All it takes is one step brother. You don’t have to have all the answers, you don’t have to figure everything out, you just have to take one step at a time. I believe in you. Thank you for watching 🙏🏽 IG: maliquedlewis Email: forpurposedrivenmen@gmail.com
Says "let's talk" but as soon as I offer a counter to your views you delete it, sooooo much talking going on, you're totally not a self-righteous, indignated douche-canoe XD
@@HTBP1888 I preach God because I believe in God, I didn’t have much growing up, you don’t know my story, but I forgive you and I pray you recognize that people are struggling even if they don’t look like. Choose kindness next time brother.
This was needed, I'm from Liberia (a war torn country on the western banks of africa) and I'm gonna be real I never had shit, no toys growing up saw my first corpse at 7, very poor. Then my family migrated me to USA under refuge, I would always blame my parents for my unfortunate life. But if there are no poor there are no rich, so I worked hard and am going to keep working hard so when my kids grow up they have no excuses and can be great, I recently made my first 10,000 a month 5500 from my job as an HVAC specialist, and 4500 from my businesses I own a jerk chicken shop in North carolina. I hope I can keep expanding this video was well needed.
Where the chicken spot, man. I visit NC a lot. I'd love to check it out. Big respect, brother. just recently pulled my first 10k a month 2 months ago. It's crazy how that one small goal will make you feel like you've achieved everything. Changes how you see things. Good luck in life, my brother
I’m 23 and I barely came to the realization that I need to become a man. I wish I would have learned this years ago. I finally took the first step, and it’s one step at a time. I appreciate you brother, you have taught me a lot. 🙏🏽 God Bless you!
When it comes to growing up a shitty life due to circumstances out of your control, you have the absolute right to be pissed about it and blaming it to how you turned out. With that in mind, after coming to that realization, you should ask yourself "what do i do now?". Youre resentment is absolutely justified. What matters in the end is what you do next.
The hardest thing for me was overcoming failure after trying my best. When you cut out all the childish things, make the schedules, do the work, get up early, avoid the drugs, the girls, the parties, you make the sacrifice and you STILL fall short. Not only that the window of opportunity has passed and you don't get another opportunity to try again. Thats the one we dont talk about so much. Thats the one that aspiring athletes and even ambitious students go through every year. You have to accept that the dream is over and all that time you invested did not bear any fruit and you are forced to start over again and find a new passion when all younever wanted was one thing. And you have to ask yourself "what tf do I do now" and there is just silence, you are on your own and noone cares but you. It sucks.
@@realantagonist5324woah there buddy, you had me till the very end there. If no one cares but you then you are actually the problem. If you are just a bare minimum decent person who worked hard and failed to accomplish something then even you’re acquaintances would take notice and try and assist you. You gotta put in work to have no one in your corner
A lot of Christians/religious people in the world, but I do not see it becoming a better place. If this were true, world hunger wouldn't be an issue in such an age & the US wouldn't have the highest poverty rates ever, despite being Christian-central. The world just gets worse. It's up to a person to make something possible. Faith can help with feelings, sure, which is why people say what you do. But, that's all it is.
@titusg4247 The world has gotten one trillion times better than it was in the past. We only know the world as it is today, but if you study history, you'll see how awful things were.
@@anthonyernst999 On a longer scale, you're right, things have gotten better in many ways. However, it's almost like things started to get much better after the industrial revolution, followed by the technological age we live in now, brought about by science. Also, back in the times you speak of, pretty much *_everyone_* was *heavily* religious. It was peak religion back then, so why was it so bad, as you say it was, if extremely devout theism came as a standard and to find an atheist was rare? Also, your comparison was poor. I aren't talking about way back when. I'm talking about relevant times for people that are alive now (past 100 years, let's say). Look at that awful war that's going on in the East, all in the name of religion. Homelessness in places like the UK and the US is rising rapidly. The church certainly has enough money to fix it, but that won't happen. We live in a capitalist world, we can only help ourselves. You could spend your entire life praying to god for a miracle on the top of a mountain as hard as possible your entire life, but nothing will happen unless you take initiative and do it yourself. Faith (can) helps people mentally, which is why I sorta wish I were able to believe in a god myself. It'd be easier to get my act together if I feared a place called hell.
@titusg4247 In the past 100 years, we fought in two World Wars, The Cold War, The Vietnam War, and others. I'm not saying things are perfect, but if we compare now to Roman times, we are much better off.
Duh but he's talking about men. It takes a man to shut up and listen and understand. Hold himself accountable and not try to add "people and women". That comment is so dry
I turn 20 in about a week. A few months ago I finally woke up and realized I needed to grow the fuck up. I am not close to where I need to be, but am a hell of a lot closer than I was a few months ago. These videos have been a real help in kicking my ass into gear. Thank you bro!
I turn 20 next month I decided not to live with my parents in a new city and stay in my hometown with my sisters to force myself to level up through uncomfortable situations like basically being homeless to push myself to be in a position I want to be in which is a homeowner at a young age (under 21) even though it’s hard at times and I want to fold I know perseverance and dedication will make all of this worth it
Im ab three months into 20 and it’s the things like drugs alcohol social media that keeps us down but I’m glad there’s a group of us that realize we have to grow up we have to do this shit respect to you my boy the journey gonna be crazy
When I turned 19 I randomly applied to hella jobs and I got a job working as an electrical apprentice. Company put me thru school and I really enjoyed doing electrical work so I stuck with it. Now I’m 25 years old and I’m a licensed electrician making well over 6 figures. It was tough becoming a man in the trades but it made me who I am. Now I’m looking into starting my own electrical business. I recommend you young folks to join the trades. Plumbing,hvac, electrical, carpenter.. any skilled trade is in very high demand fr.
That's a good sign, it's a sign you care about your life a lot but you just don't know how to get into things yet. This was the wake up call to get out there and just look an find what you're passionate about. I was just like you, existential dread crept up on me when turning 20 and I decided from there that I have to get out there and find my passion in this world, something to be happy about in life because someone else can't provide that anymore. I feel like it's an experience all men go through when hitting their 20s, it's a very important time in our lives bc it's the beginning of our true independence. Goodluck brother, keep your head up high
I'm 25 and I recently realized that this life is mine. It's no one's responsibility but my own because I'm way too grown to have others think for me. I've always felt like I needed permission to do stuff, but it's legit my life and if I don't do anything, nothing's gonna happen.
As a 23-year-old woman, thank you for this video. God has been dealing with me and my childlike tendencies like getting distracted by watching TV shows and playing games, this video came at the right time. Thank you brother in Christ, may the Lord bless you and continue to double your platform in Jesus' name amen. ❤
@Thepureinheartt-k7t I used to be in an inpatient addiction treatment program as a patient. One thing I learned was that a big part of self forgiveness is forgiving others. Oftentimes, if you look out at the things you dislike about yourself, you may find a way to forgive those flaws by seeing how you perceive those same flaws in others. I hated myself for my addiction, but I understand the addiction of others and had sympathy for them; question why you can't give yourself that same softness and consideration
Brothers im 28 had my own spot at 24 , I went back home at 26 on my way back out but with 3 business and 3 jobs so brothers your journey is your journey sometime you gotta reset but don’t waste the time‼️ : much love and success brother
Facts I left home at 22. With my first child. I’m 26 with 3 and another on the way. Only income and my wife stay home bc that’s how I feel things should be. Call me old school. Still out the house but I went back a few times during separations w my kids mom. Lots of setbacks I’ve faced God kept me going. Still far from the destination.
34, yr old single man, no kids, yet homeless because of how I grew up. Currently still struggling to live and would have arguments in my head of how wrong they were for neglecting me and not being an actual family. I pray and look for everyday alternatives to replace those thoughts of victimizing myself. But the reality is still daunting. Bless up
35 here. I own a house, a car, living alone and I have a lousy job. Ever since I was a kid, I wanted to be someone and got lost over the years. You reminded me that I don't need to be someone, I need to push forward until I become proud of who I am and what I do.
Exact same here. We are blessed bro. If you own your home, you won. I bought my house at 27 and I'm 44 next week. We are blessed. Probably more blessed than 80% of this thread. Sometimes we need to stop and look around at what we accomplished and know we are blessed but want more. This week has been very hot. Turn on your central air and see how blessed you are today..
