Is It Worth the Wait? (w/ Stephanie Ike, Sarah Jakes Roberts & Essence Atkins)

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  • @TheSameRoom
    @TheSameRoom  4 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    Follow @thesameroom on all social media platforms

    • @msavery_4521
      @msavery_4521 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Wow! Amazing content!!! Like literally helping me in the place that I am now.

    • @vuyondudane1310
      @vuyondudane1310 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is so true

    • @BrandyBB
      @BrandyBB 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i wish i can get on this show and tell my story of how i overcame some things.

    • @jacquijones6353
      @jacquijones6353 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@msavery_4521 ¹¹

    • @reginaojiw1653
      @reginaojiw1653 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey Stephanie, please bring Priscilla Shirer to the show.🙂

  • @sodivinemagazine5593
    @sodivinemagazine5593 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1069

    “When you are in your lowest moment, find someone to serve, because it reminds you, that you still have something to give.”

  • @chumabanjwa4662
    @chumabanjwa4662 4 ปีที่แล้ว +588

    I love how Stephanie Ike asks her questions and then steps back to listen and let her guests speak. She doesn't feel the need to insert herself or her story at every turn of the interview. Lovely interview!

    • @samanthagabbudon4559
      @samanthagabbudon4559 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I've never watched an interview that's so amazingly organic, with the host asking such authentic questions and listening to both women speaking openly with substance and wisdom.

    • @audreysamuels6077
      @audreysamuels6077 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      very true.

    • @michelleherbst9866
      @michelleherbst9866 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Your comment is so point on because all the other ppl would insert their stories like they are being interviewed by themselves.

    • @irma7133
      @irma7133 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes very nice , not interrupting them .

    • @oprih8634
      @oprih8634 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea...she's doing it so beautiful

  • @KieshaDoubleU
    @KieshaDoubleU 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1568

    “God is so for me that he would protect me from myself”🙌🏾 a Word.

    • @Top10RandomRundowns
      @Top10RandomRundowns 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Lakiesha Haralson I felt this you said the word I couldn’t find thank you 🙏🏾

    • @mercyannan1027
      @mercyannan1027 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This same sentence sync so well with my spirit.

    • @kathy2842
      @kathy2842 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Oh my you're so right. I've wanted things so badly to happen and after staving off of it for so long, I've rushed into it for God to still distant that thing or situation from me; as to say; "I'm YOUR FATHER and I've said NO.

    • @lilz97xoxo5
      @lilz97xoxo5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      When she said that, man did it hit me to the CORE🙏🏽😭

    • @itslove6168
      @itslove6168 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes! I had to pause the video and write that awesome truth down!

  • @goldengirl7625
    @goldengirl7625 4 ปีที่แล้ว +242

    I didn’t realize Sarah Jake Roberts was only 31, she extremely wise beyond her years and exudes a high level of maturity and confidence. It’s incredible and she is a huge inspiration to me.

    • @zakiahart3919
      @zakiahart3919 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I know right? she is anointed that's what it is..

    • @tamikamiller1895
      @tamikamiller1895 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You won't believe Stephanie as well this 2023 and Stephanie has just turn 30

    • @franceshaggitt3104
      @franceshaggitt3104 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She's full of the world and looking good on her profile. Bling bling bling

  • @mdrenewed
    @mdrenewed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +677

    "When we become stagnant, just like water, we start to stink." That was deep. 🙏🏾🙌🏾

    • @mayaewing
      @mayaewing 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      It's amazing how we can listen to the same interview and hear or resonate with different points. Because I didn't even hear this statement during the interview.

    • @mdrenewed
      @mdrenewed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mayaewing about 3:05

    • @nicolaosborne763
      @nicolaosborne763 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That part stood out to me, because I watched this video today. However, yesterday on instagram I used a similar analogy- this had me clapping and saying Amen 🙏

    • @dionnelong
      @dionnelong 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Keep moving. Amen.

    • @AJWoods32
      @AJWoods32 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I loved how she said that too. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @Shay.bae92
    @Shay.bae92 4 ปีที่แล้ว +322

    God woke me up at 4:44 am this morning and I couldn’t go back to sleep. Prayed a little and God brought me to this video. I am currently in waiting, pruning, cocooning season. Even when I feel my loneliest he lets me know he is right here.

