I know exactly what you mean by this. When you have a father, who is in the home and you see him every day, but yet he’s still absent to you emotionally it is painful thing to go through. You grow up with some of the same issues as those who didn’t have a father in the home at all.
This is an extremely unpopular topic in 2020. I’ve been called racist and a “passive racist” for bringing it up recently. CNN’s telling a different story these days.
Although it's more common in the black community it also happens to white people. I grew up in a fatherless household since I was 11, the day he just decided to leave us. I'm turning 22 next year but I still feel scarred seeing complete happy families. The thing is, I didn't grow up without a father figure, my grandfather was there for me and he was the one who helped my mother raise me. He showed me all the things a father should teach from shaving to girls. He passed away a year ago.
@@TheRealWorldNews247 you should already know what one is. That's a ridiculous to ask that type of question. Come on. Go to Crystal Swirlz channel and Cerebral channel. They will show what a real man is. 😂
Chrissy's Dream's smh you just talking I wanted to know what you think black woman think they know but don’t You can explain I been looking for black woman brave enough to do a interview but most are all bark and no bite!
@@TheRealWorldNews247 I don't do interview. It's not worth my time. I don't need a headache. Ask someone else for a interview. I am sure you will find someone. It's so sad you don't know what a real man's responsibilities are.
Why portray this as just a black issue? This is not about race, it's about moms and dads and kids. And I'd agree, in some cases, it's better if a bad father or mother is not there to mess up their kids' lives. I'd also agree, kids need both male and female role models, though not necessarily "mom" and "dad" as long as they have some caring male and female folks around them. Gay parents, two moms or two dads? If all those single moms and single dads out there can raise good kids, then fine, if it's two women or two men, gay or not. Be reasonable. What matters is for the kids to have good, loving homes, enough food and care and other good things to grow up to be good people. And yes, there are single dads: I knew one case where the mom ran out on her three sons and her husband, to live with the guy she had an affair with. Just abandoned them, then wanted visitation rights. The dad was awarded full custody and some visitation rights were awarded to the mom, who then would not see her three sons regularly. The boys already got the idea, but as they grew up, that cemented it. She didn't care about them. And one of the most unhappy things I've seen was a really good son with a good mom and sister and grandparents, a loving home, who got truly enraged at the mention of the dad who'd run off and left them, and had very little contact with them, sporadically. The son was a good kid, but he was filled with rage because his dad didn't care about him. He eventually learned to put that aside, that his dad didn't matter in his life anymore. That's terrible, but it's what he had to do to avoid hating and getting that angry. And he was right to be angry at the guy, who still lived close enough, he could've had regular contact if he'd given a damn. I had two loving parens, a mostly good home. But they were also overly controlling and overly protective. I only partly understood that, growing up. Once I was an adult and entirely out on my own, I saw how other people lived, and began to understand just how out of whack my parents were in a few areas. The thing was, they thought they were doing the right thing and didn't intend to do wrong. But their personalities and beliefs led them to damage my upbringing in ways I didn't guess and others I did partly know, as a kid and ten. So although I was never physically abused, there was a form of neglect and abuse and control going on there that was not always right or healthy. I still live with the effects of that now, and my parents have been gone for over 18 and 20 years. So a single parent or non-traditional family can be OK, even beneficial, but yeah, ideally, kids need good role models, both male and female, of some kind in their lives, to know how to be good people and how to interact with others. And I wish all those kids without a mom or dad could have the parents they need. My parents never fostered or adopted, so I grew up alone. This is not good for a kid and not good as an adult without any family to support you. I would have loved to have a brother or sister.
They are reported. The black community in America has the highest rate of absentee fathers and we human beings tend to focus on the problem areas so that they can be addressed. There’s no point in focusing on the amount of single parent households among Asians because it’s virtually a non issue. The problem with Asians is overbearing parents. Parents who are too involved with their children’s affairs.