Chase yo dreams bro. Don't push them to the side for a job. Ur established. Time flies, u know that at 35. I'm 31. U can fall bacc on that job at anytime, uve proven yoself in that sector. Go chase yo dreams and be happy✊🏼 💯
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I'm 31. Despite still living with my mom, having no car and barely $1000 in savings, I can safely say that I'm on my way up. I still seek comfort more often than not, and I don't make to-do lists. But really, everything else I have made strides change, very recently as a matter of fact. I still have a ways to go, but little changes every day add up really quick. When it comes to incremental change, the only "too little" or "too small" is none at all. Love ya, bros.
I’m tired of y’all 30 something’s still acting like ignorant kids smh. Y’all act more immature than me when I was a teenager…. I was working since I was 18, now I’m 21, have like over 50k in my bank. And you… a grown @$$ 31 year old man only has 1k…. And still lives with his mom… 🤣 I’m earning my money so I can live alone when I’m older. Why on earth are there grown people like you still behaving like kids? It’s ridiculous… Like what have you been doing all this time? I swear, it’s like y’all lived your childhood and skipped your teens and 20’s and landed in your 30’s all of a sudden 🤣 cuz this is just not possible
27 here man, finding my way one step at a time. I crashed hard on my goals this year but hearing stuff like this keeps me up. You got this brother, just remember, we can still lean on others for emotional support. Having that support network is vital
Man, I'm 22 years old. I was raised by a single mother and I recently realized I have been blaming my circumstances and problems on her and my childhood. I blamed my past for why I dropped out sophomore year of college, I've been beating myself up and living at home lost with no purpose. My girlfriend is pushing me to be closer to god which I'm grateful for, I wont lie, but I think I really need to lock in and stop giving myself excuses as to why I cant be this or do that, and just do it. I plan on moving out at the end of the year, with no idea how to clean an apartment, no discipline, and no drive. I can't keep living like this and coasting, I think it's time I finally start holding myself accountable and chasing the faint dreams I once had. Thank you man, I hope I watch your video often to remind myself of my promise. May god be with you.
I love how you deliver your messages bro. You say what needs to be said, but in a way that builds up rather than tears down; inspires rather than demoralizes.
It was a blessing coming across this at this particular time. Im 34 turning 35 just 3 days from now. Its refreshing to hear it because Ive lost the plot for the last 5-6years. Life is a trip, I remember being 22 like it was just last month. I had my own place and a partner as well at the time. It didnt work out with that person so it set me down a path of depression and I didnt further my education. I just wasted my 20s on hating on myself, not eating right and working dead end jobs. Gave myself diabetes by the time I hit 30 so watching this made me wanna cut the crap and take back the reigns of my life. Life comes at you fast,like I said 22 to now was a blink. I needed to remind myself that I'm a capable dude. Taught myself how to read at age 4, could cook,clean and do laundry by myself by 6. I was a latchkey kid basically and would be home by myself while my mom worked 3rd shift. I guess the point Im trying to make is that we need to stop defining ourselves by other folks metrics and just believe that we can accomplish the things we set out to do. Thanks for the video bud.
The real fight really is fighting the societal metrics of others and ur own self-perception. Being 30+ n still figuring things out doesn't mean it's game over.
I guess it is what it is. It is something we need to think more about because nothing will happen, until we do something about it. Great video dude, you got the good message out there.
The crazy thing is that I literally know all the right things that I need to be doing to elevate in life, but because of lack of drive and my mind making me crave comfortably it’s hard to follow those steps. In the past month though i’ve been taking control of my life and forcing myself to do tasks that I don’t want to do, and this has really made a positive impact on my life, especially the advice from your videos. Keep up the good work, messages, and positivity.💙
I relate to this so much, I'm 24 and I'm really aware, yet I genuinely lack that mental drive, I've sabotaged myself so much, but don't give up on hope, we at least have our mind in the right direction
man at about 19:42 I shed a few tears. This is the first time in 9 months that I have been able to cry. I've had days where I wish I could cry and nothing came out but when you mentioned that you do everything to the best of your ability but the things you aren't too good at your partner does, it hit me to the core. I'm not one for overly praising people but you are way ahead of me on this journey and I appreciate you allowing us to see where we can all get with discipline and simply maning up.
Yep I realized the creator will litterly give you what you need. But our ego as humans we tend the think we know what's bests for us. God will litterly put stuff in front if us and we will still be like naw ima go this way.
No one volunteer to be here, you’re right. Even more reason why to submit to the savior. Everyone here has a purpose. This existence is too elaborate and complex to all be for nothing. Get away from your victim mentality and seek God
Lock in bro, Filipinos are hard workers but we can get distracted easily and/or lazy. Whatever it is you do, give it your all and you’ll be fine. Mahal
I’m w u bro 22 been on my own but it’s jus hard to keep it pushin and knowing what the next step is , I don’t wanna say i wish but it would’ve been easier with some guidance but you’ll go through stuff that only you and a certain amount of others would understand real recognize real it’s just so crazy how people take things for granted
So many men have no ambition except doing as little as possible. Thank you for encouraging men to take responsibility for their lives so they can become leaders.
I'm 21 and I used games to escape my problems. I was a slave to the game bro!! You got me there. I just deleted all my games from my PC three days ago and everyday I've gotten the urge to play but I'm responsible for my life. I have to make this sacrifice fr.
As a young male struggling to leave the house and do right because of my own decisions, I really needed this. Thank you for igniting in my heart the drive to be and do better
You vocalized everything I've been working to improve as a 37-year-old man in the past year, and even some problems I didn't even know I had. Bless you, brother.
I’m 23 and I definitely needed this reminder today, been trying to improve myself and my mentality and realized this was the part I was missing especially the hard truth. Thank you for putting this out there, definitely needed this to put me back in line
Found this at the perfect time man… Currently going through a fallout with my closest friends who are also my roommates cause I got fired and haven’t paid my portion of rent on multiple occasions. My incompetence and negligence to bring matters into my own hands has caused tremendous stress on not only myself but to those around me (ie. my family and friends). I suck at communicating even though I’m 24 which doesn’t make things better. This video made me realize how far I’ve fallen but also opened up my eyes to ways I can redeem myself. Ima take that first step to become the man I want to be and have a nice long chat with my roommates about everything. Whatever comes after that i’m taking to the chin and pushing forward. Thank you for your words bro. 🙏🏽
1 Corinthians 13:11 When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways
I suffer from OCD and I'm 18 years old. I've recently turned my life to Christ. My biggest problems are procrastination and laziness. I've been isolated for 4 years due to my anxiety and overthinking. Now that I'm a bit stronger because of God, I want to be more mature and improve myself. I've suffered and I've been lazy, but I have never given up. I'm trying to change and I'm determined to move forward. Thank you for this video
That's awesome bro, God will really give us a wake up call & show us where we are lacking. I'm 29 & also totally isolated & defeated for last 4 years. I didn't meet Jesus until i was 24. You're lucky to realize this at 18. You have perfect opportunity to grow & improve. Keep going & become the man God wants you to be.
I had the same exact realization about myself earlier today, and the fact that someone in this comment section is going through the same exact problems I am is pretty reassuring. I'm not sure where you are in life but I hope it's somewhere uplifting and I want to let a complete stranger know I have the same issues and seeing someone in the same boat gives me hope for change and continued self improvement. Good luck with your life bro, I'm gonna be right behind you.
2nd year of college and still complaining, not putting the hours at work. 23 next month and l am rock bottom. I got 4 months still the end of my flat-contract. I can’t even sleep looking for a second job to pay for the next semester. Facts big bro, a man child for days. Gotta man up.
Just sharing my heartfelt opinion , but at that age and position I went through that. Please know the struggle doesn’t disappear just your decision to let it affect you changes. We talk down on the guy who living with his parents and not chasing. But it’s all about being accountable/owning your development. Because a mosquito will always try to bite you when THEY are hungry, but its up to go outside w/o protection and to get angry when an insect bites you because of their nature, but you can give them your everything they need and never will satisfy them. 😅 *Hopefully this makes sense.
