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Nope I'm sorry But Self Pride especially it's just the beginning Its what Lucifer was condemned for everything else is also a problem but take a back seat to pride case and point: He Hates A Proud Look ❤️🔥 Much Love ✌️😎 L8R
I'm 69. I never stopped dressing as a punk rocker gear head. I have always loved electronic music, loud. I'm not stupid. I live alone now and couldn't be happier about it. Wish I never married. I keep myself in shape and good health except for arthritis but I stand tall, not letting it pull me down. I stopped caring what people think and it is a good thing. On the back of my studded blue Jean jacket it says, "stay weird". People want you to do what they do. Boring and you get old fast. I feel better about myself now that I ever have. Needless to say I am a loner. I have my pets and they love me the way I am. My goal in life is kindness to everything. To bad that isn't appreciated more.
Kindness IS appreciated, Alice. By those who count. I love to bake cakes for people and my jealous flatmate reckons that I bake cakes to "buy" into favour because no-one likes me. Yes, he said this. He's moving out. I poked the bear to make him give me his notice, and he did exactly what I wanted him to do.
I've had this everywhere I go. Especially at work. I am down to earth, friendly, sociable, and empathic. I am puzzled. I get bullied by women all the time, people smear me, lies are told behind my back, and people try to bring me down. I have almost nothing compared to others, yet I am contented, but this issue hurts me. This issue affected my career, yet I am still hopeful. I work hard, and this probably is problematic to others. 😢
It sounds like a lot of envy and jealousy that your dealing with, but don’t internalize this. You must be doing something right or you wouldn’t be a victim of getting bullied! Whatever you’re doing that is making them feel insecure or how ever they’re feeling, don’t change to make others feel comfortable. I experienced the same thing and I feel your pain. The more they bullied me, the more I kept being true to myself. I dress nice, I wear my headpieces and I don’t give a care what these women think! They got a very rude awakening when they realize persecuting me WAS NOT stopping me from being who I WANT TO BE!!! Don’t let anyone decide on who you should be! It’s none of their business, and you’ll be glad you did because you will be free from what others think. And those people who want to judge you instead of getting to know you first, you don’t need them .
I nearly lost my job on the back of a huge lie. A colleague started sending out anonymous letters to people in the department where I worked, giving the impression that I was behind them. The envelopes were handwritten but none of these people cared to check the handwriting - it wasn't mine - but I was bullied for it! The people to whom these letters were sent to were all medical doctors! Where was their intelligence? One of the female doctors even slapped me in the face! I kept silent, said nothing (the Lord had bid me so). They found out in the end, after engaging a detective, that I had nothing to do with this. This then shamed them! But, I behaved gracefully towards them, and they were surprised.
1. Envy or jealousy 2. Misunderstanding and ineffective communication 3. Differences in fundamental values and beliefs 4. The influence of Rumors and Gossips 5. Personal Insecurities (feeling threatened even when no real threat exists) 6. Lack of empathy and understanding 7.Competition and Rivalry 8. The influence of social expectation 9. The lack of Recognitions
For me it was an untimely facial reaction (#2) that caused someones resentment to grow excessively toward me. Im not the brightest tool in the kit as they say social skill wise.
In my 20’s and 30’s , I worked for people’s acceptance. Today in my mid 60’s ? I still treat people as I want to be treated but the need for their approval is simply gone for the most part.
God will prepare a feast for us in front of our enemies. What lives in them hates what lives in us. For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but principalities.. that secretly rule people. Be filled with the Holy Spirit and never stop being the light no matter who is watching and who notices. Thank God you are You! ❤
@@transcendentsacredcourage Oh, it's easy enough to do if one simply chooses to be that... although it's quite rare today for sure. In fact, it's so rare that most people today seem to just expect to be lied to, sadly.
When it is your own mother, it can take many years to figure everything out. I just want to stay calm and stay self differentiated. I wish I could change her heart. It’s no longer my business. It’s her choice to stay stuck.
Once you contradict people, they will naturally resent you. It doesn't matter how nice or helpful you are. At the end of the day, if you still contradict them, they will still resent you. Human beings are weak.
It's sad, one time I shared disagreement with an older sister I had respected. She took it as criticism and now she talks behind my back and even shared information that I told her in privacy which I never thought she would. Twisting my words and trying to ruin my image among our other siblings. And thinking that I don't know she says she loves me and showers me praise. Pretty scary
Excellent video I'm facing this and they are wilfully destroying my property because I live alone. I dont interfere with anyone because i have more than enough to take care of and really dont have the time to pry into others affairs and gossip. I am 70 years old and dont like to indulge in nonsense. Cannot figure out their envy, jealousy and low mentality and how to save my property. Only God can do a miracle and save the situation.
I'm so sorry you're dealing with this situation-it’s truly disheartening when others let jealousy and negativity drive their actions. Your resilience and focus on what matters most to you at 70 is admirable. You’re not alone, and I hope things turn around for the better soon. Stay strong!
I had the same with my husband's family - I was never accepted by them. Someone said, 'you need to forgive them.' It took some time before I did, but after I did it got better.
It's very important, to get friends who are better than you. It's a painful lesson, I have learned in my life. But, when your bar is high, it's very difficult to get friends at your level, hence, you have to constantly lower your standards.
People don’t like me because I am a straight talker and I am succesful. I don’t let people to project their stupidity on me. It is nothing to understand about people who are incompetent and insecure. I consider them “my fans club. “
@@Sandy-du4ev l am honest and direct in my speech or actions and do not offend. I don’t beat around the bush or try to hide my true feelings or intentions. I speak my mind and share my opinions openly and transparently. Direct communication builds trust I do not fear judgment. I know people don’t like me but they trust me and that’s enough for me.
