401K Gone! Victim of Cruel Romance Scam Speaks Out

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  • @CatfishedOnline
    @CatfishedOnline  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    🆕WATCH NEXT: 32 Year Old Travels 1,300 Miles To Meet Girlfriend Or Romance Scam?: th-cam.com/video/NA8KT14FAqQ/w-d-xo.html

  • @Benjamoose
    @Benjamoose ปีที่แล้ว +4063

    She tells him she "can't video chat because her phone is old and crappy".
    Immediately sends him a selfie with her holding a giant smart phone with two camera lenses.
    Absolute genius of a guy.

    • @ivanaandric5703
      @ivanaandric5703 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      ​@british_vlogMore the other way around.

    • @looking4things669
      @looking4things669 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@ivanaandric5703 British-vlog is being facetious. Just saying.

    • @desdicadoric
      @desdicadoric ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yup. Crazy

    • @cherylb5680
      @cherylb5680 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Einstein he isn't! 😂

    • @emmanuelsalas5298
      @emmanuelsalas5298 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I'm stupid cause i didn't think about that 😂

  • @Ayatoqua
    @Ayatoqua 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5584

    This guy is not being scammed, he's just paying for a fantasy.

    • @lspbeautea4791
      @lspbeautea4791 2 ปีที่แล้ว +174

      Nail on the head.

    • @caveninit
      @caveninit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      I was thinking the exact same thing.

    • @lukebignell7846
      @lukebignell7846 2 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      He wants the fantasy of being with a much younger woman who works in the industry. For the money he has sent so far, he could have paid per play on numerous such women! What a fool!
      He wants the illusion that it’s some form of a real relationship. He needs to wake up.

    • @susaninika7552
      @susaninika7552 2 ปีที่แล้ว +169

      It's cheaper to go to a strip club and at least be in physical proximity of pretty women. Or pay for an escort and at least get sex for his money. Or he can pay for a live chat with some cam model on her own site who he can at least see live on video and she will do whatever he pays for. With all of those, he's at least getting something for his money - real live interaction with a real person. And it would still be cheaper. He could be at a strip club helping some young woman "pay for medical school" if he wants to help people

    • @lspbeautea4791
      @lspbeautea4791 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@susaninika7552 definitely

  • @pepperwestwood
    @pepperwestwood ปีที่แล้ว +6163

    If you make it through hearing this guy describe her features, you can make it through anything in life.

    • @lisawentworth6831
      @lisawentworth6831 ปีที่แล้ว +421

      ..hahaha...'shoulders'...smh

    • @pepperwestwood
      @pepperwestwood ปีที่แล้ว +119

      @@lisawentworth6831 actually just realized I myself creepily compliment shoulder/collarbone area sometimes 😍 Still, f this guy.

    • @macmillerfanforever9968
      @macmillerfanforever9968 ปีที่แล้ว +217

      🤢🤮 ewww right?!? my thoughts exactly!!! I was hoping to see this comment, he has me cringing fr fr and I didn’t think he was ever going to shut up!

    • @NineNineOne
      @NineNineOne ปีที่แล้ว +268

      OMG I’m glad someone else noticed! Waaaaay too much description of her physical appearance to not be creepy. I wanna hear his detailed physical description of the guy he is ACTUALLY talking to! Haha

    • @MiamiPush2theLimit
      @MiamiPush2theLimit ปีที่แล้ว +123

      That was excruciating 😖

  • @jedibob007
    @jedibob007 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +163

    You know you’re on a whole different level of simp when the FBI is warning you.

    • @isolda980
      @isolda980 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      😂 LMAO! 😂

    • @russellhamner4898
      @russellhamner4898 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      "And BTW sir, we aren't the fashion police but PLEASE start shaving your head. And would it kill you start hitting the gym maybe four times a week?"

  • @Milburt
    @Milburt ปีที่แล้ว +2270

    Every time he sent money he was being told “I love you”, “you’re amazing”, “my hero”, “can’t wait to be with you”.
    THAT is what he was paying for.

    • @tiffanyswensen9490
      @tiffanyswensen9490 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      I'll do it for $5 a pop.

    • @jujubegold
      @jujubegold ปีที่แล้ว +77

      Absolutely and even faced with the truth of her deception he stayed in contact and still gave her money. It’s what she’s providing to him. A thrill to his mundane life. A story to tell. Perhaps being captain save a ho is enough for him.

    • @itsjustnopinionok
      @itsjustnopinionok ปีที่แล้ว +9

      14:50 his response to those words

    • @MusicByJC
      @MusicByJC ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@jujubegold Maybe he can look at as charity. He is certainly is helping some Nigerian dude, that I am sure could use the money.

    • @jujubegold
      @jujubegold ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@MusicByJC it’s not one dude. It’s multiple people involved in scamming. It’s like a mafia. Banks involved too.

  • @asfaltsflickan
    @asfaltsflickan ปีที่แล้ว +1626

    Not him describing her like he’s a judge at a dog show and she’s a Dalmatian with a great conformation 😂

    • @saraprva4172
      @saraprva4172 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Yeh, very creepy. Coming from Dalmacija. (Dalmatian) I'd score 0/10 for obedience & definitely bite. What a horrible image😂

    • @ivanaandric5703
      @ivanaandric5703 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      ​@@saraprva4172 I come from Dalmacija too. Split. Odakle si ti?

    • @saraprva4172
      @saraprva4172 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@ivanaandric5703 Also Split, Brda ❤️ working in London 😥

    • @vero9348
      @vero9348 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I say he's on the spectrum and therefore the weird description and compliments

    • @SPACEDOUT19
      @SPACEDOUT19 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@saraprva4172 you have to agree, that girl has some great shoulders

  • @sofakingcrazy
    @sofakingcrazy ปีที่แล้ว +1886

    He's not a victim at a certain point, he's paying for a fantasy service.

    • @kevinmalone3210
      @kevinmalone3210 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      That's right, and a very expensive fantasy service. Better go to Vegas, have some drinks, dinners, gamble, and have a good time.

    • @TCLindasUtube2009
      @TCLindasUtube2009 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      For sure! Pay for a girlfriend/boyfriend type communication service. Someone should start a legit role play service!

    • @GiantSquid2001
      @GiantSquid2001 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      EXACTLY... THANK YOU!

    • @j.d.4697
      @j.d.4697 ปีที่แล้ว

      He acts like a smart, sane person but clearly he is barely smarter than a dog.

    • @sanitary103
      @sanitary103 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kevinmalone3210he should just get an escort

  • @legadillo
    @legadillo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +443

    These people are like hoarders. They can’t see the problem, but somebody comes in to clean it up for them, and as soon as the cleaners leave, they go back to hoarding.

    • @seashells616
      @seashells616 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Excellent comparison. Agreed.

    • @crystinamarie1
      @crystinamarie1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      So sad.

    • @YourXellency
      @YourXellency 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I’m your 100th thumbs upper!
      Scam boys be like, “This is the last time I’ll pay a scammer, but it’s not the last time I’ll date online.” 😂

    • @pixi2209
      @pixi2209 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is mental disorder, too... 😖

    • @helenestiernstrand6575
      @helenestiernstrand6575 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      💯

  • @andyzedd3236
    @andyzedd3236 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4624

    I love watching these videos. I'm not the smartest guy in the world but these guys make me feel like a Neurosurgeon.

    • @apt5044
      @apt5044 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      As an independent woman, TOTALLY agree! They all say how intelligent they are but...... really? I think they are overestimating their brain capacity! As a single woman, who is fairly wealthy, I get so many scam attempts, that I report, or block.....so ummm, no sorry, you are not that bright sorry. Alternatively, you want to believe the fantasy, so disregard common sense, or, you are just happy to pay for emotional prostitution. Either way, you are simply not that smart sorry. Another hot tip.....if they are young, beautiful, buff, wealthy and are looking to fall in love with a wrinkly old man/woman....it is too good to be true! We all know the dating pool we can get, so anything else is just lying to yourself.

    • @Gurra88
      @Gurra88 ปีที่แล้ว

      I see all these obvious fake accounts on Facebook all the time and the retarded commentators seemingly can't figure it out. That gives me a confidence boost at least. If you fall for a romance scam you're an idiot. The red flags are right in front of you and "loneliness" is no excuse. Not being able to do a video call is always a huge red flag but people are retarded. And I know it's possible to fake video calls but anyone with half a brain would figure out the video isn't legit.

    • @zoranagavrilovic9403
      @zoranagavrilovic9403 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Not really though, he said she had same interests as him

    • @april110
      @april110 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Same 😅😅😅😅😅

    • @selenenp1544
      @selenenp1544 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Lauren-gs7bn
    @Lauren-gs7bn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +852

    “Her phone is old and crappy”, yet her photos look almost professional…. Right

    • @mildredpierce4506
      @mildredpierce4506 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The photos are professional. She’s a playboy model. Most scammers use professional photos stolen from real people. They’re not taking on phones.

    • @crystaloats8177
      @crystaloats8177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      @@JaimeMesChiens we know. But this is the telltale sign when all their photos look great but they tell you they have a “crappy” phone. Which nobody that’s relatively young has a phone that crappy. Especially the ones with really professional photos.

