How it feels falling in love with someone knowing you can’t have them…
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Working all day sucks, it would be nice to come home to someone who cares, but nobody does.
Lot of people care about one a other and I'm sure you will find someone that will treat you right. Keep going take it day by day
someday somebody will but thats not now (this is what i think )
@@next_thing_to_god give it time and the lord will show you
@@LOL-o2e thanks
True especially sometimes
Especially when I’m out, it feels like the world is obsessed with being in relationships and it’s couples galore. Being single makes me feel like I’m standing alone in a crowded room while I’m craving what everyone else has. And the more I crave it, the more it feels like an elusive dream slipping through my fingers. Sometimes, it makes me think that the universe wants me to be single and I’m destined to wander through life alone, searching for something I may never find.
It’s okay man I’m there with you right now. It’s get better someday
It'll get better my man, I can sympathize.
Holy crap I feel this, but the thing is, the moment you start looking for smth, that's usually when you notice more and you feel like everyone has it, but that's not always true. Just keep going, keep lookin, you'll find one soon, and hopefully me too.
At 15 (basically 16) this is already extremely relatable
I feel u I jus got out of a messy breakup and and people are making me feel like I'm worthless because I'm single and pressuring me to get a new gf I'm 15 🧍♂️
Callling all 13-18 year olds who are still single
👇
real
Fr
im still standing
I'm single an I'm 17
Still. It’s perfectly normal
I’m really glad you made this video. I’m a teenage girl and I honestly didn’t know that guys think about this that much. I can confirm for the girls, we think about love alll the time.
I think we’re wired to want love. We like the feeling of being wanted and taken care of. We crave love because love is an amazing thing, whether it’s romantic love or not. Especially as teenagers, we’re growing up and becoming more aware of what’s happening around us, so we crave love more. In the world, we see people with these amazing happy relationships, and we want that for ourselves.
Too many people think they won’t find the right person, or that they’ll die single and alone. We need to trust in God. The right person will come! I’ve told this to multiple people in my life, and I’ve been right. Just be patient, you don’t have to have a relationship right now. But you will get that love, you will get that relationship, and you will get your person. It’s just a matter of time. ❤
100%. It’s a natural human urge like thirst and hunger. We can’t eliminate it, and once I realised it was completely normal I felt so much better, love is a beautiful thing, but we can’t rush it, like we can’t rush anything in life, because it’s a marathon, not a sprint ❤️
God Bless All Souls.
I’m a teenage boy and the only thing I can do to not focus on love is..
1-working out
2-self grooming
3-style
Basically because the best version of yourself in every aspect of your life so when you find that girl you can be the best for her. If your a better version of yourself you will also attract more girls. Now that I’ve been doing that for awhile about a year or two, I’ve also been recently learning to choose the girl wisely not just because she likes you. You need to be with a high quality woman and your relationship will be 10x better!!
Best of luck everyone💪🏽💪🏽
@@josiahdavids11 I agree. I also think it’s important to have high standards and be picky about relationships. If you have low standards or aren’t picky, you’ll be desperate and you’ll just take whoever you can get. That person probably won’t be someone you truly love and need. Although you should have high standards, they shouldn’t be unrealistic. For example, my high standards are most concerning behavior, beliefs, personality, what matter most to him, etc. They are NOT high standards about his height. As a girl I’m so annoyed when other girls will only date guys that are at least 6ft, I like to focus more on things guys can actually control. Don’t get me wrong, looks are important too and I do have preferences for height, but I like to focus more on who a guy is inside rather than how tall he is
Btw good luck to you too 💪
@@josiahdavids11 work on your character too, and skills like socializing with people in general. You've got a good start on a good path.
"i'm fine with not having a girlfriend right now, i'm just afraid of not meeting the right person" bro who tf let you in my brain
nah who tf let YOU in my brain
Bro actually walking a righteous path. God bless brother.
God bless you to brother
@@LOL-o2e too*
@@LOL-o2e Too means "also"
The fact that Jak admits that he too is unaware about stuff like this and is exploring the world just like everyone else,
separates him from other self improvement creators and puts him at a league of his own.
Never stop working hard brother, because we won't either.