When I use to work for a particular company I could not understand why this woman was jealous of me. She was married to some high policeman, lived in amazing house in a posh town. They each had a car. I was living in a council flat and did not own a car,traved by public transport They had about 3 holidays a year and I had none. They hated me because I sent my daughter to private school ,not because I was rich,it allowed me to work fulltime as it had an after school facility. Now Thank you for explaining this to me and another thing I learned is to keep my mouth shut about my life. What people don't know, they can't criticize. Thank you for the info 🎉
I believe you cause I literally lived it. So weird, the nicer I was the worst I was treated. The ex, his family, friends and even my own family were awful to me. The jealousy and control was disturbing. They tortured me for years and so many just stood back and watched it, including the ex. The scars they caused will never heal.
envy ppl hurt me many times! From losing jobs, and friends, to losing pets because they wanted to see me sad and unhappy, 😔Since i met those people i went thru Hell last 8 years for nothing, for their Envy and Jealousy problems ...they were punished by God, but I was hurting constantly, but found Jesus Thank you God!
@@Lisa-ik3wt Good point Lisa ~~ easy to complain about others while ignoring how my actions may have encouraged their behavior toward me, being Autistic = difficult communication frank opinionated unyielding then seeking solitude wo notice or explanation, just disappear into my own little world but let me ask, is this punishment, shunning of "loved ones", a just punishment considering actions of really bad people: kill rob kidnap embezzle money from elderly or lie to defraud others, where is honest empathy here??
I find the idea about social expectations leading to resentment so powerful. (20:57). It’s true that stepping away from societal norms can sometimes create negative feelings in others-especially when we challenge what they’ve always believed to be 'right.' This video is a beautiful reminder to stay authentic, even when others might not understand or support our choices. Living for ourselves, not for others’ expectations, is what brings true fulfillment.
Thank you for this insightful reflection. Living authentically, true to our own values, often challenges the expectations others hold. Yet, as the Stoics remind us, the pursuit of inner peace and integrity is far more rewarding than bending to societal pressures. May we continue to choose the path of authenticity, regardless of others' perceptions. Stay steadfast.
Understanding that others’ negative feelings often stem from their own insecurities and struggles, rather than anything we’ve done, is empowering. Stoic philosophy reminds us to focus on what we can control our actions, thoughts, and responses and let go of what we can’t. By doing so, we maintain our inner peace and don’t let others' negativity disturb our journey toward personal growth
Distance yourself from them. I was raised in a toxic family. My mother was very narcissistic and my sisters and others were the flying monkeys, doing her bidding when I left the family. Mom has passed in 2016 and my sisters both still haven't changed. I broke ties with all.
Highly relatable content! Experiencing this currently. I think the best solution is just to leave such people and follow your path alone. And I have dared to choose that path, regardless of what 'people' may think! You just spoke my thoughts and put a stamp on my decision. Thank you 🙏
This video exactly tells how haters,envy and jealousy people does.But the irony is people easily believes the gossips spread by haters. Am blessed atleat am not in those idiots list.Hope through your video you continue to spread wisdoms all over the world. Thank you 🙏 this video resonate me a lot😊
Truth - no one is ever happy for your successes. That’s fact, will never change. They may act like they are rising above something, but the truth is, they seethe in hate and resentment when they see your long term marriage and they can’t even get a date, they see your paid off good car, they are having to bum rides, they see your large land holdings when they can’t even afford to rent an apartment. No matter how hard you worked, no matter how lucky or blessed you are perceived, You will be resented and vilified. It’s human nature.
Thank you for sharing such an honest perspective. It’s true that others may feel resentment over what they perceive as our good fortune. But as the Stoics remind us, we can’t control others’ reactions-only our own response. Staying grounded in our own values and achievements brings the kind of inner peace that no outside opinion can shake. Wishing you strength and serenity on your journey.
One thing my mom reiterated while growing up was, if you really want to make your haters angry, make sure that you do well at whatever you choose to be and do. She was right
Be diplomatic, kind, clear goal setting & communication, act more like a grown up adult who accepts everyone as they are. Calm and humility goes a long way for yourself and others who work alongside you. ❤ Listen more than speak usually helps.
AT THE END OF THE DAY WHOSE PROBLEM IS THAT??? STAND IN YOUR TRUTHS AND "KEEP ON MOVING ON!!! NO ONE CAN CONTROL ANOTHER PERSON'S DOWN FALLS!!! STAY FOCUSED ON YOUR CHARACTER AND INTEGRITY!!!
I’m a woman of mixed heritage: Spanish, Native American and Irish. When I was young I looked very Spanish with my dark hair, eyes, and olive skin. I’m petite as well. As I age and my hair is greying I look more Native. I lived and worked in Northern Ireland during college and was called “exotic”. There I was accepted by most because they had community troubles and knew their priorities. But in my own country the USA, I was/am often looked at side-eyed-as the young people here say. Mostly by females. I realize it’s because my nature is rather stoic (I have a comical side too which only my very closest loved ones see as it’s considered undignified for an older woman). Bummer ha ha. I have dealt with the dislike starting as a young woman. I was often called Pollyanna because of my faith. I used to say to myself when I get old that will change. Not true! Now it’s older women disliking me. I work hard at my personal growth and have shed traits that are irritating to others over the years. I look to certain people that I admire to be guides so that I can be the best I can be. I live a modest, simple life and guard my peace of mind. I don’t want to be that one that is always disliked so I do what I can to better myself. I’m also on the Autism spectrum ASD-1 very high functioning formerly known as Asperger’s Syndrome. Officially diagnosed. This certainly contributes to how I communicate and how I come across. As a younger woman I masked it really well. Now, not so much. I am myself as much as possible and avoid offending others. I’m aware how my direct and pointed way of communicating may cause problems in groups. I have even used emoji's to keep that from happening but all it can take is one innocent emoji to stir the pot- even if it’s a kind one. I try to be as cordial as possible and mostly am very happy in my own skin. I no longer allow people to bully me. I separate myself from them instead. That's a big part of my peace plan going forward. I hope my story helps someone out there.
Thanks for sharing this. I agree with you, in that you separate yourself from people who just want to drag you down. Just pray that God will bless them - you'll be surprised what an effect this can have on them.
