Kelsy Schutt You’re an attractive woman in a feminist driven world which means you’re holding all the high cards... if you get screwed over, that means you just didn’t play your hand right.
That was told me by an older woman at my former job... I was working in a Feminist Environment and I was so naive and played fair... I have a nice, natural shaped body and I was dressing like a tomboy. Other uglier women were showing their plain, also overweight features. When I quit, an older woman I had bonded with, approached me and told me that I had not sold myself well. I was too innocent in a world of wolves. That comment stuck into my mind for some time till I found this channel. Yes, bottom line is nobody will put the right value on yourself if you are not the first one to be aware about your looks, smartness and qualities. Love yourself First and be the best Version for yourself only.
I’ve always been clever & mischievous as a child, and manipulated situations and people to benefit me. Then I got tricked by my masculine mother & society to be “nice & fair”. I quickly realized that that was just code for getting screwed over and take it with a smile. Never again! Back to my old ways and no, I DON’T feel guilty about it 😈😇
TheSeductiveArts I think I understand how you feel. I was molested by my own male family members, men who were supposed to protect me. And I was used by various men for money & sex. I was also abused by my masculine mother. Us feminine, hypergamous girls gotta stick together 💜 I wish you the best of luck in life
Lie about past relationships too especially if they did u wrong… some men will hear it and treat u the same as your ex and gaslight you into thinking “ its not that bad and you’re trippin” tell them your ex did everything for you.. if they like you.. it forces them to step up
I think men do that because they do what you allow so if you let another man disrespect you, they will do it too because men see themselves in all men. Men are self centered.
So here’s the thing about lying, it fucks your options up and paints you into a corner. It never ends well and more often than not it comes back and bites you in the ass maybe not today or tomorrow but eventually...
I started out playing unfair, and let a man swindle me into thinking I was a horrible woman for lying to him. Long story short I started playing fair and I got trapped with a baby. Now I’m no victim. My point is , do not allow these men to guilt trip you for playing the very game they are playing. YOU playing fair benefits THEM, and they are very aware ( men are not as dumb as women like to think ) stand on business and make sure YOUR needs are always being met. Never get too comfortable. & ALWAYS keep in mind what one man won’t do .. 5,6,7 others are ready and willing. They love to rock women to sleep with that love word but ladies keep in mind love pays no bills , love won’t send you children to the best schools and live damn sure won’t provide you with the best life. Stay smart , stay present STAY LOGICAL . Study men as they have studied women for centuriessss , hence why women are getting their asses kicked in this game of life .. hopefully sooner than later natural order will be restored.
You are so right! Happened to me as well. Taking steps toward self-defense is my #1 focus this year. That, my finances and looks. Staying out of the field for awhile until I get those in check. Be safe out here
and let me say, too. I was looking at an interview from this radio show called The Breakfast Club. The person that was being interviewed was the legendary Stephanie Mills. So they asked her something about buying gifts for other people and she said she bought 2 different guys a car, one a Mercedes and one a BMW. And then they asked her about what gift a guy has ever given to her and she said no one has ever given her anything. The first thing that popped into my head was Shera.
In relationships, never play fair. You have to set yourself up to win. We’re not giving people benefits of the doubt. You need to have a plan. These men always have a backup. You need be aware and always look out for you cause that’s right they don’t play fair.
i never had a heart break like my last relationship. he was like my best friend (or so i thought). i did so much for him and he seemed to appreciate it. we understood one another so deeply. man, he shattered me out of the blue. looking back now, he fits the definition of a dusty to a T. total mooch, lazy, lied about being hardworking, never wanted to take me on a date. i am so glad i found this channel after spending an entire summer crying. i have learned so much from shera but i dont think i would have had it in me to really hear her message without that heartbreak. i come first... ill never be hurt like that again.
Take this ladiy’s advice, I went from Publix flowers on Mother’s day to LV BAGS and money on birthdays and holidays from my husband. Oh...he covers 💯 bills.
To support what Shera says, this is exactly why men don't want to pay childsupport and they'd rather go to jail. Because to have to give a woman money and you can't have her for any reason kills them.
Shera I am touched by the way you are protecting women from abuse and how you advise us to be strong and ask for a fair treatment when many women gave their all to men and took cheating and rejection in return !! Mothers should advise their daughters like you do .Thank you sooo much .Kisses from Greece ❤️💋
@@myriamwilliams That's right ...when I think back about how foolish I have been with men , I wish I knew then what I know now ..yes it is a game , unfortunately , and men have always been ready for it ..we women must wake up and open our eyes !!!
Every person I tolerated and taken back , man or a woman friend . it came back to bite me - it never got better . I thought that overlooking their crap makes be a better person , they thought that taking adventage if me doesn't end up in consequences , so they continued the damage
Natalia Rentner it’s okay to feel hurt. It’ll pass. A year ago I made a promise to myself that I would focus on getting better instead of getting even and I feel great. I’d like to find a woman I can be with and build with but I’m not rushing into it. I don’t know what you’ve been through but I remember telling myself some of those same things so I see where you’re coming from. Keep your head up!
I wasted 27 years thinking the world was fair. 2 divorces from broke mfs who cheated and lied. Everyone telling me “why you always with ugly broke boys when you’re beautiful” and me being dumb saying “love is love” and being dumb as fuck and setting myself up to be HURT and broke. Lied to. Crying on bus stops 😂😂😂😂 I just got divorced for the second time. I have nothing. They demonized me when I finally got tired of being abused. I’m done. Life isn’t fair. But I’m done crying about it. Time to “adjust accordingly”.
They always say that the best way to a man's heart is through his stomach. Well, how about the best way to a woman's heart is through a man's wallet? A real man would want to be a provider.
Donna McIntosh I’m not about to provide for no gaming ass female. That’s not what a real man is.... and y’all aren men so y’all wouldn’t know what a real man is either.
Think PIONEERing real men would be making money with no time to read thru comments let alone reply on a video created for women. So clearly you don't know what a real man is either. You are not the target. Bye 👋🏾
C'est La Maude so if real women don’t have time to read comments what’s that make you???...... I rest my case. And BTW it’s called passive income, I got all the time I need to read whatever I want miss lady... so boss up.
My parents tought me to play fair. Then at work some ugly and looser people were trying me like im a victim. So I discovered a bad world out there and i started playing the game. Now i listen to you everyday and im sure im doing the right thing. You cant play fair when people wants to play with you. You can play fair when you are gorgeous and men and woman wants to sexually harasse you. Its not possible. Be smart and play the game. Now im strong, i play the game, i feel more confidence and im happy. Its not playing unfair, or having game, its setting respect and making people respect us.