U got this my man, keep going and don’t give up just push yourself everyday but give urself time to rest and take breaks so u can keep going too, also working out helps focus
I am married and am 23 years old. Got my own place, amazing wife, gym life is in order perfectly, pursuing my dreams. I still struggle with finances on occasion because of my impulses. I only started learning to cook 2 weeks ago to remove some of the chores off of my wife. I’m excited to start pursuing a much bigger job than I am currently at which will challenge me physically, psychologically and spiritually. I feel like it has been time for me to step into even more discipline and to embrace my God given masculinity to its fullest. Thank you, brother 🙏❤️
I came across this video at a time when I really needed it brother thank you. I still put a lot of blame on others for what I go through, as well as beating myself up every day over past/present mistakes and it serves me no purpose anymore. Even though I've come a long way in sobriety and I've been going to work for a few months now, I live in an Oxford house and I'm staying sober and I pay my own rent, I have so many accomplishments yet all I can focus on is my mistakes and self-pity. I've been a man-child for too long and it's been a long and lonely road trying to grow and change. I'm grateful for your words of wisdom 🙏
16, though I needed this. feeling down, been doing some introspection, yes, it's one of those bland days i type this with a foggy, unclear mind because of that. little old me used to be happy, y'know, now i'm stressed out and lost, trying to figure things out but sometimes wasting time - off the course from fulfillment. i hope i can find that spark again, but for now... there is so much to be done. thank you, malique, love you all. God bless us all throughout.
This is actual therapy to me as a woman am going through a very hard time so much pain right now I can't explain,,you are my best friend talking to me and encouraging me and speaking to me with so much empathy thank you
this showed me what the main focus is for a man in general and to keep yourself on schedule everyday and to become a provider by becoming self sufficient great video
I’m 18 and life’s been tough and I’ve been forced to mature really fast because of some crazy shit that’s been happening, and watching this shows me how much I’ve grown, thank you.
I appreciate you taking the time to put this together for all the young men taking their first steps to be self sufficient. I started working at age 13, just to help my parents, and help myself so my parents would not need to worry about me. I raised my first born the same way I was raised. My goal was for him to be able to take care of himself and his mother. Thankfully he is doing just that. I see too many waiting around like their progress or growth is going to jump in their lap. Waiting on mom for this, and mom for that. Waiting on hand outs, riding their friends to get by, but then being depressed they have nothing. Get up and be a go getter. Do not let anything or anyone stop you. Just keep going. Keep up the good content. Stay blessed.
I’m 15 and i was forced to realize that at 12 but i keep having this thought of i need to someone to take care of me and you opened my eyes again, thanks, i really needed this
hearing this facts right now at 18 years of my life, save my life thank you so much for this powerful video i really needed this because I've been a man child in my whole life and Im too lazy to even take care of myself and improve in my ln my life, God bless you 🙏
All Glory to the Most High, I’m 24 with two kids, recently got out of the military and God knows i needed this Thank you so much brotha. I just subscribed and added this to my playlist
It took me YEARS to realize this, I’m turning 29 this month and what I’ve come to learn is that blaming others and regret is the worst you can do, give yourself grace. There’s no person better or worse than you, remain accountable and responsible with your decisions and don’t be scared to take leaps. God bless y’all and be safe.
You know it's going to be a special video when it catches you in the first thirty seconds. Truly life changing stuff man, you can really preach and say the truth. Thank you, this has helped me a ton. I hope this catches the attention of all the young men out there and women as well!
The title of the video kind of left a sour taste in my mouth, but I quickly understood that this just wasn't for me and that a lot of up-and-coming men could get a lot from a video like this so I respect it. Keep on inspiring these young men brother.
Bless you bro, this advice wasn’t for me, but I just threw it on and kept it on because It’s so solid and you kept a good masculine energy rolling. This some big bro stuff that a lot of people need to hear. Putting ourselves in a humble position and opening our hearts to this. Because ultimately it comes from a place of love.
I’m 19 with a baby on the way. I still play video games , live with my mom , I’m in credit card debt & I have 2 court cases. We just found out the baby has been in her stomach for 2 months & we had no clue. I still hold onto grudges & till this day I’m upset my dad left & my step father at the time abused me & my siblings for years. My mom & my family really put me on my feet & still help me to this day .. Thank you for this video. I’m hoping I become a better man , a better spouse & an even better father. God bless you.
Well if that's goes into girls or relationships just know people like audio visual stuff like movies etc or even make your thoughts/conversations have more audio and visual energy in it and you will attract people easy ngl had the switch a week ago and it's easy to pick up girls irl and talk to people that I would of had anxiety to before etc
This is one of the most well thought out messages for everyone out there. Its nuanced, its realistic and it gets the fundamental values of how to not only become successful but also how to become a happy, good human-being.
Only a minute in and the mention of "your life is your responsibility" as small as it is hit me cause I've been alive for 26 years and have never lived a year of that for myself once
The grip on your emotions part was the hardest thing I had to learn. It was me seeing the fear my family had towards me seeing me acting out and fighting people that made me really look at myself. I grew up thinking and seeing that fighters are strong, but if you can handle things without needing to lift a finger that is true strength.
I had to have this conversation with myself after having a rough 2023, from being unemployed for almost a year, to moving back in with my parents. I've been successful before and lived on my own, paid bills on time etc. but when life humbles you it's easy to feel like a man child again and it sucks. My next plan is to become a Navy Officer to hopefully benefit my future self
the world needs more men like this. young men need to learn quickly to act responsibly and take accountability for themselves and their circumstances. Great work.
I'm new here and I can say that you are blunt about everything. Being focused on yourself is huge and the goals are a must. That being said, take care brother and god bless 🙏 you just gained a subscriber 🔥
20 about to turn 21, I've been on the path to becoming a man since I was 18 with some help from my dad but he's always working and can only teach me when he's home (one and a while). I've been feeling a bit lonesome due to my peers and friends always being on some worldy timing and always question the things that I do ( Doesn't drink very much, quit smoking weed, barely play video games, and not spanking my monkey or "fucking hella bitches" ) as I stay sober minded to reach my goals because nobody else can do it but me at the end of the day and thought I was the only person who felt like this but its good to know there are brothers and sisters out there who are on the same page trying to improve themselves to the best of their ability.
The feeling of being lost, not sure what to do or how to start is horrible. Procrastination, isolation etc. I don't really blame anyone but myself for allowing myself to fall. I need to work towards independence, and much more. This is a nice little message
22, back at home, working on getting out. 500 dollars left on my car. Just got out of the first real relationship I’ve ever had. Training for a marathon because I love myself and I need it more then anything. No more setbacks.
Bro thank you so much. I started evolving 2 years ago, soon my apprenticeship will be over and I will have a nice job. My next goal is to get my own spot. My parents say it is ok to stay with them but I just know it has to change. You just get complacent with things and when you have your own thing going on then the to-do list starts to form itself brother…
I HAVE BEEN BINGING YOUR VIDEOS SINCE I FOUND YOU 3 DAYS AGO!❤ . I know your target audience is Men but I take it directly, myself! . I’ve wasted a lot of time on nonsense, all because of lack of vision/purpose!! . I throughly am grateful for your content! The world needs more
You’ll be all good. I’m 43 and I’ve only been on the up for like 5 years. It’s crazy how quickly very very small changes stack up and within months you can be on a different trajectory.
That’s pathetic. I grew up since I was 18. And here we have these sorry excuses for human, who have lived for 30 years, let me repeat- 30 YEARS, and just barely “growing up” isn’t that sad to you? Like what have you been doing all this time? Playing with toys? 🤣 Pathetic
That’s pathetic. I grew up since I was 18. And here we have these sorry excuses for a person. who have lived 30 years, let me repeat- 30 years. and just barely “growing up” isn’t that sad to you? Like what have you been doing all this time? Playing with toys? 🤣 come on man.