@ You are welcome! I appreciate the suggestion. I believe you are correct that is the best way -I will do that. Take care and thank you for your response. 🙏🕊️
@@irenemcwatt4443 Thank you. May the protection of our Lord Jesus be on you today as well. “You, dear children, are from God and have overcome them, because the One who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world” (1 John 4:4). 🕊
Been my problem all my life, but it’s what me who I am today. I would never change it about me or allow it to change me. Yes it down to jealousy and envy and nothing I cant do about it except smile and keep moving forward in life.
if people hate you that does not mean that you are let down by them but actually you are a distinctive and sophisticated man who own certain signs they don't.
When watching this video, it reminded me when my whole family blamed me for Covid-19 during Thanksgiving & Christmas in 2020…the entire family including uncle’s, aunts and cousins had a whole zoom meeting gossiping about me and spreading lies trying to assassinate my character…they even tried to blame me when my grandmother passed away a year later… at first I was hurt, confused and in beyond disbelief on why they will say all these things that aren’t true…but now I know it was simply pure jealousy & envy that entire family had the whole time since I was a kid growing up 😂😢🤦♂️
I am 71 and retired in South Asia. During my working life I worked for about a decade in a small QUANGO in London. Third parties stirred up strife among the junior of whom I was one and the place was rife with feuding and verbal fights. It was a study in the negative side of psychology :)
Thank you for your feedback! I’m glad you enjoyed the content. 💪🏼💙. It's sad because If they still seek recognition from others, they will quarrel for the rest of their lives. You can send this video to them, if they understand, it will be so happy.
I've found that if someone doesn't like me its usually because of my high levels of self confidence and self esteem...probably comes off as full of myself, and I guess that's true in a sense, I produce it myself....I'm self validated being very introverted, but certainly don't think I'm better than anyone else, I just don't need their validation to define me.
I am sure that when there is resentment and negative feelings you can be perfect in your communication and it won’t solve the misunderstanding because the cause is subjective.
This video really makes you think about human nature and how we react to others' opinions. The Stoic approach to handling resentment, envy, and hate is so refreshing - instead of focusing on why people hate us, we’re reminded to focus on our own actions, thoughts, and responses. The idea that we can’t control others, but we can control how we let their opinions affect us, is a powerful lesson. It’s also a great reminder to be mindful of our own behavior and attitudes, as sometimes we can unknowingly contribute to negative feelings in others. Thanks for sharing these Stoic insights - they’re incredibly practical and helpful for personal growth! 🙏
Gosh! We nearly sound like twins. Or, we have a lot in common. Trauma to my skull and neck wouldn't allow for any head gear. LoL. No one, except the ones, under my rooftop have anything to do with me since I'm mostly bed bound. However, my sweet lil Shih tzu named Chloe hasn't left. So, I might be doing something right. Some of my best conversations and talks are between Chloe and I. I feel like a huge load is lifted off my shoulders being an introvert even though I am easy going Cajun chic. Chloe is highly intelligent and knows exactly what I'm saying much more so than any ex. Keep on being you and showing kindness towards others. There are a few nice folks out and about. But, it is getting sparse. Rock on!🎸
Very enlightening. In my long journey in life as I am aged now, I have encountered those negativities in life. Most of the time, I had been depressed by those but later, I have learned ho ignore of things beyond my control.
Personality is an extremely important thing for each person, a good personality will receive a lot of sympathy from everyone and vice versa! The content you convey is very accurate and realistic! These things will help many people develop themselves properly and avoid falling into the situation of being silently hated by everyone! Thank you for sharing and your knowledge!
If you know that you are a good person, proactively practising ‘the golden rule’ yet someone dislikes you then please know that this is not your problem, it’s theirs. Negative attitudes are a reflection of others unkind and insecure personalities. Envy is the main culprit therefore discard these ones from your life; have nothing to do with them. Everybody deserves to be valued.
It eased my mind and helped me to feel better about myself as to why I used to get this type of resentments without any fault mine . I am 73 years old but very confident of myself in everything I do and outspoken with frankness. 😊😊😊😊😊
Stoic I'm not a successful nor business man just little hustling here and there but i make sure to take good care of myself since there's no shoulder to cry on, my only problem is the hatred i get all of a sudden as if while I'm sleeping someone out there is on the mission spreading rumours about me and when i wake up the following day non of them recognise me though i made piece with it but I'm still taking heat left, right and centre i got use to it but I won't lie it hurts as hell stoic i heard your advice, your wisdom always encourages me especially as a lone wolf but i gotta question for you. What if you being kind, sweet, helpful and so understanding but get hatred, negativity and disgusting rumours that drags your name in the mood and those you call friends and family use and turn on you no matter how good you are to everyone. What do you do when face these challenges?.
Do you know about Jesus? He was innocent, doing good deeds but was nailed to the cross because of the jealousy of those around him. We cannot be as beautiful as Jesus, so it is natural that there are people who hate and want to bring us down. If you want others to realize that they are in a dark room, become a light to illuminate them, then they will realize. Wish you all the best !
They are nothing but bullies. Indifference is your best defense. They are powerless if you don’t react. Walk away far as u can even if u have to relocate. You can’t change people. You can only control your actions and your mind which is very powerful. Remember that!
❤ HATE--- IS A VERY STRONG WORD ,THAT MY MOM& DAD TREATED LIKE A SWEAR WORD...THE ENERGIES FROM THAT WORD IS BAD....❤NAMASTE SENDING THE LOVE VIBES TO ALL ❤
thank you for advice i've been wondering why some people gosship even they don't know anything about me i've been just politely say hello but... this post help me a lot
This well explained the challenges of our congregation in recent years. Thanks for this gracious thorough sharing, full of insights, encouragement and edification. Hope there would be Chinese subtitles or even translations to reach numerous more in my world.
