Indian Sex Education Gone Wrong | Dirty Talk ft.

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  • @lovea2501
    @lovea2501 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1028

    I hate how little we know about our bodies and consent.

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      same :( schools need to teach it

    • @someone9276
      @someone9276 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Dobara Yes, for sure

    • @goutamboppana961
      @goutamboppana961 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same bruh >:(

    • @Diablo-nz5on
      @Diablo-nz5on 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Indians! Do you know that one of the main reasons why there are so many r*pe cases in India? It's because there's no s*x education taught in schools and colleges hence people don't know what is right and wrong infact most of them don't even know that forcing someone to have sex or s*xua*ly asualting and touching them without his/her consent is a crime, they just act according to how his/her mind perceived things while watching p*rn videos, they don't even know the importance of using protection and that having unprotected s*x causes dangerous illness that can make yours and your future generation lives go downhill and why are we so ashamed to talk about s*x or even by the word s*x and yet there are more than 1.4 billion people living in India it's not like we dropped from the sky or something. Talking about population which also is one of the major problems in India which is also hence due to having unprotected s*x because they don't even know that protection exist, which automatically relate to why majority of people living in India are under poverty line, and people suffering from dangerous sickness and illness this why s*x education is important.

    • @sourabhs14
      @sourabhs14 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      "In this age of information, ignorance is a 'choice'."

  • @rileysmiley2696
    @rileysmiley2696 2 ปีที่แล้ว +774

    When i was 11 i used to carry extra pad with me for emergency. One day my friend got her periods i lend her my pad to her without folding in a paper so she yelled in class that i am not educated and boys in my class also teased me, even my class teacher slapped me and i went to principle room for lending a pad without folding it in a paper.
    When i told my mom she said don't worry .She supports me all the time

    • @ritusingh8578
      @ritusingh8578 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      That's so sad. In my class everyone would have felt awkward because no one is used to it, but that would have been it...

    • @malihasen7178
      @malihasen7178 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      You didn't even do anything wrong. Instead, you helped your friend. She and the others should have been thankful to you rather than being so harsh on you. I understand how hard it must have been for you.

    • @hobicheekz7645
      @hobicheekz7645 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      well we were quite comfortable in my school (2019 batch) i remember my friend asking openly for pad and i tossed it around like a pen😂

    • @Angel_96416
      @Angel_96416 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      whaat ..your teacher slapped you for giving a pad openly ? !! they all are stupid . What you did was the right thing , your friends, those teachers and principal are not mentally developed enough

    • @bkmishra6524
      @bkmishra6524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      You know this is pathetic. People still have this ideology about periods, sex and all. Like no one should be ashamed if someone else sees them using pads. Periods are natural and normal. There's nothing to be feel embarrassed about it. Both boys and girls should take it normally instead of making it such a big deal. I feel so sorry for you :-(

  • @tanvithakare25
    @tanvithakare25 2 ปีที่แล้ว +632

    In our school we were taught about periods where boys were not allowed and we would sit in an room and some random teachers would teach us about these things...and were told that we should never discuss these things around men ...

    • @barsha362
      @barsha362 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      True! Same thing happened in our class, and we girls blindly believed it. And the boys would return to class and ask us what the teacher said, which made us girls Embarassed😂

    • @abhinaya5687
      @abhinaya5687 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      True...when they distributed sanitary pads to us we were asked to hide this from boys. They were not allowed to sit with us in these lectures. On the top, it was some NGO's that were trying to educate us 😂😂

    • @Satyamevjayatenews999
      @Satyamevjayatenews999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh sorry but it's not happened in our college but men knew this since they are just 14 year old .

    • @muskanpassi4942
      @muskanpassi4942 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Only one time in my school the boys were also taken for a sex ed lecture in a sperate room with all the males teachers and as usual girls were taken to a different room to teach how our body is changing and how we should contact less with boys . We were strictly told to not discuss this with boys and vice versa .

    • @asthanain4952
      @asthanain4952 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      OH MY GOD SAME!!! TF are they doing with young boys and girls??

  • @navyasharma1127
    @navyasharma1127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +709

    in 12th grade biology, there is actually a chapter on reproductive health which talks about consent, STDs\STIs, protection, how abortion is legal and may be the best decision even in some cases, it also talks about pleasure. Fortunately, I had a great teacher at school who discussed every aspect of it without implying it as 'shameful' or 'impure'. It's in the CBSE curriculum. I don't know why they don't have it in lower classes, not everyone opts for biology in 12th.

