My First Time Masturbating EVER | Dirty Talk ft.

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ก.ค. 2021
  • Avanti (@avantinagral) talks about her self-pleasure journey, female masturbation, female sexuality taboos & double standards...Vese, Double Standards reminds us that Avanti's debut EP titled 'Double Standards' is out now, and you can stream it over here: smarturl.it/DS_ChalHatt
    Our favourite song from the EP is Permission (pun intended), which we used as the background score for this video!
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    Songwriters: Avanti Nagral, Natania Lalwani
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  • @Dobara
    @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +768

    PARATHAS, WHERE YOU AT? Make yourself known here, and spam the comment section with #ChalHatt!

  • @nandiniv
    @nandiniv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4091

    never seen an Indian TH-camr talk about this, thank you so much!

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      Avanti's the best 🥰

    • @avantinagral
      @avantinagral 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Glad you enjoyed it 💕

    • @adyaanwesha
      @adyaanwesha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You should also check out Leeza Mangal Das, she talks about sex and pleasure too.

    • @GAURAVJANGID4
      @GAURAVJANGID4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@adyaanwesha what Leeza mangal is sex expert?

    • @MrMehta-tx5ji
      @MrMehta-tx5ji 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@GAURAVJANGID4 Yes

  • @avantinagral
    @avantinagral 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4118

    I really enjoyed sharing my story, thank you TTT and Dobara for giving me the Permission to talk about this 💜💗

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +151

      thank YOU, Avanti

    • @kaushikkrishna9089
      @kaushikkrishna9089 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Not "permission", more like platform; you don't need *permission*, Way to go! 🐣👏🏻

    • @kinnaricharaniya7102
      @kinnaricharaniya7102 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      You are amazing ❤️

    • @avantinagral
      @avantinagral 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@kinnaricharaniya7102 🥺🥰

    • @samiksha930
      @samiksha930 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Avanti Nagral

  • @satarupaganguly3731
    @satarupaganguly3731 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1784

    After all, she is a Harvard graduate. Excellent presentation, brutally honest and heart touching.
    You are braver than any other TH-camr I have known so far.
    This lady makes me proud every day

    • @avantinagral
      @avantinagral 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Aww lots of love Satarupa 🥺💗

    • @satarupaganguly3731
      @satarupaganguly3731 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@avantinagral Damn, Avanti. You made my day.

    • @jayesoteric
      @jayesoteric 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      satarupa bangali meye?

    • @satarupaganguly3731
      @satarupaganguly3731 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@jayesoteric haha. Hai

    • @jayesoteric
      @jayesoteric 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@satarupaganguly3731 staying in kolkata or outside?

  • @vaishnavijadhav2555
    @vaishnavijadhav2555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2259

    Her constant efforts for normalising society standards are remarkable. I am so proud of her for being so bold about this topic …I hope our society gets to that point some day and no girl has to be ashamed of being herself anymore.

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      We agree!

    • @avantinagral
      @avantinagral 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Means a lot 🥺🥺

    • @paulsaha2242
      @paulsaha2242 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@avantinagral
      Marry 💍
      🥺

    • @VilinaRai
      @VilinaRai 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely, agreed 🤝

    • @priyankaghosh2948
      @priyankaghosh2948 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@megamindfullofbeauty9781 i appreciate the way you are respectful towards others,👍, may I ask how old rare you brother?

  • @saumyasoni1174
    @saumyasoni1174 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1784

    The fact that I am 18 years old and I still don't have complete knowledge about this shows how much our society needs to normalise talking on topics like these. The information was really helpful:)
    Thanks ❤️

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Thank you for watching!

    • @iamshreyagupta
      @iamshreyagupta 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Woman I'm 30 and I have just started this journey..be grateful that you atleast know about it in your teens

    • @jashpatel9663
      @jashpatel9663 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yeah, SOCITEY is everything that's wrong today.

    • @deletedaccount6498
      @deletedaccount6498 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @Priyanka why do u assume that she's married??

    • @SD-ft1pe
      @SD-ft1pe 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😁😁same!

  • @lassi8205
    @lassi8205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +437

    I came down here to see if there's any hate comments but so glad to see everyone being so supportive of this. Female pleasure is definitely something that needs to be talked more about.

    • @arpitagarwal82
      @arpitagarwal82 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sort the comments by newest, instead of top comments and check again....

    • @lassi8205
      @lassi8205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@arpitagarwal82 ugh...

