Why Should Women Be Slut Shamed when Men Aren't? | Dirty Talk ft.

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  • ‪@AgasthyaShah‬ tells the story of a boy shamed for not wanting to have sex (and girls shamed for wanting to.)
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  • @petraalbatra9898
    @petraalbatra9898 2 ปีที่แล้ว +435

    The content as always is top notch. But how can anyone not talking about these animations? They are just so dope!

    • @user404notfound3
      @user404notfound3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Assalamwalaikum Irshad hazrath,
      Hazrath isah e sawab mein kya hein to bhi pad ko phooke ke toh (Kalima,surah, Quran) marhoomeen ko pounch tha kya? Unnko hamara sawab miltha kya

  • @user-yd1nk1qy8g
    @user-yd1nk1qy8g 2 ปีที่แล้ว +613

    Is he a student of India!! The story of that shower after basketball, and house party and all, dude they are living Netflix series life😅, The difference is so clear!

    • @user-yd1nk1qy8g
      @user-yd1nk1qy8g 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@yesitsme3722 seriously! 😂

    • @user-yd1nk1qy8g
      @user-yd1nk1qy8g 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@yesitsme3722 look at the comment section 🤣 as if they r also part of the same culture! 😅

    • @user-yd1nk1qy8g
      @user-yd1nk1qy8g 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@yesitsme3722 same bruh! 😭😅

    • @pranavgopal2319
      @pranavgopal2319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Exactly i felt it was totally scripted i think their college is inspired by sex education on netflix

    • @user-yd1nk1qy8g
      @user-yd1nk1qy8g 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@pranavgopal2319 😂😂 and then u realise it's their school not college 😖😭

  • @anubhovmenon4405
    @anubhovmenon4405 2 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    This must be a relatable content for just the rich & privileged class people from South Delhi South Bombay coz I don't think any of us middle class boys faced anything like this growing up.

    • @pranavgopal2319
      @pranavgopal2319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Depressed MemerExactly. That guy is from south Bombay i guess

    • @DedmeenY2K
      @DedmeenY2K 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Depressed Memer xd

    • @khatiaxomiyakela2497
      @khatiaxomiyakela2497 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@hardyaroy2303 mere school toh alg level ka tha. Dusre school ke saath fight tha aur mera principal us school ko apne naam pe karna chahta tha.

    • @prathameshdurge3922
      @prathameshdurge3922 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yee sabb chutiya saale ...inke clg padhiya ke alava sab kuch hota hai ...

    • @monalishabal4910
      @monalishabal4910 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Indian Blackpill soo true 😂

  • @Moitreyee473
    @Moitreyee473 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Well I also had asked my bf once and he strictly didn't want to have any physical relationship as he said it can distract him from his preparations. I respected his decision and I think it's quiet normal for men to not give consent in having sex. Idk why some people has this idea of toxic masculinity in them that a "real man" is always ready for it. That's such a narrow mentality.

    • @pranavgopal2319
      @pranavgopal2319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Well ur matured enough 😌 to understand that!! And he took a really good decision for himself.

    • @pranavgopal2319
      @pranavgopal2319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Sameeran Mohanta ok boomer! Leave it to the choice of an individual

    • @ddevilfromhell97
      @ddevilfromhell97 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Sameeran Mohanta we came from polygamy to monogamy and now back to polygamy in future.

    • @samuraijosh1595
      @samuraijosh1595 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ddevilfromhell97 Yeah, regression.

  • @urvipawar2717
    @urvipawar2717 2 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    This kind of content is really helpful periodt.

    • @himanshu1590
      @himanshu1590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Truee.... 😁

    • @user404notfound3
      @user404notfound3 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Assalamwalaikum Irshad hazrath,
      Hazrath isah e sawab mein kya hein to bhi pad ko phooke ke toh (Kalima,surah, Quran) marhoomeen ko pounch tha kya? Unnko hamara sawab miltha kya

  • @rahularoli4579
    @rahularoli4579 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Lets all be Honest...Most of us can't relate to this( yeah,most ...I am not saying all). We cant even construct the Idea around what he is saying because about 98% of us Indians havent experienced this. I was from a school where as you can guess that Boys and Girls were not supposed to be even seen together. As you can all guess the name of this Instituition is the Glorious "Kendriya Vidyalaya". Ya maybe some of the People here can Relate to this but I guess its not that common in India. Manhh!! Indian Society is so underdeveloped that it is even considered Taboo to talk about sex, no wonder we are the 2nd most populated country in this world.