You can still play fair just defend yourself. Imagine everyone not playing fair only the strong would survive. Imagine men didnt respect women and took what they wanted and no law
This channel is nothing but therapy for me. Shera is doing the Lord’s work for women everywhere. I was deliberately conditioned to play fair and deliver goods based on promises. Now, I am totally converted to practicing Shera-ism until forever😀
Lady you are so awesome I must say. I'm 50 years old and wished I had your smartness years ago. Thank you for being who you are. I have started to change so much because I'm taking so much of your advice. I will never have to hell again from anyone again. I'm taking all emotions out and starting to get mines. Thank you lady
My new motto!Girl this title is everything.I learned the hard way that honesty NEVER pays off. Now I only act in a way that advantages me,even if that means lying sometimes.Other people are dishonest af so why should I play fair like a good christian girl? I aint no goody two shoes anymore🙅🏾♀️
I feel like the purpose of being honest is because when you lie you end up with a bunch of people around you who you don’t even like because you were lying about who you are…it’s actually a benefit to be honest BUT only if you have good intuition and standards that are able to assess when something isn’t for you…
I don't lie to them AND I continue to get whatever I ask for. Just don't allow the nonsense. Let those who will gaslight you know that you know what game they are on and keep it moving. Once they figure out you aren't the one who they can play with, that's when the smart NON dusty ones come correct. trust me. I do say and tell very little. SheRa is the best influencer out here.
I am a woman 65 plus. Always remind yourself that Water seeks its on level. If you have a car and he don' t, keep moving. Never let a man move in with you!!!!! You can move in with him. We as women lose respect for a man ,when he move in with us. Don't waste your time if he is not above your level!!!!!!.
My mother manipulated me (as a child) to be her simp (she is a narcissist) which this behavior spilled over into my other relationships. Now that I'm older, I'm turning the tables on everybody (yup! Including women). What I realized is that people only deal with people who can do something for them and I'm gonna beat them to the punch.
Very true. My mother also trained me to be weak and “good girl”. It’s not until I got to my teenage years as to when I started finding myself . I was taken advantage of by men and women. Like you said, people are trying to recruit other people who will be their “bitch”. I had a friend like this, she embarrassed me in front of men and made it seem like I was a sheep(she was the weak one in reality). But when I used to buss back, she would be offended and would laugh about it later.
Same!! I had a mother, who still today at 22, sabotaged my academic and relationship futures , my dusty dad included. They use me, as their scapegoat for everything since I was a child. And they never really protected me as a child as well. I have to have my own back even my siblings I keep a distance from as they are starting to replicate my parents negative dusty and pick me energy. I see everyone in the world for who and what they truly are and honestly I can never go back to seeing things the way I used to, almost like a spiritual awakening, But,now I just keep everyone at a distance and i trust my intuition more than ever.
This Queen started a revolution of Black women’s mindset . A lotta BW have only been exposed to poverty and poverty relationships mindset where BW are encouraged from poor men to be strong n independent and poor BM look for a woman to live off of to scam until he has more money to elevate or he look for free sex from women then refuse to provide for the children. The poverty trap that BW have been in for generations . She using her power to elevate BW relationship standards and this will overall improve the Black community financial status . This a Queen right here 👸🏽
I just got a tip from you; I usually sit at the last bench at church, next time I'll be sitting at the front. But I hate that there are many dusties at church feeling like they are entitled just because they're "saved". I don't care if you are saved if you got no money I don't want you!
I know this is an older video but you made me chuckle 🤭🤭 Church is like a hospital for sick dusty males. Its thee WORST place to meet a man. Wolves in sheep clothing and momma boys listening to her saying get with a good _praying woman_ UMM.. no ma'am... Keep your boy at home with you. RUN 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
@@clarelinus More like survival MODE. Dusty's of all backgrounds are at church events hunting for _sanctified_ prey aka a doormat. Ladies, stay woke. Dismiss love bombers🥰
27 years believing in karma and karma hasn’t done anything for me. Wondering why I’ve been doing “everything right” and things not working out for me 😂 THIS IS WHY . When you said “yes you gotta lie” lmaoooo THANK YOU.
@@losmit2194it works great for us. We don’t get attached or don’t lose as much and also expect disappointment, which is something a man is guaranteed to give 😂
I'm just learning this at 24. I already wish i knew this earlier. But I'm happy I didn't wait any longer. I was a little sheltered but it's ok I know now not to believe in this
I love visiting your channel for a dose of reality . Men will tell you they hate liars but most , yes most lie to us .oh no don’t be Barbara the builder , he won’t appreciate it , trust me SheRa is so right. Let him be a big man and build it himself .
A lady just came out of a 6 year situationship where she allowed him to sample and he STILL lied to her. She finally left and has a nice dude who treasures her
play fair with people who play it fair with you. not many will do. i've been too nice with too many people and only one person, aside from some members of my family, showed he truly cared. So i care truly for him. Others get in return how they treated me and now I am called all sorts of names and I laugh hearing it. I simply say, why are you so surprised, this is the return on your investments.
Just finished an article about a guy who met his second wife in the bar right after the funeral for his first wife! You think that when you die, your husband or man will be broken hearted. Nope, he’ll move on and be in another woman’s bed before your body is even cold! That’s what we are dealing with so do what’s best for YOU in these relationships with men.
Yup stop dating men who are not ready or willing to provide just because you like their personality or looks. That’s what friends are for; not husbands. Husbands are a completely different breed and have a ready and willing mindset. Unready stingy and lazy men want the same benefits as alpha men. That is unfair. Life is about survival of the fittest. Ladies this goes for us to. Improve your mindset looks and standards to get better men.
Before I used to believe in Karma and play fair with man (pay half of everything), then they use me and my body. I got hurt at the end. U know what now I don’t give a shit about karma anymore.
For the woman who's husband cheated on her, please sis take his money, hopefully you don't have kids. Find another man or woman and make sure they don't have any traits of your husband, supportive mentally and financially and loyal.
44:07 when you compliment men nonstop / fake compliments they will think you do it with other men If they are already impressed by you, you just have to show up, be seen in public with them and let them impress you. Don’t try to impress them at all. If you give too much they’ll think you’re overcompensating
@@dutchessofcreativity9397 Yes!!! I have a pretty good playlist on my page with lots of SheRa's vids (LU💋) and it is definitely daily lessons. Sinking in and becoming 1st nature. Wish you ladies well on your level up journey ❤❤
Shera, darling, in my opinion, this is your best video. Playing fair is indeed a set up. I also do not believe in karma anymore. The world's most evil people are famous and/or filthy rich and use their status to get away with more evil. People say they love honesty. Give them honesty and they shoot you down time after time. Well! I buried the " nice and fair" girl and she aint coming back ever! I play to win. This is one video i revisit very often. Only facts! Thank you!❤❤❤🙌💯🔥👌
3 years ago I told my daughter abt SheRa yet she didnt watch shes has now broken up after 6 years of struggling and holding him up while he got "better" she helped him level up ONLY so he can ruin the relationship. Shes now with a baller and she listens to my advice now
THANK YOU SHERA, for all that you are doing here for women. Especially for the younger women coming up and generations to come. Mens' games started this backlash
“Thats only benefits for men. If he cant pay yo bills you not benefiting. You just givin away free sex to some man and thats rachet. Youre just being used with no commitment and still payin yo bills. And he not gone fall for you but you gone fall for him and you gone be mad.” 😭😭😭
Thank You Shera for this much needed wake up call. For years I was taking advice from my older aunt( who is single), who taught me there are no rules in relationships and just "Fall in love". Well everytime I just fell in love allowing my emotions to lead it left me heart broken . The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over expecting a different response. I'm looking after me, myself and I now. time to LEVEL UP❤. Not looking back!!
