they perceive you as someone who either doesn’t value intimacy or yourself, or even someone that doesn’t make great decisions when it comes to assessing relationships. There’s nothing empowering about looking dumb😀
Sure people should be private about private stuff. Tho its interesting when males talk about their sexual success its viewed as empowering especially if a guy has a higher body count. Remember we live in a society where a mans value is determined in part by their viginity status and sexual " conquests". Yet if women do the same thing its an issue or viewed more critically regardless of body count. Fuunny how that works. Fyi your framing makes it seem you are only looking at the women
@@xMckingwill I get that "society" values men with high sexual conquests, but does that actually impress women? It just sounds nasty to me... maybe I just read my Bible too much lol
@@aisherwasher6959 i agree, but the reality is it depends women tend to prefer men with sexual experience. In fact many women would be turned off by virgin men or think something is wrong with them, so much so its actually a good idea to NOT say they are a virgin and pretend they arent. Hell even men judge and shame men who have low or no sexual experience im sure you know "virgin" is used as an insult. Of course at the extreme extremes it would raise eyebrows
Okay that whole “Anything *BUT* penetration doesn’t count” mentality is wild. Because now thinking about it anyone who says they’re a virgin could think like this meaning there’s even less virgins in todays society. Crazy stuff 😂
"iT's cOnSeNSuAL." I'm definitely with Aba here. You enjoy that fantasy all you want but I'm not putting myself in that scenario. We can have reasonably adventurous sex that's enjoyable and simple rather than me needing to read a script beforehand with a release form attached. I'm getting a little tired of "consent" as the be-all-end-all when it comes to discussions about sex. If it was just about consent then you would not have so many of these stories of regretful sex that become akin to assault and the like later on (especially in college). Clearly, there's more to true intimacy and pair bonding than just consent.
I think it’s actually worse to say you’re a virgin with a “pretty high” oral sex count. That’s a bigger red flag than the girl who admitted having a lot of sex in their 20’s getting up to 300. Why is she a virgin yet has a lot of sexual encounters theirs something wrong with her perception of sex or religious/ spiritual beliefs
I don’t think it’s weird that she didn’t want to go past oral. She’s just scared of getting pregnant and she probably (wrongly) thinks she is very unlikely to catch something viral from the toppy top. 😂
Some viruses and even bacterial stuff that you can get its actually worse or just as bad to get it orally as it is anywhere downstairs. Which is why it is better for your own sake to wear protection for oral though many people would not want to do that. Also for the person receiving the oral there are also some things you can catch as well. Its not ask risky as intercourse, or anal which is the worst, but its still got risks.
Yeah, I've known many women who are very okay with oral but won't allow partners to touch them early on. It's something about staying in control until they are super sure they want to be touched.
IMO oral sex is more intimate than most. Also, if I were in a serious relationship and she cheated, obviously none of that is acceptable, but if she tried to explain herself like "i only blew him" Lol, that's outrageous. I'd take that worse.
@Erica Deram bro what? This sounds like extra steps to excuse sucking dick. Oral sex for both sides is definitely more intimate because of the sole fact you CAN just bite whatever’s in your mouth off, and that goes for both. The control is what makes it intimate to begin with
Yeah I can totally understand that cuz I can only imagine my anger as she did it because she obviously did something off a stupid notion but obviously she knew what she did because people aren't stupid
I remember watching HIMYM and Barney’s record of 200 women (which he had diligently worked on for years) was a big deal. Nowadays that number sounds so normal.
Cause 200 for a man means he worked for it, but he still a hoe. 200 for a woman means she just laid there with her legs open and let the train run on lmao
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I'm a 95 baby (27), and preach is absolutely right with his hierarchy of sexual activities, it bled into my era a little bit even. Top isn't considered sex, If I had to try and describe it with one word, they'd probably associate it with an 'experience' not 'sex'
I dont know who you know but where I'm from you get clowned on for that. You're better off fucking the guy than giving head. Atleast you could act like yall together and it was special. I knew a girl in 7th grade who'd suck anyone off but was a "virgin". I believe oral sex is sex. It produces the same end result so yeah its the same. Imagine if you married your wife and at a party yall meet a dude who keeps smiling at your wife and you find out she sucked him off. Would you be like, "it's cool it wasn't sex." Probably not, you'd be mad she lied and her idea of virginity is completely different. That's like Aurora Jolie claiming virginity because she only did anal. It doesn't work like that. A dude can't be walking around sucking dudes off and claim he's straight and still a virgin. Thats a fucking loophole if I've ever heard one.
Yeah I'm am 01 baby and it's basically this. But the thing with top is it seems to be a one way thing, like most guys are willing to receive head casually but very few of them are willing to give it casually.
Something I’ve realized is a lot of times the more attractive people have less body counts then the ones who aren’t as attractive. I think the less attractive ones want to prove so bad that people want them so they’ll sleep with multiple people while the attractive people don’t need to really prove anything and at most times have standards.
Interesting take and there is the "fallacy of choice", the more options you have the harder it is to choose. Attractive people have so many options that its hard for them to actually make a choice on one person over another.
Attractive people can afford to have options and they aren't treated like having standards is some cardinal sin unlike their counterparts. They barely have to worry about feeling validated because they're constantly reassured of their worth, even if people's treatment of them is superficial at the surface level. Combine that with the societal pressure to be in relationships, have sex and sleep around, and you get the Promiscuity Renaissance Era that's happening now, especially amongst average to below average people. TL;DR: Society values sex and physical appearance above all else. People who feel undervalued see this and try to indulge in it as much as possible to order to feel valid.
I can agree, I'm a decent looking guy and wont touch anything below my standard, but my friends will smash anything in sight. Im not a model or anything Just put a lot of work into my body and have a nice beard/style
Under 25 here ✋🏾I do believe all sex form is sex. And I believe cheating can be emotional, however if I'm with someone and there's emotional cheating involved I tend to feel hurt more than if it was just sex because it means something is wrong in our relationship on a deeper level. Seeking emotional support from someone else doesn't equal emotional cheating but developing feelings do.
You do realize most of the time cheating happens it is by women? Emotional creatures that will cheat on you because your dick is too small for them, or because your not making enough money to make them feel secure. If you think someone cheating on you is ever acceptable because the relationship isn't at it's emotional best, instead of working thru it and being loyal or atleast leaving without cheating, then honestly I'm sorry to say that you have a simp mentality that will make you get ran over and used
Male here, nobody deserves to be cheated on. There's never an excuse to cheat. Any excuse used to justify cheating is the excuse to get out of the relationship before the cheating occurs. Choosing to cheat over refusing to end a relationship is just being selfish and/or lazy.
This is a great video cus it shows the dichotomy of how men and women think about sex and oral. I’ve had the conversation about how oral sex still counts as sex 😂 I was like it’s 3rd base, and it’s got sex in the name
You're actually undermining your argument by saying it's 3rd base and not the home run, but if it's got sex in the name and someone is entering someone else, even if it's penis through the mouth it's sex.