    • @Stacey_Mae
      @Stacey_Mae 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I watched your show Essence

    • @lovegrace3719
      @lovegrace3719 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Rest in Hope!🙂❤

    • @acharich
      @acharich 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🔥💎🔥

    • @jaybee4757
      @jaybee4757 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen

    • @adarijohnson
      @adarijohnson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Be careful. Some ppl say Angel numbers are demonic.

  • @ashleiellzey9074
    @ashleiellzey9074 4 ปีที่แล้ว +898

    I’m definitely going to start using “How is your Heart” instead of “How are you doing” ❤️

    • @annenoel4171
      @annenoel4171 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Ashlei Ellzey or I also like how is your mental state?

    • @laradada4080
      @laradada4080 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      It's so interesting how this question can lead to deeper conversation. I asked a male friend of mine how he was doing this morning and he said he was doing good. About an hour later, I remembered this question and asked him how his heart was. He then told me that he wasn't doing too well and has been feeling lonely. He lives out of state and has been social distancing alone at home. Glad I was able to provide extra emotional support by asking this question!

    • @KelahCash
      @KelahCash 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      My friend- years ago- always started asking me, "How is your soul, darling?" And I was so thankful for the work God did in her that gave her the utterance to ask such a beautiful and intentional question. ♥️

    • @alanawilliams3422
      @alanawilliams3422 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I am also going to use that...it really makes you stop and think before being quick to respond to " How are you doing".

    • @Journey_together2024
      @Journey_together2024 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same to me 😊

  • @AndreC8915
    @AndreC8915 4 ปีที่แล้ว +620

    This wasn’t just an interview, this was an anointed conversation. And so RIGHT ON TIME. Thank you ladies 🙏🏾❤️

  • @ashleynorman40
    @ashleynorman40 4 ปีที่แล้ว +792

    Stephanie Ike is an Excellent Interviewer, She has a gift, I love her flow!

    • @neglibre6916
      @neglibre6916 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ashley Norman Indeed, thank you for stating it.

    • @simplydiiane4175
      @simplydiiane4175 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Yes!!! Anointed! She wants people healed. The questions she asked were so good and caused the interviewees to go deep And get to the root of some things- which helped me very much.

    • @MrChinnylee
      @MrChinnylee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Stephanie Ike is gifted to hear the heart of the listener. She is a gifted speaker and an equally gifted moderator. I don't know her, but I want to highlight that she is critically needed as a bridge between the featured speaker and the audience. Her timing, reframing, and connection with the hungry heart in her audience are golden.

    • @tolufavour
      @tolufavour 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She is ... really beautiful flow at that

    • @latoyayoumans6625
      @latoyayoumans6625 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MrChinnylee I agree totally

  • @ShirlynMwangi
    @ShirlynMwangi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +499

    In this interview, Essence sounds like she is really going through a tough period, God bless her soul, please give her the strength and wisdom to push through this season in her life. Essence, you are loved by the Almighty, all these worldly struggles are temporary...

    • @bonniedavis5342
      @bonniedavis5342 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      I got the sense that Essence is truly becoming more of who God has intended her to be....embracing her true identity in Christ..i heard the sweetness of her love relationship with the Father! Sweet and Powerful!

  • @Redlipz_chick
    @Redlipz_chick 4 ปีที่แล้ว +754

    I need so much more of these types of conversations. They just feed my soul. I wish I could have these types of convos with family and friends.

    • @daughterofzion8305
      @daughterofzion8305 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      God will bring people for you to be transparent with
      Most importantly be transparent with God In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth amen

    • @thegoddess7297
      @thegoddess7297 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I wish the same! I literally started the channel Alexxa Vonn because I desired this kind of community.

    • @kristajennings4015
      @kristajennings4015 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      These kinds of conversations are soulful.

    • @JustineMfulama
      @JustineMfulama 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Amen! These conversations are so important. Women coming together to build each other up!

    • @stephaniefletcher5047
      @stephaniefletcher5047 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      You know why? Because women need women. We esteem each other, we protect each other and correct each other. Hhuum....isn’t that what sister’s do.

