Ya man is acting a little different huh? The way he moves and acts around you has a little different spark to it? What differences did you notice when your good guy fell head over heels for you?! If you enjoyed this video, makes sure you watch this one: th-cam.com/video/ZEvyUXE1eKE/w-d-xo.html Peace & Blessings 👑
When I first started dating him he was a quiet man ..I have always been a more drama active woman ..but he was quite.. As time passed bye he started being more talkative and shared things about him with me ..that was the Check mate on a chase game and that's why I love this man more today than yesterday
I got married on July 23rd this year. BS and foolishness from his family followed on the 24th SMH. We were having a conversation and I said "They aren't coming for you, they are attacking me. He responded "We are one my love and if they are attacking you they are attacking me". I am pained that his family took their mask off and showed their true colors but I am blessed that after kissing 50 frogs and marrying 3 fools I have married a mand who is my friend, protector and truly values me in a way I never knew existed. I have my KING.
Always remember that you married HIM, not his family. Let him put them in "check", while you remain cool as a cucumber. Trust and believe, he is not going to let anyone hurt you mentally or physically. He's ALL in. "When you get married. Create a "two-handed" circle, and don't let anybody else in." (Steve Harvey)
If this is your 4th, his family is concerned for his safety and well-being. They think you may be like Delilah and like Sampson, he may lose more than his eyesight.
Transitioning from Like to Love: 1. Quick to eliminate danger and fight any threat when it comes to her. She is everything to him, we are one. He’ll sacrifice himself for her. 2. Sets up a meeting for her to meet his mom or grandma or guardian. A serious man won’t keep bringing different women to meet his guardian, it’s serious if he brings her to his guardian. 3. He’s going to talk about her with his closest, most respected group of friends repeatedly. He wants them to know all about her, who she is, her soul and personality. 4. He will start to make her a priority in his life, hang out during his busiest times, buying you things, making plans. More investment. 5. He begins to be more involved with her family even without you knowing. Get something for her mom or help her dad cut the grass. Investing in people who are important to her. He knows if their well then she’s doing well. It’s not forced, she doesn’t ask, he just does it. 6. What he does for her. If she has dreams or goals, he’s going to help her acquire it. No jealousy or ill feelings. He wants to help and be a part of what she’s a part of. Putting total effort and n her and showing her she’s not alone. 7. Being more free in sharing his struggles, inner demons, he’s trusting her, doesn’t want to hold back. Will share what he’s working on, the dark, the not good looking things, so she can see him wholly. He trusts her and her feedback. 8. He stops using i and me, and starts saying us and we. “You know what we should do” “I think we would like this,” include her in his thinking, sees her in the long haul.
Number 7 is the one when they are open and vulnerable with u and don’t make it seem like that’s Gay if you’re the way like naw fooo if I’m open and vulnerable with u . Then you should be that way with me as well
How is it complicated? There are many stages a person can be in, and that is summed up in three categories. No hate, just wondering what was complicated?
I didn't know my guy was in love with me, until I heard it from his mom.He never told me. But, his actions and quality time spent with me spoke volumes. ❤
Ladies,I met this guy he is talking about. He has and is doing everything mentioned in this video. It is so different. Due to my past experiences I kept waiting for the “ change” for the representative to leave and the real man show up. Looking with the side eye.. 😂 it’s really different and I have prayed on our relationship alone and oftentimes with him. It’s a healthy relationship which started with friendship. There are some really good men out here ladies…love yourself and love will find you.. oh and don’t settle!
Happy for you..but don't keep waiting for the ball to drop, which meaning waiting and just thinking he's gonna show you different. Embrace that he is a good one n trust n that
I know the feeling… at least the side eye part. So many years being used and abused when men are nice I still don’t trust them and I’m wondering are they trying to manipulate me and for what exactly.
@@fly_with_a_gemini5477Just maintain a positive mindset. Try not to think or find negativity about the person, and if you find yourself overthinking... Change the thoughts into positive ones. Most importantly trust and believe that you met someone who is good for you and embrace it 🙂
Also, so far still good.. don’t get me wrong it’s not that we have this perfect relationship we have had disagreements, but it’s all in how we disagree. He listens, I listen when wrong he apologizes and I do the same. Trust when you been through abuse and lots of reasons not to trust comes with healing and time. There are no perfect relationships but there are healthy ones. Lastly, in my opinion, when you do the work on yourself you begin to quickly recognize unhealthy behaviors and relationships. We are at 6 months and after both of us have opened up we realize how important communication is no matter what.
This was nice to hear. Unfortunately we have some “actors” out there… Narcissists.. who do this and some women get all caught up on these lies and it turns out to be a disaster. I know there are good guys out there, I guess it’s hard to trust after being involved in this situation. Thank you!🦋🙏🏻🦋
The red flags will ALWAYS be there, yet, it's up to US to learn from our lessons and fully heal before entering into a relationship. So we can notice the red flags when we see them, versus tolerating their bad behavior out of WANTING to be loved. It's easier to see the red flags when you learn to love yourself first.
Just check if his actions and his words align. If they don't, then something is off. Also, take things slowly 🐌 it helps you to see 👀 what you're getting into before you're invested. Finally, aim to become his best friend not his girlfriend.
Actually, men can use the “ we” word, but be pretending. I had one of those, and he turned out to be a time waster, a person who promised things and never came through. So that “we” doesn’t prove anything.
@@missachieng.179 Well, obviously , I expected action, but it had to happen, obviously, for me to observe he was a man of words and no action. This is why I made the comment. Because I expected his words to match his actions. People have to do something first for one to observe what they do. We can’t just read minds, or do we?
