6 years after originally watching this my life has changed. I came back to comment to report my progress. My own everything, been with tons of girls, traveled. I've been authentic to myself it's no greater feeling. Thanks for this advice Leo!
Being introvert means not what you think it does. It just means that you spend your energy when you interact with people, rather that you gain energy when you interact with people, like extroverts do. It has literally nothing to do with shyness or anything like that. I am introverted, but I am also confident. I will speak my opinion if needed, I am expressive, I am authentic and all the other stuff you mentioned.
Do you go out often? For me personally, I don't take it as an "us" vs "them". If I feel the extroverts have something that I want, then I'll become one and do things that extroverts do. I don't see the point in drawing a line in the sand & saying "I'm an introvert" & that I'm somehow programmed into this boxed-in area of staying indoors.
shitmandood No, I don't go out because I think of it as a waste of time and energy. I do not enjoy partying, clubbing and alike at all. I prefer one to one interaction, not masses of people. Yet I do not judge extroverts for doing that. Everyone to its own. People always assume that their way of doing things is right for everyone, where it's not.
Glassland You're already casting judgement when you state that "People always assume what's right for everyone." You are making a distinction for introvert and extrovert & spoon-feeding yourself a story of why you CANT do something. How does doing nothing, trying nothing, help you further with your self-development goals or skills? I've seen extreme introversion. People bottle up indoors & pretty soon they turn into recluses. It's not a pretty sight. There is an unhealthy disconnect when you withdraw yourself from your fellow man. Hell, the only reason people can do it now is because the Internet made it possible. You wouldn't have been able to live like this before the Internet. You would be forced to live in the world & that is a healthy balance. Two years ago, I used to feed myself stories about why I couldn't go out such as: 1.) People will see me alone & think I'm strange. 2.) I'll wait for my friends to become available on the weekend when I visit in another town. 3.) I'll feel uncomfortable around strangers. 4.) I'll run into a lot of assholes. 5.) Somebody will laugh at me. Well after a lot of contemplation, I realized I just had to say fuck it. And do it. I got a few nice clothes to wear & then would go out & drive around at night to eat at different places or hang around in different bars. I'd feel almost sad at myself for saying "Table for 1" & sitting down, eating alone, & that feeling of all eyes on me as the 'weird one'. But I didn't give up. I forced myself to keep doing it. Sometimes I'd meet some interesting women or make new friends with other guys. Other times, I'd get nothing & females that I thought were friendly, turned cold. One time, even one of the so-called male friends threatened me when he got drunk enough. But I didn't let any of that deter me. I just kept going out twice a week. So what are the positive results of me doing this? Well I can tell you now that it hasn't bothered me at all, even after the first 6 months, I look forward to it. When I go ask for Table for 1, I have a smile on my face. What people think of me no longer matters. I saw quite a few of this generation simply reading their smart phones anyway, so they can barely notice that I'm in the room. I've had women come up to me & start telling me everything about themselves. Reason: they see a man come into the room, he's alone, he has a good attitude & it's going to make him mysterious by default, which is attractive for women. They'll be thinking: "Why is he here? Why is he alone? Nobody does that! He must be strong & capable to have such fortitude." It was the same with the gym. I had to force myself to enter a gym. There are people there & since I was weak, I'll look pitiful. The same principles apply as to going out on your own. You just won't care. You'll start to realize that nobody else cares either, nobody is noticing you. They're all wrapped up in themselves & their egos, but on the whole, you can make new friends & learn new things by doing this & what was alien to me before now seems pretty normal. If I quit doing it however, I'm pretty sure I'll go back into that withdrawn mode. I figure you have to do these activities for 10 years to make it a natural part of your being, to get to a point where you aren't forced into doing it, you just do it naturally without thinking. That's why I don't really like the idea of introvert & extrovert. In the 3rd world, people can't afford to be introverts. The society doesn't allow it. In response, people grow because they have to. You've been given a choice & choosing the path of least resistance, becoming a shut-in, simply stunts your growth & in my opinion is completely ass-backwards in self-development goals. Self-development should be about trying new things, not mental masturbatory material that you watch while sipping chamomile tea in safety.
shitmandood Glad your life is good, but no: I am not spoonfeeding myself any story. I know my limits, I know I can go beyond them, I know my interests, I know that most people are excruciatingly stupid and not worth of my attention, I know that this sounds arrogant. I am not wrapped up in my ego or in my fears, I have learned to grow beyond that in the last year or so. I know that social interaction with people drains me and that being alone, reading and contemplating energizes me. Don't be arrogant in thinking that you know my truth, because no one knows anything really. Everyone is wrapped up in his own conclusions about life, most rather indoctrinated with dogma than developing their own, but the same principle lies beneath. Realize that you know not. You never will. Knowing is impossible. You just believe to know the truth of everything. This is my truth.
Glassland It doesn't sound arrogant. It is arrogant. You're also generalizing by saying "most people". Who exactly? You said so yourself: you're introverted. So who is it that you have met that was "excruciatingly stupid" in your seldom-done/seldom-seen outgoing travels? Was it 10-20 years ago? Was it people checking out your groceries who don't want to be there in the first place? Or was it people on the beach, enjoying the same vacation that you were also on? Or foreigners? And when you meet people for the first time, you're only seeing the surface. They're not going to open up their whole world & divulge meaning for you, just so that you may feel pleased to bask in their presence. You're basically stating that you have contempt for humanity because you don't have any patience with someone the moment you suspect, or judge, they are non-intellectuals. That's very contrived & unnatural. You're putting forth a lot of energy just to create this negative barrier. Why can't you just let things be without feeling an emotional snap judgement at all? You keep generalizing again. You state that everyone is wrapped up in their own conclusions about life & indoctrinated with dogma. That concept is called the "limiting belief system". It's true that everyone starts out that way, everyone has a story that they tell themselves. The TRUTH is that you have to recognize those as limiting beliefs!! That you have to move past "the truth". Your Truth is nothing more than a set of limiting beliefs: 1.) I can't socialize because I think everyone is stupid. 2.) I've classified myself as an introvert, therefore I can't do extroverted things. 3.) My 'energy levels' are drained when I speak to people. 4.) Everyone is indoctrinated and will follow their indoctrination forever. These are all walls that your ego defense system is telling you in order to keep you from changing. So I guess you are watching self-help videos for mental masturbation without a care or want in the world to actually try the things that are said, only to disagree & rationalize it away. More power to you, bro.
Being a man is responsibility. Being a man is not about dominance. If you are a young man growing up, dont worry about fucking the world, worry about your responsibilities to those around you.
1. A real man is 100% Authentic 3:00 a. Be open about your insecurities and problems b. Do not hide something from someone in order not to insult him. Do not be too polite c. Do not be afraid to express yourself (About giving) d. You should have nothing to hide 2. A man is emotionally stable 4:10 a. He is grounded and unreactive b. He lives by principles and values c. He has a strong sense of Identity 3. A man is happy by himself 6:22 a. He is completely independent b. He constructs his own awesome life for himself 4. A man is in tune with his sexuality 7:28 a. He takes sex for completely normal b. He has no limiting beliefs and ideologies about sex c. As man you want to f@ck the world. If you do not f@ck the world the you do not really f@ck your girl either. You need to give yourself into the world. 5. A man needs to have a purpose in life 11:22 a. His gift to the world is very important b. He has to penetrate into the world. To live life at his fullest potential
If you liked this video, be sure to check out my related videos: 1) How To Make A Girl Fall In Love With You - What Girls Really Want 2) How To Be More Confident - A Step-by-Step Process for Becoming Truly Confident 3) How To Be Attractive - The Ultimate Attraction Strategy 4) Healthy Relationships - What You MUST Know To Sustain A Great Relationship 5) How To Overcome Shyness - Transform Yourself Into An Extrovert
Leo, even at 50, I can relate to your advice, and am applying it with short term results! Still have a way to go, but am very confident that I will succeed in the near future. I was really down in an all-time low when I came across a few of your videos, and have been improving tremendously with logical choices ever since. Many thanks!
I watched this one years ago. Got recommended. Leo you look so young here. Still a masterpiece. I shared this video with my son. I have been watching you since 2014. Thanks Leo!
That just means your old man got married for the wrong reasons... oh well, you can’t complain.. here you are. Live your life and let him live his. You’ll probably thank him one day.
"True Masculinity" doesn't exist. It's just a concept of an ideal. And that ideal differs from culture to culture, from century to century and possibly even from individual to individual. Everything else is just imagination.
Lost my father from cancer when i was 17, i was the oldest of the family. Now I'm 30, i just discovered i was missing the instruction from him, thanks for covering some of the things I never thought about. Made me realize a lot.
Being in the the mid-twenty, I've already experienced whatever you've said in this video is absolutely true. Thank you for summarizing perfectly. (I've never left a comment in a youtube video before. This is the first time I'm doing it taking lessons from the video: As a man one needs to express himself ; and also the video is worth appreciating!)
This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you sir. The part that surprised me was the bit where you talked about having sex with a lot of women. I figured it out the hard way that this is TRUE. Because when I was still a virgin, I COULDN'T get LAID! Couldn't get a girlfriend, nobody wanted to be around me. I swear, telling a girl you're a virgin turns her off like a light switch, INSTANTLY. Then I had sex with more and felt more and more confident and comfortable. All the while my pussy friends are telling me I'm some kind of slut and I need to just find one girl and get married. But the thing with that is the girl of my dreams will NEVER be into me unless I accumulate this experience and man myself up. Then I'll be more comfortable with my sexuality and meeting hotter women. I need to stop hanging out with guys who tell me the wrong shit.
samantha wilson Well I couldn't get laid the first 26 years of my life due to lack of experience. And when I almost lost my virginity, I told the girl that I was a virgin and she wanted nothing to do with me after that. Then when I finally lost it, I lied and said I've had a couple girl friends. Then we fucked all night
your picking the wrong women, that is just weird. Most decent women don't want a guy with a lot of experience. Maybe SOME but not a lot. the first 26 years? I find it very hard to believe, especially as a teenager. Most teen girls wouldn't want a guy who has had sex.