  • @jpierreabi
    @jpierreabi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    Why is this not trending? Three powerful women in one room🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @ilovepink21bk
    @ilovepink21bk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +659

    Whoo when Essence speaks you can tell it's coming from such a beautiful place. Such wisdom.

    • @laradada4080
      @laradada4080 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      She has such a beautiful soul! You can tell when one has spent quality time with Jesus.

    • @speakintothemicb
      @speakintothemicb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I am just waiting for her book and podcast. I would read and listen. 💙

    • @monicaivy2497
      @monicaivy2497 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I would love to have all these women in my circle. Essence lives her name, even in the space/place she is privately in right now - she speaks from a place of peace, calm and eloquence.

    • @annvaughn8974
      @annvaughn8974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes yes

    • @ckinhimdaily
      @ckinhimdaily 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      And Essence's segment is a blessing in the 2020 documentary, "Behind Her Faith". She is waiting well. I am in the period of waiting myself. I am waiting well. I have done my assessment.

  • @mybrwnisbeautifulhin1165
    @mybrwnisbeautifulhin1165 4 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    Can we take the time to acknowledge how excellent the interviewer is . She was so engaged and thorough with her questions that she squeezed everything out of them.

    • @EvinNazya
      @EvinNazya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      right! such a good model for me as I practice for my own podcast!

    • @naomilaw3969
      @naomilaw3969 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Stephanie Ike is also an anointed speaker on her own. What beautiful and powerful women.

    • @islandpunch9465
      @islandpunch9465 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@naomilaw3969 i adore and love stephanie

  • @emergenation9662
    @emergenation9662 4 ปีที่แล้ว +679

    This is better than Red Table talk. We need MORE of this ladies. Love it!

    • @faithkayy
      @faithkayy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Emerge Nation real wisdom right here👌🏾

    • @angeljosephs30
      @angeljosephs30 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yess so over jada 😒

    • @ayeeshahm9078
      @ayeeshahm9078 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      Emerge Nation why compare the 2? They speak to different audiences & serve parallel purposes while both being dope & impactful

    • @ceciliaatogembasia8222
      @ceciliaatogembasia8222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      That's not true. Red table talk and this is beautiful too.

    • @teresa28ist
      @teresa28ist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@ceciliaatogembasia8222 I love Red Table Talk. I definitely don't want Jada to stop pouring out her power into us. I know everyone has an opinion but the comment bothered me because it has been hard for black women and now black women have found their voices and I don't want them to lose their voice.

  • @DearFutureWifey
    @DearFutureWifey 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    I'm so glad that the world gets to hear and see my friend Essence in this depth. Essence has a pure heart for God. I've watched Sarah evolve from a 13 year old into a giant in the ministry. She is so dope. I've never heard of Stephanie but she will not be forgotten. She is not only a gifted interviewer but an anointed woman of God.

  • @maureenmutua6865
    @maureenmutua6865 4 ปีที่แล้ว +720

    Sarah has a wealth of knowledge and wisdom far behold her years which is a blessing.

    • @Kash888-e1c
      @Kash888-e1c 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Maureen Mutua Agreed! She's helped me a whole lot on my spiritual journey. Sarah made God feel safe again for me.

    • @bernicecherfrere7736
      @bernicecherfrere7736 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Her story reminds me of the ministry of RC Blakes, Jr. & how God is using his wisdom to bless people all over the world! It's amazing. May God continue to bless y'all.

    • @houseofkindnessbathseda4351
      @houseofkindnessbathseda4351 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

    • @ishah00
      @ishah00 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      *beyond

    • @Unapologeticallyme89
      @Unapologeticallyme89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No lies, you would think she is way older than she is with the knowledge and wisdom she has.

  • @GoziTV
    @GoziTV 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    “The wait is on purpose for a purpose “ wow 💛💛💛

    • @vickie3359
      @vickie3359 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      you should 'wait' loool

    • @alishadennis17
      @alishadennis17 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's our fathers good pleasure to bless those that he loves 💘 is bible!!!

    • @alishadennis17
      @alishadennis17 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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      How to remove & avoid wrong men being in your life either.
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      Don't limit God or your self by color. Make character, intentions, respect, love & purpose be a guide to size up & judge a man that God sends you.