Just coming on here and being honest bro, because that’s what the world needs more of ❤️
I'm single but I'm not craving love. I didn't NEED to watch this video, but I did anyway because Jak is amazing.
same 😊
I relate to this. I'm definitely looking forward to finding true love but I'm not desperate for it, as I know that as I'm putting in the work on self-improvement and also young, I've got a good start to life which I'm eternally grateful for.
this. not looking to date rn because im focusing on myself (money, career, physical health, etc.), but the feeling for connection is still there
This was me. I met a girl, fell for her and was down bad. Knew it wouldn't work out, so I basically told myself "Bro, you can't have her. *_Stop_* "
Jak, you, having an audience this big, are the strongest man I know on the internet. You know you are the rock for multiple people and your aren't scared to show your "Bad" side.
This is me. This girl left me on delivered after texting with her for 2 days. It has been 6 weeks and i still do not think about anything else. I cant say myself stop. If i do so in 3 minutes a thought will come into my mind that what if. And then again even tho there is obviously no chance i still want it to happen so much. I just want to be the best husband and dad to someone. Honestly thats all i want in life.
@@adrenalinerushsbro it’s over you will come across as so desperate and pathetic at that point. Find a girl you can reasonably get and move on my mans
@@adrenalinerushsshe stopped because I slept with her
Im 17 and i have a crush on this one girl.She had every traits that i already seek for years and was very special and perfect for me.But unfortunately i can't have her in my life even thought if i already manage to be the best version of my life.
Because she was my cousin and i never thought about it.
It was really hard to accept the fact that you already aim this one "person" to make him/her to become your dream husband/wife in the future and do whatever it takes just to be the best for getting their heart but knowing that you and her/him had a bloodline that made yourself stoping from going further.
Peace✌️
Romantic love is not the only place love can be found, love can be found in REAL friends (and i know it's hard as shit to find real friends), sometimes i think the best thing is not to over focus on finding a bf or gf but to just focus on building real relationships, and a hobby you actually like
@JakPiggott.11 Ok sure, but i don't know how to do that as i don't use a smartphone. Should I give you my email?
I've been feeling lonely lately and i really needed something like this.
My best friend is a master with the girls, the whole school talks about him, and i always feel like the guy on the side.
Slowly he is moving towards the popular kid's and leaving me behind.
Even i put in the work and go to the gym, eat healthy and all those good stuff, he does none of that and watches corn and vapes a lot.
I feel sometimes jealous even tho i shouldn't be, but then because of you bro you remind me that the right person will come along and the putting in the work will pay off.
I can't thank you enough my bro for everything you have done for me and everyone else.
Always loved your content since day one brother much love ❤❤❤
I do not fully know how jealousy feels but I do with lonliness. Last year at my new school I met a guy and we became friends really fast. And at the time I didn't really have any good friends. We had deep talks and all that stuff. Then everything just happend at the same time. I became extremly sick, had to be hospatalised and stuff. Then when I came back he had travelled to another school. I became so sad + my sickness, and started to spend all the breaks alone. Each and everyone of them. I still had friends on discord I talked to but they didnt go to my school. But then I had to break contact with them because we grew into a toxic relationship. Now theres not many things that motivates me to do anything anymore. I'm feeling more lonely then ever and I also have a crush. And that person haunts me every day that I talk to them. Idk why i'm even writing this here but it feels better that way. I wish you the best!❤
I can relate to this so fucking much bro. I used to have a big group of friends who were admittedly a bit mean at times, but 99% of the time were really nice and funny. When we went from primary to secondary school (Elementary to middle school basically), they all became the popular kids and left me with no one. For a few weeks, life was really shit, but eventually I found a couple of guys who were really nice, and we became friends. I'm not writing this for attention or to make people feel sorry for me, I'm writing to tell you that life will get better. It might be a few years, it might be tomorrow, but you will make more friends and you will be happy. My old friends don't exercise or take cold showers or eat right or get 8 hours of sleep each night or do nafap like I do. They might be happy now, but they won't be in 10 years. You and I will be.