What I wonder is, How would a Black Female Feel if she began a relationship with a Black Male who had Multiple Children By Multiple women, and She was Charged with Caring for all those kids, and The Multiple Mothers PAID NO CHILD SUPPORT. Mean while all the mothers had Visitation and would come by the house on Different days to see or pick up THEIR kids. Mean While, The Father Stayed in Da Club, and spent money on Weaves, Ear Rings and Fake Gucci Hand Bags. Do you think she would stay around?...
Simply ask family court wjy 72 percent of childrens without father.but no ,nobody will do that.because thats the institution provide what superior women wants.and annoying that section of society politically makes no sense .
Black women need to stop having kids by these men 🤦🏾♀️
I have a father but never felt the love. Emotionally distant can still hurt you.
True but that's still much better than him not being there
@@scj1668 yeah man my dad is long gone, Some people say the “understand” when they really just got into a arguement with their dad
I know exactly what you mean by this. When you have a father, who is in the home and you see him every day, but yet he’s still absent to you emotionally it is painful thing to go through. You grow up with some of the same issues as those who didn’t have a father in the home at all.
XD I'm so lucky that I had a father who cared for me and didn't leave me and my mother
marlynn lopez bitch no one gives a shit
That’s not funny
@@sammytheusername6818 did your father left bro
why is everyone assuming I dont have a dad I dont have a mom either
@SlickoJ you’re not funny
Wow....was this really on CNN. How times have changed.
This is an extremely unpopular topic in 2020. I’ve been called racist and a “passive racist” for bringing it up recently. CNN’s telling a different story these days.
So are we ever gonna address this issue ????
nope... orange man bad and police are racist pigs!
Honestly my parents were married when they had me and my siblings. My dad Just unexpectedly passed away when I was 11😔 hurts me till this day💔💔
Stories like this is not surprising but the emotional state they grow up in do affect their relationship decisions.
Although it's more common in the black community it also happens to white people. I grew up in a fatherless household since I was 11, the day he just decided to leave us. I'm turning 22 next year but I still feel scarred seeing complete happy families. The thing is, I didn't grow up without a father figure, my grandfather was there for me and he was the one who helped my mother raise me. He showed me all the things a father should teach from shaving to girls. He passed away a year ago.
If the women had a real man she wouldn't need to be on government assistance and most of the men are live in babysitters and gamers.
Lol would you come on my channel and explain what is a real man?
@@TheRealWorldNews247 you should already know what one is. That's a ridiculous to ask that type of question. Come on. Go to Crystal Swirlz channel and Cerebral channel. They will show what a real man is. 😂
Chrissy's Dream's smh you just talking I wanted to know what you think black woman think they know but don’t
You can explain I been looking for black woman brave enough to do a interview but most are all bark and no bite!
@@TheRealWorldNews247 I don't do interview. It's not worth my time. I don't need a headache. Ask someone else for a interview. I am sure you will find someone. It's so sad you don't know what a real man's responsibilities are.
@@Evemee lol you're typical black woman smh
And it can grow up much higher
Most of the time the woman doesn't want the dad to stay around and kids will find out when they get older.
Probably because they were drug addicted pieces of shit. It’s better that they didn’t know their father. You left that part out.
