ASMR Voice: Everything's Fine [M4A] [Comfort for Past Trauma/Verbal Abuse] [Raised Voices]
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I wrote this script for my best friend who grew up with verbal abuse in her house. Thank you for recording this, C. ❤️
Yes! Thank you so much for writing this, Corina! 🌻
It is amazing❤ thanks
thank you so much. You have no idea how this kind of thing helps me
well I'm like your best friend and your script is perfect.
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Thank you so much for writing this, it means so much and you are such a kind person for writing this for your friend
probably says something abt my trauma that when he said "i promise ill never yell at you" my immediate thought was "you cant promise that"
Same
Same 😭✋
I feel you there. They can say these things but they never mean it
@@iquestionmyself9678 yeah, i remember often hearing "i promise ill never yell at you again." and it would be great for awhile but then it would restart
@@nahthanks6290 ikr, it'll last like a day or two then it's back to normal
Me: I have no fears
Cardlin: *raises voice*
Me: *I have one fear*
Same though. One of the forms of bullying i went through growing up. We love talking about trauma and trying to heal from it
Same
I fear no man but that thing.. It scares me
same
That and the ppl who can flip their eyelids... 😰
cardlin: **slightly raises his voice**
me: **ALREADY IN TEARS**
Same
I can relate 😭✋
BRO SAME I WAS UGLY SOBBING I- 🗿
SAME
Same i go so scared 😂
I’ve always said “up to you” or “whatever you’d like” or “what would you want” and never thought of myself I thought that was normal guess not..
I did that a lot too, i had a big problem saying no. That got me into being manipulated for years.. i haven't gotten back from it yet
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frig....
i thought this was normal...
Wait you're telling me it *isn't* normal?
@@SkyTheMagician ig guess so 😩🤚
@@sadistfactory_ .....well oops
My mind completely shut down as soon as the his voice got louder-
Edit: 2:12 is after the yelling
Same , I panicked
Same..Still trying to recover from it
Yeah, me too..
And tho ... It was a bit so scary 👁️👄👁️
I actually started getting scared and panicky cause my mother is verbally abusive towards me and when she gets slightly louder I already know what’s coming so I was impressed with this and how it made me feel XD (I felt better once he got nicer)
“I promise ill never raise my voice again”
Me: *promises are meant to be broken arent they-*
Damn that hit me in the feels
I can relate to that a little to much
Dayum
Every time he promised it was just an empty promise, he always did it again
@@Mars-e1van apology without change is manipulation
Never realize this is a trauma, i always thought im just to sensitive, thank you
this is very much trauma!!! and it's very valid!!! your feelings are weird sometimes but it's not your fault and you're a wonderful valid person :)
thank you so much @@spindless
A therapist could tell you what parts of your life is trauma, tell you how it may be affecting you now, and though they can't undo it and fix you, things will make sense and you'll be able to 'navigate' your life. Therapy was helpful in it's own way. I went into it thinking "it won't work but I'll try anything, I don't have anything to lose". I just want you to consider trying it out. I actually got it in secret.
@@deadinside8781 thanks so much man, i will defenitely consider it
My dad always told me I’m to sensitive because I cried when I was bullied at school. So now I have mental breakdowns in my room
TH-cam: Ca-
Me: *NO NO NO I AM HERE BEFORE YOU, YOU CANNOT TRICK ME*
Daaaa da da da dada flying Doritos
Cardlin: "Thank you for giving permission to yell at my online buddies, its not my fault they are a bunch of idiots"
I have a strong feeling this is about Todd and Yuuri LMAO
IT IS XD THEYRE A BUNCH OF ADORKABLE IDIOTS AND I LOVE THEM
@@elizabethschuyler-hamilton7722 SAME
My mind went blank. When people raise their voice at me I just power down and turn emotionless I actually really liked this audio
wait same. i try not to give anyone a reason to keep yelling and so i just sit there blank faced and lock my jaw so i don’t cry. i would always get yelled at for crying and then later yelled at for being emotionless bc “i didn’t even care”
i literally just stopped crying and breaking down to come upstairs and have to eat with you. ofc imma put on a front and pretend that i’m ok.
have you seen me?
