♥️ So, SO grateful for this timing. Thank you, Pastor Blakes. 🙏🏼 In the thick of it *right now,* the walk is so tough but I can’t ignore any more divine warnings.
I listened to you for almost 2 years after a man broke me , I did not date :) then after those healing I met someone but I had my wisdom from your videos in my pocket, it wasn't even a month in and I walked away from a man who's could not lead or move it forward, I felt so empowered. My time with men are limited I always give a man a chance when he ask for my number I think its brave but what happens after that is my decision until a man has earned my mind and soul. All thanks to you. I also went back to church and fix my relationship with my mom❤
Absolutely and this is what I have learned through this whole process! You see, most people are avoiding relationships because of their past experiences, they want to avoid being hurt and yes it is painful but I now know that each relationship was trying to teach me something. It wasn’t until recently that I discovered I have issues with childhood trauma! This is why I have consistently connected with Men that are emotionally unavailable! I understand now that I have to work on myself! I was born to teenage parents, right there you and both know there was resentment towards me. I have to pray and go through a healing process that consists of getting therapy, loving myself and understanding my value so that I will not allow anyone to use me for their own selfish needs again. Thank you Pastor ❤
Many years ago I walked away from someone I was intimate with an noticed he was not consistent in seeing me. It didn't take me long to realize he wasn't for me. I chose to walk away to save my heart and myself. I created a Soul Tie and learned how to deal with that from your Soul Tie lesson. Thank you Bishop for your Anointed teachings.❤
Currently in the situation I choose to walk away it ain't easy but I'm worth more we must forget how we feel and remember our worth. I have to get rid of the soul tie now
A year ago I walked away from a 26 year very toxic marriage! I have been listening to Bishop Blake's for over a year and man has this ministry made a huge difference in my life!
25 years here. I should’ve left yesrrrssss ago. Still haven’t actually left but I’m so tired of the merry go round! Tired of the disrespect, him not hearing/seeing me. I’m definitely scared but I really need to get out of this vicious cycle!! 😢
I’ve had men approach me or show interest and I’m learning how to sit back and let them initiate things. I don’t text first, if we’re texting and they stop leading the conversation, I don’t text back. I remain detached in my own little world. I wait for them to make the plans. This is working for me because it shows me not only their true level of interest, but their true intentions. Ladies if a man really wants you…he will pursue you and make it known. Don’t settle for anything less just because he’s paying you a little attention. No. Hold back and wait for him to go all in first. Also…keep listening to this man here!! He KNOWS what he’s talking about!
I have been single for 7+ years and haven’t even been interested in men in a few years. I’ve opted to improve me and my own consciousness. During the past year I started listening to these videos mainly to validate everything I’ve been doing on my own. I’m not going to stop because it shows me I’ve come a long wayyyyyyyy!!!! Even though I’ve healed I have 100% accepted that I may be single for life. Improving myself doesn’t mean I’m ready to meet a man. I appreciate this community of sisters to support each other whether or not we are in situationships!
I needed to hear this. My boyfriend told me he is leaving after we just moved into this place a month ago together. Not knowing how I’m going to handle this I came across this. I know my worth and I’m letting him walk and I’m holding my head high and doing all that I need to do to stay good in GODS GRACE and nobody else’s 🙏🏾
I'm in a very similar situation. Just moved in and signed a lease with my boyfriend. He just broke me and now I need to figure everything out. Im praying for us and other women in similar situations.
Ladies please move in with a man once your married and the Two of you can responsibly agree how to manage and navigate your household. Lesson learned and best wishes to you. God is able❤
Did he say why he is leaving? He may have a point. I’m sure god wouldn’t mind the extra company but there may be an opportunity for you to learn something about yourself that will make you more compatible… with another man… like he intended…
Ladies let’s keep the promise, we are going to walk, and stay away. Something brought us to this video, something horrible, we will not be volunteers to let them break our hearts again
Thank you Pastor. You've gotten me through my divorce some years ago and now I find myself in another situation currently. Your message is right on time and needed. My dad passed away 2 years ago on Father's Day morning. I need him SO bad in this rough time. And here you are, talking to me like my father. Thank you for being obedient to the Lord. Many blessings to you & your family 🙏🏽❤️
My God at age 56 I just woke up and realizing my value and worth been in a toxic relationship for two years and I got the courage to walk away and I’m never going to let anyone devalue me again!!
This is actually two days after listening to six signs that a man don't love you and yesterday I walked away from a toxic three-year situationship after listening to that thank you so much Bishop
All truths. I needed this tonight, I’m struggling with walking away although I KNOW I had to, God showed me what I needed to see and Holy Spirit kept me stirred up until I broke and was forced to act. In no way did God ordain that relationship. Your videos have helped save me in more ways than one. Thank you for loving me and speaking the hard truths.