32 with two sons. I learned this when I was 7 years old and have done for myself ever since. Yes I lived under my mothers roof until 17, but I never asked her for anything cause I didn't want to feel disappointment from expectations. I was reminded I was on the right track when at 14 I started dating and when I was let down I didn't let it affect me emotionally like how I've seen my peers react to girls during my teenage years. Into adult hood this ideology served me well in the military and going into marriage this still served me well as I don't expect anything from my wife. I chose to be with her and if it gets to the point where I need to let her go because she's becoming a problem financially then I'll move on and I let her know that from the get go with a prenup before we got married. I've been married for 10 years now, still going strong and that doesn't mean things are perfect or we don't have minor challenges along the way, but we know how to get back on track. 2 kids in I'm now teaching my oldest these things while still allowing him to be a child and enjoy his childhood. The younger one still has time before I start on him. But, yes definitely men or young men have to understand this sooner than later. It will save you alot of stress, it will teach you how to handle situations with class, and it will build you to become BETTER MEN for yourselves for our society and for the children.
This one hit home like nothing else, I just turned thirty 2 days go and I got to say thank you, for pursuing your passion and speaking from the heart. I needed this today, and because of you , I got it.
As a 27 year old, if I could speak to my younger self I’d say follow your dreams 100% and never look back. Life goes by fast and your time isn’t to be wasted by partying or trying to fit in. Trust me brother! You got this 💪🏼
@@JeremiahB444 Worst advice ever. Dont follow your dreams. This world is full of DECEIVERS, and they will try to deceive you. Just try to better yourself little by litte. First focus on the things you need to know that are essential for your survival. That way, you will be able to survive while pursuing your dream. I should charge to say this, but I'm going to say it because there are a lot of snakes on the internet and I'm not one of them.
My birthday is on tomorrow and boutta turn 17, and I'm very f*cking grateful for you for making this video. Thank you very much bro. I've realised I've been ducking away from the cold truth, the truth that I was just cruising or living through life. Nothing more, I always expect my family to cater things I needed, not realizing I'm actually the one thats spoiled and not my friends and classmates. I've realized God has given me much more help and opportunities to me but I wasn't being grateful. Thank you for spewing the relatable truth to me and tell me to stop crying or whining about why I'm failing so much. Thank you for the knowledge and wisdom that you have given me about how much you really needed to sacrifice and what to do to be great. Man, phew, God is really good. Thank you. Gonna talk less and do more
This year about to be your best yet brother I can already feel it, I’m glad this video helped you. Would you believe me if I said you knew these things all along, I was just sent here to remind you. I’m proud of you bro, keep going! And happy early birthday 🎉
You’re wise beyond your years young brother and that’s from another young brother myself. I’m 26, been out the house since I was 18 living on my own. Tried college out - dropped out. Didn’t stop grinding. Ended up having a daughter. Started going hard in my profession. Fast forward to date bro I’m pulling 70K+ annually. My daughter is happy and healthy. I train and work out everyday, eat healthy. Smoke a little but hey we all have our vices and devices. Overall this message is one a lot of young brothers need to hear. Men have to value being men again. Being leaders. Taking care of the family. Leaving behind legacies
All it takes is one step brother. You don’t have to have all the answers, you don’t have to figure everything out, you just have to take one step at a time. I believe in you. Thank you for watching 🙏🏽
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Deleted my comment, nice one bro.
L bro, you only preach god because you aren’t on the street starving. There’s a different between being self sufficient and being selfish.
Says "let's talk" but as soon as I offer a counter to your views you delete it, sooooo much talking going on, you're totally not a self-righteous, indignated douche-canoe XD
Thanks.
@@HTBP1888 I preach God because I believe in God, I didn’t have much growing up, you don’t know my story, but I forgive you and I pray you recognize that people are struggling even if they don’t look like. Choose kindness next time brother.
learning this at 19 is a life saver
real
Same just turned 20 bro frfr
Apply it
Keep learning it. You'll be 25 looking back wondering how you were so dumb back then
its his opinion u not learning shit go do you not a sheep to nobody
35 wife and a child, Still needed to hear this. Because every once in a while we drift off course. Thanks for grabbing the wheel real quick.
"because every once in a while we drift off course" this
So true brother, we all needed this. Even the person who made it 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Proud of you!👍
so real
@@ForPurposeDrivenMen bless up.
This was needed, I'm from Liberia (a war torn country on the western banks of africa) and I'm gonna be real I never had shit, no toys growing up saw my first corpse at 7, very poor. Then my family migrated me to USA under refuge, I would always blame my parents for my unfortunate life. But if there are no poor there are no rich, so I worked hard and am going to keep working hard so when my kids grow up they have no excuses and can be great, I recently made my first 10,000 a month 5500 from my job as an HVAC specialist, and 4500 from my businesses I own a jerk chicken shop in North carolina. I hope I can keep expanding this video was well needed.
@@shamu7781 fellow liberian here bro 🙏
bless🙏🏻
Where the chicken spot, man. I visit NC a lot. I'd love to check it out. Big respect, brother. just recently pulled my first 10k a month 2 months ago. It's crazy how that one small goal will make you feel like you've achieved everything. Changes how you see things. Good luck in life, my brother
Respect
I’m 23 and I barely came to the realization that I need to become a man. I wish I would have learned this years ago. I finally took the first step, and it’s one step at a time. I appreciate you brother, you have taught me a lot. 🙏🏽 God Bless you!
The fact you already realize it so young is a win brother
Keep going and it really is a step at a time. 🤝
@@Bassynater2500 Thank you brother, likewise 💯🤝
Keep that same energy bro you got it 💪🏾💪🏾
Bro I’m 28 your fine part of life good your woke tho
Ay bro who cares if you are just finding it out, you’re being a man now and that’s what matters
When it comes to growing up a shitty life due to circumstances out of your control, you have the absolute right to be pissed about it and blaming it to how you turned out. With that in mind, after coming to that realization, you should ask yourself "what do i do now?". Youre resentment is absolutely justified. What matters in the end is what you do next.
Everything you said was the truth brother 🙏🏽🔥
The hardest thing for me was overcoming failure after trying my best. When you cut out all the childish things, make the schedules, do the work, get up early, avoid the drugs, the girls, the parties, you make the sacrifice and you STILL fall short. Not only that the window of opportunity has passed and you don't get another opportunity to try again. Thats the one we dont talk about so much. Thats the one that aspiring athletes and even ambitious students go through every year. You have to accept that the dream is over and all that time you invested did not bear any fruit and you are forced to start over again and find a new passion when all younever wanted was one thing. And you have to ask yourself "what tf do I do now" and there is just silence, you are on your own and noone cares but you. It sucks.
Cookin with gas
This the one.
@@realantagonist5324woah there buddy, you had me till the very end there. If no one cares but you then you are actually the problem. If you are just a bare minimum decent person who worked hard and failed to accomplish something then even you’re acquaintances would take notice and try and assist you. You gotta put in work to have no one in your corner
“ you are powerful beyond measure, but the problem is you try to measure “
brooooo
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Each man has his own cross to carry.With God all things are possible.
Amen brother 🙏🏽
A lot of Christians/religious people in the world, but I do not see it becoming a better place. If this were true, world hunger wouldn't be an issue in such an age & the US wouldn't have the highest poverty rates ever, despite being Christian-central. The world just gets worse. It's up to a person to make something possible. Faith can help with feelings, sure, which is why people say what you do. But, that's all it is.
@titusg4247 The world has gotten one trillion times better than it was in the past. We only know the world as it is today, but if you study history, you'll see how awful things were.
@@anthonyernst999 On a longer scale, you're right, things have gotten better in many ways. However, it's almost like things started to get much better after the industrial revolution, followed by the technological age we live in now, brought about by science.
Also, back in the times you speak of, pretty much *_everyone_* was *heavily* religious. It was peak religion back then, so why was it so bad, as you say it was, if extremely devout theism came as a standard and to find an atheist was rare?
Also, your comparison was poor. I aren't talking about way back when. I'm talking about relevant times for people that are alive now (past 100 years, let's say). Look at that awful war that's going on in the East, all in the name of religion.
Homelessness in places like the UK and the US is rising rapidly. The church certainly has enough money to fix it, but that won't happen. We live in a capitalist world, we can only help ourselves. You could spend your entire life praying to god for a miracle on the top of a mountain as hard as possible your entire life, but nothing will happen unless you take initiative and do it yourself.