I just start crying and get really scared
Same. I get scared. When my mom raised her voice at me she would normally hit me so I just shut down.
i get scared, start crying and i yell back
@@makaylaschrad8828 this!! I can’t wear heart on sleeve and be me because I “need to toughen up” I shut down and just nod and wait for the lectures to end before I go to another room and let it out.
i feel like Cardlin is so tired of taking care of us and always having to deal with our problems LMAO i know that everything is fictional but still, sorry Cardlin 😔✨
NAH CAUSE SOMETIMES IM LIKE “damn he’s so sick of us” 🏃♀️💨
me too, that's why I never tell anyone anything. I don't want to be anymore of a burden
@@iquestionmyself9678 you should tell people! But not everything to one. Your Partner/friends/family is not a dumping place neither are they are a therapist.
I have the same problems and I bottle a lot of things up but it nearly took me a dear friend before I noticed that I was burdening one person with a lot of shit. As I say Vent in Moderation ⭐
@@heatherslove5465 I don't have anyone to vent to though. Can't trust people, they spill all your secrets or make fun of you for your issues. I'd rather fight it myself.
@@iquestionmyself9678 yeah I have that problem too. What helps me is to vent with art or writing my feelings down (poetry if you want to call it that) or as weird as it sounds cry (into a stuffie or hold one) when you are alone put some music on blast and let it all out
TW Emotional Abuse
I grew up in an emotionally abusive household. Yelled at everyday. Told I wasn't good enough and I'd never achieve anything.
I recently broke up with my boyfriend because I was scared of him doing the same thing. I wasn't telling him when I wasn't happy. I wasn't communicating my needs in fear of him yelling. And when I broke up with him, he yelled and cursed and proved me right. I have been a mess, haven't left my apartment since. But this. This helped me soo much. I can't explain how good I feel after this. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!
@Kymberlie Benefield Thank You
Whoever you date next you gotta communicate better
@@talileonard2553 thank you so much for caring xx
Hey its ok just remenber you are good enough and there are people out there who care for you. I've been there myself befor and it went to a part when i went into a hording stage but that was years ago.
@@Lavendercosplay thank you x I'm doing better all the time, hope your ok too!
I have a really big issue with this kind of thing. My father use to yell at me for no reason and whenever we disagreed. This audio, actually helped me, thanks
same hope your doing better now i still have a few more years of it
same here. just recently realized that a lot of my actions are trauma based because of him.
I used to go through the same thing, I'm sorry that happened to you and i hope you're doing well now. Take care! :]
Same but for me, I just end up freezing and shaking along with huge tears forming in my eyes. Not my dad, but my mom has been yelling at me for a the smallest of reasons and would use me to release her anger out on. I never fully recovered from it and would get mad PSTD whenever someone yells/shouts/screams. It activates a flight or fight response
For me it's my mom that does it, and I got some trauma from it. I'm a student and very much of the time there would be random yelling and screaming or loud noises and everytime that happens I flinch. Flinch and put my hands against my ears. Although no one noticed it. While at home I just try to find my headphones and put on loud music or comforting voices. Sometimes my mother would yell so hard that I can hear it through my headphones on full volume.
(Sorry if it's unclear, english isn't my first language)
the one dislike is the guy that gave us trama
My parents watch cardlin?
@@reiflower9918 huh? i guess idk
@@Lovely_Unknown213 my parents gave me ✨childhood trauma✨
@@reiflower9918 felt that on a spiritual level...
@@reiflower9918
Felt that
As I small child I was always afraid when my dad shouted at my older brother and to this day I still freak out when someone shouts and this was really helpful. Just thanks!