Life will get better man, just keep working hard and it’ll pay off
It comes back around. Hard work will never betray you!!~
Don't worry fortune favours the bold and I see some people who really deserves it
I can absolutely relate to you, bro. I'm 19 years old and have never had a girlfriend, but I feel like it's harder than ever to find one now. Women's standards for men are rising exponentially, like two of my female high school classmates are engaged to guys who are almost 30 because the younger guys just don't meet their standards for looks and money (especially money). It feels like women are living easier than they ever have, we men have to work our asses off while they can just pick whatever man is the tallest, richest and most muscular. I don't mean to sound sexist, but lately this has really been pissing me off, but the only option I have is to continue improving myself and hoping that everything works out.
I advice you to try and get out to the real world, and i believe that girls there will be more normal. The red pill topics are a real concern, but they seem to happen in a vocal minority. Maybe I'm wrong because i don't have any experience myself, but i think that the real place for dating is the one we had tens of millennia ago - the real world
it’s not just the looks or money, but it’s mainly the maturity. i mean look at all the boys in these younger generations. they are insanely immature. if i had to choose, i honestly would choose the thirty year old because he would make a way better husband than these men acting like little boys.
You still have so much time bro, and I have to remind myself of that as well, me and you ain’t even 20 yet. But as long as we’re actually putting ourselves out there and continuing to improve ourselves everyday, there is no reason why we wouldn’t meet that one girl who will accept us for who we are at heart.
I don’t want a girl who’s attached to me for my money, clout, or even physical looks (because they only get worse as we age)
I want a girl who loves me for what I love myself for, and that’s the person I am on the inside, and the value I provide the world.
Women like that are rare nowadays my brother, but there’s no doubt that there’s one out there for you ❤
as a woman, i can relate to this on so many levels. i promise, you are not alone in this. women crave love too. _humans_ crave love and connection. we’re all in this together :)
Just saw you posted, I haven't watched it yet, thank you for everything Jak, coming from a 13 year old boy.
Update: I finished the video and feel everything he mentioned, but for me it's people at my high school and not online.
Same thing with me as a 14 year old boy
bro youre 13 and in high school wtf im 13 in 7th grade
Listen you guys, you don’t need to be dating someone, but please I beg you just don’t. You’re all still really young and don’t need to be distracted be love or heartbreak this early on. Wait for girls when you’re older
@@skibakonprobably British since our high school here is 11-16
australia@@skibakon
I don't think there's anything wrong with feeling this. I'd say most guys feel this way. I mean I do anyway. I think using it as fuel is the best case scenario. Just keep grinding so you're in your best position when you meet that right girl.
I really needed this video bro, it was comforting to hear someone admit “yeah I don’t know how to get rid of these feelings and that’s ok” ya know. I keep finding myself obsessing over girls who are taken or way above my league and it just makes me feel hopeless sometimes. Appreciate you bro
Much love brother, remember it’s normal, but also try your best and use that emotion as fuel to create a better life for yourself 👊❤️
as a teenage girl im rlly glad i stumbled across this video. this is something ive heard lots of women struggle with but not so much for men. honestly, at the end of the day we all just want human connection, thats how we're wired.
men definitely struggle with loneliness and wanting love too, most of us just dont really talk about it or make it known
As a man I want someone who cares about me and loves me more than anything else in the world, and I bet 80% of other men do to.
Wow i thought by now it has become common knowledge that most men lives lives of quiet desperation.
Amen 🙏 big girl
Personally I'm a girl and I've been enjoying your videos. I can tell you this one made me cry. We always think we have to be perfect for each other, to look cool in front of the person we like, but we forget that around us, numerous people love us as we are, friends, family, and everywhere we go we'll find something new to learn from a different person. I truly believe that you're making so many lives doing better thanks to your work. And thank you for sharing all these things with us. It must be hard.
So Jak. I'm a 63 year-old man, and I started watching your channel because I wanted to know what goes on in the head of a young man in the year 2024. I have to say that some of it doesn't make much sense to me, but then times have changed. Anyway I wanted to say that you think a lot more clearly than I did at your age, and you've given me real insights to your generation. Good luck and God bless!
