Shared goals…. Compromise…. Listening…. Physical attraction…. hard work that includes the relationship…. Congratulations you two… I wish much happiness and success…
Can’t be high value without money. We shouldn’t lie to men about it. You can however have money and not be high value. There’s more to it for sure. But never the other way around either.
5:58 - 6:30 This talking point about _seeing your relationship as something to be refined and nurtured_ is KEY! In my 20s I found this concept almost foreign believing that "getting the girl" was the goal. This of course bred a "player" type of mindset because once I _got the girl_ this often resulted in thinking things such "well that's it, I did it. Onto something new I guess." I had to do better and hold myself to a greater standard for sure. Solid video! It was great to hear a bit of the female perspective here as well. Cheers!
I am 19 and I aspire to have your maturity! Your video gave me insights on how to better my intimacy since I have good status and make some money, but I still work on how to talk to people better
This is most certainly the best and truest message about what leading a relationship is. No manosphere no feminist nor red pill community tell exactly these things. I am not broke, but I am not rich and yet I do all that with my gf and she does the same with me.
On small gifts, in Australia we have kerbside household clean ups. People just put their junk out the front of their house. I stopped at one and found a Scrabble set. I took one of the letter tile holders and the letters to spell "I love you". I posted it to my partner and left her to work it out. It still sits on her bedside table and of course she worked it out. Cost nothing, impact priceless and daily.
A lot of good stuff. American men tend to be problem solvers, not listeners. At first, I found it useful to ask, "Do you want advice or do you want me to just listen?" I usually heard, "Just listen." Works well. Snd couples who use a marriage counselor divorce much less often. They frequently go without specific problems, just to check in and get a "tune-up."
I try to think and do things to make my wife’s life a little easier. Things like doing the dishes after dinner, emptying the garbage, putting gas into her car, helping her fold clothes after they come out of the dryer. Day-to-day living includes drudgery, helping making it easier for her pays many dividends!
Relationship Meetings I think this is an excellent practice in maintaining a healthy relationship. The challenging part is addressing the tough subjects. But it needs to be done.
The first frame of this video is pure art, a handsome couple with the ladies hand proudly on her man's shoulder, both facing forward, shoulder to shoulder ready to face the world together; a real power team
So much wealth in this video and the last with Augistina! I wish I would have known about this when I was "young"....I'm just 82 now. All the best; I watch all your videos and welcome any comments. Best, JMG
I might add a 4th item to this list: How well you treat your friends, family, and other acquaintances. It can come off as manipulative or fake if you do the right things with your romantic partner and the opposite with the other people in your life.
LOVE knit ties and yours is no exception, and there's nothing like a really good blazer, Augustina looks smart as always. A bit surprised by the crucifix, but she's exceptionally liberal for a Christian, which is awesome. I feel some of the things you talk about like being kind even when you're emotional and being there for important moments in her life or remembering what she likes and buying her those things are a bit basic, but I guess we all need reminders like this. It's the internet so you never know what someone needs to hear. I will say though, one reason I subscribed to this channel is because a lot of information is more specific and advanced than a lot of the info that gets parroted all over the internet, you know? You're 25!? Bro, I'm 28, I never felt like I was older than you, you're so accomplished and all. Speaking of being accomplished, I've been meaning to say ever since it was mentioned in a video that Augustina being a midwife is absolutely amazing and badass. Well, lovely video, always good to hear from you both, cheers.
Thank you Jeremiah! Augustina does look fantastic as always, although she is not a Christian, she just likes the look of the necklace. Thank you for saying that about her being a midwife, I am so proud of her for that
Yes, the information in this video is a little more base level than some of my other videos, but I was so sick of seeing all this ‘high value’ man nonsense that I felt like it was important to get these points across at a fundamental level. I’m sure you have many achievements under your belt that I do not and I hope this channel can be a part of your journey as we continue to grow together as young men! 🙏
@@Gent.Z Hrrrrm.... my comment keeps vanishing! That's twice now. I guess you don't allow links or namedrops to outside things here? That's cool, I wish you'd tell me instead of just deleting the comment, my dude. In any case, like I said in the comments before, growing together as young men sounds good to me! And thank you for the compliment! Till next time!