I pray that God gives U the desires of your heart. He does not make mistakes so just believe He has prepared for U someone who will treat you with love and respect. Jesus will make a way for U! Amen 🙏
I can literally proudly say my man has done ALL this😅❤I love these green flags! And I love him, even the things I don’t like as much, I love it, bc it’s what makes him, him. Never been in something so mature and just right and stable. Definitely not messing this up🤧! He’s my prize forsure🤞🏾
1) quick to eliminate threat to you. Will protect you at all costs. Fight lions, tigers, bears, oh my..... 1b) Aww 😊 2) sets up a meeting to meet the Queen of his life. Mother, Grandmother, Aunt, Guardian lady 2b) I met a lot of Moms in my day! If you meet the Mom, you're in there pretty much unless you mess up! 3) Brings you up in conversation with closest friends constantly. It doesn't stop 3b) happened before. He told his friends my business! 🤦 He was so proud of me though! 😃 4) start to make you a priority in their lives week, day. Invest in you. Incorporate you into his life/makes plans with you. 5) do things for your family or important people to you and thinks nothing of it. 5b) has done that before for me 6) what they do for you. Help you to reach your goals. Helps to make you better. What can he do to help/be a part of you? Shows you are not alone. 7) free to tell you the things that they won't tell others. Show themselves to you. Tell you things he is working on, his problems/issues. Tell their secrets 7b) that is true 8) stop using I and me and will use Us or We should.... You are now included in his life/plans 8b) heard that before... True Yes... I have experienced all of those things! Unfortunately, it didn't pan out! But oh well! It wasn't meant to be and that's a good thing! 🙌🙌 God is Good to me!
I agree. MOST men do all of these things. Even if they’re not that Interested in you. Most of the guys I’ve dated have done 1-8 and very early on at that. Also, this is the experience of MANY women and that I know personally and via the internet…. And yet I don’t think it means they love you at all. But these things do feel amazing while it’s happening. It’s all about being able to sustain this for longer than 6, 9, 12 months. So that you can step in the 2, , 6, 10 year realm in eachothers lives. Most men that I’ve seen, cannot or refuse to sustain these qualities for the duration of the relationship.
We was getting out the car yesterday and I had to quickly close my door bc a wasp was trying to get in. My husband came around that truck took his hat off and stood there swatting and fighting that wasp until he killed it. Was not even a second thought to him! Natural instincts to protect is no joke😊
@@lucybubbling oh sorry! 😔 Thank you for the well wishes! I wish the same success for you as well! May God grant you a Godly mate in Jesus Name I pray.... Amen
That's was nice to hear because I went from a narcissistic person to a man who has put me through all of these phases. It's hard for me to believe, because now I think this is too good to be true. I'm going to take this slow and steady.
*While it's interesting to watch for signs of love, it's essential not to jump to conclusions too quickly. Take the time to get to know each other deeply and build a strong emotional bond based on trust and understanding.*
I’m in love being single. Focusing on myself I know one day I’ll find someone who deserves me and treat me right . My heart will heal from my last unhappy relationship. I love watching your videos 🤍🤲🏽
When your on all his insurance....health dental and life. When he is home every night. When he takes care of the baby and spends his time focusing on the kids. When he makes love to you he always make sure you getting yours. When he protects you and knows who u are......
Your beginning commitment s are very profound.."Men lack love in their lives, alot of issues we have as black people is because of the lack of love"..so, profound!
This is the first time that a man is attracted to me, who does not despise his mother, but instead, honours respects and loves his mother. Also this is the first man that's attracted to me that does not have major skeletons in the closet; he is not a Broken Man! ❤️
Im happy for you٫ im 12 and meeting my true love very soon! he hurt me in the past but i forgive easily٫ so٫ i forgave him after a day. AND he is my twin flame:D I hope you have a nice life!😄👍🕊💝🔆
I got one for sure!! A real man! I love this for me😭 definitely have to make sure I do my part as well & show how appreciative of him I am. I prayed for this & God definitely came through ♥️
The first sign that I noticed was his quick reaction of protecting me. Next planning events together, outings, little drives together. Sealz the man is right on the money. Love your content btw. Keep up the good work.👍🏾👍🏾
Yes, you are right. He definitely told me about his dark side. He said to me I don't usually share certain things about me. I trust you. We're really great friends but have so much chemistry. I love and adore him. You're so on point.Dope! Thanks for sharing!!
When I met my man, 3 weeks later he told me he love and now 3 months later he ask me if I can see us getting married, as he calling me his wife as if he’s speaking it out. All of what you are saying, he has said to me. Now I’m 66yrs young and he’s 51yrs young, also he’s Jamaican and been in the U. S. for years (20 or so) and has held down jobs in the U.S. So it’s not like he need a green card. I do love him but it’s too good to be true that makes me scared. Never ever had a man to tell me “ I love you “ so much and treat me the way he treats me.
My man is 57 and I’m 78 and he’s in love with me. People think I’m in my 40s because I am so healthy and have a ton of energy. I’m so afraid to marry him because I feel like it will ruin everything. However, he talks about us being together until the end of time on a regular basis. It’s incredible that I have found the love of my life at this age. But, it’s real and incredible at the same time. We walk about 8 miles together every morning and then have breakfast together a few times a week. We’ve already done some extensive traveling together and have more trips planned in the future. We are both retired and are living our best lives ever. I hope ladies never give up. I never did!
Thanks for making this video, I really enjoyed listening to you. I must confess I have watched just few of your videos and I love how insightful every information is keep doing the great job because it's really going a long way helping those who need it.
Well this was definitely all a Confirmation that he never cared about me or loved me at all, not even one tiny bit.... and I knew that when he's never once called to say happy birthday, and when he didn't care to keep our conversations private smh I just want a new start in Jesus name, I'm so excited for the summer starting in a few weeks 🌞 I'm happy for everyone else though who has received such beautiful effort and true love 💕 May GOD completely heal all my hurts, Disappointments, and wasted time, with GOD's very best for me ☺️
You are on point abd I see alot of these signs. We've been dating 10 months, I just spent the Saturday before Mothers Day with his Mom. Talking, laughing watching movies, while he was grilling. She introduced me to family members as 'his fiancee and that there will be wedding bells! We have talked about marriage but not set a date yet. But I realize and reciprocate his ❤️love.