    • @sakshamtyagi9652
      @sakshamtyagi9652 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Obviously only a fraction of students get to have that class. Aadhe maths vaale bc gavaar hee rehe jaate hain

    • @navyasharma1127
      @navyasharma1127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@sakshamtyagi9652 when i talk to my friends from other streams, they are baffled ki ncert me yeh sb hai, because 10th tk as such kuch nahi tha. and it depends on the teacher too alot

    • @it_g_102_riturajburnwal6
      @it_g_102_riturajburnwal6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      We were in ICSE 10th when we were theoretically taught about all this and guess what I just didn't understand anything. I went to hostel for 11th and 12th and there the neet aspirants actually educated me. Thanks to you people.😃

    • @petraalbatra9898
      @petraalbatra9898 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@sakshamtyagi9652 dude I'm a maths student and I'm pretty sure I'm not ganwar. I mean I got your point. You're trying to say that everyone should be given sex ed. But please don't call us or people from any other stream ganwar. It hurts ಥ‿ಥ

    • @thearcher5896
      @thearcher5896 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Hey :). Fellow biology student here, where does it talk about consent and pleasure? Genuine question, maybe I missed the text

  • @TheTaneeshow
    @TheTaneeshow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1213

    this is my absolute favourite! loved working with u guys :)

  • @kurkufhu
    @kurkufhu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +650

    In my school , the reproduction chapter was specifically ignored . We were supposed to read it from home and then prepare some 2-3 pages of assignment on that . And that's how I covered the chapter - by copy pasting it .

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      😢 needs to change

    • @devbagga7971
      @devbagga7971 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      In my tution the guy and the girls were taught the same chapter separately 😂. However I was in an all boys school and the FEMALE teacher was very open minded and taught us the chap thoroughly

    • @Satyamevjayatenews999
      @Satyamevjayatenews999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You just need to read at the age of 16 everything is given in deep details you just need to read it..

    • @xic19samikshapatil21
      @xic19samikshapatil21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Satyamevjayatenews999 stfu

    • @KrishtiBhattacharjee
      @KrishtiBhattacharjee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      crazy how this is the same story in almost every school. i remember when our teacher got to the sex education chapter, she just skipped it and moved on to the next topic!

  • @shrutikayeddy4809
    @shrutikayeddy4809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    When I was a teenager I thought kissing gets u pregnant...first time I saw porn I was traumatized for 2 months... couldn't get the scenes out of my head for more than 3-4 months...

    • @pallavi6013
      @pallavi6013 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      dude I once saw a couple kiss in the metro. And I was horrified because I thought that a baby was gonna drop down from the woman's belly since there was no doctor around lmao

    • @janvi5185
      @janvi5185 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Same 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I was traumatized after watching porn couldn't escape those scenes

    • @jakayyyyyy6151
      @jakayyyyyy6151 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bro i-💀✌

    • @hobicheekz7645
      @hobicheekz7645 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      the traumatising experience of watching porn first time 😂😂omg it thought it was only me

    • @iampigoinkoink5185
      @iampigoinkoink5185 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      My friend used to think when you are in periods and if a boy touches you ..you get pregnant ..

  • @tulsidhara7413
    @tulsidhara7413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    im in 10th grade now, and i went through my biology textbook and guess what they mentioned everything what a 15 year old needs to know about sex - what is it ,methods of contraception , menstrual cycle litrally everythinggg in detail.
    BUT BUT BUT guess what the indian council removed this lesson as "EXTRA SYLLABUS" which is not needed to be taught,
    GREAT.

    • @sakshamtyagi9652
      @sakshamtyagi9652 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Bro not everything is mentioned. Only the extreme basic is taught in CBSE textbooks. Plenty of crucially important stuff is not discussed.

    • @tulsidhara7413
      @tulsidhara7413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@sakshamtyagi9652 hey! im from the ICSE board, so in our textbook everything was listed..

    • @user-tn2en7fn1w
      @user-tn2en7fn1w 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      there was this one time, I saw it in the news lmao... some telegu couple waited for children "to happen magically" because they didnt knew what sex was 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @tulsidhara7413
      @tulsidhara7413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@user-tn2en7fn1w oh my god 🤦‍♀️

    • @skmgaming5871
      @skmgaming5871 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@tulsidhara7413 Yeah i am also in icse class 10 and Yeah,they did remove these chaps from bio:-
      1.rep system
      2.plant hormones
      3.last useless chaps about pollution

  • @RJ-eu1zr
    @RJ-eu1zr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Sex Ed and LGBT should be introduced in High school curriculum or atleast should be taught properly for a better understanding and to bring up a generation who will become more broad-minded and understand each individual as a Human first and all next 👍

  • @abhinaya5687
    @abhinaya5687 2 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    Luckily our school was not like this...they were quite open and discussed about psychological, social and health aspect of sex. We were sensitized about health risk associated with it and how to protect our selves using contraceptives. Our teachers were so open to us that they clarified our doubt.

    • @lubnaazad8036
      @lubnaazad8036 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here..!!

    • @Satyamevjayatenews999
      @Satyamevjayatenews999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sorry but when I was 16 everything was available in the biological books all you need to do is read...

    • @lubnaazad8036
      @lubnaazad8036 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@Satyamevjayatenews999 when we read something different questions arises in our minds,to answer those question there should be one who knows about it,so our teachers used to answer all the questions we asked! That's wht my point is,our teachers were open about it!