Female acquaintance of mine around 40 (I'm older) told me she'd had "500-700 men". In a second any attraction she had for me evaporated. I'm so disgusted I don't even talk to her anymore.
She's into the same sex. So she can just go out and sleep with multiple women every week and no consequences (except losing her ability to pair bond but let's be real she was probably a lost cause already).
as a guy who's graduated from highschool about 4 years ago I can say that the bj thing is kinda accurate. Like having sex for the first time was losing your virginity but if you just got a bj you were still a virgin. But a bj was definitely something sexual. Like if a girl gave a bj to another dude when she was in a relationship her boyfriend wouldve broken up with her. Its like an in between thing
People are so insecure. Oral isn't sex. If my girlfriend slipped up and have head to another guy, I would overlook it . Can't believe people break up over such minute things. What's next, no opposite gender friends 😂😂
There's nothing weird for me for the girl to not go past oral. I'm also a virgin, tho I'm way older than her but i can relate to getting regrets. But personally I dont want to judge a person on how many sexual partners they have as long as they're safe. I have 2 friends who passed away to sexually transmitted related disease. I don't want to just be intimate with anyone if i don't know that person well. I think you just really have to find the right person who will understand your body. Whether it's a casual or serious relationship. You have to be responsible.
When I turned 36 my body count was abysmally single digit low. I realized I was getting too old to give a poop about "reputation" and wanted to experience some dam sex before I was too old to pic some decent partners. I have since rectified that number 🤣🤣
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A turtle doesn't approve of these women
@@TurtleChad1 At this point she doesn't even belong to the streets
Too HIGH! For someone who's 18yrs old....in MY OPINION!!!
Pussy alliance is real
@@jpjaye she belongs to the streets.....
In hell...300 n8ggas got there heartbroken.
I never imagined we would get to a point in time where assuming a pregnant woman is married and her children are fathered by the same man is offensive and "outdated". God help us all.
I guess I'm outdated because I thought the same. However, looking closer, the tattoos on these women are a bit of a giveaway, and preggy girl has a few.
Its because these people's conscious feels bad when they silently realize that they're a slut and not doing the best they could for their kids. Most people safely assume if you have multiple kids you've settled down, because that is what most people do and because it is best for the kids. I've seen people who aren't even happily married stay together just for the kids so their kids don't need to go through it.
Honestly I thought the same and I think it was more of denial and hope that she would be the person with a 1 count and give me faith that somewhere out there, there was still one good high school sweethearts story… I think my hopeless romantic side wanted someone on here to be that way. Then she said there are some people who just like sex and said she had multiple baby daddies… then use a fucking condom 😂 I love sex too, but shit I’ve never risked having a kid for it
She looks like your average Jerry Springer Show participant😅
Exactly
In college, I worked with a girl that was saving her virginity by having anal sex. She said it didn't count because it wasn't vaginal sex. People will find a way to justify what they do, but I'm not buying the whole virgin-by-technicality mindset.
The poop-hole-loop-hole trick. A true classic
@@YourUncle8501 😂😂😂
While you’re doing it you believe it but once you finally actually have sex you realize it was stupid
That's disgusting. Where the girl at tho
Technically u can still be a virgin since u didn't have vaginal sex but anal sex or oral sex is crazy
Man I feel for Bob. He's an older dude and has to rate girls in her late teens to mid 20s. They put him up for failure, but he did really well.
Exactly... I felt Bob was adorable and simply proper. Reminds me of my British uncle (only Bob is Caucasian)...I am a West-Indian/Black woman and Bob was simply trying not to hurt the feelings of girls around his kid's age (from my POV)...
Remember, he also volunteered, lmao.
@@ak-jxrdy-7 When you volunteer you don't know what the challenge is gonna be bro
@@cashel5232 So what happens? Cut puts out a casting call with only contact details and an address? No kind of brief beforehand?
@@ak-jxrdy-7 probably, they do multiple videos at the same day so who knows what youre doing.
I once had a young woman with a couple of kids ask me if my 3 kids all had the same father. She then told me I was “lucky” when I said yes. Girl, luck had nothing to do with it😂
yeah no. it's called choosing wisely..
Modern women are void of discernment
it called having protection @@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed
I worked with a girl who I ended up being really good friends with and she was telling me about her son's father and she met him because he knocked up her friend and he was an absent father then so I was like "did you actually expect him to be a present father to you son?" and she said yeah lol
It's crazy because in life she was super smart, but in love I guess she was brain dead.
The amount of friends I warned in HS are now single moms. I mean trust me.. those women were not gullible they just had no self control. Because even in HS I knew.
Imma be real no matter which gender you are, a triple digit body count is crazy,
You’re a real life Quagmire at that point
Exactly that shit is just fuckin nuts man, my god 💀
Gigitty
Anything above 0 is a no for me. I kept myself pure. Fair for me want the same out of a partner
@@user-pd9ju5dk5s 1 is the maxxx.
Not Quagmire LMFAO bye 😂
300 bodies at any point for anyone at anything anywhere is insaaaane
😂😂
20+ is degenerate. 300? Crazy...
It’s not insane it’s disgusting
Total depravity
@@newsavefile Maybe it's bcuz im from a different culture but anything more than 5 requires some serious explanation in my eyes
When do we separate “openness with our sexuality” with “trying to fill a hole inside of us with something”
I see what you did there 😏
😂😂😂
They definitely were "trying to fill a hole inside them with something" alright 😂
Your wordplay is on point. Respect
Somewhere around the start
300 is wild. That chick with 70 and pregnant all I could hear is that single mum song. “you let him hit it raw, didn’t have second thoughts, now you a single mum” 😂😂
Whats wild is the 2 showing the most skin, thought she was gonna be the highest 😂🤣
Bob is just so disgustingly wholesome, I love him and wish him and his family the best in life.
I'm a dude, and I'd still have his kids.
@@hatman4818 ayo??
@@hatman4818 😂😂 GAAAAYYY!!
@@hatman4818 🖐💨 (Smacks the silly outta you!)
@@hatman4818 Do you.
Bro that Bob guy was a gem. This guy was trying not to step on eggshells, and the blonde still finds a way to get offended lmao.
They offended bc their own conscience be eating at them
Liberals be like that
I felt like it was some kind of power trip for her. That or behave like a doormat and I'll treat you like one
@Rob I'm no liberal but ur comment is just inflammatory just to be inflammatory. You're looking to argue and that makes you super fkn ghey
He’s too smart to hide what he knows lmao. He’s trying though.
Was talking to a girl on Tinder many years ago, she was 20 and the topic of body count came up to which she replied "oh not that many" so i said "whats not that many?". She had slept with over 50 guys, i said "in what world is over 50 not that many?" which was when she told me about her friends who had each slept with well over 100 guys each.
I deleted tinder after that conversation.
Yeah I've never heard of tinder being the app to get into relationships lol.
This is why you don't ever talk about it lol.
Too high is suspicious. Too low is suspicious. Better for both people to just keep it to themselves and see if they actually like each other.
It's absolutely disgusting and they think it makes them empowered or something. How is it empowering to be used?
