5 Signs He’s In Love with You!

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    How to know a man is in love? In this video I share 5 of the biggest signs a man is in love.
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  • @Bgrace15
    @Bgrace15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7189

    1. Sacrifices for you
    2. Consistent
    3. Defends you
    4. Doesn't intentionally hurt you
    5. Apologizes

    • @TonyGaskins
      @TonyGaskins  4 ปีที่แล้ว +890

      Thank you for being my note-taker, and also for being a member of the The Blessed Tribe! You are appreciated! #BlessedFam

    • @MsAJones-ic9bx
      @MsAJones-ic9bx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      @@TonyGaskins Thank you. Be Blessed.!!!!!!!
      I pray for a man that has all these qualities. GOD BLESS YOU.✝️✝️✝️

    • @rocreationsllc8245
      @rocreationsllc8245 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      Thank you for being a blessing to so many women with Godly advice and insite as it relates to relationships.
      Be blessed

    • @feliciahenry967
      @feliciahenry967 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Be Blessed

    • @queenofthesouth4205
      @queenofthesouth4205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      let the church say AMEN

  • @jayceelaw6772
    @jayceelaw6772 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1879

    I've learned that...Real men, do not have a problem apologizing!
    **Accept accountability**

    • @TheRoyalty1982
      @TheRoyalty1982 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      There is power in a true apology.

    • @angelnetworkascension2039
      @angelnetworkascension2039 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      They have a beautiful spirit of humility, yet they are confident because they are God-fearing individuals.
      They are convicted in their own spirit if they mistreat another person. Morals, standards and how they carry themselves before they even meet us is just WHO these MEN are at their core.

    • @jayceelaw6772
      @jayceelaw6772 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@TheRoyalty1982 yes there is...PERIOD!

    • @jayceelaw6772
      @jayceelaw6772 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@angelnetworkascension2039 I agree. I was was in a relationship and after a year in...i started seeing him for who he really was. He had DEEP convictions going on within. Holding onto all that baggage of sins from his childhood. This is how I know...Hurt People, Hurt People!
      Another reason why I now take my time getting to know men. I'll continue to move slow, even now in my current relationship.
      We have to...🤗

    • @angelnetworkascension2039
      @angelnetworkascension2039 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@jayceelaw6772
      I wish you the absolute best! 🤗. What tends to happen is that these individuals are acting and they grow weary of "playing the role". The authenticity of who they truly are will come to the light. We just have to observe. It will always reveal itself. Having a spirit of discernment is such a gift and one of which I am grateful.
      Be blessed! 🙌❤

  • @KrystleLaughter
    @KrystleLaughter 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3018

    Been married 7 years. Extremely toxic and emotionally & mentally abusive. We have 5 kids together. I guess he's not in love with me. Filing for divorce. Finally gonna love myself the way I know I deserve.❤ Be Blessed!

    •  4 ปีที่แล้ว +213

      I hope the rest of your years you will be happy and loved properly

    • @kendrabennett2843
      @kendrabennett2843 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Good for u sister!✌💋😥sorry. Same minus the marriage n children.

    • @sunnyday3117
      @sunnyday3117 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      You deserve better

    • @TheAdamslena
      @TheAdamslena 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Wishing you endless blessings. I'm praying for you and your family

    • @zenasherman9444
      @zenasherman9444 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      I'm proud of you for saying enough is enough!💙💜❤ NOW take care of you.😊

  • @adelafirme
    @adelafirme 3 ปีที่แล้ว +448

    Never having a father in my life growing up. I never knew how a man is supposed to love a woman. So I thank Tony for teaching me at the age of 45 how I should be treated, valued, respected and above all loved.❤✝️

    • @Anthony-du8bn
      @Anthony-du8bn 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Dee how can I get your number I don't have much to say lol

    • @adelafirme
      @adelafirme 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Anthony-du8bn lol you got jokes 🤣

    • @Anthony-du8bn
      @Anthony-du8bn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      There must be something wrong with my eyes, I can’t take them off you. you're beautiful 😉

    • @MindYourImage
      @MindYourImage 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You're blessed Dee darling. Enjoy

    • @noalula3234
      @noalula3234 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      At age 45 don’t expect to get that treat from men. You should give that to him. He is the price!!!

  • @TheKayzieMichelle
    @TheKayzieMichelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +340

    Been married 43 years. This is my hubby, 100%. Lol

    • @missmcphee8859
      @missmcphee8859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Very sweet! Congrats

    • @londaj823
      @londaj823 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You are Blessed for sure

    • @linrey3397
      @linrey3397 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      What a blessing,!

    • @c.l.9344
      @c.l.9344 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What a blessing to be married that long.

    • @biruruth5956
      @biruruth5956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same here Kay❤️🙏💯

  • @tyandrahashley7250
    @tyandrahashley7250 4 ปีที่แล้ว +782

    The way a man loves his wife puts a spotlight on his relationship with his Lord! No man can truthfully claim he loves his Lord, if he’s not honoring his wife...

    • @zoeelauren4649
      @zoeelauren4649 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Amen

    • @angib6482
      @angib6482 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      The man I'm praying for, still gives me butterflies whenever he's near me or we're on a date🦋💞😘💜🌹🙏🏽💞

    • @angib6482
      @angib6482 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Aaaaamen

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Selah

    • @tyandrahashley7250
      @tyandrahashley7250 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Joyful n Blessed yes indeed! They can claim to be Muslim Christian or whatever... some men use religion as a cover to hide who they REALLY are... but actions don’t lie... (some women too!!!) If he TRULY loves his Lord he can’t help but to genuinely love and adore and sacrifice for his wife!!!