    • @AnonymousGuy12
      @AnonymousGuy12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@lassi8205 talked more? Shouldn't it be equal? It's not a woman thing even men view it as taboo too but we don't care how others feel

    • @bsachdev492
      @bsachdev492 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      many have already given her character certificate that she's characterless, dirty, disgusting & so on its not just men even women themselves ridiculing her

    • @-SimonRiley
      @-SimonRiley 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@AnonymousGuy12 becuz men joke about it with their friends online and it has becamw normalized. Meanwhile women are ashamed themselves to talk anything so it's their fault

  • @swararoyy
    @swararoyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +722

    I'm a teenager and I feel I'm growing up in a safe surrounding coz talking about these in a normal way is way better than just making vulgar jokes

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      yay! so glad. We have more on the way.

    • @swararoyy
      @swararoyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @What? I agree.. It's always good to check the surrounding ur in before speaking yourself out

    • @swararoyy
      @swararoyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @What? Nah.. I'm from Hyderabad.. But I'm sure good places doesn't get ruined from stupid people's mentality.. Every place is safe if you see the good sides !

    • @swararoyy
      @swararoyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @What? Yup!

    • @morpheus2953
      @morpheus2953 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      please don't follow this western ideology for the sake of being a pseudo feminism.. follow Indian culture, don't start having sex at early age. God bless you.

  • @ice_one5728
    @ice_one5728 2 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    So happy to see a female Indian TH-camr talk about things this openly , this would encourage more people to be a little free , open and normal to these things instead tagging these as a taboo

    • @redpilled4872
      @redpilled4872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      its not a taboo. women themselves are shy and close minded.
      boys start mastrubuting at very young age.

  • @deepanjanchakraborty7707
    @deepanjanchakraborty7707 2 ปีที่แล้ว +563

    A good way to normalise this things , truly appreciating 👏

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yay thank you!

    • @avantinagral
      @avantinagral 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      So glad!

  • @VivekSharma-hf7mx
    @VivekSharma-hf7mx 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Target Audience ♀️ Actual Audience ♂️

    • @maliraza5
      @maliraza5 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      nah.....there are alot girl comment there

  • @sasswithdivyanshi
    @sasswithdivyanshi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +509

    This video is so liberating. I've always been vocal about these topics with my friends and they usually discuss their doubts with me. Thanks to the educative and funny videos on sex-ed which educated me right things about sex , sexual pleasure and the difference between good touch and bad touch. Never be shy because it's our body and we can touch it just like we touch our face. Thank you for this beautiful video.

    • @avantinagral
      @avantinagral 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      So glad you enjoyed it 🥰

    • @Amangupta1613
      @Amangupta1613 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi

    • @maddog3768
      @maddog3768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Apna hai, jab chahe touch karo !

    • @guy.1298
      @guy.1298 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can i make a joke ???

    • @sasswithdivyanshi
      @sasswithdivyanshi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@megamindfullofbeauty9781 I respect your humble way of putting up the question . I can't generalize it . I don't feel drowsy. Even if sometimes someone feels tired they can try deep breathing . And then you are all calm .

  • @amritabanwait9756
    @amritabanwait9756 2 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    Takes a lot of courage to speak about something like this which is considered taboo hats off👑

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      🌻💙

    • @mr.banana5718
      @mr.banana5718 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Dobara 🍭

    • @rogerthat365
      @rogerthat365 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nope, it take absurd desperation to speak BS like that.

  • @vanshika1610
    @vanshika1610 2 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    Many other "influencers" or "creators" should take notes from her

  • @beactivebehappy9894
    @beactivebehappy9894 2 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    Instead of simple talking video, this is how such topics should be discussed... Loved it!!

    • @avantinagral
      @avantinagral 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Aww yay thank you 💜💗 also hi Paratha

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      🌻💙

    • @beactivebehappy9894
      @beactivebehappy9894 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@avantinagral aww mgg !! hii Paratha from this side too❤️❤️❤️❤️❣️

    • @beactivebehappy9894
      @beactivebehappy9894 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Dobara 🌞🌞🌞

  • @somjita7541
    @somjita7541 2 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    I loved how she comfortably shared her own story , this is what we want. We don't need to care about the society standards after all it's our body💜

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      🌻💙 yes

    • @somjita7541
      @somjita7541 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@megamindfullofbeauty9781 During orgasm, chemicals called endorphins are released into the bloodstream. They cause pleasant sensations to ripple through the body, and they also make many women feel happy, giddy, flushed, warm, or sleepy. Yeah women also feel drowsy. (I may not be correct but yeah)

    • @somjita7541
      @somjita7541 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@megamindfullofbeauty9781 Excessive sex can be bad for ur physical health eg. infection in vagina,but in case of mental health, it depends, if ur comfortable of having sex everyday it doesn't affect ur mental health. But sometimes u can be insecure or uncomfortable in it w ur partner which isn't good for mental health but until ur comfortable it doesn't affect mental health.