Faith (can) helps people mentally, which is why I sorta wish I were able to believe in a god myself. It'd be easier to get my act together if I feared a place called hell.
@titusg4247 In the past 100 years, we fought in two World Wars, The Cold War, The Vietnam War, and others. I'm not saying things are perfect, but if we compare now to Roman times, we are much better off.
“Someone ain’t ganna do the work for you” something I actually needed to hear lately.
You got this bro 🙏🏽🔥
You need someone to tell you that. This generation is cooked
@@ggdubs1796I needed that
@@corpingtons for real perspective is everything
@@corpingtons Crazy how yall need to be told these things. But regardless keep growing and learning.
This doesn't just apply to men... this a universal message for ALL humans... that's how I feel.
I feel that way too 💯
Real
Very real
4 month late highfive to that!
Duh but he's talking about men. It takes a man to shut up and listen and understand. Hold himself accountable and not try to add "people and women". That comment is so dry
I turn 20 in about a week. A few months ago I finally woke up and realized I needed to grow the fuck up. I am not close to where I need to be, but am a hell of a lot closer than I was a few months ago. These videos have been a real help in kicking my ass into gear. Thank you bro!
Same bro I turn 20 in September, it’s hella I done realized, it’s about what step next we gone take
I turn 20 next month I decided not to live with my parents in a new city and stay in my hometown with my sisters to force myself to level up through uncomfortable situations like basically being homeless to push myself to be in a position I want to be in which is a homeowner at a young age (under 21) even though it’s hard at times and I want to fold I know perseverance and dedication will make all of this worth it
Im ab three months into 20 and it’s the things like drugs alcohol social media that keeps us down but I’m glad there’s a group of us that realize we have to grow up we have to do this shit respect to you my boy the journey gonna be crazy
When I turned 19 I randomly applied to hella jobs and I got a job working as an electrical apprentice. Company put me thru school and I really enjoyed doing electrical work so I stuck with it. Now I’m 25 years old and I’m a licensed electrician making well over 6 figures. It was tough becoming a man in the trades but it made me who I am. Now I’m looking into starting my own electrical business. I recommend you young folks to join the trades. Plumbing,hvac, electrical, carpenter.. any skilled trade is in very high demand fr.
That's a good sign, it's a sign you care about your life a lot but you just don't know how to get into things yet. This was the wake up call to get out there and just look an find what you're passionate about. I was just like you, existential dread crept up on me when turning 20 and I decided from there that I have to get out there and find my passion in this world, something to be happy about in life because someone else can't provide that anymore. I feel like it's an experience all men go through when hitting their 20s, it's a very important time in our lives bc it's the beginning of our true independence. Goodluck brother, keep your head up high
I'm 25 and I recently realized that this life is mine. It's no one's responsibility but my own because I'm way too grown to have others think for me. I've always felt like I needed permission to do stuff, but it's legit my life and if I don't do anything, nothing's gonna happen.
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As a 23-year-old woman, thank you for this video. God has been dealing with me and my childlike tendencies like getting distracted by watching TV shows and playing games, this video came at the right time. Thank you brother in Christ, may the Lord bless you and continue to double your platform in Jesus' name amen. ❤
Also, just wanted to add that I struggle to forgive myself, what would you advise on that?
@Thepureinheartt-k7t I used to be in an inpatient addiction treatment program as a patient. One thing I learned was that a big part of self forgiveness is forgiving others. Oftentimes, if you look out at the things you dislike about yourself, you may find a way to forgive those flaws by seeing how you perceive those same flaws in others. I hated myself for my addiction, but I understand the addiction of others and had sympathy for them; question why you can't give yourself that same softness and consideration
@@k7t-u7yprayer that God helps u and knowing God forgives u and also don’t be too hard on urself
Brothers im 28 had my own spot at 24 , I went back home at 26 on my way back out but with 3 business and 3 jobs so brothers your journey is your journey sometime you gotta reset but don’t waste the time‼️ : much love and success brother
3 jobs AND 3 businesses? Ur an inspiration 🙏🏽
Facts I left home at 22. With my first child. I’m 26 with 3 and another on the way. Only income and my wife stay home bc that’s how I feel things should be. Call me old school. Still out the house but I went back a few times during separations w my kids mom. Lots of setbacks I’ve faced God kept me going. Still far from the destination.
@@Malikforever for sure but don’t waste the resets grow financially and mentally much respect brother
Falling down is realizing you were standing once
@@gck8288 amen brother
"if i gotta go harder then so be it" hit a core bro thankyou!
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34, yr old single man, no kids, yet homeless because of how I grew up. Currently still struggling to live and would have arguments in my head of how wrong they were for neglecting me and not being an actual family. I pray and look for everyday alternatives to replace those thoughts of victimizing myself. But the reality is still daunting. Bless up
This right here man
Stay strong. As long as you know what you fighting for you will always have a reason to fight
have you considered joining the military? you still got some years on you and it's a good way to at the very least a place and food.
@@SpicySin and at this point I feel like that’s thee only other option …
BigBlessUp 😏
love this man i’m 26 and just now coming to these realizations.
Never too late brother!
35 here. I own a house, a car, living alone and I have a lousy job. Ever since I was a kid, I wanted to be someone and got lost over the years. You reminded me that I don't need to be someone, I need to push forward until I become proud of who I am and what I do.
💪🏽🔥🔥🔥 proud of you bro
Exact same here. We are blessed bro. If you own your home, you won. I bought my house at 27 and I'm 44 next week. We are blessed. Probably more blessed than 80% of this thread. Sometimes we need to stop and look around at what we accomplished and know we are blessed but want more. This week has been very hot. Turn on your central air and see how blessed you are today..
Chase yo dreams bro. Don't push them to the side for a job. Ur established. Time flies, u know that at 35. I'm 31. U can fall bacc on that job at anytime, uve proven yoself in that sector. Go chase yo dreams and be happy✊🏼 💯
Usually I hate these youtube self-help "elevate your life" type videos. But this was powerful man thankyou, needed to hear it
ima 15 yrs old from brazil, and this type of video helps me out so much, these real talks are essential to every man
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Deus te abençoe irmão
Orgulho de ver um moleque num video desse em inglês! É isso aí, maninho, simbora! Corre atrás, q nada vai cair no seu colo!
Mas nunca se esqueça: *VOCÊ NÃO ESTÁ SOZINHO. VOCÊ NÃO PRECISA FAZER TUDO SOZINHO. NÃO TENHA VERGONHA DE PEDIR AJUDA*
@@Saxjon valeu demais mano, vou seguir firme e forte 🤝🏽
@@espelhodasconstelacoes obrigado🙏🏽
I'm 31. Despite still living with my mom, having no car and barely $1000 in savings, I can safely say that I'm on my way up. I still seek comfort more often than not, and I don't make to-do lists. But really, everything else I have made strides change, very recently as a matter of fact.
I still have a ways to go, but little changes every day add up really quick.
When it comes to incremental change, the only "too little" or "too small" is none at all.
Love ya, bros.
I’m tired of y’all 30 something’s still acting like ignorant kids smh. Y’all act more immature than me when I was a teenager…. I was working since I was 18, now I’m 21, have like over 50k in my bank. And you… a grown @$$ 31 year old man only has 1k…. And still lives with his mom… 🤣
I’m earning my money so I can live alone when I’m older. Why on earth are there grown people like you still behaving like kids? It’s ridiculous…
Like what have you been doing all this time? I swear, it’s like y’all lived your childhood and skipped your teens and 20’s and landed in your 30’s all of a sudden 🤣 cuz this is just not possible
Keep shining brother. I'm rooting for you 🤝
27 here man, finding my way one step at a time. I crashed hard on my goals this year but hearing stuff like this keeps me up. You got this brother, just remember, we can still lean on others for emotional support. Having that support network is vital
@@hunterclark9932 You got this 🤝
Rooting for you my brother, you got this - we all do
I'm 25 and I'm glad you made this video bro. Made me realize I needed to grow up and get out of my mom's house. Thank you bro!