He’s not wrong bro, my mind shifts when I have sex. For the better because it’s a positive experience to know a woman submits her most vulnerable being to your lead. Don’t let women misguide you, your friends you speak of probably don’t have enough experiences within groups of men that encourage you to conquer and also strategize open mindedness. Women however, they’re the blooming of the fruit. All of the greatest men of all time always had multiple women. Because women need proof before they award you. That’s the key takeaway I gathered from the video above. Thanks for sharing bros.
Most of the haters in this comments don't understand the sense of the video. The topic is the man psychology, a deep study about it, and haters believe that is only random hyphotesis. Guys, you have to study and analyze before to judge.
I have to say. I was raised by woman, grew up dorky and fat, and became a 6'3" 220 man's man, with 3 beautiful little girls, and their lovely mother. I got lost, knew everything I knew, and still got lost. Thank you for helping. being a man is hard. Being a "real" man is harder. thank you for having the courage to say it as it is.
***** i've been doing more things i was afraid to do like talking to women and taking on challenges that i was afraid i'd fail at. it's not a HUGE change but i notice some days i don't beat myself up as much as before and learning to be more comfortable in uncomfortable situations
I think a great first for many of the viewers of this video is to start exposing the hell out of your insecurities. It is extremely necessary that a man is able to laugh at himself if he is wrong. This is how men grow. They become self-conscious of their flaws laugh at them and become a better fucking person every fucking day. Another good step for men (and also women) to take would be to find the most masculine hobby which is authentic to them and release all the energy they have inside of them into this hobby. Some good examples of these hobbies include Brazilian jiu-jitsu, judo, weight lifting, sprinting, smashing things like blocks of wood, muay Thai, boxing, MMA, kick-boxing, taekwondo, drums, basketball, American football, rugby, wrestling and many many more. I wish everyone who watched this video the best of look throughout the rest of their life in being able to express their deep-seeded, true, natural and authentic masculine energy. Peace out everybody, all my love and prayers of support go out to all of you. 🤪😜😜💥💥🏈🥊💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀 ✌️
THIS IS VERY INTERESTING. I am an INFJ male ( comprising 0.5% of the population). We are known for being a paradox. Masculine yet famine. Confident in my identity, everything you described seem to match me except for the sex part. INFJ's are known for their authenticity. I value sex as an intimate experience and attract quite a number of women. I will not compromise my ideals to society or to anyone else. However if you read about INFJ's we are perfectionist and will not settle for anything we think we do not deserve, which can come off as "icy" and detached. Knowing that women seem to try harder to win my affection but many fail to meet my idealized standards. All in all I completely agree with everything you covered ( even the sex part) in terms of an objective and generalized point of view. I just wanted to share my perspective. Great videos keep up the great work!
I agree, I have a tip myself, travel solo, go places way outside your comfort zone, be willing to even confront some dangers within reason, nothing outright crazy or stupid, I have more comfort with who I am and more confidence just because I am living on my own, my life is number 1, my freedom to adventure, nothing else is as important, women are great for company and fill a need but they should never be something we depend on for meaning, that is what we need to assign to ourselves and the women will see it without you trying, that is authentic.
29 years old man over here, been acting totally feminine my whole life so far; this is all so important for me to learn of and act on!… I live in my small hometown, so I feel like I’ve got a very long way to go, but I’ll begin to take the steps a asap!
I think a lot of guys struggle with confidence issues. So, when a beautiful woman likes them and wants to hang out with them it creates so much happiness and a euphoric feelings that they continue to cling to it because it makes them happy. Everything else is boosted up, but it wasn't due to their goals, missions, etc. Being or talking with a gorgeous lady is intoxicating it really is, and when she likes a guy that isn't confident he forgets everything else and focuses on keeping that happiness. I know I have in the past. I stopped fighting for my life and gave up because she was everything that I wanted, but that's a bad roller coaster ride to be on. There were days that I was searching for intangible things from her to make me happy and it ruined my self. Being masculine and figuring out your mission besides a woman is the right way for a man to go. A man shouldn't float through life, he should grab life by the horns and conquer it, a woman will come into your life when you least expect it, but you have to expect to get all giddy and happy with her and that's when you need to stop and refocus. I'm not saying to be an a-hole to her, but don't make your happiness and your life revolve around her. You will only hurt yourself because she will see it in you, and lose attraction. Focus on your mission and goal in life. A woman will come into the picture to be a good addition to you, she will never and should never complete you.
Leo thank you! Thank you! I am grateful. My life has been blessed by your work. I took lots of notes and just shared this with my brothers and father. God bless you.
You are a prophet Leo, and I cant thank you enough for what your doing. The truth is not out there anymore, due to political agendas feminizing young males, you are a light in the darkness. I worte down everything you said, and will study and learn what you have so graciously given us.
George, actually you are closer to the One who created you right now than ever before. Just tap into your own soul you will see that it wants to connect to its creator. Ask forgoveness and pray a lot you will literally feel that angelic energy inside you. May Peace and Blessings be with you, salaam!
El Toro Thanks for the thought El Toro but I prefer to be closer to my wife of 38 years who cut me off from intimacy after 30 years because she discovered "exciting guys". Now I am the boring guy who did not satisfy her according to the definition provided by the "exciting guy" Not fair! "Horny guy"
Thanks Leo, I've been working very hard on personal development for about a year and its changed my life I've become a different person. Your videos are a big help, I've started to get a lot of female attention but have a huge boulder in front of me. I am 35 years old and still a virgin. Finding it very tough and am at the point of just withdrawing from life again.
SOme issues with this though: no man is an island. As men, we need intimacy, we need good friends. The concept of the stoic man who stifles his emotions (can't cry, can't show any ounce of vulnerability) makes men maladapt with loneliness and can lead to depression and higher suicide rates. A real man should also know how to submit, check his ego/pride for the greater good, otherwise you'll create a monster who goes about "fucking" the world but reaps destruction and havoc on himself and family.
Stoicism isn't about stifling your emotions...it's simply not being perpetually governed by them. there is a difference unless you're not thinking about it as a philosophy and you're simply using the mainstream understanding
HI,Leo.I've been watching your videos and reading alot of books the last 8 months and the amount of work is sooo awarding.I went from beeing a shy kid to having life porpouse beeing more confident and really having nothing in my life for which i can say "i can do nothing about this".I'm 18 years old and i feel i'm becoming more and more masculine.I know that if i have alot of women i FEEL that I'm going to be more confident and super masculine,but i have a girlfriend and things are going great.I am very sexual with her and in her eyes i am the man she wants (she is 3 years older btw) BUT i feel like a want to become SUPER masculine.I feel like I am doing great in life I am very happy and I am thankful for everything but i see myself comparing to some guys that are extremely masculine and do not even have a strong sense of direction.I really know i can improve without fucking tons of women but i can use an advise from you-where to look,how to become that macho so when i walk through the streets everyone feels this masculine energy.
The idea that sleeping with lots of women makes you more of a man is immature in my opinion and a cheapening and degrading of sex. It ignores the ancient wisdom that sex is wed to both fidelity and family. The privilege and pleasure of sex are meant to be attached to the responsibility of marriage and family. The idea that a man who marries a woman and is faithful to her is somehow less masculine than a man who philanders his way through life in an immoderate and self-centred way, leaving plenty of hurt behind him, is I think totally misconceived. It may be 'natural' even 'successful' with superficial women but so are many selfish things. I think the bad language is unnecessary.
Im a straight girl and I agree with every single point, even the "dont prioritize the girl" and "sleep with a lot of women". This doesnt mean you gotta be a jerk, some men over-pamper their girls too much and that just makes them, to be cruel, somewhat pathetic, like they got nothing else to do in their lives. Just be caring and attentive to your women but dont BE ABOUT THEM all the time.
Thank you so much for this video! I am 17 right now, I want to become a man and I will, my journey is great and who ever reads this, you are on the right track. We got this.
The problem of this video is that I see many contradictions with other stuff you say in other videos. For example youre saying being introverted you cant be a man, while it has nothing to do with each other. Plus, you criticized in your anti PUA video what youre saying in this video. Also I feel your description of a man really based on social conditioning.
I think the tough love to stop being a coward is an extremely important subject, as well as stabilize emotionally, I concur even with being focused on your job, just do your job in moderation, meaning yourself, don't be extreme, be grounded, be stable, be a mind and not a piece of meat.
There is no doubt that this video is very helpful to a lot of men, as The Way of The Superior Man was for me. I must say the more I got to know myself in the last two years through great amounts of journaling and self reflection, the more I have grown out of specific aspects of this approach because it is not entirely logical and comprehensive. I'll try to illustrate by making one argument: I totally agree that a masculine man has purpose, is grounded and detached, not being in need for company. It was quite remarkable for me to then hear you suggest having sex with lots and lots of women, as this is exactly seeking company and in fact trying to become happier and more of a man through using women. This is a contradiction and I think I have a good idea of where that comes from and why Leo probably doesn't want to recognize that fact and, so I hypothesize and I might be totally wrong, tries to reinforce the mythology at the end by assuming that we all know it's right. Sorry, but it doesn't make sense to me. I am in my early twenties and never had a girlfriend, and am less and less needy for company and distraction. I have good reason and evidence to support my belief that I don't need to fuck a lot of women in order to become the man that I want to be - this would be against my core values anyway. I suggest people check out material on the r vs K selection theory applied to society and politics as this gave me tremendous insights into why some people tend to sleep around, and others seem to not have this desire. Happy to hear responses! Cheers
Paraphrasing some the dialog to illustrate a point: Wife (or Girlfriend: G): I sometimes think you would be happier without me. Husband (or Boyfriend: B): I don't need no woman to be happy. Wife (G): What did you say, you're my best friend. Husband (B): I don't really need friends. I am not defined by my friends. I have some fine, if I had more or less wouldn't change who I am as a person. The outcome of my life is determined by my self, my core sense of self. What I put into or take from the world. Wife (G): What is wrong you, I thought I knew who you were? Husband (B): I am a real man. Wife (G): Sounds more like a self-centered narcissist to me. Husband (B): So, I don't car what you think of me. I am me. Take it or leave it. Every body is selfish to some degree. We all have to be selfish in many ways to survive or get what we want. Wife (G): No, we don't. Principles other than self preservation, exist. You are not the only person who exists. Compromise, giving, self-sacrifice, community, loyalty... Husband (B): ... Whoa, hold on there. You are wasting your breath, effort and words trying to define me; or what you think society tells you what qualities I should possess. Fuck society and their rules. I live by my own. Wife (G): You are blowing my mind. Makes me wonder if my belief that your loyal and faithful is true? Husband (B): I fuck the world. And by that I mean at work, in my career and sure other women. I am faithful. It is that you just don't understand what it is to be a man, that I am faithful to my masculine core of being. I could go on... but do I need to? Don't get your man panties in a bunch, that thought was posted just for humor.