    • @Satyamevjayatenews999
      @Satyamevjayatenews999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lubnaazad8036 sorry but for those questions you can use your own brain and internet because 99% women's also have zero knowledge and books are not enough. Like for example there is no need of violent or aggressiveness while having intimacy or even child bearing it's bad sex, STI infections happens with first timers too and protection can not prevent STI infections. Second 100% women's get serval infections after marriage and one day some gets cancer. STI infections are caused of female cancer and if this is true then how can after marriage women's are getting cancer ??from their non infected hubby?? Third it's not your stomach which is paining after sex it's your womb which is got swelled badly. Forth, ectopic pregnancy is results of bad sex and Infections, sometimes the infections reach to womb then fallopian tube results it's damaged fallopian tube. Once you get ectopic pregnancy it's took 7,8 or 10 years to get pregnant and sometimes that day never arise. Why we women's get infections because of this method men semen contain very dangerous harmful bacteria and viruses, which is need warmth environment to grow when they goes inside they grow results infections. You bleed, injuried, swelled but still everything is okk because men are fine. Last but not in the list this method is taken from animal matings no medical science ever done any research then even our ancestors learn this from animals. This method was accepted from medical because they thought sperms are very slow but recently with 3d microscope it's found out that sperms are 3d fast and they swim in self drilling and spinning methods.. and this knowledge I have gained from my own research the whole research where taken by multiple original women's and ofcourse some original and rightful study..

    • @lubnaazad8036
      @lubnaazad8036 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Satyamevjayatenews999 If reading books,searching on internet nd using brain could have answered every question thn we shouldn't had to go to school..we always need guidance nd guidance is given by those who knows about certain things..Teachers also give us guidance nd answer to those questions which we can't get anywhere else...

  • @sarthakmittal6295
    @sarthakmittal6295 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I have heard exactly the same line "sex should only happen between married couples"

  • @vampire4244
    @vampire4244 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Our Biology teacher is quite open about this and he teaches these kinda topics without creating any awkwardness in a co-ed class (& there's no student giggling or anything while he teaches that). I'm glad about that and Indian schools need such teachers

  • @ridhimamahajan4618
    @ridhimamahajan4618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    I remember I was in 8th grade in a co-ed school when we had a reproductive lesson in biology and our teacher explain us about the period and guys problems too. At that time we became so shy like it's shouldn't be taught in boys and boys situation in front of girl's but now we understand why she did it

    • @Jack-rx3qb
      @Jack-rx3qb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      what boys sitution are you talking about ??

    • @methcat5005
      @methcat5005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      oho this makes me realise even less teachers discuss boys problems

  • @asiandramalove9996
    @asiandramalove9996 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    As an Indian myself I think it is very important for teenagers (especially girls )to learn about this. Learning to say NO and significance of consent and protection is very crucial. I hate the narrow-minded thoughts of Indian society.

  • @manasichaudhari2604
    @manasichaudhari2604 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Grateful that we were given basic level sex education in school , things like condom and it’s use, HIV virus , STDs , male and female anatomy
    So much that I know about the HIV virus even today was taught to me in school like how it spreads and what are repercussions of unprotected sex. And this was 12 years ago when I was 14

  • @naveenpatil9647
    @naveenpatil9647 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    i love irony in title "dirty talk" 😂
    exactly how hush hush it is in our society!

    • @yamini436
      @yamini436 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      But still we are the second most populated country in the world lol!

  • @reewrite
    @reewrite 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You're so good. I'm 27 and I'm so happy to see people talk about it more openly nowadays, whereas in my time we were made to feel awkward even by our group of friends among ourselves cuz everyone thought it's a taboo to talk sex. Also as an educator myself, I would totally try educating my students about their body. Because reproductive organs are part of our body and we all deserve to know our body and their functions.

  • @it_g_102_riturajburnwal6
    @it_g_102_riturajburnwal6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    I sometimes doubt my board marks in Biology since I don't understand some IMPORTANT FUNCTIONS of my own body .....😑
    Only married people can have it was something which was drilled in our minds too in school. I mean people get married around or over 26 now. Some don't choose to get married.The world is changing so should it's rules.

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Absolutely.

    • @ankurchaudhary7892
      @ankurchaudhary7892 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yeah sexstream should be done on youtube so we can learn.......

  • @naizadhoble3310
    @naizadhoble3310 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    So in my school, boys were sent out of the classroom and we girls were only told by the teacher 'You will get periods after certain changes in your body' . She didn't even explain what periods are. Thats so poor of them tbh!

  • @vampire4244
    @vampire4244 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    It's such a normal & a common thing which gets discussed almost in every other class if you are a biology student of 11-12 grade or a medico. But again, not everyone opts biology. But everyone definitely needs sex education & that's where the problem lies.