    • @lonelypigeon7562
      @lonelypigeon7562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      dude...never EVER criticize a woman's possesion....maybe THATS reason you cant find one~

    • @brindacockburn4033
      @brindacockburn4033 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I saw an newer iphone in selfie

    • @spedmonie416
      @spedmonie416 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Her phone had like two cameras in the next photo after that lmfao

  • @maybebuffalo6049
    @maybebuffalo6049 ปีที่แล้ว +873

    "We discussed culinary things" - like favourite pizza toppings 😂😂😂😂😂 quite the Michelin chef discussion 😂

    • @teapot6219
      @teapot6219 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Love how he tries to sound intelligent and truly believes he's a smart man 🤣

    • @Gioachina0279
      @Gioachina0279 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dumb with too much Money then

    • @Ch4rlz_ThA_Princ3
      @Ch4rlz_ThA_Princ3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      ​@@teapot6219hey a person can be smart with numbers or coding but be completely inept with interpersonal communication like this guy.
      So there's different measurements for intelligence

    • @POCKBA
      @POCKBA ปีที่แล้ว +16

      My favorite is the wallmart chicken😆

    • @mollyram2997
      @mollyram2997 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Right? All he's thinking about are her pepperoni nips. If she looked like a troll he's having nothing to do w her

  • @germimejia7205
    @germimejia7205 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    No way he actually thinks hot girls (specifically THAT MANY hot girls) are into him

  • @rosaballard5501
    @rosaballard5501 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2473

    This gentleman should become addicted to donating money to good charities instead of scammers

    • @Joven.lnversor..
      @Joven.lnversor.. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You don't have money it obvious

    • @eaglewinnings8003
      @eaglewinnings8003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +126

      Will good charities talk dirty to him and make him think he’s going to potentially get intimate with women half his age?

    • @deborahllwalker
      @deborahllwalker 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@eaglewinnings8003 well said.

    • @elinazariel
      @elinazariel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yes like food for poor children since he is chef and likes to talk about food stuuf..

    • @gigilovesgod8825
      @gigilovesgod8825 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's Correct 👏🏻

  • @isherwoody
    @isherwoody 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2060

    When a younger person, way out of your league, contacts you online, they are almost certainly a scammer. As soon as they ask for money, they are definitely a scammer. How delusional do you have to be to keep sending money to these people? Is it an addiction?

    • @StellaFl
      @StellaFl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Amen!

    • @TheKickass85
      @TheKickass85 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      I mean it must be addiction for him even after he found out the person wasn't real and as they was telling him about the person they're dealing with that has over multiple different accounts he still didn't want to come to realization that she was not real I mean look at his back story I had a problem with girls in college I had problems with girls high school I have problems with a wife who was mentally and physically abusive to me and was really abusive to me sexually I mean this guy acting like what he expected he's going to get some snow white that walks through the door and that's going to sit there and treat him like some kind of king he needs professional help

    • @siximpossiblethings6388
      @siximpossiblethings6388 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      I have a feeling it may be, in part, the sunken cost fallacy. It's like a gambler who won't leave a slot machine after hours of dropping money into it with no return because eventually it has to pay off. Problem is, even when a payoff occurs, it's far too little compared to what has already been put into the machine, but it's enough to keep the gambler on the hook to keep playing for that big payoff that's "certainly about to hit."

    • @TheKickass85
      @TheKickass85 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@siximpossiblethings6388 yes but to be honest a lot of them just hoping that it is an actual real person instead of using their common sense and listen to their instincts especially the red flags because you got to ask yourself, why would a person that you just met be asking you for money and of course they're going to use some made up story about they have problems they have cancer but unless you can verify this you should never send nobody money but everybody just wants to be this good person and not be considered a a hole but you got to protect yourself you know and a normal person is not going to sit there and act a complete stranger let me give you 80 or 90,000 or 20,000 you know and they know their scams in the world but they still do it because they are hoping that this person is real they letting their loiness and Desperation over Cloud their judgment

    • @Hajiroku
      @Hajiroku 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      It’s the sunk cost fallacy. You threw in so much money that you don’t want to quit. You already threw in so much money that what’s 100 more.

  • @Msghen24
    @Msghen24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +708

    She can't pay her bills but all her photos looks like she's living a lavish life lol,she even said she's using a crappy phone but the mirror shot shows she have a latest phone 🤣.This man is delusional.

    • @stonehengeconstructioncc1705
      @stonehengeconstructioncc1705 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      😂😂😂

    • @lisawentworth6831
      @lisawentworth6831 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@stonehengeconstructioncc1705 the 'victims' never notice that reality...they believe what they are told.

    • @allwhatilove914
      @allwhatilove914 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Anf Gucci bags

    • @genpaullacamera2233
      @genpaullacamera2233 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hello beautiful how are you doing today?

    • @billwilliams328
      @billwilliams328 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You would be surprised how many people live off of credit to post nice photos to their social but can't pay their bills.

  • @pauldittmer5050
    @pauldittmer5050 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +169

    This dude is the reason why scammers are out there.

    • @richrodgers9961
      @richrodgers9961 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not kidding I’m tempted to send him a pic of a random mediocre looking chick and ask for money.

    • @AB-nk5wv
      @AB-nk5wv 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Him describing her measurements and judging every aspect of her body in the beginning of the video has incel written all over him

    • @AI-dp3rd
      @AI-dp3rd 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      The fact that he compliments her teeth ... he sounds more like a farmer judging livestock at a county fair than a guy describing his beloved girlfriend.

  • @heidiheaux7007
    @heidiheaux7007 ปีที่แล้ว +3375

    The fact that this man called tampons “menstrual medicine” tells you exactly how much experience he’s had with real women. 😳😂

    • @jackfavvv0280
      @jackfavvv0280 ปีที่แล้ว +110

      And it's not even medicine.

    • @md28stads
      @md28stads ปีที่แล้ว +155

      Maybe he meant Midol. 😂

    • @katroamleft4721
      @katroamleft4721 ปีที่แล้ว

      What the actual fuck 😂😂 he needs to get some reproductive health education

    • @katroamleft4721
      @katroamleft4721 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      ​@@jackfavvv0280 oh dear Jack.....duh

    • @牙仙本仙
      @牙仙本仙 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      ikr does he not have a mother, a sister, or see a women irl?

  • @Aditi77828
    @Aditi77828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1513

    He's talking to 16 scammers at the same time. That's beyond unbelievable to me.

    • @missmiss9539
      @missmiss9539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      They are all working togther

    • @apt5044
      @apt5044 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He is a moron... sorry no way to sugar coat this response.... wow.... just WOW! Hey whatever, give them all your money, am sure it will end well! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

    • @tinydream
      @tinydream ปีที่แล้ว +182

      Likely all of them are the same man in Africa

    • @Gurra88
      @Gurra88 ปีที่แล้ว

      He's clearly an idiot but hopefully he recovers his money and learns from it

    • @davidburke2697
      @davidburke2697 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      He will continue to chat even knowing the truth. Sick dude.

  • @lornaandrews8405
    @lornaandrews8405 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1193

    He likes being scammed. He lives in a fairytale world. He needs counseling. In the face of the truth he still chooses to send money. If he doesn’t get psychological help, he will continue be scammed.

    • @KOLAZ12
      @KOLAZ12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      It's sad but true...I wish he could wise up quickly

    • @crystaloats8177
      @crystaloats8177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      He seems really sweet and nice. Unfortunately he’s also very lonely and gullible which makes him prime bait for scammers. He’s also looking at women far out of his league looks wise, which also sets people up. Dude, it’s a Nigerian man. I feel bad but damn. You have to stop and smell the coffee.

    • @eaglewinnings8003
      @eaglewinnings8003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      It’s his drug of choice. The rush he gets from hearing what he wants to hear is worth paying whatever he’s paying to these scammers.
      Almost like those old 1-900 numbers where you paid by the minute and thought you were talking to a Pamela Anderson look alike when really she looked more like your grandmother.

    • @crystaloats8177
      @crystaloats8177 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@eaglewinnings8003 😂 They still run them 900 number ads with the supposed lonely hot chicks. But they won’t call those because they are honest about the upfront costs. I am baffled why he doesn’t just join an onlyfans or go to a strip club.
      He seems to have a need for the rescue fantasy as well. Hell, I’ll talk to him for $300 a week and actually be appreciative and video chat. Honestly there seems to be a market for these people. They also appear to dislike people in their own looks range, so it’s harder to feel sorry for them.
      I mean this man looks like gargoyle from the Smurfs and was only talking to bikini model looking women, which were of course ALL scammers. I don’t like to insult looks but cmon bro. Get in shape, look your best, get a hair system or something if you want to attract better looking women.

    • @alessandrajackson3768
      @alessandrajackson3768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @@crystaloats8177 no he doesn’t. He seems like an absolute creep

  • @robisherwood527
    @robisherwood527 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Some people are beyond help.

  • @Alwaysinvisable
    @Alwaysinvisable ปีที่แล้ว +1071

    You’ve got to hand it to these scammers, they definitely know who to pick.

    • @mcmcolm
      @mcmcolm ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Statistically, someone who has fallen for an online scam before is the best person to target for another online scam.

    • @passedtense436
      @passedtense436 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      they cast a wide net.

    • @ak-jx1pm
      @ak-jx1pm ปีที่แล้ว

      Dating apps are full of vulnerable people desperate for romance

    • @didtydobble5446
      @didtydobble5446 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      that's a very polite way to put it!

    • @Mike_Davidson
      @Mike_Davidson ปีที่แล้ว +7

      What are you implying? 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @thycaltrist
    @thycaltrist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +496

    Dude had the FBI tell him to stop and he went 'it will be fine', he's on a whole other level.

    • @hellman4710
      @hellman4710 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Bruh come on, you're telling me you wouldn't want to be with a dude balding that keeps his side hair long 🤣

    • @raimeyewens7518
      @raimeyewens7518 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@hellman4710 that’s called a skullet lol

    • @ceIIardoor
      @ceIIardoor ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The got damn FBI

    • @j.rebekah8605
      @j.rebekah8605 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      i didn't know the fbi had time to be giving people like this advice. i'd take it if i were him.