    • @dennispacelli1007
      @dennispacelli1007 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@somjita7541 I'll use my mouth more to soothe you all just let me know!

    • @somjita7541
      @somjita7541 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dennispacelli1007 Bruh
      nobody asked

  • @adityabehera7609
    @adityabehera7609 2 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    Brave girl, it's hard to says these things in public,, because we were conditioned as these thinks are sins ,, you have a lot of courage... It's not shameful at all.. it's natural... As we need food to satisfy our hunger,, ..

    • @avantinagral
      @avantinagral 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💯

    • @ElonMusk-tb2yi
      @ElonMusk-tb2yi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But bruh Masturbating can lead to some serious Health problems
      My friend told me that don't Masturbate regularly. Once in month is ok. But not everyday.
      He did and now he is facing consequences because he can't satisfy his Wife now

  • @AnshumanGhosh
    @AnshumanGhosh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +244

    The illustrations are really helping the viewer be at ease👌🏻👌🏻 And 💯 kudos to Avanti! 👏🏻

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thank you ❤️

    • @avantinagral
      @avantinagral 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Aww thank you! And I totally agree about the illustrations 🥰

  • @it_g_102_riturajburnwal6
    @it_g_102_riturajburnwal6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    Avanti has such a calm voice. Her voice is just what I would like to hear at night when I wish to be done with all the crap I have seen or done and find ultimate solace in it. Please bring her more and more on Dobara.😍

    • @avantinagral
      @avantinagral 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hahaha omg Ritu thank you

  • @egoisticpotato3497
    @egoisticpotato3497 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    This channel is underrated and so is her story.

  • @swagatikabehera4949
    @swagatikabehera4949 2 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    This video is literally the best thing ever like all my friends find me weird when I talk about it and Avanti reassuring us about how masturbation isn't a bad thing really helps! Avanti's calm voice makes it so much better to listen to! She's the best and we love a supportive queen

    • @avantinagral
      @avantinagral 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🥺 lots of love Swagatika

    • @shubh1656
      @shubh1656 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi

  • @prateekimt9
    @prateekimt9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    I am genuinely glad that you opened up about this. Unfortunately, Indian society isn't as progressive as we project but with people like you, I hope our society will reach there sooner than later. Great job!! Kudos!!
    More power to you and to those who are like you!!

    • @avantinagral
      @avantinagral 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you so much!!

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Absolutely

  • @adamez4416
    @adamez4416 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    "There is nothing about being brave or being timid."....its normal and ...it's just herself describing her wonderful journey......Loved the way you conveyed this message Avanti

  • @thedude4003
    @thedude4003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Well there are plenty of names for female pleasuring like fingering, playing the guitar etc. My personal fav is double clicking the mouse. Don't judge me I'm just sharing. Great video btw 👍

  • @lojojoj0
    @lojojoj0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    It's so sad how a lot of women in India dont know a lot about their bodies. Me being one of them, even putting a menstrual cup was difficult because i was so unfamiliar with my own body!
    Sex education should be taught in India too!
    Thanks a lot for talking about this!

    • @cryptoarjun1412
      @cryptoarjun1412 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Vedic gyan is better than harvard University

    • @nandini2282
      @nandini2282 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@megamindfullofbeauty9781 yes we feel drowsy nd low
      energy levels and sour body but after sometimes it's normal

  • @abhimanyugupta1041
    @abhimanyugupta1041 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    Even men do not have that much courage as her to share it over the internet in such a clear and straight forward way. I'm sure she's raised somewhere outside of India.

    • @mahendranadhjujapu9316
      @mahendranadhjujapu9316 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      yes , but she is raised by indian parents only , she studied in hardvard , check out her channel for more topics like this
      she had done some bold talks like this in her channel

    • @abhimanyugupta1041
      @abhimanyugupta1041 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mahendranadhjujapu9316 Have no interest in topic like these. So I'll pass. There are women in India who are not allowed to work outside of their homes and here I am on TH-cam being told by a random guy to visit a channel to see a girl talking about 'the thing'. I'd better go out and spread awareness about gender equality rather than seeing these type of content.

    • @vanshitasingh4523
      @vanshitasingh4523 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@abhimanyugupta1041 lmao speaking about gender equality but overlooking basic masturbation

    • @arohisuryakumar5661
      @arohisuryakumar5661 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@abhimanyugupta1041 that's a weird way of looking at gender equality. XD

    • @Daisy_518
      @Daisy_518 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@vanshitasingh4523 Right sis.

  • @haaaaaaa130
    @haaaaaaa130 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Her "Hayee Raam!" expression was top notch!
    Didi you are very brave!