Negative entities abound in places of worship.. they love causing dissension.. the narcissists, sociopaths & psychopaths.. they are everywhere.. on the internet.. in our families.. at work.. at school.. pay attention & detach and stay away from them...1 in 6 are narcissists/sociopaths.. I attend a spiritual church.. while sitting in group I saw one woman staring at me constantly - horrible negative face on her - throwing darts at me.. I attended a function after being sick for quite some time - I mistakenly sat beside her - the moment I sat down she insulted me.. I could have said "oh.. bad energy" and gone to sit somewhere else but there weren't many seats available so I stayed where I was.. It's NOT about YOU.. it's about them.. stay away!
The problem is if a person stops certain things in life they accuse you of still doing the same thing. When it's not true or they never want to see you climb or another person on the outside never liked you and they make plans to see you go down.
I sympathize with you on that. That's how life works and don't be frustrated about it. If you find yourself, and acknowledge yourself growing every day, you will find joy in life. Wish you best !
Tnx for sharing. I'm 56, a mum of 6 live children, almost all adults now, a teacher at school, working for 31 years now. My family of origin has rejected me from the start. I was very good at school, my brother envied me on that. I was not very good at maths and always a bit on the chubby side because of my genetics, always straightforward in persuit of truth, which is why my violent, too confudent, narc dad has rejected me recently when I spoke my feelings. My mum prefers my rich brother, who is childless businessman, married to a lazy gold-digger and pays my mum's bills. My husband is a political fanatic on the right, he accuses me of being on the left, which I' m not, I just want to be righteous to all, seeing things from all diff. perspectives. Fighting depression as a consequence, unhappy marriage. I' m obviously a 'macho' woman, which my husband of 31 years accused me of. Well, it is what it is. Bless you all.
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They hate me because my Angels irritate their demons.
😀me too…
TALK IN SPANISH PLEASE
People who talk behind your back are behind you for a reason.
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Damn. 🏆👑
👍👍👍👍👍 100,000,000 % !!!
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Dig it !!!😂❤
Envy and Jealousy is number one
Exactly 💯
I think so.
@@scotnick59 😊
Nope I'm sorry But Self Pride especially it's just the beginning Its what Lucifer was condemned for everything else is also a problem but take a back seat to pride case and point: He Hates A Proud Look ❤️🔥 Much Love ✌️😎 L8R
You must be pretty you get it
I'm 69. I never stopped dressing as a punk rocker gear head. I have always loved electronic music, loud. I'm not stupid. I live alone now and couldn't be happier about it. Wish I never married. I keep myself in shape and good health except for arthritis but I stand tall, not letting it pull me down. I stopped caring what people think and it is a good thing. On the back of my studded blue Jean jacket it says, "stay weird". People want you to do what they do. Boring and you get old fast. I feel better about myself now that I ever have. Needless to say I am a loner. I have my pets and they love me the way I am. My goal in life is kindness to everything. To bad that isn't appreciated more.
I am so glad to hear from you. To me, you are enjoying your life. Keep being you. Wishing you good health and all the best. ❤❤❤
It was a great time in your life. Many recall same even from different eras....if you get them reminiscing about it.
Kindness IS appreciated, Alice. By those who count. I love to bake cakes for people and my jealous flatmate reckons that I bake cakes to "buy" into favour because no-one likes me. Yes, he said this. He's moving out. I poked the bear to make him give me his notice, and he did exactly what I wanted him to do.
just be the best of yourself and be happy
@@dibzr8281 Because that's what he does?
I've had this everywhere I go. Especially at work. I am down to earth, friendly, sociable, and empathic. I am puzzled. I get bullied by women all the time, people smear me, lies are told behind my back, and people try to bring me down. I have almost nothing compared to others, yet I am contented, but this issue hurts me. This issue affected my career, yet I am still hopeful. I work hard, and this probably is problematic to others. 😢
It sounds like a lot of envy and jealousy that your dealing with, but don’t internalize this. You must be doing something right or you wouldn’t be a victim of getting bullied! Whatever you’re doing that is making them feel insecure or how ever they’re feeling, don’t change to make others feel comfortable. I experienced the same thing and I feel your pain. The more they bullied me, the more I kept being true to myself. I dress nice, I wear my headpieces and I don’t give a care what these women think! They got a very rude awakening when they realize persecuting me WAS NOT stopping me from being who I WANT TO BE!!! Don’t let anyone decide on who you should be! It’s none of their business, and you’ll be glad you did because you will be free from what others think. And those people who want to judge you instead of getting to know you first, you don’t need them .
Same with me my dear!😢
@@faithwise4005a
Top-notch advice! 🏆👑
Don’t worry, God is with you, even in church we find negative people!
God bless 🙏.
I nearly lost my job on the back of a huge lie. A colleague started sending out anonymous letters to people in the department where I worked, giving the impression that I was behind them. The envelopes were handwritten but none of these people cared to check the handwriting - it wasn't mine - but I was bullied for it! The people to whom these letters were sent to were all medical doctors! Where was their intelligence? One of the female doctors even slapped me in the face!
I kept silent, said nothing (the Lord had bid me so). They found out in the end, after engaging a detective, that I had nothing to do with this. This then shamed them! But, I behaved gracefully towards them, and they were surprised.
I don’t really care if people hate me as long as I’m not hurting anyone, I will do whatever makes me happy and enjoy ❤
Whoa.......that describes a psychopath or sociopath. But I know your happiness is working for you.
Rumors are told of foolishness and believed by fools without merit.
Basically, the sheep of the masses are gullible.
Absolutely right.
1. Envy or jealousy
2. Misunderstanding and ineffective communication
3. Differences in fundamental values and beliefs
4. The influence of Rumors and Gossips
5. Personal Insecurities (feeling threatened even when no real threat exists)
6. Lack of empathy and understanding
7.Competition and Rivalry
8. The influence of social expectation
9. The lack of Recognitions
I am so happy that this video brings value to you. Wish you best! ❤
For me it was an untimely facial reaction (#2) that caused someones resentment to grow excessively toward me. Im not the brightest tool in the kit as they say social skill wise.
