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How I’ve gone 1,117 days without p*rn and broke free from lust…
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 14 ส.ค. 2024
- If you apply what I preach in this video, there's a (very) high chance you will never watch corn again, sit down, get a pen and paper, and take it in :)
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Another very helpful video, giving teenagers a guide on how to deal with one of the biggest problems men face today, great job Jak.
It's not just for teens, I hope it helps me....
@@levilevilevi888 i managed to stop before it became an addiction thanks to jaks videos
Is my music good?!’l
Thank you my brother, I do not take this kind of support for granted ❤️
@@Slezeball25
I like the specification in the thumbnail
Bro's channel is more dead than my will to study(respectfully)
@@Theneonguy789he’s not doing too bad, you’re probably just way too early or something tbh
@@Theneonguy789this was probably the best video you will see all month seeing as you don’t take life seriously (Respectfully)
@@epxix I think he was commenting everywhere back in like 2020-2022,but I might be wrong
@@Theneonguy789 oh you’re talking about the commenter
This is the best way to stop an urge :
Step 1 : Leave your mobile or whatever you are doing and drink a glass of water
Step 2 : After drinking, sprint towards an open place ( can be your rooftop )
Step 3 : Think about your vision and what you want to be in future
After some minutes, you will realise that your urge has gone
Wow
Also ask God for help!
Nice one
Nofap isnt exactly healthy though... like, you could literally be desensitized in your lowe region, especially for girls.
Its about control. If you can control it in a healthy dose its fine. Thats why homeostasis is the best. Balance it in a healthy way.
If you cant control it, then yeah you shouldnt do it I guess.
Its like drinking alcohol. If you're a major alcoholic, maybe you should try hard to stop.
But if you drink maybe once every month, its not an issue and you can clearly balance it.
Do what fits you, not what others want you to fit in.
@@milanek1527 no its BAD. end of discussion.
To feel better mentally
To feel normal
To stop sexualizing women
To stop wasting my time
To limit my addiction to my phone
To stop wasting my time and energy
To start working on my life and make a comeback
To make my parents proud
To proof people wrong
To be different from others
To overcome my difficulties
To control my urges and emotions
To recover my mental and physical health
To save my energy
To maintain celibacy
To not rely on anyone else
To stop searching for validation from others
To prove others opinions of me wrong
To be confident
To boost my willpower
To increase my intelligence
To increase my focus
To focus on real things in my life
To stop chasing women
To stop becoming toxic
To stop trying to fit in
To grow strong
To become the best version of myself
To becomes the best my family has ever seen
To become the best my bloodline has ever seen
holy shit man i got five dont chill you are on fire🔥🔥🔥
Some of these are super similar to mine glad to see you’re in the same boat as me
Thanks to you I have quit my addiction a month ago, my relationships with others improved drastically, thank you for everything.
You should be proud of yourself brother, because I am ❤️
@@JakPiggott Thank you, and I hope others will be inspired by your creations and go on the same path.
It’s my personal New Year’s resolution this year. It’s not easy. I’m proud of you for keeping strong
Nofap isnt exactly healthy though... like, you could literally be desensitized in your lowe region, especially for girls.
Its about control. If you can control it in a healthy dose its fine. Thats why homeostasis is the best. Balance it in a healthy way.
If you cant control it, then yeah you shouldnt do it I guess.
Its like drinking alcohol. If you're a major alcoholic, maybe you should try hard to stop.
But if you drink maybe once every month, its not an issue and you can clearly balance it.
Do what fits you, not what others want you to fit in.
@@milanek1527dude Relax okay. Keep that to yourself,
We're gonna STOP.,period.
I’m not addicted to that stuff, haven’t touched it but this video has helped so many people, you’re a legend
Much love brother, I advise you to stay on the right path 🤝❤️
Skibidi
@@CapuTheGuineaPigtoilet
Glad you didn’t. I’m also on the grind for 2 weeks and I’m learning the piano more often now because watching those things made me so lazy.
Same here
As a Christian, this is how I stop myself from an urge
I ask myself “Would you choose God over porn?”
I would answer “of course”
I then ask myself “prove it”
❤
Me being a Christian and reading your comment, u just gave me a sudden urge to look at my addiction in the face and say NO!!! Being Christian’s it’s our duty to walk in a manner holy and blameless before the Lord. Obviously we can’t do this perfectly, and we’re still gonna fall sometimes, but asking that question of choosing God over porn, the Christian answer should automatically be Yes!!! And then proving it is the next step!! Thank u sir for your comment. Wish me luck as I start my journey and stare down my addiction and turn the opposite direction!!!