  • @hirvarathod1283
    @hirvarathod1283 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Hands down to you. I love how she's normalising the old wrong societal perceptions. You're so inspiring! Thank you! ❤️

    • @avantinagral
      @avantinagral 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Hirva 🥰🥺

    • @hirvarathod1283
      @hirvarathod1283 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@avantinagral Omgg!!! You replied!!!! Thank you for making my day ❤️❤️❤️

    • @mainaksen280
      @mainaksen280 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@avantinagral kaun hei yeh log,kaha seh aate hei yeh joh kehte hei ki females can't masturbate,I mean they didn't read about human sexuality ever?
      Only men can masturbate and not females is a stupid concept,before being a female,she is an individual human being and humans have sexual urges irrespective of the gender

  • @sanjuktadiary
    @sanjuktadiary 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    This should be normalised ! Hats off to you for talking about it in such a graceful manner 💕

  • @rahulchoudhury8377
    @rahulchoudhury8377 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Really delighted to see someone came up with this taboo topic which has been treated as so toxic thing to talk about. This has been reason for many failed relations in India... Appreciate your initiative and effort to take this topic which is synchronised to adult industry to natural lifestyle... 🤘🏻

  • @gracynewme
    @gracynewme 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Truth Fact!! Let out yourself, give it a thought. It's high time. I'm glad many confusion and hesitations are cleared through this 👏

  • @premamandi3092
    @premamandi3092 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    You're so brave to talk about it openly. Kudos to you💓

    • @avantinagral
      @avantinagral 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you 💕

    • @Daisy_518
      @Daisy_518 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I believe we all should be.

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🌻💙

    • @shrikantsharma7175
      @shrikantsharma7175 ปีที่แล้ว

      u also brave who comment on this

  • @ShivagamiDevi
    @ShivagamiDevi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Omg it felt so good to listen to your story coz I myself have a very similar story
    Thanks avanti :)

    • @avantinagral
      @avantinagral 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Of course! So glad 🥺🥰

    • @sajnin_eity
      @sajnin_eity 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And i too have a similar story

    • @jsjsns
      @jsjsns 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you for sharing this❤Well this is true we have to normalize woman pleasure
      I have the similar story from 14 years old to 18 years old it's been a tough ride everyday I thought that why I am doing this or I am the only one! Thanks again❤

    • @alltcsr24
      @alltcsr24 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jsjsns along with menstrual cycles, young teens go through guilt & emotional hardships for these natural sensations. Need to educate them about this.

  • @s_sanjh
    @s_sanjh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank You Avanti! I was even kind of hesitated to open this, all thanks to society and everything else... But this is wrong and this really needs to CHANGE! Your efforts are remarkable and I hope we witness this CHANGE in our generation really soon!

  • @anoop7005
    @anoop7005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the boldest video I ve ever seen... kudos.. this s as simple as that. i hope every girl learn from this, instead of falling a prey of social conditioning

  • @shinchanlove948
    @shinchanlove948 2 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    I really appreciate the way you tell all this things without any hesitation.

    • @avantinagral
      @avantinagral 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww thank you 🥰

  • @beetsboy7348
    @beetsboy7348 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I like to see that india is being more open talk country 😌

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️

  • @ashutoshdevgotra
    @ashutoshdevgotra 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    As Human being, these thing happens to everyone irrespective to gender, caste, colour, iq.
    Bcs it's Natural and Normal thing. Take it easy do whatever you want to do. Ur life ,live it ur way

  • @horrorstories609
    @horrorstories609 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    It's actually not that simple, the way they are saying.......once u get addicted to something it can be worst than anything, anyone could think......in my case I was not even able to do my normal daily works bcz I was so stuck in it.....being a girl I was so weak and looked terrible.....I was not me anymore.....I always thought wht if I nevr knew abt it...I would be more happier....that was the worst part of my life and it ruined 10 yrs of my life I'm 23 now.....the part of life which will never come back......as soon as ppl will take it as a normal thing it is going to be more common.....bt remember that everything comes with a price and u have to pay for this......I feel like it killed me from inside.....it made me a introvert who nevr needed anyone....no boyfriend nothing bcz I nevr needed one....make sure wht u r trying to say to ppl making it so common....not ruin someone's life....as someone ruined mine.....I had to force myself to forgive the person I was blaming......it's not that great, the way u r saying.....I've experienced it and I know how it can ruin u.....so think twice before just randomly listening to someone else....it's best if less ppl know abt it and society is not making it that common❤️❤️if I nevr knew abt it I was not the girl to try random things......I was happy....bt after this shit thing happened to me I stopped playing with other kids and I was all into this......plz don't try to say things like it's the best thing in the world 👎👎