I'm afraid I only ever saw the one comment from you on this video, so TH-cam may be blocking the other comments before I get to see them, which is annoying!@@jeremiahbok9028
Hopefully their relationship works out for them but after a 25 year marriage, I’ve learned that relationships should not be work. You can never make somebody be anything that they are not. If you have to work at it, you are with the wrong person. I will never work at a relationship again. If it happens it happens.
You’re right on that, now should people put forth effort and work toward it being even better? Absolutely, but I realized myself even at 21 being with 1 girl for years breaking up over and over, not every relationship works. Forced relationships where you can’t truly enjoy it because of forcing it to work is hardly a real relationship at all
Absolutely behind love letters- I gifted my ex a book with a little letter on the preface so it’ll stay with her forever… shame about my handwriting though 😅
This is going to make me sound so cheap LOL, my Mum before retiring worked 15 years for a company that made wedding dresses, when I was still in my 20's (& skint as hell) I would thrift cheap but in near new condition items, some well known brands like some of my best buys were (And I still have and wear these items today) a Gieves & Hawkes Navy Sports Coat, with surgeon cuffs for £15, Shirts, ties, pocket squares by Thomas Pink (Shirt £7, Tie & PS combo £3), Side adjusted Beige slacks by Cordings £10 (in their London shop they go for £150) and get the old dear to adjust pretty much everything to fit like the trouser length, leg hem, shoulder width and arm length on the blazer to look like they were tailored to fit, coupled with a hand-me-down Longines Flagship watch from my Granddad, bagging a pair of new Loake brown grain lather goodyear welted brogues at a wopping 75% off (£40), my sister worked for a very high end hair stylist in central London once every 2 weeks or so would sort out my hair, keep me topped up with some of the latest aftershaves (because they throw out aftershaves, some costing well over £100 every 6 months, so the stylists just take them with the blessing of the bosses) and the cherry on top, my uncle letting me borrow (later gave due to long term eye problems disqualifying him from driving) his at the time 4 yo Jaguar X-Type in silver (always makes a car look classically expensive imho). When I parked up for a meal or event with friends, they would ask if I had won the lottery. I didn't have the heart to tell them it all cost under £100, including the full tank of petrol.
H uploaded a video about "how to go into a bar alone" or something like that. Where he is talking about conversation starters and how to meet certain types of ppl. Just check it out. CHeers
A relationship should be a place of refuge for a man, not more work, yet another "job" to be done. A woman should be getting her emotional suppports from the village, her family and the other women around her, not loading up her man with more problems. "What's working, what's not working..." Jeez, relationships should be fun! No wonder modern relationships so often fail!
It goes both ways, that's equality, women work, men work, men needs refuge, women needs refuge, taking equal responsibility over the relationship so it thrives instead of dies is what makes both partners happy and pleased
High value men learn to not be phased by her “ beauty .” “ Beautiful “ women are everywhere. Get yourself right and they will fall at your feet! Think Pinky Blinders
@@jimmyjay6497 yea bro, high value men can also acknowledge when a they see a beautiful women on a youtube video lmao stop being so cringy, that aint getting you any women at your feet
I just love the subtle ‘eye talk’ between the two. Shows emotional maturity and intelligence at its peak!
Thank you! Yes, we have a lot of unsaid understanding between us
Shared goals…. Compromise…. Listening…. Physical attraction…. hard work that includes the relationship…. Congratulations you two… I wish much happiness and success…
I’m seventy two years old. Married for 45 years. You two are a breath of fresh air.
Thanks Tony, I appreciate it
I'm 38, no way I talked with the maturity level like you do on you 25th when I was that age. It's admirable
BRILLIANT! Having your companion with you to help you make your points is a stroke of genius. Kudos and many thanks.
A real lady and a real gentleman what golden couple and I wish the two of you a blessed fairytale marriage. Allahumma Ameen.
You don't need money to be high value. Being high value is about being kind, having integrity, having emotional intelligence, having values.
Can’t be high value without money. We shouldn’t lie to men about it. You can however have money and not be high value. There’s more to it for sure. But never the other way around either.
5:58 - 6:30 This talking point about _seeing your relationship as something to be refined and nurtured_ is KEY! In my 20s I found this concept almost foreign believing that "getting the girl" was the goal. This of course bred a "player" type of mindset because once I _got the girl_ this often resulted in thinking things such "well that's it, I did it. Onto something new I guess." I had to do better and hold myself to a greater standard for sure. Solid video! It was great to hear a bit of the female perspective here as well. Cheers!