I am 23 years old, I did a lot of self-work and the most of that you said fits to me perfectly. I am independent, proactive, very confident, I'm working on amazing things, hyped of living, and suprisingly... I didn't ever fuck a girl, and I'm totally comfortable with that. Cheers!
here is the thing, most of my actions are viewed completely different to others. For Example: At work, my obsession with perfection is viewed by some as insecurities. My Respect is viewed as weakness and my avoidance to confrontation is viewed as being passive. Now, I will say this: I lack impulse control, In a state of anger I re-act rather than think things through and most often than not, I regret nothing.
Haha i became a man ever since i turned 15 years old (was sorta forced to start becoming one because circumstances but i'm thankful for that) and did all the exploring I could've done and pushed all the comfort zones i had through out the years (I still got comfort zones now like every one else has) now I'm 20 years old and I want to focus on "mastery". PURPOSE+PASSION+CAREER+ACTION is my soul focus at the moment and I'm really committed to making sure I find my ultimate true purpose while creating a FUCKING extraordinary life for myself. One day I want to wake up one morning, with solid amount of money in my bank account, Living by myself in a nice condo with white walls etc and say "I'am actually living a dream I created in my mind" and go ahead and live that life to the fullest.
+humanyoda No one starts out with a self created ego. It is shaped by our circumstances, experiences, and biology. Think of your ego as a memeplex. Many of one's fundamental concepts about self and reality are actually just inherited from your surroundings. When you dismantle your ego, you find what is actually you vs. what is just baggage that isn't part of who you are, but it feels like it because you've been carrying it for so long.
+smashstuff86 I understand that. My point was that in this video Leo promotes having a strong identity (and to me, this is closely related to ego), but in the other video he advocates dismantling the ego.
Leo I have completely taken this information and ran with it and it has change my life so quickly its incredible. I replay this video everyday visualizing my self with all of these traits! I have had had a complete shift in my perception and it feels amazing its like the real me has finally came out! Thank you!
The crazy reasoning of women is: ”The manlier you are, the more hurtful you are to us 😭” But, at the same schizoid time.. ”The more manlier you are, the more we fall in love with you ❤️” Aww... so cute ☺️🙃
I was born in a single parent family and lived with my mum...I was taught to be a good and polite person who always respects others than himself more...now after a few bad experiences I've figured that I am always perceived as a feminine man and I'm trying to change it this video helped a lot thanks
Yeah, all this probably sounds good for most men. A few points are well put, like being honest and develop an easy sexuality. But besides that the talk quickly tries to sell a quite backwards, traditional, stereotype picture of masculinity. Yes, there are some attributes we tend to put on the male side like being extrovert, not emotional, self-content or over-self-confident etc. but this is definitely only a very cinematic simplistic and sometimes ridiculous ideal of masculinity (reminds me of 70s James Bond movies). Indeed it is a patriarchal dogma. Not the only truth in the real world, not the only ideal to follow, and please not the dominant masculine part of future societies. I'm pretty sure, most modern women find this way of life attractive as well for themselves.
+Jevin Randhawa There is no such thing as absolute truth. What you call truth is just your personal view on reality. And there is no logic in the video above. It's only repeated personal views without any proof or backup. It just tells a fantasy you like over and over again. That's not enough in my eyes. Where is the army of female viewers, who think this video is the absolute truth?
Don't listen to Nasferatu here! A real man does not need to be told how to be a man...nor does he compare himself to others or instruct others how to be real men unless he has self esteem issues. Only 'boys' think this way.
I can agree with what you say. I feel like masculinity should come natural and not specifically to any gender. Just simply take control of your own life
I have never subscribed to a youtube channel, until now. This video was brilliant and I have a HUGE amount of respect for you for saying what you are saying. In a world where people want to be politically correct this is a pure genius. Thank you for creating this video for men to help guide them in their life. Keep up the great work.
If you got to get in touch with your masculinity....yikes. Getting in touch with your masculinity already sounds pretty femmy. Learn how to box or martial arts or work on cars. Don't put up with peoples shit. Even if you arent a good fighter, people will respect you for sticking up for yourself, even fighters will. Actually, especially fighters will. Don't cry in front of people. Learn how to fight. Good enough, the rest will come, don't overthink. By the way: Ive known a lot of men from boxing, the military, etc...none of them ever thought about sex as "injecting the world" I mean...wow. Some of this makes sense but I don't think this guy knows enough real men.
You mentioned in one of your earlier videos that you had to put down nonfiction books in order to go over them, well I had to sit my laptop down because of how directly this resonated. Youre bringing clarity to all of the foggy questions that I was slowly progressing in. And these thoughts are the roots to all other questions and essentially my thoughts in general.
@@jordy7625 when you live life from one woman to the other you only enjoy one part of being with a woman and even with that said it wasn't meant to be enjoyed hopping from one woman to another.
1. ' be a man' this phrase should be written out of the consciousness of mankind. It means nothing and creates a lot of problems for men. I was born a man....nature already took care of it thank you! Masculine energy expresses it's self naturally....and gets greater the more the man loves him self and everyone else. Masculinity is not something that is created. Every human is born perfect. 2. 'psychology' is child's play and we don't need it for the purposes of attraction. It is only for people who don't know 'love'.
I have done a lot of soul searching and have even read "way of the suprior man" that Leo spoke about... This man speaks the truth... you wont believe how your life will change once you dig more deeply...
Yes, this is ego. Gender is largely ego and hormone defined. If you drop all that (which I think is great) you have nothing left to talk about as far as being a man. Then you are just a "being". That's all great, but most men just want to be told how to be a better egoic man.
Antoni Tescaro Nah, women just care about you being non-needy and fun. You'll be totally non-needy and you can still be fun. Women will love you even more.
Women do love dominance and leadership especially in the bedroom, surely dropping masculinity will lead to a decrease in these qualities and hence attraction?
Wow, Leo, thank you so much. Your videos really changed my life... Your "Golden Nuggets" represents years of study and work, and I really appreciate them. Thanks to your videos I'm so more grounded and confident, just a few minutes before writing this I decided to be a biologist, and what I want to do in that career is something similar to what you've done here. I want to make gold nuggets for the next generations. And besides that, to have a really complete, powerful and masculine life. So, yeah, thanks for the gold, and think that with your help I'm going to make more golden nuggets that someone will eventually take and make another golden nugget and the chain never stops. It's a deep concept, the help through centuries. All I can say to you is to keep making these videos, these Golden Nuggets. They are so valuable, not just by themselves, but for the potential they contain for others to make more golden nuggets. Thanks!