    • @abhishekhire549
      @abhishekhire549 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same!!
      Not even able to talk with my bestie
      Even if we talk,
      Few students were like do you have a crush on her?☠
      And my class teacher was like Boys and Girls should not talk together
      WTF

    • @rahularoli4579
      @rahularoli4579 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@abhishekhire549 yeahh...so true man,its like we cant catch a break.

    • @anomaly9156
      @anomaly9156 ปีที่แล้ว

      As someone who's living in the US after immigration from India, appreciate it. Depending on where you live, the drama is real. At least it's peaceful there...

  • @shivanshsaini9956
    @shivanshsaini9956 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    After listening to this I felt like i am living in a different decade

  • @pranavgopal2319
    @pranavgopal2319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    In india when did hooking up culture evolved? Which universe is he talking about at 17 having a girlfriend is only a greatest feat 😂 These things generally happen in an environment where people are extremely liberal and a highly rich class colleges i guess

    • @ur_holy_6936
      @ur_holy_6936 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      lmao, same thought

    • @AMMight
      @AMMight 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Yeah exactly
      I am 17 and I have never talked to a girl properly and I bet that's the most common thing for Indian boys. We live in a gender segregated conservative society.

    • @ur_holy_6936
      @ur_holy_6936 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@AMMight true that

    • @teabag4779
      @teabag4779 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Dudeee shoo trueeeee
      no hate to the video or anything but neither can I relate not do I understand which collage or school he talking about iam in 12 have not face or seen a single thing like that. Same thing happens here too na makes me feels ways back time or idk man it's like kaha see hoo tum loggggggg

    • @guy.1298
      @guy.1298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      These people are super rich they think hookup culture is a norm in india since their friends are into it. They are oblivious of reality.

  • @savageboy4251
    @savageboy4251 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is too fictional for Indian kids to be like this .. sounds more like an American high-school drama being described

  • @just_me_0.0
    @just_me_0.0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Omg I've loved all the episodes so far. Like I love how open minded you all are! Thank you for this!

    • @user404notfound3
      @user404notfound3 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Assalamwalaikum Irshad hazrath,
      Hazrath isah e sawab mein kya hein to bhi pad ko phooke ke toh (Kalima,surah, Quran) marhoomeen ko pounch tha kya? Unnko hamara sawab miltha kya

  • @swanandiapar6040
    @swanandiapar6040 2 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    I am loving this series♥️

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      yay thank you!

    • @user404notfound3
      @user404notfound3 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Assalamwalaikum Irshad hazrath,
      Hazrath isah e sawab mein kya hein to bhi pad ko phooke ke toh (Kalima,surah, Quran) marhoomeen ko pounch tha kya? Unnko hamara sawab miltha kya

  • @sunandinighosh6037
    @sunandinighosh6037 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I am 19 and I never was in a relationship 🙂

    • @DedmeenY2K
      @DedmeenY2K 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same Bhai mera toh koi female friend bhi nahi hai 🥲🥲

    • @sunandinighosh6037
      @sunandinighosh6037 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No no I don't feel bad...I am just saying how are these guys getting in a relationship in school when all we did in school was pen fights and stealing chalks??? especially in india

    • @himanshu1590
      @himanshu1590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sunandinighosh6037 ohh man, seriously same thing 😅... And the pen fight u r talking about that's the same thing i used to do when i was in school 😂 and was not knowing about relationships that time. And now ik abt it but i m single .

    • @monalishabal4910
      @monalishabal4910 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too 😂. No one in my class was in relationship , everyone was studying for competitive exams.