Lust is one of the only sins God tells us to run away from (2 Timothy 2:22). So how do we run away from it? Getting into prayer and the word 1 Corinthians 10:13 God has provided a way out to of course anyone who asks. That’s what we do whenever we feel the temptation, but how do we start to be free, now this dude in video said it correctly: we need to get rid of the root of our temptation (Matthew 5:30) we need to get rid of the things that spark our temptations, this could be like; delete TikTok, instagram and other social media’s giving you the urge. If ima be real you are going to make mistakes, I made mistakes, my pastor who helped me with lust made mistakes. You’re not going to overcome lust in one day not even 3 months but maybe a year but it’s different for everyone. I also wanna say one thing get an accountability partner, I didn’t get one personally but I’ve heard from other people that it helped them a lot. May God be with you on your journey and I pray for deliverance from this sin. God bless!
@@MicahGonzales-wf6yu How's it going
That’s quite hard to do when things like DDLC exists.
It's been a full year today of nofap
nobody said it so i'll do it, good job bro keep going
Well done
Nofap isnt exactly healthy though... like, you could literally be desensitized in your lowe region, especially for girls.
Well done bro.
Proud of you g
All the reasons you had to overcoming this addiction you have completed. So amazing!
Not all bro. We still have a long way to go but I’m making sure I find love in the journey because the journey is the only inevitable thing on this journey ❤️
Thanks to people like you, I never watched porn in the first place, thanks man
That is fantastic to hear. And like drugs, don’t ever start. I only wish I had known how addicting and bad for my health it would be before I started. It’s an addictive drug, so please, do not ever watch it
@@Presidentofthepresident I’ll never do anything bad like that, don’t worry, thanks for reading this
Is my music good?!’l
@@Slezeball yeah
@@DonkeyEMakesYouWiserNow thank u bro god bless u💜💙
I've never touched that stuff, but I'm glad to see so many people admitting they have a problem, striving to fix it, and work on self-improvement. I really am.
Thank you, bro. Thank you so much for making this. This will help so many people. 100%. God bless.
You've challenged me man. "Bed" It's so great to have a guy my age shake me awake everyday with amazing content. God bless you my brother.
Your comment has inspired me bro and I don’t take that lightly. God bless you back bro ❤️
I’m no newcomer to self improvement, but this addiction is the thing that keeps just dragging me back down. Thanks for the vid
Addiction isn’t real, If you wanna debate about it read the freedom model first. This book is the KEY! AND ITS FREE!!!
@@gmvacThank God it’s free so people don’t waste their money on that bullshit
@@gmvacIf addiction isn’t real then why is it a word with meaning? Why does it exist? Cause it is real. 💀
Is my music good?!’l
@@grammarpolice9219 Being called an “addict” and or “alcoholic” are made up concepts. If you believe addiction is true than you are horribly mistaken. People have freewill and can choose for themselves, We can never be highjacked to do something we don’t want.
I have now decided to instead of busting. To practice my cello for 30 minutes every time. And I’ve been doing this for about 1 month I’ve seen a MASSIVE improvement in my playing and my overall studies. And I haven’t been busting since I started this and it is 100 percent worth it. Thank you for helping me loose a bad habit to gain a great habit🎻
aw thats sweet
Nofap isnt exactly healthy though... like, you could literally be desensitized in your lowe region, especially for girls.
Its about control. If you can control it in a healthy dose its fine. Thats why homeostasis is the best. Balance it in a healthy way.
If you cant control it, then yeah you shouldnt do it I guess.
Its like drinking alcohol. If you're a major alcoholic, maybe you should try hard to stop.
But if you drink maybe once every month, its not an issue and you can clearly balance it.
Do what fits you, not what others want you to fit in.
Its good you learned something but imagine a diet. As doctors clearly said, its good to not be perfect and to realize making 2 steps forward and 1 step back is still 1 step forward. If you beat yourself up over it, theres a higher likelyhood of you stopping all together.
Thank you man. I am 15 years old and started watching porn 4 years ago, which has led to me watching it multiple times a day nowadays. Yesterday I decided I wanted to get my life back in shape, and quit a bunch of bad habits including, porn, social media, procrastination, poor hygiene, cursing, complaining, soda, candy, chips (and other highly unhealthy foods) and much more. I almost relapsed today which is very concerning since it's only day 1, however I caught myself before I even started doing it, hence why I am here. I've already seen many improvements including understanding what's going on in my school classes, and being able to hold strong conversation, I really hope future me isn't an idiot.
im proud of you brother. Keep going
Just wanted to check on you how it's going
@@Low_Effort_Memes life’s going amazing! feel so much more confident and haven’t broken any of my promises yet!
