Why Narcissists get into PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT and Life Coaching
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 พ.ย. 2024
- Narcissists and personal development, why some narcissists work on themselves but WONT go to therapy.
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Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.
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Lee your a rare percentage that took the actual step to admit and take action on what you felt was off about yourself.. don't ever apologize for any steps u took to help your process..I also respect that you never forget where you came from and give yourself the credit to fight it and stay on the right path..I know it must not be easy at all..I also noticed the skits you do give you alil chance to get out this ways but u found the way to get it out your system without hurting your loved ones anymore.. point is you started a movement and have remained humble thru out it.. and keeping it real with how the narc brain really works helps us victims of it know that we wasn't buggin lol..ty
Mine would go to therapy like twice and then say something like, "It's my trauma, that's why I hit you" or "I learned that it's your fault you didn't protect me from (insert lie here) that's why you deserved it."
Ugh yes, they go to therapy to learn how to be better manipulators..... or like my ex... he went to therapy to get validation..... he was always the victim.....
This is giving me such a hard eye-roll. Like what a f***ing juvenile delinquent... they could have gone to therapy and changed for the better but instead used therapy to make you the problem... smh.
Thank you for helpful comments.
My narcissists soon to be X goes to a therapist now because he says that he will have proof that I am the abusive one and I am the one who has cheated if I go through with a divorce against him.
This is the person who refused to get help when we were together and I eventually left him for cheating being very verbally and physically abusive.
He has has become worse since he has told these crazy lies to a therapist and acts as though he has an excuse to threten me, says that no one will believe me now and he has the proof from going to a therapist and telling them about me.
I told him that the therapists have never met me they just have his word and not mine.
I don't think this will work because I don't think a therapist will show up to our divorce hearing or make statements about me without meeting me first or at all.
I am trying to get a lawyer now.
The therapist can only speak on what they have observed. Make sure to submit all texts and video as evidence in the beginning as part of discovery, so that there is proof of it. Don't allow him a "private space" to communicate. Make him use texts so there is evidence. Have witnesses.
In court, the only thing that counts is evidence. -- Decide what you want out of the divorce and don't let yourself get taken off the path and into the woods. There's no reason to fight over things you don't care about. Know that he will be trying anything to trigger an emotional response to prove to himself that he still has control.
So true… that narc was red pill then 5 percenter, then red pill … idk what they are now smh
Hey Lee, this is going to be interesting!
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Stop saying hello beautiful people. I do not feel beautiful so I feel this is not for me.
Wow , if u don’t feel beautiful don’t even speak what kind of self loathing 😂statement is this nobody wanna hear that negative 💩 😂
Make a list of the good qualities that you have and what you are greatful for. Being beautiful doesn't mean you are supposed to look like a model that probably had lots of work done on them anyway.
Find some positive affirmations that you like and start the morning off saying them
just remember that only abusive people will talk down to you or talk bad about you. Leave them behind and start the belief one step at a time that you are worth it and you are a beautiful soul.
Even if you don't have anyone else saying it who cares as long as you love yourself.