I clicked on this video not because I'm craving love, but because I consistently watch Jak's videos in general. Despite the fact that I don't crave love, I learned lots of new things from this video. I know well enough that that craving will come back one day, so get ready for it.
I have my school ball coming up. The girl I am taking, I work with her and I don't want to jeopardize what we already have going. I am lost with decision of if i should ask her on a date after the school event. Thanks Jak for the vid means alot.
I am in the same situation. But I don't want the possibility of getting friendzone.
@@Best2kGuard-lv5bk You got this man. Just think that your not alone ❤
@@Best2kGuard-lv5bk Same here man, happens with almost everyone.. it feels really scary tbh❤
I never really got in a relationship, so im not the one who should give you advice, but I think flirting here and there during the event, may improve your chances.
If she doesn't flirt back or she doesn't like it, stop flirting immediately, and act like it never happened anything, unless she talk abuot it to you. The bad thing is that if doesn't know, the rest of the event may become embarrasing.
You don't to live with the remorse of not trying instead of trying and failing.
But I repeat, I've never really talked to girls so I may be completely wrong.
Sooo, your choice.
you only have one life bro and regret hurts more rejection so if you want to ask her out do that bro. trust me
Jesus is the only thing that can truly, fully fill that void. Girls will fail you up to a point but Jesus never fails
Real bro
Amen 🙏🏻
Fr
The desire of love isn't bad brother but it starts to get bad when it comes in your way of self-improvement...
Bro, i have to appreciate you man. Hats of to you. You're such a genuine person and I'm improving day by day because of u bro. These 8 mins were just so quality time. Even my vocabulary improved. Thank you dude !
I started crying watching this and I don't know why. I haven't shown close to this much emotion in years. Thank you for reigniting my faith in love.
Jak da 🐐 no 🧢
Instead of being attached to the world. Focus on God since he is with you and it is your destiny
Yeah
I've had a crush on a boy for 4 years and I feel like I'm never going to be with him. It's what I dream about; being with him. It's nice to know I'm not the only one who feels this way.
Over my time watching Jak, I notice how much he loves what he does and it really touches my heart and makes me so happy, keep going brother. I love you and its like your a friend to me
Definitively touched me as well. I got emotionally attached to a girl I started chatting up in my school late last year and because this was my first time doing it, I made some mistakes and didn't really act right, so nothing happened between us. I got even more anxious when she pulled away and I got extremely upset at myself for making the mistakes I did, but as time has gone by, I know I did the mistakes for a reason. Because I had something missing inside of me and because I had to learn it the hard way.
Hey Jak. I am a 36-year old woman. I have been through the same feelings you are experiencing. The fear of never meeting the right one, the loneliness, the hyper fixation on one person that is out of your reach. It is completely normal, but that doesn’t make it any less difficult to go through. I know the struggle and I just want to say to everyone out there struggling; it will get better. Enjoy what you have, find a way to love yourself, and trust that things will work out.
Ey bro I've been loving your videos lately, one of them helped me destroy my p*rn addiction I wanted to thank you❤
What was the name of the video. I’m really struggling with that right now
@@Ima_lil_Man it's a lot, I'm suggesting every single one, they're very helpful, and dw bro you'll get there, I've lost my 128 day streak 1 year ago, just don't give up and destroy those urges
wow, man this is the video I was needed. I feel like I fell in love with a girl in my school, and we barely even talk, all time I walk trough the hallway and I see I feel like I want to be with her, and I want a love from her, this is so true man. I glad that you opened and share about it, it makes me feel like I am not the only one who stucks with the same emotions to a girl that we havn't even spoke to her. cool video man.
