Best FIRST MESSAGE to Send on TINDER, Bumble, Hinge to Get a Reply (Online Dating Secrets)
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Almost every time, our students come to us searching for: What happens when she hasn't texted you back.. Whether on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Whats App, iMessage or any dating app? And they expect some kind of magic word or phrase that's the secret to solve all their problems.
Is there something so powerful as that? What do you do when the woman you like doesn't text you back?
When a girl you like doesn't text you back, its about control at that point. And YES, there are messages that will almost guarantee a reply, but gaining and keeping interest and creating amazing tension is another thing. A lot of guys miss that point.
You want to know what to do when a girl you like doesn't text you back. But you don't want to know how to keep that girl interested in you enough to keep her in a happy relationship. You don't want to make the changes or improvements with yourself because you feel like there's an easy pill to swallow to transform you into a ladies man.
You shouldn't even have that mindset..
So..What to do when a girl doesn't text you back? Listen to the video where our coaches share their BEST first messages to send. When you're texting or Online Dating, these are tips that you can use on Tinder, Bumble, Okcupid, Eharmony or just on Whats App and iMessage!
We have the answer for what to text a girl who stopped responding, we share that in the video.
We also cover:
- How to get a girl to text you back immediately.
- We can help you what to do when a girl doesn't text you back
- How to get a girl to text you back immediately?
- What to text when a girl doesn't reply?
- What to text a girl who stopped responding?
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This is glorious, I been tryin to find out about "tinder profile tips guys" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Neeyedaly Romantic Pussnap - (search on google ) ? Ive heard some super things about it and my mate got excellent results with it.
it's funny how girls are like "don't send a boring first message" meanwhile on bumble all i get from them are "hey whatsup" lol...also the more high value you are as a guy the more you can get away with being generic.
Thanks for sharing! What does "high value" mean for you?
You are correct it’s crazy
@@Theattractiveman High value means high status.
no, youre looking at it the wrong way. girls with that in their bio is challenging your masculine frame from the start. if they dont act feminine in the interaction at all then its best to just go next
Ikr lmao, they might as well send an uno reverse card bc they just want you to start the conversation. Whenever you give an equally boring response like just saying "hey!" back or something they just don't respond.
My go to, plus it's a qualifier to immediately see her personality right out the gate, and always gets a response is "I don't know if I fully agree with everything in your profile."
lol! And your follow up?
Used the technique to send her just her name text. I sent that to 5 girls, didn't get a response :(
If you know how shocked and excited I am to see this video on the very reason I opened TH-cam today...you're the best Matt🍷
Hope you enjoyed it! Thanks for watching!
Really like Lynn’s advice. Understanding what the person you’re interested in’s mindset and perspective is 100% the first step. Her first message suggestion of “you’re not one of crazy ones, are you?” is great. It’s bold yet playful and warrants a response.
The “can I tell you a secret?” is good too, but I thought the follow up was a bit simpish. Something clever, witty or funny would probably see more success.
Just our humble two cents 🤷♂️
Clean!
I will give some of those lines a Go
This works easy for me lol I just have trouble getting the ones I want
Greatest TH-cam channel ever i literally just tried all of these texts and almost all of them texted me back with a OMGGG your so funny. Matt Artisan God Damnnn your a legend my guy stay up and keep grinding on these videos bc there fr helping ppl like me out soooo much. Also next video???
Great job! Remember to keep the honest, direct and confident attitude, man. Next video is out next week!
i get 1 notification everyday
from team snapchat
Lol same
I have them hidden I can’t stand them.
That's my problem. Continuing once I get a connection.
Nice video guys and perspectives.. You mention get her of tinder, after 3 messages. How'd you do that.. Cheers 👍
I have done it for sometime now and I do get response... The problem is the amount of fake profiles and actually mentally disturbed women online lately...
We know its frustrating. Its been a huge problem for the community as well. Especially when you add in gold diggers too.
@@Theattractiveman , well said...
@@Theattractiveman I've seen lots of profiles of girls literally having in their bios things such as "Hmu if you have a boat" or even their cashapp handle...
In addition to that, many Tinder thots try to get you outside of it, usually to Snapchat, where they try to sell you their "Premium" membership
I am watching your video till that time when your subs was 2000k i really like your enthuasiam about this work
Thank you so much! Its much of a passion too. Our team loves seeing guys gain the confidence and release all the negativity they have with women.