Thanks for the list👍🏽👏🏽🥰
If someone hates you because of your religion then it's their problem not yours.
In my 20’s and 30’s , I worked for people’s acceptance. Today in my mid 60’s ? I still treat people as I want to be treated but the need for their approval is simply gone for the most part.
People’s perceptions can be influenced by many things, but staying true to yourself is key to happiness.
We illuminate the darkness in them!
Wish you all the best !
No..in the contrary, we make them seeing their darkness..!!!!
That is it
Your light shines in their darkness and they know you see right through their BS
😅😅straight shooters never win da
Just this!
God will prepare a feast for us in front of our enemies. What lives in them hates what lives in us. For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but principalities.. that secretly rule people. Be filled with the Holy Spirit and never stop being the light no matter who is watching and who notices. Thank God you are You! ❤
Thank you for valuable feedback ! God bless you ❤
I’m not religious, but I can appreciate your well-meaning intentions. Thank you.
People will believe a rumor rather than culling out truth .
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That's one of the big reasons as to why it's so important that we all be men/women of our word with everyone, always.
@@BAsed_AFro
Easier said than done with how much of a sheep people generally are.
@@transcendentsacredcourage Oh, it's easy enough to do if one simply chooses to be that... although it's quite rare today for sure.
In fact, it's so rare that most people today seem to just expect to be lied to, sadly.
100%
Normally, those who hate know how dangerous gossiping is for another. This is why they do it.
Gossip and slander is considered murder. It means murdering someone's reputation. I'm working on my anger, not speaking I'll of someone. God help me
Im never in competition with anyone. Im ok with who i am . Thank you. 💯💐
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You might be soon detested for it
@@McD-j5r
Oh well. They wanted a monster, they got one.
@@McD-j5r could you say why someone would be given detest ( when you are not in competition ) .
When it is your own mother, it can take many years to figure everything out. I just want to stay calm and stay self differentiated. I wish I could change her heart. It’s no longer my business. It’s her choice to stay stuck.
I honestly don't care if people don't like me...
@@JustChill_1031 agree Don't live your life to what others except. Be happy within yourself...😊
@@JustChill_1031 I agree
An issue is when the people who don't like you are in positions of power, they are intelligent, and their lack of like fuels malicious behavior.
@@ElectricSwordFish-i4k Sounds like grandiose narcissism to me.
@@ElectricSwordFish-i4kabsolutely right!
I'm not responsible for other people's thoughts and feelings about me.
Jealousy is a killer. It's all over, at work. At home. At church. OMG.
THANK YOU FOR THIS.
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So true, heaven help us.
@@sarahmauti3198 Jealousy is caused by misery and fear. Indifference is your best defense. Without your reaction it is powerless. Remember that!
I know, even at church! 😮
Once you contradict people, they will naturally resent you. It doesn't matter how nice or helpful you are. At the end of the day, if you still contradict them, they will still resent you. Human beings are weak.
Some people are mature enough to relate with people who don't agree with them on everything.
It's sad, one time I shared disagreement with an older sister I had respected. She took it as criticism and now she talks behind my back and even shared information that I told her in privacy which I never thought she would. Twisting my words and trying to ruin my image among our other siblings. And thinking that I don't know she says she loves me and showers me praise. Pretty scary
Excellent video I'm facing this and they are wilfully destroying my property because I live alone. I dont interfere with anyone because i have more than enough to take care of and really dont have the time to pry into others affairs and gossip. I am 70 years old and dont like to indulge in nonsense. Cannot figure out their envy, jealousy and low mentality and how to save my property. Only God can do a miracle and save the situation.
I'm so sorry you're dealing with this situation-it’s truly disheartening when others let jealousy and negativity drive their actions. Your resilience and focus on what matters most to you at 70 is admirable. You’re not alone, and I hope things turn around for the better soon. Stay strong!
😢😢😢police Civil suit fight dearheart
Ignore keep moving for growth, arise without depending on others
Wish you all the best ❤❤❤
I hit the jackpot of people with a hostile bias towards me. There are no supports for me because all my close family has passed away recently.
I had the same with my husband's family - I was never accepted by them. Someone said, 'you need to forgive them.' It took some time before I did, but after I did it got better.
Same here. Crap people are horrid to orphans and the widowed.
Nothing wrong with turning your back slowly on each of them. Then make new friends.
Anyone seething negativity into your life is never worthy of being your friend
It's very important, to get friends who are better than you. It's a painful lesson, I have learned in my life. But, when your bar is high, it's very difficult to get friends at your level, hence, you have to constantly lower your standards.
100% Agree
I appreciate your comment. 😊
People don’t like me because I am a straight talker and I am succesful. I don’t let people to project their stupidity on me. It is nothing to understand about people who are incompetent and insecure. I consider them “my fans club. “
They don't know what they don't know, they like to say what they want. How you treat them will be how people better than you treat you. Just let it go
Are you certain it is because you are a straight talker! Perhaps responding with a bit more tact would help
I try to educate others but they want to stay with the wrong information.
@Sandy-du4ev it doesn't matter....some just want to be right.....even when they are misinformed.
@@Sandy-du4ev l am honest and direct in my speech or actions and do not offend. I don’t beat around the bush or try to hide my true feelings or intentions. I speak my mind and share my opinions openly and transparently. Direct communication builds trust I do not fear judgment. I know people don’t like me but they trust me and that’s enough for me.
"Wealth consists not in having great possessions, but in having few wants."
- Epictetus
When I use to work for a particular company I could not understand why this woman was jealous of me. She was married to some high policeman, lived in amazing house in a posh town. They each had a car. I was living in a council flat and did not own a car,traved by public transport
They had about 3 holidays a year and I had none. They hated me because I sent my daughter to private school ,not because I was rich,it allowed me to work fulltime as it had an after school facility. Now Thank you for explaining this to me and another thing I learned is to keep my mouth shut about my life. What people don't know, they can't criticize. Thank you for the info 🎉
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I believe you cause I literally lived it. So weird, the nicer I was the worst I was treated. The ex, his family, friends and even my own family were awful to me. The jealousy and control was disturbing. They tortured me for years and so many just stood back and watched it, including the ex. The scars they caused will never heal.