You pretty much spoke out every single word my heart is tryna say. I am occasionally getting a fear of not finding the right girl, and having to spend my life alone with all my dreams of having a family crushed. I also get loneliness very often sometimes since I had to fly to a different country for uni, and all my friends and family are back home. But as you say, we just gotta trust the process. Hopefully I find the girl of my dreams, and hope for you too brother 👊
Gotta sub to u, I genuinely feel like you are a great friend to have, and I really wish I can meet u in the future...
this is the reason why i like to watch you you are rare from most self-improvement channels you are one of the few i can relate with
These words made me finally accept Im still lonley and I was thinking of a certain girl for a while
Before I watched this, it felt like "if I tell myself the truth, others will hate me, so I have to lie" even I knew it didnt work like this at all
I also finally realised I still have the "void" in myself that I try to feel and that sometimes I forget the life rules I have been trying to follow (like no one is perfect, you cant control everything, etc.) so now I kinda understand where to go
Thank you one again
I’m 21 and I’ve never had a girlfriend. To be honest I’m not sure I was ready for one until now. I’d suggest to everyone out there searching for love don’t. Focus on improving yourself and being who you want to be and you will find the right person.
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This same stuff happened to me a few times. There has been times where I can’t stop thinking about love. But if I give it time I get over it. I just turned 19 and have never had a girlfriend but I’m trying to focus on myself and I have faith the Lord will guide me. Love your videos bro.
Something that relates to this very heavily: “Your vibe attracts your tribe.”
Take this as you will, tomorrow may be a new day, just remember you’re going to run out of tomorrows. 👍
I feel you bro, to love someone that you know you’ll never get to is just wasted love. Your giving time for them to realize the effort you put in for her, but they will never do unless you step up. Now it’s easier said than done but that’s not the main point, point is that the sensation of love is a great feeling but the more your think about that person the more it tears you apart and the more lonely you become. Your only focus is her and she won’t realize it. I can definitely relate to this and so I say focus on things that you love to do other than a person you’ll never get to. Because that’s just wasted love. It’s like fighting in a war, but your on the losing side of it and everyone you know on your side is dead, but you keep firing hoping for the bullets to do something. But it never does… I hate when I come back after a long day and never get to be able to relax wit someone or to share my thoughts and to care about someone that’s right next to me.
I already know this video is about to be a popular on with this topic, havent even watched it yet (currently at 0:01 rn ) but having that feeling is the worst
I met an amazing girl, kind and beautiful. We werent anything special, but yet, I felt like I had to change.
I thought to myself:
-"If another guy who has the same mindset as I did, the same bad habits and lack of dicipline as I did becomes her bf, I'd be PISSED."
So I changed myself, within 2 months, I could not recognise myself. I become a completely different person, a better person.
But things didnt work out with that girl, but I became a better version of myself, thanks to her
What a great story man that’s what we love to hear 🫡
Jak never fails to deliver! ❤
I had experienced this same this
I had a crush on a girl in our school
I was completely engaged in thinking fake scenarios of our future
I was obsessed with her . I am not going to type much because I again will fall for her but i realised that I will just end up hurting myself .
Those fake scenarios are never going to be real . There are a lot of things different in her and me
I am 13 and i think its the time to built my better future to live life to the fullest not to fall in that love stuff
Thanks Jak for these amazing videos I wish I will meet you once in my life and i will make it happen once I will be completely growned
It's actually crazy how Jak talks about feelings in the most masculine way possible.
Really healthy stuff.
This guy’s words have so much meaning and makes me feel more present in the world - happy I stumbled upon your channel. Keep making these videos because it has such an impact upon me and so many others. God bless you and have a great day ❤️
First of all, Ziva David (even if Bishop is more beautiful) is MY crush, stop talking about her. Secondly, I feel you bro. I'm almost 23 and I've never had a girlfried. I'm going on a date on Friday and see what comes out from it. I'm not sure the girl I like sees me as a potential partner, but I see this date as practice. Wish me good luck guys...
It feels so good to know that the ones I look up as an inspiration are just like me. Sometimes I get the feeling that they're perfect and I'd never reach their level but knowing this makes me have even more respect for people like you Jak, being so wise while also being so humble is so respectable. Cheers mate.
Great video! Another thing that is important to understand once you do get a girlfriend is it is ok if you don’t find the right person on the first try. My ex and I were together for 3 years and even though it didn’t work out I think that experience taught me a lot of important lessons about how to handle relationship issues in a mature way and I’m very grateful for that. So even if you misjudge whether or not someone’s right for you, that relationship could still teach you some things you’ll be glad to have learned when you do meet the right person.
so real, the feeling of loneliness and zero love from women. I have been grinding self improvement for years now but it never seems like enough. I wish I could eliminate the craving for love. I can’t see the future working out well. I don’t have hope I’ll meet the one. I have zero belief. I know I deserve love but I don’t believe i’ll receive it. Not attention seeking, just spilling my honest feelings bro. Life is cooked.