    • @tommymaier3017
      @tommymaier3017 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@raimeyewens7518 lol

  • @shv3t
    @shv3t ปีที่แล้ว +572

    Being warned by the FBI to not send more money is WILD 😂

    • @JohnnyRayedd-Neck
      @JohnnyRayedd-Neck 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      lol and the light bulb 💡 still didn’t go on !😂

    • @datgurlky1
      @datgurlky1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      😂😂

    • @Stannely1
      @Stannely1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Bruv...😂😂😂

    • @elizabethstead1768
      @elizabethstead1768 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂

    • @margaretkaufman1144
      @margaretkaufman1144 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      How can the FBI Control what u do with your own money???? It’s yours if u want to be dumb with it well………😂😂😂😂😂

  • @FlaviusFlav
    @FlaviusFlav 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +438

    One good thing about scammers is they keep men like this from interacting with real women.

    • @jumpinjojo
      @jumpinjojo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      😂😂

    • @Cleatus546
      @Cleatus546 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Good point.

    • @juliagrossmueller5739
      @juliagrossmueller5739 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Hahahaha 😂😅 holy crap that's funny& thank goodness true!!! Best comment!!

    • @wumao_gang1020
      @wumao_gang1020 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Why? Are you making fun of a Catfish victim

    • @TheAquarian214
      @TheAquarian214 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Right?

  • @SwedBaben
    @SwedBaben 2 ปีที่แล้ว +906

    I noticed how the only positive things he could say about her were about her appearance. If you can't name one good thing about someone's personality your relationship isn't real

    • @rarejewel9678
      @rarejewel9678 2 ปีที่แล้ว +124

      All he cares about is the superficial. That is why he is the perfect victim.

    • @carlahaiduk1878
      @carlahaiduk1878 2 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      But they talked about pizza toppings

    • @laraantipova389
      @laraantipova389 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      @@carlahaiduk1878 they have so much in common. They both like pizza!

    • @terrytitus5291
      @terrytitus5291 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Another one of these,the guy said he was in love with the pictures,how about getting to know a person,duh!

    • @smachael07
      @smachael07 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      I came to the comments to see if anyone else thought he was a CREEP. He is 9/10 creepy.

  • @phillipseifert694
    @phillipseifert694 ปีที่แล้ว +293

    She’s telling him she can’t video chat cause she has an old crappy phone, but sends a mirror selfie showing the latest iPhone
    What did he think these almost professional photos were being taken on? It had to be very hard for him to convince himself that she was real

    • @tribalbabymum
      @tribalbabymum ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I love the photos where the scammer sends them a photo of their broken phone asking for a new phone, LOL

    • @patrickcronin3264
      @patrickcronin3264 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I yelled the same thing wtf....he knew all along but loves reading how great he is from these scammers.

    • @travis-tg5cq
      @travis-tg5cq ปีที่แล้ว +5

      and nice house too

    • @gh-xv1ch
      @gh-xv1ch ปีที่แล้ว +3

      im frustrated with this people. if there is no proper video chat, why keep on going?
      can you tell him that (social catfish), he could have just gotten a homeless one around his area, at least he could see them in person, and maybe he'll get a future with her because of his generosity.
      would have been better if daniel just let all those money went for a hair transplant. before proceeding to go on an online date, i doubt a hot chick would really check him out at this stage. just being blunt.

    • @6AlphaMikeCharlie9
      @6AlphaMikeCharlie9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      c´mon we all know she just borrowed it 🤣

  • @dougboal7425
    @dougboal7425 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1268

    I have zero sympathy for Daniel. He was explicitly told NOT to send money online by the FBI. Then what does he do? Send money to scammers online!
    Deep down, he knows these profiles are fake, but he would rather live in a fantasy where he pretends they are real, even if it means going broke! Wake up Daniel!

    • @bokings9448
      @bokings9448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      hahaha your right

    • @shumi9688
      @shumi9688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      You got it

    • @Barbaracoyle
      @Barbaracoyle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@shumi9688 Hit the nail on the head.

    • @cucharlie2006
      @cucharlie2006 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      He needs Jesus..

    • @Yinyanchant
      @Yinyanchant 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@cucharlie2006 He NEEDS a personality.

  • @Evi_to_Earth
    @Evi_to_Earth 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    His lust is unbearable. Get over it! It’s not “Valerie” you are communicating with a grown Nigerian man.

  • @rebeccawoehler-moss9627
    @rebeccawoehler-moss9627 ปีที่แล้ว +1645

    Why in the world would someone think a person that “looks” like her would settle for them? Brutal question, but valid.

    • @peterclarke7240
      @peterclarke7240 ปีที่แล้ว +232

      If you listen to everything he said about his past dating experiences, he has a heavily distorted concept of reality, with absolutely no self-reflection, in which he was a blameless victim.
      He probably thinks he's quite a catch, when I can imagine most women running screaming from him because they can spot a narcissist when they see one.

    • @SweetUniverse
      @SweetUniverse ปีที่แล้ว +102

      Exactly. It only happens in life if he's filthy rich.

    • @ivanlagrossemoule
      @ivanlagrossemoule ปีที่แล้ว +98

      ​@@peterclarke7240 I think it can be the exact opposite. I think he might be depressed and suffers from low self esteem.
      He goes after women who are far and disconnected from his life, who are very good looking, and I think it's unintentionally a way to remain safe. Talking to a girl who would never be interested and is obviously way too good looking, as well as live too far away anyway, is a way to get attention from a woman without risking it going too far, where you'll get hurt. On top of that, if it really does succeed he uses her as a crutch to get an ego boost from other people. He's obviously also very much trying to live the saviour fantasy where the only reason a woman would love him is if he "saves" her. I think this also shows low self confidence, as he can't really see other value in himself.
      Don't forget that a common sign of a lack of self esteem is acted overconfidence.

    • @peterclarke7240
      @peterclarke7240 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      @@ivanlagrossemoule Possibly, although, as someone who spent many years working in the Mental Health field, I tend to disagree, Nothing he said indicated he had a depressed person's mindset. Depressed people tend to blame themselves, rather than others, although I admit this isn't always the case.
      In regards to low self-esteem... Again, possibly. Although, again, nothing he said indicated that. People with low self-esteem tend not to aim high, largely because they're both convinced they will fail and are convinced they aren't worth it.
      However, everything he DID say, is more akin to Narcissistic Personality Disorder- high expectations of others, a tendency to blame others for your failings, a lack of self-reflection and introspection (both things a person with depression tends to do far too much of), and a tendency to not see or comprehend your own limitations or need for improvement.
      But you're right, he MAY just be depressed.

    • @牙仙本仙
      @牙仙本仙 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@SweetUniverse most of the time when someone is filthy rich they will not present themselves like this lol

  • @walkingstick6655
    @walkingstick6655 ปีที่แล้ว +520

    What's super cringey about all this, is that he felt compelled to reveal all this to the public. And when the FBI is telling you to stop sending money, what the hell is wrong with you?

    • @annanowak9620
      @annanowak9620 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      When FBI tells you to stop you know it's really bad...

    • @axjkhl7699
      @axjkhl7699 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      he would probably pay even FBI to body search him

    • @davieboy666
      @davieboy666 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sad prick😂.. I might phone him. 🎉

    • @medici__
      @medici__ ปีที่แล้ว +8

      no shame

    • @javiermp6608
      @javiermp6608 ปีที่แล้ว

      He is mentally sick

  • @RA-wp6th
    @RA-wp6th 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +234

    I think he doesn't care if they are scammers. He just enjoys the illusion of thinking he's talking to a beautiful woman.

    • @MBT372
      @MBT372 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Probably 😊

    • @donaldyoung7362
      @donaldyoung7362 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He's beating it while sending it.

  • @athenarisman
    @athenarisman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +810

    So sick of hearing guys like this complain about how they can’t meet “real” women. I reached out to so many guys like him - average 40 year olds - when I was online dating in my 30s, and was always told I was too old for them or “not in their league.” 🙄🙄🙄

    • @Nawtperfect
      @Nawtperfect 2 ปีที่แล้ว +275

      Seriously, it's hard to feel sorry for the guys who demand 8-10s when they are 2-5s. My uncle was such a person, and he died a bachelor because the women who were interested in him didn't look like porn stars.

    • @pinacolada1393
      @pinacolada1393 2 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      @Athena Risman people like that are delusional & unfortunately there seems to be a abundance of them.
      Hopefully you met someone

    • @athenarisman
      @athenarisman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +144

      @@pinacolada1393 Thanks, I did eventually meet someone when I was almost 40. In the end, it was definitely worth the wait and all the bs! 🙂

    • @PerrySkyePhoenix
      @PerrySkyePhoenix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Seriously, why would a guy tell a woman on a dating site that she's "too old" or whatever... How rude. Did you message them first?

    • @PerrySkyePhoenix
      @PerrySkyePhoenix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@athenarisman That's good to hear. Did you meet your partner online?

  • @chanel113
    @chanel113 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1824

    The way he describes her looks, getting her teeth done, etc. You’d think he’d put some of that effort into his own.

    • @annatannehill716
      @annatannehill716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Ikr

    • @kdp8133
      @kdp8133 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @LasVegas Ginger That was classic! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @nadiyah7071
      @nadiyah7071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +158

      That was creepy AF 😳

    • @erinlopez7701
      @erinlopez7701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +155

      LoL its always the case with these type of guys.