  • @nairitbiswas6567
    @nairitbiswas6567 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I just lovvve the editings ..❤️ Every video gets all the more engaging & exhaustive 😄
    Thanks for awesome content !🙂

  • @ritusingh8578
    @ritusingh8578 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm glad that my biology teacher was decent enough to explain everything. She didn't speak much about consent, but she did mention that we need to be mentally ready and should not be affected by peer pressure, how our body functions, and about contraception.
    She did more than other teachers do, and I'm thankful for it

  • @mohammedsafwan3517
    @mohammedsafwan3517 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Luckily our teacher was very open about it and taught us as if it werr any other chapter, and that's soo great on her behalf.
    *Of course we were giggling*

  • @diyasaini2392
    @diyasaini2392 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Okay but looking at taneesho ig and yt her parents seems really educated and cool with her.. and she is pretty rich as well so she obviously went to a good school in Mumbai right? So it's hard to believe what she said about her teacher coz if in big schools like her's these stuff happens..

    • @shivani4824
      @shivani4824 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly I was looking for this type of comment

    • @aanandax
      @aanandax 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      fr what she said sounds a bit made up, tho i wouldnt be surprised if it is cause these self proclaimed influencers act so fake anyway

    • @yamini436
      @yamini436 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah self proclaimed gen z stars lol!

    • @diyasaini2392
      @diyasaini2392 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@aanandax idkaybe she is just trying to build up her career.. coz said that she wanna be a director or something and this way she can be recognized in good books of common people... I mean come on she studies in Boston girls... her whole friend circle is from kinda influential families...all of them are TH-camrs🤣 .. just like sejal kumar..

    • @aanandax
      @aanandax 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@diyasaini2392 agreed, but that doesn’t give her the right to portray a negative image of our school systems, we already know it’s bad enough. Adding fake narratives just to jump on the bandwagon and appear “relatable” isn’t cool. Tho again what she said might be true, it’s just veryyyy unlikely.

  • @AMJ564
    @AMJ564 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The only sex ed that I got was *Zygote*
    And *Mitrochondia* is the powerhouse of a cell.

  • @meowuuwuwu
    @meowuuwuwu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    pretty happy my school and teachers discuss this topic without feeling embarassed or implying it as "shameful"

  • @suckersforbts5299
    @suckersforbts5299 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Reading all these comments make me feel so sad. I was lucky here however, I went to a coed and we had classes on sex ed and it was taken by our vice principal who is a phd and also a male . He spoke about everything from menstruation to consent and everything needed. I feel every school needs to have such teachers. 💌

  • @sruthimedarametla9202
    @sruthimedarametla9202 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am a med student and 19 years old but we were never taught about this stuff in any stage. Honestly right now I have nill knowledge. I always wondered how people knew this stuff

  • @Nithi_vit_vlogs
    @Nithi_vit_vlogs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Wattpad is a great teacher

    • @porenesionparapio6302
      @porenesionparapio6302 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I- ahem gotta agree tho

    • @Nithi_vit_vlogs
      @Nithi_vit_vlogs 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@porenesionparapio6302 totally

    • @moo9293
      @moo9293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂absolutely

    • @fettyeap8930
      @fettyeap8930 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Got my whole sex ed there , m pretty every Wattpad user has a better sex education ( things like consent , pleasure , kinks , protection , different sexualities n stuff ) than any other who's gotten their sex ed thru an conservative setting.

  • @alankrutapiyu
    @alankrutapiyu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    We had been given very little sex ed during school and maximum number of things I have learnt is from social media or any real life experience and it's sad that even today the country's education system is not doing anything about it. It's still considered as a taboo and hushed down. And even when we are taught anything about it, it's mostly just because we have chapters on reproduction in biology or else we're taught things that are not entirely correct.

  • @mlleharshi5783
    @mlleharshi5783 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's so true.
    I was also in an all girls institution. While it was not as extreme as the first teacher explained with shame, guilt and hell. The biological part with the second was relatable.
    At home nobody even talks about that, neither to me or my siblings. Although it was unconsciously understood that this is a bad thing and "you are a good girl".
    Thankfully, I was subscribed to a library. I mostly learned things through books and magazines.
    And yes, with the advent of technology you eventually get access to porn like you said. To watch the physical act was a horror to me as well.
    I guess I'm also grateful to a lot of you tubers who talk about the other aspects of it. Like consent and pleasure for example.
    In the end, you have to find your own way to educate yourself i suppose and be as aware as you can.
    Because you also have to know when to say no or when someone may try to be close to you without you understanding what's even happening.
    Thank you for this video. You are not alone in this. Stay connected with friends. Speak up and speak out.

  • @idkwhattonamemyself9326
    @idkwhattonamemyself9326 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    This channel is underrated.

  • @khushbukapoor597
    @khushbukapoor597 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Totally agreed 💯💯
    Great video👏

  • @prithamukherjee5008
    @prithamukherjee5008 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Its so good that you actually "dare" to come up with a topic like this. Given that in a society we live where sex is considered a stigma. Sex isn't, ignorance is. Moving on.. I am a 21 year old woman and I last year gotta know that women eat chocolate on her periods, that too from a MALE.
    I've been highly ignorant and have built it in my head that I WILL HAVE TO STAY AWAY FROM ALL SUCH THINGS TILL I GET MARRIED.
    I really gave the crap up when I saw everyone around me.. knowing every fucking thing whereas I was being bullied for not knowing anything. I really am ashamed of myself and I pity myself.
    My dad is ashamed when mentioned about periods infront of him, and my mom got married at the age of 18. So can't really expect anything.