Lol😂 “not many”
Tinder is a sex app not a dating app. You shouldn't really be surprised with that result lmao.
That old white dude was pure comedy and needs to be in way more videos. Was dying at how quickly A&P came to his defense when that pregnant lady started being rude to him. I don’t know what her deal was but she was so aggressive to a man just trying to be polite.
She's just a bad person as evidenced by her having babies with whoever with no thought paid to the childhood they will have being fatherless.
she makes bad decisions and takes it out on others.
@@transformerstuff7029exactly…
I’m glad there’s some other comments on that idiot.
Im sure its some kind of a defense mechanism because she knows deep inside that her situation and life choices are not ideal so she acts like that to avoid the other person calling her out first.
It's crazy how some girls don't consider no-vaginal-penetration sexual encounters as actual body counts. It's a sexual encounter. Intimacy was involved. It counts.
Does sexting/nudes count as well?
@@b4byheart726 as a body count? Is this a real question?
@@Visual217 well you said sexual encounters so?
@@b4byheart726 my guy did you really need me to add a "physical" qualifier in the discussion of what qualifies for a body count? Would you also like me to point out that genitals need to be involved too? Get out of here with your goofy ass reddit neckbeard comment 🤓
@@b4byheart726 this is where context matters
The thotainian was wild, she took on a whole spartan army by 18 💀
😂😂😂😂😂
This came into my mind as well 🤣 great minds..
Leonidas- SPARTANS PREPARE FOR GLORY!
You ain't nice for this🤣🤣🤣
AYO!
Bob is the outward embodiment of everything anyone has ever wanted to cancel for any reason, I'm not surprised at all that he was uncomfortable, guy was walking on eggshells just showing up for this thing.
Definitely not, he seemed chill to me. Just like he wasn't used to this kind of conversation. He was cute
@@squirrel670 n thats the problem...cus hes an old white guy he cnt say anything...
Erwin Schrodinger why does everybody want to cancel Bob? Is it because he's a kind of goofy straight white male?? So he's the type of man that women normally never see, he's invisible. And easy to s*** on. It's pathetic that Bob has to walk on eggshells just for existing. And that pregnant woman was angry as hell at everything anyone set it all her facial expressions were nothing but bitterness and vitriol!
@@theparodychannel7842 no, there girls liked him compared to Mr player
why on earth would anyone want to *cancel* bob?
"Now I've made you angry. I'm sorry."
What are you sorry for? She's responsible for her own behavior. She only has herself to be angry about.
She wasn’t even angry he was projecting what he thinks she feels on her. The black dude just kept it rolling after he asked the same thing. But this dude was scared to be offensive when he was only being honest.
That's why the chick is angry. Because she hates what she is, but REALLY hates it if other people point it out... No, having multiple children from multiple different fathers isn't normal and it isn't to be celebrated. She's just dumb asf and salty about her being a moron deep down.
You must not pick up on social ques, you can very clearly tell she got agitated when the old man said "I'm used to being around women who are committed," then proceeded to ask numerous times which part of her was committed, then gave him a deadpan look after he apologized for assuming....@@theinvisiblewoman5709
sorry for what?
@@theinvisiblewoman5709 black dude was allowed to say it without upsetting anyone because he’s gay (and black)
I love Bob's innocence 😂 He clearly was uncomfortable but I love that he showed up and did the best he could lol
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@@SolarStories It's not a bot
Bring on the meteor! 🌠
@@stoutsprout4297 I think they are.
@@WarNoob755 You can think what you want, their replies says otherwise
Some of these women have been failed by their parents and society. There’s no reason for someone to have 300 bodies unless you’re an adult film star. Sex addiction isn’t okay.
"If it feels good do it" we know what's up, our parents are a testament to how dislocated people are from proportionality in a system that justifies gluttony.
Disassociating sex from marriage is society's biggest failure
@@shelbyspeaks3287 it’s crazy how this generation hasn’t been taught self control and discipline.
@ladybug3380 and that's the fault of the generation before.
The thing is people *promote* it. And they looped acceptance so far that they’re promoting hedonism and addiction and swear on their life it’s a good thing
I agree with Preach on the "what people consider sex" thing, it's crazy the thought process that some people have. I knew a girl who said that she slept with a dude but didn't consider it sex because they didn't cum. I was full on giving her the people's eyebrow on that one.
That's insane
Word? Fr??? I'm dead
We had a girl in our class saying she was a virgin. She didn't consider it intercourse if you wore a condom......
The delusion
@@shawnshields521 lol omg, my brain hurts
I’m 28 years old and 100% a virgin I’ve never done anything sexual. Idk when it’ll happen. But hearing how many people have high body counts is really discouraging me from dating.
Given how much we value individuality/individualism today, I’ll suggest you to concentrate on being happy on your own first of all, instead of thinking that you NEED a partner. A partner is only complimentary. I’m trying to live by that now after a first relationship that was intense but ended badly.
No one cares you stupid virgin
You gonna find someone like you ❤
I am 35 five and have 2 partners first at 25
Lose weight and get a social hobby
I don’t think I’ve ever seen a woman that’s the actual definition of “she belongs to the streets” until now. She legit is the streets…
But low key 300 body girl has this attraction about her.
And the guy that paints the lines is on strike because there is just too much street
@@kurovader4078 seek therapy brother
@@kurovader4078 She's ugly as sin. That's why she has to get attention(sex being the only attention they're willing to give her ugly ass) from drunk guys.
there was a demon looking girl on the fresh&fraud podcast with over 500-600 bodies, you can look it up
That pregnant woman is very disturbing. Whole lotta wrong with her. I feel sorry for her babies
Something about her seems so morbid
She's a breeder
@@mrswampgass2186 … that eats her children.
@@mrswampgass2186 People actually do that it wow
fr she’s weird asf
When you look at something like this, the apocalypse doesn't sound like a terrifying event, but more like a hopeful relief.
1st of all the video LITERALLY just came out so you aint watched nun...
2nd, why are you here? i thought you only existed around Destiny's videos?
@@slvrsnpr07 I can watch whatever I want
@@slvrsnpr07 why do u care go outside loser
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@@slvrsnpr07 why do people say stuff like that??
"wtf are you doing on this video I'm the only one who's allowed to have a broad collection of TH-camrs I frequently watch"
I was a virgin at the altar, still happily married going on a decade and 3 kids later, so glad I didn't participate in this mess 😂
Wow, thats rare as hell.
That's the dream.💜
What I prefer to do, barely 18 but I want to get married maybe around 21
@@GG.Sanchoo I was 19, my husband had just turned 21, I think it's a good age 😊 we built our adult lives from the ground up together all the way, good luck to you
@@Hearth123I should start dating younger then maybe. I Usually I date my age or older but lately everyone I see mention their marriages the woman is always younger by atleast 2 years.
When I hear three digit numbers, I immediately think they must be lying. I have a hard time imagining anyone taking the time to count them all, unless you’re literally keeping a list
A lot of women with high counts actually keep a list. Seen a few with a spreed sheet
why would a women lie about that, men for sure but women?