    • @chantelllewis1213
      @chantelllewis1213 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! WOW!❤

  • @IrieMarie22
    @IrieMarie22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +347

    ESSENCE BETTER BE A PRAYER WARRIOR!!!She prays in the secret place!!!and 48 where??!!

  • @danyalej5054
    @danyalej5054 4 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    It makes me smile seeing Essence love for God.. 🥰 don’t see that too much in Hollywood!

    • @lahndee2020
      @lahndee2020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And as crazy as it is that's why you don't see her in Hollywood much. She always seemed to have that pure genuine spirit. She seems to have such a good ❤

    • @ms.gracefullybroken8724
      @ms.gracefullybroken8724 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      If I’m not mistaken, she’s a minister

  • @anyonnassong3948
    @anyonnassong3948 4 ปีที่แล้ว +334

    "...God is so for me that he would protect me from myself." - Essence 🙌🏾😭💜

  • @marylenarouse856
    @marylenarouse856 4 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Loved how Essence Atkins said "Wait Well", that truly blessed my life.

  • @onika284
    @onika284 4 ปีที่แล้ว +194

    “Understand that the power of waiting is not about the guaranteed that what you want will be fulfilled rather the guarantee that we will find ourselves. Who we are will be revealed and who God has called us to be will be revealed” 💡 Thank you for blessing us with James 1:4

  • @JustineMfulama
    @JustineMfulama 4 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    YOOOOOOO "When we are waiting on something that we believe is gonna give us more worth or value, and we don’t receive it than it takes away from our worth or value!" BOOM! If that is not a word. I loved that sentence. It speaks exactly to the problem. That too often we desire something like a man or relationships because we believe it adds to our value as women and then when we don't get it we compare ourselves to others, thinking we are inferior or a failure. But Sarah is right IF YOU ARE BREATHING, YOU ARE VALUABLE!

  • @MsAurelieBib
    @MsAurelieBib 4 ปีที่แล้ว +271

    Stephanie is such a great host, asking great questions too🙌🏾

    • @JustineMfulama
      @JustineMfulama 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      RIGHT! I wish it was a podcast. Would listen to it on my morning runs!

    • @sweettoothmarie7304
      @sweettoothmarie7304 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      So true..i love a host that takes time to listen to the response..

    • @chevyd9221
      @chevyd9221 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JustineMfulama the same room is a podcast and this episode is on spotify not sure about other outlets

  • @rorisangmaneo629
    @rorisangmaneo629 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    When Essence said “waiting on myself with patience and not keeping a record of all my wrongs”
    Shuuu sis 🙆🏾‍♀️ read me then

  • @solangegarcia536
    @solangegarcia536 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    "There is nothing outside of you that would help anchor you within"

    • @LoveAlways1002
      @LoveAlways1002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I read your comment while listening and scrolling....I'm only at the 2:52 mark & I could pause and cry with this one quote 😭😭😭😭❤❤❤❤

  • @nicollepasquel
    @nicollepasquel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    This ENTIRE interview just changed my WHOLE life. I literally needed this today!!

    • @audreysamuels6077
      @audreysamuels6077 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      me too

    • @alishadennis17
      @alishadennis17 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God bless you lovely & be lifted up & have answered prayer cause God wants you blessed with truth, wisdom, knowledge, joy, peace, protection & power in your life!!!

  • @livinlovinleo9496
    @livinlovinleo9496 4 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    “ In order for us to enjoy the glory of the resurrection we have to be prepared to endure the persecution of the cross! “ That is a whole sermon by itself! ✝️🔥

  • @615BlackBarbie
    @615BlackBarbie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    *Essence* is a woman who can look through Muddy water and see dry land. Just like myself. I know her spirit. She's not for Play Play

  • @adeolaadebagbo4098
    @adeolaadebagbo4098 4 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    The lady interviewing is so beautiful inwardly and outwardly too. Love your
    hair color

    • @angelinajosina6247
      @angelinajosina6247 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Right ❤ her name is Stephanie Ike, you can search her and watch her sermons , they always leave me at awe😭

    • @blessedhighlyfavored9458
      @blessedhighlyfavored9458 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@angelinajosina6247 She’s Nigerian and her sermons are filled with lots of sense of humor 🙏🏾🥰!