In my case, my ex's family treated me better than my ex and my own family.
😢😢yes they will dearheart..l identify with uoyr story..walk away..walk tall,love God, stay busy
envy ppl hurt me many times! From losing jobs, and friends, to losing pets because they wanted to see me sad and unhappy, 😔Since i met those people i went thru Hell last 8 years for nothing, for their Envy and Jealousy problems ...they were punished by God, but I was hurting constantly, but found Jesus Thank you God!
Ppl can still humble someone by giving them love and loyalty . Not just by humiliating and bringing them down.❤
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Absolutely, twisted rumors and gossips! Some people are just good at this!
Amazes me how rare polite kindness is, yet the freest most beneficial virtue to give/receive ~~
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Perhaps these unkind people are produced by rough handling and words.
@@Lisa-ik3wt Good point Lisa ~~ easy to complain about others while ignoring how my actions may have encouraged their behavior toward me, being Autistic = difficult communication frank opinionated unyielding then seeking solitude wo notice or explanation, just disappear into my own little world but let me ask, is this punishment, shunning of "loved ones", a just punishment considering actions of really bad people: kill rob kidnap embezzle money from elderly or lie to defraud others, where is honest empathy here??
I find the idea about social expectations leading to resentment so powerful. (20:57). It’s true that stepping away from societal norms can sometimes create negative feelings in others-especially when we challenge what they’ve always believed to be 'right.' This video is a beautiful reminder to stay authentic, even when others might not understand or support our choices. Living for ourselves, not for others’ expectations, is what brings true fulfillment.
Thank you for this insightful reflection. Living authentically, true to our own values, often challenges the expectations others hold. Yet, as the Stoics remind us, the pursuit of inner peace and integrity is far more rewarding than bending to societal pressures. May we continue to choose the path of authenticity, regardless of others' perceptions. Stay steadfast.
I was always wondering why some persons are hating me with out any reason. After watching this video, I got a clear idea.
Thank you very much🙏🏻
Understanding that others’ negative feelings often stem from their own insecurities and struggles, rather than anything we’ve done, is empowering. Stoic philosophy reminds us to focus on what we can control our actions, thoughts, and responses and let go of what we can’t. By doing so, we maintain our inner peace and don’t let others' negativity disturb our journey toward personal growth
God bless all! Thank you for such an enlightening video
Exactly, I fully agree with your video. It is 100% truth. Thanks for educating the public.
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It might be best to not care so much about other people’s opinions given the variables in circumstances. Ignore toxic people.
I struggle with siblings that have these feelings towards me, the more I don’t get emotionally involved in the words spoken the easier it becomes
Distance yourself from them. I was raised in a toxic family. My mother was very narcissistic and my sisters and others were the flying monkeys, doing her bidding when I left the family. Mom has passed in 2016 and my sisters both still haven't changed. I broke ties with all.
@@KirstenLambert-nt8iy exactly same playbook. God bless you 🙏🏻💛
@@KirstenLambert-nt8iy Exactly my story as well.
Me too. Distance is the only way, try not to respond to their accusations. Everything I say will be twisted.
Highly relatable content! Experiencing this currently. I think the best solution is just to leave such people and follow your path alone. And I have dared to choose that path, regardless of what 'people' may think! You just spoke my thoughts and put a stamp on my decision. Thank you 🙏
This video exactly tells how haters,envy and jealousy people does.But the irony is people easily believes the gossips spread by haters. Am blessed atleat am not in those idiots list.Hope through your video you continue to spread wisdoms all over the world. Thank you 🙏 this video resonate me a lot😊
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Thank you so much
Envy and Jealousy is right some people hate for Nothing
Truth - no one is ever happy for your successes. That’s fact, will never change. They may act like they are rising above something, but the truth is, they seethe in hate and resentment when they see your long term marriage and they can’t even get a date, they see your paid off good car, they are having to bum rides, they see your large land holdings when they can’t even afford to rent an apartment. No matter how hard you worked, no matter how lucky or blessed you are perceived, You will be resented and vilified. It’s human nature.
Thank you for sharing such an honest perspective. It’s true that others may feel resentment over what they perceive as our good fortune. But as the Stoics remind us, we can’t control others’ reactions-only our own response. Staying grounded in our own values and achievements brings the kind of inner peace that no outside opinion can shake. Wishing you strength and serenity on your journey.
One thing my mom reiterated while growing up was, if you really want to make your haters angry, make sure that you do well at whatever you choose to be and do. She was right
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU GOD BLESS YOU GOD BLESS YOU GOD BLESS YOU AMEN AMEN AMEN
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Be diplomatic, kind, clear goal setting & communication, act more like a grown up adult who accepts everyone as they are. Calm and humility goes a long way for yourself and others who work alongside you. ❤ Listen more than speak usually helps.
‘Don’t hate because I’m beautiful’
AT THE END OF THE DAY
WHOSE PROBLEM IS THAT???
STAND IN YOUR TRUTHS AND "KEEP ON MOVING ON!!!
NO ONE CAN CONTROL ANOTHER PERSON'S DOWN FALLS!!!
STAY FOCUSED ON YOUR CHARACTER AND INTEGRITY!!!
hello, and I just thank God for giving me another blessed day to be here amen amen amen thank u Lord 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
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I’m a woman of mixed heritage: Spanish, Native American and Irish. When I was young I looked very Spanish with my dark hair, eyes, and olive skin. I’m petite as well.