I don't care much for videos of dating coaches but I really like this one some really quite tips
@7:00 I agree it could be helpful to swipe right for practice but I've also read too much swiping screws u with the algorithm making you needy and less social status
I always laugh when women act like "hi" "hey" "happy Wed" "How are you" etc is specific to what they go through. Women are equally as guilty of this. 💯
On Bumble 99% of the openers I get are exactly those with no effort. It's even funnier when they send a GIF with an "H phrase" or with a hand waving being too lazy to even type it out. 🤣
I usually use this ‘’Do you know what the first thing I noticed about your profile was 😅’’ is this a good starter
The name thing works all the time....i do it and it works or shorten her name and follow with the question is it okay with you if i call you that? And it works
Great job!
You have a video Tips How to love a single mom.. thks
I really love this video!! Thanks for share with us.
Good information I like it
Thanks and welcome!
OMG I died on the "Lady Boy" comment.
I just did the “You’re not crazy right?”. She answered “What kind of question is that”. Before I could respond she blocked me lol. What’s up with that?
She, my friend.. might actually be crazy. 😆
It’s because it’s an insult. I don’t know why it’s been suggested to send this message. It’s very off putting.
It's about the give and take. Give your own self deprecating humor, take a swing at their ego. Playfully. If you give them nothing to work with to make social peace of they will have no interest. Even moderating your jabs, some people will be too insecure to let you talk and block you
just say something that sounds interesting or just be sarcastic lol, woman are attracted to that
Literally anything works better than saying a generic "hi" or "hey"
@@Theattractiveman i once asked this, Pizza or Ice Cream on a friday night? conversation started from there lol
Great job! You've got the basics down - its about having fun yourself. Other guys treat it like a freakin job interview.
@@Theattractiveman yeah it's true I've learned how attraction works with women. flirt, banter, tease, and sarcasm is the key lol
Just wonderful, I have been researching "first thing to say on tinder" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Neeyedaly Romantic Pussnap - (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some awesome things about it and my co-worker got excellent results with it.
this video is chill as tea :D
Thank you for this video!
Most important thing is race /looks/money matters and depends how smooth you are😉
What does "smooth" mean to you?
@@Theattractiveman I think, to most, it means to be very sleek and tricky, so how "smoothly" you can slide into a perfect conversation
It really works
Its been tried and tested, man!
This guy goin "it doesn't matter what you say... Uh... Yah. If u don't get a response it sure matters"
I never read bios there’s no need but pictures are important
Pictures pique interest first and foremost. But don't leave your bio blank.
Thats y u get left uninformed. Better for me tho
Hope it was a positive awesome experience!
Shiloh43 when you’re swiping through a sea of people there’s no point in reading their bios if you’re not attracted to them. Read it after you match. I do have a bio, but just mentioned that reading their bio right away is pointless if you’re not attracted to them.
Some good suggestions for openers in the video:
"Your pics say a lot."
"You're not crazy, right?"
"I may be wrong, but you look like someone worth getting to know."
"Want to rob a bank?"
"Want to know a secret?" Followed up with, "I have a crush on a girl who [describe the woman you're writing], but don't tell anyone."
Man u corny af
@@CellSaga13 lmao 🤣
I would have my doubts about any woman on a dating app
Yeah I matched with who I wasn't the least bit attracted to,but then once I actually got to know her personally,that's when I realized I made a big mistake and she ends up having a really sexy personality,from then on we hungout every day,but now we moved on, this was a long time ago
I have same headphone what you are using
Can someone point me to the link for Lynn's help with my online profile? Thanks in advance.
lp.theattractiveman.co/online-dating-makeover
I'n 41 and my target age range is. 35-45. On POF,I just write "will you marry me?" I get some replies and I say "before getting married lets get to know each other" Because they find it shocking and funny. What do you guys think about my pick up line?
gettin 1 response for 113 is crazy
Excellent
That's a good one
Good to know. I'm a gospel Rapper, singer, Producer 🙂
New to dating scene would this work on tinder. Love your smile and would like to know the woman behind that beautiful smile.