Man, I'm 22 years old. I was raised by a single mother and I recently realized I have been blaming my circumstances and problems on her and my childhood. I blamed my past for why I dropped out sophomore year of college, I've been beating myself up and living at home lost with no purpose. My girlfriend is pushing me to be closer to god which I'm grateful for, I wont lie, but I think I really need to lock in and stop giving myself excuses as to why I cant be this or do that, and just do it. I plan on moving out at the end of the year, with no idea how to clean an apartment, no discipline, and no drive. I can't keep living like this and coasting, I think it's time I finally start holding myself accountable and chasing the faint dreams I once had. Thank you man, I hope I watch your video often to remind myself of my promise. May god be with you.
@aedinvalente800 - 🙏🏽 you're locked in and closer to where you want to be.
I love how you deliver your messages bro. You say what needs to be said, but in a way that builds up rather than tears down; inspires rather than demoralizes.
Glad you picked up on that 🙏🏽 that’s definitely intentional, we all need encouragement 💪🏽
@@ForPurposeDrivenMenfather figure fr. Leader figure too.
I needed this (26 years old, striving to that first apartment). I gotta grow. Thank you for making this video
33yr old single dad of 3, you got a new subcriber on this one. Great message here!
That means a lot brother thank you, keep being a great dad! 💪🏽🙏🏽
God bless you man keep going strong 💪
It was a blessing coming across this at this particular time.
Im 34 turning 35 just 3 days from now. Its refreshing to hear it because Ive lost the plot for the last 5-6years.
Life is a trip, I remember being 22 like it was just last month. I had my own place and a partner as well at the time. It didnt work out with that person so it set me down a path of depression and I didnt further my education. I just wasted my 20s on hating on myself, not eating right and working dead end jobs. Gave myself diabetes by the time I hit 30 so watching this made me wanna cut the crap and take back the reigns of my life.
Life comes at you fast,like I said 22 to now was a blink. I needed to remind myself that I'm a capable dude. Taught myself how to read at age 4, could cook,clean and do laundry by myself by 6. I was a latchkey kid basically and would be home by myself while my mom worked 3rd shift.
I guess the point Im trying to make is that we need to stop defining ourselves by other folks metrics and just believe that we can accomplish the things we set out to do.
Thanks for the video bud.
The real fight really is fighting the societal metrics of others and ur own self-perception. Being 30+ n still figuring things out doesn't mean it's game over.
I guess it is what it is. It is something we need to think more about because nothing will happen, until we do something about it. Great video dude, you got the good message out there.
The crazy thing is that I literally know all the right things that I need to be doing to elevate in life, but because of lack of drive and my mind making me crave comfortably it’s hard to follow those steps. In the past month though i’ve been taking control of my life and forcing myself to do tasks that I don’t want to do, and this has really made a positive impact on my life, especially the advice from your videos. Keep up the good work, messages, and positivity.💙
Pray about bro and read atomic habits that’s what’s helping me rn kinda in the same boat I’m 21
This is facts bro the mind the only thing holding us back we know we gotta lock in! Its time to elevate 📈💙
I resonate intensely with this.
I relate to this so much, I'm 24 and I'm really aware, yet I genuinely lack that mental drive, I've sabotaged myself so much, but don't give up on hope, we at least have our mind in the right direction
18, and uh yeah feeling this. Heavy .
man at about 19:42 I shed a few tears. This is the first time in 9 months that I have been able to cry. I've had days where I wish I could cry and nothing came out but when you mentioned that you do everything to the best of your ability but the things you aren't too good at your partner does, it hit me to the core. I'm not one for overly praising people but you are way ahead of me on this journey and I appreciate you allowing us to see where we can all get with discipline and simply maning up.
🙏🏽🙏🏽🫡I believe in you
Not going to lie my brother I needed every word you just spoke, so much appreciated.
We got this bro🙏🏽🫡
I use to blame the creator for my situation but then I realized it was my fault entirely
Because your delusional
Yep I realized the creator will litterly give you what you need. But our ego as humans we tend the think we know what's bests for us. God will litterly put stuff in front if us and we will still be like naw ima go this way.
Same here brother.
We all been forced to be here. Hows that our fault? My resentment towards god will be forever.
No one volunteer to be here, you’re right. Even more reason why to submit to the savior. Everyone here has a purpose. This existence is too elaborate and complex to all be for nothing. Get away from your victim mentality and seek God
I’m 29 and still struggling with these things. Pray for me y’all. I’m workin hard to change
dw bro as long as you also pray for yourself, Gods gotcha
Lock in bro, Filipinos are hard workers but we can get distracted easily and/or lazy. Whatever it is you do, give it your all and you’ll be fine. Mahal
Same age same boat Filipino I'm with you fam.
I’m w u bro 22 been on my own but it’s jus hard to keep it pushin and knowing what the next step is , I don’t wanna say i wish but it would’ve been easier with some guidance but you’ll go through stuff that only you and a certain amount of others would understand real recognize real it’s just so crazy how people take things for granted
We must pray for each other bro at all time and ask god to help us lock in
So many men have no ambition except doing as little as possible. Thank you for encouraging men to take responsibility for their lives so they can become leaders.
Is that why they are so men?
I'm 21 and I used games to escape my problems. I was a slave to the game bro!! You got me there. I just deleted all my games from my PC three days ago and everyday I've gotten the urge to play but I'm responsible for my life. I have to make this sacrifice fr.
As a young male struggling to leave the house and do right because of my own decisions, I really needed this. Thank you for igniting in my heart the drive to be and do better
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You vocalized everything I've been working to improve as a 37-year-old man in the past year, and even some problems I didn't even know I had. Bless you, brother.
you got this brother 🙏🏽🫡
Saw the title, harsh truth, and clicked the video instantly. Ego have no place in the future
Tough man!! Tough! A real man isn't gonna put his hand on a woman!! They rather communicate.
Exactly brother 🙏🏽🫡
I’m 23 and I definitely needed this reminder today, been trying to improve myself and my mentality and realized this was the part I was missing especially the hard truth. Thank you for putting this out there, definitely needed this to put me back in line
You got this! 🫡
Thank you so much for this video, I really needed it. Felt like I was having a conversation with an old friend sharing wisdom about life.
It’s men like you that are really making the waves in changing the world for our brothers. Thank you 🙏🏾
I appreciate that more than you know 🙏🏽💪🏽
I’m 21 1/2 years old. I started my journey at 17. I’m glad I found this at the right time. I’m still not 100%- but I’m hungry I strive for greatness
💪🏽 as long as you stay hungry you’re going to go far
Found this at the perfect time man… Currently going through a fallout with my closest friends who are also my roommates cause I got fired and haven’t paid my portion of rent on multiple occasions. My incompetence and negligence to bring matters into my own hands has caused tremendous stress on not only myself but to those around me (ie. my family and friends). I suck at communicating even though I’m 24 which doesn’t make things better. This video made me realize how far I’ve fallen but also opened up my eyes to ways I can redeem myself. Ima take that first step to become the man I want to be and have a nice long chat with my roommates about everything. Whatever comes after that i’m taking to the chin and pushing forward. Thank you for your words bro. 🙏🏽
1 Corinthians 13:11 When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways
Small world I know u through nana the soul bro
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I suffer from OCD and I'm 18 years old. I've recently turned my life to Christ. My biggest problems are procrastination and laziness. I've been isolated for 4 years due to my anxiety and overthinking. Now that I'm a bit stronger because of God, I want to be more mature and improve myself. I've suffered and I've been lazy, but I have never given up. I'm trying to change and I'm determined to move forward. Thank you for this video
Never gave up, Amen bro
That's awesome bro, God will really give us a wake up call & show us where we are lacking. I'm 29 & also totally isolated & defeated for last 4 years. I didn't meet Jesus until i was 24. You're lucky to realize this at 18. You have perfect opportunity to grow & improve. Keep going & become the man God wants you to be.
I had the same exact realization about myself earlier today, and the fact that someone in this comment section is going through the same exact problems I am is pretty reassuring. I'm not sure where you are in life but I hope it's somewhere uplifting and I want to let a complete stranger know I have the same issues and seeing someone in the same boat gives me hope for change and continued self improvement. Good luck with your life bro, I'm gonna be right behind you.