Omg so glad it’s not just me
@@kuromi1419 aww no I’m sorry to hear that it bothers you too I know how much it sucks. I send u virtual serotonin!!
@@nxs5859 I’m just glad I’m not the only one 😊
Secondhand verbal abuse gang. Cheers to the emotional instability
i thought hearing the shouting was not valid for a long amount of time, i thought my bros experienced worse than me
but it's like secondhand smoke, it's just as bad for those around the inflictor
These help me so much, I haven’t been listening long but the improvements, this week alone, I showered, cleaned up my depression pit which took three days to clean, but I did it, I put my bedsheets in the wash, I put my comfort stuffies and hoodie on my pillow in the wash for the first time in months, it takes a great deal for me to be separated from them for a few days, but I managed it. I ate at least two meals a day and proper ones at that, which I know isn’t proper eating still but it’s better than my one slice of toast for breakfast and a few grapes for my lunch and to sort of pick at my dinner. I started playing minecraft with my friends again so we could hang but not out in the middle of a pandemic, I know it’s not the same but it keeps me going to hang with them in a safe, not dangerous way. I didn’t sit waiting hours into the night waiting for h e r to message me when I know she won’t just letting myself down every night when I fall asleep finally knowing she didn’t message, instead I got some sleep or read a book if I couldn’t sleep staying off my phone. I started getting back into my favourite hobbies again, I finally finished my realistic art piece that took months that had just been sitting collecting dust waiting for me to finish, and I got some baking done. I also got through all of my school meetings this week, there was a few breakdowns but I got through them, and started finally standing up for myself when my dad has been being unfair, it feels good to feel like this again. It’s only small steps that others would say are just basics and they call me gross for not getting out of bed,showering and doing all these things, not knowing what it was like for me each day and accidentally just putting me down instead, but it’s an improvement from me lying in my bed all day attending my meetings and not really listening and not taking care of myself hygiene, or health wise so thank you, I don’t know how long I’ll be coming back here, but I know that one day I’ll gradually get on with my life and have my own family to keep me going and one day I’ll be okay enough on my own, but thank you for helping me now. And thank you for being there when I needed it most. Thank you for keeping me going.
I’m so incredibly proud of you. We may be internet strangers, but I’m glad that you’re still here even after going through everything that you have.
We’re very proud of you, I know it must’ve been hard but it will forever be an accomplishment, Good job 💚
*hi ik i am a stranger and ik how y feel i suffer with depression but i am really glad that y eat something y keep doing that and don't give up no matter how hard it gets bc ily and everbody loves y to! imagine how they will feel if y died listen y are pretty just the way y are y don't need to change your self for nobody yk and it's okay to feel down and it's okay to cry bc guess what it's showing how you feel and nobody can change that and it make me really happy that y are taking care of yourself.Guess what im proud of you you are strong so don't bring yourself down bc look y came all this way without giving up y are a pretty girl/boy and y keep fighting bc i care for you and love you so y keep doing y okay:) you are perfect the way y are i love you okay!.*
And I’m so proud of you I know it’s not easy and believe me I know because I’m slowly recovering and I know that you can too we are in this together
Keep going we're all here to help you. So chin up and conquer the whole fkin world! ✨✨
The fact he barely raised his voice and my anxiety immediately spiked and I started tensing and tearing up is so telling. Bestie has some ✨ trama ✨
The drawing is soo beautiful and feels safe and comforting. Hats off to the artist!!
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I also love how the person Cardlin is holding looks androgynous 😍
As someone whose afraid of yelling I’m glad you made this. 🥺
(You have my heart!!)