    • @sampreeth6575
      @sampreeth6575 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      DIDI, BOHT SAARE LOGO KE NHI HOTE.... CAREER KO ACHCHA BANANE KE LIYE APNE AAP KO PREPARE KARNE KE TIME PE ITNA DIMAAG LAGANA WASTE OF TIME HAI... NOT SAYING KI CAREER 11-12 SE HI BNTE HAI BUT SOMEONE WHO HAS WORKED THEIR ASS OFF IN THIS TIME WILL BE ABLE TO DO MUCH MORE BETTER THINGS IN FUTURE JUST COZ OF MORE EXPERIENCE OF BEING UNDER PRESSURE AND ACHIEVING GOALS

  • @naina4288
    @naina4288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +381

    guys are praised into hookup culture, but who are they hooking up with???? women right??? (most of the times) then why are y’all shaming us💀✋🏼
    edit: why are y'all so mad in the comments lmao

    • @femmefatale3598
      @femmefatale3598 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      @Sameeran Mohanta don't believe in this alpha_beta bullsh*t. It is just plain stupid.

    • @naina4288
      @naina4288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      @Sameeran Mohanta this all concept of "alpha" males is just an amplifier of toxic masculinity, also i know not all guys do this, i was just talking about how they are praised into hookup culture by society. at the end of the day i think you should do whatever you want as long as your hurting anyone

    • @naina4288
      @naina4288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Sameeran Mohanta this is your personal experience and i get that, but what are you implying?

    • @booknook127
      @booknook127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Sameeran Mohanta what u said it's true but do u understand what alpha means lol the head of a werewolf pack is called alpha lmaooooo

    • @booknook127
      @booknook127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Sameeran Mohanta yeah I get but I don't think all men who are confident and can hook up before marriage or finding love are alphas and I totally understand what are u trying to say

  • @dekngamtato4218
    @dekngamtato4218 2 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    Is it scripted or he really genuinely says I can't believe these good mentality male do exist I have a guts feeling our society will become better because of these kind of boy's

    • @vyomgarg3742
      @vyomgarg3742 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Ummmm, I really don't think it was scripted.. but that's whatever.. the main concern I had with this comment was that yeah people like him really do exist.. only a few maybe, but they do.. our society will become better but it will take a long time.. we gotta educate more people and speak up whenever someone is doing something wrong..

    • @shiwanginaithani9759
      @shiwanginaithani9759 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@guy.1298 aapproch him? for what

    • @GEO_________________________24
      @GEO_________________________24 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shut up.

  • @niksniks5307
    @niksniks5307 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Who are these 17 year olds who have done everything than most adults lol

    • @ahelisen7509
      @ahelisen7509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was thinking the same thing

    • @saptarshidas481
      @saptarshidas481 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Rich south Bombay kids

  • @lassi8205
    @lassi8205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Love this...also a point id like to add is that asexual people exist too...including asexual guys. I do feel that sex as a topic needs to be discussed more especially about consent and safe sex and all and that it shouldn't be such a taboo (especially for girls) BUT at the same time sex isnt EVERYTHING. Someone who's asexual and not interested in sex shouldn't be forced into it, treated like an innocent kid, mocked of or just in general discriminated against. Tbh i find it funny that in our country sex is such a taboo topic but at the same time when someone does come out as asexual they're discriminated against because they wont deliver kids or something

    • @devanshipandey9b367
      @devanshipandey9b367 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Totally agree

    • @minikaur4993
      @minikaur4993 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I totally understand that. One of my friends is asexual and she's being pressured into marrying and well we all know what's going to happen next if she marries and she's just not comfortable with it! Why do people not understand this?

  • @CaptainCold_aj
    @CaptainCold_aj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    Best video up to date.... People should move on from 'sanskaari' age. These are modern times... The so called double standards should stop in the name of sex. One is glorified and other is shamed, that's just horrible.
    And yeah, I can relate to the whole not being in a relationship and no hookup and I can say that I have faced these conversations too... It's their own decision, whether they wanna be in relationship or do casual sex or not.

    • @pranavgopal2319
      @pranavgopal2319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Don't Try to call it as 'SANSKARI' because sex is NOT the thing to be done in compulsion or follow it as norm these are just the stupid conversations which end up in creating a norm to hook up with a girl etcc when a guy and girl who are in a relationship both having mutual consent should go on.. Without love or emotions hooking up culture will just make us animals craving for lust and stop glorifying it leave it the choice of the individual, who has a relationship on the basis of love,But if 2 people are just looking for casual sex may have their personal choice but if it does affect them in future where they can't find love and are always looking for a lusty sex it would ruin them completely it should neither be glorified or suppressed for a matter of fact!