Dude we're both same
Dude try college you will not regret it. Try and fail alot you'll figure somthing out.
i was skeptical clicking on this, but hearing you talk, you're like a my big brother man. i really appreciate you.
You’re more than welcome brother 🙏🏽
2nd year of college and still complaining, not putting the hours at work. 23 next month and l am rock bottom. I got 4 months still the end of my flat-contract. I can’t even sleep looking for a second job to pay for the next semester. Facts big bro, a man child for days. Gotta man up.
Damn bro im keeping you in my prayers please keep your head up stay safe 🙏 gotta look out for eachother out here
Sending love and prosperity to you brother I hope it ends in your favor !Stay strong !
fact in the same position, same age😂❤ same problems, its time for us to grow up
Just sharing my heartfelt opinion , but at that age and position I went through that. Please know the struggle doesn’t disappear just your decision to let it affect you changes. We talk down on the guy who living with his parents and not chasing. But it’s all about being accountable/owning your development. Because a mosquito will always try to bite you when THEY are hungry, but its up to go outside w/o protection and to get angry when an insect bites you because of their nature, but you can give them your everything they need and never will satisfy them. 😅 *Hopefully this makes sense.
U got this my man, keep going and don’t give up just push yourself everyday but give urself time to rest and take breaks so u can keep going too, also working out helps focus
I am married and am 23 years old. Got my own place, amazing wife, gym life is in order perfectly, pursuing my dreams. I still struggle with finances on occasion because of my impulses. I only started learning to cook 2 weeks ago to remove some of the chores off of my wife. I’m excited to start pursuing a much bigger job than I am currently at which will challenge me physically, psychologically and spiritually. I feel like it has been time for me to step into even more discipline and to embrace my God given masculinity to its fullest. Thank you, brother 🙏❤️
I came across this video at a time when I really needed it brother thank you. I still put a lot of blame on others for what I go through, as well as beating myself up every day over past/present mistakes and it serves me no purpose anymore. Even though I've come a long way in sobriety and I've been going to work for a few months now, I live in an Oxford house and I'm staying sober and I pay my own rent, I have so many accomplishments yet all I can focus on is my mistakes and self-pity. I've been a man-child for too long and it's been a long and lonely road trying to grow and change. I'm grateful for your words of wisdom 🙏
16, though I needed this.
feeling down, been doing some introspection, yes, it's one of those bland days
i type this with a foggy, unclear mind because of that.
little old me used to be happy, y'know, now i'm stressed out and lost, trying to figure things out but sometimes wasting time - off the course from fulfillment.
i hope i can find that spark again, but for now...
there is so much to be done.
thank you, malique, love you all.
God bless us all throughout.
God bless you too brother!
This is actual therapy to me as a woman am going through a very hard time so much pain right now I can't explain,,you are my best friend talking to me and encouraging me and speaking to me with so much empathy thank you
this showed me what the main focus is for a man in general and to keep yourself on schedule everyday and to become a provider by becoming self sufficient great video
Thank you 🙏🏽
I’m 18 and life’s been tough and I’ve been forced to mature really fast because of some crazy shit that’s been happening, and watching this shows me how much I’ve grown, thank you.
Keeping you in my prayers dawg we all gotta get through the tough times 🙏
Good job. I wish I was 18 again. Young af
Same here bro
I appreciate you taking the time to put this together for all the young men taking their first steps to be self sufficient.
I started working at age 13, just to help my parents, and help myself so my parents would not need to worry about me. I raised my first born the same way I was raised. My goal was for him to be able to take care of himself and his mother. Thankfully he is doing just that.
I see too many waiting around like their progress or growth is going to jump in their lap. Waiting on mom for this, and mom for that. Waiting on hand outs, riding their friends to get by, but then being depressed they have nothing.
Get up and be a go getter. Do not let anything or anyone stop you. Just keep going.
Keep up the good content. Stay blessed.
I’m 15 and i was forced to realize that at 12 but i keep having this thought of i need to someone to take care of me and you opened my eyes again, thanks, i really needed this
I believe in you 🫡
@@ForPurposeDrivenMen i believe in you too, keep up the hard work💪
Idk if you will see this but I am 29 years old and I have learned some things from this video. Thank you very much man! I appreciate it!
Appreciate you watching brother 🙏🏽
hearing this facts right now at 18 years of my life, save my life thank you so much for this powerful video i really needed this because I've been a man child in my whole life and Im too lazy to even take care of myself and improve in my ln my life, God bless you 🙏
Thank you brother, your word has planted a seed that will grow beyond limit. Peace God
Thank you for tuning in brother 🙏🏽
Just turned 30 and i needed this.. Its like a big brother i never had telling me "gotta grow up man.. Times to change"
Thank you so much for this.
All Glory to the Most High, I’m 24 with two kids, recently got out of the military and God knows i needed this Thank you so much brotha. I just subscribed and added this to my playlist
God bless you! Thank you for your service, and shout out to your two blessings man! You got this 🙏🏽let’s keep being great, thank you for your support
It took me YEARS to realize this, I’m turning 29 this month and what I’ve come to learn is that blaming others and regret is the worst you can do, give yourself grace. There’s no person better or worse than you, remain accountable and responsible with your decisions and don’t be scared to take leaps. God bless y’all and be safe.
So true brother, God bless you!
You know it's going to be a special video when it catches you in the first thirty seconds. Truly life changing stuff man, you can really preach and say the truth. Thank you, this has helped me a ton. I hope this catches the attention of all the young men out there and women as well!
The title of the video kind of left a sour taste in my mouth, but I quickly understood that this just wasn't for me and that a lot of up-and-coming men could get a lot from a video like this so I respect it. Keep on inspiring these young men brother.
Definitely brother! 💪🏽 it’s a tough title, only for those who it applies to. Keep up the great work bro 🔥💯 purpose driven
Bless you bro, this advice wasn’t for me, but I just threw it on and kept it on because It’s so solid and you kept a good masculine energy rolling. This some big bro stuff that a lot of people need to hear. Putting ourselves in a humble position and opening our hearts to this. Because ultimately it comes from a place of love.
I def needed this at 35 years old. Just a reminder to kick my ass back to it. Thanks man.
i wished my 20-24 year old self would hear this great video man
Same bro. Just had my 25 th birthday. Time to be serious.
@@Andreassssssss-iv3wv now 28 year old brandon is now a man. old me was fat annoying perverted cowardly but new me is strong brave gentleman
Blessings brother, me finding this video is a testament to my progression. Glory to God!
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I’m 19 with a baby on the way. I still play video games , live with my mom , I’m in credit card debt & I have 2 court cases. We just found out the baby has been in her stomach for 2 months & we had no clue. I still hold onto grudges & till this day I’m upset my dad left & my step father at the time abused me & my siblings for years. My mom & my family really put me on my feet & still help me to this day .. Thank you for this video. I’m hoping I become a better man , a better spouse & an even better father. God bless you.
I’m 20 years old and I’m so grateful for this advice big bro 💪🏾
Glad you tuned in bro 💪🏽
I don’t know where you came from but at 21 years old, you are perfect timing brother. God bless
Realest shit I’ve heard all year, god speaking to me through u I feel like.
🙏🏽glad God sent this video your way
I needed this today
Just graduated a few weeks ago, came to the realization that I’m like a big baby still and have been letting life shape me as it will
Well if that's goes into girls or relationships just know people like audio visual stuff like movies etc or even make your thoughts/conversations have more audio and visual energy in it and you will attract people easy ngl had the switch a week ago and it's easy to pick up girls irl and talk to people that I would of had anxiety to before etc
@@nhingedwhat do you mean have more audio or visual? Like be more descriptive when speaking and have more body language?
This is one of the most well thought out messages for everyone out there. Its nuanced, its realistic and it gets the fundamental values of how to not only become successful but also how to become a happy, good human-being.
A true leader takes upon the burden of sorrows from others and take action to make a difference
Only a minute in and the mention of "your life is your responsibility" as small as it is hit me cause I've been alive for 26 years and have never lived a year of that for myself once
The grip on your emotions part was the hardest thing I had to learn. It was me seeing the fear my family had towards me seeing me acting out and fighting people that made me really look at myself.