My school day just ended. And I had a hard day, so thank you for helping me relax
Same here school sucks
@@mariavidal5704 Exactly
Same here thank you
@@zuza_1605 School can be tough. And sometimes you just need to chill and listen to Cardlin
Rigbt here with you
Can we talk about how in the drawing it looks like we’re smuggling the cat to death? XD
BYEJAJAJSHDISJD
Nah cats always look like that
@@bread1882 true 😂
LMAOO I WAS CRYING A SECOND AGO BUT NOW IM WHEEZING 😭😭😭
@@sadistfactory_ you’re welcome XD
Once I heard that Cardlin raised his voice my eyes immediately started watering and I just stared apologizing over and over and when his voice calmed down and talked I flinched. 😀😭💖✨
✨Mental health and trama issues😀✨
Same 🤣🤣
i used to cry but now i just get angry because half the time it's not my fault. so now i just sorta blankly stare back and wait for them to stop. never show weakness. it's toxic but it works
This is a whole mood
@@g1a908 yes most of the time clenching my jaw so i don’t cry
My head twitches when that happens and I go numb
me: waiting for the yell
🐻: starts apologising
me: oh wait that was-oh i-wow maybe i do need therapy
I'll only start telling my therapist things after I move outta my dads house cause I dont want her to yell at me for speaking my feelings🤠
Funny how things circle like that
Yeah I need therapy too
I had a consoluer call me crazy for liking stories about ghosts and stuff
Sammmeeeee
LMAO SAME I went “at least that wasn’t so bad”
So freaking early and kinda nervous because this I’ve been verbally abused before
I'm so sorry
same, trying to subside recent trauma wuth someone who will actually apologize. i’m so sorry you had to go through it too, you’re so strong
@@sophiamacgregor2011 it’s okay now, I’ve been out of that relationship for a year now. But thank you so much 🤍
@@elenav.5470 thank you 🥺🤍
@@elenav.5470 I'm sorry to u as well it's hard to face that truth
the trauma probably isn't so bad for me, but situations like this does make me either tense up or get aggressive (if i can't control it). the thought that someone like you in this audio might exist irl and might be willing to put up with it and even comfort people like me felt so reassuring that i almost teared up while listening (like i can feel suppressing the big lumps down my throat >
This happens to me i tense and start to like immediatly start to apologise
Same, tbh I don’t call it trauma for me but it’s definitely something lol. When stuff like this happens I feel shaky and nauseous but the rest of this audio helped :”)
TW:
this made me feel safe. I always blackout and try to protect myself when people are arguing and trying to hit me. i hate my trauma and what all happened to me but then again it made me stronger and less vulnerable to people
thank you for making this audio!
My parents would argue a lot so shouting is a trigger for me - when you raised your voice, immediately started tearing up.. I wish I'd never listened to them.. - I wish I had the words to explain this video to my parents, this touched deep down, thank you Cardlin 🤍
As someone who’s father emotionally manipulated them on a daily and cried themself to sleep last night because of him this was very helpful
Same with my mother :(
I hope you are doing and feeling better..
@@emiilia same goes for you luv
I never experience this kind of stuff often but I do cry when someone shout at me or even raise their voice just a little when they get mad.. Once I started crying, I can cry for hours and I just felt useless everytime it did happen. I dunno when it start happen, but I guess I never know...
I'm gonna admit I'm sobbing. This hits home for me. I'm still going through the abuse. I struggle everyday. However, I've never had and still don't have any support. I'm alone.
Hey, I've been exactly where you've been I know how awful and lonely it is, I escaped the abuse when I was 19 and I promise you you will one day be able to, I know you wont believe me cos I wouldnt have done back then but one day things will be okay and you'll not be trapped there and you'll be safe x ❤
Thank you @@roisinbb for the kind words. ❤
I know exactly how you feel, I've also been through this, and even if it's hard to belive, (trust me, I wouldn't belive me too) you WILL get through this, and the result will be so satisfactory, when you meet with a healthier and happier version of yourself that you're gonna start building.
When I was in that phase of my life, I thought I wouldn't be able to survive through that, now I'm glad I was strong enough to see that new version of myself.
I belive in you, you will get through that, and will be so happy, in a way you never thought was possible.🙏👊🤗
@@Alicia-arts Thank you. As of the 24th I've officially added a 3ed bundle of joy to my life and she's extremely loved by her 2 slightly older sisters.
Him asking what I'm thinking:
Me: I feel ugly and useless and worthless and I wanna kms :)
Him: Are you sure that's what you want?
Me: kms? yeah pretty much
Him: yeah it would make me happy :)
I HAVE NEVER LAUGHED SO HARD IN MY LIFE AHHAHAHAHAHAHAH
I almost laughed
Omg BAHHAHA
IM SCREAMING PLEASE-
LITERALLY
he’s voice so calm I can’t 😭❤️
YEEEESS😫
the fact that I can relate to this and older men yelling at me my entire life and just chastising me for everything I’m literally 13 and I deal with anxiety but I haven’t told anyone because people would think I want attention or whatever and it really does suck thinking that I could pass out it does feel bad and that’s why most people with the same issue just have issues with people raising there voice and living with that is hard just knowing that you feel weak because someone raises their voice at you .
Me: Can we watch a movie?
Cardlin: "You think of a movie you want to watch..."
Me: :o
Cardlin : * starts talking a little louder *
My mind : no , no ,no ,no ,no, leave or stay or cry no, don't cry it's week
Me :* shuts down *
Facts
Comon y/n. Which idol brought you here💔
The fact that my sister yelled at me twice while listening to this and the fact that I don't have the best coping mechanisms(I tend to never express how I feel and cover everything up by smiling) made this video a million times better.
i didn't know that that response from someone yelling was a result of past trauma-
it is!! n it's also very valid!! it can really damage mental + social health!! remember you're valid :))
Nagito why are you here-
Ok so I’m so used to listening to Cardlins audios from three years ago that when I saw that this was posted 7 hours ago... I rubbed my eyes and looked again because I thought I couldn’t read
HAHA IKR
I don't know if it's just me or do people get uncomfortable when people try to help and comfort you because like no one has ever done that.
I needed this today, thank you so much Cardlin. Much love to all my fellow survivors of verbal abuse, or people who are still going through it like I am. I love you all so much.
I'm not going to be a survivor but thank you anyways
Me: *Just moved out of my verbally abusive, physically abusive toxic mother's house*
I guess this is the place for me 🙂
I'm so happy for you. I wish i could do the same.❤
I'm glad you're in a better place now, I'm so proud of you. And even though I'm a stranger, I want you to know that there's always people here for you. We're with you boo!
Welcome u r safe here 💜
more power to you! Stay strong and blessed!
Go you!! You're amazing 💖💖
I don’t really have issues with loud sounds just bc I’m equally as agressive and loud as everyone else in my family, but I definitely do have a long history of verbal abuse from my family. I have very expressive symptoms of adhd so I get made fun of my stims, tics, and inability to focus, and even my hyper fixations by my parents- so this really helped🤧
This literally gave me chills and made me cry. My husband is verbally abusive towards me and as it gets worse I shut down.
U need to leave
Ugh, finally one for the abuse *I’ve* experienced. It’s hard when verbal abuse isn’t as pronounced as physically because verbal is never really used in comfort audios. But now I have a comfort for what i’ve been through. Thank you Cardlin.
Cardlin: Starts raising his voice
Me: in tears saying sorry
*Girl we need to take you to therapy again*
My heart literally stopped when cardlin's voice started getting louder
Same it scared me so much my body took a whole screenshot
Awee.. i want cuddles... I'm having a tough time right now because i live in a toxic household and i really needed this... thank you.. it's really hard to come across as normal when everything is stacked against you. People take your pain as being "too sensitive " or "being a baby", abuse and PTSD causes you to be sensitive to sensory stuff and people don't understand that. Your voice is very comforting to me, like a voice you would find from brother bear.
And to the person who wrote this script, thank you, truthfully.