    • @bokings9448
      @bokings9448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      hahaha omg hahaha

  • @darrenshore5853
    @darrenshore5853 ปีที่แล้ว +401

    This is utterly pathetic. Even before her he was scammed and FBI told him to stop sending money to people. Some people are so pathetic they will always be a victim

    • @Dan-di9jd
      @Dan-di9jd ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I watched the full video from start to finish. I have reasons to believe this video is fake and that the people are actors. The story doesn't make sense. Think about it for a second. This is a channel dedicated to cat fishing which is essentially people scammed. The guy in the video came on the show through his own volution. Wouldn't that mean he's establishing the basis that he got scammed by an individual and that he's attempting to recover his loss? Instead, the guy is rationalizing that this is a real person and that the interviewers are attempting to tell him that the person is not real and that he's being scammed. How can someone both accept that they're being scammed but want to continue getting scammed? Either the guy is insane or more rationally this is a show and these are actors.

    • @jamesofficial6829
      @jamesofficial6829 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I've been a victim several times myself. We all want to be loved in life and I have been in disbelief of being scammed when I knew better but a part of me just doesn't want to believe it. I am a man that desperate that just wants to find love. Its real I would do anything to have love myself. @@Dan-di9jd

    • @justmeagain7
      @justmeagain7 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ​@@Dan-di9jdmaybe reality goes beyond fiction

    • @RedxRiot
      @RedxRiot 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@Dan-di9jdPeople have the capacity to be absolutely insane and stupid, I’d believe the cognitive dissonance this man is going through

    • @Dan-di9jd
      @Dan-di9jd 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@RedxRiot no I don’t think people are THAT dumb. I mean dumb yes but not like that dumb. I wouldn’t be surprised it’s just actors to get viewers on his channel. That sounds a lot more reasonable to me

  • @uninsurable9028
    @uninsurable9028 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +164

    I like reading the comments as much as I like watching the video. You guys are hilarious.

    • @pixi2209
      @pixi2209 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yes, another entertainment. 😂

    • @sponzie1
      @sponzie1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @misswinter3361
      @misswinter3361 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I read the comments immediately as soon as the video starts.

    • @hollyhentai4313
      @hollyhentai4313 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I literally scroll and nod along with the comments. It makes it so great.

    • @TheTwilightBong
      @TheTwilightBong 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@misswinter3361Exactly 😂 makes it even funnier

  • @lauragriffin6512
    @lauragriffin6512 2 ปีที่แล้ว +492

    Life isn't kicking him in the teeth. He's doing it to himself. Stop playing a victim and accept responsibility for your own decisions.

    • @lauragriffin6512
      @lauragriffin6512 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@flufftechgames He said that when it was confirmed that he was being scammed, which has happened many times before, and which he ALREADY KNEW, it was life kicking him in the teeth. At some point, you are no longer a victim, but a willing dupe.

    • @user-sf9gs2pg1b
      @user-sf9gs2pg1b 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      15:40

    • @tinydream
      @tinydream ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@flufftechgames He kept sending her money even after he knew she was scamming him. I feel bad for his past but he doesn’t want to change his future.

    • @Gurra88
      @Gurra88 ปีที่แล้ว

      That guy just screams retard alert. If anyone asks online asks you for money it's always a scam. He apparently kept sending money despite knowing it was a scam which is an achievement but not as hilarious as that Air Force Controllant who sent 1 million dollars to some Nigerian scammer. Imagine working for the military with classified stuff whatever and still getting duped by some amateur

    • @cieltheeditor7922
      @cieltheeditor7922 ปีที่แล้ว

      Literally. He’s pathetic and beyond saving, not to mention a total incel 😂

  • @Jenny010132
    @Jenny010132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +393

    NOTHING ever raises red flags with these people! The scammer could be standing in front of them screaming, “I AM A SCAMMER STEALING YOUR MONEY” and they still wouldn’t get it!

    • @bokings9448
      @bokings9448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      your right

    • @jeffreysg
      @jeffreysg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Wait, did you say your are MC Hammer and have a ceiling full of honey? Do you want a $500 google play gift card to help clean it?

    • @lvega5606
      @lvega5606 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is not even an exaggeration. Batshit Lois on Dr. Phil actually received texts from her scammer telling her that he is a scammer and to not send him or anyone else any more money. And she still did.

    • @patriciakalamba8328
      @patriciakalamba8328 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beats me...

    • @DocBree13
      @DocBree13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      One of them sent a photo to the woman he was scamming that said “I am a scammer” and she continued to send him money

  • @ghostofaforgottenweedle
    @ghostofaforgottenweedle ปีที่แล้ว +135

    Scammers got dude on their "Most Wanted" list 💀
    Half of Nigeria already had lunch on him.

  • @MK-sd8zr
    @MK-sd8zr 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +228

    This guy is worried his "wife" will turn ugly as she gets older. We all got fears... I'm scared of his never-ending forehead.

    • @juliagrossmueller5739
      @juliagrossmueller5739 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      😂😂😂

    • @avishill8613
      @avishill8613 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      It's a 5 head😂

    • @TheImmortalDivine
      @TheImmortalDivine 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      This is my favorite comment 😂

    • @TheImmortalDivine
      @TheImmortalDivine 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @ferociousgumby I went back to see that! He can't even put on a proper, intact t-shirt when he's going to be on something akin to television. This is the kind of man-baby who is becoming very common these days: guys with no common sense about really basic things and need women to tell them to do so, as if they're more of a mother than a gf/wife. And then of course when the woman tells them to do this thing they should already know to do, they accuse them of nagging.
      I bet his house is filthy and he doesn't know how to cook more than hot pockets and Hungry Mans, and forgets to brush his teeth surprisingly often.

    • @ferociousgumby
      @ferociousgumby 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@TheImmortalDivine A real prize! But he doesn't need to look his best for a fantasy.

  • @BehindThePringles
    @BehindThePringles ปีที่แล้ว +1162

    If I’m having a bad day, I just think “thank goodness I’m not the victim of a romance scam”.
    Now, if you’ll excuse me, I have to go and transfer my life savings to Irena, a Ukrainian supermodel who said I was handsome.

    • @ericagor327
      @ericagor327 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      😂😂😂😂

    • @AACE73
      @AACE73 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      I love you my King, I can't wait to see you & marry you but I can't afford the plane ticket......

    • @6AlphaMikeCharlie9
      @6AlphaMikeCharlie9 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      wow that´s funny, we have something in common,
      i´ve just send my life savings to Ludmilla who lives in Russia, i´ve not seen or spoken to her yet even though we´ve been dating for 5 years. but i imagine she´s got a sexy voice.

    • @electropsychosis
      @electropsychosis ปีที่แล้ว +56

      This “handsome” thing needs to be an automatic red flag, especially if you look like The Lawnmower Man.

    • @AACE73
      @AACE73 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@electropsychosis 😂

  • @nofirstgonzalez7888
    @nofirstgonzalez7888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    You’re not “dating” anyone. You’re giving money to scammers. Period.

  • @amelorins
    @amelorins 2 ปีที่แล้ว +269

    The girl said her phone is old and crappy then sent him a selfie with an iPhone 13 phone lmao

  • @azgal663
    @azgal663 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +75

    He’s sending money & “I love you” to a dude in Nigeria! 😆🤣🤣🤣

    • @TonyaR789
      @TonyaR789 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @mariannanicole6205
      @mariannanicole6205 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😅😅Yeah, I someone like this, I have known him for 38yrs he is totally sold out to this person. I can't help him he yells at me. 😢😢

  • @deniseswann4389
    @deniseswann4389 ปีที่แล้ว +376

    I can see why law enforcement is tired of these people. They never stop falling for this stuff. Dude FBI told you not to send money, I think they have better things to do then babysit you.

    • @franpag2611
      @franpag2611 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      He is enjoying this and is buying a 'social' life for himself. Needs to find a real woman

    • @janewainwright9756
      @janewainwright9756 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Absolutely! These sca.mers really are extremely gullible. I feel for their loneliness but for hundreds of thousands of dollars??? Seriously...Babe?

    • @janewainwright9756
      @janewainwright9756 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Miscellaneous costs?????

    • @christinecatt8039
      @christinecatt8039 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This type of scam is not a crime....so the police will not get involved...neither will the FBI..
      Money is given freely..these people are not coerced in any way...sweet talk, and fooling someone into thinking you love them, again, .this is not a crime
      You can only be used if you allow someone to use you. !!!

    • @zesolodar
      @zesolodar 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      yep my friend works as a teller at one of the major banks, says people like him walk in almost every day. no matter how many flyers they put on the door and counters, no matter how much he and other tellers, branch managers tell them about it being a scam and they have seen it so many times before people just chose not to listen to reason or think this is the 1 in 1000 time its actually true. whats even worse is when they find out they get scammed the first thing they do is come into the bank and yell at the staff for not stopping it and demanding their money back from the bank. it sucks when all they can do is shrug their shoulders and say we tried multiple times to stop you and talk to you and you cursed us out for calling you stupid and saying we didnt know what we were talking about. he can tell these people exactly whats happening to them word for word and it dosent even register to them how does this guy know its tax stuff, or trying to get them into the country. they must have mind reading abilities

  • @sakurakitana3087
    @sakurakitana3087 2 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    They Proved She Was FAKE & He Still Sent $$$.
    HE'S NOT A VICTIM
    HE'S SICK & NEEDS HELP

    • @Typhon888
      @Typhon888 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Help not needed when you crazy.

    • @russellhamner4898
      @russellhamner4898 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's all a matter of perspective. He's right that it's an addiction, and if sending some Nigerian man all of his money gives him a dopamine pop just like a shot of her01n or line of coke does for an addict, then from his standpoint it's totally sane and #worthit. To the fraudster it is of course totally sane and actually pretty awesome as they have him primed and trained to hand over the money with less and less effort as time goes on. It's a mutually beneficial economic transaction, even if it appears from the outside looking in to be exploitative. Maybe it is? Drug addiction looks insane to everyone who isn't a dealer or crack smoker, but for those on the inside it's just a high risk but exciting lifestyle with perceived benefits to all participants. Fun and fulfilling!This dorky dorkwad McDorkface catfish victim here seems to us like somewhat who needs to literally be physically shaken back into reality (like, grabbing him by the shoulders and shaking him whilst yelling at him to return to reality), but from where he stands, this is his lifestyle that he uses his own money (at least for now) to finance and he feels that it is worth it. We all know he still sends money to this scammer or some other, and unless and until he starts robbing people or banks to finance it, I say we just let him have his fun - just like I feel about c-c-cr-cr-crack h-h-h-heads!

