4 Questions That Will Stop Them From Ghosting You

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  • @od4319
    @od4319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    Reply to add to my no oriented primer lists:
    • Is now a bad time to talk...
    • Have you given up on...
    • Is it a terrible time to talk...
    • Is it a rediculous idea to...
    • is it a bad idea...
    • is it a bad plan ...
    • would it be out of the question to....
    • would it be out of line to...
    • are you against
    • are you opposed
    • would it be out of your control to...
    • would it be out of the realm of possibility to....
    • is it impossible to...
    • Do you disagree...
    • Is it incorrect...
    • would it be wrong to think...

    • @jinde75
      @jinde75 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks, I’ll copy and translate. And I’ve started reading ‘never split the difference’

    • @josuardgonzalesmedia
      @josuardgonzalesmedia ปีที่แล้ว +1

      great list

    • @NegotiationMastery
      @NegotiationMastery  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey! Great list! Thank you for sharing it, keep up the good work!

    • @noamanpatel3784
      @noamanpatel3784 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What do we say after they respond no

    • @mez7289
      @mez7289 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      is it too much to ask for you to….

  • @mohamedelkenzy9575
    @mohamedelkenzy9575 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Can’t believe that I’m starting to get 30% response rate after being ghosted for weeks 😂😂. Voss, you’re a discovery for me.

    • @louio
      @louio 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He's the Godfather of negotiations. Lol

  • @Arquaizt
    @Arquaizt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    TACTICAL EMPATHY: “is now a bad time to talk” has opened many collaborative doors for me. Thanks so much to the whole team!

    • @chuckgravity7616
      @chuckgravity7616 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Use the phrase many times daily!

    • @JoseRG619
      @JoseRG619 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@chuckgravity7616 I will try even with mad people.

    • @adrianherbert9441
      @adrianherbert9441 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tactical Empathy

    • @antrogers8245
      @antrogers8245 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tactical empathy!

    • @NegotiationMastery
      @NegotiationMastery  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Awesome! Glad to hear it has been effective for you.

  • @mrs.neilson9455
    @mrs.neilson9455 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yes! Worked for me. I was quoted $5,000 for a program for my elementary site. I asked if it was ridiculous for them to only charge us $500 and allow our district (7 schools) to pilot the program. I received a response within 30 minutes....$595 for all 7 schools!

  • @marwankhoudeir7528
    @marwankhoudeir7528 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Tactical Empathy: such a knowledgeable human being, Chris Voss

  • @BeyondTheOutterRim
    @BeyondTheOutterRim ปีที่แล้ว +2

    At 2x speed he sounds normal. I love Chris Voss. Changed my life.

  • @folsterfarms
    @folsterfarms ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Tactical Empathy - “Would it be a bad idea…” After 5 interactions with the other side, I just renegotiated our property lines and saved our future business expansion ability. I never would have been able to accomplish this without your coaching. Thank you Chris Voss!

    • @VictoryS87
      @VictoryS87 ปีที่แล้ว

      So tactical empathy from the book means to "INTENSELY listen to each word" that your counter-part is saying to "drain the swamp"

    • @NegotiationMastery
      @NegotiationMastery  ปีที่แล้ว

      Congratulations! Glad our coaching helped. Thanks for being part of our community!

  • @MarcusHiggs
    @MarcusHiggs 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    TACTICAL EMPATHY: Love how each approach breaks the listener out of their pattern to actually listen.

  • @DCZOMBI3
    @DCZOMBI3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    0:25 - "Is now a bad time to talk?"
    2:52 - "Is it a ridiculous idea..."
    5:13 - "Are you against..."
    11:34 - "Have you given up on..."

  • @martinflores9645
    @martinflores9645 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Tactical Empathy -
    Wow ! One of the absolute BEST training I’ve heard in my 20 years in sales ! I used one of your scripts immediately afterwards to someone who was ghosting me , and it worked like a charm !👍 Thank you for the value !

    • @NegotiationMastery
      @NegotiationMastery  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi there.Thank you for the amazing feedback! We're thrilled to hear that our training and scripts have been effective for you.