  • @mhenderson3407
    @mhenderson3407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    The interviewer did a great job! She obviously did her research - asking insightful questions and nicely transitioning the flow of the conversation from topic to topic. Well done! Such a good mix of classiness and intelligence!

  • @jemimajanvier4706
    @jemimajanvier4706 4 ปีที่แล้ว +198

    I’m a student and I’ve been praying to God for scholarships for about a year. I’m still waiting and lately it’s been very discouraging and just confusing, especially in the midst of this pandemic where I really need help because my parents won’t be able to help with my tuition. Every time I think that that I’m qualified for something, it seems that someone else receives it. I was scrolling through Instagram and I found a post for this podcast. This is what I need🙌🏾

    • @melissajackson7576
      @melissajackson7576 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Hey, know that God is faithful. Everything is in His timing because when you are bless with your scholarship..you will know that it was all God and give Him all the glory. Cast your cares upon Him for he cares for you....1 Perter 5:7

    • @naturallygifted2002
      @naturallygifted2002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Jemima Janvier, God is definitely using you unceasing prayer to draw you closer to him. And you’re not qualify because God has the greatest and best qualification for you. So take courage that show ears are not deaf and He’s has the best for you. So I encourage you to keep praying and reminding faithful. Because He’s true to His word. Also inquire of Him as to what vocation He’ll have you to take as well. God bless.

    • @ebonysharee
      @ebonysharee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Oh sis I've been where you are but the waiting is NOT in vain. I didn't have money for school the first year of school. I had saved up right after highschool half my income from my summer job and had gotten small scholarships from applications i applied to but not enough to cover a full year. Couldn't get the parent plus loan. Ohhhhh but God. One day at my old church the pastor had mentioned someone was in need of financial breakthrough and at first, I was hesitant to go up but then, I went anyway. I was the only one and he prayed over me. Not long After that my cousin let me know that a colleague of his was looking to sponsor another college student
      Girl He took care of tuition groceries books And place to stay. I am not in deep debt because of that blessing. God was faithful and the back pay of my balance on student loans was paid! All the scholarships I was applying for wasn't coming through my school but God had a ram in the bush. He is faithful, be encouraged.

    • @lizmago7477
      @lizmago7477 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I'm in the same boat and I'm hoping for a miracle, l know God will definitely come through for us

    • @DaGoodVybe
      @DaGoodVybe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jemima Janvier you got this‼️🙏

  • @Zandim.m
    @Zandim.m 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Wow! God directed me to this conversation for sure. I so yearn for this type of circle in my life right now.

  • @saquoiag
    @saquoiag 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Her introduction to her Pastor and Essence was so wonderful!

  • @MargeryHannah
    @MargeryHannah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    This is fantastic. The interviewer is one of the best I've see; she really did her research. Sarah is wise; sitting there looking like the perfect balance of both her parents. And Essence--what a smart woman; refreshing to hear an actress of faith speak. God bless all three of you gorgeous women. I am going to watch this with my daughters later.

    • @maelainelopez9317
      @maelainelopez9317 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much I really relate in your topic today. God bless from Philippines

  • @angelantukantu3529
    @angelantukantu3529 4 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    Surrender to His will and allow yourself to be vulnerable in His calling for you. ❤️

  • @aishakennedy2366
    @aishakennedy2366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Beautiful women of God ... encouraging other women of God ... being transparent and sharing their stories. What a blessing!

  • @ladyfaith7937
    @ladyfaith7937 4 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    Woah! The amount of JEWELS just dropped in this video was a blessing! So on time with everything! So looking forward to more content! Anyone that come across this video, I pray you are filled. Your cup will run over. In Jesus Name! ❤️

  • @keishac484
    @keishac484 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    “Winning him would have cost me to lose myself”
    God I thank you so much for protecting me from what I thought I wanted 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽

    • @miawilson2896
      @miawilson2896 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm currently in this season and it's painful but God promised to sustain me and he's been faithful.
      I realize that God blesses us through some disappointments and would protect us even from ourselves. That's how much he loves us. It's not easy but to any person who is this season, trust God. Trust his process. Trust his plan for you.