Why portray this as just a black issue? This is not about race, it's about moms and dads and kids. And I'd agree, in some cases, it's better if a bad father or mother is not there to mess up their kids' lives. I'd also agree, kids need both male and female role models, though not necessarily "mom" and "dad" as long as they have some caring male and female folks around them. Gay parents, two moms or two dads? If all those single moms and single dads out there can raise good kids, then fine, if it's two women or two men, gay or not. Be reasonable. What matters is for the kids to have good, loving homes, enough food and care and other good things to grow up to be good people. And yes, there are single dads: I knew one case where the mom ran out on her three sons and her husband, to live with the guy she had an affair with. Just abandoned them, then wanted visitation rights. The dad was awarded full custody and some visitation rights were awarded to the mom, who then would not see her three sons regularly. The boys already got the idea, but as they grew up, that cemented it. She didn't care about them. And one of the most unhappy things I've seen was a really good son with a good mom and sister and grandparents, a loving home, who got truly enraged at the mention of the dad who'd run off and left them, and had very little contact with them, sporadically. The son was a good kid, but he was filled with rage because his dad didn't care about him. He eventually learned to put that aside, that his dad didn't matter in his life anymore. That's terrible, but it's what he had to do to avoid hating and getting that angry. And he was right to be angry at the guy, who still lived close enough, he could've had regular contact if he'd given a damn. I had two loving parens, a mostly good home. But they were also overly controlling and overly protective. I only partly understood that, growing up. Once I was an adult and entirely out on my own, I saw how other people lived, and began to understand just how out of whack my parents were in a few areas. The thing was, they thought they were doing the right thing and didn't intend to do wrong. But their personalities and beliefs led them to damage my upbringing in ways I didn't guess and others I did partly know, as a kid and ten. So although I was never physically abused, there was a form of neglect and abuse and control going on there that was not always right or healthy. I still live with the effects of that now, and my parents have been gone for over 18 and 20 years. So a single parent or non-traditional family can be OK, even beneficial, but yeah, ideally, kids need good role models, both male and female, of some kind in their lives, to know how to be good people and how to interact with others. And I wish all those kids without a mom or dad could have the parents they need. My parents never fostered or adopted, so I grew up alone. This is not good for a kid and not good as an adult without any family to support you. I would have loved to have a brother or sister.
@Men in black I'm black and I disagree
the goat check the charts it doesn’t happen to u but lots of
imhumbledby steve irungu jermaine
What's interesting is how the media supports this without realizing it
Wow this is ridiculous this is really sad. The girl don't even know where her father is.
The stats for all ethnic groups should be reported. Why focus on this group?
They are reported. The black community in America has the highest rate of absentee fathers and we human beings tend to focus on the problem areas so that they can be addressed. There’s no point in focusing on the amount of single parent households among Asians because it’s virtually a non issue. The problem with Asians is overbearing parents. Parents who are too involved with their children’s affairs.
Unfortunately blk folks have the highest of everything negative. Just sad!
Bc it's the highest one by far. The Asian community is in the single digits. Whites are less than 25 percent. Blacks today have gone up to 78 percent
That's really sad.
And you know most BLACK women? Read a book.
You knew one guy and trying to base a theory? Read and do the real research. You're speaking out of emotions and not logic. Tisk, Tisk!!!
2021 Dont ask
#coolkidsdonthavedads
imextremelysorry by steve irungu jermaine
This is really sad
Damn CNN before they started pushing all the bs
i know howitfeels bysteve irungu jermaine
What I wonder is, How would a Black Female Feel if she began a relationship with a Black Male who had Multiple Children By Multiple women, and She was Charged with Caring for all those kids, and The Multiple Mothers PAID NO CHILD SUPPORT. Mean while all the mothers had Visitation and would come by the house on Different days to see or pick up THEIR kids. Mean While, The Father Stayed in Da Club, and spent money on Weaves, Ear Rings and Fake Gucci Hand Bags. Do you think she would stay around?...
My ex wife never paid me child support but if it was me ill be in jail
This is misleading. We probably have parents that wasn't married but most of the dads was and is active in their kids lives.
I would rather live alone period by Steve Irungu Jermaine
Single mother household is the ideal place for kids to grow up according to woke culture.anti male family court judges advancing that cause.
That's actually sad as fuck.
Why so many blacks growing up without a father??? Its insane...
Simply ask family court wjy 72 percent of childrens without father.but no ,nobody will do that.because thats the institution provide what superior women wants.and annoying that section of society politically makes no sense .
What about the mothers?
what ABOUT them?
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This makes men look soo bad
Wtf 😳
go u have 45 sec lol