As I age and my hair is greying I look more Native. I lived and worked in Northern Ireland during college and was called “exotic”. There I was accepted by most because they had community troubles and knew their priorities. But in my own country the USA, I was/am often looked at side-eyed-as the young people here say. Mostly by females. I realize it’s because my nature is rather stoic (I have a comical side too which only my very closest loved ones see as it’s considered undignified for an older woman). Bummer ha ha.
I have dealt with the dislike starting as a young woman. I was often called Pollyanna because of my faith. I used to say to myself when I get old that will change. Not true! Now it’s older women disliking me. I work hard at my personal growth and have shed traits that are irritating to others over the years. I look to certain people that I admire to be guides so that I can be the best I can be. I live a modest, simple life and guard my peace of mind. I don’t want to be that one that is always disliked so I do what I can to better myself.
I’m also on the Autism spectrum ASD-1 very high functioning formerly known as Asperger’s Syndrome. Officially diagnosed. This certainly contributes to how I communicate and how I come across. As a younger woman I masked it really well. Now, not so much. I am myself as much as possible and avoid offending others. I’m aware how my direct and pointed way of communicating may cause problems in groups. I have even used emoji's to keep that from happening but all it can take is one innocent emoji to stir the pot- even if it’s a kind one.
I try to be as cordial as possible and mostly am very happy in my own skin. I no longer allow people to bully me. I separate myself from them instead. That's a big part of my peace plan going forward.
I hope my story helps someone out there.
Thanks for sharing this. I agree with you, in that you separate yourself from people who just want to drag you down. Just pray that God will bless them - you'll be surprised what an effect this can have on them.
@ You are welcome! I appreciate the suggestion. I believe you are correct that is the best way -I will do that. Take care and thank you for your response. 🙏🕊️
The Lord's blessing be on you as you navigate through these infested waters!
@@irenemcwatt4443 Thank you. May the protection of our Lord Jesus be on you today as well. “You, dear children, are from God and have overcome them, because the One who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world” (1 John 4:4). 🕊
Absolutely! Never underestimate the power of prayer.
I don't care who hates me. I will live the way I think is right.
Peacefulness. Thank you for this today. Wyatt
For me, you are a winner, my friend! ❤
Been my problem all my life, but it’s what me who I am today.
I would never change it about me or allow it to change me. Yes it down to jealousy and envy and nothing I cant do about it except smile and keep moving forward in life.
I'm still on my journey , I always love to be enlightened by Stoic wisdom. Lord knows I have been learning this my whole life.
So too we all continue to learn! That is how we grow into the people we wish to be!
if people hate you that does not mean that you are let down by them but actually you are a distinctive and sophisticated man who own certain signs they don't.
Thank you so much for these facts in our lives especially at work and how to handle it personally and professionally.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
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When watching this video, it reminded me when my whole family blamed me for Covid-19 during Thanksgiving & Christmas in 2020…the entire family including uncle’s, aunts and cousins had a whole zoom meeting gossiping about me and spreading lies trying to assassinate my character…they even tried to blame me when my grandmother passed away a year later… at first I was hurt, confused and in beyond disbelief on why they will say all these things that aren’t true…but now I know it was simply pure jealousy & envy that entire family had the whole time since I was a kid growing up 😂😢🤦♂️
I am 71 and retired in South Asia. During my working life I worked for about a decade in a small QUANGO in London. Third parties stirred up strife among the junior of whom I was one and the place was rife with feuding and verbal fights. It was a study in the negative side of psychology :)
Thank you for your feedback! I’m glad you enjoyed the content. 💪🏼💙. It's sad because If they still seek recognition from others, they will quarrel for the rest of their lives. You can send this video to them, if they understand, it will be so happy.
Xenophobia runs rampant
I've found that if someone doesn't like me its usually because of my high levels of self confidence and self esteem...probably comes off as full of myself, and I guess that's true in a sense, I produce it myself....I'm self validated being very introverted, but certainly don't think I'm better than anyone else, I just don't need their validation to define me.
Envy and jealousy is one of them
Are two of them !
*People who talk behind your back are there for a reason-they’re already behind you*
That's one of the worst things that can happen to a person.Is for someone to get jealous of them.Trust me it's terrible
I am sure that when there is resentment and negative feelings you can be perfect in your communication and it won’t solve the misunderstanding because the cause is subjective.
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This video really makes you think about human nature and how we react to others' opinions. The Stoic approach to handling resentment, envy, and hate is so refreshing - instead of focusing on why people hate us, we’re reminded to focus on our own actions, thoughts, and responses. The idea that we can’t control others, but we can control how we let their opinions affect us, is a powerful lesson. It’s also a great reminder to be mindful of our own behavior and attitudes, as sometimes we can unknowingly contribute to negative feelings in others. Thanks for sharing these Stoic insights - they’re incredibly practical and helpful for personal growth! 🙏
Yes yes yes ! Misunderstood everyone think they know you so well
Me too I feel more important when I find out they are envy and jealous of me
Gosh! We nearly sound like twins. Or, we have a lot in common. Trauma to my skull and neck wouldn't allow for any head gear. LoL. No one, except the ones, under my rooftop have anything to do with me since I'm mostly bed bound. However, my sweet lil Shih tzu named Chloe hasn't left. So, I might be doing something right. Some of my best conversations and talks are between Chloe and I. I feel like a huge load is lifted off my shoulders being an introvert even though I am easy going Cajun chic. Chloe is highly intelligent and knows exactly what I'm saying much more so than any ex. Keep on being you and showing kindness towards others. There are a few nice folks out and about. But, it is getting sparse. Rock on!🎸
I am 63 yrs old never gave people reasons to hate me and never really cared if anyone did anyways
Nothing New to me, which is why I prefer to walk alone
Very enlightening. In my long journey in life as I am aged now, I have encountered those negativities in life. Most of the time, I had been depressed by those but later, I have learned ho ignore of things beyond my control.
