Being unbothered bothers people, especially if you are a woman. People are going to always have an opinion. It may be they need to work on their own self esteem.
Being bothered requires too much energy. I’m not bothered by anything outside of my children. I really don’t care. I only pretend to care if there is some form of benefit. I will win an academy award if there are dollar signs attached to it 😂. Otherwise good luck in trying to get my attention.
I told myself I wouldn’t judge others in my unbothered state bc if I was truly unbothered I wouldn’t judge. However, it’s my right to judge if I want. When you’re unbothered you’re able to see people’s true colors clearly because you’re staying calm you can observe better.
This was such wisdom. Silly people get upset when I’m unbothered/uncaring but you’re right. That’s THEIR problem, not mine. If they’re not paying me enough to “bother” with them, that’s their problem too. It’s not mine, and doesn’t affect me.
Girl!!! 😂 I feel what u said about Facebook I have to hide those posts from my timeline they make me itch. My followers can’t even stand me they just can’t resist watching me because I make it clear 50/50 ain’t it baby. These girls insist on it well good luck. Like you said give me my food. 🥂✨
Ppl might not like this advice but women have to be like this with men because they operate a certain type of way. So you can be doing the most with nothing in return & then there goes your dreams youth & opportunities. Men that have that are good ppl don’t mind giving so you won’t have to do much at all because they will just want you for you. Men that aren’t financially invested won’t respect you or your household.
I think it's real easy for us Pisces too, Shera. My mom, ex, and associates have all questioned me about "not caring". I'm like it's not that idc, Im just not giving my energy to all matters...
My 2 close friends are pisces and when I say this irritates my soul 😂😂😂 I’m a Gemini so I’m sure you could understand why. I do this to men but when my friends do it to me I’m ready to end it all😂💞
Having to be somewhere again,Shera? Yet you stay for almost two hours. Lol. Whatever,we love you and your body of work. I feel i've graduated already, due to my own natural wiring and being partially shaped by your advice. I now watch solely for entertainment purposes and to help get the likes and views up. You have damn well earned that and more. You are a blessing to womanhood.
Was rejected in the middle of the night, through text. I weaken, get tremulous, feel stunned.. The same exact things are happening to me, being said to me, but Im trying to pick up and go, faster.
You have given me life today! I adore you! Just found you….will forever call my Giorgio Armani foundation “dusty repellent” N Barbara the builder! 😂 Thank you ❤️😊
Thank you for your knowledge. You put into words what I cannot describe but this has given me so much clarity of how friends, acquaintances, neighbors and even family members have acted with me and confirms that it’s ok for me to be selfish
@@shebacynn1320 Girl I’m healed 🤣 that break up was fresh and I was in my feelings. He tried to come back too lol.. naw I’m good.. I don’t chase, I replace. I appreciate it though ❤️
Same here..I go to dollar tree but not the q in the hood..most people go there because it's usually near your neighborhood and you can be in and out. Why shop huge dept stores when you don't have to.
I'm not my man's type because he like big butt and big breast. Luckily I have big breast and I'm so feminine and classy. We have been together for 2yrs. He left all the fat ass ladies which was his spec, and proposed to me last month. He gave me money to get a liposuction done. I'm still healing.... if u are classy and feminine, he'll make u his type and marry you. My marriage is December this month. I pray I heal quick before then because the liposuction hurts so bad, I can't even sit properly now
LMAO Shera ur the goat 😆 4 real...its true the dust is 2 much! I feel like the building is akin 2 the church building fund, nothing ever manifests so why folks keep donating!!!
I like that planner!!Oh I’ve had people hack my Facebook account so I’ve had several n this particular page I hv now only has VIP PRIVATE if u catch my drift some may be a little dusty ,but I’m serious about who sees my pics and I don’t post a whole lot nor do people know what I’m doing on a daily.Heck no not in this world, too many haters and people will kill you now a days over stupid sht.?!Private is the way to go.
@@user-lb5ph5ke7d I get it. You can even take time to get yourself together, a comfy but put together outfit, get your hair and nails done, lip gloss, lashes whatever to make you feel good and keep your self-esteem, it helps alot I'm a mom too.
Very good points throughout the video, but I am not "unbothered" by the title of this. Did Shera do that on purpose? I mean... it would be a good test to see if we are bothered or not. Haha!
we were on vacation with my gf and saw a nice girl in a restaurant with an arrogant hunk. they didnt speak the whole time during dinner, she tired to cheers with him poor girl and at the end ..he payed. with her wallet that he has taken out from her purse , she gave it to him under the table.
Being unbothered bothers people, especially if you are a woman. People are going to always have an opinion. It may be they need to work on their own self esteem.