Guilty as charged😩I have walked away and will stay away. Learned my lesson the hard way. Will never make this mistake again. Much love and gratitude from Toronto!❤🙏
My God! I am watching this with tears in my eyes. Words cannot express how tonight’s message spoke to me. You spoke to the little girl in me who was raised without a father and never had a father-daughter conversation. I stayed in a 28-year toxic marriage because I did not know my worth nor prioritize my feelings. I then turned around and repeated the cycle in a 2.5-year relationship with a man that was nowhere close to my level emotionally, mentally, intellectually or spiritually. I should have never entertained this man let alone committed to him. I receive this word and I promise I will walk away and never look back. Now that I know better, I must do better. THANK YOU FOR BLESSING ME.😢
@tmac323 you spoke my very experience with your words here. My heart is holding space and prayers for our healing right now. God has a greater plan for you and I lift you up in prayer for our heavenly Father to make you feel his love and blessings as you heal and grow in wisdom 🙏
I am a silent watcher. I had to comment today because you spoke directly to me. Word! Thank you so much. Your sermons helped me. I truly appreciate you.
OMG I just realized my value after 18 years of marriage. Finally got the courage from the Lord to leave and I haven't been happier getting to learn me all over again ❤. Thank you Pastor Blakes.
I walked away from from a 6 years relationship that was toxic. He never appreciated me or loved me. Every year in our relationship he dated a different woman that he would move in with them when things didnt go right he would come back snd apologise. We share a 4 year old son that is autistic. I am on my own happy ,stronger than before
I thought I was in love! But I had lot of trauma in my life and he weaseled his way into my life! He love bombed me with everything that I needed to hear! I have now woke up! To God be the glory! Thank you for this message!❤❤
Well, some men really do not know or are aware of a great woman. For their own upbringing and even at our age, I'm 64 and they truly have lots to learn. Sadly, but I'm better off walking alone, but with God, He is the ONE that has held me in all my times.❤
Yes, you absolutely did the right thing by not allowing this person to waste anymore of your precious time. I had to do the same thing after a year, so you are not alone. God will bless you with the right mate; now you got that person out of the way, so God can send you his best in a mate. May God continue to bless you.🙏
Same here. I gave it 13 mos but saw the red flags earlier than that. I know my worth and boldly moving forward in my life. We are precious. Don’t ever forget thet
Thank you this is confirming that I’m making the right move to walk away from 16 years in a marriage that was not producing fruit, verbally and emotionally abusive. It wasn’t until I started going to therapy I realized that I was functioning in dysfunction.
I going through a similar situation. I’m walking away from a 12year marriage that wasn’t producing no fruit and was abusive on all levels. This was definitely confirmation that I need to keep looking forward and don’t look back and trust that God got me.
I am 39 years, walking away, in a place where everyone tells me i am old. I am Christian, i value family and i believe in family. I feel vulnerable and i had to walk away from all i knew so that i may heal, love me and value me with God's grace.
You are NOT old. You are wiser. And you are a rare gem. If you have a desire for marriage, it’s from God and He will fulfill it. Just keep trusting Him for your husband. It’ll be worth the wait 💕
Hi, I am Catholic and I love your ministry. Thank you with all my heart. God bless your family, your mind, and your intentions. We are living in a broken society and healing and tuition make a difference. ❣
Thank you so much for this, I needed to hear this today as this morning I made the decision to walk away from my 2 year marriage which has been abusive. I’m so appreciative that you take the time to do these videos ❤️🙏🏻 it’s been 2 years of gaining experience and now it’s time to love me and respect myself again.
I got so used to undermining my feelings and talking myself out of it all the time. Now when I look back at some of the things I tolerated throughout the time I was in the relationship😔. Never again. Learnt I should learn to accept the truth early. Thank you Bishop for the fatherly voice you have for a lot of us🚶🏾♀️
Absolute fire 🔥 ‼️ For me it's spot on... Insecurity & not knowing my self-worth is sooo dangerous! Anger sometimes is sooo healthy because anger moves you to action!!! Thank you ❤ 🙏🏻 ‼️
You Hit The Nail On The Head RC Blakes. You defined my marriage for me. I walked away and ended my marriage. I put those memories in my rear view mirror and tucked them away.
@thelovelylife7451Amen. I simply ghosted my ex, severed all lines of communication. Thank God I had no children with him. It was terribly hard at 1st, but submitting myself to the Lord helped me. I now know if God doesn't send him, I don't want him.💕🙏🏼
That is what I am struggling w right now. I have tried leaving so many times and this man never even tried looking for me but somehow I was able to contact him again, bc I didn’t like the thought of him moving onto someone else, and also bc he never he fought for me to stay w him it never affected him that I was gone for 3 months. It broke my heart, and I was so desperate for answers, questioning if he was seeing someone else. Still bothers me and I am w him again, knowing once I leave he won’t even care. It really messes w my self esteem 😢😢😢😢
As a side note, you can also do all the work in the world, be celebate for years, know your worth, and you will STILL be tested. And you won't necessarily be tested with a man who's even toxic or a bad guy. There could be nothing on the surface that tells you this isn't right. However, your inner voice and intuition won't lie to you and if that man is still not in alignment with you, no matter how much you like him, you still have to stand in your truth and walk away. Some things aren't so obvious, but we know inside this isn't the man God brought. Or it's not the right time with him and you both need to grow more.