Some interesting insights, but I have some counter-points. I would say that the word "f**k" is inherently unmanly to use when speaking about women because the word almost always suggests a lack of care and tenderness for the woman with whom a man is having sex. Vulgar language like that contradicts that message of giving - it has a connotation of "taking." Real men take care of women and treat them as people, not as objects. Real men are faithful to one woman that they have deep care and tenderness for, and that's who he makes love to - he makes love with her, he doesn't "f***" her. Real men know how to control themselves. This is my opinion, but I also think it seems unfitting for a real gentlemen to use such nasty language. Don't get me wrong, using crass language does not make you a terrible person, and oftentimes such speech is just a habit, but the English language has such a rich collection of great and sometimes very eccentric words... it just degrades the mind to not make use of these and instead riddle sentence upon sentence with crass words. A man should be able to keep his tongue clean and respectful out of courtesy for those around him. Many will find such things distasteful and will not enjoy your company if you can't speak without swearing. So, some interesting principles in the video, but I think that almost everything in here about sex is very suspect and will easily spiral into selfishness, seeing women as objects, and creating a lot of hurt for women. It's as if its all dressed up as "being a man" as an excuse for men to rationalize the indiscriminate seeking of their own gratification. I know the idea is that this view of sex will allow a man to give more pleasure to more people, and be more confident in bed, but carnal pleasure isn't all there is to sex. Women want exclusivity, whether they deny it or not. Also, wouldn't the best way to be confident/"comfortable" in bed be to only have sex with someone you really know deeply and intimately on a personal level, and can be fully vulnerable with, and to grow your sex life with them over a lifetime? Because sex is a profoundly vulnerable thing! It doesn't make sense to do the most *bodily* vulnerable thing with someone if you are not vulnerable and intimate with them *emotionally, mentally, personally, etc.* But anyways, pleasure isn't the most important thing. Women want exclusivity deep down. Men should respect their woman and passionately pursue her, and they'll find that she's all they want anyways. I would also like to point out a potential flaw in the planting seeds analogy. Yes, planting seeds in the world that will blossom into good is great. Planting your seed in every woman you can, though? That will lead to broken families, fatherless children, disease, and lots of hurt. All that instant gratification will not be worth all the lifelong complications and strains. Imagine working out all the Christmases years down the line :P. You might argue that contraception gets rid of this problem, but in my experience contraception itself just seems to contradict manliness and love. Firstly, it contradicts manliness because the way I understand it manliness involves taking responsibility, providing, and being accountable for your actions. Children take a lot of hard work to raise, but they are also one of life's greatest joys. The culture is trying to obscure that fact. Secondly, contracepting contradicts love because it's like telling the other person, "I love you, but not enough to be a parent with you" or "I give myself to you completely... except my fertility." In that case, is it really a deep love in the first place? The pill also has a whole bunch of horrible effects, like changing what type of man a woman is attracted to, making it harder to conceive later on when one decides they want to - and ironically it decreases sexual interest in the first place since it messes with the woman's cycle. You might say it's an okay thing for people that are young and aren't ready to be parents together. But if you're not ready to be a parent, are you really ready to do the "parent-making" act? Children should be taught by their parents and protected from giving their virginity away before they have had the opportunity to learn about what sex really means. Teens are treating it too casually because the culture and popular sexual education says that it is just a bodily thing with little depth or meaning. I believe it was a 2003 study by the National Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy that revealed that around 75% of teenage girls, and around 60% of teenage boys regret losing their vrginity and wish they had waited. I should also note one more interesting thing - a study by the Institute of Family Studies actually found that the chances for divorce in early marriage are at their lowest when the spouses have had no premarital sexual partners. (Here's a link to a chart: www.google.com/search?q=chances+of+divorce+after+five+years+of+marriage+by+marriage+cohort+and+number+of+premarital+sexual+partners&safe=active&rlz=1C1CHBF_enUS862US862&sxsrf=ALeKk01yucLWlcdUh3xp4YQxqocdlMDOzg:1623359525256&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwj2u-G-_Y3xAhV2Ap0JHRtYBVkQ_AUoAXoECAEQAw&biw=1536&bih=722#imgrc=AbO2kxgnI5uNnM). People talk about the divorce rate as if it's a coin-flip, which is ridiculous. You get to choose what camp you're in. It starts with not making a rash choice of partner in the first place, and resolving to mutually commit and support the other in good times and in bad. It requires knowing what marriage really is (Hint: it's not all about passion and feelings as Hollywood has subtly taught young people). Once in the marriage itself, staying in the 50% that stays together is acheived through hard work and dedication. I personally also think it requires help from God. Anyways, those are my takes. I know it's chock-full of controversial topics. Feel free to disagree. I just feel very passionately about these things, and want to talk about what I think is the truth. God Bless and always strive for excellence and integrity.
I have done a lot of personal development over the years, and this video is life changing for me. The ideas feel so right! It feels like I have found my missing piece. I know I have. Thank you so much Leo!
Never had a masculine figure in my life to guide me, Buh I’ve successfully grown into a man to the best I can, still got more to improve tho , buh I’ve achieved a lot without even acknowledging, I am a Man
He always says he has studied so much of psychology. I thought he is a true professional and then I see a video him saying a true man is the one who has sex with a woman and with many women. Yeah, credibility went there.
Why are people posting negative comments on this video. This information is priceless and it helped me a lot. Thank you! If you read these comments, truly listen and subscribe to his channel.
This attitude is typical of a man who is naturally effeminate. Cast a glance at the chap's face, his build, listen to his voice; his physiology is not that of an alpha male. Heartbroken by his own nature, he overcompensates. A man's focus should not be on getting women, it should be on his work, his purpose. And when he pursues his passions, women will align with him. But if he aspires to be more than a gathering place for women, and if he wishes to interact with women on more than a physical level, then he should foster the femininity within himself too. Balance is everything. Balance is power.
My sister raised me to be tender, but to also stay true to myself, i found out that being this way i got more women, and i was much more fulfulled as a person. I have a lot to brag about now, like how i was with 3 women at the same time, having sex every day. Its been an amazing time. Im only 22.
girls r not different from guys but we we grow up differently . socialy unhealthy .... humans r humans no difference in feelings ,in wants and ways of thinking ...but just in sexual things we r not the same .but as person we r the same ...there are many types of personalties it doesnt matter "a guy or a girl "... a girl is a girl nd there is nothing makes her as she is not ..a guy also the same ... just be urself and if being a man is all those great things well who said that the girl shouldnt be like that same need... the part 2 of how to be a man is better than these stereotype shackled within the community .... ppl need to get rid of these shits that makes them not expressing the real self ... growth is not for only guys .. these higher needs leo talks abt in his videos r not for guys more than girls ... i cant understand how u deal with girls like a "toy acting a role" she is a complete person thats unfair same thing with a guy when he must be a stone.. but being a stone is better than being silly and hv less purpose in life .. like a girl living for a guy .. thats how it sounds and it is humiliating acually this feels like less important...... we have same way of thinking ... just if we changed the momys and dadys way of dealing with thier girls we will have a real stronger base of growing comunity and we will help girls alot to have wat leo is talking abt.. trust me girls r stuck in shit just because thats wat normal or thats wat attractive ... maybe there r many of it like yeah its who we r .. but really not in this stereotype way we see .. also as guys same thing stereotypes hacks thier brains .
+Hala Shahoud Men and women are far from the same things with the same potential! Women and Men have dramatically different natural skills, instincts and emotions regardless of how they are raised. Women are much better at certain things than men and vice versa, denying the fact that we are different is just counterproductive and delusional. Embrace your gender and the elements of it that are exclusive to it! It's ok that we are different, in fact it's essential for the advancement of the species, if were the same we would have been extinct long ago!
I think that femininity is about self-expression (which is emotionally based), and that masculinity is about self-restraint. All masculinity is rooted in dignity. The more a man restrains himself, for the sake of dignity, the more he becomes selfless, and thus, allows dignity to eminate through his being. Dignity is perfect structural integrity governed by organized perfection. Selfless self-restraint and control over your emotions and your selfish desires builds you in dignity. Dignity is unshakable. This are all masculine qualities, and they are all rooted in dignity.
Coming from someone who’s constantly bin called “very naturally masculine” it’s all fun and game until you just intimidate people and everything you do and everywhere you go has to escalate .. it’s not as fun as you think always having to hold your self back
What an awesome video. You totally hit the nail on the head espcially with the part on sex. I'm 28 now going on 29 and I totally feel it in my gut that I'm putting my shit together slowly. I grew up in a feminine oriented environment, I had to travel and do fucked up stuff to find myself and I'm proud of it!
6 years after originally watching this my life has changed. I came back to comment to report my progress. My own everything, been with tons of girls, traveled. I've been authentic to myself it's no greater feeling. Thanks for this advice Leo!
Being introvert means not what you think it does. It just means that you spend your energy when you interact with people, rather that you gain energy when you interact with people, like extroverts do. It has literally nothing to do with shyness or anything like that. I am introverted, but I am also confident. I will speak my opinion if needed, I am expressive, I am authentic and all the other stuff you mentioned.
Do you go out often? For me personally, I don't take it as an "us" vs "them". If I feel the extroverts have something that I want, then I'll become one and do things that extroverts do. I don't see the point in drawing a line in the sand & saying "I'm an introvert" & that I'm somehow programmed into this boxed-in area of staying indoors.
shitmandood No, I don't go out because I think of it as a waste of time and energy. I do not enjoy partying, clubbing and alike at all. I prefer one to one interaction, not masses of people. Yet I do not judge extroverts for doing that. Everyone to its own. People always assume that their way of doing things is right for everyone, where it's not.
Glassland You're already casting judgement when you state that "People always assume what's right for everyone." You are making a distinction for introvert and extrovert & spoon-feeding yourself a story of why you CANT do something. How does doing nothing, trying nothing, help you further with your self-development goals or skills?
I've seen extreme introversion. People bottle up indoors & pretty soon they turn into recluses. It's not a pretty sight. There is an unhealthy disconnect when you withdraw yourself from your fellow man. Hell, the only reason people can do it now is because the Internet made it possible. You wouldn't have been able to live like this before the Internet. You would be forced to live in the world & that is a healthy balance.
Two years ago, I used to feed myself stories about why I couldn't go out such as:
1.) People will see me alone & think I'm strange.
2.) I'll wait for my friends to become available on the weekend when I visit in another town.
3.) I'll feel uncomfortable around strangers.
4.) I'll run into a lot of assholes.
5.) Somebody will laugh at me.
Well after a lot of contemplation, I realized I just had to say fuck it. And do it.
I got a few nice clothes to wear & then would go out & drive around at night to eat at different places or hang around in different bars. I'd feel almost sad at myself for saying "Table for 1" & sitting down, eating alone, & that feeling of all eyes on me as the 'weird one'. But I didn't give up. I forced myself to keep doing it. Sometimes I'd meet some interesting women or make new friends with other guys. Other times, I'd get nothing & females that I thought were friendly, turned cold. One time, even one of the so-called male friends threatened me when he got drunk enough. But I didn't let any of that deter me. I just kept going out twice a week.
So what are the positive results of me doing this? Well I can tell you now that it hasn't bothered me at all, even after the first 6 months, I look forward to it. When I go ask for Table for 1, I have a smile on my face. What people think of me no longer matters. I saw quite a few of this generation simply reading their smart phones anyway, so they can barely notice that I'm in the room. I've had women come up to me & start telling me everything about themselves. Reason: they see a man come into the room, he's alone, he has a good attitude & it's going to make him mysterious by default, which is attractive for women. They'll be thinking: "Why is he here? Why is he alone? Nobody does that! He must be strong & capable to have such fortitude."