That’s why they always say, “Hate the player and not the game.” 😂the game is the game regardless of who’s in it, but like Shera said, “You gotta be in it to win it.”
I was watching Mindful attractions there are nothing but Pickmisha!!!! To the point I got so annoyed I had to come back here to take dust off my shoulder.
Shera, I love you girl! I got a SD, apartment paid for, and currently setting up a scenario on a car for christmas (told my SD I'm "scared of getting robbed catching the train" 😈😹) Now I use your sugar game on my clients to get paid too 😹. It works on both genders ya'll 😹😹
@@theself-careacademy4488 My trick(s) to get him was: 1. I went to eat at the nicest part of the city in a 4-star restaurant (my meal cost $25) 2. I had on natural makeup (brows, mascara, lips) 3. I had on a classy outfit (beige sweater, black pencil skirt, black stockings, black pointy heels, altogether $100 from H&M) 4. I walked in the place with a smile, genuinely happy to be there (it was beautifully decorated!) 5. I enjoyed my meal (it was expensive to me, so I REALLY took my time with it. I must have looked so dainty) 6. (When I first walked in, I scanned to room and saw an older man sitting by himself--I identified him as my target) I would glance around between bites and smile and make brief eye contact with him. 7. Towards the end of my meal, the gentleman came over when he noticed I had finished my wine and offered to buy me another glass, if he could have one with me. 8. I accepted! I thought to myself, "BINGO!" We been together ever since (8 months). He paid the deposit on my apt, he gives me cash/deposits to my account. We even go back to that restaurant once in a while to reminisce. And they remember us too! He loves the attention he gets when I'm with him. They stare & serve us like celebrities! It took me years to listen to Shera though. I think I was listening to her back when she had curly hair and colorful wigs (4years?) So her advice had to sink in, before it all came together that 1 night. But I give her the credit because I had to level up physically, mentally and now emotionally (I've almost messed up with my SD a couple of times by being in my feelings) So it's an ongoing process. That's why I still listen to all her videos daily, to stay on point. It might not take as long for you, but you gotta start somewhere!
@@starvega144 I met mine at a restaurant in the nicest part of the city. I get good attention whenever I go out to the main shopping areas. There's a street here called "King's Street" with all the luxury shops, Chanel, Prada, Hermes etc.. I walk along that street with a little $5 treat (icecream, coffee, macaroons) and walk slowly making eye contact with men I see coming out, or going into those stores. You know they have money if the can shop there! And just smile seductively, aim towards your target, and think "wouldn't you LOVE to buy me something if I was YOUR girl?" They can kinda pick up the thought because your look and energy becomes so attractive. I got good results that way!
gordon I'm always feminine and seductive. I listen to his stories, laugh at his jokes, make him feel like a competent, strong man. I know for a fact, I'm the only person in his life serving him on this level. He owns his company and is always stressed out. So when we're together, I help him de-stress and feel special. He keeps coming back for more! Oh and of course, hot sex. I know Shera would agree, because ALL of my bills are paid. He's spent over 15k on me in 8 months, plus more to come. I remember one of Shera's videos with James... the way he described Shera, "she represents pleasure and success". I keep that in mind with my SD. Plus Shera said she "turnt him out" lol!
Being eager to mate is not animalistic at all - in the animal kingdom a mate is rejected unless he is the biggest, strongest and most impressive. Go consider the ways of the feminine in the animal kingdom and you will see true game...
It funny now until you meet the wrong guy that revengeful. Every guy not got going nice, sweet, respectful. And just move on. Like he just didn't get used and take in advanagte of
A few months ago I loaned someone money and tried not to pressure them about it. Then as time kept passing I asked and was ignored. Finally when I was in need and asked for it, the blocked me. I'm so done and I've known this person for years
Yes. And people do that with advice too not just physical things. Advice, money, protection energy etc. That's why I seldom give out anything to anyone.
I was dating one guy for years, knew him since childhood and we hung out since I was 10 years old until almost 20. I then lended him $300 and he never showed up again. Now I’m gone in a second if a male even mentions he needs money.
Also, overthinking almost ruined my studies. Being good in this digusting world can destroy you. It only attracts users too. I also become a misantropist after covid and this new "energy crisis" which is obviously just a covid bill.
i'm only 16 years old, but i agree with almost everything that you said, and i already wish i knew all of this information years ago, because having that type of information - and mentality - would cause me a lot *less* stress in my life than it did.....
I had to kick out my husband out for being an alcoholic but he still pays all my bills and wants to continue our relationship. We’ve been together for 20 years. Now, I’m not going to be emotional anymore and go along with him and use him as my bank account.
I was bullied out of the public school I worked for as a teacher by my colleagues, just because of my "soft" look and nature. They sent me naughty messages, told me I'm dumb, not authentic and have "problems with myself" multiple times and the school principal, who should be my protector, tried to get sexual with me over and over again.. I was raped in my early 20s by an uncle and felt the need to tell this to a female colleague who is my age, because with my PTSD it all got so overhelming. She always told me I could trust her and that she would be on my side. The next day everyone knew that I was raped once and they made fun about it subliminally. I felt so lost, especially after a therapist told me that all their behaviour is actually my fault and that I should stay in that school no matter what. How? And why? I just tried to work in peace and had so many hopes and goals. Some people are really demonic. After a few months I couldn't accept the situation anymore and moved out and away. I know my worth, my qualities and my qualifications! Always listen to your heart! Principals and doctors are just human and service providers, too! Sometimes they don't know it better and do horrible things! Listen to your heart, take off the mask and never deny yourself! Nina Simone said “You've got to learn to leave the table. When love's no longer being served" When people have no love in their hearts whatsoever and are draining your energy just to destroy you, then don't be passive! Move! You can always make money somewhere else but your health may never come back
You are a strong woman by heart. Dnt let anyone convince you otherwise... they are all troubled because of their past and they should get help otherwise they'll keep on harming others.. I wish you well. Meet other people and you will your man
Wth, ugh people are so terrible and I hate how they say that bad things that happen to you are your fault. Luck is real. I'm so sorry that you are in such a terrible environment but I believe you. I know how low people can go.
@Yasi Yeah people are evil like that. And Yasi these people do know better, It's just that they do not care, don't try to see light in a room clearly full of darkness, it won't make the people or the situation any better. I am glad you left honestly, Those people are not worth your sanity or your health, you can find better people and a better job elsewhere which I am sure you have. I've dealt with people like that as well, and trust me they don't get any better, and they will not have a good future, I don't believe in karma either, but I do believe, That you can turn your life around, start fresh in a new environment and build yourself back up again and start winning it's possible really. I did it, after many traumatic experiences at school and work. And being nice and fair and "working hard", will never ever ever win. Listening to your intuition,Working smart and staying high alert, and discreet always will though....