Have a friend or buddy... someone you trust,
hold you accountable!
When I know once a week (or daily or other), I'm speaking to _______, and reporting victory, or failure, or both, plus numbers... magic happens!!
431 days alcohol free here.
Having a coach, mentor, sponsor (formal or informal)... makes a difference!
PRO athletes do!
AND YOU'RE WORTH IT TOO!!
Nofap isnt exactly healthy though... like, you could literally be desensitized in your lowe region, especially for girls.
Its about control. If you can control it in a healthy dose its fine. Thats why homeostasis is the best. Balance it in a healthy way.
If you cant control it, then yeah you shouldnt do it I guess.
Its like drinking alcohol. If you're a major alcoholic, maybe you should try hard to stop.
But if you drink maybe once every month, its not an issue and you can clearly balance it.
Do what fits you, not what others want you to fit in.
You know while watching this video I remembered a Bible story , of how 2 men were building houses. One built his on the sand and the other on the rock of a mountain. When they went to go sleep after they built it a storm came. The man who built his house on the sand tried to save it best he could but it didn’t work. The man who built his house on the rock was still there and STRONG , sturdy , ready for anything. The devil will send storms after us but if we built a good foundation on a good source of land we will not fall.
Thank you Jak for reminding me of this and helping me through one of the toughest parts of my life ❤🙏
I am in year 9 in a couple of weeks. I am 14 and I am suffering from a terrible porn addiction and I have stumbled across this video whilst I'm typing this message . I have my notes, I will remember your lessons and I start my journey today. Wish me luck.
I can help you quit right now, Ask me anything and I will give you the best info. I’ve know how “difficult” it is, and im here to help. Give me ANY QUESTIONS and I swear on my life I WILL help you quit.
Good luck bro you will do well 👍
You’ve got this bro. Never give up ✊❤️
what makes you think you have a terrible addiction
You got this bro
you dont know how much you have helped me in the month that i have been watching
I might have sparked a spark to start the fire but you’ve kept it going, in other words give yourself more credit than you’re giving me ❤️
I’m 14 and just finished watching this while running and doing body weight workout because that’s all I have access to right now. I’ve been making little improvements on corn and jerkin for a while, deleting social medias and eliminating one corn site at a time. I play sports and im trying to get better at it and be better for everyone around me. Battling depression and anxiety but ik I can do it. Thanks for the help brotha. Much love from Nebraska ❤
Why does everyone always call it “corn”?
I actually needed this video. Bro Jak is my favorite motivational youtube. This man has changed my life. I've been working out a lot lately, got back into basketball, got a girlfriend (suprisingly) and started to do youtube. After I was committed to all this. Porn is now nowhere in my life. Thank you Jak, love you bro. 👍👍
Thanks for this Jak. All my reasons for wanting to quit porn:
To feel better mentally.
To gain a deep love and excitement for life as opposed to temporary hits of disgusting porn. In other words, I want to be able to create my own self enjoyment through myself rather than temporary pleasure.
To become more in control of myself.
To not set my expectations too high for physical appearance later in life - if I do it means I'm not going to find a gf or partner.
To desexualise my brain.
To be able to see women for who they are - inside not out (obviously I can admire outer beauty but over time, porn causes that outer beauty to become more important to a man than inner beauty). This will mean I can get more appreciation for people in general, and more love for people. So being out and amongst people will become a more enjoyable experience.
To have more time for bettering both my physical health (gym) and mental health.
To not get erectile dysfunction.
I love this bro, but try and go even deeper, go as deep as you can. Let these reasons drown your mind 👊
My reasons are as follows: porn makes me feel like shit, it uses up my energy, I want to see women as humans not objects, and it holds me back from being the best person I can be. I also have always wanted to be a musician as a career, so I plan on using my extra time and energy to improve my guitar playing and vocal skills, and finish writing songs with my band. My goal for the band is that I want it to be a sustainable career
for when I do turn 18, and also I always hear you tell me to ‘dream big’ so I want to help bring rock, metal, and grunge back into the
mainstream so that more people will be exposed to those genres of music. Also, I want to thank you Jak, because I have been failing on nofap since may of 2023 and I have never gone past about 7 days. Without you, I would never be able to quit porn, and you have and will continue to change my life for the better
@@WilliamDavis-vs5thso inspirational
@WilliamDavis-vs5th go follow your dreams and please bring back rock/metal/grunge into the mainstream
@@gabebakker5862we don’t have have anything released rn, but we should have an album out in hopefully about a year and a half
All of your videos have helped me grow insanely in 2024. I don't associate with that stuff anymore, I started taking control of my life, school, sports. I wake up each day with purpose to fulfill and not just to pleasure myself. I owe it all to you and god.