    • @ankahibaatein3097
      @ankahibaatein3097 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Very true..i am not addicted to it bcz i have self-control which i got from spirituality but if u do these things everytime taking it as common , u will never be able to live with peace..It feels like why we need to grow up so soon..why to become so desperate..thr are many more important things in life..n the girl making video needs to understand this..she is manipulating aur log chutiye b bann ja rahe..bcz they need bahana khud ko sahi dikhane k lie

    • @horrorstories609
      @horrorstories609 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Obviously........when ppl are mature enough to understand things in life then they can handle things more gently........in my case...there was no one to help me to get out of it. There was a time, I hated myself that I had no purpose in my life.....I myself can never support this thing to be common.....it does not bother me anymore...bcz now I understand my life better than ever and still there is a lot to learn ❤️❤️ agr ye chije itni Achi Hoti to jahir si bat h koi v isse kyu niklna chahta......I tortured myself for 10 yrs bcz I didn't know how to overcome this....It gave me scars that will never heal......the lost time nevr come back and that's the worst part of every pretty nightmare...

    • @horrorstories609
      @horrorstories609 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And u r right spirituality helps a lot❤️❤️❤️the best way to become yourself and what truly one is.....it helped me to become who I am right now and made me understand that everything that happen in life make u even more stronger and help u grow every second ❤️❤️❤️

    • @ankahibaatein3097
      @ankahibaatein3097 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@horrorstories609 yes aur India me bhi masturbation is considered as very natural since ages. even mentioned in our vedas not as something bad but as something natural still they also do not consider it as something good enough for person's mind and health to take it as something common. Well, how did u recover?

    • @ankahibaatein3097
      @ankahibaatein3097 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@horrorstories609Spirituality is the base of life but people fail to realise. How can they forget that final destination is death and the only thing that make ur last moment also beautiful is SPIRITUALITY❤

  • @bepropitious
    @bepropitious 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    hats off to you, that's some really useful knowledge, nobody talks about it here even in private so yeah you're doing a great job🖤

    • @avantinagral
      @avantinagral 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much 🥰

  • @swagatikananda7994
    @swagatikananda7994 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    The society even of our generation can't accept it. Thanks for normalizing this kind of topics 'Women Pleasure'😃❤

    • @avantinagral
      @avantinagral 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🥰

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    • @redpilled4872
      @redpilled4872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      what do u mean ?? who is stopping u. u can do whatever u want.

    • @maddog3768
      @maddog3768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aaj hi se guitar bajana chalu kar doh.

  • @todayslesson7865
    @todayslesson7865 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It takes lot of courage to talk about this topic on public platform especially being a girl. Proud of You and happy to see that someone's have a the guts to come forward and normalising things for other's. Bravo ❤️

  • @chinmayi08
    @chinmayi08 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow. This was sooo good. Love you! It's actually very helpful, how you are so open and so mature in yourself

  • @evolving-human
    @evolving-human 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Damn! Now that’s who you call a true influencer. Avanti OP ♥️

  • @NandiniSamnani
    @NandiniSamnani 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I respect you Avanti and really appreciate the way you spoke about it with so much ease, and normalcy, you're truly inspirational. Love you 💓 also, thank-you to the team for making this happen educating all of us about it. ♥️

    • @avantinagral
      @avantinagral 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much Nandini 🥺💕

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

  • @themanustark2832
    @themanustark2832 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    oh my god madam in this society you need guts to talk like this. spreading awareness is a good thing. you gave them support with your talk. appreciated

  • @guyberger4169
    @guyberger4169 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am Soooooooo proud of you sweetie. 🙏 I hope you can help many females get over their fear of experiencing the pleasure that is every human is deserving of. And not to feel shame or that it is something bad or dirty. Also glad you are comfortable with yourself ❤️

  • @anditachakraborty3485
    @anditachakraborty3485 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Was in an anxious mood, feeling calm down after listening to u during a random youTube scroll.

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yay! so glad

  • @kiljibhoomi8518
    @kiljibhoomi8518 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Trust me 11 years is tooo young like 15-16 is still fine, enjoy your innocent childhood kids you're gonna miss it so much

    • @raviseth6065
      @raviseth6065 ปีที่แล้ว

      11 yr boli ki wo bus unknowingly leg bind krti thi usko pata nhi tha. .

  • @shilpamahato2978
    @shilpamahato2978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Self-pleasure can give you a different level of confidence, comfort, and satisfaction. Most of my female friends do not feel comfortable with it yet because they haven't taken a chance to explore themselves. If someone is reading this right now, remember it is your body and you have every right to pleasure. It is in fact one of the beautiful things you can experience.

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      YES.

