Using "NO" To Quickly Persuade People | Negotiation Tactics | Chris Voss

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  • @roberthiggins2252
    @roberthiggins2252 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I am a public school teacher. I use this stuff all the time to show empathy, build rapport, and defuse tense situations with kids AND their parents.
    I have tons of stories to tell but this is not the venue for it.
    The Black Swan Group should try and expand into Social Emotional Learning in schools somehow for teachers.

    • @fitnesssoup7553
      @fitnesssoup7553 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      We as a society need to learn deescalation and conflict resolution. To empathize with each other.

  • @karlhungus5554
    @karlhungus5554 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What a great speaker. I never tire of listening to Black Swan Group material or Chris' audiobook.

  • @NM-rz6tq
    @NM-rz6tq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thankyou for this amazing FREE content. It is GOLD because I certainly cannot afford $2000 to one of your seminars though I wish I could! So thankyou!

  • @thescowlingschnauzer
    @thescowlingschnauzer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    "When someone corrects you, that means you're in dialogue." Wow, the internet must be full of people starving for connection.

    • @deinvestor1.1
      @deinvestor1.1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It sounds like you didn't get it?

    • @rocamaxivojofahd333
      @rocamaxivojofahd333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Chris is referring to a critical negotiation situation.
      You are probably referring to the generally abysmal standard of comments on social media.

    • @renaissancestatesman
      @renaissancestatesman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@rocamaxivojofahd333 the OP is still making an accurate assessment.

    • @Sonsho
      @Sonsho วันที่ผ่านมา

      It is still a dialogue, matter of fact, you created one right here

  • @zeropain9319
    @zeropain9319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I can't hear this enough over and over...thanks Chris.

  • @theteleporters7420
    @theteleporters7420 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just did the thumb finger point trick. Took me about 20 tries till i could do it easily lol. Def good talking point at the dinner table

  • @NM-rz6tq
    @NM-rz6tq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Would it be crazy if you would send me a free ticket to attend your next live seminar and pay for my flights to get there?

    • @businessaccesser6955
      @businessaccesser6955 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @Sal Baldassano That's your problem 😉

    • @Ihitjoo
      @Ihitjoo ปีที่แล้ว +16

      What makes you ask?

    • @GreenvilleDigital
      @GreenvilleDigital ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Hahaha this hit me 😂😂😂😂 pretty good - when I read it, I could hear it in Chris’s voice too LOL

    • @timothyhurlburt9562
      @timothyhurlburt9562 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That’s a “Yes” question :)

    • @frolieberg
      @frolieberg ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Sal Baldassano it seems you are unsure

  • @NicksQuickFix
    @NicksQuickFix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That's right!

  • @christianpineda6625
    @christianpineda6625 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Genuis. Thank you

  • @glengeen75048
    @glengeen75048 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A lot of times when I am about to ask someone for a favor I start with "No is an acceptable answer." Are you able to...?

  • @septiccosts
    @septiccosts หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    To be fair. I hated the yes and never did it for 25 years in sales. But they tried to teach me it but so rejected it because it was fake and only worked on low it people and created win lose transactions

  • @123lowp
    @123lowp 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great content A++

  • @TFl-v9b
    @TFl-v9b 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    THANK YOU GOD VOSS !

  • @HowtoRestoreHeadlights
    @HowtoRestoreHeadlights ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve heard that “some of you are thinking, I’ve got your left forefinger right here” joke countless times and I still laugh every time😂

  • @kajlac
    @kajlac ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “I just killed Jack” 😅😅😅

  • @edwardk3
    @edwardk3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is a Chris Voss-Walken

  • @dancingnachos3634
    @dancingnachos3634 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am here because I want to negotiate with my boss 😂

  • @notanotherusername
    @notanotherusername 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Gold as always 🪙🪙🪙

  • @DontWatchAdsJustRefresh
    @DontWatchAdsJustRefresh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Would it be crazy for you to send me 50 dollars out of emotional intelligence, aha?

  • @lorellamessana2346
    @lorellamessana2346 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Stop joke forever Mai più

  • @foreverraining1522
    @foreverraining1522 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    How is this dude making any money telling the same stories over and over again. People pay to go hear the same speech that you can find him giving 100 times right here on TH-cam. Making money off of stupid people is easy.

    • @jerrydeitz6764
      @jerrydeitz6764 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Principles are gold, stories are just the application. I’m not here for stories.
      I’m here for skills & application 😉.

    • @stueypooey9742
      @stueypooey9742 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      thumb downnnnnnnnn

    • @foreverraining1522
      @foreverraining1522 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@stueypooey9742 how many times are you gonna hear about the haitian hostage taker...STUEY POOEY.

    • @deinvestor1.1
      @deinvestor1.1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It sounds like you are paranoid?

    • @rocamaxivojofahd333
      @rocamaxivojofahd333 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are right about the Haiti story being overused but I think this time he was talking more about how to convince the other side of your credentials
      Like "here's what you have to do" rather than reading out your CV for 10 minutes

  • @alim_616
    @alim_616 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i love it thanks for sharing