I didn’t know I needed this until I heard it, just last week I was home alone and had a panic attack cause of my trauma of loud noises and now I know I have someone here for me 😭🥰
how did you know exactly what i needed comfort for... 😦 it’s like superhuman timing or something
He got cameras around us
@@AsmrHoe cardlin is the fbi man... 🥸
@@MOMO2003 yep, the one we all need
I think cardlin should do a reverse comfort were the listener comforts cardlin from being scared from a nightmare, scary movie, thunderstorm, anxiety, attacks etc. it would be so damn cute cause I wanna comfort him💖💖
Yeah.
As someone with sensitive hearing + anxiety that gets triggered by yelling or arguments this is actually quite nice. :)
Though I didn't cry, the raising voice part did make me feel a numbing pain in my chest and a part of my mind screaming that I "screwed up".
I’m currently sitting as my new highlights are drying, this is perfect.
"We can have a disagreement without it escalating to yelling."
Me: uhm... *fear*
As someone who was a victim of verbal abuse that was in a toxic and abusive relationship for over 6 months, thank you. This means a lot to me. My current partner is helping me realize that that relationship, wasn’t the way. Thank you, Cardlin. From an abusive survivor, this was just what I needed
Last year, my home got robbed with our dog stolen & I got physically attacked, I had PTSD from that experience getting nightmares and flashbacks all the time. Videos like these really helps my soothing and forget about the world around me tysm cardlin & happy Valentine's 💖 you have my heart 💜
[⚠️WARNING! MENTION OF VERBAL AND PHYSICAL ABUSE⚠️]
[If there's typos please don't mind]
Thanks for making this Cardlin. As a victim who was verbally abused by my older sister since I was only 8, the things she said really hurt me(she said I was fat, ugly, deserved to die, a disgraced to the world, and I didn't belong nowhere no matter if I tried) and she was also controlling me saying that I couldn't eat at all when my dad wasn't around and said she would beat me up if I did so I didn't, I was starving to death when my dad was at work, there were times when she would just hit me for no reason but not bad enough to the point where I would have a bruise so my dad would notice. It really affected my mental state. With the things that I've been through over the years like being bullied, family issues, and other things my sister verbally abusing me only made me felt more worse about myself. She was never like this before at all which made me wonder why she changed, at some point I told my dad what she did and he took me back to my mom's house and told me I wasn't gonna see her for a while I felt relaxed but then I felt worried for her, even if she had hurt me she was still my sister. I saw her again a few months ago in October and she was nicer now and said she was sorry for what she did to me and proved it. She now has a husband with three kids and a sister bond that was broken is now being fixed😌 Once again Cardlin thank you for making this. Also thanks to the people who read this.
I KNOW THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE SENTIMENTAL BUT I CAN'T GET PAST THE INTRO WITHOUT HEARING "Heyy! There's my baby! How was your WAP?" AND LAUGHING HYSTERICALLY
This really helps in those moments when you're stuck in your head and convince yourself that you're alone in the world after a bad flashback. It helped me finally relax a bit after a hard week, and while I have good friends, often they just don't really know how to deal with situations like these. I definitely don't blame them, it's pretty overwhelming. But having a voice you can actually listen to works wonders for the racing thoughts. Thank you for making these ❤.
I've heard my dad raise his voice and yell so much. It doesn't matter whether he is yelling at me, my older sibling, my mom, or the dog. It's still super scary. And I don't really talk to him about stuff that I'm dealing with that much because I fear of getting yelled at plus other factors. And I say "if you want to" way to much. This does really help. Thank you so much for this audio, Cardlin. Keep up the great work.
I’ve been having really bad episodes the past couple days, basically where I just get really jumpy and constantly think everyone’s gunna hit me, and it’s a lot, so this really helped 🙂
The asking for consent to hold hands almost made me cry...