Very powerful...thank u for taking time to speak to us about having the strength to walk away ..U r truly speaking through the Lord's words..Yes I did put myself there and I wished I hadn't...I allowed my loneliness to take over and there the seed was planted😢I honestly need every one of my Queens prayer..God bless u all🫥🙏🙏
This message struck my heart tonight R.C. Your word, spared me literally from making a toxic decision with a man who I know doesn't Love me nor value my true worth, if he is willing to cheat on his girlfriend of 10yrs to entertain me and other things I won't mention on TH-cam. That speaks volumes. But I love myself enough to walk away from this man unsaved. Thank you so much! You are in fact doing God's will with your weekly sermons, and other platforms. Continue your good works and God Bless you and your wife.🙏🏽💖
I started listening 2.5 yrs ago but went back to the Situationship. Went back n’ forth many times and strengthened the toxic bond. Everything you say resonates. Humbling myself to ask for intercession to break the trauma bond with this person who I desperately need to disconnect with. Problem is he did so many nice things and considered a loyal friend but not a good bf! Jesus help me “want” to cut the cord. 7.5 yrs. already and I’m not young.
It was over before it started. Another entanglement, but more educated. I am now practicing self love and self care. I accept the truth. Thank you Bishop. Right on time message for me
So much confirmation for me from the beautiful melody of Dave Hollister down to the Scripture teaching of RC Blakes!! Listened to this 3 times in a row!!!!
I needed to hear this, as a reminder to hold my value before our Lord Jesus Christ, and keep my promise to myself...I am a queen and have great value. Thank you Pastor! Blessings always 🙏😇
God bless you Bishop Blake's you are so right and on point. All praises to God because I have learned to walk away immediately. I learned to watch the red flags. Then being in a intimate relationship with God I know how God sees me and what he thinks of me. So if God loves me then I in turn loves myself because I am fearfully and wonderfully made. So why would I let a man or anyone for that matter disrespect me plus the holy spirit will not let your heart be not settled you want be at peace. You feel its not right in your spirit. Thank you father God for knowing who I am in you and the love for me because you paid the ultimate price. Thank you God and thank you for blessing Bishop Blake's to bring us the word that you have for us.❤
Bishop came to SLAAYYYY the word ✝️and quicken us to awaken! 🔥🔥Thanks for this fiery word Bishop. "Trix are for kids" and we don't need a sugary-coated word when it comes to loving, keeping our word and honoring ourselves. Thanks speaking the word in the way that it was needed to be delivered.👏🏾💪🏾✅
Yes indeed. Bishop, you are always dropping bombs!! I wasted most of my life away on someone who did not and could not love me. Can't get those years back. It almost claimed my life. Finally, I got out. I finally chose me! It's the best decision I've ever made, second only to choosing Jesus!!
My situationship was exactly as you described. Extremely sexual from the start and then I realized there was no trust or communication or future discussion it was just SEX. This went on for years! My self worth was and still is at the lowest of the low. But I WALKED away and Im slowly getting better. I still find myself missing this person terribly but then I wake up to the reality of what it really was. It really messed with my mind. I dont know if theres time for me. I feel I may be better off alone.
ME TO ! GOD IS WITH US WE WILL GET THROUGH THIS TRUST! FAITH! THE BLOOD OF JESUS CHRIST! BLESSINGS TO ALL! THANK YOU GOD ! GOD PLEASE CONTINUE TO BLESSED BISHOP RC BLAKES! ALL MY FAMILY ON THE COMMENTS! GOD BLESSED 💋💞🌷🌹💪🙏
This was life changing and exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you! I hope God continues to use you to bless others. This is undeniably one of your purposes and gifts from God. Blessings to you and your family! ❤
Trying to walk away from someone and I know they are not worth my time!I needed to hear this.its crazy how we get over selves involved with the wrong people the bond is deep I can't even explain although I haven't been intimate with them🥺 working on it
Pastor Blakes if this didn’t push me upside my forehead!!! You tell it raw and unapologetically with all love ❤️ and I THANK YOU FOR THAT!!! I needed this and I’m going to watch again and take more notes. Thank you 🙏🏾 for all that you do and how you pour into us. Praying for God to bless and cover you and your wife Ms. Lisa and your family. 🤎🫶🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾
Bishop you are truly speaking wonderfully tonight. I could only apply this message to my relationships with my malignant narcissistic mother & brother. They have been nothing but detrimental to me.
PLEASE SHARE THIS TONIGHT
♥️ So, SO grateful for this timing. Thank you, Pastor Blakes. 🙏🏼 In the thick of it *right now,* the walk is so tough but I can’t ignore any more divine warnings.