Hi Matt, I love your videos . I used that opener” your pics say quite a lot” it works great but when they ask what they say ? I usually get little sexual like your pics say you’re cute, innocent with a bit of wild side, adventurous and into dominant man . Sometime it works but mostly time it’s not . So how to carry conversation after that . I mean what’s best second text to reply her concern about what her pics say
Understand the hows and whys on how to create attraction man, not just copy everything and expect it to work. Its important to learn how to enjoy creating attraction and feeling it naturally through you so you'll know what to say and how to say it.
its about stringing her along, leaving some vagueness and laying down bread crumbs. giving a concrete "it says this" and its over. she either agrees or doesnt and is now bored. that canned response you wrote out above is the last thing I would send. dont be sexual, suggest sexual contact by creating tension with innuendo. easier said then done, but this is stuff ive picked up watching these videos. the asshole response from douchebag and this video was lame.
What about if the woman starts the confo and says hi and how’s it going as I get that allot
I stand out by using her name and adressing something in her profile, but I always get ghosted anyways
This has happened hundreds of times
Got a match on your picks say quite alot thanks so much how do I respond? help
No don't swipe right on everyone .. it screws up your ranking and it also makes people think they are attractive when they aren't. So many people are covered in Tatoos, Piercings and have strange hair.. it's disgusting. Or people are overweight.. or they have low quality pictures or they have low effort profiles which say absolutely nothing or they have 1 picture.. So many girls do this.. many of them are just on apps to get validation or instagram followers. Don't give them validation if they don't deserve it!
you, james, should think of women as people more!!! some ppl (me!!!) think tattoos n piercings n weird hair are very cool!! you should dm someone if you think they look like someone youd want to talk to & not based on how “high effort” their photos are or their weight!!
@@cottontaelle You may think they are cool but they aren't attractive to me, not everyone has to have the same likes as you do . If you want to dm low effort people go ahead.. I have enough plenty of people who i talk with on a regular basis i don't need a pen pal . I need someone i am attracted to to date. If someone doesn't put effort in on their profile why should i put effort into talking with them or even matching with them?
It'sMeJamesE you can have different tastes (i only like to talk to men if theyre somewhat feminine for instance) but dont disrespect ppl for looking the way they want to look & dont call them “disgusting” and dehumanize them!!! its mean
@@cottontaelle Exactly you can have different tastes. Pop off and like whatever you like i don't care but don't criticise me for liking for what i like . Because i could do the same back to you. That's my opinion on what i find disgusting appearance wise. If i don't want to date people based on that appearance it's my choice to do so. Not yours or anyone else's . If i don't want to date a beach whale i won't. Dating people like that is normalising being overweight. It's not healthy being overweight . If you feel like supporting people for being obese then go ahead , i won't. I support people who take care of their bodies.
Well, some men like tattoos or big girls, however I totally agree with you on the part about girls putting little effort into making their profiles, or girls that are only trying to increase their Instagram followers
I was just about to text a girl and this video comes up ... Damn that timing
You're welcome!
I guess it’s understandable to be nervous if you’re talking to a girl, but I thought all you had to do is just be normal and just talk. I’m not a boy, I just came from Kurtis Connor.
@@EnaYT2 if only it were that easy , honestly it depends how charismatic and how comfortable you feel around girls . I for example feel more comfortable around my girl friends than boy friends ,but when I feel attracted to a girl I completely lose my vocab .
Galaxy Master lol I feel you. Recently I lost interest in my crush, but I make no sense whenever I try talking to him.
do you think french canadian girl need a different approach ? Any tips ?
That will still depend on personality and situation. What kind of women are you interested in?
Interesting 'It's a numbers game'.... is it? The goal is not to get a response, no matter who reacts... isn't it about connecting to someone you really fancy? Aside from some exercise texting etc, it's a waste of time if you don't really like her ...
The main dude is kinda cringe NGL
This wisdom
Hey Matt. This is Dan from Australia. After meeting the absolute woman of my dreams on Bumble. One tip I did implement was get on the phone to the girl ASAP. You instantly get ahead of the crowd and instantly become the high status/value man - especially if your great at banter, know what you want and be up front to taking things to the next level…ie a date to meet in person! This lady mentioned said I had a sexy voice (thank you!), I had a date with lined up in 24hours, things went swimmingly and we’ve been together for 5 months with the prospect of things becoming a lot more serious long term. Yes. It is the fairy tale match made in heaven but, I did my research - I did my homework, I even researched what kinds of photos that women respond to, and I did not give up. (She wants to see the eyes - NOT the dick pick).