I'm not good with confrontation and when people raise their voices at or around me. I shut down and feel like the person raising their voice or yelling at/around me is going to somehow hurt me and want to hurt me. This audio really helps me with my anxiety and from my past PTSD and trauma. Thank you Cardlin, for this comforting audio.
I really needed this audio, thank you so much, the comfort of being able to have an opinion without worrying of it being just immediately shut down is something me and many others are thankful for in this audio, hope you and everyone else has a great day
I kept crying while listening because it was all so relevant. I really needed to hear this comfort. Ive never told anyone about what goes on at home with my parents because verbal abuse isnt as evident as physical. But this is type of reaction from someone I open up to is my hope for a better future.
akdhdks!! please talk to someone if you can!! it gets better!! I know i can't really help and it's not always what you want to hear, cause it wasn't and still isn't what helps to hear, but it does get better. especially at home it can be a rollercoaster. I'm still going through it, but hey! we can do it together, right? :) hope you're doing well and it gets easier for you soon!!!!
oh my goodness and oh my god, well i feel like that i really needed to hear that, since..i usually have the same problem and issues, only like from the way past trauma and raised voices from my parents like my mom and dad, sometime my brother, and after i end up starting to cry after i end up remembering about like being yelled at from my dad (mostly from him) and sometime from my brother, and sometime from my mom, and also like about not able to help around the inside or outside of the house, or end up just being blamed, and or like just don't like it, but i already feel like that i'm weak, and couldn't do anything about it, and also just feel ike that when i end up being put in the middle for like what to do for supper/dinner, and asked what they think about it, and i end up just said like 'i guess' or i suppose' or anything ike that, but..i just don't like it that way, and i'm sorry, since now i'm crying right now, only from thinking about it like way past over the years, and past trauma and raised voices/yelling and i'm really sorry about it.
Keep up the good work, and i hope you have a good morning/afternoon/evening, and i hope you have a good day too as well, same to everyone else, and including the rest of the asmrtists and everyone who collabs as well too.
Also for the reaction to the video would be this: 😟😭 💔 😢😥😨😱 and well might hopefully try to recover and feel better and a little mor better too for like 🙂 and also 🤗 (for smile and hugs too) and also ♥️ too as well.
And also 🙂🙂🙂🙂 and ♥️♥️♥️♥️ and also 🤗🤗🤗🤗 for being a good friend from me to you and also to everyone else, and including the rest of the asmrtists too as well, and everyone who collabs as well too.
How did this both trigger and then calm me down from a panic attack? 😂Thank you Cardlin. Your audios help so many people and I really hope you know that!
cardlin: *raises voice a little bit*
“DONT CRY DONT CRY DONT CRY”
This helps me because my birth dad was physically and mentally abusing to me and my mom when I was 1-2 then my mom broke up with him then a few year later after moving from family member to family member I got adopted I have good home but I get triggered when they fight so I have to step and and make them stop but overall they are a good family also I have two sisters
Ty for listening to my story
i hope U are doing better now💖
@@breadsticks5247 I'm doing much better ty
@@eddiemudson3724 im glad! stay safe!
dude the timing...
*yer a wizard, cardlin*
Oof. This is going in the “I’ll listen a million times and still feel the feels every time” folder. Thank you Cardlin.
You have my heart ❤️
The consensual affection was such a great feeling omg
This is so helpful, my mom's back to her old sh**
She got made when I told her I didn't agree with her and she yelled at me for 2 hours and I just got let of the hook and I saw this 😭😭😭😭😭😭
never knew how much yelling actually messed me up until he started raising his voice. legit had to turn my volume all the way down for a second. my heart was beating out of my chest...
I have an abusive mother and she tells a lot, this helps so much really.
Thank you both! I was verbally/emotionally abused not only by my parents, but also by a series of roommates and an ex. Raised voices is highly triggering for me, so I *felt* this one on a much deeper level.