  • @minka_thork2892
    @minka_thork2892 2 ปีที่แล้ว +663

    He doesn't like the signs of aging? Man do I have some bad news for him

    • @user.194
      @user.194 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I know right?😂

    • @ANGELGMAILSIX
      @ANGELGMAILSIX ปีที่แล้ว +17

      🤣 🤣 🤣

    • @SAPHYTYRA
      @SAPHYTYRA ปีที่แล้ว +60

      He might be on a goddamned registry

    • @hiitstechsupport1100
      @hiitstechsupport1100 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I thought / hoped I misheard that one haha this man is really something else

    • @karanfield4229
      @karanfield4229 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I love this comment!🥰

  • @yasminx16
    @yasminx16 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    I’m absolutely shocked he had a wife

    • @According_To_Matt
      @According_To_Matt หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mom used to say, "there's a lid for every pot."

    • @renardfranse
      @renardfranse 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      she was the lucky one

  • @LilyMBrandon
    @LilyMBrandon ปีที่แล้ว +1088

    I love how he only talks about her looks, not a single thing about her as a human being

    • @cocobunitacobuni8738
      @cocobunitacobuni8738 ปีที่แล้ว

      she's a piece of meat to him

    • @kevinmalone3210
      @kevinmalone3210 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      He wanted this to be true. He just didn't want to face the reality of this situation.

    • @uniqueEnergy83
      @uniqueEnergy83 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      That’s all he can go by , 😂😂😂 it’s not like he’s gotten to know her mentally

    • @vaska1999
      @vaska1999 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      What else can he talk about a person who doesn't even exist?! All he knows about "her" are some photos.

    • @cocobunitacobuni8738
      @cocobunitacobuni8738 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@vaska1999 she likes money 😅

  • @Nill89
    @Nill89 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    Ok, its been proven that she’s a scammer now, I’m not gonna send her money ever again… proceeds to send more money 😂😂😂 This guy is hilarious!!

    • @peterclarke7240
      @peterclarke7240 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Seriously. The guys in Lagos probably couldn't believe it, either 😂

    • @MightyJabroni
      @MightyJabroni ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Must be some hidden kink. Every broken promise and every check into romantic oblivion must feel like a sweet whiplash on his ass.

    • @alexandraayeone1470
      @alexandraayeone1470 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@MightyJabroni this comment needs to win the Internet 😊😅😂🎉

  • @monfisch
    @monfisch 2 ปีที่แล้ว +517

    I’m a little creeped out with the way he described Valerie. He believes he can get a 10 from a sex worker because in his head she has no self esteem like him, and therefore, they would be perfect together. It’s twisted. He has no social skills.

    • @banana9106
      @banana9106 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He can get a 10 sex worker, but only if he pays through the nose every time. They make good money, so if he thinks that they will give in their work for him, he is deluded.

    • @char2304
      @char2304 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I agree 👍

    • @ScandalUK
      @ScandalUK ปีที่แล้ว +59

      It’s the “I’m such a nice guy” routine that you also see from the female victims of these scams.
      It’s like they believe that they’re the only nice people around, so that quality alone puts them ahead of competition.

    • @angeldiaz762
      @angeldiaz762 ปีที่แล้ว

      The ironic part here in all this is that a sex worker would've cost him less than what he spent.

    • @raimeyewens7518
      @raimeyewens7518 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      He says he doesn’t like the signs of aging and he’s almost bald. This guy is going to spend his life alone if he’s waiting for a woman that’s a 10. He needs to look at 1’s-4’s. That’s his level.

  • @sheritaa3032
    @sheritaa3032 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    🤔How do videos like this make me feel incredibly sorry for the scammed victims but ALSO give me the urge to start my own scamming!?🥴

  • @Cerraigh82
    @Cerraigh82 2 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    Everything he likes about this girl: hair, nose, teeth, dimples, shoulder, cleavage. Yeah.... He really got to know her on a personal level.
    That girl on the picture looks about 20. He seems super creepy.

    • @TheRealCora
      @TheRealCora 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      he said hes 26, so i think he just looks 20 years older than he really is

    • @user-sf9gs2pg1b
      @user-sf9gs2pg1b 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheRealCora what? I thought he said he’s 40.

    • @imalrockme
      @imalrockme 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@TheRealCora I heard 46.

    • @kongvinter33
      @kongvinter33 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@imalrockme you heard right

    • @eckankar7756
      @eckankar7756 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey, they had a deep discussion about pizza toppings

  • @marcussmithwick6326
    @marcussmithwick6326 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    This dude knows 100% what he's doing

  • @christinerewell9954
    @christinerewell9954 2 ปีที่แล้ว +250

    He's a few sandwiches short of a picnic! She looks young enough to be his daughter. As if she'd be interested in him! 🙄

    • @carolynbell7403
      @carolynbell7403 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😆 🤣 😂 😹

    • @jamimazada7428
      @jamimazada7428 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Intrested in his Money

    • @牙仙本仙
      @牙仙本仙 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@jamimazada7428 he isn't that rich.

    • @user-db6el7eb9p
      @user-db6el7eb9p 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think he is 26. He just looks old cause poor guy lost his hair

    • @marylivingstone9815
      @marylivingstone9815 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@user-db6el7eb9p He was 26 twenty years ago.

  • @Timpon_Dorz
    @Timpon_Dorz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Bro doesn't need help from other people... Bro just needs a mirror.

  • @lorra4789
    @lorra4789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +747

    He describes her looks…so..looks are important to him. He is delusional!

    • @bridgetxrose
      @bridgetxrose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      To be fair in this situation, since she only texts thats all he had to go on. Hes still very delusional though

    • @isay207
      @isay207 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Shallow

    • @lorra4789
      @lorra4789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      @@bridgetxrose he needs to look in the mirror and be real with himself!

    • @justinebailey5333
      @justinebailey5333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      💯💯💯💯

    • @bridgetxrose
      @bridgetxrose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@lorra4789 Agreed. This is a common theme with these scammer victims. They get with these “people” who are absolutely out of their league and think that they have some kind of shot.

  • @DeviliciousNails
    @DeviliciousNails ปีที่แล้ว +436

    It's the whole 'I'm used to helping people' thing that got me. Suuuuure. You're such a good person. That's definitely why you fell for this.

    • @cariaus3758
      @cariaus3758 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      He loves helping people but if an ugly woman asked for help I'm sure he would've ignored her lol

    • @Kat-lt6qd
      @Kat-lt6qd ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Savior complex. It comes from an egotistical place, not a place of empathy.
      He gets to feel superior and more noble than others. He sees himself as a hero who is willing to sacrifice his own needs for nothing in return.
      He is a White Knight, "she may be beautiful but she still relies on me to survive!"
      He needs to stop "helping" others & get some help for himself.
      He is an enabler & despite being warned by the FBI, he continues to fund these criminals. He is complicit.

    • @sunbeam9222
      @sunbeam9222 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      ​@@Kat-lt6qd ​​ lol perfectly stated. So much easier to create a fake image of ourselves in our mind believe it long enough to make it feel real than actually take a proper hard look in the mirror and start doing real work on ourselves. Weak pants here prefers to portray himself as self righteous hero.

    • @1964KYM
      @1964KYM ปีที่แล้ว

      They all say that . Contact me. I will give you a list of where you can help. You idiot

    • @allwhatilove914
      @allwhatilove914 ปีที่แล้ว

      He loves helping hot women, pornstars and 304s

  • @MarkDunn
    @MarkDunn ปีที่แล้ว +317

    I'm proud of Daniel for kicking his gift card habit for 3 days.

    • @INAGUAPLACE
      @INAGUAPLACE ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😂😂😂

    • @reelmermaid8844
      @reelmermaid8844 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Oh snap. It's funny because it's true.....

    • @adalovelace7620
      @adalovelace7620 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤣😂... gift card habit!

    • @FrederickViedge
      @FrederickViedge ปีที่แล้ว

      😂

    • @lauriestites8756
      @lauriestites8756 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And that noise he makes now as he passes the gift cards..😂😂

  • @sarahmorgan574
    @sarahmorgan574 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    “Life is out there kicking me in the teeth again.” YOU KICKED IN YOUR OWN TEETH! You are not a victim! You willingly chose this over and over and over.

  • @livmilesparanormalromanceb6891
    @livmilesparanormalromanceb6891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +371

    These guys never ask themselves why a woman who’s out of their league would be into them … 🤦‍♀️

    • @Sandland113
      @Sandland113 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      We all want something we cannot have,Even the person who is 10 out of 10 want something they cannot have and this why almost everyone is single which that's most people fall for scams!

    • @crystaloats8177
      @crystaloats8177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      The women too. A handsome doctor or oil rig worker has so much trouble finding women.

    • @erinlopez7701
      @erinlopez7701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@crystaloats8177 My favorite is the oil rig worker asking for money to buy a much needed part for some machinery, and the victim falls for that nonsense.

    • @erinlopez7701
      @erinlopez7701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      He never had friends that tell him the truth. Or he never had a woman tell him how creepy he is. Sometimes it works.