@@VladimirTod242 same reason, different reason
@@darnellharrison3883 I had a girl one time pull up a fucking collage on her phone. All decorated and shit. And they were all either currently in prison or used to be. Shit was wild lol
@@darnellharrison3883 - that’s wild lol
Racking up numbers doesn't just mean you like to have sex, it means you have an issue with commitment and/or self-esteem problems. Lot of people love to hook up but keep bodies low(er) because they hook up with the same ones, many times.
That's where friends with benefits also comes in
@@user-dv9xx3yy8v That lady with 300. Man I dont even know 300 people. I swear she was litteraly fucking anything that moved
That’s what I was thinking. I may be having the same amount of sex but it’s with my man so it’s not adding up. I guess “don’t stick your d in crazy” is an old-fashioned sentiment now, too.
It can be where the other person has commitment issues, and that’s why they have partners that leave them when they only want 1 person
For the last girl, I was thinking 300 at first but then she said her parents literally just named her rainbow I flipped to a very low number. I get the feeling that her parents are the kind that are more likely to talk to their children about sex and being responsible about it.
Interesting, that is a good point.
Interesting perspective,I wouldve assumed theyre new age hippies and are clueless and gave her a higher number.
@@sixpains1635 I wasn't too far off on most of them except for the pregnant woman.
The 18 year old seemed shy despite her low cut top, and considering her age you'd expect a low number. I feel like at that age dressing that way can be a way to get attention that you don't get from sex? idk. It doesn't necessarily mean much.
The girl with pig tails and sweats mostly just looked laid back and comfortable in her body rather than dressed to get attention, and she looked like the second youngest in the group. So I expected a low number for her too.
OnlyFans girl (pink hair) I expected to have had a moderate amount of partners, but not necessarily the biggest amount. A lot of OnlyFans content is solo so she's not necessarily that habituated to having casual sex with random people despite having most likely liberal views about sex. Also people in the sex industry might associate sex with work and seek it out less. But she might also have a hard time finding a long term committed relationship due to having OF, therefore having sporadic sex with various people is more likely than frequent and regular sex with a single person. So 16 makes sense.
The black girl seemed sexually experienced and like she enjoys having sex, and being older, I'd have assumed several shorter lasting relationships when she was younger, transition into more long lasting relationships as she matured since people tend to be better at picking reliable partners as they're older? So a moderate number makes sense for her too.
Pregnant girl... considering how she had several kids, I assumed she had most of those with 1 guy (maybe 2). And it takes a long time to have so many kids and she's still not that old, so I was expecting a relatively few partners in the past several years. Obviously she could've experimented with several guys when she was in her teens/early 20s before getting pregnant, but I was still expecting like, 3-10. So I was pretty far off with her.
Girl with glasses, despite the glasses, she didn't really come off as the socially awkward cautious nerdy type. She has tattoos and dressed in all black. A rebellious phase with many hookups doesn't surprise me, but I still would not have expected 300. I was thinking more like 30-50.
i thought you were gonna say, because rainbow is a dumb gay ass name
But we learnt that the covered up one had a higher body count
When Preach talked about the younger generation at the end not considering oral sex and other activities that aren't penetration as sex, it made me think about last spring when I was talking to this guy and we fooled around (made out basically). He was trying to get me to blow him and say "we're not having sex" to try and persuade me; I told him it's a type of sex because it is a sexual activity and is called oral SEX. (I told him I didn't believe in casual sex, which includes ANY sexual activity with another person. He turned out to be a fuckboy and tried to prey on my lack of experience but that's another story for another day). As someone in my early 20s, I agree with Aba that the idea is stupid; while touching and oral are not the traditional act of sex, they are still SEXUAL activities which is sex in a sense. Even masturbation is referred to as solo SEX because it is a sexual activity. I don't think it's that complicated to understand; I feel like ppl just wanna use loopholes to justify their behavior.
So people that masturbate but have never engaged in sexual activity with others aren’t virgins??
blame the loopholes on church lol church kids are creative
I had a dude say the exact same thing to me. “We’re not going to have sex.” Awesome. Fine by me. Dude wouldn’t let me get breakfast and said “you have to earn it” and tried to get me to sleep with him. I told him no, I don’t have romantic feelings for you and that’s why I dont want to sleep with you. He retorted with “well you’re just easy because of the way you dress, talk, and act.” How I dress, talk, and act does not indicate that I am easy.
@@on-knee That's actually disgusting. Also, the audacity to for that guy to say you're easy when he's the one that brought that up. Like how are dudes gonna treat you like you're easy and act like they can get what they want out of you when they're the ones wanting to have sex and practically begging for you to satisfy their needs. THEY are the easy ones if anything, being straight up intrusive, he was just salty he didn't get any. Speaking of dressing, this same guy told me I could change my style and asked me why I don't show more skin.
thats a man who understands what fvcked up world we live in now and is trying so hard not to get cancelled
Anyone who came up before roughly 2016 remembers something akin to sanity.
I relate to the woman who didn’t have sex. I had very very little sex between teens and twenties. It was laughable compared to my peers. Several reasons, anxiety, guilt/shame, religion, for not wanting to have sex with people. Didn’t want to get stuck with a kid. It makes sense to us.
youre smart, Im a guy and im the same. Dont want to have a child with a woman who i wont marry. Children dont deserve the trauma of our bad decisions and lack of accountability
can't blame you.
Same as me as a guy
@@Random-qi3vv amen amen
You were smart
I think the 300 girl went through a phase of needing affirmation. People sleeping with her made her think "I'm pretty. People want me"
She was finding her value within others. I wouldn't hit that with a brick.
Good luck to her future partner. I would want a full blood work panel, 300 bodies and STI/d has to be there.
That's true. They think having sex gives them value or something. It's sad.
Not complicated average to below average looking chicks put out more cuz they know they are not good looking and will not get relationships, so they make themselves available to highly attractive guys very easily. So they run up bodies way higher than cute girls who know they cute and have leverage and can make dudes chase them and jump through hoops. Below average chicks have no options than being a booty call or a side piece for attractive dudes
Or touch her w a stick
Key word here is: "you think"
There was a group of women I hung out with in my 20s that would joke about not remembering who they had sex with after a night of partying. “If you don’t remember it, it doesn’t count.” They drank every night.
I’m sure the police would agree with that excuse from criminals if they don’t remember the crime they committed
We need to add “Do you have an OnlyFans?” to the list of questions when you’re on a date. Because women with an OnlyFans has no intimacy boundaries. And that’s a massive red flag.
And it means they're okay with manipulating mentally ill people to take their money. Massive moral red flag
I see what gave you this opinion but you can’t assume things about complete strangers. The only thing it would guarantee is that the person doesn’t mind being seen naked or doing sexual acts by strangers.
100% agree with not wanting to date a girl with an only fans, I WOULD NEVER. but asking that on the first date could be super awkward and maybe a bit too soon.