I believe the more you work on yourself and the better you become as a person , the more quality people and relationships you’ll attract into your life. It’s just a matter of time.
I have a question. Do you love yourself?..
I don't mean do you like yourself,
and I don't mean do you believe in yourself..
I don't mean do you want the best for yourself...
and I don't mean do you believe you deserve love...
I don't mean do you think about yourself...
... What I mean is...
Do you make yourself laugh?
Are you there when you're lonely?
Do you talk to yourself.
.. and do you answer?
Are you lonely because you're alone, or are you lonely because you don't want to be?
Remember this: You will never be alone- for you will always be by your self. What would it take for you to believe me?
You're not craving love; you're craving to believe you deserve it.
I so needed to hear this
>>>>>
Thanks for the video, I've caught some insights. The best way to change your feelings is to change your attitude.
I've been trying to keep in touch with this one girl consistently for nearly seven months now without explaining my feelings to her, I am afraid that I may not be good enough for her or that she may not feel the same. That aside, this video just hit different man, thank you for making it.
Thank you so much for making this video, Jak. Every girl I’ve ever liked was either a lesbian or fictional character and now that I’m developing feelings for someone new I’m beginning to fear more rejection, but I’m so glad and grateful to know someone else has dealt with these feelings. The main thing I wanted to say is you’re an amazing and insightful person whose content has changed my life for the better time and time again. Thanks for reminding all the guys like me that we’re not alone 🫶
@JakPiggott.11 You’re not Jak, get outta here imposter
I know that no one is interested, but because my parents dont care about me, ill spread my story of this exact video here. (Briefly)
I was 12 at the time and there was this pretty girl on my class and i was so attracted to her, just like Jak to the actress from NCIS, and i got really attached, i started watching all her socials, and eventually i started chatting with her since i got enough courage, then just like in this video, the contact judt broke and i was really sad for me, i felt the same gap, that void of love and affection, i got frustrated, im 13 now and im currently chatting with her, we are both into eachother.
I know im yapping alot right now but i have 1 thing to say: follow your dreams, wether its someone or something, for me it was this girl.
Jak i love your videos bro and i hope atleast some people read this comment
Holy shit bro I was about to confess to my crush (she isnt that popular and not much boys like her as far as I know) next week, but you saved me from heart break. Thank you. Im so glad to have you in my reccomended every day.
Every single time i see you, Wether it's in shorts or long videos like these i just always feel at peace after i finish the video. i dont know how but you are the single youtuber in this platform that can make me feel at peace
This is just what I needed to hear, I was okay for a while but recently my desire to be loved has grown. However I’m still good, just a little lonely from a sophomore to a senior, I respect and enjoy your content and it’s nice to know it’s not just me. Thank you.
Man, I feel this, but I do think why you feel lonely is because you wish you could share your experiences with someone else, someone you love. I'm still looking constantly, but I've def gotten less desperate than I was like 2 weeks ago. I said it once, but I'll say it again, you are much wiser than me and I'm 20, I appreciate you sharing your wisdom.
There was this girl that I fell in love with. She would call me everyday and made me feel wanted and made me feel like I am actually important. I don’t smile much, but when we met, I was actually smiling more. I finally had a good smile on my face everyday, and my life was great with her. One day I decided to tell her I liked her, and she rejected me, and we stopped talking. This caused me to break down. All those feelings I’ve been bottling in and holding, just let out. This was only a few weeks ago, and I’m still hurt from it. I cry almost everyday, and sveryday I think of her. I just wish we could talk one more time.
It’s extremely relatable. I’ve been put down by real life women so much, i just stopped to care about them one day. It may be strange, but now i prefer fictional characters, mostly my own creations. But they are too perfect for something like me…
I don’t think you ever eliminate the desire for love I think you just learn to live with it.