Thank you so much for this video. I have been dating my man since Dec 3rd. He has shown me every single of your 7 qualities when a man is falling in love with you. I will admit that I had a huge brain vart as he has made all these statements. I know that he was sent from God. He is a man and not a man-boy. I know that when I am with him. he will protect me, that has always been important to me. I know that I don't want to lose him. Thank you🙏
I need this in my life😌😌 Chasing a man for attention is not of God Lukewarm love from a man is not of God A MAN WHO LOVES YOU, AND IS IN LOVE WITH YOU.. LET GO OF PRIDE, AND HAVE YOUR BEST INTEREST AT HEART..SO THE 2 OF OF YOU CAN BECOME AS ONE If he can't love me like Christ love the church..then eviction notice will soon be served. Timing is everything, but being vigilant, wise and thinking soberly..KNOWING YOUR WORTH AND NEVER SETTLING FOR SOMEONE BENEATH SPIRITUAL PRIVILEGES..is above all things😇
I usually use the word “we” as an effective communication technique. When we use “we”, the receiving person doesn’t get offended. It’s better to say “we” than to say “you” should. Instead, I say, “we should…”. So, we probably shouldn’t list it as a “love” indicator. I find your videos valuable, but I just wanted to say this thing. Thank you ❤
I love my boyfriend we have been friends for 8+ years dating for 4+ years and we are now talking about that next step I can't wait until he's finally ready to ask me that big question❤❤❤❤❤
I'd LOVE ❤ 2 hear more from you. The contractor who walked into my home 🏡 7 mos ago has become a very good friend. After work - in the eve -- he'll message - we have some great conversations & we love ❤️ bantering & teasing one another. I'd like the relationship to develop, but am happy 😊 with our friendship right now. BTW He picks me up 4 church ⛪️ & has brought my mom gifts! 1] When did you know you wanted more? 2] Did one of you know first you wanted more? 3] What advice do you have? I'm thrilled 4U2. ❤
Just happen to be in a relationship again after 3yrs of heart break... praying everyday that my present relationship will kick up to this level though it just a few months into it.
you know what Sealz you are actually right ..my man declared one day that he has always wanted us and what he did not know made me love him even more .. I would move mountains for my man and I know he would protect me 100% I already tested him when we first started dating ..and that's why I would do anything necessary for him and he would do anything necessary for me so we don't let the necessary occur....i went for Jiu Jitsu classes for self defense and not for him for us...simple
@@summersday7894 true I thought that he was 100% turned out he was emotional unavailable person hahaaaa...Dating is like a paradox ..hahahaaaa...to cut long story short am walking alone for know
Your video was very useful and informative. I am 67 years of age and just starting on a new journey with a man. So far he ticks most of the boxes. God bless you brother.
I'm 65 and starting again, after promising myself I would stay single as it was easier and I made bad choices. Early days and I'm certainly not looking for marriage again (3 times is enough) but it is nice being held again. So beautiful hearing a man speak from the heart. You are a great man, be loved cos you deserve it. ❤
❤ HOLLAR JACKSON MS. WE LOVE U in the SIPPI. I'm 66 y old woman have been in a exclusive, loving, caring, protective relationship with a 45 yr old mature, nurturing, respectfully old school manfor 1yr n 5mos. We talk n communicate on all levels. He is my best friend, my partner my lover n I am his. There r some good ones out there ❤. KEEP HOPE ALIVE
I’m 78 and my love is 57 and he’s the best thing that ever happened to me - besides becoming a mother and grandmother. We have the most amazing love life and he exhibits everything Sealz mentioned. I’m so blessed!!!
Proud to say…my man has shown me all the signs 🥰. And after it all…from his own mouth says not only that he loves and cares about me but “he’s in love with me” Thank you!
"I don't know why we in the jungle right now" 😅😅 That was funny lol Thank you for your views on love, Sealz, they are appreciated, they raise the vibration on Earth, love is everything...
I so loved this! So hard to open up after narcissist abuse. Truth is there are more good men out there than bad. I’ve had to re wire my heart to be open up again. When I did I was surrounded by those good men! You are one of them my friend! I am a business owner, had to be strong. However I understand the importance of feminine and masculine. We need each other! Now more than ever! I feel for the good men in this time of a feminist movement. Back to basic values of healthy women and men will be the answer to true love! Amen! We are all in this together! Not meant to travel this journey of life on our own! People need people!! Most importantly so do our children! Love your important women in your life! True guidance and love for the highest good of all!!
Sealz, man keep the messages coming. I am falling for a handsome black man BUT I am still married. He let me know he has an issue with it so in a matter of 16 hours from the conversation I submitted the paper to my attorney. I told him I needed to take a step back while I work through the divorce. I want him to know I take his feelings seriously so I will handle it and circle back around. I hope he will understand.
You are totally right, his actions his words, Do speak the truth, everything you mentioned came to light, He gives you his time, the we the us is true, Thank You, for opening my eyes.. I've treated this man like a prince, it's time to treat him like a King ..Thank You Again.
I love the power you are. The respect to his mother and grandmother is admirable. Thank you beloved. You are helping me and it’s healthy for me to observe how you represent masculinity.
Everything that you said is exactly what my ex did with me when we first met and throughout our relationship, and he still does even during our separation.
How do you tell a player vs a good man from the get go? Because some players will be acting like a good men (in the beginning), telling you the stuff you want to hear, acting the way you want them to act, but by the time we find out that he isn’t a good man, it might be too late. We would have invested a lot of time so the heartbreak is going to be real. Please help.