You should be proud of yourself my brother because I know I am because I know how it feels to finally keep the promises you tell yourself, keep it up 👊❤️
Wow, what an amazing video. I’m 500 days free, and have never looked back, but this video was still a great reminder, not only for fighting lust, but really with any addiction or struggle that you have control over. Keep going, your doing wonders!
I can’t thank you enough for how you are changing my life.
After seeing how you overcome your addiction to corn in your past video it inspired me to finally after 3 year of my life to change myself.
I can say without a doubt my life has gotten much better since.
And I believe that it will only get better.
I’m working out every day and losing weight.
When I first watched your first video about this and this one I was filled with determination to move forward and change.
All I want to say is thank you for how much you have helped me I think if it weren’t for your video I wouldn’t have been able to make the push I did to stop.
It has been two weeks since I stopped and I want to push ever further and be like you.
For my family.
For myself.
For everyone around me.
For you
And to make the world around us a better place.
Thank you.
He has the wisdom of an elder but the relatability of a younger. Amazing mix. Listen to his advice
Thank you bro, the soul doesn’t have an age at the end of the day ❤️
This video actually made me quit like fr the addiction is over and I have so much self control I'm not even lying@@JakPiggott
@@JakPiggott ahh 🤌 so true ✨
Jak, you just saved me. "bed". I just want to say thank you for your contents, as it helps me get through 80% of my problem in life. I wish the best for your career, and I hope that I can see more of your success. Much love brother❤
I wish you everything you just wished me to bro, thank you ❤️
Im soon on two years clean.
To quit sustainably you need to understand some things… Don’t count the days, it seriously isn’t good. Don’t think that the strength to resist comes from you, understand that it is soley God giving you the strength.
*Super important*
Watch a man named Fr Isaac Mary Relyea on youtube, his speeches of purity & especially the four last things are extremely powerful
Recite the Rosary, if you recite it everyday you will either quite masturbation or the Rosary.
Hey, honestly I am very ashamed of myself for having gotten myself into this mess in the first place. I started when I was like 12, which is 2 years ago now. I told my best friend about it, and despite promising her to never do it again, I went into the worst relapse ever.
Thank you so much now for giving me another hope. I've written everything you've said.
You forever remain in my prayers. Keep on doing this good work. We all love you and are so grateful. God bless.
Good for you for realizing how harmful this is. I truly hope you run from this problem now before it gets worse, and it will. I was introduced to porn when I was 7 and that during the time when high speed internet was new and people were not aware of what kids could see on it. I'm 28 and had I recognized it for what it was earlier I would have saved myself from a lot of suffering. The momentary temptation will never be worth the reprocussions.
Jak, YOU ARE CHANGING LIVES WITH THESE VIDEOS mad respect man ❤
This video had me in tears and helped me realise alot
I don't know how to thank you
And I genuinely think you are the most amazing dude content creator on this platform I've ever come across ❤❤❤
I’m so glad this video had that kind of impact bro. I do not take your words for granted, I can’t thank you enough for that❤
@@JakPiggott thank you
keep making such videos and inspiring us to quit our addictions if anyone is going through any
Will do man, thank you for your support, it doesn’t go unnoticed 🫶
yup
Thanks brother.In my last 5 years of trapped into this endless cycle.This was the 1st and the only 1 videos that really oppened my mind to really change back everything to normal.Thanks brother,I really appreciate it.Without you I will never get this kind of spark into my life.
Stay blessed brother.May god bless you every moment in your life.
"Bed"
As a 59 yo grandmother I would just like to say the biggest reason to quit is realizing how you plan to treat the "girl you've been crushing on" based on sexual preferences. No quality girl is going to be treated like a porn star every night.
