I really hate the bitter baby momma excuse. I know they’re out there but fathers have rights too. Take her to court aren’t your kids worth it. I hear that excuse so often and it’s really tired.
I was a minority where I grew up. When i was in 1st grade my class had a father's day thing where all our dads came in to class. Not a single black kids dad (more than half the class) showed up.
@@jaquin103 It was pretty sad and awkward but some good came out of it. A lot of those guys I grew up with made sure to be good dads. I think, because this generation doesn't want their kids to have the same broken home they did, kids more often now have their dads.
...OR USE A BUNCH OF BIRTH CONTROL..IF U DON'T LIVE WITH UR KID, U ARE NOT A GOOD FATHER...U FUQ'D UP AND MADE A LIFE WITH SOMEBODY U CAN'T LIVE WITH...BUT IF U DON'T RESIDE WITH UR KIDS EVERY DAY, U'RE HALFASSING IT....PERIOD.
Excel_lence Videos my point is that you don’t understand what love is. Also as a man you shouldn’t be getting a women pregnant women hat you don’t love. And what about that child? Don’t you think it’s better for the child to love and marry the mother?
@@OreoOreoCookie234 look at unmarried couples in black communities, the statistics of single black women is the stat that's used to promote that narrative .
President Lyndon Johnson really messed everything up with his 1964 welfare state. It wasn't like this in the 50s. Ironically the black family unit was actually stronger during the era of slavery than it is now.
@@perfectsplit5515 I think it's a little simplistic to blame Johnson because we had a welfare state before from the New Deal. What the Great Society did, however, was turn welfare from the emergency rescue it was initially meant to be into a way of life. Even FDR warned against letting the welfare state make people dependent, but Democrats and the left since Johnson have totally thrown that out the window (except for a brief period in the 90s when they agreed to welfare reform.)
vickie jones - definitely. Pregnancy prevention or have an abortion. Much better than frequently being caught forever in the system of government support.
As a "black man" I say this with love in my heart! We need to get our spiritual lives in order and get closer to the Almighty GOD (Jesus Christ). The mighty Lord Jesus Christ can and want to heal our "cursed" bloodlines (self hatred, self pity, homosexuality, physical and spiritual incarceration, poverty, etc!) All things are possible through the Lord Jesus Christ because He has set me free from all these evils and He can do the same for anybody who repents and let's Him into their hearts so he can change them inside and out! "Black Israelites" can't change you, Islam can't change, and being a pagan ( irreligious) definitely want change you only the mighty Lord Jesus Christ can save us and the rest of this dying world!!!!!! GOD bless
RastaDoll that’s your problem slow down 18 yo before you single and struggling with a baby and no one to help you but yo kids when they can’t do shit but live off mommy at 18
@@saucelessbones5872 I was married, then, divorced. I decided with my ex-wife to be solely commited to raising our daughter. The best thing in my life. I thank God she is mentally sound, smart, curious, and caring. My complete respect to her mom for staying on the path with me.
Blacks should not have kids out of wedlock in the first place. Only settle down and have kids with someone you truly love and are willing to form a long term relationship. Too many one night stands. The welfare system should not be used to prop up one parent families and absent fathers should be tracked down and made to contribute.
It's funny how men have 1 million excuses for why they can't be a dad, yet women are working multiple jobs taking care of their kids. If the mother is so horrible, why did you get her pregnant?
One thing I’m learning is that men don’t like being held accountable, and black men in particular hate commitment & responsibility (not all, but too many).
@@t.y.6640 plenty of times it's women who want the dads out of the family. most of the criminals r raised by single mothers. it seems like women are avoiding accountability. u can't just say "well daddy wasn't here, so if I raise a criminal, it's his fault."
tj baby And blame men because they want all pleasure and no responsibility. If women kept their legs close, men would still complain. It takes two to create life, if you’re willing to risk your freedom for temporary lust then either man up get a condom or get a vasectomy.
We don't choose our fathers when we come into this world and when you have an absent father that can care LESS whether or not you fall off the face of the Earth, you have to work twice as hard and be even more focused to completely turn it ALL around & completely excel in this life. This is part of my purpose in life and I do not want to be another statistic by the media.