THIS IS ONE HUNDRED PERCENT 💯 TRUE, HE'S AT THE WE , FAMILY CLOSE FRIENDS EVEN THE FRIENDS TELLING SOME THINGS HE TOLD THEM ABOUT ME THAT THEY LOVED IT WHEN HE TOLD👍🏻
Im blessed and thank you for posting...n ladies u don't have to brag about what he does or doesn't do with your girlfriends...because jealousy is real...so be mindful...
Yes,he has transitioned to all that. He even speaks about future investments together, like stocks. Throw out ideas for a business that we could have together. He wants to buy me protection ( pistol/gun) for when he is not around or when he is around he added that. First he asked if I would be comfortable having/carrying one. I said yes and he said we would go to the firing range when he gets it for me. I notice that he don’t say I love you much but he says I adore you. Which is love and respect in definition. Thank you for confirming what these actions really means from a good man.
Praying God sends me a good man when it's the right time. It's really hard finding REAL love. I just had to stop talking to a guy who asked me out on a date and on the day of he was a no call no show, then texted me the next morning like nothing happend ..smh don't have time for games.
I told my sons to only bring me their wives. I don't need to meet every woman they sleep with or women who are nice but not wife material. I've only met two young ladies and my sons are in their 30's. I met a college sweetheart and an eventual wife. My 3rd son as baby mamas, but he made sure I didn't meet any of them, and while it speaks to what head he was thinking with, he did keep the standard lol. I knew when I saw the two young ladies things were serious. Meeting people close to your guy is a huge bellwether. Not meeting those people should be a huge red flag. If you haven't met anyone after about 6 months, move on ladies, you're on a roster or he's just not that into you.
You are very unique and real about the things you say, and I couldn't help but subscribe, cos I'm like; yeah...I really like it here. Keep up the good work.
So it is communitity dating ,he helping my mom, my father, my siblings impressing them ,minipulating them, flirting with them, grabbing there attention, being nose etc so when he is doing same things to me ,it is no longer special to me personally. He literally did it for everyone around me .
I have the sneaking suspicion that my ex has fallen back in love with me but doesn't wanna tell me for fear of ruining the friendship we were able to rebuild after a HORRIBLE breakup in 2016. He does ALL these things, pours into me and my dreams, and STAYS prioritizing me over any other woman he deals with(I've heard this for myself NUMEROUS times), to the point they be LIVID, but simply says, "Oh well. I tell any woman about you so they know how important you are to me and that you ain't going nowhere."🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Ya man is acting a little different huh? The way he moves and acts around you has a little different spark to it? What differences did you notice when your good guy fell head over heels for you?!
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Peace & Blessings 👑
When I first started dating him he was a quiet man ..I have always been a more drama active woman ..but he was quite.. As time passed bye he started being more talkative and shared things about him with me ..that was the Check mate on a chase game and that's why I love this man more today than yesterday
Yes o must stay away from danger
That’s when you use your discernment and intuition it’s not for all it’s for some
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He says, “We”, all the time. When I say, I, he stops me!! I love it
I got married on July 23rd this year. BS and foolishness from his family followed on the 24th SMH. We were having a conversation and I said "They aren't coming for you, they are attacking me. He responded "We are one my love and if they are attacking you they are attacking me". I am pained that his family took their mask off and showed their true colors but I am blessed that after kissing 50 frogs and marrying 3 fools I have married a mand who is my friend, protector and truly values me in a way I never knew existed. I have my KING.
Always remember that you married HIM, not his family. Let him put them in "check", while you remain cool as a cucumber. Trust and believe, he is not going to let anyone hurt you mentally or physically. He's ALL in.
"When you get married. Create a "two-handed" circle, and don't let anybody else in." (Steve Harvey)
4th time's the charm. Im 41 and never been close to marriage. Even if I count the messed up shit my ex did.
If this is your 4th, his family is concerned for his safety and well-being. They think you may be like Delilah and like Sampson, he may lose more than his eyesight.
🤨It sounds like you have a lot of living to do...
Congratulations
Transitioning from Like to Love:
1. Quick to eliminate danger and fight any threat when it comes to her. She is everything to him, we are one. He’ll sacrifice himself for her.
2. Sets up a meeting for her to meet his mom or grandma or guardian. A serious man won’t keep bringing different women to meet his guardian, it’s serious if he brings her to his guardian.
3. He’s going to talk about her with his closest, most respected group of friends repeatedly. He wants them to know all about her, who she is, her soul and personality.
4. He will start to make her a priority in his life, hang out during his busiest times, buying you things, making plans. More investment.
5. He begins to be more involved with her family even without you knowing. Get something for her mom or help her dad cut the grass. Investing in people who are important to her. He knows if their well then she’s doing well. It’s not forced, she doesn’t ask, he just does it.
6. What he does for her. If she has dreams or goals, he’s going to help her acquire it. No jealousy or ill feelings. He wants to help and be a part of what she’s a part of. Putting total effort and n her and showing her she’s not alone.
7. Being more free in sharing his struggles, inner demons, he’s trusting her, doesn’t want to hold back. Will share what he’s working on, the dark, the not good looking things, so she can see him wholly. He trusts her and her feedback.
8. He stops using i and me, and starts saying us and we. “You know what we should do” “I think we would like this,” include her in his thinking, sees her in the long haul.
Thank u
Thank you for posting the love signs! Have a great day! Peace and blessings 😊❤️ 🙏🏾
*bonus* he doesn’t flinch when his woman experiences ALL the hormonal changes and emotions during her cycle 🙌🏽🫶🏽👏🏽 chef’s kiss 🤌🏽😘
Number 7 is the one when they are open and vulnerable with u and don’t make it seem like that’s Gay if you’re the way like naw fooo if I’m open and vulnerable with u . Then you should be that way with me as well
Thanks!
It depends if the signs are from a “healthy man”, “a toxic man” or a “broken man”. This is essential 😮
true...i think i have a broken one
Sounds like you been listening to Pastor R.C. Blake.
Intentions and perceptions are so important
Girl.. stop making things complicated
How is it complicated? There are many stages a person can be in, and that is summed up in three categories. No hate, just wondering what was complicated?