And therapists can be full of crap as well😅Just because they have the degree,doesn't mean they are actually good at their job or they are intelligent, Too many lazy therapists nowadays who tell people what they want to hear or they just straight up play with people's emotions and their traumatic past just for fun, they can be really sick and predatory too. It can take time to find the right therapist and the right people in your circle, I wish you All the best of luck, and love, because it is what you deserve♥️
Just wanted to add on, those of you talking about karma.. involving yourself with dusty men and low vibrational energy and hiding behind it as "im a good person thats why i give so many chances to people who don't deserve it" is signing off on your own karma. At what point do you realize that, if your not good to yourself, who gone be good to you? lol you accept shitty treatment, the universe or God (whatever you believe) will keep serving you shitty treatment.
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Every time I've played fair and by the rules in my life, I've been screwed over.
Kelsy Schutt You’re an attractive woman in a feminist driven world which means you’re holding all the high cards... if you get screwed over, that means you just didn’t play your hand right.
Think PIONEERing Feminist driven world?? Haha you mean in a patriarchal, misogynistic, male dominated society??? FOH CLOWN
Same!
That was told me by an older woman at my former job... I was working in a Feminist Environment and I was so naive and played fair... I have a nice, natural shaped body and I was dressing like a tomboy. Other uglier women were showing their plain, also overweight features. When I quit, an older woman I had bonded with, approached me and told me that I had not sold myself well. I was too innocent in a world of wolves. That comment stuck into my mind for some time till I found this channel. Yes, bottom line is nobody will put the right value on yourself if you are not the first one to be aware about your looks, smartness and qualities. Love yourself First and be the best Version for yourself only.
LoReZ25 wow, that would stick with me as well. Good job for her for being honest and spreading the wisdom and unfortunate reality of this world
"Sex is for little girls that need validation from a man"
So true.
@@sarachai_ gurl yess an old lady once told me" gurl that thang between yo legs worth more thsn silver and gold..there have been wars over it"
We all want good sex but validation is a different topic
I really want sex but only in the right circumstance! Only way it will feel good then and after.
@TripJay21 and pleasure
F*cking for love! Goofy chic or young girls game
I’ve always been clever & mischievous as a child, and manipulated situations and people to benefit me. Then I got tricked by my masculine mother & society to be “nice & fair”. I quickly realized that that was just code for getting screwed over and take it with a smile. Never again! Back to my old ways and no, I DON’T feel guilty about it 😈😇
yum gn Good! You are a woman, the weaker sex, you gotta survive & protect yourself 💜 I wish you the best of luck in life beautiful
TheSeductiveArts I think I understand how you feel. I was molested by my own male family members, men who were supposed to protect me. And I was used by various men for money & sex. I was also abused by my masculine mother. Us feminine, hypergamous girls gotta stick together 💜 I wish you the best of luck in life
TheSeductiveArts Btw, sounds like your mom might have been a narcissist like my mother. They tend to hate on their daughters.
yum gn you and me both! Not in 2020
Maddi Page Cheers to the good life 🥂✨
Lie about past relationships too especially if they did u wrong… some men will hear it and treat u the same as your ex and gaslight you into thinking “ its not that bad and you’re trippin” tell them your ex did everything for you.. if they like you.. it forces them to step up
I think men do that because they do what you allow so if you let another man disrespect you, they will do it too because men see themselves in all men. Men are self centered.
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I always talk about relationships i never had, and how they were buying me gifts and spoiling me so i can set the standard😂
Basically when you lie, you are just guarding your heart is how I think of it.
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Yup. I used to feel bad about lying, but chile.....
Would you live in a world of liers
We already do
@@thediamondfamily5796 So we just go lie to each other?
"Start lying to live your best life!" 😂
Thats crazy imagine everybody lying to you
Codename Diva he groomed me to be honest with him about everything but he lies nonstop
So here’s the thing about lying, it fucks your options up and paints you into a corner. It never ends well and more often than not it comes back and bites you in the ass maybe not today or tomorrow but eventually...
So true, lol!
@@doesitburn3819 They already do! Parents about Santa Claus Tooth Fairy etc.
I started out playing unfair, and let a man swindle me into thinking I was a horrible woman for lying to him. Long story short I started playing fair and I got trapped with a baby. Now I’m no victim. My point is , do not allow these men to guilt trip you for playing the very game they are playing. YOU playing fair benefits THEM, and they are very aware ( men are not as dumb as women like to think ) stand on business and make sure YOUR needs are always being met. Never get too comfortable. & ALWAYS keep in mind what one man won’t do .. 5,6,7 others are ready and willing. They love to rock women to sleep with that love word but ladies keep in mind love pays no bills , love won’t send you children to the best schools and live damn sure won’t provide you with the best life. Stay smart , stay present STAY LOGICAL . Study men as they have studied women for centuriessss , hence why women are getting their asses kicked in this game of life .. hopefully sooner than later natural order will be restored.
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As a woman playing fair almost got me killed. Women gotta protect themselves and survive. We are the weaker sex.
Facts . Good girls come last
You are so right! Happened to me as well. Taking steps toward self-defense is my #1 focus this year. That, my finances and looks. Staying out of the field for awhile until I get those in check. Be safe out here
Good girls seldom make history. You are gorgeous btw
Seize the Dae that's Lana Del Rey's picture
Geneva Welch lying has saved my life multiple times and I don’t regret it. At the end of the day men don’t care about us🤷🏽♀️
“‘Pick-meisha’ has helped solve the homeless problem for years” 😂😂🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
Lol
Facts
Wow👍🏻👏🏻💯💯💯💯💯 Preach it Sis
Hands down best comment Ever💯💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥🔥❤❤❤
and let me say, too. I was looking at an interview from this radio show called The Breakfast Club. The person that was being interviewed was the legendary Stephanie Mills. So they asked her something about buying gifts for other people and she said she bought 2 different guys a car, one a Mercedes and one a BMW. And then they asked her about what gift a guy has ever given to her and she said no one has ever given her anything. The first thing that popped into my head was Shera.
Omg
Kimberly Green girl I saw that she bought cars for men. I have never bought a boyfriend a coffee ☕️. I could not believe the low self esteem.
Same. I don't buy men a thing.
Pretty Natural she just felt so comfortable saying it. Then when they asked about what someone gave her she was looking kinda sad.
wtf??????!!! This is sad.
"All the bad people walking around looking cute not worrying about karma" 😭
"the good people still broke clocking in to work"😂😂
If this ain’t the truth
Sprinkle, sprinkle! :D
😂😂😂
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Lmaooo. FACTS fuck that nice shit
Men started all this by dogging us out...now its our time to finish what they started :)
Like we would be too dumb to learn
@@LaDeeDah😅😅😅
In relationships, never play fair. You have to set yourself up to win. We’re not giving people benefits of the doubt. You need to have a plan. These men always have a backup. You need be aware and always look out for you cause that’s right they don’t play fair.