One thing I struggle with is basing my self worth off things considered important in society. Like being physically attractive, having a big social life, being able to get lots of girls etc. So I am constantly comparing myself to others on this basis and feel depressed because I lack in these areas. I know these things don’t really matter in the grand scheme of things but I still end up doing it because I have for so many years
The more you think about not liking someone, the more you begin not stop liking them, and start loving them.
Yeah there’s this girl that I’ve gotten really close to. As we’ve gotten closer I’ve started to develop really strong feelings for her. She’s single right now and I want to pursue her, but I’m afraid of rejection and losing her. I’m not afraid to say that I’m not in a very good state mentally and if I lost on of my closest, if not closest friend, I don’t know what I would do
@@Ima_lil_Man Don't worry bro one day it'll escalate so much that you'll only think of confessing. Either you do confess or you lose your chance AND lose her.
Tell her that she is really important to you want and to be more then a freind. Maybe that is corny as hell😅 but fr, tell her how you feel, you got this bro
@@Ima_lil_ManYou should ask her. You’ll regret it when you lose the chance.
@@oXRaptorzXo I know I should. I’m just afraid of losing her entirely
I had it to during this year, and the only reason I got through it was because of our finals. I spent my entire day learning and then went to see the wild cats that roam near our colony. Living in those moments, just trying to touch a cat, I realized I was good without thinking about her. So yeah, get yourself a pet man. (Or hunt for wild cats like I still do now :) )
Amen brother, this video hits
It’s so hard to keep going, especially after you’ve experienced even for a little bit what it’s like to have a soulmate, but then you’re back to being alone in the blink of an eye.
Sorrounding yourself with friends that are there for you and you are there for them is so important. We crave love because we want to be known and understood by other people, be around people you can be completely yourself.
Most important, God is the answer to everything. He loves better than anyone ever can and heals us in our pain. Trust in Jesus
Trust me, I am 28, still single, having a partner would be nice, but it's not reality tbh. Love God and loving yourself is far more important than a wahman loving you, especially when wahmen have proven that they are incapable of loving a guy back and sticking to it at the end of the day.
The right girl at the right time will come, remembering that helps me keep going
This actually seems like a positive channel, I was worried it was gonna be Tate-like, but this actually seems chill. Good on ya.
Hey Jak, I’m a bit younger than you so I completely understand if you don’t want to take my advice. But please hear me out. I struggled with the same thing and I tried EVERYTHING and I mean EVERYTHING to rid these thoughts of my mind. But nothing worked until I stopped fighting it. And instead I embraced it. If you keep fighting it you are going to keep thinking about it. And if you keep thinking about it you’re going to keep fighting it. It’s a vicious cycle. So just embrace your feelings. Everything is going to be alright!
Jak even though I am 3 years younger I am going to give you probably the most valuable piece of words have ever been told and it is.
You can fight with love
Love causes fights
But you can't ever fight th feeling love
However if you ever love someone you are giving them a free gun pointed at your heart and they can pull the trigger when they like
I wish more people would speak their mind this freely (me included).
Bro is inspiring to all of us👊, keep up that grind
Its hard when you are in your late 20's and even harder in your lare 30's
I'm 17 years old growing teenager and i know I will end up being single 😢😢😢
I feel the exact same way but I’m happy being single because I know I need to keep building that garden of mine. I am also very clean from corn, vapes and other shit. But that feeling still gets me, I haven’t talked to her in 3 weeks, I would if I could but there’s a barrier in the way. But I just know that if it is meant to be, God will show me. Just keep going at it Jak, you’re younger than me by about 7 months but you still give out fantastic advice to me. You’ll get past her and this feeling will keep coming back, it’s our nature as men. But we’re stronger than a feeling. Much love ❤❤
Love you bro!
Definitely so helpful, it's really nice to see people actually discussing stuff like this! Thank you for making this, best of luck!
Jak! As someone who is involved in Anti-pornography organization Fight The New Drug, I am incredibly proud of your journey! Thank you for bearing your normal healthy soul to the world as a young adult. It takes personal courage to say no to temptations, and in that you act with integrity. You are helping so many "bros" in the process! That's both positive and amazing. Never stop being you! There's only one you.