    • @SD-ft1pe
      @SD-ft1pe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@pranavgopal2319 best reply ....totally wise and I agree with you.
      I don't know what's up with this generation calling sanskar a primitive ancient and totally negative thing 🙄

    • @pranavgopal2319
      @pranavgopal2319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@SD-ft1pe Exactly 💯 i am also a Genz kid i find it really weird when people say such things that don't be SANSKARI what does it even mean 🤔 like why do they tag a person as sanskari if the person is not sticking to their the idea of having a relationship or hooking up with a girl at that age who might be having some higher priorities regarding his career or education than theirs? That's very absurd to say that!

    • @tbys1416
      @tbys1416 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@pranavgopal2319 facts

    • @anurag9240
      @anurag9240 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Haan bc sabhi social issues me sanskar ghusa do aur sabhi problems khatm ho gaya na?

  • @taranginisingh4697
    @taranginisingh4697 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    i'm so glad and happy after seeing this episode. Really it's not necessary to have it! as love exist between souls not bodies...♥️ Such open minded and incredible mentality you guys have.

  • @bhavyejot9659
    @bhavyejot9659 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I mayn't relate to this but the way he asseverated his wisdom on hookup culture and stereotyping was damn awesome.

  • @charusraina
    @charusraina 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    sucha sweeetu he is yaar. honestly, best topics to talk about. this series has actually taught me so much. love yall💕✨

  • @anubhavsaxena5982
    @anubhavsaxena5982 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This is Agasthya’s best video!

  • @lipikaanand1505
    @lipikaanand1505 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This channel will be the best edu channel for all the gen-zs out there! This is the kind of parent talk we need at this point of time! Or in our Teenage!

  • @aayushmohite07
    @aayushmohite07 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amazing work dobaara!!!!..... We want this dirty talk series dobara😁

  • @kaira__2828
    @kaira__2828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    very well spoken!! great job agasthya. massive respect!!!!

  • @monalishabal4910
    @monalishabal4910 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This guy is super rich 🤣. Never seen this kind of relationship back in school.

  • @puja-od2cz
    @puja-od2cz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This is one of the best video I have seen this far..
    Growing up I used to think that dating someone gives you some kind of validation that you are also pretty that someone wants to be with you or date you but being a 22 yr old girl and still not having any relationship. I finally understood that it's completely OK and normal not to date or be with someone, dating someone is not a validation that you are pretty, it's OK to not to meet the love of your life I don't even know if he exists or not .
    But as I concerned being happy is most important other being with someone and I am happy and being single is completely normal.

    • @AnkitKumar-kk3iw
      @AnkitKumar-kk3iw 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same story 🙃

    • @user404notfound3
      @user404notfound3 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Assalamwalaikum Irshad hazrath,
      Hazrath isah e sawab mein kya hein to bhi pad ko phooke ke toh (Kalima,surah, Quran) marhoomeen ko pounch tha kya? Unnko hamara sawab miltha kya

  • @naincysrivastava634
    @naincysrivastava634 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It's sad seeing how many ppl are dwelling behind this not being Relatable... Like focus on his point for once man.. I'm a girl and I can totally see my previous male friends being put in the same peer pressure and I my girl friends being called names for being with a guy (let alone hooking up)... And I ain't from some top notch private boarding school.. In fact I come from possibly one of the most backwards states (Uttar Pradesh)... So it's quite a normal (disgusting) standard that men n women are held up to even if u are not going to some rich ass school or hooking up with ppl... Men are shamed for not having gfs.. And women are shamed for having bfs.. No matter what level u go to u.. Know... Like associate it in this way-
    How many women do u see being called awful names if they make a bf or get along with a guy (in a village.. Since being in private schools is something I'm hearing a lot in the comments).. It's the same even at s level lile villages.. And men there are considered "manly" If they hook up with other women.

  • @arpitamaity2445
    @arpitamaity2445 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you ....for give us such type of vedioes...its really helpfulll

  • @aarushi9568
    @aarushi9568 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    so well spoken proud of you my guy

  • @Riya_Dhiman
    @Riya_Dhiman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a genuine concept!