  • @shubhalaxmimishra8816
    @shubhalaxmimishra8816 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am studying in class 9 icse board. In class 8 there is a chapter reproduction system in biology. In this chapter there is everything like about girl's menstrual cycle and boys semen and also about puberty and adolescence and also how in that time boys and girls sex attracted to each other. Really our sir taught this chapter infront of everyone girls and boys and also there is no problem and every student should know about this sex education. It is very important. After reading most of the comments. I very happy that I am not from that like stereotypes school.

    • @nutanjha2694
      @nutanjha2694 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same sister.I am also from icse board as well as in class 8 th standard now.And really our mam taught it in a very good way.I am proud that my parents chose the best for me

    • @devanshipandey1429
      @devanshipandey1429 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same dude, even I was in class 8 (ICSE) last year and we covered this chapter without much hush hush or other nonsense. It shouldn't be such a big deal to talk about sex.. hopefully the next generation won't experience all this nonsense. At least a part of it.

    • @shubhalaxmimishra8816
      @shubhalaxmimishra8816 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@devanshipandey1429 right ,wow we are in the same class. Nice🥰🥰🥰

  • @musicbeast_
    @musicbeast_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sometimes the people we like don’t like us back, and there’s nothing you can do about it.
    Speaking words of wisdom as per usual is none other than Otis. And in this particular instance, he is putting the finger right where it hurts. We've all been there. Thousands of songs, poems, and plays were written dealing with the tremendous ordeal that is unrequited love. And it hurts like few other things in this life.
    But it's going to happen. Someday, somehow, you'll fall in love with someone who won't love you back. And there is absolutely nothing we can do aside from dealing with it and moving on to someone who will appreciate us and take our love with open arms and a huge smile on their face.

  • @annikatandon8544
    @annikatandon8544 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    in my school there used to be a class in of only girls where they used to teach us that we as a girls should always wear tight clothes and should not post pictures on social media, we should not not go outside our house alone at night i used to be soo pissed off after these sessions

  • @zuhasajid900
    @zuhasajid900 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I am Pakistani so sex ed is even more restricted 😅 we had a small chapter about sex in 8th class and girls were very excited its was a girls school my teacher closed the door and just told us about in a very very technical manner instead of talking about the act she mostly talked about pregnancy and didn't said any thing about safe sex just told us that there are contraceptives that can help prevent pregnancy and thats it.. it was 5 min talk nobody gathered much knowledege from it , but atleast she didn't said that vagina only opens for one man🤣🤣 i heard that somewhere and its hilarious.. but its sad very sad we k ow so little about our body i didn't knew that a female body has three holes 🤭 learned it last year and i am 21!

    • @ameysarode6232
      @ameysarode6232 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Bhavya 👀💜 sorry mam I have just having fun I dindt mean to offend ❤️🙏🍗

    • @ameysarode6232
      @ameysarode6232 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Bhavya 👀💜 ig u need to chill sometimes unnecessary rage is not good....

    • @zuhasajid900
      @zuhasajid900 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ameysarode6232 i am sorry what just happened in my post🤣🤣

    • @ameysarode6232
      @ameysarode6232 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@zuhasajid900 ik its comical but its cool🤣cooling down the stranger especially🤣🤣

    • @ameysarode6232
      @ameysarode6232 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@zuhasajid900 I will be surprised if u say u r a doctor now 😂😂🤣

  • @krispy5678
    @krispy5678 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Im glad that teachers in my school pretty well taught the chapter of reproduction in grade 8 and 10. And my parents are gynecologists (and my mom taught those chapter to me at home) so i basically grew up knowing about this things and were normal for me to discuss so i was open about discussing it with my classmates and kinda solve their questions. And now im 12th bio student so i basically always try to educate people on these topics if they are discussed :)

  • @vedikas4230
    @vedikas4230 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was exactly my experience back in school!

  • @vedanshchn
    @vedanshchn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    TBH we were given acceptable amount of sex ed at school 😅
    I mean of course not explicitly, but the teacher still taught it well considering the scenario across the community country and made it very obvious what she was talking about.
    She definitely didn't talk of marriage and stuff and yeah, the different measures to prevent pregnancy too were discussed. After all, it was in the syllabus. She even drew the diagrams on the board and we we're asked to draw in our notebook.
    P.SI love my school regardless.

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      We’re so glad there was at least this much effort put into your school! We hope other schools catch on quick and provide even better, more detailed education because it’s very important.

  • @annipaul91
    @annipaul91 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    During my time sex ed in school was never like that. Like telling the kids can't abort or have to have sex with husband etc. Either the teacher used to only read what is there in the chapter or just skip the chapter by telling it is not going to come in exam this year. But once there was a seminar in our school about HIV and I remember they closed all the windows and doors of the classroom before starting it like something forbidden 🙈 is going to happen but was explained very well.