It may sound old fashioned - but I know it to be true from my experience - women want to be romanced, they want a guy who’s self assured and confident, and dare I say they want a guy who’s a real gentleman! Texting (name) you’ve captured my attention and I’d like to discover you more - will have her messaging back in spades! Women want to be discovered - they want a man with a bit of mystery, they want a man who’s going to be forward and confident enough to start the chase - WITHOUT being needy or ‘the nice guy’. something like “(name) I don’t need you, but I sure would like to see if there’s chemistry” is another great one liner!
Maybe you concur with my suggestions here, but smart people have a strategy and don’t give up til they get what they’re after, I know I have - and so glad I did what I did.
I need help
I’m outside your house 🏡 🤣
With the matches I have had I try to use something she is interested in within my first message to try and relate to her, but I am still to get a response
10:00 aye yo wtf bro exposed himself
Dude am from Africa I was wondering how do u text a girl who u really like can u send me some tips
Check the video out. Feel free to visit our site if you want to learn more about our programs, too!
You text with a phone
5 mins in and you’ve said nothing
Ok so at what point in this long ass video dies he actually give a good opening tinder message?
I love you
can someone help me i matched with this girl and she sends me the first message how do i respond??
Swipe right on everyone is a bad move. Maybe for the women, but bad move for guys.
So I'm 40 years old and never had a girlfriend or slept with a woman, Please Help !
Steve Carell irl
Dont agree with the practice stuff, you will give false hopes to the person and that sucks.But otherwise cool video, I will try the secret text.
Holy hell this is helpful advice but damn redundancy of the Redundant.(honestly just with female co host) you're just going on and on about nothing the mindset of it instead of going multiple examples and showing how these examples reinforce in real world. Great video though
8:00
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I hate Good morning ! 😭
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Who’s the lady? She got game
5:14 that’s pretty trash advice
10:02 guy just confessed he loves ladyboys 💀💀
If you want to catch a fish you ask a fisherman not a fish 😂.... (referring to lynn😂)... (jst kidding...i would love her help bt yk😂... broke😂 though a teenager😂)
Hi Matt,
I matched with a girl on Hinge, I am very interested in her. She used the “you start the conversation first button.” I looked at her bio/pics and tried to customize a tailored message to her and leave an open ended question that would make her reply. She’s an attractive women who likes to golf and enjoys 80’s music which I enjoy as well so I messaged with this “(persons name) it’s awesome to see that there are still people out there that like that music era. What is your favorite genre/band from that time period?” Now it’s been 3 days and no response. Should I send another message? If so, what would be a good line to say back that doesn’t come off as needy. Or is it she didn’t like the response I gave her and isn’t giving me the attention anymore. Thank you.
just say her can have your no plx
God lynn seems perfect,I'd like go on a real date with her
Shh don’t tell her. I have a crush on someone
this is the first time I see a girl like u . . . .
Girl!
Yo mama let yo date?
@@fastinradfordable bruuuh🔥🔥🔥😆I'm using this
I said her name, she replied lol.. but what now
Say you uncle’s name 😂😂😂😂
Why doesn't Lynn have a man.
who said she didn't?
Women really like it when you treat them like real human beings, not objects or a thing to be caught. Maybe you'd learn something if you ever actually made contact with a woman for any other reason than for your little TH-cam channel.
That doesn't make any sense at all. We never said to treat people as objects, and we interact with women regularly.
@watery jar, funny thing bout white knights is they get no action. Been 2 years so did u mature and get smarter in that time or do u still have the mindset of a little boi. Also, u searched this channel up.
@watery jar, Ur one of those idiots who riot when a man says something but completely silent when a female says the exact same thing as if her gender gives more credibility.
What about a comeback response when you get this message from a woman like this one... Hello, I knew you looked familiar!! Hot doesn't describe you!! 💋What I have down is It’s tough being such a sex symbol. I prefer to be noticed for my intellectual capacity and my character and the gentleman I am to you. 😊 If I had a dollar for every compliment I’ve received so far, I’d be a billionaire. 😊 If A woman says I'm cute" "Cute is not going to get my attention but maybe Handsome," will. 😊 I'm not looking because you might think I think you are attractive looking or because every other guy is looking. It is important to remember that not everyone who’s complimenting you because you might assume men are trying to get into your pants between your legs or that it's about your looks. Beauty is only skin deep. I'm hoping you have a personality and substance and true character and you're a self-reliant woman who is a flexible giver. 😊 It takes more than just a good-looking body and a pretty face. You have to have the heart and soul and a personality to go with it. 😊 Yeah, I’m getting tired of being mistaken for good-looking like Brad Pitt. 😊
Short and sweet
73% gentleman, 27% Rogue. For some reason, I have been getting compliments from all types of women Average-Looking including Hot-Looking women '8s '9s '10s in looks. These women can't see who compliments me about my looks. I'm just trying to combat this problem I have with women so they can see women compliment me any suggestions? I just wish these women were a bit more creative with their messages and not messages about my looks. It’s tough for me to be such a sex symbol. 😊 I really feel sorry for women trying to navigate the online dating world. This video was helpful with what to say to women. Thank You! for sharing.