Being bothered requires too much energy. I’m not bothered by anything outside of my children. I really don’t care. I only pretend to care if there is some form of benefit. I will win an academy award if there are dollar signs attached to it 😂. Otherwise good luck in trying to get my attention.
Exactly. I am the same. I only act like I “care” when there’s something in it for me or it has to do with money or possessions/investments.
I know that's right! 💯
Facts 😂😂gotta get that bag boo
Exactly
How all women should be
Being unbothered keeps you unstressed in the present and in the future.
Me listening to Shera is like me listening to a sermon. Nodding, Raising my Hand and Amens all the way through.
Lol
Shera sermon babe🪄🔮💴💰💴
lol yessss
Lol 😂 and that’s the truth
Pastor Shera 😅
I told myself I wouldn’t judge others in my unbothered state bc if I was truly unbothered I wouldn’t judge. However, it’s my right to judge if I want. When you’re unbothered you’re able to see people’s true colors clearly because you’re staying calm you can observe better.
Too much fun to be had, too much money to get, to many men to pay my bills to be bothered with anything else 💅🎀💋
Ooh la la 🤑🤗💯🧡
👏👏👏
This was such wisdom. Silly people get upset when I’m unbothered/uncaring but you’re right. That’s THEIR problem, not mine. If they’re not paying me enough to “bother” with them, that’s their problem too. It’s not mine, and doesn’t affect me.
Amen
Girl!!! 😂 I feel what u said about Facebook I have to hide those posts from my timeline they make me itch. My followers can’t even stand me they just can’t resist watching me because I make it clear 50/50 ain’t it baby. These girls insist on it well good luck. Like you said give me my food. 🥂✨
No luck, blessings...
I just had this conversation with a girlfriend and women will fight you to pay their 50/50 lol.
Ppl might not like this advice but women have to be like this with men because they operate a certain type of way. So you can be doing the most with nothing in return & then there goes your dreams youth & opportunities. Men that have that are good ppl don’t mind giving so you won’t have to do much at all because they will just want you for you. Men that aren’t financially invested won’t respect you or your household.
100%
Shera is so unbothered, she doesn't read her titles after she writes them.
lol
😂😂🤣😂😂🤣😂😂🤣😂😂😂😂
Lol
Hahaha
😂😂
I think it's real easy for us Pisces too, Shera. My mom, ex, and associates have all questioned me about "not caring". I'm like it's not that idc, Im just not giving my energy to all matters...
Pisces queens 🤍
Pisces check 💅🏾🙌🏾 facts!!!
Pisces rising 🌟♓
pisces moon 🌝
My 2 close friends are pisces and when I say this irritates my soul 😂😂😂 I’m a Gemini so I’m sure you could understand why. I do this to men but when my friends do it to me I’m ready to end it all😂💞
Having to be somewhere again,Shera? Yet you stay for almost two hours. Lol. Whatever,we love you and your body of work. I feel i've graduated already, due to my own natural wiring and being partially shaped by your advice. I now watch solely for entertainment purposes and to help get the likes and views up. You have damn well earned that and more. You are a blessing to womanhood.
Shera you are changing my life drastically in a positive way. May God Continue to BLESS you and James for ever
The dollar tree along the beach coastlines are very clean and nice and have more rare things available
I never tire of your wisdom Shera, you are doing the world a public service.😄💖✨
Not fell in love in the sewer 🤣🤣🤣😂 omg Shera ! You are the realest lolol
I almost choked while I was drinking my water. That was really funny 🤣 im glad i saw ur comment
I need to become more witty and direct. 😪
Was rejected in the middle of the night, through text. I weaken, get tremulous, feel stunned.. The same exact things are happening to me, being said to me, but Im trying to pick up and go, faster.
@@WiseGoddesss thanks Miss
You never lose, either you win it or you learn it. Rejection is divine protection. ✨
Make sure to block the fool’s number.
Nice one!👏👏👏👏
@@TASconfidential LOL
I wish I would've caught this live. Whew: the "SPRINKLE SPRINKLE" I would've dropped on this sermon...! Fabulous content Shera.
You have given me life today! I adore you! Just found you….will forever call my Giorgio Armani foundation “dusty repellent”
N Barbara the builder! 😂
Thank you ❤️😊
I feel this in my soul
Being & looking electrifyingly beautiful as always Shera ✨❤️✨
Shera you funny as hell, ownership is up
Thank you for your knowledge. You put into words what I cannot describe but this has given me so much clarity of how friends, acquaintances, neighbors and even family members have acted with me and confirms that it’s ok for me to be selfish
I love your videos!!!! It's all truth! You have me laughing out loud at work tho😂
Shera please do a video on getting over a heartbreak and knowing your worth! Thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
She did one already.
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns Thanks love where is it?
Healing is for the sic is the title.That’s the video you need.