    • @ultimatebusta9542
      @ultimatebusta9542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Brahmacharya mein isse 100x jyada maza hai. Tum log kya jaano

  • @aelardiz
    @aelardiz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Aight, now I relate to this story so much, I see people saying 11 is too young but believe it or not, I was 8 when I discovered myself unknowingly up to it...
    The first time it occurred to me was with the jet spray too, and for many years I thought it was something that only I can feel, it was only at the age of 11 when I learned to call it masturbation and kinda self studied the whole thing on sex education and developed around ways of masturbating and I'm 15 as of now...
    Good to hear another personal experience and hope the topic won't be stigmatized much as it is now in the near future...
    Anyways, not having anything to do feeling masturbation as something wrong, I still feel quite pathetic after doing like a lot of men out there...
    It's just that I feel pathetic of myself as a human being lol...

  • @poonamswami7057
    @poonamswami7057 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Can I just say how proud I am of you 💕 I mean it takes guts to speak about important things which considered as taboo especially in our society

  • @vaishnavimenon
    @vaishnavimenon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It's great we started talking about it! It was always hushed topic, thank you for openly talking about it.

    • @patelraj6783
      @patelraj6783 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      right

    • @vaishnavimenon
      @vaishnavimenon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It feels very light....I can't describe it dizzy ...but everyone's body is different...so we can't conclude it for all dear

    • @vaishnavimenon
      @vaishnavimenon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't do it in excess

  • @harsharana8690
    @harsharana8690 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The kinda way she explained this topic is commendable.✨❤Society needs more bold souls like her💯

  • @dipayanmondal3935
    @dipayanmondal3935 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Your Voice is so calming 🥰.. And Thanks Avanti For breaking the Taboos of the society and openly talking about it !! ❤

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      yess

  • @ridhameher6513
    @ridhameher6513 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I hope people don't get a wrong message that only a sexual partner can make you feel pleasurable.NO, not necessary.

  • @sunidhigupta7581
    @sunidhigupta7581 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm so glad this video came in my suggestions. THANK YOU Avanti for talking about it, you slayed this🙌

  • @aakankshajanghela3954
    @aakankshajanghela3954 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    My story is exactly the same.
    I am at ease now after I watched this courageous confession or acknowledgement.

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      so glad :)

    • @Kondabonda-_-
      @Kondabonda-_- 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤤

  • @anushreebangde1572
    @anushreebangde1572 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love this so much!! I'm just happy seeing a video like this come up in my feed without having to search for it🌼❤️

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!!

  • @mrityunjaykrjha
    @mrityunjaykrjha ปีที่แล้ว +6

    We need women like her to change India.

  • @amritkaur9055
    @amritkaur9055 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I really wanted someone to share their self pleasure story and I can finally relate to her story.

    • @lucifer4097
      @lucifer4097 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm a guy and surprisingly i can kinda relate to.

    • @Byeboibye
      @Byeboibye 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeahh..omg yess!! Me too ❤️

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🌻💙

    • @Amangupta1613
      @Amangupta1613 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi

    • @Amangupta1613
      @Amangupta1613 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Byeboibye hi

  • @kashishazmi
    @kashishazmi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Omg, i'm so happy that i found this video. Kudos to Avanti , such a powerful girl and i'm so proud of her💪🏻❤️✨

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sameee :)

    • @avantinagral
      @avantinagral 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much 🥺

  • @Sameer-xm6pp
    @Sameer-xm6pp ปีที่แล้ว +6

    do it if you want to. dont encourage people to do it. And also, this is not a thing to publicly announce as if you've done something great.

    • @Sameer-xm6pp
      @Sameer-xm6pp ปีที่แล้ว

      @@user-ml4ps5cq3v wtf are you talking about lol. rub it all you want and tell every single person that you did it i dont care.

    • @user-ml4ps5cq3v
      @user-ml4ps5cq3v ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Sameer-xm6pp u said don't encourage others? Why? R u gay? U don't want women to know about orgasm?

    • @Sameer-xm6pp
      @Sameer-xm6pp ปีที่แล้ว

      @@user-ml4ps5cq3v lmao do you have a room temperature iq? what does this have to do with being gay? everyone knows about orgasm, its an instinctive thing. it should be done in privacy. i dont go around telling people i jacked off.