Wish you best! ❤
Peacefully and thank you so much for all your time and support I like it so much
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Personality is an extremely important thing for each person, a good personality will receive a lot of sympathy from everyone and vice versa! The content you convey is very accurate and realistic! These things will help many people develop themselves properly and avoid falling into the situation of being silently hated by everyone! Thank you for sharing and your knowledge!
If you know that you are a good person, proactively practising ‘the golden rule’ yet someone dislikes you then please know that this is not your problem, it’s theirs. Negative attitudes are a reflection of others unkind and insecure personalities. Envy is the main culprit therefore discard these ones from your life; have nothing to do with them. Everybody deserves to be valued.
Exactly! Their bad behavior is not a reflection of myself but rather of themselves.
May your wise lessons continue help us all who are listening I am greatful for your advises they are healthy bless u
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I needed it most, at my age of 82 years of trials
Peacefulness. This is an excellent video. Thank you for posting.
For me, you are a winner, my friend! ❤
It eased my mind and helped me to feel better about myself as to why I used to get this type of resentments without any fault mine . I am 73 years old but very confident of myself in everything I do and outspoken with frankness. 😊😊😊😊😊
We fight the powers and principalities of the air. We must take authority over them
Thanks for these thoughts that highlight why people may seem to dislike you for no reason.
I HAVE BEEN EXPERIENCING,THIS PARTICULAR FELLING
ALL MY LIFE,,SINCE MY EARLY YEARS,,ANVY. AND JELOUSY
Envy hurts the envious!!
Jealousy hurts the jealous person !
Thank You, peacefulness.
For me, you are a winner, my friend! ❤
Stoic I'm not a successful nor business man just little hustling here and there but i make sure to take good care of myself since there's no shoulder to cry on, my only problem is the hatred i get all of a sudden as if while I'm sleeping someone out there is on the mission spreading rumours about me and when i wake up the following day non of them recognise me though i made piece with it but I'm still taking heat left, right and centre i got use to it but I won't lie it hurts as hell stoic i heard your advice, your wisdom always encourages me especially as a lone wolf but i gotta question for you. What if you being kind, sweet, helpful and so understanding but get hatred, negativity and disgusting rumours that drags your name in the mood and those you call friends and family use and turn on you no matter how good you are to everyone. What do you do when face these challenges?.
Do you know about Jesus? He was innocent, doing good deeds but was nailed to the cross because of the jealousy of those around him. We cannot be as beautiful as Jesus, so it is natural that there are people who hate and want to bring us down. If you want others to realize that they are in a dark room, become a light to illuminate them, then they will realize. Wish you all the best !
Say fuck,em
They are nothing but bullies. Indifference is your best defense. They are powerless if you don’t react. Walk away far as u can even if u have to relocate. You can’t change people. You can only control your actions and your mind which is very powerful. Remember that!
❤ HATE--- IS A VERY STRONG WORD ,THAT MY MOM& DAD TREATED LIKE A SWEAR WORD...THE ENERGIES FROM THAT WORD IS BAD....❤NAMASTE SENDING THE LOVE VIBES TO ALL ❤
thank you for advice i've
been wondering why
some people gosship even they don't know anything about me i've
been just politely say
hello but... this post help me a lot
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You said it all. There is indeed nothing more to add.
You have made my day for listening to you. Thanks.
You are so welcome
Yes, I will cherish those how hate or dislike me so from my side a healthy relationship will remain
Thank you 🙏 for you
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People don't secretly dislike me...they don't hide it at all .
Very wise and true.
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PEACEFULNESS ❤ THANK YOU!!!
For me, you are a winner, my friend! ❤
PEACEFULNESS my neighbors
For me, you are a winner, my friend! ❤
This well explained the challenges of our congregation in recent years. Thanks for this gracious thorough sharing, full of insights, encouragement and edification. Hope there would be Chinese subtitles or even translations to reach numerous more in my world.
Negative entities abound in places of worship.. they love causing dissension.. the narcissists, sociopaths & psychopaths.. they are everywhere.. on the internet.. in our families.. at work.. at school.. pay attention & detach and stay away from them...1 in 6 are narcissists/sociopaths.. I attend a spiritual church.. while sitting in group I saw one woman staring at me constantly - horrible negative face on her - throwing darts at me.. I attended a function after being sick for quite some time - I mistakenly sat beside her - the moment I sat down she insulted me.. I could have said "oh.. bad energy" and gone to sit somewhere else but there weren't many seats available so I stayed where I was.. It's NOT about YOU.. it's about them.. stay away!
I love your video I learn a lot from it and I am going to listen it more times. Thank you.
Thank you so much. Wish you all the best!
I hv lant from this teaching it has really affected my bizs but the school will come up again ,I feel at peace now after the teaching thank you.
These emotions are found in churches where people are so judgemental.
Lovely explanation sir ... Felt quite relaxed ... Thank you
It was a really Good session as well 💯 Thank you! 👉☮️
Thank you so much, you have clarified a lot of the same things that I am experiencing. Everything you said make sense.
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The problem is if a person stops certain things in life they accuse you of still doing the same thing. When it's not true or they never want to see you climb or another person on the outside never liked you and they make plans to see you go down.
I sympathize with you on that. That's how life works and don't be frustrated about it. If you find yourself, and acknowledge yourself growing every day, you will find joy in life. Wish you best !
Tnx for sharing. I'm 56, a mum of 6 live children, almost all adults now, a teacher at school, working for 31 years now. My family of origin has rejected me from the start. I was very good at school, my brother envied me on that. I was not very good at maths and always a bit on the chubby side because of my genetics, always straightforward in persuit of truth, which is why my violent, too confudent, narc dad has rejected me recently when I spoke my feelings. My mum prefers my rich brother, who is childless businessman, married to a lazy gold-digger and pays my mum's bills. My husband is a political fanatic on the right, he accuses me of being on the left, which I' m not, I just want to be righteous to all, seeing things from all diff. perspectives. Fighting depression as a consequence, unhappy marriage. I' m obviously a 'macho' woman, which my husband of 31 years accused me of. Well, it is what it is. Bless you all.