  • @amyrapc7437
    @amyrapc7437 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You did an amazing job by bringing up this content because its so important for the youth to know that judging someone by their intentions in sexual conquest is not right.

  • @lxveuwu417
    @lxveuwu417 ปีที่แล้ว

    it's so great to watch my favourite influencers talk about this!

  • @sakshipal6913
    @sakshipal6913 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    wow this is so good 💜🌼😭 so so so so so good Agusthya kudos man love this video and topic

  • @Nishant014
    @Nishant014 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Konse school me ye sab party hoti ha...I m in 11th and in my school except for iit and jee ...no one talks nothing

    • @Nishant014
      @Nishant014 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Muje vi jana ha bhai...mene toh sif filmo me dekha ha...highschool romance...hamara yaha toh jee neet romance hota ha

  • @harshviparekh1941
    @harshviparekh1941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Topic and views..... And the agasthya put it out!🙌🏻❤️

  • @Nithi_vit_vlogs
    @Nithi_vit_vlogs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Hard to find a teenage boy with so much insight

  • @tejaswinikumavat3394
    @tejaswinikumavat3394 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    loving this channel man ❤️

  • @swastikasharma7202
    @swastikasharma7202 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hypocrisy is the disease amongst all of us ..
    so happy to see this kinda content .💕

  • @shivangi3030
    @shivangi3030 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Your highschool sound like the one they show in highschool movies in Hollywood.....Cool!

    • @guy.1298
      @guy.1298 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No it's shown in bollywood movies too. Student of the year and student of the year 2.

  • @anurags4408
    @anurags4408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is some upper class college shit !!..
    Hame pata hi nhi aise vi convo hote hain 😂

  • @AimELECTRO
    @AimELECTRO 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Btw Concept of Video was way too good 🔥❤ it spread positivity and equality ✌. Keep it up ❤👍

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you!

  • @judo2378
    @judo2378 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    By far i m loving these type of videos and i would love to see more positive and freedom videos like this

  • @harshachandak2794
    @harshachandak2794 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've been watching all this videos of avanti , riya , taneshaa , Agastya all of them.. & it's great I feel that finally people whom I look up too follow or idealise ,who are of my own age actually are making people realise that sex, homosexuality, self pleasure,casual sex everything is normal.. not a taboo. & It's feels great to broaden our mentality & to know what matters is consent of both a boy & a girl. Society & their thoughts doesn't matter. Because no matter what you do people will always try to put you down. Slut shame you . Bcoz they are narrow minded. So don't let anyone decide for your sexual life . It's you to decide.❤️

  • @thevivliocubicularist4480
    @thevivliocubicularist4480 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    best vdo of the season🙆‍♂️

  • @umashrichakraborty8413
    @umashrichakraborty8413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    We need more people like you in our society.

  • @munmundeb1001
    @munmundeb1001 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It was just awesome!❤️

  • @yeshvinny193
    @yeshvinny193 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    PERFECT!! ❤️✨

  • @aditikumar6168
    @aditikumar6168 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I SO AGREE WITH THIS!!🙌

  • @ncttboo9106
    @ncttboo9106 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    well spoken!!

  • @SD-ft1pe
    @SD-ft1pe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kudos to you for speaking up this.
    NEED OF THE HOUR.
    Literally we all face this in our daily lives..double standards of society,they always put down a girl if she is hooking up ,calling her names and always praise a boy if he has slept with multiple girls...best e g can be seen in this movie where sanjay dutt was glorified for sleeping with 100s of girls like it's kind of trophy??
    What if somebody wants to be intimate only with the person they love? It's too old fashioned for this generation.🙄
    Noone should be forced to be intimate or not to be . 🙏

  • @alankrutapiyu
    @alankrutapiyu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    These videos are just so good! I just don't get why people feel like they're entitled to anyone's personal choice. No one should be glorified or put down for any choices they make related to their personal lives, more specifically sexual life. I commented something on Kareema's episode and my comment was pinned and people just went on and on bashing me, calling me a slut, just because I believed that people should be free to make their relationship choices. If someone wants to be in a relationship that's cool and if they don't and have casual sex then that's cool too as long as they have consent.
    They really thought they were calling me out for "promoting cheating" which I clearly stated, is a big no. If someone has given a commitment to their partner and are in a relationship with them then they should never cheat, that is wrong. But each and every person deserves the choice to have the kind of relationship they want.
    And hooking up or not hooking up is not an achievement or a loss. It's purely a choice, a very personal preference. This society has such double standards, it's pathetic!