@@PetitHibou72 yes sammme🙏🏿🫶🏿🫂💕
I can't wait to get into this message tonight Pastor Blakes, this is the exact message I needed to hear! By the way u clean in that Polo jacket! 😎
Pastor who sings that intro song?
Thank you for this wonderful deliverance I truly needed to hear but actions speak louder heard ❤ . Love you both ..
I listened to you for almost 2 years after a man broke me , I did not date :) then after those healing I met someone but I had my wisdom from your videos in my pocket, it wasn't even a month in and I walked away from a man who's could not lead or move it forward, I felt so empowered. My time with men are limited I always give a man a chance when he ask for my number I think its brave but what happens after that is my decision until a man has earned my mind and soul. All thanks to you. I also went back to church and fix my relationship with my mom❤
Awesome Queen!
That’s beautiful what a testimony 🎉❤
Amen
Amen hallelujah Jesus
Amen!!! Queen Mentality!!!
“Putting yourself first is not selfish it’s mandatory “ ABSOLUTELY 💯
💯 Queen 👸 🥰👌
Empaths need reminding of this daily.
This is not advice for narcissists.
Sometimes we had trauma in childhood that led us to be vulnerable to toxic relationships.
Exactly
Agreed
Absolutely and this is what I have learned through this whole process! You see, most people are avoiding relationships because of their past experiences, they want to avoid being hurt and yes it is painful but I now know that each relationship was trying to teach me something. It wasn’t until recently that I discovered I have issues with childhood trauma! This is why I have consistently connected with Men that are emotionally unavailable! I understand now that I have to work on myself! I was born to teenage parents, right there you and both know there was resentment towards me. I have to pray and go through a healing process that consists of getting therapy, loving myself and understanding my value so that I will not allow anyone to use me for their own selfish needs again. Thank you Pastor ❤
@@cassandrareed3257 Well said. I applaud your methods of healing. Nothing better than prayer and therapy!
Parents are your first trauma bond
Many years ago I walked away from someone I was intimate with an noticed he was not consistent in seeing me. It didn't take me long to realize he wasn't for me. I chose to walk away to save my heart and myself. I created a Soul Tie and learned how to deal with that from your Soul Tie lesson. Thank you Bishop for your Anointed teachings.❤
I know this too well.
Probably
Currently in the situation I choose to walk away it ain't easy but I'm worth more we must forget how we feel and remember our worth. I have to get rid of the soul tie now
Currently in this situation 😢
This was powerful!!!
W-wake up to your own worth!
A-accept the truth!
L-love yourself more!
K-keep your promise to yourself! Whew!!! Thank YOU!!! 🥳🙌🏽🩵
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"Keep your promise to yourself" That's it!
Amen!!❤
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Yer. Suffering with soul tie. I keep on thinking about someone who doesn't even mind about me. May God deliver me.
Amen.
Me too
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A year ago I walked away from a 26 year very toxic marriage! I have been listening to Bishop Blake's for over a year and man has this ministry made a huge difference in my life!
Where did you go? How did you get away?
How did you do it?
36 here. It hurts, memories of family, children. Wasted decades waisted.
28 here and it hurts but when you heal you understand so clearly why you HAD to walk away in order to save your life.
25 years here. I should’ve left yesrrrssss ago. Still haven’t actually left but I’m so tired of the merry go round! Tired of the disrespect, him not hearing/seeing me. I’m definitely scared but I really need to get out of this vicious cycle!! 😢
I have been married 9 years and have been experiencing verbal abuse. I have to love myself and accept the truth that this marriage is not healthy.
I’ve had men approach me or show interest and I’m learning how to sit back and let them initiate things. I don’t text first, if we’re texting and they stop leading the conversation, I don’t text back. I remain detached in my own little world. I wait for them to make the plans. This is working for me because it shows me not only their true level of interest, but their true intentions. Ladies if a man really wants you…he will pursue you and make it known. Don’t settle for anything less just because he’s paying you a little attention. No. Hold back and wait for him to go all in first. Also…keep listening to this man here!! He KNOWS what he’s talking about!
Agree! Attention is not intention. I’ve learned that from pastor Blakes
I'm 26 and just glad I landed on the right side of the internet
I'm an expert in walking away from toxic relationships. It's true ! If it isn't right, why stay ?
Honestly I applaud you for that coz it's really really hard!
I have been single for 7+ years and haven’t even been interested in men in a few years. I’ve opted to improve me and my own consciousness. During the past year I started listening to these videos mainly to validate everything I’ve been doing on my own. I’m not going to stop because it shows me I’ve come a long wayyyyyyyy!!!! Even though I’ve healed I have 100% accepted that I may be single for life. Improving myself doesn’t mean I’m ready to meet a man. I appreciate this community of sisters to support each other whether or not we are in situationships!