I didn't know my guy was in love with me, until I heard it from his mom.He never told me. But, his actions and quality time spent with me spoke volumes. ❤
@jackierumph2779-- Praise the Lord.
Must be nice sis ❤
@@alyssaalexis2290Exactly right
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His mom did a wonderful job.. wish every man was like this
Ladies,I met this guy he is talking about. He has and is doing everything mentioned in this video. It is so different. Due to my past experiences I kept waiting for the “ change” for the representative to leave and the real man show up. Looking with the side eye.. 😂 it’s really different and I have prayed on our relationship alone and oftentimes with him. It’s a healthy relationship which started with friendship. There are some really good men out here ladies…love yourself and love will find you.. oh and don’t settle!
Happy for you..but don't keep waiting for the ball to drop, which meaning waiting and just thinking he's gonna show you different. Embrace that he is a good one n trust n that
I know the feeling… at least the side eye part. So many years being used and abused when men are nice I still don’t trust them and I’m wondering are they trying to manipulate me and for what exactly.
@@keepingmyfaith82how does someone do that? I’m having that issue
@@fly_with_a_gemini5477Just maintain a positive mindset. Try not to think or find negativity about the person, and if you find yourself overthinking... Change the thoughts into positive ones. Most importantly trust and believe that you met someone who is good for you and embrace it 🙂
Also, so far still good.. don’t get me wrong it’s not that we have this perfect relationship we have had disagreements, but it’s all in how we disagree. He listens, I listen when wrong he apologizes and I do the same. Trust when you been through abuse and lots of reasons not to trust comes with healing and time. There are no perfect relationships but there are healthy ones. Lastly, in my opinion, when you do the work on yourself you begin to quickly recognize unhealthy behaviors and relationships. We are at 6 months and after both of us have opened up we realize how important communication is no matter what.
This was nice to hear. Unfortunately we have some “actors” out there… Narcissists.. who do this and some women get all caught up on these lies and it turns out to be a disaster.
I know there are good guys out there, I guess it’s hard to trust after being involved in this situation. Thank you!🦋🙏🏻🦋
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The red flags will ALWAYS be there, yet, it's up to US to learn from our lessons and fully heal before entering into a relationship. So we can notice the red flags when we see them, versus tolerating their bad behavior out of WANTING to be loved. It's easier to see the red flags when you learn to love yourself first.
Very true ...good actors and actresses out there ..
Yup
Just check if his actions and his words align. If they don't, then something is off. Also, take things slowly 🐌 it helps you to see 👀 what you're getting into before you're invested. Finally, aim to become his best friend not his girlfriend.
Actually, men can use the “ we” word, but be pretending. I had one of those, and he turned out to be a time waster, a person who promised things and never came through. So that “we” doesn’t prove anything.
Because there is no “we” without ACTION. He told you a bunch of meaningless words with no actual action behind it.
You should not just be somebody who hears and expects no actions
Your man was a bam
@@missachieng.179 Well, obviously , I expected action, but it had to happen, obviously, for me to observe he was a man of words and no action. This is why I made the comment. Because I expected his words to match his actions. People have to do something first for one to observe what they do. We can’t just read minds, or do we?
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Meeting guys' parents/ mom used to be a big deal and seemingly important. But now some guys use that as a player move.
Exactly
True
Wow I am about to cry! I have never been truly loved like this. I long and pray for God to send me this kind of real man. 😢
It will happen ❤
I pray that God gives U the desires of your heart. He does not make mistakes so just believe He has prepared for U someone who will treat you with love and respect. Jesus will make a way for U! Amen 🙏
Me either I have had some of these things happen in the past but with the wrong person
Good men are out there. We pray God brings them our way and helps us notice them, while keeping away the "bad" ones 🙏
Me too 😢
I can literally proudly say my man has done ALL this😅❤I love these green flags! And I love him, even the things I don’t like as much, I love it, bc it’s what makes him, him. Never been in something so mature and just right and stable. Definitely not messing this up🤧! He’s my prize forsure🤞🏾
Yeeesss sis! I love this for you ❤
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1) quick to eliminate threat to you. Will protect you at all costs. Fight lions, tigers, bears, oh my.....
1b) Aww 😊
2) sets up a meeting to meet the Queen of his life. Mother, Grandmother, Aunt, Guardian lady
2b) I met a lot of Moms in my day! If you meet the Mom, you're in there pretty much unless you mess up!
3) Brings you up in conversation with closest friends constantly. It doesn't stop
3b) happened before. He told his friends my business! 🤦 He was so proud of me though! 😃
4) start to make you a priority in their lives week, day. Invest in you. Incorporate you into his life/makes plans with you.
5) do things for your family or important people to you and thinks nothing of it.
5b) has done that before for me
6) what they do for you. Help you to reach your goals. Helps to make you better. What can he do to help/be a part of you? Shows you are not alone.
7) free to tell you the things that they won't tell others. Show themselves to you. Tell you things he is working on, his problems/issues. Tell their secrets
7b) that is true
8) stop using I and me and will use Us or We should.... You are now included in his life/plans
8b) heard that before... True
Yes... I have experienced all of those things! Unfortunately, it didn't pan out! But oh well! It wasn't meant to be and that's a good thing! 🙌🙌 God is Good to me!
I agree. MOST men do all of these things. Even if they’re not that Interested in you. Most of the guys I’ve dated have done 1-8 and very early on at that. Also, this is the experience of MANY women and that I know personally and via the internet…. And yet I don’t think it means they love you at all.
But these things do feel amazing while it’s happening. It’s all about being able to sustain this for longer than 6, 9, 12 months. So that you can step in the 2, , 6, 10 year realm in eachothers lives. Most men that I’ve seen, cannot or refuse to sustain these qualities for the duration of the relationship.