I feel like the internet has led you to believe that having an OnlyFans as a side hussle is common, but it’s not. You can go on 100 dates and ask every single one this question, odds are they will ALL answer no and be a bit offended by your question. But go ahead if you want
@@we5t5id3gunn let em know 🗣
I could be 100 years old and I still wouldn't ever meet 300 people
Hahaha righttt?
meat* if you know what I mean
Well you'd probably be less attractive by then
3 or 4 baby daddies and 70 bodies? She got the biggest red flag of em all. 300 bodies is insane, but not getting pregnant is commendable. Can't imagine the type of person someone is to have that many baby daddies
She could have got several abortions for all we know.
I feel for her kids
Funny how a man had 1500 bodies yet you hypocrites haven’t said anything about it.
Also, she got offended so easily compared to the others and even got irritated on behalf of the other girls. The girl in her 30s with the 300 count was chill. She owned up to it.
Yikes yikes
Bob was born in a time where society was polite. ❤
He was too soft.
@@justme8841 he is the one normal, y'all demons 😂
$5 says she's going to blame other people when she starts having trouble finding a long time partner after they find out she's been had by like 6 different football teams.
I’d just give u the 5 since we both know where that future is headed
If you cared to watch the whole thing, then you’d give me the 5 since she’s in a long term relationship now
@@Algae555 will it be the same LTR in a year though? That's what he's betting on.
I’ll up it to 10k
Aww that's adorable, you think that relationship gonna last
I'm 47 and had a friend in high school (we were 16) try to convince me that oral sex wasn't sex. She was convinced it wasn't 😅
Let me guess, anal also wasn't sex.
Yeah it’s definitely not a new mindset, I feel like before it was more explicitly said about anal.
lol its even in the name!
That's just "things hoes say to themselves".
In that case i ain't gay or bi , i just give head and canoodle with my homie . I always said it's not gay it's just affection and Masculine bonding . It feels great being intimate and a little vulnerable with a strong handsome man whom you have close bond with
It is absolutely insane to me how high people's body counts are. It is a complete lack of respect for yourself to just give it out to just anyone. Whether you are a man or woman it is just nasty to me.
I agree completely what you said
Surprised no one has tried to call you out. Despite you being reasonable, it's just not "trendy", if you ask some 🙄
No no, it’s how high WOMEN‘s body counts specifically are
@@thesharinganknight no, its both tf
Fucking agreed. If your body count is in double digits (hell, I would say greater than the number of people you have been married to) then you have a noticeable lack of respect for your body and your partner.
The creaky floorboard used to piss me off but now, the laughing wouldnt be the same without that floor board creak first.
Not enough credit given
I think if the show had just defined what "body count" consisted of, we would have had a more accurate set of numbers for each individual since many would define it differently.
Right!!
Virgin or not technically.. if you have blown the whole Spartan army you still for the streets
Body count is simple. People just need to learn to use words correctly and be honest
@@opuil It's not that simple when people hate to define key words that are at the center of a conversation.
Body count for some is anything with sexual intent including heavy kissing and feeling up a body, for others it's any sexual contact in bed at all like fingering and licking, for others it's penile penetration only and for some oral counts and for others it doesn't and some only count penis in vagina and not anal or oral.
If we can't even agree on a definition how is it simple?
@@DaybreakPT it's simple because that's the definition of "body count" regardless if how u view it. It's simple. How many people have u fucked. If u wanna go in details u can that includes oral and anal
Body count is, how many different genitals have you touched, or have touched you. Wrapped or unwrapped. Simple as that.
The “I just like to have sex” point cracks me up bc you can like to have a LOT of sex, just as much sex (usually MORE) and still have a low body count.
What they’re trying to say is, I don’t like commitment/ no one wants to commit to me so sex with random people is my only option.
Facts
real talk
The thing is guys don’t wanna keep those types around. It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy
Yeah, you can totally just like sex with a single individual. And have lots and lots of sex with the same guy until you die.
But nah man, they "like sex" with 70 different dudes.
@@Tenrou2 speak for yourself.
"I'm a bit of a player" was his 1st lie 😂😂😂
@Nick Grace "You know, I'm something of a player myself" - Norman Osborne.
OMG! I'm tears from laughing so hard. You guys are hilarious! The clip of Patrick getting his mouth full took me all the way OUT!! 🤣🤣🤣
I don't get this goofy trend of young women lying about being with hundreds of dudes.
And I know because my friend group is mostly female and I see them do it now. My roommate literally started telling a fake story about getting a train run on her when asked what she did last Friday and I was looking at her, 'Why you lyin'? You spent the entire weekend on the couch watching Bridgerton 🧐'
I don't know. I guess this is empowering for them to front as irresponsibly promiscuous people
It’s really really bad. I went through my early 20s being extremely insecure about the fact that I hadn’t had sex with anyone because I didn’t want to, did find anyone that I trust, found mentally and emotionally attractive, or who treated me with respect and intention. Literally women will mock other women for having a low body count. They treat you like your religious freak or that you’re just really naïve.
@@laela6289 they do that for their own selfish reasons because they feel uncomfortable with people who are different so if they can peer pressure them into living the same lifestyle they don't feel as bad about their own choices.
Irresponsibly promiscuous? You mean a "h o"?
304 behavior is normalized. Non-304 behavior is not. Simple as.
It's interesting that you say this because it sounds the same way as guys lying about their body count. And the funny thing is I never thought about that being a possibility until now. But it makes sense.
300 bodies at 18?
Sounds like her father is still on an epic quest to get the milk! 😂
Strange how it takes fathers 50 years to get some milk 😂
You mean Saga by this point.
Sir Yeetus you had 300 jobs before Walmart stop using incel shaming tactics
@@TheDarkkilla12 you mean you need to stop using incel tactics body count don't matter
@@darnellwilliams8783 Darnell Williams has the name of a slave
300 at 18 is a SICKNESS
I feel like Ur getting multiple "sicknesses" from all that tbh
Of the highest order
SICKNESS IN THE HIGHEST OF ORDERS!
she probably got a new strain of Covid or MonkeyPox in her body. stay away from her
WATCH THE WHOLE VIDEO, my gawdd, the title was clickbait. She’s in her 30s.
This is incredible. The biggest 304 I knew at the turn of the century was 22 and had 12, and she worried she was racking up the numbers too fast.
back then it took a lot of work to have numbers like that. you had to be at the shopping mall EVERY weekend to get phone numbers, etc
she doesnt have parents, she has people who feed her sometimes
Yep she lives on cum mostly
Seems like she gets fed all the time.
She’s a bodybuilder. Gotta keep that protein intake high
@@Snoop_Dugg GULP GULP
@@Snoop_Dugg with her morning milkshakes around every corner
There was a couple I used to hang out with when I was like 15, the girl was super religious n she would always say she wouldn't have sex til they got married. She would give up the butt n thought that wasn't sex bcuz she couldn't get pregnant that way. 🤦♀️ They ended up getting married n they r still together but I always thought that was fkn weird.
Lmaoo it is weird she still had anal sex 😂 that’s funny
So anal sex dosent make you a virgin? Just curious 😂
You sound like a hater. Congrats to them on their marriage !!