It's over 70 percent - that's a MAJORITY- I think it's 40 percent with white women as well... so this is not just a "race" issue - this is a social issue...
I remember when I was in second grade, a black girl said she was so happy because her father was getting out of prison that day. I was so shocked that a child's parent was actually in jail! Back then I always viewed parents as the moral standards.
Its called an order of shared custody. Call a spade a spade if all else false no one can deny that court order. Don't give me that I can't afford a lawyer. I've helped men see their children. Damn right take her to court if it's that serious or maybe you just don't wanna do what you have to do?
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THANK U FOR SPEAKING OUT WE NEED FATHERS IN THE HOMES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Absolute idiotic comment. You saw exactly what you wanted to see. View it again. Tyrese highlighted the scenario where the father WANTS to get involved in their kids life. And that’s the majority of black fathers. Many children are conceived in love and even through marriage. And it’s after the couple splits up where the mother is leveraging the kids as a pawn. Get it together, sis.
My niece's so called dad is absent and his drug addicted, selfish, and believe it or not prideful of all things lives under the same roof. My sister and I support his old ass cause he can seem to muster up the energy or intelligence to go get a job. He has numerous kids all around, but hasn't fathered one. He's a loser with sorry played out exuses that I see right through.
+Joseph Joseph if you see right through his played out excuses, why are you taking care of this deadbeat when he's not even taking care of his own kids? let his ass sleep on the street and suffer the repercussions of his own behavior. he'll get a job then. you are enabling this stupidity.
Thanksmy brother is exactly this topic he was never there for his two kids and now 25 years later he was wonder why they hate him it's not rocket science
It takes a village to raise a child is utter BS. It takes a mother and father to raise child. Many of these "villages" contain criminals especially in low income areas. It takes village means the Government should raise the child. When your "village" contains so many single parent, you still think "village" is needed to raise a child? Promote parenthood where both father and mother, husband and wife are raising their child or children. Not a freakin' village!!
Because it takes two to make a baby and 9/10 the mother is raising the child. Now you have to case by case in a lot of situations but there are some father that choose not to be heavily active in their kids live! Don't get me wrong you have some woman that aren't active in her kids live.
Remember in the movie, "The Pursuit of Happyness" the narrator Chris Gardner says, "I met my father for the first time when I was 28 years old." It turns out his situation was actually the norm for black boys.
First of all Tyrese, you made your ex bitter by being a serial cheater & a liar. You weren't trying to create peace but now you want her to listen to you. You've made many excuses!...& we already know how you feel about women. Grow up!
@@kapildhingra20 You're a bitter, misogynistic & ignorant little boy. Trying to hit below the belt with name calling because you have nothing intelligent to say. Grow up, expand your mind, stop playing into stereotypes & find a grown & real King as a role model. You'll never be right for anyone or yourself until you attack those demons that are fighting in your soul.
Second of all Miss Q, Tyrese was like that when she met him. She just wanted the fame he brought to the table. She should've asked my 3 simple question from my new book and she wouldn't be in this situation!!!
Living apart and not being in a child's life are two separate issues. While I am not disputing pew research, according to the CDC Black fathers are more involved in their child's life if they live separately than any other group
Yeah that's because a lot of them are not working and paying child support.While the white men are out working their assets off to make sure they pay their child support.
doesn't he have a daughter with his black ex wife and I don't know the situation about it but he isn't talking about the black children he has only his biracial children not knocking him for having mixed kids but atleast acknowledge all his children
Both men and women are just having kids to have kids. It’s almost a game. The strong single mom card is over rated. No one cares about the strong single mom it is about the kids and their future. I think as adults we make our decisions and we think what is good for me? How can I be happy? What will serve me? Always me and I first . It is rarely for the collective good of the family. The few times you Hera anything different it is what is good for me and my kid… as if the kid didn’t have a dad and the dad was irrelevant
And no one on this panel has the appropriate certifications or academic credentials to talk about any socioeconomic demographic. Being a black who is starved for attention does not make you an expert to discuss this issue.