True they always have a back up
ALWAYS
i never had a heart break like my last relationship. he was like my best friend (or so i thought). i did so much for him and he seemed to appreciate it. we understood one another so deeply. man, he shattered me out of the blue. looking back now, he fits the definition of a dusty to a T. total mooch, lazy, lied about being hardworking, never wanted to take me on a date. i am so glad i found this channel after spending an entire summer crying. i have learned so much from shera but i dont think i would have had it in me to really hear her message without that heartbreak. i come first... ill never be hurt like that again.
Take this ladiy’s advice, I went from Publix flowers on Mother’s day to LV BAGS and money on birthdays and holidays from my husband. Oh...he covers 💯 bills.
That's where I'm trying to get.been a married barbara the builder for 20 years...found shera and working on not working
"Publix flowers" Lmao! We all know those flowers!
How did you do it? What exactly did you tell him?
That's what I'm in the market for!! Asap lol
Any tips?
To support what Shera says, this is exactly why men don't want to pay childsupport and they'd rather go to jail. Because to have to give a woman money and you can't have her for any reason kills them.
Omg u def right i was wondering why men only support the children of the women they with
True
Why should men pay for a child they don't even see? Of course they would be broken hearted.
@@EmperorHero1 cause it's their child?
Im getting all of yall pregnant this year including sheraseven and i ain't paying no child support lol
former nice girl, people pleaser. i cringe for my past self. thxxx queen
I also cringe at how I was want too nice in the pastas dealt with disgusting smelly dusty broke men🤮
Me too. 😂❤
Rev. Ike said it best:"You can be morally right, but mentally wrong."
Yes he did!😊👍🏿👍🏿
And his you tube channel is... still!....FIRE!!!...
After Allllllllll these! Years!🤗
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Very true
I love Rev. Ike
@TheSeductiveArts 😊🙏😊
Shera I am touched by the way you are protecting women from abuse and how you advise us to be strong and ask for a fair treatment when many women gave their all to men and took cheating and rejection in return !! Mothers should advise their daughters like you do .Thank you sooo much .Kisses from Greece ❤️💋
You said it best . She is protecting women from abuse . Ashera has the biggest heart and Is truly living her purpose here on earth .
S williams She really is an angel. I admire her more than any other woman on earth.
@@myriamwilliams That's right ...when I think back about how foolish I have been with men , I wish I knew then what I know now ..yes it is a game , unfortunately , and men have always been ready for it ..we women must wake up and open our eyes !!!
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@@syedhammadahmed508 Relax
From my observation, I have noticed liars usually thrive and conquer.
Every person I tolerated and taken back , man or a woman friend . it came back to bite me - it never got better . I thought that overlooking their crap makes be a better person , they thought that taking adventage if me doesn't end up in consequences , so they continued the damage
Natalia Rentner it’s okay to feel hurt. It’ll pass. A year ago I made a promise to myself that I would focus on getting better instead of getting even and I feel great. I’d like to find a woman I can be with and build with but I’m not rushing into it. I don’t know what you’ve been through but I remember telling myself some of those same things so I see where you’re coming from. Keep your head up!
Ever since I had a game plan, I started winning. Playing fair has only gotten me abused.
You should have a Tv show: every woman need to hear you. This world needs you. Women need you .
She's misleading women
How?
"Talk is cheap, I only respond to actions", yes.
The amount of confidence i get when i watch her videos is insane
“Donate your organs so you don’t feel guilty for walking around living.” 😂🎉
That does put it in perspective
Q: Do you believe in karma?
A: I am Karma baby 🙌🏾🙌🏾🏆🏆
I wasted 27 years thinking the world was fair. 2 divorces from broke mfs who cheated and lied. Everyone telling me “why you always with ugly broke boys when you’re beautiful” and me being dumb saying “love is love” and being dumb as fuck and setting myself up to be HURT and broke. Lied to. Crying on bus stops 😂😂😂😂
I just got divorced for the second time. I have nothing. They demonized me when I finally got tired of being abused. I’m done. Life isn’t fair. But I’m done crying about it. Time to “adjust accordingly”.
me too, cheated on for 37 years. Time for me now. Sprinkle sprinkle dammit!;)
I'm 63 It's NEVER too late. Do you now. I wish you the best
Ru ok now?
If all mothers were like you, the world would have been a better place for us women
I haven’t played fair for about ten years now 😂😂. It really works, life changing.
They always say that the best way to a man's heart is through his stomach. Well, how about the best way to a woman's heart is through a man's wallet? A real man would want to be a provider.
Donna McIntosh I’m not about to provide for no gaming ass female. That’s not what a real man is.... and y’all aren men so y’all wouldn’t know what a real man is either.
Think PIONEERing real men would be making money with no time to read thru comments let alone reply on a video created for women. So clearly you don't know what a real man is either. You are not the target. Bye 👋🏾
C'est La Maude so if real women don’t have time to read comments what’s that make you???...... I rest my case. And BTW it’s called passive income, I got all the time I need to read whatever I want miss lady... so boss up.
C'est La Maude well said! He is not our target.
Some women act like their 5..sis you are so patient when answering questions
😂
My parents tought me to play fair. Then at work some ugly and looser people were trying me like im a victim. So I discovered a bad world out there and i started playing the game. Now i listen to you everyday and im sure im doing the right thing. You cant play fair when people wants to play with you. You can play fair when you are gorgeous and men and woman wants to sexually harasse you. Its not possible. Be smart and play the game. Now im strong, i play the game, i feel more confidence and im happy. Its not playing unfair, or having game, its setting respect and making people respect us.
You can still play fair just defend yourself. Imagine everyone not playing fair only the strong would survive. Imagine men didnt respect women and took what they wanted and no law
Amèn sista!!
@@doesitburn3819 that's already happening smh. I hate when people use 'hypotheticals' that are already in motion in the real world.
@@morbiddom9587 Yes because your part of the problem lol
@@doesitburn3819 you just proved my point though
Shera in hindi means a lion. You are a lioness, lady!! And turning us all into them. Let the lioness roar!! Thank you so much
This channel is nothing but therapy for me. Shera is doing the Lord’s work for women everywhere. I was deliberately conditioned to play fair and deliver goods based on promises. Now, I am totally converted to practicing Shera-ism until forever😀
Shera-ism 😂😂let’s make it a religion
@@RutendoReza-tw5fssame to way
If karma was real, you would be on top and they would be on the bottom. 😧 a word!
Lady you are so awesome I must say. I'm 50 years old and wished I had your smartness years ago. Thank you for being who you are. I have started to change so much because I'm taking so much of your advice. I will never have to hell again from anyone again. I'm taking all emotions out and starting to get mines. Thank you lady
“Can I have a friends with benefits ? Nope that’s ratchet”💀
😂😂😂😂
It really is. Thankyou!
"Go to church, put on that red dress, walk down the aisle and...Jesus will give you some montay".
SheRa quote
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@Donna McKinson 😂 lol! hope Ashera creates some merchandise & accessories w her sayings ❤ her quotes are hilarious & ALWAYS ON POINT! 💯 Lol ❤
@@vibingchakras yes...accessories with her one-liners!