We was getting out the car yesterday and I had to quickly close my door bc a wasp was trying to get in. My husband came around that truck took his hat off and stood there swatting and fighting that wasp until he killed it. Was not even a second thought to him! Natural instincts to protect is no joke😊
Oh my reading this I was all smiles until the end. Got me excited for a sec😅 wishing you love in the next man
@@lucybubbling oh sorry! 😔 Thank you for the well wishes! I wish the same success for you as well! May God grant you a Godly mate in Jesus Name I pray.... Amen
Godly mates for all. Amen!!!❤
"In case ya'll in the safari".
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Love it.
We all deserve someone with pure intentions.
That's was nice to hear because I went from a narcissistic person to a man who has put me through all of these phases. It's hard for me to believe, because now I think this is too good to be true. I'm going to take this slow and steady.
*While it's interesting to watch for signs of love, it's essential not to jump to conclusions too quickly. Take the time to get to know each other deeply and build a strong emotional bond based on trust and understanding.*
I’m in love being single. Focusing on myself I know one day I’ll find someone who deserves me and treat me right . My heart will heal from my last unhappy relationship. I love watching your videos 🤍🤲🏽
When your on all his insurance....health dental and life. When he is home every night. When he takes care of the baby and spends his time focusing on the kids. When he makes love to you he always make sure you getting yours. When he protects you and knows who u are......
Sounds like a movie or a good dream 🙆🏿♀️😏
Your beginning commitment s are very profound.."Men lack love in their lives, alot of issues we have as black people is because of the lack of love"..so, profound!
This is the first time that a man is attracted to me, who does not despise his mother, but instead, honours respects and loves his mother. Also this is the first man that's attracted to me that does not have major skeletons in the closet; he is not a Broken Man! ❤️
Im happy for you٫ im 12 and meeting my true love very soon!
he hurt me in the past but i forgive easily٫ so٫ i forgave him after a day. AND he is my twin flame:D
I hope you have a nice life!😄👍🕊💝🔆
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When he solves your problems, especially financially. That's it ladies . Just saved you years of time wastage.
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No. Nooo smh. Not even that as a clue lol. Unfortunately I've had men provide financially and..... yeah lol.
Can't even go by that 🤷🏾♀️ lol
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@@daniellediaz2516 trust me if you leave with something you gained out of the relationship, atleast you are less bitter 💯
Yes… Love is absent from relationships these days… One argument and another is already being pursued… Lack of Love…
I got one for sure!! A real man! I love this for me😭 definitely have to make sure I do my part as well & show how appreciative of him I am. I prayed for this & God definitely came through ♥️
The first sign that I noticed was his quick reaction of protecting me. Next planning events together, outings, little drives together. Sealz the man is right on the money. Love your content btw. Keep up the good work.👍🏾👍🏾
Yes, you are right. He definitely told me about his dark side. He said to me I don't usually share certain things about me. I trust you. We're really great friends but have so much chemistry. I love and adore him. You're so on point.Dope! Thanks for sharing!!
have y'all to take things further than just being great friends??
When I met my man, 3 weeks later he told me he love and now 3 months later he ask me if I can see us getting married, as he calling me his wife as if he’s speaking it out. All of what you are saying, he has said to me. Now I’m 66yrs young and he’s 51yrs young, also he’s Jamaican and been in the U. S. for years (20 or so) and has held down jobs in the U.S. So it’s not like he need a green card. I do love him but it’s too good to be true that makes me scared. Never ever had a man to tell me “ I love you “ so much and treat me the way he treats me.
My man is 57 and I’m 78 and he’s in love with me. People think I’m in my 40s because I am so healthy and have a ton of energy. I’m so afraid to marry him because I feel like it will ruin everything. However, he talks about us being together until the end of time on a regular basis. It’s incredible that I have found the love of my life at this age. But, it’s real and incredible at the same time. We walk about 8 miles together every morning and then have breakfast together a few times a week. We’ve already done some extensive traveling together and have more trips planned in the future. We are both retired and are living our best lives ever. I hope ladies never give up. I never did!
Thanks for making this video, I really enjoyed listening to you. I must confess I have watched just few of your videos and I love how insightful every information is keep doing the great job because it's really going a long way helping those who need it.
Well this was definitely all a Confirmation that he never cared about me or loved me at all, not even one tiny bit.... and I knew that when he's never once called to say happy birthday, and when he didn't care to keep our conversations private smh
I just want a new start in Jesus name, I'm so excited for the summer starting in a few weeks 🌞
I'm happy for everyone else though who has received such beautiful effort and true love 💕
May GOD completely heal all my hurts, Disappointments, and wasted time, with GOD's very best for me ☺️
It's painful, but now you can look at a whole new chapter!
Sending hugs xx
Maaannn Sealz, I know there's good men like you out there but damn!!! Yall be protecting yourselves so good it's hard to find you 😂❤
You are on point abd I see alot of these signs. We've been dating 10 months, I just spent the Saturday before Mothers Day with his Mom. Talking, laughing watching movies, while he was grilling. She introduced me to family members as 'his fiancee and that there will be wedding bells! We have talked about marriage but not set a date yet. But I realize and reciprocate his ❤️love.
If you don't mind me asking, what are yalls ages?
Are you guys actually engaged?
I got the best one!!!! Don't settle ladies. Wait on God cuz it's possible to meet a great mature man who treats you right
Thank you for your insights.
I grew up in a dysfunctional family and never learnt any healthy relationship skills.
Same here! It’s never too late!
Thank you so much for this video. I have been dating my man since Dec 3rd. He has shown me every single of your 7 qualities when a man is falling in love with you. I will admit that I had a huge brain vart as he has made all these statements. I know that he was sent from God. He is a man and not a man-boy. I know that when I am with him. he will protect me, that has always been important to me. I know that I don't want to lose him. Thank you🙏
Can you please borrow me your man 😂😂
#9. He will actually say it and continue to use those words. I love you.