  • @lizmago7477
    @lizmago7477 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    We are only a heartbreak away from bitterness

  • @daintydetails
    @daintydetails 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I had to pause this video a couple of times and simply relish at their gentle beauty. It reminded me of 1 Peter 3:3-4. There is a quietness to all three of them that invites you to lean in and want to know more at their feet. There is kindness in their eyes and love in their smiles. I thoroughly enjoyed this interview!!!! I felt affirmed, seen, advised, and shown Godly peaceful beauty.

  • @Kash888-e1c
    @Kash888-e1c 4 ปีที่แล้ว +255

    This was such a great interview! 3 intelligent women of God being authentic and raw! I needed to hear this message today. Essence’s prayer at the end was so beautifully prayed. I declare in the name of Jesus that my waiting is not in vain.

    • @royaldominionauthorityglob4813
      @royaldominionauthorityglob4813 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Right I cried! Lol this was indeed powerful and for me. I don't have an issue with waiting but my issue is walking in my office/calling of Prophecy. I was bold before but it feels as if I have been stripped. But I feel my help coming on by continuously watching stuff like this that will continue to uplift and empower me so that I may and will arose to the occasion. There is a lost and dieing world out here that needs to hear my voice and what God will have me to say to His people. Pray for me if you believe in Christ Jesus. We all have to bear our cross. And I'm praying for you all as well.

    • @JustineMfulama
      @JustineMfulama 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen. It's not in vain. We just need to focus on the unseesn.

    • @itslove6168
      @itslove6168 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen! Everything that our Father does is for a purpose.

    • @alishadennis17
      @alishadennis17 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @alishadennis17
      @alishadennis17 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @deborahigiraneza6110
    @deborahigiraneza6110 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I usually don't do comments but I loved this sisterhood interview. It reminds me of the verse that says "Many are the plans in man's heart but God's purpose prevails." May God bless you.

  • @hangingwithmo8126
    @hangingwithmo8126 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Room full of anointed women❤️❤️❤️

  • @teresa28ist
    @teresa28ist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Essence you are dropping gems chile!

    • @cmebans35
      @cmebans35 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      She is humble

  • @belindadaniel-oginga929
    @belindadaniel-oginga929 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    OMG! This is my word! I can barely hold back the tears in the break room here at work. My husband passed in 2015 when he was living with another woman. Ive been so bitter and so hurt and yet so lonely for him. So much has happened. I NEVER thought about this as a period of waiting and assessment and preparation for better in losing all that I lost. PRAISE BE TO GOD! look at Him work. I see that I need to just be thankful for what he has delivered me from. And what He is going to deliver me into. Thank you ladies. Thank you for your honesty, vulnerability, and for your obedience to God. You inspire and encourage me. I so needed that. My soul needed that. I pray that my first thought is always, “thank you, God!” 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

  • @jenniferdevoe9372
    @jenniferdevoe9372 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I love transperancy ... Being a Bahamian, not all but many families sweep things under the rug or just plain ignore them !👑💜😔

  • @thejourneytolovingme8336
    @thejourneytolovingme8336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    My dad use to tell me the same thing, to stop looking down I had nothing to be ashamed of, it wasn't that i was ashamed of something, it was that i wasn't confident in myself at all.

  • @angelicashobby
    @angelicashobby 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I could listen to Essence all day. Genuine and clearly studious in the Word. Stephanie is superb, loved her introductions❤.

  • @tolufavour
    @tolufavour 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    That prayer led by Essence Atkins was beautiful 😍 God bless her

  • @krissaca09
    @krissaca09 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Oh my. As soon as Essence started praying, the tears started rolling. It’s almost like it sounds like an angel is praying. Her voice is so soothing but her words are so powerful !

  • @thedurants
    @thedurants 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Waiting makes us feel the pain... 👏🏽

  • @ireenemmah595
    @ireenemmah595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Selfishness during the waiting period.
    "Everything that we are opportune to experience is about the responsibility of the blessing and not about the satisfaction of receiving it"

  • @American_Boy
    @American_Boy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    Man, that story Essence told about talking to that little kid at the party....man it gets me every time. So beautiful.