    • @ekansh907
      @ekansh907 ปีที่แล้ว

      These mf wont tell side effects..it is so dangerous

  • @akyadav7742
    @akyadav7742 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    We must accept it, that we all need pleasure, and if you can't get somebody, you need to do it yourself.... And we all have done it at some point of time and age.... So it's natural, it's a taboo to discuss such things, but taboo won't change the reality.... 🙏

  • @PRASHANTSharma-bg8nz
    @PRASHANTSharma-bg8nz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Its totally okkkyy
    Dude u have shown your courage which impact that u are really very strong.
    And talking of the topic,
    It is our biology its totally ookkkyy
    Its a need as we need water and air.
    Just bcz of some society thoughts and the societies concept of right and wrong, we feel shame or ask what we are doing.
    Its totally okkyy.
    U should not feel anything about it, and u are a strong person very strong.

  • @promitadas515
    @promitadas515 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kudos to you girl for talking about female masturbation with such grace, confidence, vulnerability and positivity! Loved the animation style as well! Keep up the good work!

    • @sagarsoni7699
      @sagarsoni7699 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      On which age you start masterbation

  • @sumann_s
    @sumann_s 2 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    Your positivity is infectious.
    You should be so proud of yourself.
    You’re amazing!
    You’re a true gift to the people in your life.
    I really appreciate everything that you do.
    The way you carry yourself is truly admirable.

    • @avantinagral
      @avantinagral 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank you so much 😭 means a lot

  • @user-bf6hd6hu1m
    @user-bf6hd6hu1m 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    To be honest, for years I thought masturbation was a male thing, I didn't think women did it.

  • @srijasingh6533
    @srijasingh6533 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I had entered college equipped only with the sex education available through that one bio lesson ' reproduction' in my 10th grade biology textbook. I really knew close to nothing until my masters actually.... It's truly a sad sad thing.

    • @rishipalai2261
      @rishipalai2261 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its same for many people

    • @musqitonebeats2129
      @musqitonebeats2129 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Had Internet ?

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      yeah :( We'll keep covering more topics so that other people don't have to go through this.

    • @mohdamir5695
      @mohdamir5695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Would you like to make the physical relationship with me? Age doesn't matter.

    • @Amangupta-ut3sg
      @Amangupta-ut3sg 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mohdamir5695 😂

  • @kathirinajohnson6780
    @kathirinajohnson6780 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    The fact that I am 23 and I still don't have knowlegde about this 😭
    Thank you for this video Sis
    (NB: Drop the skincare routine 😍 )

    • @redpilled4872
      @redpilled4872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      bcoz women dont disscuss, share these issues with each other.
      unlike boys who know everything since thier childhood. they r open minded

    • @rishikart10
      @rishikart10 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @maddog3768
      @maddog3768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Abhi bahut choti hai, 80 ki jaogi sab samajh ajayegi.

    • @neha-yw7zz
      @neha-yw7zz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@maddog3768 🤣🤣🤣

    • @ryk2133
      @ryk2133 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@megamindfullofbeauty9781 yes we girls feel tired after masturbation 🤪

  • @nandinichawla2004
    @nandinichawla2004 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is really really good thing that you guys are spreading awareness about all of these things.
    Maybe one of the reasons I love it, is because it was AVANTI, in her very own exquisite manner.

  • @potedarniharika1714
    @potedarniharika1714 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So happy for avanti speaking about this. I really want to appreciate for your efforts for normalising and bringing up topics which arent talked about much.

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🌻💙

  • @komalsoni8682
    @komalsoni8682 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I mean it was so amazingly expressed. Got to know so many things which we can not even think about discussing. Hats off to u girl💖

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Avanti is THE best.

    • @avantinagral
      @avantinagral 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you 🥺🥰

  • @PyroGuyUSA
    @PyroGuyUSA 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for your sex positivity and honesty about normal human biology. There is nothing to be ashamed of about our sexuality. This video is an inspiration!

  • @timer8523
    @timer8523 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I appreciate you buddy for speaking about something that is really meant to be spoken out

  • @anshuraj5734
    @anshuraj5734 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It takes guts to share this part of one's story onscreen.....hats off to you lady.

  • @fiinanccewallah3535
    @fiinanccewallah3535 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    really truly inclusive and educational must see for all teens...kudos team

  • @UnFiltered.Pardeshi
    @UnFiltered.Pardeshi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Unexpected work done by dobara... 🔥
    IMHO, this kind of talks should be normalize...

    • @avantinagral
      @avantinagral 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I totally agree!!

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yes!

  • @kenr4709
    @kenr4709 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s excellent that you are talking about this, women need to know that it’s OK to pleasure themselves, it’s not dirty, it’s not vulgar, it’s normal. Keep talking about it!