@@KaseyAngel222 bruuuuuuuuuuuuuuh
@@KaseyAngel222 she just found her friend's reasoning odd, there is nothing here that really sounds hatefull.
Funny how the pregnant one was offended when the older man asked about her baby daddies but when the black man asked, she was fine with it
Black dude seems disarming (and possibly gay). Not sure if that makes sense
@aisherwasher I understand, but in the end they are both trying to figure out if she's loose with men or not and it's the same implication: different daddies means more promiscuous.
@@aisherwasher6959 that’s how damn near all women are a gay dude can say whatever but a straight dude they’ll
Take it personally.
@@Kirbystare1992
It's the tone.
It's because of how that man Carry's himself.
most young people are to naive to realize their wants and needs are shallow. once theyve lived life a bit they can figure out what they actually want. thats why a good mentor is needed. im 33 and am figuring out bounderies, to respect myself, and not give my power away. now that i know what im doing i can see other people suffering from the something i was.
You're right about the women banning together even if they don't know each other. The same exact thing happens with race. People just need to have one major thing in common with each other to feel some type of connection. They will unknowingly have group think.
I think you mean "banding together" and what you are describing is tribalism. This is what happens when you regard others as groups instead of as individuals and it is what happens when you no longer agree with basic ideas. America used to be a nationalist country (this used to be the same thing as saying we were patriotic). We had the same values and we all liked freedom and liberty. Without that and feeling like we had a good country because the word nationalism has been demonized, we don't have any common culture to hold us together as a country. People in power benefit from people being divided. If they destroy institutions like family and community, then government is the only game in town when people need someone to turn to when they feel they need help. Becoming dependent on government is not a good thing as being dependent means you are easier for people in power to control. If certain politicians are giving you "free stuff" you want, then they will always have your vote. That means they can do whatever they want, essentially as the have nots will always keep voting to take away resources from the people who have them and everyone wants their "tribe" to succeed the most. You can't have a healthy and successful multicultural society in this type of environment, though.
Until one girl really, really wants something they all want and then the sabotaging begins lmao.
I've never understood that, but I guess that's why I'm alone. I don't like to group think, I'm disagreeable. I call people out on their shit, I stick to my values consistently and hold myself and everyone else around me to the same standards I hold myself too. I rarely agree with a group just to fit in, it feels fake and lonelier. You have to lie and play along and be fake just to have friends? You must be extremely empty inside if you do that.
I think 0ral is a much bigger thing than all the interc0rse because it’s literally getting on your knees and putting yourself in a fully vulnerable position. Plus nobody does “safe” mouth stuff.
And the female role in interc0rse is any different? It’s still a vulnerable, submission, position, and being used
@@Tenrou2 you are wrong.
I've always agreed with this thought. During intercourse, you're both getting something out of it so it's easier, for me at least, to be present and happy and "go along with it." But oral is all give. You need to put yourself aside for a moment and be completely submissive to someone else.
@@Tenrou2 he was literally talking about the females position reread the comment, also no they’re not vulnerable and being used when they’re offering it plus the dudes in a way more vulnerable position I mean ur literally one step away from getting ur dick chomped on
@@Tenrou2 nah. Oral is a different beat than sex. WAY WAY DIFFERENT.
Preach is right about the Gen Z.
I'm 25 and basically everyone thinks a kiss is nothing unless you're cuffed. Most people saw their virginity as something to get rid of asap and one of my friend gave a bj to a guy and said it was nothing.
Only people it bothers are guys who don't wear painted nails.
A very moral generation 👏
@@user-pd9ju5dk5s funny how that works
@@user-pd9ju5dk5s i mean more moral then the generation who owned and allowed slaves and slavery and segregation🤷♂️.
Its all about perspective
@@xMckingwill You say like theyre alive wtf lololol
edit: you edited your comment to include segregation
@@xMckingwill Jokes on you, I'm into that shit
300 people? Thats disgusting. The people she slept with need to get tested asap! Who knows what she's carrying.
14:28 preggo girl reconfirming the dudes very fears of why he was stepping on eggshells the whole time in the first place.
All physical intimacy counts for me.
I’ll hold myself to the standards I expect of my partner, I don’t want a high count. I want someone saving themselves and reserved across the board for all types. It’s a reasonable expectation IF I hold myself to it, as I’d assume and hope they’d expect the same.
its reasonable if you hold yourself to the same standards but there are many out there who do not.
I'm saving myself till marriage too 😊
Here's the trick. Date someone, get to know them, if they want to have sex, run. Easy as that.
Long-term dating, like years, or engagement risqué situations are understandable. However, anyone willing to "smash" while dating is not going to have a lifetime relationship. You can take that to the bank.
@@JuffBeezos better yet is waiting for marriage
That girl has held 300 other mens hands. What a whore
It’s wild to me how some people just have 100+ bodies. Like wtf, what do you get out of sex at that point? At some point there is diminishing returns. And it’s way before 100 bodies.
I just recently had a talk with my teenage boys and how kids these days don’t see oral and anal as sex and it most definitely is!!! Also talked to them how if they are involved in those forms of sexual acts they still have to be safe. It’s not just about preventing pregnancy. Told them they also have to remember I was their age once before and know how the world works lol
Haha definitely, then gay and lesbian sex isn't sex at all?
@@LeFouLutinI don't mean to sound mean, but It Is sex when a penis enter a vagina, anything else is just for pleasure and it's not real sex
i don't think you read his comment right....
Girls and boys in their 20's today were taught and told by media that it was ok, and there was nothing wrong or unhealthy with engaging in oral sex casually. They were told it wasn't risky or dangerous. That it was "preferred" as a method so as to avoid pregnancy.
In reality though grandmothers were telling girls that in laundry rooms for decades.
When I was growing up every girl would give you a blowie, they weren't casual about sex though. It had consequences.
Where are you from, that sounds disgusting.😵💫 Definitely not how I grew up in the 00s but not in the US, so maybe it's different.
@@joane24 Yeah, the US has been screwing with the kids since the late 80s here. First they tried engineering the youth with mind altering drugs, mostly boys. Now it's propaganda against the parents to raise them to be useless.
@@joane24 probably just being hyperbolic with the "every girl" part probably just means it was something you could expect sexual from a girl if things got to that point but nothing more then that
You're out of your fucking mind, what media says that shit LMAOOOOOO lying ass
"The Pussy Alliance is not about friendship" had me in tears.
ive had 4 sexual partners 3 of them were long term relationships with people I was in love with and passionate about 1 was me trying to get over a break up with a one night stand to see if (that life) was for me and I regret that experience to this day.
Dude same, I regret the hook up more than anything. Casuals are just not for everyone
@@crashingxhearts its far too meaningless to me and souless I know some people don't care for commitment or romance and just want pleasure but for me I cant live without it
me too. i had one hook up and regret it, i increased my body count for nothing and that degrading feeling of being objectified, used then discarded still lingers. it was so damaging its crazy how people can live a promiscuous life style for years..i hate how our society tries to normalize casual sex. theres nothing casual about it.