+Joe Smith A blog is not a reputable research source. And kids count does not correlate your assertions. Reliable sources do not even attempt to make such correlations.
95% of the husbands and fathers are like a thorn in the middle of the eyes of each of the other members of the family. They take center stage for themselves, for all the reasons in the world unworthy of even being dragged into wiping shoes before entering the house. They really really disturb the mother at home and in the public space. They disturb the woman and bother her, they make it difficult for her to make a decent living and with fair wages they invent things that only their muscles can do. They are completely unnecessary. Today, many other factors can be created in the laboratory, including even the production of artificial chromosomes that are substitutes and an oocyte catalysis for chromosomes to enter the process of fetal creation. This solves the woman from the presence of the man who, in 90% of them, becomes a disturbing and disturbing nuisance. In every sense, there is no correlation between the man and the woman. The woman gives her children free of charge and she manages a symbiotic system of friendship and consent. This is not the case with the man / father with whom relations are conducted in the hierarchy and from the calculation and planning of a balance of power. Most of the man's needs are an addiction and the trickery he uses to achieve them becomes a disorder and a hazard that jeopardizes the mental and physical health of the mother and her children. The woman is led to daring acts according to and for the needs of existence and health and well-being of her children. The man is shamelessly led to impose on others demands and actions to satisfy his unbridled desires and instincts. The man / father does not have the restraint he can (when there is no one to fear). The double and blatant morality when the boys and girls at home already "know what's going on" in the parents' room. It is actually "visible to the children" like peeing from the board and mating publicly in front of the children. When it is forbidden between the children and the separation of rooms in the house - because it is taboo, it is also the lack of sense of justice and the "double standard" that is so characteristic of the man / father is an example of a man / father shamelessly institutionalized "a place for the daily satisfaction of his producers." The man is savage and unworthy to live in humility and equality among women. I predict that in the future 100-200 years the society will advance and mating between the different sexes will not be accepted and even prohibited. Men have a high intensity of production storms and therefore men will need to find a sexual outlet with similarities with other men. They will practice and according to their testimonies, they have no need for temptations seduction and foreplay they run to each other frequently and ask for their dismantlement and are always welcome. The meetings between them are purposeful and available at any time, anywhere. Most of the blacks were in prison or there and all of them (all of them) were forced into sex by violent men and found other sex. The botom, according to their testimony, is a thousand times better. And the top among them is happy with the abundance of mutual desire available free and purposeful with men. And the woman will finally be exempt from this savage called a manץ translate by google
Lol at the mother not wanting the father to be in the kids life. How about making sure you know the person well in and out and making sure she's a good fit of before laying with a a women and having a kid. There's brith control and plan b and rubbers on the market if you can't check yourself then your just not ready mentally
This is a good segment about black fathers that are raising there kids and I am a father myself even though I don't live with him I am involved in his life even though me and his mother don't always see eye to eye. And on a side note I have a you tube channel type in Russell Mills May 22, 2017 and watch and leave a like or a comment or subscribe.
HERE IS A REVOLUTIONARY IDEA...WHY DON'T WE ACTUALLY CELEBRATE FATHERS DAY INSTEAD OF HAVING THESE DEPRESSING CONVERSATIONS ABOUT ABSENT FATHERS ! WHY IS IT SO DARNED HARD TO COMPLIMENT MEN FOR JUST ONE DAY IN THE YEAR
A hit dog will holler. You can celebrate good fathers but also point out an obvious issue.
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as a white woman u I CANT SAY THIS..................BUT I SEE THE DESTRUCTION EVERYDY.......WE NEED FATHERS IN THE BLACK COMMUNITES PLEASE BLACK WOMEN WAKE UP.................UR SONS MOSTLY R AFFECTED WHY> THEY R NOT YOUR MAN,,,UR SON IS NOT THE LEADER OF THE HOME...................A 15 YR OLD YOUNG MAN IS NOT THE HEAD OF THE HOUSEHOLD..........................U BLACK WOMEN NEED TO WAKE UP
The problem is truly complex and one aspect of the solution is for every one of us to look at the “man in the mirror,” literally. Regardless of color and income level, we all have a part in this. There’s some messed up non-empathetic opinions voiced here. Those are the people that are the road block to success at a truly equal American experience and equal access to the American Dream. Blessing to all you opinionated a-holes! 😉
But this host fails to tell you that you cannot scientifically correlate those statistics to anything he or TG are trying to say. It is unethical and not scientific for social scientist to attempt to make those correlations.