It was the same with the gym. I had to force myself to enter a gym. There are people there & since I was weak, I'll look pitiful. The same principles apply as to going out on your own. You just won't care. You'll start to realize that nobody else cares either, nobody is noticing you. They're all wrapped up in themselves & their egos, but on the whole, you can make new friends & learn new things by doing this & what was alien to me before now seems pretty normal. If I quit doing it however, I'm pretty sure I'll go back into that withdrawn mode. I figure you have to do these activities for 10 years to make it a natural part of your being, to get to a point where you aren't forced into doing it, you just do it naturally without thinking.
That's why I don't really like the idea of introvert & extrovert. In the 3rd world, people can't afford to be introverts. The society doesn't allow it. In response, people grow because they have to. You've been given a choice & choosing the path of least resistance, becoming a shut-in, simply stunts your growth & in my opinion is completely ass-backwards in self-development goals. Self-development should be about trying new things, not mental masturbatory material that you watch while sipping chamomile tea in safety.
shitmandood Glad your life is good, but no: I am not spoonfeeding myself any story.
I know my limits, I know I can go beyond them, I know my interests, I know that most people are excruciatingly stupid and not worth of my attention, I know that this sounds arrogant. I am not wrapped up in my ego or in my fears, I have learned to grow beyond that in the last year or so. I know that social interaction with people drains me and that being alone, reading and contemplating energizes me. Don't be arrogant in thinking that you know my truth, because no one knows anything really. Everyone is wrapped up in his own conclusions about life, most rather indoctrinated with dogma than developing their own, but the same principle lies beneath. Realize that you know not. You never will. Knowing is impossible. You just believe to know the truth of everything. This is my truth.
Glassland
It doesn't sound arrogant. It is arrogant. You're also generalizing by saying "most people". Who exactly? You said so yourself: you're introverted. So who is it that you have met that was "excruciatingly stupid" in your seldom-done/seldom-seen outgoing travels? Was it 10-20 years ago? Was it people checking out your groceries who don't want to be there in the first place? Or was it people on the beach, enjoying the same vacation that you were also on? Or foreigners?
And when you meet people for the first time, you're only seeing the surface. They're not going to open up their whole world & divulge meaning for you, just so that you may feel pleased to bask in their presence.
You're basically stating that you have contempt for humanity because you don't have any patience with someone the moment you suspect, or judge, they are non-intellectuals. That's very contrived & unnatural. You're putting forth a lot of energy just to create this negative barrier. Why can't you just let things be without feeling an emotional snap judgement at all?
You keep generalizing again. You state that everyone is wrapped up in their own conclusions about life & indoctrinated with dogma. That concept is called the "limiting belief system". It's true that everyone starts out that way, everyone has a story that they tell themselves. The TRUTH is that you have to recognize those as limiting beliefs!! That you have to move past "the truth". Your Truth is nothing more than a set of limiting beliefs:
1.) I can't socialize because I think everyone is stupid.
2.) I've classified myself as an introvert, therefore I can't do extroverted things.
3.) My 'energy levels' are drained when I speak to people.
4.) Everyone is indoctrinated and will follow their indoctrination forever.
These are all walls that your ego defense system is telling you in order to keep you from changing. So I guess you are watching self-help videos for mental masturbation without a care or want in the world to actually try the things that are said, only to disagree & rationalize it away. More power to you, bro.
Being a man is responsibility. Being a man is not about dominance. If you are a young man growing up, dont worry about fucking the world, worry about your responsibilities to those around you.
1. A real man is 100% Authentic 3:00
a. Be open about your insecurities and problems
b. Do not hide something from someone in order not to insult him. Do not be too polite
c. Do not be afraid to express yourself (About giving)
d. You should have nothing to hide
2. A man is emotionally stable 4:10
a. He is grounded and unreactive
b. He lives by principles and values
c. He has a strong sense of Identity
3. A man is happy by himself 6:22
a. He is completely independent
b. He constructs his own awesome life for himself
4. A man is in tune with his sexuality 7:28
a. He takes sex for completely normal
b. He has no limiting beliefs and ideologies about sex
c. As man you want to f@ck the world. If you do not f@ck the world the you do not really f@ck your girl either. You need to give yourself into the world.
5. A man needs to have a purpose in life 11:22
a. His gift to the world is very important
b. He has to penetrate into the world. To live life at his fullest potential
I took this advice 5+ years ago & my life has never been the same. Thanks Leo... Men actually take his advice. It works!!!
this might have been the best video I've found on masculinity and identity, something I've been struggling with since I left the military
If you liked this video, be sure to check out my related videos:
1) How To Make A Girl Fall In Love With You - What Girls Really Want
2) How To Be More Confident - A Step-by-Step Process for Becoming Truly Confident
3) How To Be Attractive - The Ultimate Attraction Strategy
4) Healthy Relationships - What You MUST Know To Sustain A Great Relationship
5) How To Overcome Shyness - Transform Yourself Into An Extrovert
"If you don't take action, I'm going to be upset." That's not very icy, Leo.
That's care to his clients
Not being icy, he's being empathetic
Thank you man. I'm 6ft4 and 200 pounds i still see my self as a boy. I need change.
That's freakin huge💪💪
What has happened since then?
I never grew up. Child in a mans body.
Wonder if he ever brought change to himself 🤔🤷🏻♂️
If you have to tell someone you're masculine, you're not.
Leo, even at 50, I can relate to your advice, and am applying it with short term results! Still have a way to go, but am very confident that I will succeed in the near future. I was really down in an all-time low when I came across a few of your videos, and have been improving tremendously with logical choices ever since. Many thanks!
Impressive. Good to see it :)
" As a man, he wants to fuck the world" at 8:30. LOL I was laughing so hard. I totally agree but just the way he said it was funny
I watched this one years ago. Got recommended.
Leo you look so young here.
Still a masterpiece.
I shared this video with my son.
I have been watching you since 2014.
Thanks Leo!
Show your son ”Redpill” videos, i think it will make him a much stronger man
@@David-py9wr can you send me link of that video?
Honor and provide for your family, love your woman and accept the actions of your choices! That's a real man!
My dad didn't teach me how to be a man so I have to resort to this :(
Nocturnal my father said he didn’t need his father so I shouldn’t need mine. Now I gotta learn all this shit on my own. Thanks dad.
Dave Gill same for me as well!!!!
Me either🙍. I was born authetic tho.🤷
My dad was penetrating the world and my mother devorced him...
Well dont be sorry for a human that expressed himself.Thats what he supposed to do.Relax child........
Iwanttobeaplayer
Penetrating the world figuratively or penetrating other people physically?
Cause He was penetrating it from its arsse
My father did likewise and my mother divorced him.
That just means your old man got married for the wrong reasons... oh well, you can’t complain.. here you are. Live your life and let him live his. You’ll probably thank him one day.
"True Masculinity" doesn't exist. It's just a concept of an ideal. And that ideal differs from culture to culture, from century to century and possibly even from individual to individual. Everything else is just imagination.
Lost my father from cancer when i was 17, i was the oldest of the family. Now I'm 30, i just discovered i was missing the instruction from him, thanks for covering some of the things I never thought about. Made me realize a lot.
Being in the the mid-twenty, I've already experienced whatever you've said in this video is absolutely true.
Thank you for summarizing perfectly.
(I've never left a comment in a youtube video before. This is the first time I'm doing it taking lessons from the video: As a man one needs to express himself ; and also the video is worth appreciating!)
This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you sir. The part that surprised me was the bit where you talked about having sex with a lot of women. I figured it out the hard way that this is TRUE. Because when I was still a virgin, I COULDN'T get LAID! Couldn't get a girlfriend, nobody wanted to be around me. I swear, telling a girl you're a virgin turns her off like a light switch, INSTANTLY. Then I had sex with more and felt more and more confident and comfortable. All the while my pussy friends are telling me I'm some kind of slut and I need to just find one girl and get married. But the thing with that is the girl of my dreams will NEVER be into me unless I accumulate this experience and man myself up. Then I'll be more comfortable with my sexuality and meeting hotter women. I need to stop hanging out with guys who tell me the wrong shit.
+cDynasty001 I don't know why, women don't like guys with a lot of experience. They look bad. I would prefer a virgin, that's just me though.
samantha wilson Well I couldn't get laid the first 26 years of my life due to lack of experience. And when I almost lost my virginity, I told the girl that I was a virgin and she wanted nothing to do with me after that. Then when I finally lost it, I lied and said I've had a couple girl friends. Then we fucked all night
your picking the wrong women, that is just weird. Most decent women don't want a guy with a lot of experience. Maybe SOME but not a lot. the first 26 years? I find it very hard to believe, especially as a teenager. Most teen girls wouldn't want a guy who has had sex.
He’s not wrong bro, my mind shifts when I have sex. For the better because it’s a positive experience to know a woman submits her most vulnerable being to your lead. Don’t let women misguide you, your friends you speak of probably don’t have enough experiences within groups of men that encourage you to conquer and also strategize open mindedness. Women however, they’re the blooming of the fruit. All of the greatest men of all time always had multiple women. Because women need proof before they award you. That’s the key takeaway I gathered from the video above. Thanks for sharing bros.
Most of the haters in this comments don't understand the sense of the video. The topic is the man psychology, a deep study about it, and haters believe that is only random hyphotesis. Guys, you have to study and analyze before to judge.
I have to say. I was raised by woman, grew up dorky and fat, and became a 6'3" 220 man's man, with 3 beautiful little girls, and their lovely mother. I got lost, knew everything I knew, and still got lost. Thank you for helping. being a man is hard. Being a "real" man is harder. thank you for having the courage to say it as it is.
Thank you. I really needed to hear this.
***** i've been doing more things i was afraid to do like talking to women and taking on challenges that i was afraid i'd fail at. it's not a HUGE change but i notice some days i don't beat myself up as much as before and learning to be more comfortable in uncomfortable situations
@@rturae what changed since then?
I think a great first for many of the viewers of this video is to start exposing the hell out of your insecurities. It is extremely necessary that a man is able to laugh at himself if he is wrong. This is how men grow. They become self-conscious of their flaws laugh at them and become a better fucking person every fucking day.