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This is what I do lol
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My new motto!Girl this title is everything.I learned the hard way that honesty NEVER pays off. Now I only act in a way that advantages me,even if that means lying sometimes.Other people are dishonest af so why should I play fair like a good christian girl? I aint no goody two shoes anymore🙅🏾♀️
Same here. I lie to men all the time. 9 times out of 10 they are doing the same. I lie to get what I want.
@@Nekole1 lmaoo thats the only way girl
I feel like the purpose of being honest is because when you lie you end up with a bunch of people around you who you don’t even like because you were lying about who you are…it’s actually a benefit to be honest BUT only if you have good intuition and standards that are able to assess when something isn’t for you…
Either they are dishonest or a hater. Stay conscious and aware. ❤️
I don't lie to them AND I continue to get whatever I ask for. Just don't allow the nonsense. Let those who will gaslight you know that you know what game they are on and keep it moving. Once they figure out you aren't the one who they can play with, that's when the smart NON dusty ones come correct. trust me. I do say and tell very little. SheRa is the best influencer out here.
I am a woman 65 plus. Always remind yourself that Water seeks its on level. If you have a car and he don' t, keep moving. Never let a man move in with you!!!!! You can move in with him. We as women lose respect for a man ,when he move in with us. Don't waste your time if he is not above your level!!!!!!.
@@genj6630 Lol 😁🤣😂
My mother manipulated me (as a child) to be her simp (she is a narcissist) which this behavior spilled over into my other relationships. Now that I'm older, I'm turning the tables on everybody (yup! Including women). What I realized is that people only deal with people who can do something for them and I'm gonna beat them to the punch.
This!!!
Very true. My mother also trained me to be weak and “good girl”. It’s not until I got to my teenage years as to when I started finding myself . I was taken advantage of by men and women. Like you said, people are trying to recruit other people who will be their “bitch”. I had a friend like this, she embarrassed me in front of men and made it seem like I was a sheep(she was the weak one in reality). But when I used to buss back, she would be offended and would laugh about it later.
Sameeee
Same!! I had a mother, who still today at 22, sabotaged my academic and relationship futures , my dusty dad included. They use me, as their scapegoat for everything since I was a child. And they never really protected me as a child as well. I have to have my own back even my siblings I keep a distance from as they are starting to replicate my parents negative dusty and pick me energy. I see everyone in the world for who and what they truly are and honestly I can never go back to seeing things the way I used to, almost like a spiritual awakening, But,now I just keep everyone at a distance and i trust my intuition more than ever.
@@incognito3599 Sam’s
This Queen started a revolution of Black women’s mindset . A lotta BW have only been exposed to poverty and poverty relationships mindset where BW are encouraged from poor men to be strong n independent and poor BM look for a woman to live off of to scam until he has more money to elevate or he look for free sex from women then refuse to provide for the children. The poverty trap that BW have been in for generations . She using her power to elevate BW relationship standards and this will overall improve the Black community financial status . This a Queen right here 👸🏽
I think it is a spiritual shift, not just because of TH-cam videos
Not only black women
I swear you are the wisest woman on earth
I just got a tip from you; I usually sit at the last bench at church, next time I'll be sitting at the front. But I hate that there are many dusties at church feeling like they are entitled just because they're "saved". I don't care if you are saved if you got no money I don't want you!
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I know this is an older video but you made me chuckle 🤭🤭 Church is like a hospital for sick dusty males. Its thee WORST place to meet a man. Wolves in sheep clothing and momma boys listening to her saying get with a good _praying woman_ UMM.. no ma'am... Keep your boy at home with you. RUN 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
Church men are the worst .. alot of predators also if you have children be very careful
don't forget they're in survival sis
@@clarelinus
More like survival MODE. Dusty's of all backgrounds are at church events hunting for _sanctified_ prey aka a doormat. Ladies, stay woke. Dismiss love bombers🥰
27 years believing in karma and karma hasn’t done anything for me. Wondering why I’ve been doing “everything right” and things not working out for me 😂 THIS IS WHY .
When you said “yes you gotta lie” lmaoooo THANK YOU.
I second this💯
Third this 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
How has this new way of thinking worked out for you? 🤔 lol
@@losmit2194it works great for us. We don’t get attached or don’t lose as much and also expect disappointment, which is something a man is guaranteed to give 😂
I feel the same
I'm just learning this at 24. I already wish i knew this earlier. But I'm happy I didn't wait any longer. I was a little sheltered but it's ok I know now not to believe in this
brianna Johnson sis sameee
I love visiting your channel for a dose of reality . Men will tell you they hate liars but most , yes most lie to us .oh no don’t be Barbara the builder , he won’t appreciate it , trust me SheRa is so right. Let him be a big man and build it himself .
And to add that they think a woman is a lying about everything
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A lady just came out of a 6 year situationship where she allowed him to sample and he STILL lied to her. She finally left and has a nice dude who treasures her
hh 250
If he said it and ain't do it , it don't count 😂😂😊💯
PERIOD!😂
I’ve been brainwashed by Shera 😁✊🏾
Feel mimi I swear! Me too! She’s right thoe! And makes sense !🗣
Me too!! And I looooooove it!
Life ain’t fair so only a fool would play it fair.
play fair with people who play it fair with you. not many will do. i've been too nice with too many people and only one person, aside from some members of my family, showed he truly cared. So i care truly for him. Others get in return how they treated me and now I am called all sorts of names and I laugh hearing it. I simply say, why are you so surprised, this is the return on your investments.
@@julijakeit EXACTLY! This comment is brilliant. Why would you treat someone better than they treat you? NEVER!!
No Money No Honey 🍯
Perfectly said !!!😂😂💯💯
Miss Young and Lovely my auntie always said this when I was young she also said don’t take no wooden Nicole’s still don’t know what that mean lol
Periodt!
No honey no money....
Think PIONEERing exactly 😊
“Men will be hitting on women with you sitting right there in the casket.”
Whew. If that don’t make y’all wake up. Lol.
Don’t be giving y’all all.
Just finished an article about a guy who met his second wife in the bar right after the funeral for his first wife! You think that when you die, your husband or man will be broken hearted. Nope, he’ll move on and be in another woman’s bed before your body is even cold! That’s what we are dealing with so do what’s best for YOU in these relationships with men.
@@VeganLife-mn1jp yep
I love the way she speaks! “That’s over hunny go get u another one” PERIOD
Yup stop dating men who are not ready or willing to provide just because you like their personality or looks. That’s what friends are for; not husbands. Husbands are a completely different breed and have a ready and willing mindset. Unready stingy and lazy men want the same benefits as alpha men. That is unfair. Life is about survival of the fittest. Ladies this goes for us to. Improve your mindset looks and standards to get better men.
Before I used to believe in Karma and play fair with man (pay half of everything), then they use me and my body. I got hurt at the end. U know what now I don’t give a shit about karma anymore.
These men didn't care about karma.
Karma actually shows that you should value and love yourself first!
Cheating yourself has nothing to do with karma thats on you.
Most people dont understand karma anyway.
@@МеруертК-у2нthank you!
I literally been hurt for the last time I’m binge watching your videos all night!