    • @GEO_________________________24
      @GEO_________________________24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No saying you shouldn't okay. Problem is body count matters. For men. If you husband had past of sleeping with women and not having stable relationships it'll further destroy your marriage. Past is indication of future. Theres study showing women's body is correlated to her happiness the higher the count lower the happiness gets. This newagey shit doesn't work in India. Modernization of India is needed but through our own way not buy copying western countries who are in shambles. In short A key that open any lock is a master key. And a lock that opens with any key is a shitty lock.

  • @samiksha930
    @samiksha930 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Best ❤️❤️ this was sooo meaningful and people can learn something from this conversation ❤️

  • @kingpaimon6086
    @kingpaimon6086 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks bro. I use to feel the same way and I was actually felt very low bout it but thanks man. your video gave me confidence

  • @kaiii_s
    @kaiii_s 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I'm an 18 year old girl i shall turn 19 next month and I too yet haven't had my first kiss!

    • @niksniks5307
      @niksniks5307 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Don't worry it's totally normal.. these kids are living in their fantasy worlds.

    • @anushagarg259
      @anushagarg259 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@niksniks5307 yes!!

    • @kaiii_s
      @kaiii_s 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@niksniks5307 i agree and they make your first kiss seem like such a big thing!

    • @AnkitKumar-kk3iw
      @AnkitKumar-kk3iw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kaiii_s 😂😂

    • @DedmeenY2K
      @DedmeenY2K 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      99.9 % views ne bhi nahi kiya hai 🥲

  • @dishadas9812
    @dishadas9812 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    their are some MALES who respect women....and not want to have sex.....and also don't wanna force girl ...that are the real MEN......

    • @dishadas9812
      @dishadas9812 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Sameeran Mohanta yaa....I love those men 😭❤️

    • @khatiaxomiyakela2497
      @khatiaxomiyakela2497 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Sameeran Mohanta not men in my state. In my state,men are like the Japanese guys who are very shy . I can't look into girls while talking with them.

  • @UmeshMakarand
    @UmeshMakarand 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Is this what 17-18 y/o doing? I m juz playing pubg🙂

    • @ChappalMarungi
      @ChappalMarungi ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just because it hasn't happened to you doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Way to turn a serious issue into something about yourself. Everything is not about you sir

  • @milanpreetsingh3749
    @milanpreetsingh3749 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Nice video great job dobara because agasthya is my favorite

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      so glad you like it!

  • @mihikachaudhary1255
    @mihikachaudhary1255 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    we need content which is really important for every person. everyone needs to know and normalizing things which are not wrong at all.

  • @aamenanadeem6102
    @aamenanadeem6102 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thankfully this was just so important 💙

  • @Xyz_curious
    @Xyz_curious 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm so glad that y'all spoke for both genders.. Beacuase usually it is considered that men like IT always.. Which leads to people disbelievng that men can get raped too n to add to that some women n homosexual people feel it's ok to thirst tweet fr the men.. Even though they know that if men. Did same to them it would be considered harassment... That's sad. . When Neeraj chopra won medal at Olympics a lot of women thirst tweeted vulgar things for him n all were silent on that issue.. If a female celebrity got a thirst tweet from her male fans everyone would have spoken against it .. But everyone was silent in Neerajs case because he is a man n because of the false notion that MEN ALWAYS LIKE IT...

  • @shitsedits1875
    @shitsedits1875 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    See I knew Agastya was next 😏, I'm so good at this guessing😁

  • @vrindasingh9132
    @vrindasingh9132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Agasthya , thank you so much for saying this. And for people who say this doesnt happen in india , umm this was common in my school too , and subtract 10 - 12 years from now. you are wrong about one thing though , sex , and hookups are glorified among girls too, that too even among tier 2 and three cities. In my college girls were among small cities and i have heard this.
    i have always been asked . you still havent done anything all the time and I have lived my life thinking i am totally weird , not good enough , not beautiful enough etc.
    Plus one more thing I want to add , there was a guy who called me prostitute among his lab mates even before meeting me that too when I always wear so called covered clothes. I became friends with that guy without knowing anything as such . After we stopped talking due to other issues , i got to know of this issue of being called things about me along with some other girls. I felt very bad. So people should think how the person hearing such things would feel. Its casual enough for saying , but maybe the person hearing this could be sort of traumatised.