Another good step for men (and also women) to take would be to find the most masculine hobby which is authentic to them and release all the energy they have inside of them into this hobby. Some good examples of these hobbies include Brazilian jiu-jitsu, judo, weight lifting, sprinting, smashing things like blocks of wood, muay Thai, boxing, MMA, kick-boxing, taekwondo, drums, basketball, American football, rugby, wrestling and many many more.
I wish everyone who watched this video the best of look throughout the rest of their life in being able to express their deep-seeded, true, natural and authentic masculine energy.
Peace out everybody, all my love and prayers of support go out to all of you. 🤪😜😜💥💥🏈🥊💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀
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this video completely changed the way i act think and feel thank you
THIS IS VERY INTERESTING. I am an INFJ male ( comprising 0.5% of the population). We are known for being a paradox. Masculine yet famine. Confident in my identity, everything you described seem to match me except for the sex part. INFJ's are known for their authenticity. I value sex as an intimate experience and attract quite a number of women. I will not compromise my ideals to society or to anyone else. However if you read about INFJ's we are perfectionist and will not settle for anything we think we do not deserve, which can come off as "icy" and detached. Knowing that women seem to try harder to win my affection but many fail to meet my idealized standards. All in all I completely agree with everything you covered ( even the sex part) in terms of an objective and generalized point of view. I just wanted to share my perspective. Great videos keep up the great work!
I agree, I have a tip myself, travel solo, go places way outside your comfort zone, be willing to even confront some dangers within reason, nothing outright crazy or stupid, I have more comfort with who I am and more confidence just because I am living on my own, my life is number 1, my freedom to adventure, nothing else is as important, women are great for company and fill a need but they should never be something we depend on for meaning, that is what we need to assign to ourselves and the women will see it without you trying, that is authentic.
googleiscomplicated I second this
29 years old man over here, been acting totally feminine my whole life so far; this is all so important for me to learn of and act on!… I live in my small hometown, so I feel like I’ve got a very long way to go, but I’ll begin to take the steps a asap!
FANTASTIC knowledge Leo man.
+Geekdom101 the hell xD this was a surprise
Bro xD geekdom get back to ur dbz videos
Fancy meeting you here Geekdom
Wow man.. this is the biggest plot twist
@@mylightinyoureyes8792 LMAO!! I felt the same way
I think a lot of guys struggle with confidence issues. So, when a beautiful woman likes them and wants to hang out with them it creates so much happiness and a euphoric feelings that they continue to cling to it because it makes them happy. Everything else is boosted up, but it wasn't due to their goals, missions, etc. Being or talking with a gorgeous lady is intoxicating it really is, and when she likes a guy that isn't confident he forgets everything else and focuses on keeping that happiness. I know I have in the past. I stopped fighting for my life and gave up because she was everything that I wanted, but that's a bad roller coaster ride to be on. There were days that I was searching for intangible things from her to make me happy and it ruined my self. Being masculine and figuring out your mission besides a woman is the right way for a man to go. A man shouldn't float through life, he should grab life by the horns and conquer it, a woman will come into your life when you least expect it, but you have to expect to get all giddy and happy with her and that's when you need to stop and refocus. I'm not saying to be an a-hole to her, but don't make your happiness and your life revolve around her. You will only hurt yourself because she will see it in you, and lose attraction. Focus on your mission and goal in life. A woman will come into the picture to be a good addition to you, she will never and should never complete you.
Leo thank you! Thank you! I am grateful. My life has been blessed by your work. I took lots of notes and just shared this with my brothers and father. God bless you.
Thanks for sharing.
You are a prophet Leo, and I cant thank you enough for what your doing. The truth is not out there anymore, due to political agendas feminizing young males, you are a light in the darkness. I worte down everything you said, and will study and learn what you have so graciously given us.
It is out there, it's just hard to find sometimes. My pleasure :)
I wish I had this information 60 years ago! Now I am 80 and I guess it is too late for me?
80?! Well, that's pretty high up there. I'm probly not well-qualified to give advice to you.
Actualized.org What is the full list for priories in a man's life?
George, actually you are closer to the One who created you right now than ever before. Just tap into your own soul you will see that it wants to connect to its creator. Ask forgoveness and pray a lot you will literally feel that angelic energy inside you. May Peace and Blessings be with you, salaam!
El Toro Thanks for the thought El Toro but I prefer to be closer to my wife of 38 years who cut me off from intimacy after 30 years because she discovered "exciting guys". Now I am the boring guy who did not satisfy her according to the definition provided by the "exciting guy" Not fair! "Horny guy"
Surely you are not to old sir
And dont let age put you down
And hold your realself in prison
Its sort of cancer in modern world
I can honestly say Im far away from truly being a man. But watching this video was the first step in the right direction
Very good info and very true. Thank you.
Thanks Leo, I've been working very hard on personal development for about a year and its changed my life I've become a different person. Your videos are a big help, I've started to get a lot of female attention but have a huge boulder in front of me. I am 35 years old and still a virgin. Finding it very tough and am at the point of just withdrawing from life again.
3:51 Best Leo dance. "Begin and begin kind of begin with the flow."
+Root :D
+Root its being not begin
I can't believe that this channel doesn't have 1 million subscribers yet.
I found his advise genuine and it makes you really think!
Good stuff Leo!
SOme issues with this though: no man is an island. As men, we need intimacy, we need good friends. The concept of the stoic man who stifles his emotions (can't cry, can't show any ounce of vulnerability) makes men maladapt with loneliness and can lead to depression and higher suicide rates. A real man should also know how to submit, check his ego/pride for the greater good, otherwise you'll create a monster who goes about "fucking" the world but reaps destruction and havoc on himself and family.
Well said!
You have to be very careful. Your ego might get you and you do more talking than doing, then you get lonely and start depending on woman.
Stoicism isn't about stifling your emotions...it's simply not being perpetually governed by them. there is a difference unless you're not thinking about it as a philosophy and you're simply using the mainstream understanding
Exactly +collins mugodo. He's not implying that men should stifle their emotions +Blackwiz.
HI,Leo.I've been watching your videos and reading alot of books the last 8 months and the amount of work is sooo awarding.I went from beeing a shy kid to having life porpouse beeing more confident and really having nothing in my life for which i can say "i can do nothing about this".I'm 18 years old and i feel i'm becoming more and more masculine.I know that if i have alot of women i FEEL that I'm going to be more confident and super masculine,but i have a girlfriend and things are going great.I am very sexual with her and in her eyes i am the man she wants (she is 3 years older btw) BUT i feel like a want to become SUPER masculine.I feel like I am doing great in life I am very happy and I am thankful for everything but i see myself comparing to some guys that are extremely masculine and do not even have a strong sense of direction.I really know i can improve without fucking tons of women but i can use an advise from you-where to look,how to become that macho so when i walk through the streets everyone feels this masculine energy.
"to penetrate the world"- XD
awesome metaphor
Core confidence only comes when you are no longer dependent of the outcome.
This is solid. Thanks!
I believe in Leo because when I put this into action I feel more powerful and fulfilled
The idea that sleeping with lots of women makes you more of a man is immature in my opinion and a cheapening and degrading of sex. It ignores the ancient wisdom that sex is wed to both fidelity and family. The privilege and pleasure of sex are meant to be attached to the responsibility of marriage and family. The idea that a man who marries a woman and is faithful to her is somehow less masculine than a man who philanders his way through life in an immoderate and self-centred way, leaving plenty of hurt behind him, is I think totally misconceived. It may be 'natural' even 'successful' with superficial women but so are many selfish things. I think the bad language is unnecessary.
Im a straight girl and I agree with every single point, even the "dont prioritize the girl" and "sleep with a lot of women". This doesnt mean you gotta be a jerk, some men over-pamper their girls too much and that just makes them, to be cruel, somewhat pathetic, like they got nothing else to do in their lives. Just be caring and attentive to your women but dont BE ABOUT THEM all the time.
Wanna be a real man?..go learn the HAKA!!
Thank you so much for this video! I am 17 right now, I want to become a man and I will, my journey is great and who ever reads this, you are on the right track. We got this.
The problem of this video is that I see many contradictions with other stuff you say in other videos. For example youre saying being introverted you cant be a man, while it has nothing to do with each other. Plus, you criticized in your anti PUA video what youre saying in this video. Also I feel your description of a man really based on social conditioning.
I think the tough love to stop being a coward is an extremely important subject, as well as stabilize emotionally, I concur even with being focused on your job, just do your job in moderation, meaning yourself, don't be extreme, be grounded, be stable, be a mind and not a piece of meat.
There is no doubt that this video is very helpful to a lot of men, as The Way of The Superior Man was for me. I must say the more I got to know myself in the last two years through great amounts of journaling and self reflection, the more I have grown out of specific aspects of this approach because it is not entirely logical and comprehensive. I'll try to illustrate by making one argument:
I totally agree that a masculine man has purpose, is grounded and detached, not being in need for company. It was quite remarkable for me to then hear you suggest having sex with lots and lots of women, as this is exactly seeking company and in fact trying to become happier and more of a man through using women.
This is a contradiction and I think I have a good idea of where that comes from and why Leo probably doesn't want to recognize that fact and, so I hypothesize and I might be totally wrong, tries to reinforce the mythology at the end by assuming that we all know it's right. Sorry, but it doesn't make sense to me.
I am in my early twenties and never had a girlfriend, and am less and less needy for company and distraction. I have good reason and evidence to support my belief that I don't need to fuck a lot of women in order to become the man that I want to be - this would be against my core values anyway.
I suggest people check out material on the r vs K selection theory applied to society and politics as this gave me tremendous insights into why some people tend to sleep around, and others seem to not have this desire.
Happy to hear responses! Cheers
its true masculine man isnt a whore
This video is absolutely fantastic for anyone looking to lock themselves deeper into the limited, decaying, insecure ego mind.