  • @lesegostorom7779
    @lesegostorom7779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I went through a divorce myself. Still healing from that. And also lost my ten year old autistic daughter. She was abducted and murdered. Healing and waiting. I am thankful that I have a relationship with God and thank God for the people who are there for me, through thick and thin. I agree ☝️ with you ladies on sisterhood and woman empowerment

  • @tatrask2
    @tatrask2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    'Work Ethic" was profound to me but I've found that my work ethic is similar to my spiritual growth effort. I've done a little but wanted a lot. Self assessment has become my posture as I learn to do Colossians 3:1-2 - "Set my mind on things above." Thanks and God bless all of you.

  • @evelynkosita-madu747
    @evelynkosita-madu747 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks Essence for highlighting the need to "wait well".

  • @estheraddo5437
    @estheraddo5437 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    In a gathering of women so powerful, a discussion so simple has become a Whole Word 🔥

  • @bdavis470
    @bdavis470 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    You're often as loyal as your options- Essence ⭐⭐⭐

    • @gwendolynsmith6570
      @gwendolynsmith6570 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      For me it is you're as loyal as your faith in God

  • @tawanda3333
    @tawanda3333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Who else was waiting for Pastor Sarah to look directly in the camera and say "I don't know who this is for..but I hear God saying".... lol I'm just throwing jokes...but anyway...I enjoyed this conversation.

  • @laurab.2427
    @laurab.2427 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Stephanie is truly one of the best hosts I have seen in my 33yrs of age. God bless you! 🙏🏼

  • @ihumsIsaac
    @ihumsIsaac 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I literally felt the presence of God from just watching these women speak!

  • @makeda3591
    @makeda3591 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The wait is on purpose,for your purpose~Essence Definitely a reason why we all saw this video.

  • @Onalenna_Thobega
    @Onalenna_Thobega 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I love what Essence said - waiting patiently with ourselves! That’s self love guys. Love is also being patient with ourselves with who we are becoming! & also what Sarah said : waiting forces us to do thorough introspection!

  • @patriciacampbell-rowe9403
    @patriciacampbell-rowe9403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Essence wisdom is fantastic. She articulates, waiting so well!

  • @kejuanlynette8531
    @kejuanlynette8531 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I love Ms.Stephanie Ike. She is inspirational and KIND!!!

  • @p.k.2773
    @p.k.2773 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I didn’t want it to end😭 So so good, and so timely, thank you for allowing God to use you all as vessels

  • @daniellenicole6989
    @daniellenicole6989 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    This was absolutely amazing! I pray God blesses me with friends I can just talk to...just like this. None of the surface things...the real life...HEART things 🙏🏾

  • @millybadze2117
    @millybadze2117 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I didn’t stumble upon this by mistake GOD led me here!..wowww this blessed me sooooooooooooooooo much GOD richly bless you Stephanie, Essence and Sarah❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @DoughDashCrew
    @DoughDashCrew 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I meannnnnnnnnnn THISSS!!!!! Was INCREDIBLE!!!

  • @simp1eone
    @simp1eone 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Essence is super smart i love her, Sarah is an inspiration too

  • @kaylacausey
    @kaylacausey 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I love hearing Stephanie speak!

  • @aohio7186
    @aohio7186 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you Ms. Stephanie for inviting this two blessed women to share their challenges, successes and wait in life. They are both godly and intelligent.

  • @athomewithjam3587
    @athomewithjam3587 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I needed this 😭 I am here listening and crying because this is what I needed

  • @mikerlangetheramene7316
    @mikerlangetheramene7316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, wow, patience is the key to waiting.

  • @portiamhlanga110
    @portiamhlanga110 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    "The wait is on purpose for your purpose" wow... So much wisdom from these beautiful ladies, 💕

  • @coffeenomilk
    @coffeenomilk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    This is such a beautiful video. Bringing so much clarity for me and I was thinking the whole time like whew I can't wait to meet women like the three of you because you are just so phenomenal, radiant, blessed and mature but i'm realizing that if I want to meet such people with such qualities, I'd have to attract them and to attract, I'd have to BE them and I'm only 19 but the desire to be this phenomenal and inspirational is huge. You ladies are doing a whole lot and God is using you mightily.. talk about goals!!

    • @purpleluvsbestofme8374
      @purpleluvsbestofme8374 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I really like you perspective on attracting women that you want around by being that woman!! And at such a young age with that great mindset, if you really put it into action God will take you places with the right women that are aligned with you in HIM! Blessings!