I started threapy last month and we touch on this topic about verbal abuse and how much it effects me. Im glad that I think I've gotten better - even when C rised his voice although it still made me flinched - I wasnt terrified and I was acutally willing to stand up for myself - thats new :0 lol
But I really hope I find an understanding partner like Cardlin in this audio. I know this audios are a perfect imagine of a person but, I hope my partner has an ounce of compasion and is willing to listen and I hope I am the same too ❤
Great work C!
He didn't even raise his voice that high but it affected me more than I thought. I haven't cried this hard over a comfort audio. I didn't know it would affect me this much. Cheers to our silent battles I guess
ISHSUU IT SHISHS MY VOLUME WAS ALL THE WAY UP AND THE START OF THE VIDEO SCARED THE SHIT OUTTA ME-
Listening to this 3 yrs later.. still need it just as much as I did back then. I don't think I've ever thanked you for your audios. I don't think any amount of thanks will ever be enough.
I’ve went through Trauma + verbal abuse it’s not an easy thing to go through I have an ex who caused me trauma all he did was raise his voice at me sometimes I could still hear his voice in my head
I’ve also been dealing with stress and I’ve also felt afraid to let people in
So thank you for uploading this C🥺❤️
Your videos always help me stay calm and relaxed I’m glad that your videos always help me
Me too
not me crying after hearing “you’re safe here”
No no omg okay I’ve only read the title so far and I’m already excited :’) this one’s gonna hit home for me guys
Edit: oh yea he got me spot on 😭 thank you Cardlin, your videos never fail to put a smile on my face :)
The fact that my pillow and a random voice on the internet can comfort me better than anybody in my life really says something
Babes same here, also I love ur username, it's iconic ✨
@@friendly_introvert THANKS BESTIE ✨
When he was raising his voice my heart drop and felt like I wanted to cry
If cardlin is already this affectionate on a daily basis imagine him on valentines day
honestly, I never cry when it comes to someones death (unless they were a relative), being in the dark alone, or all that other “scary” stuff, but when someone raises their voice at me, god I feel like I’ll pass out at that point.
Hell I find this relaxing and kind after dealing with patients yelling at me every day.
Ahh the art is so cutee but also this really helped thank you :)
Thank you so much for making this!!😭❤
I have ptsd from emotional and verbal abuse so whenever someone raises their voice at me I automatically duck and cover my face with my arms. It's really embarrassing in public and difficult to calm down from. Usually I have no one to comfort me but listening to this really helped. Thanks, Cardlin💜
Thank you i really need this for my everyday life because i feel like i care more what others think then want i think. Anyone else feel like that?
God, I love this video. I always break down when someone just barely raises their voice at me, and I get super frustrated with myself over it. This video helps so much in those moments, so thank you so much, Cardlin, for everything you do. You have no idea how much it helps.
I have a fear of arguments, for some reason it makes me feel like I'm in danger even if I have never gotten hurt in one. Even if the argument isn't involving me. I'm currently living in a house where there are arguments 24/7, even though I have told them it scares me. I lived with my sister for a while and I would constantly get yelled at because I forgot to do something, and they never believed that I forgot it. I have awful memory so this made me feel pretty bad.. I usually feel really scared in my own house.. It isn't that healthy... haha...
ASMR videos are slowly makeing me relize how much trauma I’ve just pushed down because I legitimately broke down at the raised voice part and the rest of the video really helped aswell after that part
the first 2 minutes is a conversation i had with my guy best friend. I am a people pleaser mainly to guys. he got really annoyed by it.
Just gotta say, I love the art.
Thank you so much, you did this just in time. Ur an angel✨🌻
I'm watching this cause my friends are all busy sleeping or can't comfort me. And my mom didn't listen to me at all when I was freezing up because she was yelling about the groceries. This my only comfort for today. Maybe even a few days until my friends decide to speak to me again.
I going to probably cry
But you still have my heart Cardlin
he made me cry and immediately made me come back it’s crazy