Leo, can you do a video for all the "Late-bloomers"?
Master dignity and you'll master masculinity. No matter your age, or circumstances.
Paraphrasing some the dialog to illustrate a point:
Wife (or Girlfriend: G): I sometimes think you would be happier without me.
Husband (or Boyfriend: B): I don't need no woman to be happy.
Wife (G): What did you say, you're my best friend.
Husband (B): I don't really need friends. I am not defined by my friends. I have some fine, if I had more or less wouldn't change who I am as a person. The outcome of my life is determined by my self, my core sense of self. What I put into or take from the world.
Wife (G): What is wrong you, I thought I knew who you were?
Husband (B): I am a real man.
Wife (G): Sounds more like a self-centered narcissist to me.
Husband (B): So, I don't car what you think of me. I am me. Take it or leave it. Every body is selfish to some degree. We all have to be selfish in many ways to survive or get what we want.
Wife (G): No, we don't. Principles other than self preservation, exist. You are not the only person who exists. Compromise, giving, self-sacrifice, community, loyalty...
Husband (B): ... Whoa, hold on there. You are wasting your breath, effort and words trying to define me; or what you think society tells you what qualities I should possess. Fuck society and their rules. I live by my own.
Wife (G): You are blowing my mind. Makes me wonder if my belief that your loyal and faithful is true?
Husband (B): I fuck the world. And by that I mean at work, in my career and sure other women. I am faithful. It is that you just don't understand what it is to be a man, that I am faithful to my masculine core of being.
I could go on... but do I need to?
Don't get your man panties in a bunch, that thought was posted just for humor.
Hmmmm...If any of you males are actually taking this guy seriously, you may have bigger problems than not knowing how to be a man. Just sayin...
Results don't lie.
+Ester Viana I think he's made some valid points. What's your definition of a man if you don't mind me asking
I am 23 years old, I did a lot of self-work and the most of that you said fits to me perfectly. I am independent, proactive, very confident, I'm working on amazing things, hyped of living, and suprisingly... I didn't ever fuck a girl, and I'm totally comfortable with that. Cheers!
Yay! Achieved masculinity! And a few STD's
Pucker up buttercup! Take 'em STD's like a man! ;)
Condoms please people.
@@ActualizedOrg lollllll
its about being being authentic and unapologetic. It's hard if you want to keep everyone happy all your life.
One your most important videos
here is the thing, most of my actions are viewed completely different to others. For Example: At work, my obsession with perfection is viewed by some as insecurities. My Respect is viewed as weakness and my avoidance to confrontation is viewed as being passive. Now, I will say this: I lack impulse control, In a state of anger I re-act rather than think things through and most often than not, I regret nothing.
This is your Best Video Thank You
Haha i became a man ever since i turned 15 years old (was sorta forced to start becoming one because circumstances but i'm thankful for that) and did all the exploring I could've done and pushed all the comfort zones i had through out the years (I still got comfort zones now like every one else has) now I'm 20 years old and I want to focus on "mastery". PURPOSE+PASSION+CAREER+ACTION is my soul focus at the moment and I'm really committed to making sure I find my ultimate true purpose while creating a FUCKING extraordinary life for myself. One day I want to wake up one morning, with solid amount of money in my bank account, Living by myself in a nice condo with white walls etc and say "I'am actually living a dream I created in my mind" and go ahead and live that life to the fullest.
Hm... "have a strong identity" vs "dismantle your ego" (in your later video).
A person who has seen through ego has the strongest identity possible: an identity not based on ego.
+Actualized.org OK... then I request a topic for another video: A Difference Between an Identity and Ego.
+humanyoda For that I recommend reading "The Power Of Now" by Echart Tolle
+humanyoda No one starts out with a self created ego. It is shaped by our circumstances, experiences, and biology. Think of your ego as a memeplex. Many of one's fundamental concepts about self and reality are actually just inherited from your surroundings. When you dismantle your ego, you find what is actually you vs. what is just baggage that isn't part of who you are, but it feels like it because you've been carrying it for so long.
+smashstuff86 I understand that. My point was that in this video Leo promotes having a strong identity (and to me, this is closely related to ego), but in the other video he advocates dismantling the ego.
Leo I have completely taken this information and ran with it and it has change my life so quickly its incredible. I replay this video everyday visualizing my self with all of these traits! I have had had a complete shift in my perception and it feels amazing its like the real me has finally came out! Thank you!
The crazy reasoning of women is:
”The manlier you are, the more hurtful you are to us 😭”
But, at the same schizoid time..
”The more manlier you are, the more we fall in love with you ❤️”
Aww... so cute ☺️🙃
I was born in a single parent family and lived with my mum...I was taught to be a good and polite person who always respects others than himself more...now after a few bad experiences I've figured that I am always perceived as a feminine man and I'm trying to change it this video helped a lot thanks
Yeah, all this probably sounds good for most men. A few points are well put, like being honest and develop an easy sexuality. But besides that the talk quickly tries to sell a quite backwards, traditional, stereotype picture of masculinity. Yes, there are some attributes we tend to put on the male side like being extrovert, not emotional, self-content or over-self-confident etc. but this is definitely only a very cinematic simplistic and sometimes ridiculous ideal of masculinity (reminds me of 70s James Bond movies). Indeed it is a patriarchal dogma. Not the only truth in the real world, not the only ideal to follow, and please not the dominant masculine part of future societies. I'm pretty sure, most modern women find this way of life attractive as well for themselves.
+Mark Donald Straight, logic and absolute truth over feelings
+Jevin Randhawa There is no such thing as absolute truth. What you call truth is just your personal view on reality. And there is no logic in the video above. It's only repeated personal views without any proof or backup. It just tells a fantasy you like over and over again. That's not enough in my eyes. Where is the army of female viewers, who think this video is the absolute truth?
+MarkNiceyard Females don't want to admit this but it's what really attracts them and turns them on
MarkNiceyard I'm agree with you as a woman ^^
Madina Tash you're just a simp stfu and move on
I’VE NEVER SEEN A REALER VIDEO THAT’S SO SPOT ON !!!!!! YOU ARE A REAL ONE BROTHER !!!!!
16:01 ok I'm listening..,
fuck
Fellas, guard your masculinity everyday, 24-7. Masculinity makes women and other men respect you.
Don't listen to Nasferatu here! A real man does not need to be told how to be a man...nor does he compare himself to others or instruct others how to be real men unless he has self esteem issues. Only 'boys' think this way.
+Lord Kadath "Nasferatu" looooool caught me offguard a bit with that one
+Lord Kadath so your not a real man ? this statement contradicts its self
I can agree with what you say. I feel like masculinity should come natural and not specifically to any gender. Just simply take control of your own life
I have never subscribed to a youtube channel, until now. This video was brilliant and I have a HUGE amount of respect for you for saying what you are saying. In a world where people want to be politically correct this is a pure genius. Thank you for creating this video for men to help guide them in their life. Keep up the great work.
Welcome :) And thanks!
Being Chaste is the most manly thing you can be
I agree, really understanding chastity makes you more attractive to women
This guy is speaking the truth bro. Wow. From my personal experiences, this guy just told some of my stories in his own way.
If you got to get in touch with your masculinity....yikes. Getting in touch with your masculinity already sounds pretty femmy. Learn how to box or martial arts or work on cars. Don't put up with peoples shit. Even if you arent a good fighter, people will respect you for sticking up for yourself, even fighters will. Actually, especially fighters will. Don't cry in front of people. Learn how to fight. Good enough, the rest will come, don't overthink. By the way: Ive known a lot of men from boxing, the military, etc...none of them ever thought about sex as "injecting the world" I mean...wow. Some of this makes sense but I don't think this guy knows enough real men.
You mentioned in one of your earlier videos that you had to put down nonfiction books in order to go over them, well I had to sit my laptop down because of how directly this resonated. Youre bringing clarity to all of the foggy questions that I was slowly progressing in. And these thoughts are the roots to all other questions and essentially my thoughts in general.
Gooood! :)
I get the whole fighting through your comfort zone but sleeping with a bunch of women?
Not all advice should be applied.
Never leave without a condom
@@jordy7625 when you live life from one woman to the other you only enjoy one part of being with a woman and even with that said it wasn't meant to be enjoyed hopping from one woman to another.
You verify things I was unsure of my whole life but also shatter the things I was convinced of as well.
1. ' be a man' this phrase should be written out of the consciousness of mankind. It means nothing and creates a lot of problems for men. I was born a man....nature already took care of it thank you! Masculine energy expresses it's self naturally....and gets greater the more the man loves him self and everyone else. Masculinity is not something that is created. Every human is born perfect.
2. 'psychology' is child's play and we don't need it for the purposes of attraction. It is only for people who don't know 'love'.
I have done a lot of soul searching and have even read "way of the suprior man" that Leo spoke about... This man speaks the truth... you wont believe how your life will change once you dig more deeply...
"penetrating the world". That is called ego. Ego does not make a man. Some of this video is good others indeed very shallow.
Yes, this is ego. Gender is largely ego and hormone defined. If you drop all that (which I think is great) you have nothing left to talk about as far as being a man. Then you are just a "being". That's all great, but most men just want to be told how to be a better egoic man.
Actualized.org if I become just a "being" with no ego, wouldn't that be a turn off / deal breaker for women?
Antoni Tescaro Nah, women just care about you being non-needy and fun. You'll be totally non-needy and you can still be fun. Women will love you even more.
Women do love dominance and leadership especially in the bedroom, surely dropping masculinity will lead to a decrease in these qualities and hence attraction?