  • @Shriya-pp1vw
    @Shriya-pp1vw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Our school is quite professional about it so ,we as students too ask the teachers about these topics in a professional way

  • @kanishkarreddy7988
    @kanishkarreddy7988 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good content and explaination

  • @riseup773
    @riseup773 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    At least they taught you guys something thank god. The only form of sex ed we had was a talk on periods. Plus even in that case, the boys weren't educated. They were made to sit in another class and we were instructed not to tell them a lot about periods, like wth!?. (Ps, this was 2 years ago). But even still, we don't have "the talk". Not in school nor home. I just wish that many people are told about consent and about what sex really is. Let's just break the taboo on this topic guys
    ( I heard a lot of you guys talking about the reproduction chapter. Well in our school, that chapter was omitted from the syllabus. Great right?)

  • @niharika2871
    @niharika2871 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am gonna share my experience in lX when our library teacher told us to speak abt women on women's day and I used the words like rape and sexual abuse and she is like don't speak about that kind of things in front of boys.......and at that time I thought it's a mistake,and now I have realised it's not...... please teachers everyone should know about thisss🙆

  • @Amansingh-hz4rj
    @Amansingh-hz4rj 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    We need such bold girls ..! Kudos👍

  • @dishagujarathi5146
    @dishagujarathi5146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so glad that the school I went to had a transition we went from having Sex Ed different to boys and girls. To one day our biology teacher coming in and explaining us a beautiful aspects of child birth and all. and how it is important to have consent and never force anyone and that pleasure is good only that you must not over do it. Etc. He would talk about it and sooon It all got normalized in our school

  • @afrizabupivacaine126
    @afrizabupivacaine126 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    in 10th we were taught abt sex ed so theory wise and the whole class was confused as to what was happening! i bet we all are still confused now since we know so little!

  • @8bhoomigandhi9g67
    @8bhoomigandhi9g67 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I realized i don't have any idea about it and yeah tf school,they need to teach please ✋😭

  • @nenu7555
    @nenu7555 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What she is said absolutely right..... nobody teaches in school to lie, beat,or cheat..but we know sometimes we do this once we grow up for survival....
    So don't criticize... just don't think this and concentrate on building career and then all this.

  • @sachinpokhrel_
    @sachinpokhrel_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This teacher is every other one in India!!

  • @disgusting2669
    @disgusting2669 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This year in 12 th I understood everything..
    Thanks to our Biology sir

  • @surabhims5047
    @surabhims5047 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Whatever she Shared absolute truth about the girls only schools!

  • @thesagittariuzz.
    @thesagittariuzz. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    In school we never been told about different sexuality like bisexual , pansexual and soon they just taught us about gay and lesbians . Through internet I got to know about this all sexuality I just wanna say that students should be educated about different sexuality so that in future they won't be confuse or questions about their own sexuality

  • @vaibhavigandhi6889
    @vaibhavigandhi6889 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is soooo true!!!!!

  • @syandananair6115
    @syandananair6115 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hahaha ! I loved watching this 😂❤️.
    I think all of us went through this back in our school days. 😅💯

  • @sanyasharma9702
    @sanyasharma9702 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    it is so disappointing that how these biology teachers literally skipped the reproduction in humans

    • @pradyumanpandey2079
      @pradyumanpandey2079 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      READ IT BY YOURSELF ! AND U ARE BEHAVING LIKE AS IF YOU DONT KNOW A SINGLE ASPECT OF IT !🌝🌚

    • @sanyasharma9702
      @sanyasharma9702 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@pradyumanpandey2079 then why the fuck were biology teachers hired in school . There are much more terminologies involved other than 'What is SEX'

    • @methcat5005
      @methcat5005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      this aint related but i heard from a neet kid that her biology teacher(botany, specifically) skipped mental health part cuz he didnt believe its real.

  • @sakshipal6913
    @sakshipal6913 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I learned about sex ed now at the age 19 after watching Netflix show sex education I am a biology student still I can tell you that no one taught us also it's so disheartening this video still can't do anything it's government responsibility in our school we had this period workshop which was so ridiculous they Taught us all the myths 😑 #government_should_do_something_serious

    • @sruthimedarametla9202
      @sruthimedarametla9202 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am a med student. But I actually know nothing. Well, I am gonna watch that series now.

  • @ishitabhattacharyya9882
    @ishitabhattacharyya9882 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the exact same thing happened with us. We were continuously sexualized all throughout our school lives, for instance, the length of our skirts mattered more than anything else! we never had any such proper sex ed sessions and we were from a girls' school as well! the first time i knew about sex (properly) was in the 11th standard (no, i dint have biology) and i got to know it from one of my classmates back then. It was really so embarrassing cuz everybody knew what it was all about, except me lol and i laugh to this day thinking about it! Strange how schools and parents never talk to us about such an important topic! I really hope the system changes soon

  • @ahanaroychoudhuri
    @ahanaroychoudhuri 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    From the comment section I can say that my school did a much better job of teaching us about sex than the rest. Atleast my teacher taught everything related to menstrual cycle, she explained the whole diagram of male and female reproductive system and we went to a co-ed school. Didn't realised till today that whatever little she taught was far more than the regularity and I'm extremely happy and grateful for that.