I am 19 and I aspire to have your maturity! Your video gave me insights on how to better my intimacy since I have good status and make some money, but I still work on how to talk to people better
This is most certainly the best and truest message about what leading a relationship is. No manosphere no feminist nor red pill community tell exactly these things. I am not broke, but I am not rich and yet I do all that with my gf and she does the same with me.
Thank you for your kind words. I am glad to hear you are enjoying a fulfilling relationship with your girl and I wish you two all the best
@@Gent.Z So I hope as well. Keep it up guys and don't let the internet bite you in the ass.
On small gifts, in Australia we have kerbside household clean ups. People just put their junk out the front of their house. I stopped at one and found a Scrabble set. I took one of the letter tile holders and the letters to spell "I love you". I posted it to my partner and left her to work it out. It still sits on her bedside table and of course she worked it out. Cost nothing, impact priceless and daily.
You two are such a SMASHING couple! When’s the wedding?!
Thank you, Suzi! Date TBC ;) haha
Aren’t ya moving to NYC?
That was soul melting charming (and useful too). Thank you!❤
A lot of good stuff. American men tend to be problem solvers, not listeners. At first, I found it useful to ask, "Do you want advice or do you want me to just listen?" I usually heard, "Just listen." Works well.
Snd couples who use a marriage counselor divorce much less often. They frequently go without specific problems, just to check in and get a "tune-up."
Thanks a lot for the great tips! Your channel is where class, beauty, and intelligence meet.
Thank you very much! That’s a wonderful compliment and certainly the aim of my channel
I try to think and do things to make my wife’s life a little easier. Things like doing the dishes after dinner, emptying the garbage, putting gas into her car, helping her fold clothes after they come out of the dryer. Day-to-day living includes drudgery, helping making it easier for her pays many dividends!
Relationship Meetings
I think this is an excellent practice in maintaining a healthy relationship.
The challenging part is addressing the tough subjects. But it needs to be done.
The first frame of this video is pure art, a handsome couple with the ladies hand proudly on her man's shoulder, both facing forward, shoulder to shoulder ready to face the world together; a real power team
Nicely done; you work well together 🍃🙋♀️
I am 36, but its great to see a Gen Z youtuber speaking about everything gentleman-related.
So much wealth in this video and the last with Augistina! I wish I would have known about this when I was "young"....I'm just 82 now. All the best; I watch all your videos and welcome any comments. Best, JMG
I might add a 4th item to this list: How well you treat your friends, family, and other acquaintances. It can come off as manipulative or fake if you do the right things with your romantic partner and the opposite with the other people in your life.
LOVE knit ties and yours is no exception, and there's nothing like a really good blazer, Augustina looks smart as always. A bit surprised by the crucifix, but she's exceptionally liberal for a Christian, which is awesome. I feel some of the things you talk about like being kind even when you're emotional and being there for important moments in her life or remembering what she likes and buying her those things are a bit basic, but I guess we all need reminders like this. It's the internet so you never know what someone needs to hear. I will say though, one reason I subscribed to this channel is because a lot of information is more specific and advanced than a lot of the info that gets parroted all over the internet, you know? You're 25!? Bro, I'm 28, I never felt like I was older than you, you're so accomplished and all. Speaking of being accomplished, I've been meaning to say ever since it was mentioned in a video that Augustina being a midwife is absolutely amazing and badass. Well, lovely video, always good to hear from you both, cheers.
Thank you Jeremiah! Augustina does look fantastic as always, although she is not a Christian, she just likes the look of the necklace. Thank you for saying that about her being a midwife, I am so proud of her for that
Yes, the information in this video is a little more base level than some of my other videos, but I was so sick of seeing all this ‘high value’ man nonsense that I felt like it was important to get these points across at a fundamental level. I’m sure you have many achievements under your belt that I do not and I hope this channel can be a part of your journey as we continue to grow together as young men! 🙏
@@Gent.Z Hrrrrm.... my comment keeps vanishing! That's twice now. I guess you don't allow links or namedrops to outside things here? That's cool, I wish you'd tell me instead of just deleting the comment, my dude. In any case, like I said in the comments before, growing together as young men sounds good to me! And thank you for the compliment! Till next time!