And 5yrs later ,tyrees baby moma wont alow him to spent time with his child .so u sir dont have control of ur child .u is no defernt from those dead beat .
As a black father, I care! Frankly you should too because some of the children from these homes become societies problem...it does start at home on occasion and the inclusion of a father may make a huge difference in a child’s life as long as they bring a positive influence.
Remnants of systematic oppression have led to black involved father's being the "loch Ness monster" it's real...and us black people need to be more aware. #jgiddinsthefather
If I don't want them I shouldn't have to take care of them ain't my fault she wanted to keep it abortion and adoption as an option and my thought she got pregnant
Oh really?! So your penis just works by itself?! Take some responsibility. If you don't want children, learn how to hold yourself with honour and abstain. You sound like a boy with no self control.
Thank you for not blaming the white people for this.
White people are to blame
@@stackhighintransit2443 So the Albino Africans too? What shade of white is white?
lol
They can't because it's pretty much the same in Africa?
I was raised by a single father. Thanks dad 😀.
Same here! ❤️
My hats off to your father,and just parents in general.I'm a parent,but I'm not looking at myself.
I really hate the bitter baby momma excuse. I know they’re out there but fathers have rights too. Take her to court aren’t your kids worth it. I hear that excuse so often and it’s really tired.
I guess u don't know how the courts work in America. if ur a man, ur already on the back foot.
Sad how you think this is so simple. The courts? Have you ever fought for custody or visitation?
That is the excuse nowadays that the deadbeats use...to excuse their behaviour and suck the next female in...smh
There should be nothing that could keep you from your child.
@@diamondedghill1487 yup. 100%. Its either the bitter baby moms, white supremacy or the court faults lol this niggas are really sad !!
I was a minority where I grew up. When i was in 1st grade my class had a father's day thing where all our dads came in to class. Not a single black kids dad (more than half the class) showed up.
Hopefully they were at work. If not sad.
sad...
Dam bro that's tragic
@@jaquin103 It was pretty sad and awkward but some good came out of it. A lot of those guys I grew up with made sure to be good dads. I think, because this generation doesn't want their kids to have the same broken home they did, kids more often now have their dads.
😪😪😪That sucks man!
My grandson can't speak about his father from his heart without crying.He feels like a thrown away toy.Hes 17 now but the pain is real
Keep fighting my brotha
...HOW ABOUT "MARRYING THE MOTHER OF YOUR CHILDREN?....TRIED THAT?!?....
...OR USE A BUNCH OF BIRTH CONTROL..IF U DON'T LIVE WITH UR KID, U ARE NOT A GOOD FATHER...U FUQ'D UP AND MADE A LIFE WITH SOMEBODY U CAN'T LIVE WITH...BUT IF U DON'T RESIDE WITH UR KIDS EVERY DAY, U'RE HALFASSING IT....PERIOD.
And spend the rest of your life miserable with some woman you don’t truly love
Excel_lence Videos do you understand what love is?
Charles Smith If you get a woman pregnant and she doesn’t want an abortion why should you marry her if you dont really love her
Excel_lence Videos my point is that you don’t understand what love is. Also as a man you shouldn’t be getting a women pregnant women hat you don’t love. And what about that child? Don’t you think it’s better for the child to love and marry the mother?
There is not simply a black fatherhood crisis; there's a fatherhood crisis in general, but the black community has been disproportionately hurt by it.
70% aren't in the home. The higshest rate out of all fatherlessness statistics
@@OreoOreoCookie234 I'm aware of that, and that's why I said blacks are disproportionately hurt by fatherlessness.
@@OreoOreoCookie234 look at unmarried couples in black communities, the statistics of single black women is the stat that's used to promote that narrative .