  • @harshapriyadarshini6997
    @harshapriyadarshini6997 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    My science teacher in class 10th was like : I think you know all these stuffs.. let's move to the next chapter. I'll provide you the questions which generally come in the boards.
    Wtf - _ -

    • @lubhita_10
      @lubhita_10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Next year I'll be in 10 th hope our teachers don't do shit like this 🤡

    • @pradyumanpandey2079
      @pradyumanpandey2079 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lubhita_10 u are too early in this !!!

    • @lubhita_10
      @lubhita_10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@pradyumanpandey2079 I've been taught puberty and all of that in 8th. And also it isn't too early I've got just few months left to read about this Ch in 10th

    • @manansharma6348
      @manansharma6348 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      dps wale hogay?

  • @potterhead2633
    @potterhead2633 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    SO TRUE LIKE SOO TRUE
    My teacher just skipped the chapter lol...

  • @surendarkumaragarwal2689
    @surendarkumaragarwal2689 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nice ❤️

  • @aadityanuragwaths6254
    @aadityanuragwaths6254 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sex education should be taught before high school ... And there should also be written that women are not objects as shown in the porn industry

  • @deepakkumarprajapati1053
    @deepakkumarprajapati1053 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I took commerce due to in 10th class chapter 8 skip by my school teacher and now I am doing CA

  • @shraddha_39
    @shraddha_39 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    In our school for biology there was a sir when it came to teach that lesson he said read that lesson for yourself if you don't have any of this came and ask me personally .....👀🤷

  • @kunalchahal4918
    @kunalchahal4918 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG I REMEMBER IT IN BIOLOGY CLASS IN 10TH GRADE OUR TEACHER SHUT THE WINDOWS AND DOORS AND OUR INCHARGE WAS WATCHING EVERYONE FROM THE MIRROR IN THE DOOR AND WHOEVER WAS LAUGHING SHE PUNISHED THEM LIKE WTF WE DIDNT KNEW ANYTHING BUT WE DID KNEW LOL!! WE GAVE THAT EYE LOOK TO EVERYONE IN THE CLASS AND AFTER THAT AT THE END OF THE PERIOD WE WERE LAUGHING OM THE LESSON N ALL AND ALSO IN GRADE 12 th in BIOLOGY CLASS OUR SIR WAS SO OPEN TO IT THATS WAS COMMENDABLE

  • @highflyer6610
    @highflyer6610 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    god!! My sex-ed classes were way chill. Yaa, I know CBSE doesn't teach about consent and all, they only focus on biology and protection. But, no one told me that i should have sex only after marriage and other bullshit. Rather i should appraise my ma'am for giving me an important life lesson.
    P.s- i didn't went to a very fancy school. Its a normal CBSE school in Gujarat.

  • @shwetashah1269
    @shwetashah1269 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Guys anyone here who went to vts in mumbai anyone???? Also @taneeshow i really get wat u went through cause i was exactly there with u 🤌🤌

  • @dookie8649
    @dookie8649 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    In my class it was all normal and open,teacher was very open about it and no religion was involved and she even made jokes to make us feel comfortable and i feel like in my state sex ed is pretty normalised because i have seen a lot of people complaining about sex ed in india 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • @ahanaroychoudhuri
    @ahanaroychoudhuri 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This sounded so much like she went to a hindi medium school in the 80s or 90s

  • @ibaadatj1062
    @ibaadatj1062 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sad reality in India!

  • @rithanyaya6271
    @rithanyaya6271 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Forget abt sex Ed. I studied in an all girls school. Once classes 10th-12th had a discussion with the teachers regarding our excursion. Even then when a female teacher was speaking about sanitary napkins and the good old "dress code 🙂(ya u heard tat right -for an excursion) the male staff were asked to go out and the doors and windows were ShUt! 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️why is it so secretly discussed ? Even the ppl in my class are shy to speak about periods(being in a girls school it sounds ridiculous😐but true)

  • @pj_33
    @pj_33 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    People don't understand that it's just a bollywood or Hollywood movie, completely fictional, scripted, directed, made to look like in a certain way, that the people doing the act are mere actors, and it is definitely not a place to take Sex education

  • @lasyagajavelli594
    @lasyagajavelli594 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm 22 and it's still too technical for me.

  • @lipikax
    @lipikax 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Idk why but learning sex ed by yourself sounds reasonable, because the only way to learn something is through curiosity.

  • @TheThinkPlace
    @TheThinkPlace 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a real problem.....the first-time me and my girlfriend had sex she got UTI. And we both are equally scared as how did it happened and what to do now! At that time I was 23 and she was 22 and I had no idea what is UTI and why it happens. Luckily my girlfriend's elder sister came up and told us about that in details and after consulting with a gynaecologist she got cured.