  • @mantaship
    @mantaship 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tactical Empathy. Too good to be free. TOO GOOD. Already used that once today. "Is now a bad time to talk?" I swear the change in demeanor is palpable...

  • @keithjangmd
    @keithjangmd 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I just sent a text to the buyer’s agent who’s been ghosting me ‘Have your clients given up on (the property address)?’ he called me right back. It worked. Lol

    • @timcentralpointinvestigati6683
      @timcentralpointinvestigati6683 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m about to use this on my bff realtor who is bit upset at me and ghosting as well…allowing him to sell my house but not be my buyers agent

    • @NegotiationMastery
      @NegotiationMastery  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's great to hear that it worked. Keep up the good work!

  • @thisrichbastard.809
    @thisrichbastard.809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I used that “is it a ridiculous idea” on a woman that I wanted to get acquainted with…she said “yes” it would be ridiculous if we got better acquainted. Lol

    • @shoetoolbraa6882
      @shoetoolbraa6882 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This made my day thank you we’ve all been in this position

    • @pdub2762
      @pdub2762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Is it a ridiculous idea for me to buy you a drink? 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @MasterShadowEroticHypnosis
      @MasterShadowEroticHypnosis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      pick up is a whole different beast. if you haven't demonstrated higher value first, you are wasting your time (also applies to negotiation)

    • @Gradinaeconomicapespatiimicicu
      @Gradinaeconomicapespatiimicicu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I guess you could have started with an acusatory audit... you're not going to like this, you're going to think that I am just another guy from the hundreds of guys trying to hit on you every day, etc or whatever else females throw back to you in these situations. Keep going on for 1-2 sentences more and then say and you're right. wait for her reaction and say nothing after this

    • @Gradinaeconomicapespatiimicicu
      @Gradinaeconomicapespatiimicicu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      overstating it helps bring a smile/laugh on and would make her feel flattered

  • @paulredmansells
    @paulredmansells ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Tactical empathy. Even though I began with Never Split the Difference in 2019, the lessons never get old, there's always more to absorb.

  • @pilotmajor6088
    @pilotmajor6088 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you haven't already realized what Chris Voss and the Black Swan Group have to offer, don't waste another moment. For 35 years I watched these negotiation dynamics in business. I didn't understand them and I did not practice to this degree to become better. I read all the "brain" books on cognition, human decision making and realized there is a science to how we think.
    This is a completely unsolicited endorsement - get the book, either from your favorite book store or the library. Read it. Read it again and take notes. Practice it. I am telling you Chris and his group know what they are doing, and this is all about making all your relationships better and making things work out for all involved! Truly the compilation of all the science and know how on how to collaborate and create amazing partnerships.
    Thanks, Chris. Never Split The Difference is my reference book for human interaction. Really great stuff.

  • @AkshatKumarSrivastava
    @AkshatKumarSrivastava ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey man, I am a fresher blockchain developer who has recently started a job, using Chris's techniques I was able to negotiate a better salary for myself, frankly way more than they were offering, I can't tell you the exact numbers but Thanks Chris

  • @JK-jt3lr
    @JK-jt3lr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    TACTICAL EMPATHY: Being 46 and having changed carreers, I'm finding myself banging my head against the wall while trying to reestablish myself. Your videos are helpfull and your no nonesence approach resonnates with my own. Keep it up.

    • @billreinhart5495
      @billreinhart5495 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Keep moving forward. I reinvented myself at 50.

    • @NegotiationMastery
      @NegotiationMastery  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi there! Thanks for your support. Keep up the great work!

    • @converter
      @converter 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hello 40s peeps 😂

  • @brendapolar8506
    @brendapolar8506 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tactical empathy indeed! Thank you Chris. The techniques you share are absolute gems!

  • @davidnew1242
    @davidnew1242 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tactical Empathy; Changed how I talk to people, Amazing how a simple change in how you ask a question can change your world

  • @thespeakercoach
    @thespeakercoach 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tactical empathy - used ‘have you given up on…’ to restart a conversation that died nearly a year ago and got full buy-in from my contact. Brilliant!

  • @AA-ff4oe
    @AA-ff4oe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tactical Empathy 🎯 💯
    Appreciate you and your team Chris - as well as all the amazing content you give away!