As a person in your late teens early twenties, your hormones are on hyper drive. So to ask them to be celibate is hard, but it's worth it in the end. It's like investing, never fun in the moment but worth it over time. I am lucky I met my wife when I was 18 (36 now)
Dating that chick gon be like being invited to a dope ass house party only to get there and find that the party’s already over and everyone’s already gone home then you get handed a broom to clean up all the mess and bill for all the food and drinks.
Deji! Gbe enu si ohun🤣🤣🤣
And puke on the floor.
@@judybash9393 egbon mi e ma binu si mi 😂😂
or flying a 747 through the Grand Canyon.
For real what are you taking about? Are you one of those guys that thinks a woman retains the semen of her previous partners inside her??? Cause that ain't it bro
This makes me feel better. I'm 37, I have had 5 bodies and it feels too many already
You are a keeper
No need to lie.
@@jrcolacola nahhh, 5 is a lot...she should be virgin
@@LanceRedCock Wrong. Stop perpetuating degeneracy.
@@v.cjuancarlos6014 why should I lie on the internet? I come from a traditional family and my mom and sister had just 1 .I'm going to stop here tho because dating is disgusting, and the idea of sharing my intimacy with some other cheating piece of shit makes me puke
Single mother, 300 body count, OF "model", dads must be proud.
Most probably there was no loving, caring dad to be seen..
4:41 Bro was hearing that 🚔🚔🚓🚓 so loud he almost put his hands behind his back 😁😂
That was a set up 😬
If you wanna sleep around, that’s a personal choice. But sleeping around and projecting that it’s something empowering has the opposite effect on others because then they don’t perceive you as a strong independent woman… they perceive you as someone who either doesn’t value intimacy or yourself, or even someone that doesn’t make great decisions when it comes to assessing relationships. There’s nothing empowering about looking dumb😀
Sure people should be private about private stuff.
Tho its interesting when males talk about their sexual success its viewed as empowering especially if a guy has a higher body count. Remember we live in a society where a mans value is determined in part by their viginity status and sexual " conquests". Yet if women do the same thing its an issue or viewed more critically regardless of body count.
Fuunny how that works. Fyi your framing makes it seem you are only looking at the women
@@xMckingwill I get that "society" values men with high sexual conquests, but does that actually impress women? It just sounds nasty to me... maybe I just read my Bible too much lol
@@aisherwasher6959 i agree, but the reality is it depends women tend to prefer men with sexual experience. In fact many women would be turned off by virgin men or think something is wrong with them, so much so its actually a good idea to NOT say they are a virgin and pretend they arent.
Hell even men judge and shame men who have low or no sexual experience im sure you know "virgin" is used as an insult.
Of course at the extreme extremes it would raise eyebrows
@@aisherwasher6959 yes it does impress women. Men are most attractive to women when they are wanted by other women
@@camelio10 isn't there a difference between being wanted by other women and sleeping with each woman who wants you?
Okay that whole “Anything *BUT* penetration doesn’t count” mentality is wild. Because now thinking about it anyone who says they’re a virgin could think like this meaning there’s even less virgins in todays society. Crazy stuff 😂
I'm saying. Gotta add that question to the list smdh
Yea she may be a virgin but her innocence is gone
@@ataru4646 well its strange that we associate virginity with innocence
Technically it isnt sex🤷♂️ and she is a virgin.
@@xMckingwill Not that strange if you look at history and how religion plays into the viewpoint tbh
As a man I don't think I'd be proud to have 300+ bodies
It’s gross in both men and women. Definitely NOT marrying a dude with a count like that. Yuck…
As a man, i would try to hide it and to undersell my bodycount if i had that many. That just doesn't look/feel healty for anybody.
That just sounds like STD
All those fluids could fill a pool.
Most men would be proud of it
I'm over here with a body count of 4 and thinking, "Holy shit, 10+ was an option?" And then dropping dead because someone was a 300+ 🤣
female privilege.... to get speared by every sports team for free.
Why would you state your high number like that on the internet 😂 aren’t you embarrassed
@@Hellonerds09 Nah 4 isn't high, depending on how old she is.
@@Hellonerds09 4 isn't that high my dude.
@@Hellonerds09buddy 4 is low!!!!
I love this Dad. “Now I’ve made you angry. I’m sorry” 😂
"iT's cOnSeNSuAL."
I'm definitely with Aba here. You enjoy that fantasy all you want but I'm not putting myself in that scenario. We can have reasonably adventurous sex that's enjoyable and simple rather than me needing to read a script beforehand with a release form attached.
I'm getting a little tired of "consent" as the be-all-end-all when it comes to discussions about sex. If it was just about consent then you would not have so many of these stories of regretful sex that become akin to assault and the like later on (especially in college). Clearly, there's more to true intimacy and pair bonding than just consent.
Loool i loved when you guys referenced 300
I think it’s actually worse to say you’re a virgin with a “pretty high” oral sex count. That’s a bigger red flag than the girl who admitted having a lot of sex in their 20’s getting up to 300. Why is she a virgin yet has a lot of sexual encounters theirs something wrong with her perception of sex or religious/ spiritual beliefs
That's a really weird take to have
I don’t think it’s weird that she didn’t want to go past oral. She’s just scared of getting pregnant and she probably (wrongly) thinks she is very unlikely to catch something viral from the toppy top. 😂
The way she said it tho 👀 she’s lowkey a whole succubus who prob gives head better than breathing
Some viruses and even bacterial stuff that you can get its actually worse or just as bad to get it orally as it is anywhere downstairs. Which is why it is better for your own sake to wear protection for oral though many people would not want to do that. Also for the person receiving the oral there are also some things you can catch as well. Its not ask risky as intercourse, or anal which is the worst, but its still got risks.
thats why her booty probably loose af
Yeah, I've known many women who are very okay with oral but won't allow partners to touch them early on. It's something about staying in control until they are super sure they want to be touched.
But still slutty giving heads here and there lol it's only a matter of time before a dude enters
This one's extra hilarious. Also Bob's really cute! I feel for his discomfort though, eggshells today are more like landmines.
He still needs to stand up more for himself. He lacks testosteron
I always thought a high body count was 10 plus but wow after seeing these numbers I am so glad I wasn’t as wild as I thought I was in my 20’s
High is anything over your age in my opinion.
IMO oral sex is more intimate than most. Also, if I were in a serious relationship and she cheated, obviously none of that is acceptable, but if she tried to explain herself like "i only blew him" Lol, that's outrageous. I'd take that worse.
@Erica Deram bro what? This sounds like extra steps to excuse sucking dick. Oral sex for both sides is definitely more intimate because of the sole fact you CAN just bite whatever’s in your mouth off, and that goes for both. The control is what makes it intimate to begin with
Yea oral is for special partners imo
Yeah I can totally understand that cuz I can only imagine my anger as she did it because she obviously did something off a stupid notion but obviously she knew what she did because people aren't stupid
I remember watching HIMYM and Barney’s record of 200 women (which he had diligently worked on for years) was a big deal. Nowadays that number sounds so normal.