President Lyndon Johnson really messed everything up with his 1964 welfare state. It wasn't like this in the 50s. Ironically the black family unit was actually stronger during the era of slavery than it is now.
@@perfectsplit5515 I think it's a little simplistic to blame Johnson because we had a welfare state before from the New Deal. What the Great Society did, however, was turn welfare from the emergency rescue it was initially meant to be into a way of life. Even FDR warned against letting the welfare state make people dependent, but Democrats and the left since Johnson have totally thrown that out the window (except for a brief period in the 90s when they agreed to welfare reform.)
Birth control use it stop being lazy. I'm tired of hearing we want the president to give us free stuff.
EXACTAMENTE!
Give free birth control.
you sound like my mom! I agree
vickie jones - definitely. Pregnancy prevention or have an abortion. Much better than frequently being caught forever in the system of government support.
Best birth control? Refusing sex. I know to some, it's easier said than done. But it's the best 100% effective solution.
As a "black man" I say this with love in my heart! We need to get our spiritual lives in order and get closer to the Almighty GOD (Jesus Christ). The mighty Lord Jesus Christ can and want to heal our "cursed" bloodlines (self hatred, self pity, homosexuality, physical and spiritual incarceration, poverty, etc!) All things are possible through the Lord Jesus Christ because He has set me free from all these evils and He can do the same for anybody who repents and let's Him into their hearts so he can change them inside and out! "Black Israelites" can't change you, Islam can't change, and being a pagan ( irreligious) definitely want change you only the mighty Lord Jesus Christ can save us and the rest of this dying world!!!!!! GOD bless
Brother Edward thanks for your comment, without God,there is destruction, that's why were in trouble now.
Amen
Most dad's avoid responsibility even when the mother is begging
@Albert she said most. I met enough and Im only 18.lol
most black dads
RastaDoll that’s your problem slow down 18 yo before you single and struggling with a baby and no one to help you but yo kids when they can’t do shit but live off mommy at 18
tribal Bey he didn’t say he had kids
tribal Bey what? I dont have kids dummy
I am single parent. My daughter is my world.
was she or is she a teen pregnency case? if you say yes , thats the problem .
@@saucelessbones5872 I was married, then, divorced. I decided with my ex-wife to be solely commited to raising our daughter. The best thing in my life. I thank God she is mentally sound, smart, curious, and caring. My complete respect to her mom for staying on the path with me.
@Proto Fight to be in her life. Don't start relationships with other women. Recognize that she is a part of your legacy. Guide her and show wisdom.
Blacks should not have kids out of wedlock in the first place. Only settle down and have kids with someone you truly love and are willing to form a long term relationship. Too many one night stands. The welfare system should not be used to prop up one parent families and absent fathers should be tracked down and made to contribute.
It's funny how men have 1 million excuses for why they can't be a dad, yet women are working multiple jobs taking care of their kids. If the mother is so horrible, why did you get her pregnant?
Elese Mathis Pussy.
One thing I’m learning is that men don’t like being held accountable, and black men in particular hate commitment & responsibility (not all, but too many).
Arthur Morgan Dude, you know it’s true.
@@t.y.6640 plenty of times it's women who want the dads out of the family. most of the criminals r raised by single mothers. it seems like women are avoiding accountability. u can't just say "well daddy wasn't here, so if I raise a criminal, it's his fault."
tj baby And blame men because they want all pleasure and no responsibility. If women kept their legs close, men would still complain. It takes two to create life, if you’re willing to risk your freedom for temporary lust then either man up get a condom or get a vasectomy.
We don't choose our fathers when we come into this world and when you have an absent father that can care LESS whether or not you fall off the face of the Earth, you have to work twice as hard and be even more focused to completely turn it ALL around & completely excel in this life. This is part of my purpose in life and I do not want to be another statistic by the media.
5 years later and this subject is only at 15k on this network? Shows you no body gives af about it even our own people smh
We do, I think we are embarrassed at our behavior, we I know I am.
Bcs many deny that this is an issue.
High value men exercising their options away from their kids and black women 😂😂😂
Very import conversation to be had. This is the underrated crisis.