Or maybe it's Andrew Bait's name that's not allowed? If so, I am entirely in favor of that rule, lol.
I'm afraid I only ever saw the one comment from you on this video, so TH-cam may be blocking the other comments before I get to see them, which is annoying!@@jeremiahbok9028
I acknowledge the existence of your ideas and your opinions.
Great content! What a great looking couple
Thank you, Ricardo!
Hopefully their relationship works out for them but after a 25 year marriage, I’ve learned that relationships should not be work. You can never make somebody be anything that they are not. If you have to work at it, you are with the wrong person. I will never work at a relationship again. If it happens it happens.
You’re right on that, now should people put forth effort and work toward it being even better? Absolutely, but I realized myself even at 21 being with 1 girl for years breaking up over and over, not every relationship works. Forced relationships where you can’t truly enjoy it because of forcing it to work is hardly a real relationship at all
Sad.
I like how girl matched the jacket with shirt.
It goes both ways ,women should take your advice also ! ❤ your videos best wishes
what a special couple
Absolutely behind love letters- I gifted my ex a book with a little letter on the preface so it’ll stay with her forever… shame about my handwriting though 😅
Haha, my handwriting is also slightly illegible but I guess we can say that’s part of the charm ;)
This is going to make me sound so cheap LOL, my Mum before retiring worked 15 years for a company that made wedding dresses, when I was still in my 20's (& skint as hell) I would thrift cheap but in near new condition items, some well known brands like some of my best buys were (And I still have and wear these items today) a Gieves & Hawkes Navy Sports Coat, with surgeon cuffs for £15, Shirts, ties, pocket squares by Thomas Pink (Shirt £7, Tie & PS combo £3), Side adjusted Beige slacks by Cordings £10 (in their London shop they go for £150) and get the old dear to adjust pretty much everything to fit like the trouser length, leg hem, shoulder width and arm length on the blazer to look like they were tailored to fit, coupled with a hand-me-down Longines Flagship watch from my Granddad, bagging a pair of new Loake brown grain lather goodyear welted brogues at a wopping 75% off (£40), my sister worked for a very high end hair stylist in central London once every 2 weeks or so would sort out my hair, keep me topped up with some of the latest aftershaves (because they throw out aftershaves, some costing well over £100 every 6 months, so the stylists just take them with the blessing of the bosses) and the cherry on top, my uncle letting me borrow (later gave due to long term eye problems disqualifying him from driving) his at the time 4 yo Jaguar X-Type in silver (always makes a car look classically expensive imho). When I parked up for a meal or event with friends, they would ask if I had won the lottery. I didn't have the heart to tell them it all cost under £100, including the full tank of petrol.
Please on social skills and how to make friends with other gentlemanly men and the best places to meet them to build a high value social circle.
H uploaded a video about "how to go into a bar alone" or something like that. Where he is talking about conversation starters and how to meet certain types of ppl.
Just check it out.
CHeers
@@BruceCarbonLakeriver Indeed I will chup.
Seems it's all about tending to a needy woman. Run dude..........run.
Everytime i see her, I just think about how she gets passed around on dance floor for a hobby while in a relationship.
Trait 1 - emotional value.
It ended before it even began. LMAO
Are you american or british?
I'm a dual-citizen. I was born in the US, raised in England, and now live in the US again.
A relationship should be a place of refuge for a man, not more work, yet another "job" to be done. A woman should be getting her emotional suppports from the village, her family and the other women around her, not loading up her man with more problems. "What's working, what's not working..." Jeez, relationships should be fun! No wonder modern relationships so often fail!
It goes both ways, that's equality, women work, men work, men needs refuge, women needs refuge, taking equal responsibility over the relationship so it thrives instead of dies is what makes both partners happy and pleased
@@YourManJesusChristanything with two heads is a monster.
'Your are the peace in my War'
Paris to Helen of Troy
Clearly she is in control in your relationship
she is so beautiful jesus christ
High value men learn to not be phased by her “ beauty .” “ Beautiful “ women are everywhere. Get yourself right and they will fall at your feet! Think Pinky Blinders
@@jimmyjay6497 yea bro, high value men can also acknowledge when a they see a beautiful women on a youtube video lmao stop being so cringy, that aint getting you any women at your feet