@@shebacynn1320 Girl I’m healed 🤣 that break up was fresh and I was in my feelings. He tried to come back too lol.. naw I’m good.. I don’t chase, I replace. I appreciate it though ❤️
@@ceeceeme1 That’s great! I’m glad you did the right thing and are in a better place now.
Thank you God mom💕👑
Best video you have ever made. So knowledgeable and gives examples !!
You are such an amazing inspiration! Those books tho!
Same here..I go to dollar tree but not the q in the hood..most people go there because it's usually near your neighborhood and you can be in and out. Why shop huge dept stores when you don't have to.
Thanks very much ❤☺️😊
I'm not my man's type because he like big butt and big breast. Luckily I have big breast and I'm so feminine and classy. We have been together for 2yrs. He left all the fat ass ladies which was his spec, and proposed to me last month. He gave me money to get a liposuction done. I'm still healing.... if u are classy and feminine, he'll make u his type and marry you. My marriage is December this month. I pray I heal quick before then because the liposuction hurts so bad, I can't even sit properly now
Debt is a dangerous trap, stay out of it
I needed this 😫
Thanks!
LMAO Shera ur the goat 😆 4 real...its true the dust is 2 much! I feel like the building is akin 2 the church building fund, nothing ever manifests so why folks keep donating!!!
“What in the dustiness is this?” 😛
😂😂😂What in the dusty😂😂😂The dustiness of it all 😅😅😅 I’m weak 🤭🤭🤭 Get online and shop while he’s drunk 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
I like that planner!!Oh I’ve had people hack my Facebook account so I’ve had several n this particular page I hv now only has VIP PRIVATE if u catch my drift some may be a little dusty ,but I’m serious about who sees my pics and I don’t post a whole lot nor do people know what I’m doing on a daily.Heck no not in this world, too many haters and people will kill you now a days over stupid sht.?!Private is the way to go.
"Free labor" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
hhhh "you need alergy pills just to go on fb" :D so funny
Y’all are hilarious
Thank you for this message Shera.... ppl are such haters nowadays...
It would be so nice if you writ a book for married women how to keep their provider man and their relationship fresh
She has 2 books on Amazon and many videos about how to keep your husband pursuing :)
Love you Shera. 🌸
Yes
R u telling me I gotta hide that I play video games from my future provider ?!?!
I guess we’re even 😂
Shera, have you seen Moon Knight yet?? I'm cracking up at the audacity 🤣
What do you do when you just had baby feel insecure about you body. I have gained weight and I don’t feel like going out .
Lose the weight. Try going vegan and/or intermittent fasting. Workout at home.
Please start now to do something about it, the longer you leave it the more depression it will cause you
@@janedoe5510 I really cannot workout coz she won’t let me just two months old. So maybe have to do something with the diet
@@user-lb5ph5ke7d I get it. You can even take time to get yourself together, a comfy but put together outfit, get your hair and nails done, lip gloss, lashes whatever to make you feel good and keep your self-esteem, it helps alot I'm a mom too.
@@janedoe5510 thank you so much . I will do that
🔥🔥🔥
Very good points throughout the video, but I am not "unbothered" by the title of this. Did Shera do that on purpose? I mean... it would be a good test to see if we are bothered or not. Haha!
Pls. have your books available online as an ebook where e can buy.
I hope. You Get. The Position. As NiGhT MaNaGeR
---R.I.P.🌙
Right
They still haven't built nothing 😂😂😂😂
Bob builder 😂😂😂
what does your husband do for work?
@@daughteroftheking4492 You go first. What does YOUR husband do for work🧐 or your wife? 2024 Gotta cover both bases these days.
The internet told me. Calm down frog farmer was never speaking to you.
@@daughteroftheking4492
PickMesha/DustyBoy,
Thinking you've found the answer to a nosey question accomplished _NOTHING_ for you🤡
Ayyyy
5:00,
😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀
Weirdos
Why your nails ain't done?
Oh please, are you her husband?
You gonna pay for them?
Long fake nails are gheto style. She aint from the gheto.
We are just like Beyoncé bee hives, you mess with our shera our covens are coming for you, watch your mouth 👄 when it comes to shera🖕🏾🔮🪄💯
@@rbguerreiro2466 💯🎯long fake nails are “out”.
we were on vacation with my gf and saw a nice girl in a restaurant with an arrogant hunk. they didnt speak the whole time during dinner, she tired to cheers with him poor girl and at the end ..he payed. with her wallet that he has taken out from her purse , she gave it to him under the table.
LAWD!!! 😲
😬
God no! Girls know your worth
This is sad!
What the hell is going on??
Play the game or be played... that girl will regret in the end
Too unbothered that no dust gets in da wei
Right