    • @gourmondal5812
      @gourmondal5812 ปีที่แล้ว

      I mean yes due to feminism now girls are also glorified among girls for having multiple hookups..and also sometimes shamed for not having relationships but it's way less than males ....but having too much sex with multiple people is not okay...excess of anything is harmful!!! ✌🏿

  • @kunalchahal4918
    @kunalchahal4918 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THIS IS A HUGE TOPIC AND THEY PRESSURISE PEOPLE TO DO THAT HUT IT DEPEND ON AN INDIVIDUAL THAT WHEN THEY NEED TO DO IT OR WHEN THEY FEEL LIKE PERIOD.

  • @bum2k103
    @bum2k103 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    small crush and want to hook up hmmm? Bhai kon sa school tha?

  • @drishtithakkar9566
    @drishtithakkar9566 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    We need more guys like Agasthya like i really mean it

  • @mariasdoodles3664
    @mariasdoodles3664 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    To the people who in this comment section who are talking and complaining about that guy's story. See this total just want to send the message that how Girls are always called SLUT on what ever they wear or do but at the same time boys are not, so stop slut shaming girls and treating them equally. - that's the whole content

  • @sohinidatta9482
    @sohinidatta9482 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this video. Wow.

  • @ashutoshpatle3811
    @ashutoshpatle3811 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Hookup culture is like 'Pehle istemaal kare fir vishwaas kare'. I have a question shaadi ke baad bhi casual sex, hookup etc sahi hai kya. Kyu ki before marriage ye log itni jagah mu maar chuke hai i mean "casual sex" kar chuke hai toh shaadi k baad bhi inhe ek partner se satisfaction kaha milne wala hai.

  • @Deepamhere
    @Deepamhere 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The topic must be dirty talk but this is something for people to learn

  • @akashaggarwal3041
    @akashaggarwal3041 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    quite real 🙃

  • @jessicasingh6435
    @jessicasingh6435 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this guy

  • @sakshamsamaiya
    @sakshamsamaiya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As an 11 standard kid...bhai kahan hoti hai aisi party🤣🤣

  • @dewanmuskaan
    @dewanmuskaan 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for addressing this! I’m tired of seeing Andrew Tate slut shaming women like Logan Paul’s wife.

  • @Dobara
    @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    With this, we close this season of Dirty Talk! Make sure you check out the full playlist here: www.terriblytinytales.com/dirtytalk

    • @dhritishmadas1187
      @dhritishmadas1187 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why is it named dirty talk??

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dhritishmadas1187 Check out the playlist description.

  • @gyanvijalanggb4582
    @gyanvijalanggb4582 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There is more important things other then this topic

  • @arpitshukla9098
    @arpitshukla9098 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    The immaturity this generation has is beyond my mental capacity. This guy has to make a video about is even more alarming when I was in 11th grade all I cared about was playing CS 1.6 and Naruto. Need to snatch away their phones smh

    • @tbys1416
      @tbys1416 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

    • @aditigupta5750
      @aditigupta5750 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      not every person of this generation is like this.

    • @tbys1416
      @tbys1416 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aditigupta5750 lol

    • @kartikkk.kkk13
      @kartikkk.kkk13 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What exactly is your problem with them?

  • @crimsonmatter
    @crimsonmatter 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This basically just people judging other people. Imagine if no-one would judge noone. Then everyone would be happy.

  • @soham816
    @soham816 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sarkari school ke ladke toh parties aur hookup ka bhi nahi pata hoga. Mere jaise log 🥲

  • @ridhima9308
    @ridhima9308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this basketball guy is the one you should get married to !!

  • @apoorvmishra5525
    @apoorvmishra5525 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Someone please tell me the name of the music used..