  • @rem9547
    @rem9547 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Chris at his very best. An ‘all in one’ short and helpful intro to a different way to communicate.

  • @JusticeTulio
    @JusticeTulio ปีที่แล้ว +1

    TACTICAL EMPATHY: it's fun to see my colleague's reactions whenever I ask them, "is it a bad time...? or "will you get mad...?" They freeze for a second or two, and they will look at me with this weird facial expression. Afterwards, they will answer, and it almost always works, but in the moments that it doesn't, it's apparent that they're not interested or out of focus. It probably fails because they might not feel heard or understood, so I need to work on my collaboration skills and active listening. THANKS, COACH CHRIS!

  • @phillipclement5376
    @phillipclement5376 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tactical Empathy! @Chris you are changing my life ... Thank you. Unlearning the bad habits is so hard. Trying the new things is uncomfortable but I'm committed to low stakes practice, it's fun.

  • @DimensionRIFT
    @DimensionRIFT 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the video! Some really great content in there which is very simple to implement.

  • @brianhollander3848
    @brianhollander3848 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I've read NSTD and I love that damn book. I came up with these and thought I'd share: Would it be…[ bad, a pain, a PITA, trouble, super-difficult, stupid, a bad idea, impossible, impractical, inconceivable, unattainable …] to.....
    Would you be [against/opposed to…](take an action)? eg. meeting tuesday afternoon, say, 2pm?
    would it be uncomfortable if I...([._____________ (brought my manager?) (gave you a hug?) (recorded this meeting?)]
    the s*** works.

    • @NegotiationMastery
      @NegotiationMastery  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad to hear you loved the book! Great insights, by the way. Keep it up!

  • @joshualong7517
    @joshualong7517 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tactical empathy:
    Thanks for walking through these and giving such great examples to connect them with.
    Already see a handful of ways to use these in our sales and marketing efforts.

  • @frednichols2978
    @frednichols2978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mr. Voss, thank you for your time. That's right. Tactical empathy.

  • @kathrinehosung9538
    @kathrinehosung9538 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your book blew my mind. Best thing I ever read. I need to get this information running through my vains ❤️

  • @alexmohammed6532
    @alexmohammed6532 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tactical empathy. You help me organize my successes from the past. Hindsight being 20/20, when I practice the things you clarify, I win. Thank you

  • @cormanolivier
    @cormanolivier 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tactical Empathy: From adversarial to mediation....Game changer for me...Thank you, I am learning a hell of a lot from you. Thanks Chris

  • @alexcrow1856
    @alexcrow1856 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really good advice! Thank you! I haven't had a chance to use it yet (simply because I write this comment right after watching this video) but I am already looking forward to implementing this with you a few people today

  • @RonWilliams-Hoodle
    @RonWilliams-Hoodle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tactical Empathy. Outstanding video, Chris! Will try these out this week! Thank you.

  • @davidcameron6479
    @davidcameron6479 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tactical Empathy. Mr. Voss, thank you for this video, and all the other videos you and your team post online.

  • @michaelhaney71
    @michaelhaney71 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tactical Empathy -- We love what you do, Chris and the BSG

  • @Dezzasaur114
    @Dezzasaur114 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tactical empathy. I want to just say thank you, I've used your first two Masterclass lessons to great effect within the first two weeks of trying. I wish I would have bought your book 2 years ago when I first saw it.

  • @lperk5554
    @lperk5554 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    TACTICAL EMPATHY! I am a old schooler "GETTING TO YES" person. We read that book in my college Buyer Behavior class. This is a complete upgrade and I can see value in it by just reading your book. Can't wait use these new methods.

    • @NegotiationMastery
      @NegotiationMastery  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love it! This book is a game-changer, you'll find so much value in it. Can't wait for you to try the new methods!

  • @MarjanKaykavoosi
    @MarjanKaykavoosi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    TACTICAL EMPATHY: OMG I found about You this week and I can not thank You enough for your video’s. I have a family situation that this is so going to help me with. Thanks and much love 🙏💗💓💜

  • @l.a.williams1879
    @l.a.williams1879 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so thankful to have learned tactical empathy over the years from Chris. It is the most influential component of success for me

  • @NOWLEADERSHIP
    @NOWLEADERSHIP 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tactical empathy. Solid. Thank you very much for this exceptional content.