Exactly
Hey Jak, i was thinking of posting my reasons in the comments incase you had and tips on how to follow through with these reason, youve been a real help for me since i found your channel a few weeks ago so i am deeply grateful, anyways heres the list
1. To have a clear mind to focus on academics, it is my main focus at the moment and I really need to focus on it
2. To lower my temptations so I don't fuck up my future in the world of dating
3. To feel more confident in myself so I actually can get out there into the dating world and not constantly worry about how it all works
4. To steer away from that dopamine hit amd get that hit from something I actually enjoy and want to do, for example exercise
5. To lower my stress and anxiety so I'm constantly not stressing about things like a digital footprint or weird ads I get in my recommend
6. To be able to look at a beautiful women and not have my mind think of something gross
I could tell you rn
if u want to feel confident practice sport
@@yousseftunisia638 I'm not the sport type, but doing just general exercise would work more for me
1. Where does this put you on 5 years and why is that life important to you?
2. What does f*cking up mean and how will your dream girl make you feel?
3. How will being successful in the dating world get you closer to your dream life?
4. What habits can you create today that get you closer to your dream life?
5. What would you want to feel instead of stress and why?
6. Why? What benefit do you get out of that and how does that benefit benefit your life?
Go deeper brother.
I'm dealing with this addiction. This
video is the most helpful video I have ever seen. Thank you so much Jak.
Also God will help you to quit porn, i quit october 12th 2022 and i’m still going strong thanks to God and his son Jesus Christ
You're the same age as me and I wish i was a little more like you, helping others with things like this. Idk how you guessed that we were staring at you when placing that picture in there. This video is simply awesome. Keep it up!
It is a goal of mine to get one of my friends to stop watching this since most of them are actively addicted to it except me and it’s ruining their minds. Thanks for the advice
If you have any questions about quitting your “addiction” let me know, cuz addiction isn’t real, You are a human being with personal freedom and any substance use is completely and totally your choice. And btw every time you get an “urge” that’s you WANTING IT! Not some evil thing tempting you, cuz you have you in your mind and NOTHING can highjack your mind.
@@gmvac I showed this to my alcoholic dad and he totally agrees with you after beating me and my mother twice, thanks a lot for your beautiful opinion I hope you are doing well
@@gmvac I think you have not yet felt what a real addiction feels like for you to be saying this
@@smoothie2629 I’ve gone through 1 year of “relapsing” again and again, this book’s entire objective is to switch your perspective, it’s not a cure nor treatment rather it’s a WAY OF THINKING! The only way i escaped my “addiction” is by reading this Revolutionary book! Give it a shot, and thank me later.
@@Lunaire2103 Read the freedom model and use the coupon “freedom 100” to get it completely free. This book will break the chains of “addiction” this book will save your father. It’s a short and simple read, and the book is about debunking any belief you may have.
Finally, a self-improvement channel that cares about his audience.
OMG… as a teenage boy trying to quit, watching this video has been incredible. That last trick with smiling at the wall felt so good. I just felt something amazing inside of me. Thank you so much JAK I don’t know where I would be if not for you.❤🙏
Thank you Jak for these videos. I’m now 24 days in nofap, but I’m learning how to desexulize my mind.
Jak you have done it again another masterpiece of a video.
Thank you brother Andre ❤️
my foundation is JESUS CHRIST
No one has commented on this yet so I will.
My foundation is also Jesus Christ!! C’mon brothers, we can do this!!
My foundation is my Lord, saviour, and guide Jesus Christ!
Amen brother
Unfortunately your foundation doesn’t exist
@@ToniToni-1 my foundation created all things
Dude, you need to be a motivational speaker. This single video, all the quotes you’ve made here, you’ve spoken some sense into me. I’ve never watched corn, but I did want to quit relapsing, and this single video has motivated me to change myself. I’ve got this, with everyone else here.
Hey jak im an 15 year old teen and i have been struggling with this addiction this is the best video i've seen so far and i literally had tears in my eyes because i was imagining all of the things that have happened to me because of this addiction while warching this video u have helped me soo much i dont know how to repay you back but the only thing that i can do is to thank and pray for you keep making more videos like these ❤
I've always struggled with this addiction and sometimes after watching I would watch videos how to stop and all of them help a little but this one some how stands out. Out of all the videos this one is the one that I feel like is actually going to help. Thank you.
You are changing lives bro much love ❤
“Bed”
This video is so true, I don't have any words. You might just be the most helpful human being in there types of situations that I have ever seen. I'm 13 and will turn 14 soon. I am incredibly happy that I broke from my watching porn addiction in December 2023 all on my own. But I've gone a month and and failed an I keep failing at getting away from my addiction of jerking off and I regret even doing it in the first place. This video will help and I am glad to have somebody I can express to that can help because I'm scared of admitting it to my family. Thank you Jak. I love you.
Jak is like the supportive big brother of the internet, who's always pushing you to do better, and trying to help you in any way he can. Always wishing the best for our futures and helping not just us, but also himself.
Thank you for everything you do, Jak. You're inspiring me to do better every day, even if I'm making some mistakes.
Thank you so much man. You have inspired me to be the best version of myself and how to overcome the urges and get my life back on track. You have really made a difference.Thanks legend
Thank you for your videos, Jak. You're the best.
"Bed"
you have changed me much love brother
Thanks. This motivates me the most. And when you showed that photo, I honestly didn’t feel an urge. I did all of your advice. I typed the reasons, did that wall imaginary thing you told us to do.
There’s this girl I like, and when you were talking about how guilty I would be if I lost a loved one because of how drained I was, I thought about saving her from choking on a piece of gum. I think I imagined that scenario because yesterday I saw a video of an criminal saving a cop because the cop was choking on gum.
Thanks, like I said, this motivated me the most. I’ll try my hardest. No, I will succeed.
you are changing my life and many other's too
good luck brother keep going 😊
"bed"
I am 4 mouth Addiction free from porn It definitely changes your mindset and how you look at girls And think know i have a girlfriend right now Starting in 2024 beating porn change my life I felt hopelessness
Jak, you have just saved me, bro. I've been dealing with this for what feels like forever, and now I know how to stop. Thank you so much, man!
Someone said,
"Don't take advice from the people who are not at the position you want to be"
And i think you're the person I dreamed to be when i was in primary school. Thanks for the video I watched it till the end and everything you said really worked for me. You -will be a great TH-camr- are a great youtuber. I hope you'll reach the pinnacle of life by accomplishing your dreams.🌟
What an amazing video, social media really forces the generation into ‘soft porn’. And thats what i fall for everytime
Thank You Jak. Everything that you do as a daily thing inspires Thousands of People including me, and I really want to thank you for that ❤. Got a fat ass Urge rn but your video came in the right moment. Oh and Btw Bed :)
I just stumbled across your videos and wanted to say that you’re extremely mature and intelligent for your age. I truly hope your messages get to more people. Keep doing what you’re doing!
bro just made me realize that we could think that way!! I loved the fact that letting go the urges by smiling and saying nah you cant get me today was like out of the box man. Thank you so much man i realy really appreciate your efforts. Ily man ily
I have just 3 words to say to you Jak.
God - Bless - You.
Before i found you, i was not able to go past day 5 and now i have hit day 20. There is something about you that other nofap content creators do not have. Your calmness and that charm makes everyone watch your vidoes. Thanks a lot man❤
Real!
President of the president. 😂 Cool name
@@HappyChocolateStrawberry-js3nv thanks happy chocolate strawberry
Fapping is better ngl
@@CapuTheGuineaPig go troll someone else
it takes alot of confidence to admit you were addicted like that, respect.
I'm 35 and I can tell you this.. in my teens and twenties I didn't care if people older than me said there was drawbacks to corn. I dismissed it as BS. Now that I am older.. I see that they were only trying to warn me and protect my mental health. I was an idiot who didnt listen. The damage done is taunting.. it continues to tease you daily.. it's always there to make you feel like a lonely loser.. and corn is the reason why. If anyone is smart enough to take my advice.. please leave corn. It ends up hurting you worse in the long run, it just continuously reminds you how alone and unloved you are since no one you meet wants to do what you watch in corn. I shudder to think that when I'm in my 40's... I see Gen Z in their 30's telling me "I should have listened"... Only to try to warn Gen Alpha of the same thing, yet be ignored all the same. I want whoever listens to this to succeed.. you can do it!
dude my childhood's in the BIN i wanted to be so many things when i was young now im not even past 18 and i lost all interests in my dreams and the 1 thing i wanted to be still is a big youtuber witch is what i try to be 302 subscribers so far. i would aprisiate if anyone liked this comment or even jak a heart.
yeah ignore me @Jak Piggott ive genuenly lost my child hood cuz ive lost all hope to do anything when im 18 all because of bullying and harrassment for 10/14 years..
Jak is the older brother we wish we all had
I'm 19yo and this is by far the best video I've seen on the topic. Thanks Jak! You just earned another subscriber👍
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I've recently found a girl that has all the values I've been looking for and I know she likes me but I'm still to shy to say anything. However, she's made me realise how much of a bad person I am compared to her (not like a shithead just I don't care abt myself as much as she does herself) I've seen this from the fact she's so much more mature then me even tho she's only a year older then me. And we're in out senior years and she's made me realise I need to focus on school and this is holding me back from doing my homework, assignments and studying. And I really like this girl that I've been talking to for a few weeks and don't want to fuck it up by porn.