I grew up thinking and seeing that fighters are strong, but if you can handle things without needing to lift a finger that is true strength.
Thanks for confirming im not a man-child.
Keep waking people up brotha🤙🏾
We got this brother 🔥💪🏽
I had to have this conversation with myself after having a rough 2023, from being unemployed for almost a year, to moving back in with my parents. I've been successful before and lived on my own, paid bills on time etc. but when life humbles you it's easy to feel like a man child again and it sucks. My next plan is to become a Navy Officer to hopefully benefit my future self
You got this 💪🏽
the world needs more men like this. young men need to learn quickly to act responsibly and take accountability for themselves and their circumstances. Great work.
I'm new here and I can say that you are blunt about everything. Being focused on yourself is huge and the goals are a must. That being said, take care brother and god bless 🙏 you just gained a subscriber 🔥
20 about to turn 21, I've been on the path to becoming a man since I was 18 with some help from my dad but he's always working and can only teach me when he's home (one and a while).
I've been feeling a bit lonesome due to my peers and friends always being on some worldy timing and always question the things that I do
( Doesn't drink very much, quit smoking weed, barely play video games, and not spanking my monkey or "fucking hella bitches" )
as I stay sober minded to reach my goals because nobody else can do it but me at the end of the day and thought I was the only person who felt like this but its good to know there are brothers and sisters out there who are on the same page trying to improve themselves to the best of their ability.
We’re with you brother on the same page! You’re not alone 💪🏽🔥🔥
Proud of u fam
The feeling of being lost, not sure what to do or how to start is horrible. Procrastination, isolation etc. I don't really blame anyone but myself for allowing myself to fall.
I need to work towards independence, and much more.
This is a nice little message
22, back at home, working on getting out. 500 dollars left on my car. Just got out of the first real relationship I’ve ever had. Training for a marathon because I love myself and I need it more then anything. No more setbacks.
I’m 22 as well. Got a new job…. Stopped those worthless dating app dates and 1 night stands. We got this bro 💪
22 as well turning 23 soon, best of luck brethren!💪
No more setbacks 💪🏽🔥
Im 30 and this video hited me like a train ......
That's a good thing😊💕
Damn, thanks from The Netherlands!
Bro thank you so much. I started evolving 2 years ago, soon my apprenticeship will be over and I will have a nice job. My next goal is to get my own spot. My parents say it is ok to stay with them but I just know it has to change. You just get complacent with things and when you have your own thing going on then the to-do list starts to form itself brother…
Proud of you brother, keep going!
I appreciate this channel, it keeps me in track, I will try and apply the principles that are taught here because my life is in a downward spiral
I HAVE BEEN BINGING YOUR VIDEOS SINCE I FOUND YOU 3 DAYS AGO!❤
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I know your target audience is Men but I take it directly, myself!
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I’ve wasted a lot of time on nonsense, all because of lack of vision/purpose!!
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I throughly am grateful for your content! The world needs more
i believe in you!
facts. i didnt grow up until i was 30. now i have a purpose that i work towards daily.
I’m 28 and I feel like I still have so much growing up to do it’s ridiculous
You’ll be all good. I’m 43 and I’ve only been on the up for like 5 years. It’s crazy how quickly very very small changes stack up and within months you can be on a different trajectory.
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That’s pathetic. I grew up since I was 18. And here we have these sorry excuses for human, who have lived for 30 years, let me repeat- 30 YEARS, and just barely “growing up” isn’t that sad to you? Like what have you been doing all this time? Playing with toys? 🤣
Pathetic
That’s pathetic. I grew up since I was 18. And here we have these sorry excuses for a person. who have lived 30 years, let me repeat- 30 years. and just barely “growing up” isn’t that sad to you? Like what have you been doing all this time? Playing with toys? 🤣 come on man.
32 with two sons. I learned this when I was 7 years old and have done for myself ever since. Yes I lived under my mothers roof until 17, but I never asked her for anything cause I didn't want to feel disappointment from expectations. I was reminded I was on the right track when at 14 I started dating and when I was let down I didn't let it affect me emotionally like how I've seen my peers react to girls during my teenage years. Into adult hood this ideology served me well in the military and going into marriage this still served me well as I don't expect anything from my wife. I chose to be with her and if it gets to the point where I need to let her go because she's becoming a problem financially then I'll move on and I let her know that from the get go with a prenup before we got married. I've been married for 10 years now, still going strong and that doesn't mean things are perfect or we don't have minor challenges along the way, but we know how to get back on track. 2 kids in I'm now teaching my oldest these things while still allowing him to be a child and enjoy his childhood. The younger one still has time before I start on him. But, yes definitely men or young men have to understand this sooner than later. It will save you alot of stress, it will teach you how to handle situations with class, and it will build you to become BETTER MEN for yourselves for our society and for the children.
Thank you so much for sharing this brother, thank you for your service and I know it was yesterday but happy Father’s Day to you 💪🏽
This one hit home like nothing else, I just turned thirty 2 days go and I got to say thank you, for pursuing your passion and speaking from the heart. I needed this today, and because of you , I got it.
learning this at 11 saved my life. thank you.
Damn bro consider me jealous 😂
you're ahead of the game bro, proud of you fr!
@@PHALSEPROFITKZW guys its satire i am a grown man
@@PHALSEPROFITKZW the music video hard asl tho
i thought you were serious 😂 i just turned 13 though
i'm 20 years old I still have some growing to do. Maturity is a choice, and it's a difficult choice to make when we have to let go of our own pride
I’m 15 but I still think this is a good wake up call for people my age. Bless that I found this video 🙏
this was tight bro
i appreciate this
Definitely bro 💪🏽
As a 21 year old man with no job, no purpose, no income, or any intelligence…
I really hope this video will completely change my life. 🙏
As a 27 year old, if I could speak to my younger self I’d say follow your dreams 100% and never look back.
Life goes by fast and your time isn’t to be wasted by partying or trying to fit in. Trust me brother! You got this 💪🏼
You got this!!
You do have a purpose, though. You’ll be able to help people who went through what you did in a unique way.
@@JeremiahB444 Worst advice ever. Dont follow your dreams. This world is full of DECEIVERS, and they will try to deceive you. Just try to better yourself little by litte. First focus on the things you need to know that are essential for your survival. That way, you will be able to survive while pursuing your dream. I should charge to say this, but I'm going to say it because there are a lot of snakes on the internet and I'm not one of them.
My birthday is on tomorrow and boutta turn 17, and I'm very f*cking grateful for you for making this video. Thank you very much bro. I've realised I've been ducking away from the cold truth, the truth that I was just cruising or living through life. Nothing more, I always expect my family to cater things I needed, not realizing I'm actually the one thats spoiled and not my friends and classmates. I've realized God has given me much more help and opportunities to me but I wasn't being grateful. Thank you for spewing the relatable truth to me and tell me to stop crying or whining about why I'm failing so much. Thank you for the knowledge and wisdom that you have given me about how much you really needed to sacrifice and what to do to be great. Man, phew, God is really good. Thank you. Gonna talk less and do more
This year about to be your best yet brother I can already feel it, I’m glad this video helped you. Would you believe me if I said you knew these things all along, I was just sent here to remind you. I’m proud of you bro, keep going! And happy early birthday 🎉
Thank you man, your message means a lot!🙏
Glad I could help brother
This is something I needed to hear.
Glad you heard it brother
You’re wise beyond your years young brother and that’s from another young brother myself. I’m 26, been out the house since I was 18 living on my own. Tried college out - dropped out. Didn’t stop grinding. Ended up having a daughter. Started going hard in my profession. Fast forward to date bro I’m pulling 70K+ annually. My daughter is happy and healthy. I train and work out everyday, eat healthy. Smoke a little but hey we all have our vices and devices. Overall this message is one a lot of young brothers need to hear. Men have to value being men again. Being leaders. Taking care of the family. Leaving behind legacies
Happy to hear this bro and you’re really doing it man! Shout out to you and your daughter. God bless yall 🫡🙏🏽