I need this in my life😌😌
Chasing a man for attention is not of God
Lukewarm love from a man is not of God
A MAN WHO LOVES YOU, AND IS IN LOVE WITH YOU.. LET GO OF PRIDE, AND HAVE YOUR BEST INTEREST AT HEART..SO THE 2 OF OF YOU CAN BECOME AS ONE
If he can't love me like Christ love the church..then eviction notice will soon be served.
Timing is everything, but being vigilant, wise and thinking soberly..KNOWING YOUR WORTH AND NEVER SETTLING FOR SOMEONE BENEATH SPIRITUAL PRIVILEGES..is above all things😇
I usually use the word “we” as an effective communication technique. When we use “we”, the receiving person doesn’t get offended. It’s better to say “we” than to say “you” should. Instead, I say, “we should…”. So, we probably shouldn’t list it as a “love” indicator. I find your videos valuable, but I just wanted to say this thing. Thank you ❤
I love my boyfriend we have been friends for 8+ years dating for 4+ years and we are now talking about that next step I can't wait until he's finally ready to ask me that big question❤❤❤❤❤
I'd LOVE ❤ 2 hear more from you. The contractor who walked into my home 🏡 7 mos ago has become a very good friend. After work - in the eve -- he'll message - we have some great conversations & we love ❤️ bantering & teasing one another. I'd like the relationship to develop, but am happy 😊 with our friendship right now.
BTW He picks me up 4 church ⛪️ & has brought my mom gifts!
1] When did you know you wanted more?
2] Did one of you know first you wanted more?
3] What advice do you have?
I'm thrilled 4U2. ❤
Loved this topic. I got the "warm & fuzzies" . So good ! Thank you internet son. I love you. Rooting for you !
Just happen to be in a relationship again after 3yrs of heart break... praying everyday that my present relationship will kick up to this level though it just a few months into it.
you know what Sealz you are actually right ..my man declared one day that he has always wanted us and what he did not know made me love him even more .. I would move mountains for my man and I know he would protect me 100% I already tested him when we first started dating ..and that's why I would do anything necessary for him and he would do anything necessary for me so we don't let the necessary occur....i went for Jiu Jitsu classes for self defense and not for him for us...simple
Wow, this is the way to transition from a woman to a man. Congratulations 😢
Tested Him? We get upset when they do that to Us tho...
@@summersday7894 true I thought that he was 100% turned out he was emotional unavailable person hahaaaa...Dating is like a paradox ..hahahaaaa...to cut long story short am walking alone for know
@celestinebennett212 How did you test him?
I smiled this whole video 😊 he hasn’t gotten to all of them but wishful thinking ❤
I found mine. Speaking it into existence 🖤♥️
Your video was very useful and informative. I am 67 years of age and just starting on a new journey with a man. So far he ticks most of the boxes. God bless you brother.
@Eleanorphillips3486 I'm 63 and just starting out, again, too. It is never too late. 😁❤️🙏🏻
You ladies give me hope... Im 68... I dont know...
I'm 65 and starting again, after promising myself I would stay single as it was easier and I made bad choices. Early days and I'm certainly not looking for marriage again (3 times is enough) but it is nice being held again. So beautiful hearing a man speak from the heart. You are a great man, be loved cos you deserve it. ❤
❤ HOLLAR JACKSON MS. WE LOVE U in the SIPPI. I'm 66 y old woman have been in a exclusive, loving, caring, protective relationship with a 45 yr old mature, nurturing, respectfully old school manfor 1yr n 5mos. We talk n communicate on all levels. He is my best friend, my partner my lover n I am his. There r some good ones out there ❤. KEEP HOPE ALIVE
I’m 78 and my love is 57 and he’s the best thing that ever happened to me - besides becoming a mother and grandmother. We have the most amazing love life and he exhibits everything Sealz mentioned. I’m so blessed!!!
The black coalition… lol I like that!
Proud to say…my man has shown me all the signs 🥰. And after it all…from his own mouth says not only that he loves and cares about me but “he’s in love with me” Thank you!
I love that, "I'm a keep it lovey dovey!" Beautiful and so refreshing!
"I don't know why we in the jungle right now" 😅😅 That was funny lol
Thank you for your views on love, Sealz, they are appreciated, they raise the vibration on Earth, love is everything...
I'm praying that someone who is like he is talking about comes my way.
😂 “why am I in the jungle “ that really tickled me because you went deep jungle analysis
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I wish I had someone to love me back 😞 but it's all good. I'm content with my pillows LoL 😅 thanks for posting 👍🏾
I love how clearly you are speaking... I'm not fighting to understand
Can't wait to meet him
I so loved this! So hard to open up after narcissist abuse. Truth is there are more good men out there than bad. I’ve had to re wire my heart to be open up again. When I did I was surrounded by those good men! You are one of them my friend! I am a business owner, had to be strong. However I understand the importance of feminine and masculine. We need each other! Now more than ever! I feel for the good men in this time of a feminist movement. Back to basic values of healthy women and men will be the answer to true love! Amen! We are all in this together! Not meant to travel this journey of life on our own! People need people!! Most importantly so do our children! Love your important women in your life! True guidance and love for the highest good of all!!
OMG, you just said a mouth full!! This video is a definite CONFIRMATION for me!!! Thank you VERY much. BLESS 🙌🏾
You are a breath of fresh air! Do deep about the lack of love.
He started saying We recently and he said it again today
Sealz, man keep the messages coming. I am falling for a handsome black man BUT I am still married. He let me know he has an issue with it so in a matter of 16 hours from the conversation I submitted the paper to my attorney. I told him I needed to take a step back while I work through the divorce. I want him to know I take his feelings seriously so I will handle it and circle back around. I hope he will understand.
You are totally right, his actions his words, Do speak the truth, everything you mentioned came to light, He gives you his time, the we the us is true, Thank You, for opening my eyes.. I've treated this man like a prince, it's time to treat him like a King ..Thank You Again.