So thank you Jak for making this video and the other one abt how it destroyed relationships for u in highschool. I highly appreciate it and it makes me feel more comfortable as your around my age and went through the same things.
So again thank you so much Jak for doing what you do,never stop brother ❤
As a 13 year old teenager myself who watches corn daily, I started resisting last week and I hope that I can quit corn for at least a month or two. I always regret watching corn after I finish one video. It’s been a struggle for me. You inspired me to quit corn like no one else ever had. Mad respect brother.
Edit: I have listed my reasons why I want to quit corn. Here are my reasons.
1. I want to be a clean man and a child of God.
2. If I don’t, it will ruin my relationship with my future girlfriend, parents, or any friendship.
3. I don’t want to see everyone as se*, I want to get rid of my se*ualized mind.
4. Be a mentally heathy man.
5. Avoid depression.
6. Not be a bad influence amongst people.
7. Have stronger experience on temptation and make temptation nothing to me.
8. Not care about the size of women’s body parts.
9. Get stronger in the gym.
10. Have self confidence (go up to people and talk to them without a se*ualized mind).
Im gonna say it here:
My reasons:
I want the energy to find what i actually want to do with my life
I want to be more disciplined, if i dont control my urges there is a high possibility that i wont control anything
I want to stop being a victim, I want to grow up.
I want to stop feeling inside this void
I want to be able to be strong not only physically, but mentally so i can support those around me
I want to be able to rely on myself, if i dont control myself then im not reliable.
I want to begin living in the real world and not through a screen
I want to feel more like myself, and not like something or someone else controls my actions or what i do
Im addicted because it feels good, in the moment, busting it feels so good. but going out feels better, talking to someone feels better, dancing alone feels better, the gym feels better, getting the highest grade feels better. I want to stop because i dont want to feel sorry for myself, i want to feel better for myself and those around me. I want to be the pillar that I want to rely on but for me and everyone. I want to be better.
Ive already deleted social media, so im almost there.
This is some truly life changing help man. I have reached my first goal of one month because of your videos. Now, I am still going because of your tips. It has been fucking hard, and this new info has helped some of the problems I was experiencing. Thank you so much.
42 days clean and feeling better than ever. Thank you so much you really changed my life. ❤
This is really good advice but another thing that helped me was thinking to myself “I have no excuse”, so every time I would get an urge I would remember that I have no valid excuse. I find that doing that just engaged my logical thinking enough to pull away, because a lot of the time it’s our emotional mind subconsciously swaying us into doing the habit that we are trying to quit, if you have somewhat of an argument with yourself each times you get an urge it becomes hard for the emotional mind to win.
How do you mean no excuse? Like no excuse since you know about what it really does to you?
@@PresidentofthepresidentI think he meant it more like, "I have no excuse to justify this habit of watching corn as something good for me"
However many likes and comments I get is how much days I will last not relapsing. (Please make it a lot)
I'm about to start this at age 15 and I'm honestly a little scared because I've relapsed before and given in so many times. I think you've helped me build the foundation that I need to stop this. Thank you so much bro. Wish me luck on this journey.
Man, I would just love to say thank you, I’m 15 turning 16 later this year, and this was such a helpful video and motivating for me, discovered you on new years, and not once you have disappointed me! Big fan from New Zealand, and again, Thank you
I too am 15, turning 16 this year, doesn't seem like our differences are this big, wanna form a nofap group? Or if you know kne guide me there please
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Please tell me how to use those urges I'm sick of not being able to beat them.
I'm on day 8 of no corn so far. I feel so much better rn then I did 8 days ago.
This video is inspiring me to quit once and for all. Ive written in my journal, and Im ready to start my journey. Thanks Jak. Ill see you on the other side.
I'm struggling with it. It's really killing me inside and I have no one to talk too which makes me sad
But I'll keep trying to end it
I'm gonna stop.i want to be a better person
Yo sup
Repent and believe in Jesus For salvation
Amen 🙏❤️
If I'm being completely honest I've struggled with corn for a really long time like 4 years and because of you I finally feel not just a small reason to stop but the biggest reason I've ever felt. I'm still struggling with corn but thanks to your videos I feel a lot closer to quitting than I ever have. "Bed"
The smiling technique was genuinely helpful for me. Thank you for this really helpful tip.
The addiction is an illusion that keeps you from becoming who you were meant to be.