No more hurt sis! No more!
YOU TOO
For the woman who's husband cheated on her, please sis take his money, hopefully you don't have kids. Find another man or woman and make sure they don't have any traits of your husband, supportive mentally and financially and loyal.
Giggles , right on!!!!
“ I am the Karma Baby😉” love it😂 Thank goodness, I’m walkin around lookin cute👏🏽
44:07 when you compliment men nonstop / fake compliments they will think you do it with other men
If they are already impressed by you, you just have to show up, be seen in public with them and let them impress you. Don’t try to impress them at all. If you give too much they’ll think you’re overcompensating
I WILL never play fair again ! Been there done that ! #WIN #LEVELUP
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Plz plz plz say it again to the remedial pick-me's with their crappy car and lifestyle
Watching daily for two weeks....sinking in...
@ Drawing divas yup! all day, everyday ❤ sun up to sun down ❤ 😊
Drawing Divas me too! Hours a day. I’m usually one of Shera’s Top Fan List. Implementing her strategies has improved my life tremendously!
@@msrailroadtracks2920 yes only two weeks...got a dressing table now..but doing natural make up look down my nose at broke guys...
@@vibingchakras yes morning noon and light...lovely voice humorous too
@@dutchessofcreativity9397 Yes!!! I have a pretty good playlist on my page with lots of SheRa's vids (LU💋) and it is definitely daily lessons. Sinking in and becoming 1st nature. Wish you ladies well on your level up journey ❤❤
I dont know if anyone has every told you genuinely that they LOVE YOU, but i honestly do. You are a light in a dark place. Thank you for being you
I’m a diagnosed sociopath and it’s done nothing but benefit me in this world and get me whatever I want
Love this! Never play by rules set up to make you fail. You can bring the whole table, and he'll still mess with a napkin!!!
LOL
Shera, darling, in my opinion, this is your best video. Playing fair is indeed a set up. I also do not believe in karma anymore. The world's most evil people are famous and/or filthy rich and use their status to get away with more evil. People say they love honesty. Give them honesty and they shoot you down time after time. Well! I buried the " nice and fair" girl and she aint coming back ever! I play to win. This is one video i revisit very often. Only facts! Thank you!❤❤❤🙌💯🔥👌
The old me died as well, She was buried and laid to rest, and is never coming back♥️
3 years ago I told my daughter abt SheRa yet she didnt watch shes has now broken up after 6 years of struggling and holding him up while he got "better" she helped him level up ONLY so he can ruin the relationship. Shes now with a baller and she listens to my advice now
@@finallyImaware I'm happy she finally woke up to the scam and is dating hypergamous now.
Me too
Love your frankness!
Yes all logic and facts . I love this lady
'If karma was real you would be on top and they would be on the bottom' well that hit hard
THANK YOU SHERA, for all that you are doing here for women. Especially for the younger women coming up and generations to come. Mens' games started this backlash
yes!
Unfortunately birth control and cheap sex got men playing this way, but we can fix it at least on a personal level
Shera and her dead pan humor, she says things with such a straight face I question whether I heard right. I love it 😂😂
She needs to start selling T-shirts. "Your Mirror is your best friend" what a line.
“By the time they finish earning it, they’ll never want to leave”. Amen.
“Thats only benefits for men. If he cant pay yo bills you not benefiting. You just givin away free sex to some man and thats rachet. Youre just being used with no commitment and still payin yo bills. And he not gone fall for you but you gone fall for him and you gone be mad.” 😭😭😭
Thank You Shera for this much needed wake up call. For years I was taking advice from my older aunt( who is single), who taught me there are no rules in relationships and just "Fall in love". Well everytime I just fell in love allowing my emotions to lead it left me heart broken . The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over expecting a different response. I'm looking after me, myself and I now. time to LEVEL UP❤. Not looking back!!
My mom taught me to pray for people who hurt us intentionally. I love her, but no way.
I didn't understand you until many years later. Thank you!
That’s why they always say, “Hate the player and not the game.” 😂the game is the game regardless of who’s in it, but like Shera said, “You gotta be in it to win it.”
You mean "Don't hate the player, hate the game."?
I'm so happy you started putting commercials in your videos...you're giving so much valuable information you deserve all the coins😘
I was watching Mindful attractions there are nothing but Pickmisha!!!! To the point I got so annoyed I had to come back here to take dust off my shoulder.
MomoSoulFul Nobody who’s not Pickmeisha can handle listening to Dustlexis for long.😂
tosca donna I wouldn’t call him all that but you get my point.
MomoSoulFul umm dalexis is dusty. I would call him all that.
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I wish I had a woman like her in my life growing up 😕
Shera, I love you girl! I got a SD, apartment paid for, and currently setting up a scenario on a car for christmas (told my SD I'm "scared of getting robbed catching the train" 😈😹)
Now I use your sugar game on my clients to get paid too 😹.
It works on both genders ya'll 😹😹
Mari J you slay girl ! ❤️ please tell us your tricks to get a sugar daddy ❤️
@@theself-careacademy4488 My trick(s) to get him was:
1. I went to eat at the nicest part of the city in a 4-star restaurant (my meal cost $25)
2. I had on natural makeup (brows, mascara, lips)
3. I had on a classy outfit (beige sweater, black pencil skirt, black stockings, black pointy heels, altogether $100 from H&M)
4. I walked in the place with a smile, genuinely happy to be there (it was beautifully decorated!)
5. I enjoyed my meal (it was expensive to me, so I REALLY took my time with it. I must have looked so dainty)
6. (When I first walked in, I scanned to room and saw an older man sitting by himself--I identified him as my target) I would glance around between bites and smile and make brief eye contact with him.
7. Towards the end of my meal, the gentleman came over when he noticed I had finished my wine and offered to buy me another glass, if he could have one with me.
8. I accepted! I thought to myself, "BINGO!"
We been together ever since (8 months). He paid the deposit on my apt, he gives me cash/deposits to my account. We even go back to that restaurant once in a while to reminisce. And they remember us too! He loves the attention he gets when I'm with him. They stare & serve us like celebrities!
It took me years to listen to Shera though. I think I was listening to her back when she had curly hair and colorful wigs (4years?)
So her advice had to sink in, before it all came together that 1 night.
But I give her the credit because I had to level up physically, mentally and now emotionally (I've almost messed up with my SD a couple of times by being in my feelings)
So it's an ongoing process. That's why I still listen to all her videos daily, to stay on point.
It might not take as long for you, but you gotta start somewhere!
@@starvega144 I met mine at a restaurant in the nicest part of the city. I get good attention whenever I go out to the main shopping areas. There's a street here called "King's Street" with all the luxury shops, Chanel, Prada, Hermes etc..
I walk along that street with a little $5 treat (icecream, coffee, macaroons) and walk slowly making eye contact with men I see coming out, or going into those stores.
You know they have money if the can shop there!
And just smile seductively, aim towards your target, and think "wouldn't you LOVE to buy me something if I was YOUR girl?"
They can kinda pick up the thought because your look and energy becomes so attractive.
I got good results that way!