It's over 70 percent - that's a MAJORITY- I think it's 40 percent with white women as well... so this is not just a "race" issue - this is a social issue...
It's like 30 for white women. 76% for black women. 90% of white women with black baby daddies are single
They’re not counting the women THEYRE COUNTING THE CHILDREN.
Wrong, it IS a racial issue, also it's pretty much the same in African countries.
Wrong. African countries are mostly conservatives and famiky is everything.
I remember when I was in second grade, a black girl said she was so happy because her father was getting out of prison that day. I was so shocked that a child's parent was actually in jail! Back then I always viewed parents as the moral standards.
Its called an order of shared custody. Call a spade a spade if all else false no one can deny that court order. Don't give me that I can't afford a lawyer. I've helped men see their children. Damn right take her to court if it's that serious or maybe you just don't wanna do what you have to do?
THANK U FOR SPEAKING OUT WE NEED FATHERS IN THE HOMES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This brings tears to my eyes!! i just can't believe my ex had to deal with such things in his life
1. Take the mother to court so you can visit with your children or get custody of them. 2. Stop creating children that you dont want so wrap it up.
Absolute idiotic comment. You saw exactly what you wanted to see. View it again. Tyrese highlighted the scenario where the father WANTS to get involved in their kids life. And that’s the majority of black fathers. Many children are conceived in love and even through marriage. And it’s after the couple splits up where the mother is leveraging the kids as a pawn. Get it together, sis.
@@DocMatthews0311 70% of you are out the home and when you flock over here its even worse at 90% you all are deabeats wherever you go
My niece's so called dad is absent and his drug addicted, selfish, and believe it or not prideful of all things lives under the same roof. My sister and I support his old ass cause he can seem to muster up the energy or intelligence to go get a job. He has numerous kids all around, but hasn't fathered one. He's a loser with sorry played out exuses that I see right through.
+Joseph Joseph if you see right through his played out excuses, why are you taking care of this deadbeat when he's not even taking care of his own kids? let his ass sleep on the street and suffer the repercussions of his own behavior. he'll get a job then. you are enabling this stupidity.
+angela rochelle groves-johnson exactly smh
Sounds like my deadbeat Dad
Thanksmy brother is exactly this topic he was never there for his two kids and now 25 years later he was wonder why they hate him it's not rocket science
It takes a village to raise a child is utter BS. It takes a mother and father to raise child. Many of these "villages" contain criminals especially in low income areas. It takes village means the Government should raise the child. When your "village" contains so many single parent, you still think "village" is needed to raise a child? Promote parenthood where both father and mother, husband and wife are raising their child or children. Not a freakin' village!!
How is it never the mothers fault tho ?
Because it takes two to make a baby and 9/10 the mother is raising the child. Now you have to case by case in a lot of situations but there are some father that choose not to be heavily active in their kids live! Don't get me wrong you have some woman that aren't active in her kids live.
Remember in the movie, "The Pursuit of Happyness" the narrator Chris Gardner says, "I met my father for the first time when I was 28 years old."
It turns out his situation was actually the norm for black boys.
This is why I refuse to have sex before marriage.
First of all Tyrese, you made your ex bitter by being a serial cheater & a liar. You weren't trying to create peace but now you want her to listen to you. You've made many excuses!...& we already know how you feel about women. Grow up!
@@kapildhingra20 You're a bitter, misogynistic & ignorant little boy. Trying to hit below the belt with name calling because you have nothing intelligent to say. Grow up, expand your mind, stop playing into stereotypes & find a grown & real King as a role model. You'll never be right for anyone or yourself until you attack those demons that are fighting in your soul.
Second of all Miss Q, Tyrese was like that when she met him. She just wanted the fame he brought to the table. She should've asked my 3 simple question from my new book and she wouldn't be in this situation!!!
Ha. Anyone who keeps telling everyone else to "grow up" is def projecting something. 🤣🤣🤣
kd20 boys Create Problems . Men know how to Fix Problems.
There has been for 45 years. Thanks democrats.
We are getting aggravated Democrats has nothing to do with the males private parts.