  • @somnathmisra9026
    @somnathmisra9026 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hamar iskool mein to itna parteee to nahi houta tha bhiyaji🤭. Lagtai aap logon ka principal strict nehi tha🤭🤭. LOL . Just kidding ha. Good talks🤗🌻

  • @saivarunk9262
    @saivarunk9262 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can anyone tell what software to use for such animation??

  • @fanindra735
    @fanindra735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    These things are practiced only in Mumbai and Delhi I don't think there is any place other than these two places from where such cultures are born cheeeee I am lucky not to be a mumbai or a delhi guy

    • @viplavawasthi1031
      @viplavawasthi1031 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Really these people are so delusional I think they have never stepped out of South Bombay to see the reality...

    • @fanindra735
      @fanindra735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jellymid7735 what is the matter with living in a village or not living inna village now a days urbun people are more narrow-minded and cruel than village people

    • @fanindra735
      @fanindra735 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jellymid7735 why mr dobara is deleting my comments again and again

    • @fanindra735
      @fanindra735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jellymid7735 @Deep Singh so what I was saying that this video is enough for me to think that the type environment you and your parents are letting you live in ......and after watching this video I am damn sure that the place I am living in is better than yours .... You need to look out

    • @aditigupta5750
      @aditigupta5750 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      NOT EVEN IN DELHI BRUH! kahi nahi hota eisa delhi me and agr hota bhi ho toh 1 percent schools me hi

  • @jaiwadhawan4802
    @jaiwadhawan4802 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is not always true. If you choose your peers carefully, you will never face this problem. Make friends that are understanding, and you'll be fine. Such stuff cannot be generalised...it's just that this mentality might be more common in people who go to parties and are more popular and hence this is considered as what's the norm. Which is completely untrue.

  • @DedmeenY2K
    @DedmeenY2K 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    South Bombay's students life 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲

  • @Michelle-lu7yt
    @Michelle-lu7yt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ASEXUALITY exists, people

  • @savageboy4251
    @savageboy4251 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bruh ..both that girl and guy should change his friends circle .. that's the easiest solution

  • @anjali-pr5mz
    @anjali-pr5mz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ahh ly agggy !!!!!!!!

  • @DiamaraldGaming
    @DiamaraldGaming 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Idk if this video is the scene with the higher class "students"....
    But for the majority, I'm sure they didn't relate 1%
    I like the underlying message though

  • @chitramurugan3150
    @chitramurugan3150 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where does agasthya live, it seems like he lives abroad and not in India

  • @funnymemesz
    @funnymemesz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    in which alternate universe is this school......... where its normal to hookup at the age of 17

    • @ahelisen7509
      @ahelisen7509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly.

    • @femmefatale3598
      @femmefatale3598 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Only in expensive private schools.

    • @esha453
      @esha453 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      guess you're living under a rock , my guy

    • @tbys1416
      @tbys1416 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@esha453 which is better indeed

    • @esha453
      @esha453 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tbys1416didn't said it's bad tho

  • @samosapav9745
    @samosapav9745 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fun fact this video have 111k views but like and comments tell how much men's are understand this problem and then they say man have not right man life is very painful 😏

  • @navneet1146
    @navneet1146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeh badhiya tha Guru! 🙌
    Muhh band karr diye Chutiya Soch walo ka

  • @ajayjadav526
    @ajayjadav526 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yep,what if that girl was ur sister?u shouldn’t have been here.😂😂

  • @nikhillubana6132
    @nikhillubana6132 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Inke school mai locker room tha😕

  • @samanthsai.r.s3395
    @samanthsai.r.s3395 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bhai saab!!! Looking at this comment section... I'm losing by brain cells

  • @anomaly9156
    @anomaly9156 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Men are virgin shamed if thats the right word at least in the west.

    • @swaylikesmusic
      @swaylikesmusic 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      so speak against it.

  • @kashishjoshi3300
    @kashishjoshi3300 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kaha hote hai bhai ese school?😂

  • @dikshantvashisth5898
    @dikshantvashisth5898 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the society is going towards hell.

  • @DedmeenY2K
    @DedmeenY2K 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mere 20 sal kisi dost ne bhi ajj tak kiss nahi kya hai 🥲