Was hooked to a girl for months and we were talking over text and in school everyday . Suddenly we stopped talking and no one seems to be interested in restarting the convo
you never asked them out?
Hey Jack I’m from an Arab country , and I’m currently in a British school and I’m thankful for everything my parents do.
But sometimes in my Arabic lessons i go to my mom so she can teach me since I’m not that good in reading in Arabic so when i was reading my mom kept laughing at how I was reading she also called me useless
This happens literally in every subject that I’m bad at
So I wanted to get this over with and I decided to teach my self Arabic but in the last finals test I got a 14 of 50
Her words are slowly becoming more harsher and ruining my health and making me less confident and never participate in class which causes her to blame it on my friends who are very kind
It got to the point that sometimes I think of killing myself or making my self in the hospital and sleep there just to escape home
I hide all my problems with a big smile and make people laugh
I’ve got so much respect for you being honest here and just saying that you don’t have a magic answer! Even knowing you’re not the only one feeling this way and it’s completely normal helps so much - keep up the good work!
I’m 16 and I sort of have seasonal loneliness. for the last two years around December, I get extremely lonely, last year I lost myself to porn, but this year I was on nofap. however, this meant I started looking for other ways of getting that hit. I got on multiple dating apps (I look 18) looking for something, anything. Now I recently met this girl at school, and I often think about her. And because I think about her, I cannot stand the thought of other women, so she is the reason I stopped with those apps. Usually, the loneliness only stops around Easter, but this made me come out sooner. I know I am probably not the only one going through this, although I'm sure it's very different for everyone. But if I could give one piece of advice it would be (yes, I know it sounds cringe): just thug it out till summer, if you still feel the same way when you feel clearer of mind then go for it.
True, I dont know why but when girls look at me I start playing better and trying harder... Great video!:D
This happend to me with a girl in my class, she could literally be a model, she is so perfect and every guy in the class likes her a lot but she is impossible for every single one of us, she is literally the most beautiful person I know, me and my friends think that she is better than every actress
I met this one girl like almost a year ago, we were like occasionally talking but we didnt really know eachother. I have liked her since the moment i met her and only now i'm beginning to let go of her. It hasnt been easy, but i know it'll come. This video has helped me realise that. Thank you Jak
I really needed that last part
With a girl right now, known her for years and we love each other, it’s not just another girl you date in high school that comes and goes it’s the one in a million that’s genuine, selfless, caring, humble etc. we talked about having a life together but she’s dead set on going to college to be a doctor to help people since she grew up in Venezuela where the situation is rough. I’m just fucked from it because I found someone I wanna spend my life with and someone who wanted to spend their life with me but I can’t stay with them since college to be a doctor is about a decade
I’ve found my girl but I don’t know what to do. I feel like I can’t make her happy. I feel like she’s always ahead of me in everything and it’s starting to make me sad… she has everything worked out but I don’t. I love her to bits. I really do. But It hurts to know that she has everything planned and I’m still just a kid… this vid helped. I’m here and I just have to go with the flow. I love you Chloe. I love you lots.
Thank you for your honesty bro. It's refreshing. I'm also at a point where I love myself more than I ever have in my life yet I find myself falling so easily for girls that I encounter. It's frustrating. I don't really know what to do. I'm trying to enjoy the ride but it's so confusing.
The emotion from 3:48 shows how much this means to you and to all of us. ❤
Thanks bro for making this video it was so relatable
“It’s all temporary”
We were temporary in that moment when we were hooked on a person not just the feeling
I have the same feeling what I suggest is embrace the feeling and remember it so if they come again you will be able to control it(remember they are feelings they will always come again and again)
So brave of you to share feelings you still struggle with. Impactfull!
thx so much ❤😊 i relate a lot to this (just the opposite gender)
Your the best. Without your advice and motivation, I don’t know what I would do.
To be honest, I had that same problem with wanting a girl and Never getting her. After a point you just go numb to the pain, to the process, to everything and stop caring because your brain is just protecting you. I am saying this as a younger person, the loneliness will not go away, but the pain gets weaker with every time this thing you explained happens. So don't worry, I believe you all will find your happiness one day