How do u keep him interested? And be exciting
gordon I'm always feminine and seductive. I listen to his stories, laugh at his jokes, make him feel like a competent, strong man.
I know for a fact, I'm the only person in his life serving him on this level.
He owns his company and is always stressed out. So when we're together, I help him de-stress and feel special.
He keeps coming back for more! Oh and of course, hot sex. I know Shera would agree, because ALL of my bills are paid. He's spent over 15k on me in 8 months, plus more to come.
I remember one of Shera's videos with James... the way he described Shera, "she represents pleasure and success".
I keep that in mind with my SD. Plus Shera said she "turnt him out" lol!
Being eager to mate is not animalistic at all - in the animal kingdom a mate is rejected unless he is the biggest, strongest and most impressive. Go consider the ways of the feminine in the animal kingdom and you will see true game...
Exactly! Preach it sister 🔥👑💪
That “sprinkle sprinkle” gets me every time lol
It's so cute!! I love it 😄
I scammed some fool this weekend just out of boredom lol it felt good. He was so mad hehehe
Nicole He would have done the same to you
Ms. Denise Lol ok. 2020
Love the Blonde on you!
Be careful with those scams. Some chicks get killed for it...no joke.
It funny now until you meet the wrong guy that revengeful. Every guy not got going nice, sweet, respectful. And just move on. Like he just didn't get used and take in advanagte of
A few months ago I loaned someone money and tried not to pressure them about it. Then as time kept passing I asked and was ignored. Finally when I was in need and asked for it, the blocked me. I'm so done and I've known this person for years
Yes. And people do that with advice too not just physical things. Advice, money, protection energy etc. That's why I seldom give out anything to anyone.
Was this a guy or girl? Wow
@@gabrielar9611 a guy obviously
I was dating one guy for years, knew him since childhood and we hung out since I was 10 years old until almost 20. I then lended him $300 and he never showed up again. Now I’m gone in a second if a male even mentions he needs money.
One of your best videos...best part is when you said "you might get the ring faster if you lie" lol
This is women empowerment thank you Shera I’ve done so much better 3 year since I found your channel
Also, overthinking almost ruined my studies. Being good in this digusting world can destroy you. It only attracts users too. I also become a misantropist after covid and this new "energy crisis" which is obviously just a covid bill.
She be speaking straight facts! She’s someone who DESERVES to be on TH-cam because she likes to talk and we like to listen.
Life's not fair , and it definitely doesn't make sense to play fair.🙌
If you already haven’t, you should totally write a book! I would read it as fast as i inhale oxygen
In the description box!
i'm only 16 years old, but i agree with almost everything that you said, and i already wish i knew all of this information years ago, because having that type of information - and mentality - would cause me a lot *less* stress in my life than it did.....
Yep me to
I'm 16 too lol, it's good to see another peer learning about this and leveling up before it's too late😆
Me too!
Yes i wish i knew this as a child
Freestyling at the cemetery, damn Shera :) I'd try tho
Maria 😆😆😆
Lmaoo
“Step in it to win it !”
I had to kick out my husband out for being an alcoholic but he still pays all my bills and wants to continue our relationship. We’ve been together for 20 years. Now, I’m not going to be emotional anymore and go along with him and use him as my bank account.
men with alcohol problems need help. A caution it could get dangerous if your using a alcoholic
Does he have money in the bank? I would withdraw cash and dump his ass
what happened to for better or worst? you're married. you have vows to keep, is this advice really for someone who's already married
You all are fucking cruel.
@@jakonjhn yeah this comment is pretty fucked up lol
So fiery today, I love it. Happy Sagittarius season Shera ✨
I am assuming you are a Sagittarius
As a Sagittarius moon I completely claim to be a Sagittarius at heart. Love my Sags❤❤
@@beastcoaster right, she isn't
She is a Pisces Sun
I was bullied out of the public school I worked for as a teacher by my colleagues, just because of my "soft" look and nature. They sent me naughty messages, told me I'm dumb, not authentic and have "problems with myself" multiple times and the school principal, who should be my protector, tried to get sexual with me over and over again.. I was raped in my early 20s by an uncle and felt the need to tell this to a female colleague who is my age, because with my PTSD it all got so overhelming. She always told me I could trust her and that she would be on my side. The next day everyone knew that I was raped once and they made fun about it subliminally. I felt so lost, especially after a therapist told me that all their behaviour is actually my fault and that I should stay in that school no matter what.
How? And why? I just tried to work in peace and had so many hopes and goals. Some people are really demonic. After a few months I couldn't accept the situation anymore and moved out and away. I know my worth, my qualities and my qualifications! Always listen to your heart! Principals and doctors are just human and service providers, too! Sometimes they don't know it better and do horrible things! Listen to your heart, take off the mask and never deny yourself!
Nina Simone said “You've got to learn to leave the table. When love's no longer being served"
When people have no love in their hearts whatsoever and are draining your energy just to destroy you, then don't be passive! Move!
You can always make money somewhere else but your health may never come back
You are a strong woman by heart. Dnt let anyone convince you otherwise... they are all troubled because of their past and they should get help otherwise they'll keep on harming others.. I wish you well. Meet other people and you will your man
Wth, ugh people are so terrible and I hate how they say that bad things that happen to you are your fault. Luck is real. I'm so sorry that you are in such a terrible environment but I believe you. I know how low people can go.
that is horrible… hope you’re in a better place
@Yasi
Yeah people are evil like that. And Yasi these people do know better, It's just that they do not care, don't try to see light in a room clearly full of darkness, it won't make the people or the situation any better. I am glad you left honestly, Those people are not worth your sanity or your health, you can find better people and a better job elsewhere which I am sure you have. I've dealt with people like that as well, and trust me they don't get any better, and they will not have a good future, I don't believe in karma either, but I do believe, That you can turn your life around, start fresh in a new environment and build yourself back up again and start winning it's possible really.
I did it, after many traumatic experiences at school and work.
And being nice and fair and "working hard", will never ever ever win. Listening to your intuition,Working smart and staying high alert, and discreet always will though....
And therapists can be full of crap as well😅Just because they have the degree,doesn't mean they are actually good at their job or they are intelligent, Too many lazy therapists nowadays who tell people what they want to hear or they just straight up play with people's emotions and their traumatic past just for fun, they can be really sick and predatory too. It can take time to find the right therapist and the right people in your circle, I wish you All the best of luck, and love, because it is what you deserve♥️
Selfish people live longer
"In it...to...WIN!!!..it"!🤗👍🏿👍🏿🤗
Yasss!
Just wanted to add on, those of you talking about karma.. involving yourself with dusty men and low vibrational energy and hiding behind it as "im a good person thats why i give so many chances to people who don't deserve it" is signing off on your own karma. At what point do you realize that, if your not good to yourself, who gone be good to you? lol you accept shitty treatment, the universe or God (whatever you believe) will keep serving you shitty treatment.
Period. Universe will give you what you give your energy to
Just came back for some wisdom from The Queen 👑❤️.
I quit playing fair and I’m happier than ever, didn’t know it could be so liberating ☮️