Damn, youre right, i 'member that
Cause 200 for a man means he worked for it, but he still a hoe. 200 for a woman means she just laid there with her legs open and let the train run on lmao
in what circles it is considered normal?
Guys Vs girls is different tho tbf
How is that normal anywhere, whether on a tv show or real life? Who even knows that many people?
300 bodies? Spartans?! Prepare for glory!
@boy Afrika
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I'm a 95 baby (27), and preach is absolutely right with his hierarchy of sexual activities, it bled into my era a little bit even.
Top isn't considered sex, If I had to try and describe it with one word, they'd probably associate it with an 'experience' not 'sex'
I dont know who you know but where I'm from you get clowned on for that. You're better off fucking the guy than giving head. Atleast you could act like yall together and it was special. I knew a girl in 7th grade who'd suck anyone off but was a "virgin". I believe oral sex is sex. It produces the same end result so yeah its the same. Imagine if you married your wife and at a party yall meet a dude who keeps smiling at your wife and you find out she sucked him off. Would you be like, "it's cool it wasn't sex." Probably not, you'd be mad she lied and her idea of virginity is completely different. That's like Aurora Jolie claiming virginity because she only did anal. It doesn't work like that. A dude can't be walking around sucking dudes off and claim he's straight and still a virgin. Thats a fucking loophole if I've ever heard one.
Yeah I'm am 01 baby and it's basically this. But the thing with top is it seems to be a one way thing, like most guys are willing to receive head casually but very few of them are willing to give it casually.
I'd say it counts as half a fuck.
“You got somebody in there”
That’s my new way to ask if a person is pregnant
25 and zero bodies. Proud of myself for it.
W person w pfp w comment
I’m happy for you man, it’s a shame society pressures and shame people into losing their virginity.
You will make an excellent partner
Don't let anyone tell you otherwise
🙌🙌🙌👏👏👏
That spongebob cut! Killing me
Something I’ve realized is a lot of times the more attractive people have less body counts then the ones who aren’t as attractive. I think the less attractive ones want to prove so bad that people want them so they’ll sleep with multiple people while the attractive people don’t need to really prove anything and at most times have standards.
Interesting take and there is the "fallacy of choice", the more options you have the harder it is to choose.
Attractive people have so many options that its hard for them to actually make a choice on one person over another.
Attractive people can afford to have options and they aren't treated like having standards is some cardinal sin unlike their counterparts. They barely have to worry about feeling validated because they're constantly reassured of their worth, even if people's treatment of them is superficial at the surface level.
Combine that with the societal pressure to be in relationships, have sex and sleep around, and you get the Promiscuity Renaissance Era that's happening now, especially amongst average to below average people.
TL;DR: Society values sex and physical appearance above all else. People who feel undervalued see this and try to indulge in it as much as possible to order to feel valid.
@@utopian4769 love this analysis
True
I can agree, I'm a decent looking guy and wont touch anything below my standard, but my friends will smash anything in sight. Im not a model or anything Just put a lot of work into my body and have a nice beard/style
Under 25 here ✋🏾I do believe all sex form is sex. And I believe cheating can be emotional, however if I'm with someone and there's emotional cheating involved I tend to feel hurt more than if it was just sex because it means something is wrong in our relationship on a deeper level. Seeking emotional support from someone else doesn't equal emotional cheating but developing feelings do.
You do realize most of the time cheating happens it is by women? Emotional creatures that will cheat on you because your dick is too small for them, or because your not making enough money to make them feel secure. If you think someone cheating on you is ever acceptable because the relationship isn't at it's emotional best, instead of working thru it and being loyal or atleast leaving without cheating, then honestly I'm sorry to say that you have a simp mentality that will make you get ran over and used
Go and ask any woman if they believe if someone cheats on them there's a possibility that they deserved it and they will tell you never
@@akkoismydaughter3573same with men probably
Male here, nobody deserves to be cheated on. There's never an excuse to cheat. Any excuse used to justify cheating is the excuse to get out of the relationship before the cheating occurs. Choosing to cheat over refusing to end a relationship is just being selfish and/or lazy.
This is a great video cus it shows the dichotomy of how men and women think about sex and oral. I’ve had the conversation about how oral sex still counts as sex 😂 I was like it’s 3rd base, and it’s got sex in the name
You're actually undermining your argument by saying it's 3rd base and not the home run, but if it's got sex in the name and someone is entering someone else, even if it's penis through the mouth it's sex.
Female acquaintance of mine around 40 (I'm older) told me she'd had "500-700 men". In a second any attraction she had for me evaporated. I'm so disgusted I don't even talk to her anymore.
Holy shit that patric snowball cut at 15:12 Caught me so off guard. Hilarious.
Abba has such good social predictions and skills. Love these kind of videos. Peach, your facial expressions and laughter are amazing ❤
300 at 18 is crazy. Assuming they started when they were 16, they had it once every 2½ days
She's into the same sex. So she can just go out and sleep with multiple women every week and no consequences (except losing her ability to pair bond but let's be real she was probably a lost cause already).
Well the girl was a virgin so
i was once out with some friends and overheard a girl she she had slept with 23 guys. i thought that was ridiculous. but 300? Jesus Christ
I can smell the Daddy issues and depression through the god damn screen.
as a guy who's graduated from highschool about 4 years ago I can say that the bj thing is kinda accurate. Like having sex for the first time was losing your virginity but if you just got a bj you were still a virgin. But a bj was definitely something sexual. Like if a girl gave a bj to another dude when she was in a relationship her boyfriend wouldve broken up with her. Its like an in between thing
Uh no. This kind of thinking is what causes the bj thing to happen. Its sex period. That's why they call it sodomy.
People are so insecure. Oral isn't sex. If my girlfriend slipped up and have head to another guy, I would overlook it . Can't believe people break up over such minute things. What's next, no opposite gender friends 😂😂
BJ is sexual. Now westoids are making it out to not be sexual?
I hate the west so much. Gotta nuke that whole place.
Is there 3 replies deleted here, or my yt is bugged
@@ceremians that or the people typed slurs
There's nothing weird for me for the girl to not go past oral. I'm also a virgin, tho I'm way older than her but i can relate to getting regrets. But personally I dont want to judge a person on how many sexual partners they have as long as they're safe. I have 2 friends who passed away to sexually transmitted related disease. I don't want to just be intimate with anyone if i don't know that person well. I think you just really have to find the right person who will understand your body. Whether it's a casual or serious relationship. You have to be responsible.
I'm 34. Growing up a body count of 20 was considered way too much for a girl. Now 20 is considered an endangered species 🤣🤣
kudos to you for not playing life like these crazies do.
I saw a girl on snapchat having a celebration for getting her 20th "body" at like 19..
When I turned 36 my body count was abysmally single digit low. I realized I was getting too old to give a poop about "reputation" and wanted to experience some dam sex before I was too old to pic some decent partners. I have since rectified that number 🤣🤣
@@FittedSheet2000 say sike, right now
@@shesestheticallypleasing I wish I could, but to make it worse it happened twice and they're both friends 😭 I mean bought a cake and everything 😭😭