  • @ciprianrusu7925
    @ciprianrusu7925 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tactical empathy. Thank YOU Chris !!

  • @cecillyrowe6339
    @cecillyrowe6339 ปีที่แล้ว

    Chris Voss, LOVE your stuff!!!! Used your no questions a ghosting relative. THEY WORKED!!! powerful name too!! thank you.

  • @scottnevil
    @scottnevil 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this! Great content! Thanks for the knowledge!

  • @rhonastewart6558
    @rhonastewart6558 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tactical Empathy - brilliant, I’ve switched over to “is now a bad time to talk” with great success. Loved the book, but listening to the source is even better, thank you so much!

  • @dragon6414
    @dragon6414 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, great stuff.

  • @Meandthebestestdog
    @Meandthebestestdog 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mr. Chris Voss I just want to say thanks for the small bits of advice that has worked and with more practice I will get better. The statement at the end is "you will never rise to the occasion, you will fall to the level of your training" U.S. NAVY UDT

  • @jeremykermott537
    @jeremykermott537 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Tactical empathy
    I've been through the book at least a couple of times, and I've watched a lot of the videos. It's time to put this knowledge into action. Thank you to Chris, Brandon, and everyone at The Black Swan Group for getting this valuable information out there!

    • @NegotiationMastery
      @NegotiationMastery  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey! Thanks for being here and putting that knowledge into action! We appreciate your support.

  • @ScottThomsonAus
    @ScottThomsonAus 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love your videos Chris - this really works!

  • @davidth.o.g.2229
    @davidth.o.g.2229 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Tactical Empathy.... great summarization in two words.... I have been applying something like this for a very long time and didn't really know how to word it so precisely, or even that I used no as a basis. I've really become good at the reconnection and it has always come down to starting by recognizing all of the issues that have caused the problems, addressing them and then getting a yes or you're right as a confirmation that this is what or why they had an issue.it directly creats a repor even if I don't have the best way to fix it at the time. By addressing every problem they have before they have to tell me let's them know we are on the same page and we can move forward with a clear direction. The no orientated questions is new clarity of concept that I kinda knew but it was more of a vibe feeling thing that I now can be more direct in its application. You are exactly right that it's easier for someone to give you a no then a yes. You are first recognizing there's a lot of factors for them to consider. You are then asking them to pull the line back from needing them to commit to dealing with all those things right now, and more of consider the possibility of weather those things could work out. It takes the wieght out of the decision and adds a recognition of that wieght.... which gives you more of a...(hard to word) ... credibility in regards to your intentions being to actually create a beneficial situation or agreement for both of you. Letting them know your understand thier objections and moving toward a shared goal. I believe you genuinely need to know that shared goal, or be shooting for it, or it's kind of a corrupted concept. More like manipulation... that's not to say that that kind of thing doesn't work, it's just not for me, it's a contradiction of who I am and it's a misuse of my abilities.
    Sorry for writing a chapter in the comment section.... I'll leave it there

  • @andreatittelova4039
    @andreatittelova4039 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've practiced them already in my negotiations, not a difficult ones, but the ones that matter, and every Q got the answer I needed. It's a magic!

  • @brendapolar8506
    @brendapolar8506 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Chris this is absolutely brilliant! I have watched this over and over again and have completely changed how I started my opening conversation and ultimately will lead to more closes!! Many thanks! Your content ads tremendous value.

    • @NegotiationMastery
      @NegotiationMastery  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awesome! Thanks for the feedback. Glad it made a difference. Keep up the great work!

  • @timcentralpointinvestigati6683
    @timcentralpointinvestigati6683 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Could this possibly be the best video you have made?

  • @giovanninicolas959
    @giovanninicolas959 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tactical Empathy. I love his book and the philosophy of Mr. Voss and the Black Swan Group. It is so helpful in my career as well as in my personal relationships.