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@purpleluvsbestofme8374 Amen!! Thank you x

  • @Africanq_
    @Africanq_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    In my present season of waiting on God, I want to say thank you for this video ❤️

  • @bettywright4338
    @bettywright4338 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Another comment I’ve watched Essence on different shows, but I didn’t know she was a christian, what a blessing to hear her share her heart and soul, may good things her way.

  • @k.lorraine
    @k.lorraine 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Sarah is awesome no doubt but her husband is the one that helped shape my life so much, Toure speaks to my soul as soon as he opens his mouth

  • @kaki_karei
    @kaki_karei 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow.....Essence. Wow! You can tell when a woman loves God and has spent time with Him.

  • @nontobekombatha7909
    @nontobekombatha7909 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Part of this conversation has made me cry😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I'm learning to be vulnerable to my sisters as well❤️ Thank you ladies

  • @jasmineboatema
    @jasmineboatema 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Wow Essence, every time you speak, it grips my heart. Wow I never expected this at all. God bless you all ladies.

  • @yellowmama89
    @yellowmama89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Tears of hope and love are streaming down my face. BC God just keeps showing up in waves sending messages back to back to me on the issues of my heart. God never leaves me alone and when I submit my heart to him he always comes through to let me know He is meeting me where I am. I am humbled by this word and by the word I received from Dr. Dharius Daniel's today. When God shows up he pours his loving word on me guiding me into truth and helping me release the weight back onto him.

  • @zinhletshefu8225
    @zinhletshefu8225 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "God is so for me, that He'll even protect me from myself" wow!

  • @thejourneytolovingme8336
    @thejourneytolovingme8336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    That is so true, everything that is wrong with everyone started when they were a child, I can relate to that.

  • @sophiaf.
    @sophiaf. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Stephanie you are so beautiful. I loved how humble you are in this interview. Pastor Sarah simply anointed. Thank you 🙏🏾 Essence for your wisdom. May God bless all three of you ladies. In Jesus Name. Amen 🙏🏾.

  • @Luwi
    @Luwi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This was a fantastic interview. The interviewer asked great questions and had a good rapport with the guests. Fantastic guests, eloquent and thoughtful! 💕

  • @lizsitati9119
    @lizsitati9119 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This was amazing! Love from Kenya 🇰🇪

  • @alanawilliams3422
    @alanawilliams3422 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love that I took the time out to listen to these strong women in Christ. This is also one of my desires to have a woman's group where, we as women can share our hearts and build each other up.

  • @MsTee-eg8qi
    @MsTee-eg8qi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Absolutely beautiful. I want Friends/sisterhoods like this. GOD keep these beautiful souls. ❤️🙏🏾

  • @rubymutegi
    @rubymutegi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Me:( shouting that part in every part. )
    I loved these. God bless you.

  • @Mahogonykisses
    @Mahogonykisses 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That Sarah Jake's intro... sis... you spoke my heart!!!! Pastor Jakes you are truly what real and realistic spirituality personified looks like....

  • @Testimonials_Cece
    @Testimonials_Cece 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    "Wait Well" 🙌 being pruned is painful 😭😭😭 but thank God for this new perspective 🙏

  • @poohbear713
    @poohbear713 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I literally stayed strong the whole video until the end when Essence said she would tell herself “i am proud of you” . Being our worst critics can really take a toll and hearing that made me cry, bc i don’t hear it enough, and don’t get me started on that prayer ! This video was amazing and i felt so seen

  • @closely-stitched4088
    @closely-stitched4088 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    We're not living in deficit...we have what we need! You still have something to give...#lovethis

  • @fredricatowo6226
    @fredricatowo6226 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Powerful chat! I cried half way through 😪😪😪😪😪 reflecting on my personal journey to wanting a child after 4yrs of marriage. I was counting my years of waiting that I totally forgot bout the value of waiting.It now hit me hard to "wait well and to know its purpose."
    I'm struck by these 3 women of Faith 🙏 Bless your Heart ❤

  • @priscillaxsafi
    @priscillaxsafi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I knew I had to bring a notebook, that prayer in the end 🙏🏽🦋