Great testimony. This is where I am
Great testimony. And you can still not be single for life. It's also nice to stay cautiously open
I'm walking away tomorrow. Moving from San Diego to Tampa to start over🎉
Praying all is well with you ❤
How is it going?
@tanagrant everything is alright i hope!
Hey, how are you feeling now since you've walked away and moved on?
May God be with you 🙏🏾 ✨️
"A soul thats never disturbed will never move " ❤
@onevenus wdym?
I needed to hear this. My boyfriend told me he is leaving after we just moved into this place a month ago together. Not knowing how I’m going to handle this I came across this. I know my worth and I’m letting him walk and I’m holding my head high and doing all that I need to do to stay good in GODS GRACE and nobody else’s 🙏🏾
I'm in a very similar situation. Just moved in and signed a lease with my boyfriend. He just broke me and now I need to figure everything out. Im praying for us and other women in similar situations.
Keeping the promise to yourself is a superpower.
Blessings 🌸
Ladies please move in with a man once your married and the Two of you can responsibly agree how to manage and navigate your household. Lesson learned and best wishes to you. God is able❤
Guaranteed God will use this time to draw you closer to Him. Been there. It’s a blessing in disguise 💜
Did he say why he is leaving? He may have a point. I’m sure god wouldn’t mind the extra company but there may be an opportunity for you to learn something about yourself that will make you more compatible… with another man… like he intended…
This video inspired me to love myself and stop using sex to feel love from someone else
People are going to play with you when you don't know your worth 🙌🙌🙌🙌❤❤..So so Profound ...Thank you Sir
I promise myself! I love myself! I will never look back to that toxic waste! Thank you, Pastor R.C. Blakes!❤❤❤
Ladies let’s keep the promise, we are going to walk, and stay away. Something brought us to this video, something horrible, we will not be volunteers to let them break our hearts again
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Amen so be it EL ROI the God that sees us has restored us Amen 😊❤
I love this, let's do it! I left my relationship yesterday
Im pacing now...don't know how I'm a make it,but I can not take one more day of narcissistic abuse
I'm trusting God to pull me thru
Thank you Pastor. You've gotten me through my divorce some years ago and now I find myself in another situation currently. Your message is right on time and needed. My dad passed away 2 years ago on Father's Day morning. I need him SO bad in this rough time. And here you are, talking to me like my father. Thank you for being obedient to the Lord. Many blessings to you & your family 🙏🏽❤️
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My God at age 56 I just woke up and realizing my value and worth been in a toxic relationship for two years and I got the courage to walk away and I’m never going to let anyone devalue me again!!
I said the exact thing and now I’m afraid to get involved with anyone else.
How did you manage to walk away.
I really battle
Who else cried, released and walked through that door of breakthrough?
Me!!❤❤😊😊
Me I needed this soooo much!
Me ❤
Me Too! Thank You All My Sisrers & Brothers! May God Continue To Blessed Us All! Thank You God! 💋💞🌷🌹💪🙏🥰
Me sis ❤
Wake up to your worth.
Accept the truth.
Love yourself more.
Keep your promises to yourself.
This is actually two days after listening to six signs that a man don't love you and yesterday I walked away from a toxic three-year situationship after listening to that thank you so much Bishop
@chablaysexpress who is the video from, and did you stay away?
All truths. I needed this tonight, I’m struggling with walking away although I KNOW I had to, God showed me what I needed to see and Holy Spirit kept me stirred up until I broke and was forced to act. In no way did God ordain that relationship. Your videos have helped save me in more ways than one. Thank you for loving me and speaking the hard truths.
my whole story sis…. my spirit was gettn angry like nah we don’t do this this not it!!!
Me Too! AMEN! THANKS SO MUCH FOR EVERYTHING!💋💞🌷🌹💪🙏
"Truth disturbs the soul because a soul that never disturb was never move." Omg!!
Guilty as charged😩I have walked away and will stay away. Learned my lesson the hard way. Will never make this mistake again. Much love and gratitude from Toronto!❤🙏
I have walked away 2 years ago and it was the best decision.
God is Good
@@romanceoba5524 amen
All The Time All Yhe Time God Is Good! Blessings!💋💞🌷🌹💪🙏🥰
My God! I am watching this with tears in my eyes. Words cannot express how tonight’s message spoke to me. You spoke to the little girl in me who was raised without a father and never had a father-daughter conversation. I stayed in a 28-year toxic marriage because I did not know my worth nor prioritize my feelings. I then turned around and repeated the cycle in a 2.5-year relationship with a man that was nowhere close to my level emotionally, mentally, intellectually or spiritually. I should have never entertained this man let alone committed to him. I receive this word and I promise I will walk away and never look back. Now that I know better, I must do better. THANK YOU FOR BLESSING ME.😢
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Yeeees👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾God's got you. Every step of the way-He will give you strength
@tmac323 you spoke my very experience with your words here. My heart is holding space and prayers for our healing right now. God has a greater plan for you and I lift you up in prayer for our heavenly Father to make you feel his love and blessings as you heal and grow in wisdom 🙏
@@sarahbethjones7829 Thank you for your words of encouragement. Be blessed, I will pray God’s healing power of your life as well.
I am a silent watcher. I had to comment today because you spoke directly to me. Word! Thank you so much. Your sermons helped me. I truly appreciate you.
Same Here babe God Blessed Us All!💋💞💔🌷🌹💪🙏
OMG I just realized my value after 18 years of marriage. Finally got the courage from the Lord to leave and I haven't been happier getting to learn me all over again ❤. Thank you Pastor Blakes.
Glory to God!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I walked away from from a 6 years relationship that was toxic. He never appreciated me or loved me. Every year in our relationship he dated a different woman that he would move in with them when things didnt go right he would come back snd apologise. We share a 4 year old son that is autistic. I am on my own happy ,stronger than before
I thought I was in love! But I had lot of trauma in my life and he weaseled his way into my life! He love bombed me with everything that I needed to hear! I have now woke up! To God be the glory! Thank you for this message!❤❤
Ditto
Just walked away from a 5 month relationship and this is great timing. Thank you Pastor.
Good for you girly , now put all that energy back on you :)
I play these back always just to remember where I came from...
This really touched my soul “ I got to be my own hero and save myself “
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Well, some men really do not know or are aware of a great woman. For their own upbringing and even at our age, I'm 64 and they truly have lots to learn. Sadly, but I'm better off walking alone, but with God, He is the ONE that has held me in all my times.❤
Amen!!!!!!!
Once GOD SAYS SOMETHING LISTENNNNNN!!!!!!
I’m sitting here playing this over and over again. Literally. That’s how much this is feeding my soul.
Same thing with me. 💪🏾
YES LORD! AMEN!💋💞🌷🌹💪🙏
I walked away from someone I love who wouldn’t commit after a year . It’s hurt but I’m know I did the right thing. ❤
Good for you. A man who wants you will take you off the market by marrying you. There are too many passive boys nowadays.
Yes, you absolutely did the right thing by not allowing this person to waste anymore of your precious time. I had to do the same thing after a year, so you are not alone. God will bless you with the right mate; now you got that person out of the way, so God can send you his best in a mate. May God continue to bless you.🙏
@@monicaphelps6127amen 🙏
Great job! No need to waste time looking your best for him to go marry someone else within 5 months. Look good for yourself and your own health.
Same here. I gave it 13 mos but saw the red flags earlier than that. I know my worth and boldly moving forward in my life. We are precious. Don’t ever forget thet
My Tears are falling as I listen to your caring, sage and divine words of Wisdom, Bishop Blakes. ❤💯✨🙏🏽😢
Lord I needed this SO much!🙌🏾 Pastor Blakes, thank you SO much for letting the Lord use you! You're such a blessing to us & the Kingdom! 🙏🏽❤️
I was crying listening to this message; GOD has given me the strength to walk away. Thank you JESUS/ R.C BLAKES
ACRONYM FOR “WALK”
W - Wake up to your own worth
A - Accept the naked truth
L - Love yourself more
K - Keep your promises to yourself
Not only walk, but keep walking! We must love ourselves enough or more than that thing. It was just a thing not the real thing!
It’s so much easier when the person that you were in a relationship, no longer wants you.
Thank you this is confirming that I’m making the right move to walk away from 16 years in a marriage that was not producing fruit, verbally and emotionally abusive. It wasn’t until I started going to therapy I realized that I was functioning in dysfunction.
I going through a similar situation. I’m walking away from a 12year marriage that wasn’t producing no fruit and was abusive on all levels. This was definitely confirmation that I need to keep looking forward and don’t look back and trust that God got me.
Sounds like my situation right now. It killing me to walk away
I am 39 years, walking away, in a place where everyone tells me i am old. I am Christian, i value family and i believe in family. I feel vulnerable and i had to walk away from all i knew so that i may heal, love me and value me with God's grace.
You are NOT old. You are wiser. And you are a rare gem. If you have a desire for marriage, it’s from God and He will fulfill it. Just keep trusting Him for your husband. It’ll be worth the wait 💕
@@thetrdrlgdo you call her a rare gem cause she wants marriage?
Don't hurry Pastor. If you make time to teach. I will make time to listen and learn.
You have to get up from the table when love is no longer being served. I really needed to hear this even though I already know my time is up.
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Walk away can be every situation & relationship in life. Sometimes it's DNA & sometimes it's a job. This is a beautiful video. Thank u Bishop Blake.
I have been married for 16yrs,4 kids later,I am making plans to walk away.
Thank You so much I made the decision to WALK away after fearing the person for many years and knowing my WORTH!! Amen!
I just love all your messages. You are appreciated by so many Bishop. I look forward to hearing you.
I will second your emotion.
I Third That Emotion! Thank You All So Much! Am Going through All This Now! 35 Years Married!💔💔💔💔💔💪🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
This is so true.I was a victim but thank God I am out.He gave me the strength to move out and move on
Hi, I am Catholic and I love your ministry. Thank you with all my heart. God bless your family, your mind, and your intentions. We are living in a broken society and healing and tuition make a difference. ❣
Me too
Got heart broken yesterday and am healing through Bishop
Keep your PromiseTo You Amen Amen and Amen 🙏🏽 🙌🏾
Thank you so much for this, I needed to hear this today as this morning I made the decision to walk away from my 2 year marriage which has been abusive. I’m so appreciative that you take the time to do these videos ❤️🙏🏻 it’s been 2 years of gaining experience and now it’s time to love me and respect myself again.
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I got so used to undermining my feelings and talking myself out of it all the time. Now when I look back at some of the things I tolerated throughout the time I was in the relationship😔. Never again. Learnt I should learn to accept the truth early. Thank you Bishop for the fatherly voice you have for a lot of us🚶🏾♀️
@nomsa cause they indoctrinate you by telling you that you are too sense or too jealous, too demanding!
I just had to say ouch on this one. You stepped on all 10 of my toes. I walked away. I woke up to my worth. I thank you for this message. 🙌🏽
Absolute fire 🔥 ‼️ For me it's spot on... Insecurity & not knowing my self-worth is sooo dangerous! Anger sometimes is sooo healthy because anger moves you to action!!! Thank you ❤ 🙏🏻 ‼️
You Hit The Nail On The Head RC Blakes. You defined my marriage for me. I walked away and ended my marriage. I put those memories in my rear view mirror and tucked them away.
This came just at the right time❤
Forgive me Lord 🙏🏾💔😪
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15:33 After we talk about walking away, can we discuss how to STAY AWAY??
Amen..
Maybe we can discuss what we've done to stay away.
I moved across the country. Then I stopped sleeping with men. Celibacy helps a LOT!!!
@thelovelylife7451Amen. I simply ghosted my ex, severed all lines of communication. Thank God I had no children with him. It was terribly hard at 1st, but submitting myself to the Lord helped me. I now know if God doesn't send him, I don't want him.💕🙏🏼
That is what I am struggling w right now. I have tried leaving so many times and this man never even tried looking for me but somehow I was able to contact him again, bc I didn’t like the thought of him moving onto someone else, and also bc he never he fought for me to stay w him it never affected him that I was gone for 3 months. It broke my heart, and I was so desperate for answers, questioning if he was seeing someone else. Still bothers me and I am w him again, knowing once I leave he won’t even care. It really messes w my self esteem 😢😢😢😢
@@broco6608yyyayyyy!
As a side note, you can also do all the work in the world, be celebate for years, know your worth, and you will STILL be tested. And you won't necessarily be tested with a man who's even toxic or a bad guy. There could be nothing on the surface that tells you this isn't right. However, your inner voice and intuition won't lie to you and if that man is still not in alignment with you, no matter how much you like him, you still have to stand in your truth and walk away. Some things aren't so obvious, but we know inside this isn't the man God brought. Or it's not the right time with him and you both need to grow more.
Very powerful...thank u for taking time to speak to us about having the strength to walk away ..U r truly speaking through the Lord's words..Yes I did put myself there and I wished I hadn't...I allowed my loneliness to take over and there the seed was planted😢I honestly need every one of my Queens prayer..God bless u all🫥🙏🙏
Happy Anniversary to you and Lisa. May you be blessed with many more years. Thank you for all you do to help us heal. ❤❤
This message struck my heart tonight R.C. Your word, spared me literally from making a toxic decision with a man who I know doesn't Love me nor value my true worth, if he is willing to cheat on his girlfriend of 10yrs to entertain me and other things I won't mention on TH-cam. That speaks volumes. But I love myself enough to walk away from this man unsaved. Thank you so much! You are in fact doing God's will with your weekly sermons, and other platforms. Continue your good works and God Bless you and your wife.🙏🏽💖
❤😢 reality is walking away is know as an empowering thing to someone who has felt a certain way for a long time
I started listening 2.5 yrs ago but went back to the Situationship. Went back n’ forth many times and strengthened the toxic bond. Everything you say resonates. Humbling myself to ask for intercession to break the trauma bond with this person who I desperately need to disconnect with. Problem is he did so many nice things and considered a loyal friend but not a good bf! Jesus help me “want” to cut the cord.
7.5 yrs. already and I’m not young.
@cookiesmom584 I’m In the same boat, soulties ain’t a joke
It was over before it started.
Another entanglement, but more educated. I am now practicing self love and self care.
I accept the truth. Thank you Bishop.
Right on time message for me
So much confirmation for me from the beautiful melody of Dave Hollister down to the Scripture teaching of RC Blakes!! Listened to this 3 times in a row!!!!
I needed to hear this, as a reminder to hold my value before our Lord Jesus Christ, and keep my promise to myself...I am a queen and have great value. Thank you Pastor! Blessings always 🙏😇
This!!!! Right here!!! Yes!!! ❤❤🙏🏾🙌🏾
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God bless you Bishop Blake's you are so right and on point. All praises to God because I have learned to walk away immediately. I learned to watch the red flags. Then being in a intimate relationship with God I know how God sees me and what he thinks of me. So if God loves me then I in turn loves myself because I am fearfully and wonderfully made. So why would I let a man or anyone for that matter disrespect me plus the holy spirit will not let your heart be not settled you want be at peace. You feel its not right in your spirit. Thank you father God for knowing who I am in you and the love for me because you paid the ultimate price. Thank you God and thank you for blessing Bishop Blake's to bring us the word that you have for us.❤
Thank you so much for making these great sermons for us. Pastor Blakes.. 🤛🏽
Bishop came to SLAAYYYY the word ✝️and quicken us to awaken! 🔥🔥Thanks for this fiery word Bishop. "Trix are for kids" and we don't need a sugary-coated word when it comes to loving, keeping our word and honoring ourselves. Thanks speaking the word in the way that it was needed to be delivered.👏🏾💪🏾✅
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Yes indeed. Bishop, you are always dropping bombs!! I wasted most of my life away on someone who did not and could not love me. Can't get those years back. It almost claimed my life. Finally, I got out. I finally chose me! It's the best decision I've ever made, second only to choosing Jesus!!
Amen. I choose not to be a victim or a volunteer❣️❣️ Happy 29th Wedding Anniversary to you and First Lady Blakes💃🏽💃🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾🎊🎊
This hit home for me.
Wake up to your worth
Accept the truth
Love yourself
Keep your promises to yourself
Thank you for sharing your wisdom and insight on the truth of God’s word 🙏💝
Wake up Accept the situation Love yourself and Keep your promises
My situationship was exactly as you described. Extremely sexual from the start and then I realized there was no trust or communication or future discussion it was just SEX. This went on for years! My self worth was and still is at the lowest of the low. But I WALKED away and Im slowly getting better. I still find myself missing this person terribly but then I wake up to the reality of what it really was. It really messed with my mind. I dont know if theres time for me. I feel I may be better off alone.
I share the same story. It hurts so bad. But we will be ok 🤗
ME TO ! GOD IS WITH US WE WILL GET THROUGH THIS TRUST! FAITH! THE BLOOD OF JESUS CHRIST! BLESSINGS TO ALL! THANK YOU GOD ! GOD PLEASE CONTINUE TO BLESSED BISHOP RC BLAKES! ALL MY FAMILY ON THE COMMENTS! GOD BLESSED 💋💞🌷🌹💪🙏
This is what I’m going through rn and I’ve been dealing w this man for 3 years and every time we interact I feel bad.
@pistolannie no conversations on the phone, in person?
Walk- W-Wake-up to your own worth. A-Accept the naked truth. L-Love yourself more. K- Keep your promises to yourself.
Just what I needed to hear this morning. God bless you 🙏🏿
Thank you so much bishop, father, King of Queen! The impact you bring to us ,especially me as a woman ,May GOD remember you!
This was life changing and exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you! I hope God continues to use you to bless others. This is undeniably one of your purposes and gifts from God. Blessings to you and your family! ❤
Trying to walk away from someone and I know they are not worth my time!I needed to hear this.its crazy how we get over selves involved with the wrong people the bond is deep I can't even explain although I haven't been intimate with them🥺 working on it
Hi glad I woke up took me 10 long years but it's over and I am staying woke! Stay woke ladies and gentlemen ❤.
No longer a victim, but a volunteer! This was good. Thank you🙏
Wow! You cannot get up u.til you wake up! ❤
“The soul that is never disturbed will never move forward”… THAT PART👏🏾
Pastor Blakes if this didn’t push me upside my forehead!!! You tell it raw and unapologetically with all love ❤️ and I THANK YOU FOR THAT!!! I needed this and I’m going to watch again and take more notes. Thank you 🙏🏾 for all that you do and how you pour into us. Praying for God to bless and cover you and your wife Ms. Lisa and your family. 🤎🫶🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾
You are talking directly to me, Lord I needed to hear every word you are saying. Thank you ❤I accept the truth 🙌🏽
Hi R.C.BLAKE I THANK GOD FOR GIVING YOU WORD'S,MESSAGES TO HELP WOMEN JUST AS WELL AS MEN AMEN
Bishop you are truly speaking wonderfully tonight. I could only apply this message to my relationships with my malignant narcissistic mother & brother. They have been nothing but detrimental to me.
You are for every women tuudayyy!! So many of us need this tough love. Especially when we didn’t get it from our earthly Fathers!
Bishop give to us, everyone will thank you for it later if not now🙏🏾🙏🏾.
Wow this is powerful!!! This is nothing but the truth u got to know your worth!! Set boundaries and stand on business.