  • @lanresokeyo
    @lanresokeyo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow, just watched this video now. I then implemented one if the question for a prospective client that ghosted me someone months ago. Guess what! She called me immediately. I have been wondering why she ghosted my team after showing a lot if interest in our service. It turned out she had some business and personal challenges. I totally put my sales pitch on the back-burner and spoke to her purely as a friend, even gave her free tips to help her and encouraged her. At the end, she felt better and I am sure when she sorts out her issue, my business will be top of mind. Thanks for the video!!!

  • @felipehoyosvargas3413
    @felipehoyosvargas3413 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tactical Empathy: I have received tons of unexpected information from counterparties with no oriented questions. Still a lot of practice to further achievements, but great guidance! Thank you Chris, and thank all of the Black Swan Group for your generosity with the information.

  • @jamesallen3847
    @jamesallen3847 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tactical Empathy and growing a bit each day. Great lessons in unwinding the rooted norms I've been following blindly and even unknowingly.

  • @randyugarte3834
    @randyugarte3834 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I found myself liking, commenting, and subscribing without any intent to. Chris Voss is a boss !

  • @davidwarnke9640
    @davidwarnke9640 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tactical Empathy - Thanks for this. I really appreciate the coaching.

  • @gillianjohnston6134
    @gillianjohnston6134 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tactical Empathy: between reading your book, and accessing your fantastic content both on TH-cam and via the Black Swan website, my approach to everything I do in my personal and professional is shifting and improving on so many levels.
    It never stops.
    Every day brings another That’s Right moment

  • @leslieaharden6183
    @leslieaharden6183 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tactical empathy-last point-being ghosted-having entire conversation going downhill-losing engagement. Love last point, after 16:15. (Whole video is great.)

  • @teddylinds4
    @teddylinds4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Tactical empathy. This is the way. Thank you for the great content Chris!!! I need to work on my “we” vs. “you”. 🙌🙌

    • @NegotiationMastery
      @NegotiationMastery  ปีที่แล้ว

      Awesome! thanks for the support. Keep working on that "we" vs. "you" approach. You're doing great!

  • @billreinhart5495
    @billreinhart5495 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Unbelievably good stuff!

  • @caseylipok8161
    @caseylipok8161 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tactical Empathy. Excellent, powerful and Questions I'll recite until they are second nature. Thank you!

  • @alinadumitrache2839
    @alinadumitrache2839 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your videos, will keep watching and practice :) tactical empathy ;)

  • @robbensalyers3318
    @robbensalyers3318 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just listened to your interview with Lewis Hows. I just bought three copies of your book - one for each of my daughters and one copy for me. Thank you sir!

  • @stacyadair371
    @stacyadair371 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tactical empathy! This is so helpful!!! Thank you!

  • @brianhetrick1301
    @brianhetrick1301 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Tactical empathy! I read your book or listened to it actually a few years ago. I got what I wanted at the time and then forgot about. I have challenges before me and now I am going to put these methods into play daily so I will be Re listening and relearning the techniques! Thanks for the videos!

    • @NegotiationMastery
      @NegotiationMastery  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi there! Applying the techniques daily is key. Check out this video for a more in-depth answer: th-cam.com/video/MUYnfFjwO24/w-d-xo.html

  • @mayurtirpude9367
    @mayurtirpude9367 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    TACTICAL EMPATHY :I recently completed your book & it just hit me... Thank you for this valuable lessons

  • @royald4169
    @royald4169 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    (TACTICAL EMPATHY) You Have Been An Incredible Voice For Me Lately ..Thank you!

  • @larryharte
    @larryharte 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tactical Empathy!
    Thank you.
    Your book changed my life.

  • @karlkramer308
    @karlkramer308 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My first step in learning new negotiation methods. Thank you. I have not given up on learning new techniques.

  • @stonejamie
    @stonejamie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Tactical Empathy. Applying Tactical Empathy with Success was great. Sandy, Derek and Troy are very effective teachers.

  • @andreatittelova4039
    @andreatittelova4039 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tactical empathy! These ones will be used from tomorrow on. Especially in some of my negotiating and fundraising business

  • @bernadettelampman6394
    @bernadettelampman6394 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tactical empathy. I’m learning so much. Thank you

  • @jeffknudsen9672
    @jeffknudsen9672 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So awesome Chris! 🔥

  • @mouchthebiker2938
    @mouchthebiker2938 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i use tactical empathy all the time, recently just listening to someone complain for 10min got me what i wanted and they got it off their chest. felt mutually beneficial.