  • @anshumanchoudhary4732
    @anshumanchoudhary4732 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As a guy, my school is over and I am still waiting for any sort of class which even resembles 'Sex Ed'.I remember all the girls being called sometimes to the auditorium(no idea what happened there though), but never were we called and taught anything about Sex.No wonder why so many boys turn out to be disrespectful towards women/alwas sexualise women etc.Fortunately I'm not one of these guys! Hurray!! :)

  • @perfectbros6060
    @perfectbros6060 ปีที่แล้ว

    sad no freinds to talk

  • @meanho3
    @meanho3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Well I'm in an ARMY(BTS) hard stan grp chat & there r three elder women two of them are married & they're so nice & sweet & they're like if u have any doubts or such related to sex & all they explain it to us & I'm very grateful to them
    Like we have these sex education every once a month
    Couldn't be thankful enough 💕💕

  • @40urshitadas71
    @40urshitadas71 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    using the word "trauma" or "traumatised" for normal incidents isn't okay, unless it was an actual "traumatic event".

  • @sakshiSingh-nb7cm
    @sakshiSingh-nb7cm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I remember my entire class covering the photos of our reproductive system in our biology book with their pencil cases Lmao also I dont even remember if the chapter was taught or just skipped.

  • @shIvAm2641996
    @shIvAm2641996 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    There was no sex education subject in our school. Not even in college.

  • @KiwiSingh
    @KiwiSingh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Our high school biology teacher used to call it 'the process'. She was too scared to even SAY the word 'sex'.

  • @harshithm.y724
    @harshithm.y724 ปีที่แล้ว

    Our parents and soceity are the real reason we are not allowed to talk and explore our desires.

  • @poorvisingh232
    @poorvisingh232 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So abruptly ended?

  • @vaishnavizz318
    @vaishnavizz318 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girlllll...trust me.. this was same w/ me

  • @shalinisreedharan4656
    @shalinisreedharan4656 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sessions at school on Sex Ed & LGBTQ is a need for the future!

  • @shalinisreedharan4656
    @shalinisreedharan4656 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    1.For a long time I had believed that if I don't get periods on the date means I'm pregnant! Once it got delayed by 2 days or so & I just freaked out! I didn't sleep for a few days!
    2. No one educates us about ovulation phase. I was completely ignorant on the topic. I thought I've developed some sort of kidney disorder! I was afraid to ask maa about it!
    After I got my phone when I turned 19, I googled and became aware!
    I wish we had a class for sex Ed & general awareness!

  • @Rtb911
    @Rtb911 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think the other boy is Archit in the animation

  • @wingardiumleviosar6971
    @wingardiumleviosar6971 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well i was little 🤏 lucky as i dont know how but our whole group knew about it and when its our time to first read that chapter with our female principal its like a horrible experience ... We was looking more nervous than our teacher and its our first time(of course) but also for teacher...
    So i just gathered my all class mates(boys and girls) before class and told them to please don't laugh do whatever you want but please dont laugh so that our teacher was not get embarrassed and boom it happened no one was laughing and thats why our teacher explain it(i dont think student got any new thing bcoz they all knew about it better than my mam explaining) but thats horrible experience uff 😅😅
    Also from then our teacher always explain it briefly to our juniors even when they laugh.

    • @wingardiumleviosar6971
      @wingardiumleviosar6971 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And also an interesting one we are (actually only one boy) discussing to mam(very innocently that even it doesn't look weird... mtlb mujhe likhne me ajeeb lg rha hai pr us tym. usne pucha tha tb nhi lg rha tha)about what if monkeys replace our reproductive part then who born monkey or human??? ( well still i am thinking 😅)

  • @shitsedits1875
    @shitsedits1875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I knew taneesho was going to be in the next video, lol

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And the next?

    • @shitsedits1875
      @shitsedits1875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Dobara Agasthya Shah ?!! 🤔

  • @aryana8823
    @aryana8823 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This exactly happened to most of the student...teachers are kinda inhibited while they are teaching human reproduction...maybe its bcz of some of us like us give some solicit remark in this chapter...somewhere we all ought to change this inconsequential myth....

  • @zafeirasiga8217
    @zafeirasiga8217 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    People are insecure of there body😢

  • @justaphase2593
    @justaphase2593 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    she is from villa theresa high school

  • @aarushi9568
    @aarushi9568 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks ❤

  • @sanjanak2514
    @sanjanak2514 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    U had a sex Ed class!!! Nobody spoke of sex education during my school days. I didnt even kenw it was a thing.When I had my period first time I thought I was dying of cancer and didn't tell mom thinking she would be traumatized.

  • @AdiHasArrived
    @AdiHasArrived 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been into masturbation for the past two years now. In the pandemic, I would try to go online and join these online communities based on certain kinks. Honestly, it was an okayish experience. There were a lot of creeps and weird weird weird pictures and people. So that kinda makes me anxious now. I feel scarred, lol.

  • @nomadicfilmiindian3967
    @nomadicfilmiindian3967 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow