How to Text a Girl You Like -14 MUST KNOW Rules To Texting A Girl
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Want to get the girl over text? These 14 must-know rules you easily send the exact texts that she wants to see (and avoid the ones that turn her off). This is exactly how to text a girl you like.
Guys, we've all been there:
Staring down at the phone screen, nervous and unsure what to say. And while texting a girl is less nerve-wracking than picking up the phone and calling a girl, it adds a whole new set of rules/etiquette to the dating ‘game’…
...And girls now (of course) have expectations for how you should text them.
And we all know:
It’s hard enough to meet their expectations when girls can see and hear you… much less with only characters on a screen.
So… how do you meet those expectations? How do you start a text conversation with a girl? How do you flirt with her over text? How do you make a girl like you over text? All these questions are really the same overwhelming mystery:
How to text a girl?
Simple… you learn what, exactly, girls look for in a text. In this video, we show you exactly what girls DO and DO NOT want when it comes to texting.
Chapters:
0:39 Text her within 24hrs of meeting Her
1:10 Use her name
1:27 Remind her of something that happened when you met
1:47 Use Proper Grammar
2:29 Text her the same way she texts you
2:48 Text with a purpose
3:08 Make her wait to hear from you
3:23 Send her exciting picture of what you’re doing
3:40 Remember the things she tells you about herself
4:19 Don’t rely only on teasing her to keep her attention
4:36 Show her your good traits instead of telling her
4:54 Joke with her, but not inappropriately
5:11 Don’t constantly text back and forth, when you can just call
5:36 Don’t suddenly stop texting her
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I don't understand your means how I write to her messages ablultly with my hands
“Send her pictures of what you’re doing”
I showed her my 187 Kill streak in COD. We stopped texting after that.
I mean, at least you had an awesome kill streak
😂😂😂😂😂
xNyteSkyex 😂
Lmao us guys are best at video games lol
Or that fortnite win
Never listen to girls on how to get girls.
If you're trying to catch fish you don't ask another fish. You ask the Fishermen.
Hey man, just to let you know, fish can't talk. Which of the tips do you actually disagree with? Or are you just saying that to try to get 'likes'
PS: this was written by a man, read by a woman.
Fuck that! Women like attitude, and this has been proven a looot in the past of fisher man's kind hands down. "Don't hate the player, hate the game."
You have got a point, rather a drunkard to ask if you want to know which drink tastes hard rather than a kid
What if that fish has betrayed its people in exchange for its life and decided to reveal us their secrets?
a frt' not all fish don't want to be caught
For boys : Do this , that blah blah..
For girl : Smile and game over..
😂😆
Boys: Do this and that, treat her like a princess, always be better for her, make the first move (and every other move)
Girls: You don't need a man, if he's interressted he should reach out
I hate how men are supposed to throw themselves out there anf get rejected left and right, why can't woman be expected to do the same? Rejection hurts men too
@@stefanlilleng6725 thats not true dude. You're getting rejected exactly because you're treating her like a princess. Men initiate the chase but they let the girl takeover it, don't pursue her for too long.
Point 1 text her quickly
Point 3 Dont text her immediatly
Wtf is this ?!
Yeah 😂😂. Its not that complicated and there is no perfect time.
Point one is for the first text . Text her within 24 hours of meeting. Point 3 talks about when y’all have started texting
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Someone is paying attention
I have done all that, i can comfirm that im still single and thinking about getting a dog 🐶
Hah bro! A dog is cheating
I got a dog , I need a woman
Follow Based Zeus bro... that man is a God lol
Maybe ur face makes u single... Jk
And I already have a dog n I love him not do shit with dogs, find a prositude then
Compliment her, entertain her, text her the way she texts you sounds like the perfect friendzone tutorial😆
Frost Byte No man. You didnt pay attention. You need to have purpose. You dont text her random, you know your goals and put that on conversation
Musahi! Good man! You don't randomly text her, and those 'friendzone' things are what lead you to getting what you want (you goal... usually a first date).
Frost Byte, what's your plan? Not compliment her, not entertain her... so neg her? And make sure she's bored the whole time? Good luck brotha
Frost Byte lol 😂
Friend Zone Level= God Mode
Yeap, just be a dick with fun
Like Rick from Rick and morty
Clever insults turn them on, I don't know why, girls like not available guys that are harsh
It's always men who need to do something.
Edit:
Wtf I don't even remember watching this video
Rish indeed
Yeah, it's kind of annoying for us, but that's just the way it is, unfortunately.
Yeah actually....
Cz we need the pussy more
Well yeah we are MEN dude...
"Stop texting, just call her"
People who get anxiety talking on the phone: "It's not that simple"
They dont answer if you call out of the blue.
Me who has anxiety: Randomly gets a call from a friend
My brother: Pick it up. Its annoying.
Me: " *We dont do that here* "
“Last night was so fun! You’re a maniac on the dance floor!”
Translation: “You threw that ass back last night!”
Hahahahah
😂😂😂😂😂That killed me
Andy I’m weakkkkk
Lol that made me laugh out loud literally lol
😂😂😂😂
Papa Zeus does not agree
More than one way to do it brother. Love Based Zeus though...
Colossal Titan
Lol this list was crap
I always use god Zeus advice
And it always works
Based Zeus>>>>Other dating tips channels
Noah Borch very very true ... Alpha m though...
Colossal Titan it's funny that u watch attack on titan like me😚
I have a hard time reading people over text and what emotions they’re displaying so I like calling. I’m the kind of guy that’s very passionate and just loves talking to women rather than doing something sexual. I love the mind. The body is just icing on the cake
I always come to these video’s with hope, but while watching them i slowly realise i never really stood a chance so i might as well give up lmao
same bro ik how it feels
Yeah. You text her within the first 24 hours and she thinks you’re desperate. 🤦♂️
That's not been my experience big man. And really, it's all how you do it. If you text her and say how much you like her AND how you two need to go on a date later that week, yeah, she's going to think you're desperate. If you text her and say it was nice meeting her, and say something humorous, and end it... not only will you not look desperate, but you'll keep yourself in the front of her mind + open the door for texting her in the future.
Adolfo Perez Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
"big man" is not an insult, it's like saying "boss." How insecure are you? smh
Daniel Pyro Cho fr lmfao
@@PutYoRhymeOn fr
the thumbnail... the phone is upside down😬
Hahhaahah on the right... good eye man, I didn't even see that!
MantelligenceDating hahaha thanks for replying, love you❤️
😂
Haha I came to the comments to see who else noticed. xD
You are a ginious
It’s simple , when a girl starts replying to you in one word like “ yes “ “no” and you ask her “ what do you like to do?” And she replies with the answer but doesn’t ask you the same question back .. just tell her “ it was nice meeting you “ and that’s it! And See what happens .
Do want to get together text me
David Chavez what
"Avoid any jokes that are sexual or insulting"
Me: Do you know what you're asking?😑
This is why I still like phone calls. This is so complex. Just be upfront and create a interesting conversation.
You know they are good tips when you have used some of them before even watching the video. Great job!!
Extra tip: practice texting with many girls, even if they are just your friends, you will develop a feeling for it
wow, when i thought just being nice and patient is enough, suddenly a million more important factors show up. I only hate the fact that i have to be very careful when talking or texting a girl. right now i have a girl that i really like and she laughs almost everytime to what i say. i dont wanna mess things up, so i thank you a lot for these tips
Pro tip: Turn her message notifications off. I used to have notifications on & it drove me crazy because I was constantly waiting for that notification sound. I would text & wait for that ding & became clear that I was becoming clingy & too attached to someone who I don't even know shares the same feelings yet. I also reccomend filling your days with various tasks to keep yourself busy when she is, or he (if you swing that way, I dont judge) find a hobby & get good at it, also make a social media page (& when you're good at whatever hobby, share. Also share your achievmements if they're truly worth sharing, ( you won a spelling Bee, you participated in some kind of Marathon & completed it.) Just to show her, if she was interested enough in following you, that you actually do set goals for yourself & are not lazy, because one thing a woman wants is a man who is financially secure & has his mind set on what he wants to do, where he wants to be, & how he will get there. We all like to feel secure, but for generations we've been taught that men are supposed to be providers & woman, caretakers, although that stigma is being broken, it has subconsciously manifested into each of our minds in some way shape or form, we know it exists, but ofc not all agree. Set goals is the main take away. Last piece of advice & it has worked wonderfully, still trying to get better at it, but it's definitely working. And this builds confidence like crazy, and that is, and it may seem ludicrous, but on social media, I would try & start conversations with girls who you would consider to be "out of your league" & converse with them for practice, when they reject your advances, simply keep moving. I've been rejected plenty of times & now it's doesn't hurt. It doesn't hurt because after each of them, I was given another chance at love with someone totally new. It wasn't clear at first, "why are all these woman rejecting me, why am I such a bad romantic?". Well for 1, these people, as cliche as it sounds, weren't for me, they were experiences given so that I'd be better the next time & 2, notice how I said "plenty of times" which means after a rejection, I found someone at some point in time afterward, maybe not immediately, but eventually. Meaning that it's not the end if she does not share your feelings. I'm no pro, but these are things I use in order to keep myself from having thoughts of never having an intimate relationship. These experiences show, that no matter what, I have a chance. Good luck to all of you Sad Boys & Goodnight.
I finally found you, fisherman
@@younmefrien Good luck.
Good tips! But all this to get a girl? If ur attractive, in good shape, and got money, that's 95% of what matters.
True AF
Charzan Boo unless there Christian lol
True
True but if you're attractive and in bad shape and with no money... you can be single for life 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
Charzan Boo for real hommie👊
Done all this before even watching it. And I can tell you this is what help you be in the Friendzone
1. Text her within 24hrs after meeting her
2. Use her name
3. Remind her of something that happened when you met
4. Use proper grammar
-- The first texts after u met
1. Text her the way she texts you
2. Text with a purpose
3. Make her wait to hear from you
4. Send her exciting pictures of what you're doing
5. Remember things she tells you about
--- Tips to not turn her off to dating you
1. Don't rely only on teasing her to keep her
2. Show her your good traits
3. Joke with her, but not inappropriate
4. Don't constantly text back and forth, when you can call her
5. Don't suddenly stop texting her
Whoever you are thank you
Thanks real G
guys always remember this: If you treat her like a celebrity, she will treat you like a fan.
Kept sending her pics of all my daily fortnite wins. She blocked me
Why did you lie to me?
Because you play a cancerous childish game
Sylvan Gambin shut up pls
*rayy dubb* you lied
@@sylvangambin9210 lmao
Because Fortine is thrash even tho I play it
If she not interested on you, means she doesn't like you. That's all.
Amirul Safian simple as that bro
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*Nr. 4 Just call her!*
Me: "Aight I guess i'm gonna stay single then"
Oof
Problem is, I'm not into texting not like in my hs days (early 2000s).
I just joke around when someone asks why im still single... "Im not looking for a girlfriend, im looking for a wife".
Dating advice to men is mostly telling guys ways to please her, give her what she wants and make her feel loved and appreciated. It also seems to work in phrases like “man up” and “grow some balls”
Dating advice to women is mostly ways to manipulate him and get him to commit. Or else it’s reasons to dump s guy. If there’s anything about what a guy actually wants, they tell you to withhold it.
Pretty much
So, for women who are reading this: Treat the men exactly the same way you want to be treated. If you don't, they will assume you don't care either. Love him as a friend/brother on your way to loving him as your man.
I'm agree wid u
Just marriage is the answer...
“Send her pictures of the manly things you’re doing.” Does planning for a D&D campaign count, cause that was probably a mistake to start with😂
Damn I had a big epiphany from this video. Realized that I have a hard time being vulnerable with women as our relationship progresses. Think this is why I have had some failures in the past with women I really liked! Great video!
You don’t ask a fish how to catch fish
You Ask the fisher man
This channel deserves 1 mil!! right now
I mean... I don't disagree with you :). Hah! Thank you brotha. Thanks for being part of our channel + community!
I like the these povs. They’re treasures.
Kris Skunatasatien! So glad that you liked it brother! Welcome to the channel + community!
Send risky texts and if it dont work move on to the next one, you gotta have options.
"C U L8R 4 DRNKS"
hahahahahaha
C U L8R 4 DRX
CUL4D
XD
Useful tips if applied correctly! I’ve watched a few videos on your channel and find the advice to generally be really sound. Keep up the good work!
Try this and tell me how many times did you get rejected
You should text with a purpose. And disappearing is not bad, show you have a life making you more attractive
Well said, brother. Being too available can be a definite red flag for a girl.
No 1 is a lie, texting a girl within 24 hour after meeting her seems so wrong, women may tell you it’s ok to do so but deeply in their mind they know is not attractive... Take more than a day, let her think that you got a life also women want more the mysterious guy since they fell in love more with uncertainty
Fuck texting, call her right after or soon after you get the # and set up a damn date. She'll think you're different, cuz I know most guys think this goes too much against those unwritten rules
yep you're right. U just forgot about some details like "women love a man who's emotions are unclear" and "women love challenge and you're being a challenge by actually showing you could walk away or that she's not the center of your world".
wonderful videos and great job haha i already spent an hour watching the videos on you channel haha waaaaw
Thanks for the tips :) I'm actually texting a girl for the first time today. I hope for a successful conversation :)
We hope for that too!
"mirrorring " 1 word answers 😂😂😂
I enjoyed the video. I downloaded it. Thanks Mantelligence!
I love your videos and your style of delivering information
Yoo big man! So glad that you liked the vid! Glad to have you on the channel + in the community!
The phone is only for setting dates, nothing more...
Unfortunately, and while I wish that it wasn't like this, I don't think this is true anymore... girls expect that you text them a bit before setting that date
MantelligenceDating Of course there should be some banter, but in the end it should always lead to a date without texting for hours.
Michael So true
Michael my experience: "nice meeting you" within first 24 hrs, then she replies, my next text I suggest a date, text about where to meet and talk on phone to firm up date. After date 2 or 3 she stops replying to my banter texts. Then she blocks me.
Imo texting is Not helpful
Some women wanna sext too lol
they dont like you to be a crude man but they want you to man up, guys here is the thing, they need us more than we need them, their biological clock is always ticking, so once they hit 25 they start full panic mode, never show her the need and desperation, be the client not the servant.
Good man. You got the power, don't let society get you twisted
After seeing all the videos and suggestions,
This suggestion is Right and key to success... No matter how much you love her, how much you love her like a school boy, Just be a man when you're talking to her.
But that is the Most Biggest Difficulty, I feel, That's acting to your love.
I don't think anyone needs anyone else. At last you have to be happy with yourself to live a content life. Plenty of single folks are happy too. No one dies without marriage /affair.
Thank you, you made my day, my crush liked the conversation😁😁
I trying this today, coming back with the results in couple of days
hope this works on black girls
chico raps Just say you gotta job and no baby mama's.
Lml
Lol
chico raps that’ll be a thicc ass nope
It got patched.. I think so since V.0.6.1
Hi. I've discovered the channel about an hour ago and i love it.... almost watched all the vids 😅
By the way could someone tell me what's the music in the background, it's so pleasant ☺
Yes! I love to hear that!!! So glad to have you in our community here brother. And I'm sorry, I don't know the names of the songs 🙁
MantelligenceDating wait so you use songs that you don't know the name of?
@@aster1222 lol
Wow this's so amazin' really love these tips 💯
Thanks, man! We're glad you like the vid. Glad to have you in the Mantelligence community!
Ong i needed this!
making a girl wait to get texted back and watching this video. i caught on quick
Hahahaha Wyatt!! My man, I'm proud of you
Anyone notice the phone on the right of the thumbnail is upside down. 😂
You are genius. This strategy works Absolutely like magic. 🎉🎉
The best comment section 😍
Anyone else notice the girl holding her phone upside down in the thumbnail?
Alan Cantu yes
u use these u getting friend zoned
Only if you're ugly
@@redfloyd69 imma head out then
Helpful asf
This motivated me but a tip for other just let her know how you feel be truth to your self women love a guy who not afraid to let his emotions out to her , but be gentle when speaking to her & take it slowly good luck 👍🏿
Number 5 is actually one of our many strategies to have a girl constantly thinking about you 😏
Thata boy
Guys aren't clowns?
They cant just keep entertaining them, guys need to chill too
Right we have self respect too and women should respect us for our efforts.. Time that women approach men and feel them feel special
@@rohitchoudhury1 I do :)) or at least I hope so hahaha
I really love this Chanel thank you
I don’t know if I should be happy or sad that I’m watching this
I’ve been single for the past 15 years why am I watching this video :)
MegaBojan1993 lol me too fam I want to get girlfriend soon
Good luck. I haven't been so lucky and at the age of 32 is kinda too late for me to get a new girlfriend :(
I´M TEXTING MY HOTASS BLONDY CLASSMATE, BUT SHE TAKES TOO DAMN LONG TO TEXT BACK
John Rooney F
2 years have passed... Any Updates?