Wow, Leo, thank you so much. Your videos really changed my life... Your "Golden Nuggets" represents years of study and work, and I really appreciate them. Thanks to your videos I'm so more grounded and confident, just a few minutes before writing this I decided to be a biologist, and what I want to do in that career is something similar to what you've done here. I want to make gold nuggets for the next generations. And besides that, to have a really complete, powerful and masculine life. So, yeah, thanks for the gold, and think that with your help I'm going to make more golden nuggets that someone will eventually take and make another golden nugget and the chain never stops. It's a deep concept, the help through centuries. All I can say to you is to keep making these videos, these Golden Nuggets. They are so valuable, not just by themselves, but for the potential they contain for others to make more golden nuggets. Thanks!
Actualized.org Maybe you can make a video about this "Help Through Centuries" concept!
Some interesting insights, but I have some counter-points. I would say that the word "f**k" is inherently unmanly to use when speaking about women because the word almost always suggests a lack of care and tenderness for the woman with whom a man is having sex. Vulgar language like that contradicts that message of giving - it has a connotation of "taking." Real men take care of women and treat them as people, not as objects. Real men are faithful to one woman that they have deep care and tenderness for, and that's who he makes love to - he makes love with her, he doesn't "f***" her. Real men know how to control themselves. This is my opinion, but I also think it seems unfitting for a real gentlemen to use such nasty language. Don't get me wrong, using crass language does not make you a terrible person, and oftentimes such speech is just a habit, but the English language has such a rich collection of great and sometimes very eccentric words... it just degrades the mind to not make use of these and instead riddle sentence upon sentence with crass words. A man should be able to keep his tongue clean and respectful out of courtesy for those around him. Many will find such things distasteful and will not enjoy your company if you can't speak without swearing.
So, some interesting principles in the video, but I think that almost everything in here about sex is very suspect and will easily spiral into selfishness, seeing women as objects, and creating a lot of hurt for women. It's as if its all dressed up as "being a man" as an excuse for men to rationalize the indiscriminate seeking of their own gratification. I know the idea is that this view of sex will allow a man to give more pleasure to more people, and be more confident in bed, but carnal pleasure isn't all there is to sex. Women want exclusivity, whether they deny it or not. Also, wouldn't the best way to be confident/"comfortable" in bed be to only have sex with someone you really know deeply and intimately on a personal level, and can be fully vulnerable with, and to grow your sex life with them over a lifetime? Because sex is a profoundly vulnerable thing! It doesn't make sense to do the most *bodily* vulnerable thing with someone if you are not vulnerable and intimate with them *emotionally, mentally, personally, etc.* But anyways, pleasure isn't the most important thing. Women want exclusivity deep down. Men should respect their woman and passionately pursue her, and they'll find that she's all they want anyways.
I would also like to point out a potential flaw in the planting seeds analogy. Yes, planting seeds in the world that will blossom into good is great. Planting your seed in every woman you can, though? That will lead to broken families, fatherless children, disease, and lots of hurt. All that instant gratification will not be worth all the lifelong complications and strains. Imagine working out all the Christmases years down the line :P. You might argue that contraception gets rid of this problem, but in my experience contraception itself just seems to contradict manliness and love. Firstly, it contradicts manliness because the way I understand it manliness involves taking responsibility, providing, and being accountable for your actions. Children take a lot of hard work to raise, but they are also one of life's greatest joys. The culture is trying to obscure that fact. Secondly, contracepting contradicts love because it's like telling the other person, "I love you, but not enough to be a parent with you" or "I give myself to you completely... except my fertility." In that case, is it really a deep love in the first place? The pill also has a whole bunch of horrible effects, like changing what type of man a woman is attracted to, making it harder to conceive later on when one decides they want to - and ironically it decreases sexual interest in the first place since it messes with the woman's cycle. You might say it's an okay thing for people that are young and aren't ready to be parents together. But if you're not ready to be a parent, are you really ready to do the "parent-making" act? Children should be taught by their parents and protected from giving their virginity away before they have had the opportunity to learn about what sex really means. Teens are treating it too casually because the culture and popular sexual education says that it is just a bodily thing with little depth or meaning. I believe it was a 2003 study by the National Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy that revealed that around 75% of teenage girls, and around 60% of teenage boys regret losing their vrginity and wish they had waited.
I should also note one more interesting thing - a study by the Institute of Family Studies actually found that the chances for divorce in early marriage are at their lowest when the spouses have had no premarital sexual partners. (Here's a link to a chart: www.google.com/search?q=chances+of+divorce+after+five+years+of+marriage+by+marriage+cohort+and+number+of+premarital+sexual+partners&safe=active&rlz=1C1CHBF_enUS862US862&sxsrf=ALeKk01yucLWlcdUh3xp4YQxqocdlMDOzg:1623359525256&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwj2u-G-_Y3xAhV2Ap0JHRtYBVkQ_AUoAXoECAEQAw&biw=1536&bih=722#imgrc=AbO2kxgnI5uNnM). People talk about the divorce rate as if it's a coin-flip, which is ridiculous. You get to choose what camp you're in. It starts with not making a rash choice of partner in the first place, and resolving to mutually commit and support the other in good times and in bad. It requires knowing what marriage really is (Hint: it's not all about passion and feelings as Hollywood has subtly taught young people). Once in the marriage itself, staying in the 50% that stays together is acheived through hard work and dedication. I personally also think it requires help from God.
Anyways, those are my takes. I know it's chock-full of controversial topics. Feel free to disagree. I just feel very passionately about these things, and want to talk about what I think is the truth. God Bless and always strive for excellence and integrity.
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Your profile picture is Spider-Man.
I have done a lot of personal development over the years, and this video is life changing for me. The ideas feel so right! It feels like I have found my missing piece. I know I have. Thank you so much Leo!
Right after I watched I decided to be a MAN and tell my wife I cheated on her. She left and now I'm crying like a woMAN.
Never had a masculine figure in my life to guide me, Buh I’ve successfully grown into a man to the best I can, still got more to improve tho , buh I’ve achieved a lot without even acknowledging, I am a Man
He always says he has studied so much of psychology. I thought he is a true professional and then I see a video him saying a true man is the one who has sex with a woman and with many women. Yeah, credibility went there.
Why are people posting negative comments on this video. This information is priceless and it helped me a lot. Thank you! If you read these comments, truly listen and subscribe to his channel.
This attitude is typical of a man who is naturally effeminate. Cast a glance at the chap's face, his build, listen to his voice; his physiology is not that of an alpha male. Heartbroken by his own nature, he overcompensates. A man's focus should not be on getting women, it should be on his work, his purpose. And when he pursues his passions, women will align with him. But if he aspires to be more than a gathering place for women, and if he wishes to interact with women on more than a physical level, then he should foster the femininity within himself too. Balance is everything. Balance is power.
My sister raised me to be tender, but to also stay true to myself, i found out that being this way i got more women, and i was much more fulfulled as a person. I have a lot to brag about now, like how i was with 3 women at the same time, having sex every day. Its been an amazing time. Im only 22.
m a girl nd m feeling like well thats great personalty watever mzn or a girl is :/
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can u tell again the comment
girls r not different from guys but we we grow up differently . socialy unhealthy .... humans r humans no difference in feelings ,in wants and ways of thinking ...but just in sexual things we r not the same .but as person we r the same ...there are many types of personalties it doesnt matter "a guy or a girl "... a girl is a girl nd there is nothing makes her as she is not ..a guy also the same ... just be urself and if being a man is all those great things well who said that the girl shouldnt be like that same need... the part 2 of how to be a man is better than these stereotype shackled within the community .... ppl need to get rid of these shits that makes them not expressing the real self ... growth is not for only guys .. these higher needs leo talks abt in his videos r not for guys more than girls ... i cant understand how u deal with girls like a "toy acting a role" she is a complete person thats unfair same thing with a guy when he must be a stone.. but being a stone is better than being silly and hv less purpose in life .. like a girl living for a guy .. thats how it sounds and it is humiliating acually this feels like less important...... we have same way of thinking ... just if we changed the momys and dadys way of dealing with thier girls we will have a real stronger base of growing comunity and we will help girls alot to have wat leo is talking abt.. trust me girls r stuck in shit just because thats wat normal or thats wat attractive ... maybe there r many of it like yeah its who we r .. but really not in this stereotype way we see .. also as guys same thing stereotypes hacks thier brains .
+Dharmesh is that gd re-telling ? :pp
+Hala Shahoud Men and women are far from the same things with the same potential! Women and Men have dramatically different natural skills, instincts and emotions regardless of how they are raised. Women are much better at certain things than men and vice versa, denying the fact that we are different is just counterproductive and delusional. Embrace your gender and the elements of it that are exclusive to it! It's ok that we are different, in fact it's essential for the advancement of the species, if were the same we would have been extinct long ago!
I think that femininity is about self-expression (which is emotionally based), and that masculinity is about self-restraint. All masculinity is rooted in dignity. The more a man restrains himself, for the sake of dignity, the more he becomes selfless, and thus, allows dignity to eminate through his being. Dignity is perfect structural integrity governed by organized perfection. Selfless self-restraint and control over your emotions and your selfish desires builds you in dignity. Dignity is unshakable.
This are all masculine qualities, and they are all rooted in dignity.
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I'm not ashamed to watch this. I grew up with three sisters and a mother. I never had the chance to be taught a man.
1st Step. Don't look like Smeagul
Coming from someone who’s constantly bin called “very naturally masculine” it’s all fun and game until you just intimidate people and everything you do and everywhere you go has to escalate .. it’s not as fun as you think always having to hold your self back
Well. Enough Internets for today 😂
What is the full list of priories in a man's life?
Brian12Extreme
none but himself
Screw being manly it's just not for me *Hugs Pikachu plush*
Taylor Cruize I'm a woman's genitalia LOL XD
Anyway thanks for that you made me smile.
Lmfao
*****
Indeed.
pussy lmao
Shawn Ward
? what about cats?
What an awesome video. You totally hit the nail on the head espcially with the part on sex. I'm 28 now going on 29 and I totally feel it in my gut that I'm putting my shit together slowly. I grew up in a feminine oriented environment, I had to travel and do fucked up stuff to find myself and I'm proud of it!