Ice 247 They want to fund the welfare state which is contributing to fatherlessness
sad indeed
Simply, take care of your own with in your own homes.
Stop pointing fingers and sweep your own stoop.
Very simple.
@M L You are telling the truth, many people make haphazard decisions.
I'm a single father of 4 EVERYDAY !!!!!
Living apart and not being in a child's life are two separate issues. While I am not disputing pew research, according to the CDC Black fathers are more involved in their child's life if they live separately than any other group
Yeah that's because a lot of them are not working and paying child support.While the white men are out working their assets off to make sure they pay their child support.
Against Deadbeat Dads so you’re justifying deadbeat white dad technically
doesn't he have a daughter with his black ex wife and I don't know the situation about it but he isn't talking about the black children he has only his biracial children not knocking him for having mixed kids but atleast acknowledge all his children
They showed pics of him and the biracial kids and his black son.
I wanna reconnect with my father's long line of external children but at this point I fear they'll take everything we got.
Preach it tyrese!
UR SOOOOOOOOO RIGHT
Both men and women are just having kids to have kids. It’s almost a game. The strong single mom card is over rated. No one cares about the strong single mom it is about the kids and their future. I think as adults we make our decisions and we think what is good for me? How can I be happy? What will serve me? Always me and I first . It is rarely for the collective good of the family. The few times you Hera anything different it is what is good for me and my kid… as if the kid didn’t have a dad and the dad was irrelevant
6 years old isn't a toddler
And no one on this panel has the appropriate certifications or academic credentials to talk about any socioeconomic demographic.
Being a black who is starved for attention does not make you an expert to discuss this issue.
+Joe Smith No it doesn't take a genius, HOWEVER, it does take statistics facts for someone's to make valid points.
+Joe Smith A blog is not a reputable research source. And kids count does not correlate your assertions.
Reliable sources do not even attempt to make such correlations.
95% of the husbands and fathers are like a thorn in the middle of the eyes of each of the other members of the family. They take center stage for themselves, for all the reasons in the world unworthy of even being dragged into wiping shoes before entering the house. They really really disturb the mother at home and in the public space. They disturb the woman and bother her, they make it difficult for her to make a decent living and with fair wages they invent things that only their muscles can do.
They are completely unnecessary.
Today, many other factors can be created in the laboratory, including even the production of artificial chromosomes that are substitutes and an oocyte catalysis for chromosomes to enter the process of fetal creation.
This solves the woman from the presence of the man who, in 90% of them, becomes a disturbing and disturbing nuisance.
In every sense, there is no correlation between the man and the woman. The woman gives her children free of charge and she manages a symbiotic system of friendship and consent. This is not the case with the man / father with whom relations are conducted in the hierarchy and from the calculation and planning of a balance of power. Most of the man's needs are an addiction and the trickery he uses to achieve them becomes a disorder and a hazard that jeopardizes the mental and physical health of the mother and her children.
The woman is led to daring acts according to and for the needs of existence and health and well-being of her children.
The man is shamelessly led to impose on others demands and actions to satisfy his unbridled desires and instincts.
The man / father does not have the restraint he can (when there is no one to fear). The double and blatant morality when the boys and girls at home already "know what's going on" in the parents' room. It is actually "visible to the children" like peeing from the board and mating publicly in front of the children. When it is forbidden between the children and the separation of rooms in the house - because it is taboo, it is also the lack of sense of justice and the "double standard" that is so characteristic of the man / father is an example of a man / father shamelessly institutionalized "a place for the daily satisfaction of his producers."
The man is savage and unworthy to live in humility and equality among women.
I predict that in the future 100-200 years the society will advance and mating between the different sexes will not be accepted and even prohibited.
Men have a high intensity of production storms and therefore men will need to find a sexual outlet with similarities with other men. They will practice and according to their testimonies, they have no need for temptations seduction and foreplay they run to each other frequently and ask for their dismantlement and are always welcome. The meetings between them are purposeful and available at any time, anywhere. Most of the blacks were in prison or there and all of them (all of them) were forced into sex by violent men and found other sex. The botom, according to their testimony, is a thousand times better. And the top among them is happy with the abundance of mutual desire available free and purposeful with men.