@@faitdetreseul9767 still being ghosted by them, and still single
@@johnrooney3848 Remember... No Matter how much it hurts right now one day you'll look back & realize it made you stronger
Very good tips...nice voice too
Omg I literally got all these right on my own!!! Am I a badass?!?! Woooohooo!
I completely disagree with waiting before texting back.... I text back when I get the text or as soon as I’m available to text back, I’m not going to be all a fake about it
To each their own big man. If that works for you... keep doing it!
That’s the way to do it.. don’t overthink it.. if you have a life and shit to do then txt whenever you have a chance
Bruh gl with friendzone
frank osas good luck with being fake
Adam _ true little Adam
Luckily I pretty much follow most of these already
Number 1 is clutch!!! number 5 is also useful to me
Perfect tips to get friend zoned
To be honest, conversation in real life is not my problem, my problem is with texting, I always feel pressure, and it's harder to read a text than it is to read a conversation in real life
Expectation
Me: Wow you great at dancing
Girl: Thanks
Reality
Me: Wow you gud dancing like momo robot
*no reply*
5:10 i‘d rather not joke at all than having to make sure to not offend anyone when joking
The lololol part had me going, 🤣
This is basic stuff but very useful, as your immediately out-doing 80% of the men who suck at texting.. This great especially if you don't want to learn the more advance (but very effective) methods that i am currently learning...
Oh! and here's an important tip. Its best to be texting (dating) 3 different girls at the sametime so you don't go into approval-seeking, overthinking, "trying to do everything to impress her mode".
Mobile phones weren't around when I was in school, so we use to write letters :)
I remember those days too, man.
Really helpful... thanks for making
Yoo big man! So glad that you liked the vid! Glad to have you on the channel + in the community!
A Bitter Truth!!!
How text girl - mantelligent
2:30 - text her same her text
2:58 - Avoid pointless text. GOING TO SOME WHERE + COMPLIMENT - ENTERTAIN - Keep interest in Conversation
3:30 - Send picture of what you are and doing. ESpecially MANLY hobbies *
3:56 - Remember what she said - Note the information
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4:10 - Dont be text CARELESS-AFTER-THE-DATE
4:20 - Dont HIDE YOURSELF and feeling behide Joke
4:40 - Dont just talk, ask for her Idea and Suggestion
5:30 - At some stage no need to text, just call her
5:38 - Don't SUDDENLY STOP TEXTING
+++ Let's her know what's GOING ON *
+ "I will text you later"
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This is so wrong....
Zeus help me
Based Zeus only
Facts
Astros
I got the reference
Thank you for the tips 👍
Have been staring at my phone for the past hour thinking about what to say. I don’t even know how I got here.
How to text a boys and impress them:
Send "Hi"
your comment sounds desperate
I asked her Out and she wantet to look up when sehr can come on the date but she didn't answer for 3 days and today she blocked me. :(
Good Boy! :( sorry brother. You'll get the next one!
Good Boy 😐 umm... that’s sad but why did she do that to you
Good Boy probably a reason why lol
You are Good Boy na...
Pain...
Good video, just confirmed my behavior❤️, its going😂
Cool going to try this on tinder tonight.
Instructions unclear, my cousin still doesn't like me.
How about ur sis
"Send her pictures of what are you doing"
Me:Takes a picture of GTA San Andreas xd.
She:Ok I hate you.
Me:"MISSION PASSED" RESPECT +
Thanks a lot this helped me very much 😍😍
Glad it helped, brother! Thanks for being part of the Mantelligence community!
A fish teaching me how to fish.
GENIUS😭😂
That's a real good joke!!!!
Can i have a question.. i would really like to know that is the Pullaway tactic really work?
Playing hard to get, basically?
And the minute they get bored there texting somebody else feel bad for you guys in this day and age
Oh man U Sorry You Replied everyone,,,😍😍😍,
#Respect
Great, now i know how to text my mum. Thanks!
This show how a lonely person am i to watch this😭
leave her on read
That's the best advice I have recd like ever
I hope you're joking, because every female I have ever met would strongly disagree
I think it's not good idea to leave her on read
Exactly leave her on read if she texts you still or even double texts you she’s likes you bad
Based Zeus is and always will be the number 1 dating advice channel on TH-cam.