  • @clearmanlawyers753
    @clearmanlawyers753 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tactical empathy. Thank you Chris.

  • @valister9697
    @valister9697 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    much love for chris and black swan group

  • @SCP-SAM
    @SCP-SAM 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Chris Voss and team rocks!

  • @OneAdam12Adam
    @OneAdam12Adam ปีที่แล้ว

    I got your book back in 2016 for a serious work crisis I had to solve. It helped wonders
    Each year I practice these techniques and have built a better mindset. This has totally rewired my brain.
    Now, every year I get better and understand more deeply why these work.

  • @jacenas
    @jacenas 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    “Have you given up” is GOLD!!! Use it all the time to revive a dead prospect lol

  • @alexateodor
    @alexateodor 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent advice, thank you Chris! 💯

  • @davidsonnet3689
    @davidsonnet3689 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tactical Empathy -Its amazing how working with others in Software projects especially from other countries, offices , backgrounds, is exactly like sales/ negotiation.

  • @johnstafford2627
    @johnstafford2627 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing

  • @michaelmaclachlan2152
    @michaelmaclachlan2152 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I highly recommend everyone pick up Never split the difference, I especially like the audio book version.
    I used No- Oriented questions while asking for a raise to great effect.
    Thanks for all the lessons on tactical empathy , Chris!

    • @atishswami
      @atishswami ปีที่แล้ว

      Can you give example like

    • @blueberry464
      @blueberry464 ปีที่แล้ว

      I like the audio book too but I wish Chris Voss narrated it himself! The existing narrator isn't bad but just not the same.

    • @NegotiationMastery
      @NegotiationMastery  ปีที่แล้ว

      "Never Split the Difference" is a must-read, especially the audio book. Your success with No-Oriented questions during your raise negotiation is impressive! Keep it up!

  • @brianbordenkircher52
    @brianbordenkircher52 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very interesting. Thank you!
    Formerly a financial advisor. In general, great to know! Everyone can use negotiation wording for things like reviews, etc. at the very least

  • @oznetyoutube125
    @oznetyoutube125 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    TACTICAL EMPATHY - TY for helping me and us all to not only WIN, but to do so with a full understanding of How & Why.

  • @Tavycho1
    @Tavycho1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tactical Empathy! Great information. Looking forward to practicing and implementing as much as I can until it feels normal.

  • @cherylbieganowski
    @cherylbieganowski 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tactical Empathy: Hell, yes! Awesome! Thank you!

  • @WatchMePoledance
    @WatchMePoledance 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tactical empathy! This was so helpful, thank you!

  • @pdub2762
    @pdub2762 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful. Ty sir💪

  • @chartconfidence
    @chartconfidence 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    TACTICAL EMPATHY! I just finished "Never Split the Difference" twice after listening to it for the first time years ago. This book was so addictive and I'm glad to be able to get a few excerpts from the book on your TH-cam channel. Thanks, Chris! 🙏🏽

    • @NegotiationMastery
      @NegotiationMastery  ปีที่แล้ว

      That's great to hear! Thanks for loving the book and our TH-cam channel!

  • @sushimamba4281
    @sushimamba4281 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tactical empathy. Thanks Chris.

  • @karengates925
    @karengates925 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant as usual.

  • @taylorpike1091
    @taylorpike1091 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fantastic info in this video. Wow, I only wish I'd started using this sooner.

  • @emailcam
    @emailcam 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tactical empathy.
    Brilliant insights.

  • @christianniem844
    @christianniem844 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tactical Empathy, I have read the book and seen Chris speak, but I really get a lot out of these videos. I think practice is the key to making it second nature. Still working on it.

  • @emartini1
    @emartini1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    TACTICAL EMPATHY - Asking 'No' questions is a game changer!!

  • @timsonofjeff
    @timsonofjeff 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tactical empathy
    Right now, I'm working on some copy that needs a boost. And you just gave me exactly what I need. Thank you!

  • @charlescottrell8377
    @charlescottrell8377 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video. Just decided to buy your book!