And the woman will finally be exempt from this savage called a manץ
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So is actually not on the males alone but in the crazy black girl with their attitude too that is responsible. How who would think that....
Lol at the mother not wanting the father to be in the kids life. How about making sure you know the person well in and out and making sure she's a good fit of before laying with a a women and having a kid. There's brith control and plan b and rubbers on the market if you can't check yourself then your just not ready mentally
This is a good segment about black fathers that are raising there kids and I am a father myself even though I don't live with him I am involved in his life even though me and his mother don't always see eye to eye. And on a side note I have a you tube channel type in Russell Mills May 22, 2017 and watch and leave a like or a comment or subscribe.
Black men do get married...just not to black women lol
You all are deadbeats and create single mothers at the highest rate of all men... You don't get married stay in your broken community
HERE IS A REVOLUTIONARY IDEA...WHY DON'T WE ACTUALLY CELEBRATE FATHERS DAY INSTEAD OF HAVING THESE DEPRESSING CONVERSATIONS ABOUT ABSENT FATHERS ! WHY IS IT SO DARNED HARD TO COMPLIMENT MEN FOR JUST ONE DAY IN THE YEAR
A hit dog will holler. You can celebrate good fathers but also point out an obvious issue.
as a white woman u I CANT SAY THIS..................BUT I SEE THE DESTRUCTION EVERYDY.......WE NEED FATHERS IN THE BLACK COMMUNITES PLEASE BLACK WOMEN WAKE UP.................UR SONS MOSTLY R AFFECTED WHY> THEY R NOT YOUR MAN,,,UR SON IS NOT THE LEADER OF THE HOME...................A 15 YR OLD YOUNG MAN IS NOT THE HEAD OF THE HOUSEHOLD..........................U BLACK WOMEN NEED TO WAKE UP
The problem is truly complex and one aspect of the solution is for every one of us to look at the “man in the mirror,” literally. Regardless of color and income level, we all have a part in this. There’s some messed up non-empathetic opinions voiced here. Those are the people that are the road block to success at a truly equal American experience and equal access to the American Dream.
Blessing to all you opinionated a-holes! 😉
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Dr Jwanaza Kunjufu could’ve been in this!!!! Mannn
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Funny. Even Animals don't do this....Funny.
Go eat a dog!ha ha ha ha
But this host fails to tell you that you cannot scientifically correlate those statistics to anything he or TG are trying to say.
It is unethical and not scientific for social scientist to attempt to make those correlations.
And 5yrs later ,tyrees baby moma wont alow him to spent time with his child .so u sir dont have control of ur child .u is no defernt from those dead beat .
Garry Fernandez he is if the bm won’t let him see the kids a deadbeat is someone now wanting to be apart of the kids life
I bet he has to pay for them though.
Plantation stud mentality.
600 views... I guess no one cares. Count me in!!
I will not fight to be a father . nope
I still believe its bad all round 🤔 Dads dont have rignts
HUMANS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Who cares
You?
kids
As a black father, I care! Frankly you should too because
some of the children from these homes become societies problem...it does start
at home on occasion and the inclusion of a father may make a huge difference in
a child’s life as long as they bring a positive influence.
One more time...what does marriage have to do with 2 people rasing their children? This is not true and there are facts to back that up.
Lies
Remnants of systematic oppression have led to black involved father's being the "loch Ness monster" it's real...and us black people need to be more aware. #jgiddinsthefather
If I don't want them I shouldn't have to take care of them ain't my fault she wanted to keep it abortion and adoption as an option and my thought she got pregnant
Oh really?! So your penis just works by itself?! Take some responsibility. If you don't want children, learn how to hold yourself with honour and abstain. You sound like a boy with no self control.
This is a myth!
alot of economic and census data actually supports this.
Emerge Online Math Tutoring your a Lie and the truth ain’t in it
Yeah, all those years I must have imagined that my deadbeat father was not around.
thanks to the prison system
Agree. We should be very thankful.
The Prison System didn’t reproduce their children.
Bias and generalization.