  • @debasishthakuria5434
    @debasishthakuria5434 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice video Avanti! Good bless you 🙏☺️

  • @amishasingh6227
    @amishasingh6227 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved it avanti u are my fav your knowledge on everything is just amazing just loved it how openly and frankly u shared everything really this 4 minute video session is gold ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @neharajput5792
    @neharajput5792 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Girl your story is exactly like mine! I didn't even knew that I m having orgasm when I was teen I was just ashamed of it sometimes, just felt like I m different or what,but then in early 20s(like literally😅) I got into first guy of my life & we explored alot, shared things abt how our bodies needs its satisfaction & thats when I got Sexually literate! Now its totally normal for me😁

    • @alltcsr24
      @alltcsr24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's how things progress ..With most of us

    • @AnonymousGuy12
      @AnonymousGuy12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Idk how girls discover it so late as compared to us boys. I literally was PhD in this topic when I was 14 even about female bodies 😂

  • @manishakaushal9909
    @manishakaushal9909 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for sharing this 🦋

  • @sendpizzaplease
    @sendpizzaplease 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is probably my first comment on a youtube video....loved the video!! .... This message has to reach teenagers

  • @monalisengupta6087
    @monalisengupta6087 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Really appreciate you taking up this taboo topic to talk about it, especially in a country where sex-ed is given no importance. More power to you. We need more people to talk about this and be open about this.

    • @avantinagral
      @avantinagral 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙌🏼💜💗

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว

    • @redpilled4872
      @redpilled4872 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      self pleasure nothing to do with s* education.
      almost all teens do that.

    • @surangamadhuwantha5749
      @surangamadhuwantha5749 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      මම ලංකාවෙ අපි නමි කරනවා දින පතා .පිරිමි අපිය නමි ප්‍රශ්නයක් නැ නෙ ඉතින් .ඔයාලා පවි

  • @grandpafalkenrath2988
    @grandpafalkenrath2988 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm proud of you for being honest and open about your experiences

  • @ercel2010
    @ercel2010 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Literally watching "dobara" DOBARA
    Thanku @avanti for sharing ur experience!
    And @Dobara for conducting such sessions!💙

  • @Bluuu_Krish
    @Bluuu_Krish ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You talked about it so clearly and in expressive way i appreciate you! For your confidence that's how every girl should be(expressive,confident, and fearless)💖

    • @Bluuu_Krish
      @Bluuu_Krish ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@josh6443 About what? You wanna teach me??

  • @delusionalunicorn5324
    @delusionalunicorn5324 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This has become one of my favorite TH-cam channels. ❤️

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🌻🥺 thank you

  • @shuktirode8673
    @shuktirode8673 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    You are so brave for talking this out. During school I used to wonder whether all this is normal or not and whether other girls felt the same. I never spoke about it cuz it felt taboo and ashamed. I really appreciate you for doing this video and normalising our sexual feelings. 😀😀

  • @shagunagrawal2003
    @shagunagrawal2003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So proud of you to bring this topic up ❤️❤️

  • @jimmyburke9711
    @jimmyburke9711 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You just have to love this person. She is just so sweet and normal and above all. HONEST

  • @sakshidubey9789
    @sakshidubey9789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So decent and calm she is !! Expressing such a topic with so much decency !! Much love to her !!

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🌻💙

  • @asawarinotsaawariya
    @asawarinotsaawariya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This was really so good to listen to and so comforting ❤️ Thank you Avanti for sharing your story 😌💜

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Glad you enjoyed it!

    • @avantinagral
      @avantinagral 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m so glad 🥺💜💗

    • @shrikantsharma7175
      @shrikantsharma7175 ปีที่แล้ว

      u also enjoy every time of masterbation

  • @mannyt309
    @mannyt309 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm just here after having the podcast neuroscience of sex ft .... I'm a medical student and i just feel ki everything is freaking normal why everyone use the term bad habits/bad things men's women's and animals all r same they have their own rights ...i think u guys r just evolving our society by sharing the normal thing that's people try to hide....keep it up .... Really impressed...

  • @jyonaya003
    @jyonaya003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    #ChalHatt It feels so good to hear so much positive thoughts on this topic!! ♥️😄

  • @prashanttripathi6816
    @prashanttripathi6816 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Avanti ❤️ take a very good care of yourself nd your smile...our Indian girls need your voice your courage your attitude your perspective your worthy boldness nd so on just a big hug to you and love ❤️you are my WW 💕

  • @helpingpotato6422
    @helpingpotato6422 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Womens Masturbation & LGBTQ+☹️ are two topics which indian society hate and avanti I have no words for you. you have done such a great job in sharing this with us by talking about this topic ❤️

  • @Userbloom107
    @Userbloom107 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes you are right
    You are frankly talking and this is good for our society
    This will definitely change our societal mind set

  • @IshaMessy
    @IshaMessy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is the change that we want to see in the world and @Avanti Nagral this video is not just a part of revolution. This is a revolution

    • @Dobara
      @Dobara  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🌻💙