    • @hoosierbaddy3052
      @hoosierbaddy3052 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@erinlopez7701 IKR?! They have to drive home the fact to these women that ExxonMobile can pay for its own dang machinery! As if the entire rig was dependent upon the kind and desperate donations from home and abroad. A gofundme for a gas company that owns the world? Oh sure. They even do that with military stories. The ‘soldier’ will ask for money for ammunition and equally needed military gear. AYKM?! And, the US military pays for its own artillery AND flights for the soldiers. Some fall for that scheiss. At least these sheisters are being outed via these videos raising awareness about them. Just when I thought mankind couldn’t get any creepier, enter these scammers. Bleeding some down to a physical death as well as a financial one. Reprehensible! Unconscionable! Sociopathic.

  • @ozzymoto6483
    @ozzymoto6483 2 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    Why do homely middle age and old men believe that hot young ladies online would ever want to be with them? Talk about living in denial.

    • @elizabethrusso6620
      @elizabethrusso6620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Absolutely. And, the women too. Falling in love with a modelesque, professional businessman who claims his accent is due to his German father, Spaniard mother, whom relocated to Sweden & sent him to boarding school in the UK before he finally came to the USA. Gets worse--the scammers cannot even speak or write proper English. Honestly! Yet, the women continue sending $$. ???

    • @user-sf9gs2pg1b
      @user-sf9gs2pg1b 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      That’s what Sugar Babies are for. There’s sites for that. Pay them money and be with them.

    • @KS-yp1jl
      @KS-yp1jl ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Because they think they're being a cool sugar daddy

    • @vsanchez7158
      @vsanchez7158 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same with the women. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @zxyatiywariii8
      @zxyatiywariii8 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@johnsampson6387This is why I love video games, I can make my character an impossibly gorgeous woman or a super hot guy, and have fun in a fantasy setting everyone knows isn't real.

  • @zsigzsag
    @zsigzsag 2 ปีที่แล้ว +331

    He is on a list now. With all the tools available to inform people of scammers, this guy is thick headed or enjoys being a victim. "Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me", a saying that applies here definitely.

    • @zsigzsag
      @zsigzsag 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      If he wants to meet someone online he should put "LOCAL ONLY" (set a reasonable distance to meet in person). He seems nice, I am sure there are real women out there who would like him. Hope he reads and takes this advice.

    • @whateverchannel22
      @whateverchannel22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      He was on a list already. They said he'd been scammed before.

    • @crystaloats8177
      @crystaloats8177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@zsigzsag I always put no long distance, but often scammers have profiles in tons of cities, especially major cities. They will often say they live close and will be “back in town soon.” He needs to immediately block anyone who keeps trying to talk to him and can’t meet. You must not let loneliness break down boundaries. Honestly these people are not cut out for online dating. They are simply too desperate and probably don’t like people in their looks range. That’s why it’s hard to feel sorry for them. Why doesn’t he just pay for only fans or go to a strip club? At least they actually give you something in return and aren’t Nigeria dudes laughing behind a screen. I just don’t understand it.
      They need to ask themselves why an attractive person would be desperately seeking them out, don’t let flattery delude yourself.

    • @QueenPcontrolstheuniverse
      @QueenPcontrolstheuniverse 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah a suckers' ist.

    • @skyfalldeadpool1633
      @skyfalldeadpool1633 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I feel bad for him but ma some people are so easy to scam

  • @user-gj1me4mf5c
    @user-gj1me4mf5c 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I wish the Scamfish crew were this forward/honest with all "victims". Hold them accountable for their actions!

  • @asiamommi
    @asiamommi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +107

    Blames 'Life' for kicking him in the teeth when in fact it's his own stupidity..

    • @janeceeastwood8035
      @janeceeastwood8035 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Life kicks everyone of us in the teeth. Stand up and grow up.

  • @Heffsta02
    @Heffsta02 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    his description of her physical form just kept going and going LMAO

    • @forsakenjones4695
      @forsakenjones4695 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Just like Shallow Hal, when he described his ideal woman.🤣

    • @CAMELFLAM
      @CAMELFLAM ปีที่แล้ว +11

      He was attempting to show that he noticed everything befor her chest

    • @wayneolsen8965
      @wayneolsen8965 ปีที่แล้ว

      Like Bob Costas describing Mike Trout at bat

  • @jodylarson4697
    @jodylarson4697 2 ปีที่แล้ว +255

    OMG Daniel! He talks about her hair, her dimples, her glasses, but for heavens sake you know that's not what he's really interested in!
    If he really wants to help people, there are bona fide charities that can use his money.
    I am sure he's on a list. All of Nigeria is passing him around.

    • @lolly5453
      @lolly5453 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Yeah, her “shoulders” 🙄 sure that’s what caught his eye! 😉

    • @brindacockburn4033
      @brindacockburn4033 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Meanwhile he's a real beauty

    • @lolly5453
      @lolly5453 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@brindacockburn4033 tbf, after 12:00 when he has cut that creepy long hair, he looks better. I’m sure if he got out into the real world, kept his expectations to a reasonable level instead of searching for these insta-model-lookin women, he might have a chance at meeting a nice (real, human) woman. Doesn’t sound like he’s learned his lesson tho listening to this interview. 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️ I guess if we don’t learn from our mistakes and continue the same behaviour, we can’t expect a different outcome... 😏

    • @princessmarlena1359
      @princessmarlena1359 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Not just Nigeria, but also Russia, the former Eastern Bloc, India, the Far East…

    • @Campfire30
      @Campfire30 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      “All of Nigeria is PASSING HIM AROUND”!!!! Lmao you are correct, amazing comment! 😂😂😂

  • @Mara-d2x
    @Mara-d2x 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    He's not unintelligent. I think he enjoys being a victim, looking for sympathy. He must, since he agrees to keep talking to scammers. He's looking for love but all he talks about are her physical attributes. "Food shop talk". She likes pineapple on pizza. Very haute cuisine. He is what I picture when I hear the word "Gamer". You're 46. Get out of the fantasy world. "Life is kicking me in the teeth again." Oh, please - you did it all to yourself, even sending money after you KNEW this was a scammer.

  • @redneckedcrake7059
    @redneckedcrake7059 ปีที่แล้ว +336

    When AI really kicks off, these scammers are going to have a field day with AI-generated real-time video calls.

    • @somenteasescrituras4064
      @somenteasescrituras4064 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      So true.

    • @ruialexandre6197
      @ruialexandre6197 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      We're experiencing the calm before the storm...

    • @blackbat908
      @blackbat908 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That’s WAY into the future. Most watching this video will be dead lol

    • @filvtbak
      @filvtbak ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm gonna love that shit so much, can't wait to mess around with AI, they'll be like real persons, but so much better, bc they won't run away.

    • @Alexsignal90
      @Alexsignal90 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      At that point would it just be a very expensive role playing game? 🤣🤣

  • @nokoshadung5257
    @nokoshadung5257 ปีที่แล้ว +270

    What he said at the end really sent me. I nearly choked on my sweet. The guy is addicted to young pretty girls. He's a creep with no self awareness and wouldn't even give the time of day to someone who's in his own lane. I'm sure because of what he went through, on a subconscious level, he wants to shift the power dynamic. That's not the right way to go about it and he needs real human interaction, not an unrealistic fantasy he's built up in his head.
    He needs therapy and he needs it now.

    • @paddymcdoogle4025
      @paddymcdoogle4025 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shut up Stacy.

    • @nokoshadung5257
      @nokoshadung5257 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@JulianSanchez-mo3by everything wrong with old guys not staying in their lane. You literally have no commonality with someone more than 15 years your junior. You can't relate to them in any way, shape or form and you can't keep up with them physically. This is just a fact of life old guys and women need to come to terms with.

    • @justmeagain7
      @justmeagain7 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@nokoshadung5257not as a life partner, anyway.
      The old person can get sexual satisfaction from the young person but that's all. It must be impossible to connect beyond that.

    • @freespeechisdead202
      @freespeechisdead202 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Most of society globally most likely including yourself lack real human interaction and in this day and age more than any other time in history, humanity is living in a fantasy. How many hrs a day do you spend on your phone. If you spend more than 1, and especially if you arent talking to a real person on the phone, then you are also the one lacking real human interaction. I also dont get what you are trying to point out about older folks that cant keep up with younger ppl. Its a fact that older folks are actually fitter than a lot of younger folks. Most of society is overweight and obese and it starts from a very young age with the shitty fast food diets that kids eat, so I dont get your point other than bashing old ppl down.

    • @RegulareoldNorseBoy
      @RegulareoldNorseBoy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How could that man think that super hot woman was a super hot woman !
      What a creepy white male

  • @DannyKa-x8z
    @DannyKa-x8z 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    He left his abusive wife to be abused by african men.... Well.. each to his own ^^

    • @Cleatus546
      @Cleatus546 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @sarahmorgan574
      @sarahmorgan574 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Was she abusive or did she just try to raise him….?

  • @suzeelewis718
    @suzeelewis718 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    My God, my skin feels like it’s crawling. The way he described her made me nearly throw up. Seriously scary person he is!!!

    • @isolda980
      @isolda980 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      He has that serial killer vibe.

    • @sandralevin2489
      @sandralevin2489 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@isolda980he's unattractive in so many ways.

  • @dancingfirefly7761
    @dancingfirefly7761 ปีที่แล้ว +304

    The thing that's so hard to understand about this guy is that he repeatedly allowed himself to be scammed. He said it had happened about a dozen times, AND he was currently talking to 16 other women! Even the FBI told him to stop giving money to scammers! So he KNEW what was going on. He was a professional victim! And I really don't think he'll stop after the team helped him. He admits it's an addiction, but he needs to ask himself why he has a this addiction, and he needs to find a counselor ASAP.

    • @tsdobbi
      @tsdobbi ปีที่แล้ว +1

      These people have to have mental problems. I wouldn't give the money these people are shelling out to my freaking wife let alone someone I never met on the internet.

    • @Alice-Not-In-Chains
      @Alice-Not-In-Chains ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👩🏽‍💻👩🏽‍💻👩🏽‍💻👩🏽‍💻👩🏽‍💻👩🏽‍💻👩🏽‍💻👩🏽‍💻👩🏽‍💻👩🏽‍💻👩🏽‍💻👩🏽‍💻👩🏽‍💻👩🏽‍💻👩🏽‍💻👩🏽‍💻👩🏽‍💻👩🏽‍💻👩🏽‍💻👩🏽‍💻👩🏽‍💻

    • @imjustsam1745
      @imjustsam1745 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      He's allowed to be pathetic, he ain't hurting anyone but himself.

    • @coleengoodell7523
      @coleengoodell7523 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It's like his video game addiction. He wants to live in a virtual world. If the FBI has contacted him, he may actually be funding a terrorist organization and they know his type, so he keeps getting the same type of bait.

    • @coleengoodell7523
      @coleengoodell7523 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@imjustsam1745 He may be helping to fund a terrorist organization that is actually hurting lots of someones.

  • @susanlett9632
    @susanlett9632 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    I know everyone goes through rough times but this guy is a professional victim

    • @JudasMaccabeus1
      @JudasMaccabeus1 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      When you have hair like he does, you are indeed a perpetual victim

    • @rileysamuel4360
      @rileysamuel4360 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂

    • @craigcombes
      @craigcombes 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Well he is a victim here.. I feel sorry for him.

    • @JohnnyRayedd-Neck
      @JohnnyRayedd-Neck 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No truer words said.

    • @eldajackson1
      @eldajackson1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Perhaps he should run for President?

  • @crystalidk
    @crystalidk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    it's incredible how he thought a beautiful woman like that would seriously approach him

  • @ronleight9341
    @ronleight9341 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Wow! There is nothing that can be done for this guy. He wants to be a victim!

  • @Dragonfly33
    @Dragonfly33 2 ปีที่แล้ว +381

    Daniel needs a babysitter and a therapist.

    • @elladapetrosyan9610
      @elladapetrosyan9610 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Best comment for this episode! 👍👍👍👍

    • @Janjanbobaney
      @Janjanbobaney ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Babysitter. 😂 how true.

    • @tatianahawaii13
      @tatianahawaii13 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Psychiatrist

    • @macanthonyonyirimba3096
      @macanthonyonyirimba3096 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @John Sampson major 🧢

    • @tomebers8683
      @tomebers8683 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@John Sampson In his eyes out the millions of people in the USA there couldn't possibly be a nice woman among them that would give him what he wants.

  • @alessandrajackson3768
    @alessandrajackson3768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +572

    I do NOT feel bad. This man is an absolute creep! He is almost 50 and is trying to date an obviously fake 20 something. Notice how he calls her “adorable” and “cute”, as well as talking about a woman’s signs of aging as if he is balding like crazy looking like a zombie. I would put serious money on him having a Discord and Reddit.
    He needs to just go to a singles night in his area and look for someone his age. Because if she wasn’t obviously a scammer, they have the same age gap as me and my Dad!

    • @junopierre2988
      @junopierre2988 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This. He thinks he’s a nice guy when he just comes across as a misogynistic douche! I bet you he was just as abusive has his ex. I have no sympathy. He’s putting all looks on this woman when he’s disgusting looking.

    • @Kris-wr9fk
      @Kris-wr9fk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      It's incredible. Guys like this don't want women their own age and will be incredibly disparaging about older women's looks and they won't see the hypocrisy in it at all. They look at women like "dolls"

    • @Kris-wr9fk
      @Kris-wr9fk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @Rotten On The Vine: Dark Fiction 😲🤯Wow... just, wow. That's the most disturbing thing I've read on the internet in a while, and that's saying something (considering I'm here watching scamfish videos...LOL!) At least you have a story to tell at parties!

    • @happythoughtsarefun
      @happythoughtsarefun 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly

    • @alessandrajackson3768
      @alessandrajackson3768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @Rotten On The Vine: Dark Fiction exactly. I modeled for 7 years. I know super hot models who date guys who look like this. The big difference between those guys and him is the attitude. The other guys act confident but are also gentlemen and have never given me the urge to grab my pepper spray.

  • @ilkarenard6036
    @ilkarenard6036 2 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    This story is unbelievable! Daniel has completely lost touch with reality. How can he put other peoples needs over his own when he knows these other people are just fake? This is sheer madness. He urgently needs psychological help.

    • @youtubeuser6522
      @youtubeuser6522 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is a mean comment

    • @Sonder0077
      @Sonder0077 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@youtubeuser6522 But it's true.

    • @PungiFungi
      @PungiFungi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I am beginning to think there is something psychological going on with people who are repeat victims to these scams. It is the only explanation on why they continue on this treadmill while other people either never fell for it, or learned their lesson and moved on.

    • @ceciliacree1446
      @ceciliacree1446 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PungiFungi low self-esteem

    • @dubinatub1
      @dubinatub1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Agree

  • @ishkolnik
    @ishkolnik 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    It seems like an addiction. He knows that he shouldn't do it and hates himself for it, and yet still pays her to continue the communication. Probably quite lonely and depressed, with the idea of being loved filling a void.

  • @TWCAlex802
    @TWCAlex802 2 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    When the FBI warns you not to send money to these people, that should say a lot.

    • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
      @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Need to have them committed; they clearly cannot take care of themselves.

    • @Oliviaandtrina
      @Oliviaandtrina ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 let the scammers have guys like him. It'll keep them away from real women.

    • @JanoJams
      @JanoJams ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes! For sure! It didn't say much to this dude! LOL

  • @kole1ful
    @kole1ful 2 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    She sends him photos she’s taken with an iPhone but doesn’t video chat cos her phone is crappy?
    I pray this man finds peace and overcomes loneliness 🙏🏽

    • @aoki556
      @aoki556 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@JaimeMesChiens we know, they’re just basically saying the fake excuse doesn’t add up and should have been obvious to him.

    • @JustMe99999
      @JustMe99999 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@JaimeMesChiens whoosh

  • @EvandroGiachetto
    @EvandroGiachetto ปีที่แล้ว +315

    You guys seriously need a psychologist in the team. These people are paying for being positively reinforced. This is the most basic concept in behavioral analysis. They need to be positively rewarded for not paying, or for questioning themselves before paying, and a behavioural analyst would be the best person to make them understand that

    • @Elvenboadicea
      @Elvenboadicea ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I couldn't agree more. I'm always observing the psychological details of these videos and wish there was someone to help them.
      Likely unhealed childhood wounds.

    • @Hexighost
      @Hexighost ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Elvenboadicea they did a study on these people, brain scans etc and the same part of the brain lights up when they get this positive validation, called honey, i love you etc as a gambling addict, they're paying for the dopamine hit

    • @md28stads
      @md28stads ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes they do need therapy so they can get that affirmation and emotional support they crave, but they also just need escorts I think; that way they at least have someone real to show them some attention and they would still save a fortune.

    • @Ljounieh
      @Ljounieh ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bingo

    • @tribalbabymum
      @tribalbabymum ปีที่แล้ว +1

      BCBA's are GODS.

  • @oSTYNCLSYo
    @oSTYNCLSYo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    He's no victim, he does it to himself.

    • @lifeloverNorris
      @lifeloverNorris 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Speaking of things to do to himself, my god shave off the remaining hair left at the point. You'll look at least 10 years younger bold than with that monstrosity.

    • @spaghettimcmeatballs7489
      @spaghettimcmeatballs7489 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Victim blaming

  • @Aethylflaed
    @Aethylflaed ปีที่แล้ว +206

    They can tell from his profile he's 40 ish, REALLY lonely, a gamer and a sci fi nerd. They send him pics of a Playboy model with glasses, a messy bun and a pencil behind her ear and he falls for it. It's sad. The scammers are getting better at this all the time, and our social media profiles give them EVERYTHING they need to know about us. Be careful, people! You don't need social media...but if you use it, use it smart.

    • @Fedex-75
      @Fedex-75 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      its not a problem. If someone shows real interest, he'll want to see you in person and not ask money from you.

    • @BattleBladeWarrior
      @BattleBladeWarrior ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Imagine once we get to the point where you can just create AI models that look real and can talk in real time. These guys will be toast.

    • @Dan-di9jd
      @Dan-di9jd ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It’s important to use online dating as a supplement to real world dating. That way you can gauge what kind of girl likes you and you can tell what kind of girls you can like. The fact he never met someone even remotely close to this and believes he hit a goldmine really tells me he’s way too desperate. The average guy would probably never be able to date a supermodel in her 20s and even if he could he’d be smart enough to avoid getting scammed by a fake one.

    • @daytonasayswhat9333
      @daytonasayswhat9333 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Get off all social media.

    • @MatthewWalkerLothian
      @MatthewWalkerLothian ปีที่แล้ว +4

      A gamer hahaha what does being a gamer have to do with anything, I play league of legends religiously and I’ve been with better looking girls in the real world than these catfishes hahaha wouldn’t catch me dead getting caught out by a scammer on the internet 😂😂

  • @katarina1852
    @katarina1852 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    No Daniel, you didn’t fall in love with a person. You fell in love with photos, lies, and a fairy tale conjured up in your imagination. Daniel is lonely and way too desperate. He really needs to stop looking for love on-line and put that effort into finding a woman in real life before he gets scammed out of house and home. His final comments are sad and reveal some crazy logic about being scammed. Basically, he’s willing to continue paying people to lie to him. He may need adult protective services!

  • @BackwoodsFilms
    @BackwoodsFilms ปีที่แล้ว +165

    "Online dating has burned me, but I am still going to continue to date online."
    Scammer: "That is WONDERFUL news!"

    • @justmeagain7
      @justmeagain7 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Immediately after saying this his inbox got filed with friend requests from women out of his league! Such a lucky guy!

    • @Mrvl0125
      @Mrvl0125 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hahaha this guy is funny

    • @davidhumphries1146
      @davidhumphries1146 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hmm ..not happy people are they?

    • @tubelance
      @tubelance 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      FBI: don’t send money to chicks.
      Danny : ok. I’ll send more money to chicks

    • @bms77
      @bms77 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@justmeagain7that’s the key words “out of their league”…. Some of these dudes are SOOO hard up and lonely that they fall for it. Then some actually get addicted to the roll playing even after learning that it’s not real and that’s how they keep getting scammed lol

  • @SpaceGhost999
    @SpaceGhost999 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    "Life is out there kicking me in the teeth again".... bro, you're kicking yourself in the teeth. Thats literally your problem is you don't see its all your own fault.

  • @tommyboy1971
    @tommyboy1971 ปีที่แล้ว +179

    This dude is a total catch... shocking he can't find a real woman to date. Just blown away. His good looks, love of video games and science fiction, appreciation of prostitutes, smart financial decision making... man, if this can happen to a guy like this, it can happen to anyone.

    • @andyk939
      @andyk939 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      What? no mention of child's toys in his current facebook profile?

    • @Veracityseeker7
      @Veracityseeker7 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      💀

    • @TheSuzanneo
      @TheSuzanneo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I wouldn’t consider myself an expert, but he seems to have excellent taste in the tail department.

    • @GillAgainsIsland12
      @GillAgainsIsland12 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @dadjacobs8977
      @dadjacobs8977 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Add to that his realization that he has a full head of hair, and because of that, he can pull off his hair style.

  • @MisplacedTexan
    @MisplacedTexan ปีที่แล้ว +259

    He’s been through this enough now that it’s obvious he doesn’t care if he’s being scammed. He’s paying to be told what he wants to hear. It’s a mutually beneficial arrangement. He probably doesn’t even care that he’s exchanging dirty talk with a man.

    • @JB-rl8ki
      @JB-rl8ki ปีที่แล้ว

      Ur nuts

    • @mcfarvo
      @mcfarvo ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Sad

    • @paulwoodford1984
      @paulwoodford1984 ปีที่แล้ว

      so he’s still an idiot

    • @webguy943
      @webguy943 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      If it gets him off who cares lol

    • @MisplacedTexan
      @MisplacedTexan ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@webguy943 - Well, he probably wouldn’t get off if he knew he was sexting with a dude, but hey… if he doesn’t do his due diligence, that’s on him. 😂

  • @withgoddess
    @withgoddess 2 ปีที่แล้ว +242

    I cannot believe what he thinks and says. Totally devoid of insight or reason. And scamfish adding to the insanity by yet again calling it a relationship. Smh. Life is not kicking him in the teeth...he's kicking himself. What's driving him? Online sexual activity. It's that simple. That's the addiction.

    • @garrygraves3848
      @garrygraves3848 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's like the old saying -"there's one born every minute " . Dude is the pure face of stupidity, a low self esteem ,a simp and a complete lack of common sense. I don't feel bad for him, period. We will be hearing about him being scammed again very soon!

    • @absolutelyridiculous6743
      @absolutelyridiculous6743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      This. I also don't believe that he was abused by his wife. They were married for 6 years, and out of the blue one year she started sexually, physically, and mentally abusing him? No. I think she got tired of his crap.

    • @cl5470
      @cl5470 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@absolutelyridiculous6743 I'd bet money that he married someone who was under 20 years old. She probably grew up, realized he was a creep and moved on.

  • @donaldhavasy2356
    @donaldhavasy2356 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    The fact he still calls them “Valerie” instead of “the filthy scammer” shows he isn’t done. He’s paying for a dream. 99% of people would know right away this was a scam, but some people want to dream it could be just maybe might be real.

  • @GradKat
    @GradKat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    The girl in the pictures is obviously a lot younger than him. Sorry Daniel, but you were punching above your weight here. Ask yourself why she wouldn’t go for a younger man?

    • @jamesc210
      @jamesc210 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He doesn't even look THAT old, he just looks like shit. Take care of your appearance and maybe you can find a non-scammer love interest. The haircut he got in the later video was a good first move. But yeah, the age difference with these scams never makes any sense. She is half his age. He needs a reality check

    • @mirthroberts9035
      @mirthroberts9035 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I was thinking that too. She looks in her early 20's. He's just delusional to think someone that young and cute would go for him. I can't feel sorry for him. Get off the internet already and find a real woman your age.

    • @sara31773
      @sara31773 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That’s frequently the scenario.

    • @yolandecloete2186
      @yolandecloete2186 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      This old dude thinks he's sexy 😜

    • @nadiyah7071
      @nadiyah7071 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      WAY above his weight 😳...

  • @joan6873
    @joan6873 2 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    He loves the attention he is receiving, even if it fake. He lives in a fantasy world and is out of touch with reality. He needs therapy!

    • @BradleyJackson
      @BradleyJackson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is exactly what it is. The attention. It applies to men every bit as much as women.

    • @genpaullacamera2233
      @genpaullacamera2233 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello beautiful how are you doing today?

    • @somenteasescrituras4064
      @somenteasescrituras4064 ปีที่แล้ว

      He probably loves avatar and matrix.

  • @TheJaimePowell
    @TheJaimePowell ปีที่แล้ว +75

    “The amount most people ask for is like $50”
    -Wow. This guy will do it again, for sure.

  • @mathewdavis-adventuresandd6643
    @mathewdavis-adventuresandd6643 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    "Comes together like a wonderful puzzle." Why did skin suit and Buffalo Bill from Silence of the Lambs suddenly pop into my head?

    • @angelawilliams4239
      @angelawilliams4239 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      As soon as I saw your comment I had to tell you I had the exact same thought😅

    • @mathewdavis-adventuresandd6643
      @mathewdavis-adventuresandd6643 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      LOL. Yeah, my eyes went a little wide and my jaw dropped when I heard it.@@angelawilliams4239

    • @suzeelewis718
      @suzeelewis718 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Omg exactly!!! I just commented if he has a poodle called Precious. He’s soooo scary!!!

    • @markieGgirl
      @markieGgirl 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ummm thanks dude for reading my mind haha

  • @SamSlugg456
    @SamSlugg456 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    He said life is kicking me in the teeth again and then turns around and says he’s been scammed hundreds of times. There’s a weird lack of self accountability. This guy 100% has not learned his lesson.
    Edit: I was going to use the word addiction and then he beat me to it. Maybe he has some awareness but he needs to get the support he needs.

  • @88mphDrBrown
    @88mphDrBrown ปีที่แล้ว +292

    This isn't a scam and shouldn't be portrayed as one. This is a disservice to real victims. Daniel is knowingly paying a stranger to indulge his fantasy. If he's actually unaware of this (he's not), he should be legally declared mentally disabled, appointed a guardian, and have no direct access to his funds. There's plenty of real victims who've been taken advantage of.

    • @Dan-di9jd
      @Dan-di9jd ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yeah, you're right. It's not a scam any longer. He totally lost it. I still feel bad for him. All these stories have a similar pattern though. They're all going to these scammers as a last ditch effort to finding love. I think that in itself is the most major problem over trying to figure out these scammers. What he really needs is some therapy so he can be a whole person again rather than trying these date sites where he's not a whole person and easy victim to these scammers. He's just hearing what he wants to hear.

    • @rubyredall2145
      @rubyredall2145 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I don t believe these any more. They are too ridiculous. They just must must be made up!

    • @Dan-di9jd
      @Dan-di9jd ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@rubyredall2145 it very well could be. The story is pretty silly in many ways like why would he go on a fraud site but so insistent that she’s not a scam?

    • @tacocatseven
      @tacocatseven ปีที่แล้ว

      I one hundred percent believe these are real stories. I’ve seen things like this happen to people I know. There are a lot of different things that play into it - for one cognitive dissonance. I wish they would have a psychologist/therapist come on and talk to this people.
      They always just say oh these people aren’t real so don’t give them money. However, predators come in MANY forms. Romance scammers are just one of many types of users/abusers. They might learn how to detect a fake profile from being on this show, but they are still susceptible to being taking advantage of which can happen both online and offline!

    • @Dan-di9jd
      @Dan-di9jd ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@tacocatseven yeah but the guy went on a channel that’s dedicated to scammers. He’s basically voluntarily coming in a show but insisting it is real. If he believes it is real why is he on a show and trying to convince the people it’s not a scam?

  • @ArtOfMoney1
    @ArtOfMoney1 ปีที่แล้ว +364

    “Can’t make a wife out of a 304..”
    This dude definitely watches a lot of red pill content 😂

    • @Nachtfahrt80
      @Nachtfahrt80 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Whats a 304 ?

    • @Sashazur
      @Sashazur ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @@Nachtfahrt80 I didn’t know either so i just looked it up. To put it nicely, it means a woman who is promiscuous.

    • @SPACEDOUT19
      @SPACEDOUT19 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@Nachtfahrt80 put it on a calc and read it backwards

    • @Nachtfahrt80
      @Nachtfahrt80 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@SPACEDOUT19 ah ok thx 😆

    • @CollinsisaJewel
      @CollinsisaJewel ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂

  • @Bristolandlazy
    @Bristolandlazy 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    He learns she's a Playboy model and still thinks it's possible he's talking to her, wow.