Hi Sealz I Love LOVE ❤️❤️🥰🥰 Sending Love and Positive Vibes to you and all the beautiful souls out there ❤️💥🩷💥💜💥🩵
You mentioned “Lions 🦁 Tigers 🐅 & Bears 🐻 “ Love ❤that Jazmine Sullivan song 🎵
I appreciate your honesty
Thanks for sharing Sealz... It's also ABSOLUTELY NECESSARY to 🙏🏽. Use DISCERNMENT, watchout for counterfeits. SHALOM
Wow that’s been the 2 words seen the most this week. Discernment and counterfeits‼️😳
Such vital information…I’m grateful for you Sealz…peace n blessings 💙💙💙🇩🇲🇩🇲🇩🇲
Should say how healthy men act when their falling in Love 🥰
I love your advice but at the same time you are hilarious ( why are we in the jungle)😂😂😂
Jungle got me laughing😁
I needed this. I’m starting to see in his actions he does care for me even though he doesn’t say it.
You got a fan from Nigeria 😊. I like your teachings especially your vioce. Everything you said is accurate 💯
Ima Show me Woman ..💃
You can say all you want ..Im watching you actions 💯
You are always right in the money with the commentary, good thanks
Good stuff, I thank God for my husband
Wow bringing you up to his momma and his friends, is HUGE!!!
Not necessarily. You don't know HOW he's bringing you up, but hope that it's positive.
Just saying. 🤷
Yes that is DEEP thank you for the information 👍😃
All I want to know is, do you have s brother? 😂😂lol!!! I love it Sealz!!! Excellent pointers!
Thanks!
Truly, truly appreciate your support and generosity! Thank you 👑
I love the power you are. The respect to his mother and grandmother is admirable. Thank you beloved. You are helping me and it’s healthy for me to observe how you represent masculinity.
Wowwwww. Again … on point. I truly appreciate you letting us see the inside thoughts of what makes a man operate the way he does! 🙌🏾💯🙏🏽🎯
17:47 I like how you smiled when you said; "they have arrived".😂❤
Everything that you said is exactly what my ex did with me when we first met and throughout our relationship, and he still does even during our separation.
How do you tell a player vs a good man from the get go? Because some players will be acting like a good men (in the beginning), telling you the stuff you want to hear, acting the way you want them to act, but by the time we find out that he isn’t a good man, it might be too late. We would have invested a lot of time so the heartbreak is going to be real. Please help.
Pray. Ask God to endow you with spirit of discernment. You will know from the gate because you will feel it smell it hear it see it hear it
I LOVED your video and the respectful king vibe I got from it. Thank you!
THIS IS ONE HUNDRED PERCENT 💯 TRUE, HE'S AT THE WE , FAMILY CLOSE FRIENDS EVEN THE FRIENDS TELLING SOME THINGS HE TOLD THEM ABOUT ME THAT THEY LOVED IT WHEN HE TOLD👍🏻
I enjoyed your topic today first time listening everything is accurate what you’re saying about a man thank you
In the safari 😂😂😂🙌🏾❤️
Im blessed and thank you for posting...n ladies u don't have to brag about what he does or doesn't do with your girlfriends...because jealousy is real...so be mindful...
This is fact naah 😁
We’re in the jungle cause of that tree behind you dude! 😂❤😂🌳
Yes,he has transitioned to all that. He even speaks about future investments together, like stocks. Throw out ideas for a business that we could have together. He wants to buy me protection ( pistol/gun) for when he is not around or when he is around he added that. First he asked if I would be comfortable having/carrying one. I said yes and he said we would go to the firing range when he gets it for me. I notice that he don’t say I love you much but he says I adore you. Which is love and respect in definition. Thank you for confirming what these actions really means from a good man.
Praying God sends me a good man when it's the right time. It's really hard finding REAL love. I just had to stop talking to a guy who asked me out on a date and on the day of he was a no call no show, then texted me the next morning like nothing happend ..smh don't have time for games.
Some moms are trifling too😊
I told my sons to only bring me their wives. I don't need to meet every woman they sleep with or women who are nice but not wife material. I've only met two young ladies and my sons are in their 30's. I met a college sweetheart and an eventual wife. My 3rd son as baby mamas, but he made sure I didn't meet any of them, and while it speaks to what head he was thinking with, he did keep the standard lol. I knew when I saw the two young ladies things were serious. Meeting people close to your guy is a huge bellwether. Not meeting those people should be a huge red flag. If you haven't met anyone after about 6 months, move on ladies, you're on a roster or he's just not that into you.
You are very unique and real about the things you say, and I couldn't help but subscribe, cos I'm like; yeah...I really like it here. Keep up the good work.
This sounds so beautiful. I hope I find a fine lad such as this.
So it is communitity dating ,he helping my mom, my father, my siblings impressing them ,minipulating them, flirting with them, grabbing there attention, being nose etc so when he is doing same things to me ,it is no longer special to me personally. He literally did it for everyone around me .
What's up everyone, family, Friends,and newcomers, praying y'all are having a wonderful time
2:49 the black coalition 😂😂😂😂 I just love you ❤❤❤
New to your page, but Boy am I glad I did!! Here I am 60 found the ❤of my life who does all this& more. Here to learn 😊 Thank you…
I have the sneaking suspicion that my ex has fallen back in love with me but doesn't wanna tell me for fear of ruining the friendship we were able to rebuild after a HORRIBLE breakup in 2016. He does ALL these things, pours into me and my dreams, and STAYS prioritizing me over any other woman he deals with(I've heard this for myself NUMEROUS times), to the point they be LIVID, but simply says, "Oh well. I tell any woman about you so they know how important you are to me and that you ain't going nowhere."🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
This is true you must respect your parents and elders
You my favorite guy who gives advice to us women about men thank you
What about when you're in a long-distance relationship?
Yes yes. He’s showing all of these signs of being in love with me. Thanks for sharing