I’ve never watched it, and from all the videos like these I’m glad
1. list reason why you want to quit: 2:46
2. get deep, feel emotional connection to them
3. relay this to someone close, parents
4. need a big enough dream
5. eliminate all triggers you have control over. control your reaction
6. change your identity, you aren't the person who is trying to quit porn, you are the man who already quit it
7. porn isn't actually that good, it brings down your baseline
8. smile at your fav porn scene. say the devil cant beat you. its energy. don't look at urge as bad thing, not escapism, pain you feel today is the strength you'll feel tmrw.
9. relax into it, fall into meditation
Thanks you jak, I hope that this helps me stop my addiction. It has been 6 months since I first had got addicted. A lot of times I have tried to stop but I can never get past 4 days of not doing it. There is so many problems that I have by doing this like my ears keep getting tinnitus and infections (I don’t think it happens to everyone but my ears are dying) and all this sexuality is against my religion but I still do it. I did all the things in this video and I really listened and cried. If I get to my goals I will be so happy and will be thanking you and god for helping me. Thank you!
Update: Day 1: easy
Day 2: easy
Day 3: Was easy till I was about to go to sleep. I had a need to do it, so I did it. I am starting to think that it is impossible but I won’t give up
Was addicted for 8 years never thought I would be able to stop until I was like in my 40s and had a wife or something. 2 years ago I had an encounter with God and he set me free from that bondage and prison. It’s no longer even a thought to go watch porn and it baffles me that I was ever even addicted. I pray that He would do the same thing in you just like me, in Jesus name amen. Be free and every chain be broken off of you.
I love u bro I'm currently 13 and in the same situation u were in and today is the first day in 2 years I haven't watched it. So I really hope one day I'll make it to 1117 days like you.
You are very good at what you do, i was trying to quit it, but like in day 10 I couldn't resist, now with your video, it's been 3 weeks, and it will be forever dude.
Day 1 & my new journey , journey towards success & peace started 🔥
Are you maintaining it? Good luck and stay strong
@@supersaiyangoku7547 yes bro 5 days streak
Superb vid. "If you make the same mistake twice you dont want it bad enough and if your reasons arent stronf enough you're not dreaming big enough"💯 Jak said dont fight it. Just use it to your advantage. Essentially saying to learn to dance in the rain, and dont run from it (because you're already in it). Because if you can overcome your ow mind, your own urges, and solve your own problem with the provided and indirect help of others (for eg. This very yt vid) then you'll be the most resilient person there is.
You're the MAN, Thanks for helping me....... you and I will definitely retire our parents one day.
Lets work towards that goal.
I unfortunately am struggling with this horrible addiction, but I'm now determined to fight this addiction so it won't take over me anymore because:
I'm tired of feeling like shit
I don't want to have a sexualized brain
I want to be a good Christian
I want to pursue a career in music
I want to see my crush as who she is more on the inside than the outside (even though it's OK to admire beauty in a girl)
I want to form a band with my friend who also plays guitar
I want to use that energy I used on that to get caught up on schoolwork, and be confident that I'm a good musician
And most importantly, I want to be confident so I can talk to my friend about the idea of a band, and confident enough to talk to my crush more often.
This video has motivated me so that if I feel like I'm about to relapse, I can come back to this video so I can think twice about it. Thank you so much for this video. You really are changing lives, including mine. You deserve a sub.
I’ll be praying for you❤ I also make music, and I think it’s so cool you want to start a band. Ever time you feel the urge. Play some music or sing or practice something. If it it’s guitar or singing or anything. Every single time you feel an urge practice your gifting. I’ll be praying❤❤
Just enjoy life!
Jak, thank u for all that u say and do for us!!! Showing that u care for strangers like us gives me strength and hope in knowing that I can fight this addiction, and win! Please wish me luck as this is the first day that I start my journey without relapsing or looking at porn!
man i have held my streak for my entire life
In my oppinion, there is one important thing that Id recommend everyone to do: Do not view it as a streak. Viewing it as a streak will probably just make it harder since youre stressed about loosing that streak and are more likely to relapse. Now, that is only a recommendation and Ive explained what I mean very bad, I know, english isn`t my mother language. But I hope anyone who reads this understands what I mean. As I`ve said, thats my oppinion and I understand if you think its stupid. Just try to reduce the amount you take in and do it slowly, dont just rush things. Btw, love your channel and your videos and to anyone who actually read this, hope this helped and good luck ❤
Thank you so much for this I will do my best to quit my addiction. I will give an update that I have not done it sense this comment in 90 days!
Thank you so much! You have helped me to stop I needed a new perspective because what I was trying was not working. So, THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!!