Hey man thanks for the comment. If you feel like there is anything you need help with when it comes to women and dating, here is a link to schedule a free 15 minute coaching session with one our instructors: datingcoachcall.com/free
@The Attractive Man, I have used/tried your examples like Hey, I'm bored let's go rob a bank Your photos say quite a lot and you're not crazy, right? etc and other ones like this on TH-cam by other dating coaches in a similar context and women don't respond. I'm guessing it is because they heard these lines before or they sound like pickup lines or it is because they know that
men get them from these videos like this one? I like calling women out for not responding or for women having very little written and for nothing written down and only having one photo and half photos and filtered photos and weird camera angles to look thinner. No effort with their photos and women wearing hats and sunglasses telling them you are making it hard to know if we are a match with a question to her she can respond to.
Yeah, in the meantime, that how’s it going guy is a millionaire and you pick the gay dude that came up with some stupid one liner😂
Just be yourself and dont play games. Seriously. If she's too popular to answer messages then bye.
no. No. nO. NO. Guys are praising you??
Just Say , BITCH ..... !
😂😂😂😂😂 let me try this to 3 of them 😂😂😂😂
These guys soo lame!!
I would like to kindly remind you that I haven't received any advice yet, and I'm hoping for some genuine guidance rather than a lengthy video. Are there any real tips available, or is this just for the sake of video length? So far, I'm feeling a bit disappointed as I'm here for exploration but the content seems focused on casual conversation.
This is some terrible dating advice.
Why is it terrible dating advice?
@@Theattractiveman I refuse to help you monetize your channel, have a good day. You will waste your time watching this video of useless information.
Its a simple question. And its totally fine if you don't have an answer. Anyway, Thanks for watching the video and leaving a comment!
Women suck on these apps…most are there promoting OF or gaining clout…. I have over 5000 likes on bumble but they never message. It’s like self satisfaction they got likes and that’s all they want
I pray guys don't use your advice....what are you trying to do get all guys rejected and you have them all for yourself?
-Want to know a secret ?
Her: Yes
-Send ur nr I text u
Boom
A lot of women are doing this and are CRITICAL of men having Proper Grammar and Spelling but they themselves have TYPOS they don't fix which to me are the same as men having improper Grammar and Spelling. I like calling out women for that because they find it important for men to have Proper Grammar and Spelling. This woman named Barbie Age 57 whose name is not really Barbie she said got the name from her friends. She does not look age 57. to me. Her profile story has too many Emojis. She said in part of her message please know that I’ve
come too far in life to be on a ‘hook’ & wait around for a man to figure out his Life. My Gawd if you don’t know who you are & what you want NOW then I’m worried for you…. I’ve had many experiences with Men who touch my soul, flower me with fluffy words but don’t want any commitment & are very inconsistent. There is nothing wrong with casually ‘dating,’ But I’m past that stage. Please know your ‘intentions.!’
Men fall in love with their EYES. Women fall in love with their EARS). So women are CRITICAL of men knowing Yours VS Your's and knowing
There's from Theirs. One of the most common grammar mistakes is adding an apostrophe where none is needed. So do you need an apostrophe to spell yours? The short answer is no-you should never include an apostrophe in the word yours. Even native English speakers often make this mistake. I thought this would help you come up with something new to write to say to women who don't fix their TYPOS and what the woman wrote. Women should not be calling men out on then having Proper Grammar and Spelling if they don't fix their mistakes. I
JUST want to point this out because I see this so much even with older women 54 plus age. These women need to be exposed. Also when she said I’ve had many experiences with Men who touch my soul, flower me with fluffy words What can we say or do about this problem? So Matt does this woman think the things you are telling us we can send to women the woman thinks are Flower and Fluff to get her offline?
These women nowadays are completely delusional 😂
Love this, thank you!
Glad you enjoyed it! You're welcome!