  • @msdeefit
    @msdeefit 4 ปีที่แล้ว +687

    This a mature man who is not emotionally closed off and open to love. Let all the good women get this type of partner 🙏🏾

  • @tinamariew8251
    @tinamariew8251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    To GOD be The Glory!!! After 20 yrs. of being single and 4 yrs. of celibacy, I have now been blessed with a gentleMAN that truly loves me and has exhibited all 5 traits you spoke on Tony. Thank you for being open, honest and obedient to The Lord's mission in your life. Be BLESSED. Minister TinaMarie🌹🌿 🙏🏽🕊️😇

    • @theejadadiamondd4210
      @theejadadiamondd4210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Congrats girl amen 🙌🙌🙌

    • @christinan005
      @christinan005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Must b nice stay blessed💙

    • @shiracobb3098
      @shiracobb3098 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wow that sounds awesome thats a testimony. 29 years of being single with 4 years celibacy wow how did you go thru all of that without feeling lonely? I’m glad you met someone but how did you meet ur new man?

    • @nnzulu7684
      @nnzulu7684 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @missc2091
      @missc2091 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy for u

  • @dr.dermixgirlmd7479
    @dr.dermixgirlmd7479 4 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    Praise God, I finally found a man who TRULY loves me... Be blessed.

    • @FlyCorpGirl
      @FlyCorpGirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for all of your insight. Be blessed.

    • @leroywills1368
      @leroywills1368 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This young brother has a lot of wisdom well-spoken look forward to hearing more

  • @daviddunn4409
    @daviddunn4409 3 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    Brother Gaskins, my future wife sent this video to me...Her birthday just passed and I made her feel like the Queen she is. I agree with everything you shared. I live by it too. Be blessed!!!

    • @marilynbassett6071
      @marilynbassett6071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks Tony and be blessed for keeping it real.😊 It's so refreshing to see & hear an awesome Black Man share such Godly Wisdom about true love💕😍💝🎉💕😍💝💕

  • @lisamarie9642
    @lisamarie9642 4 ปีที่แล้ว +434

    1) He sacrifices for you
    2) Is consistent with you
    3) He defends you
    4) He doesn't intentionally hurt you
    5) He apologizes to you

    • @brownsugabooneboone5636
      @brownsugabooneboone5636 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Be blessed

    • @westcoastbred7745
      @westcoastbred7745 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This list is like spoiling the movie before watching it

    • @MrsBryant1024
      @MrsBryant1024 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yours out of order😒

    • @joannhamilton3546
      @joannhamilton3546 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Be Blessed

    • @salamiakeem6149
      @salamiakeem6149 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      *#*I PRAY THE UNIVERSE GRANT YOUR HEARD DESIRES WITH MORE LOVE AND COMMITMENT FROM YOUR EX THROUGH THE GREAT MAN OF THE UNIVERSE DR WILSON, WHO HELPED ME RESTORED MY BROKEN HOME. HE CAN MAKE YOUR EX BEG FOR A SECOND CHANCE*#*

  • @AD-hh6dd
    @AD-hh6dd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    Thank you Tony. I was married to a “nice guy” who never stood up for me when his family spoke bad about me. I left him and everyone thought I was crazy because he was so nice. No matter how many nice things he did for me I didn’t feel loved because I felt betrayed. I appreciate someone finally validating me for this.

    • @andieisms
      @andieisms 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thank you for sharing, I finally have the courage to leave.

    • @anewchapter1336
      @anewchapter1336 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Going through this for years now. Husband of 22 years lets his family say horrible things about me and I have the screen shots and he is not remorseful and brainwashed by his narcissistic cult family and is enmeshed with his mother. Sick of it and done with it.

    • @theofficialnikkisnews
      @theofficialnikkisnews ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m going through this now also. Trying to decide whether to leave or stay.

    • @AD-hh6dd
      @AD-hh6dd ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You lovely ladies deserve better. What’s crazy is Mr nice guy turned into Mr Nightmare when I left. He completely dropped the nice guy facade. I was shocked to discover he was a phony for all those years. “Nice guys” like this aren’t nice. They’re users who manipulate you into feeling sorry for them to get what they want out if you and then when you leave and no longer make them feel better about themselves they turn on you in the most brutal way. It shouldn’t have come as a surprise though with the way he didn’t stand up for me when others attacked me. That’s a red flag that underneath it all they don’t care about you. They’re only out for themselves. Let that allow you to feel justified in leaving their sorry asses.

    • @LittleBambi777
      @LittleBambi777 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AD-hh6ddI feel you, I've been with a guy like that and felt even lonelier than being single, took me nearly 12 years to finally made the decision, never look back.

  • @sassyclassy3316
    @sassyclassy3316 4 ปีที่แล้ว +263

    I love that you don't let noone disrespect your wife💞

    • @odessamurphy974
      @odessamurphy974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Eternity With Christ hello Amen 👆🙏 Amen💫 Amen together as ONE💫👑 Amen what a blessing it's mighty blessings that men is still out hear that is spoken for an knows the love for a women's that has her back to all thing's as well 👆an Mr Tony Gaskins 🌹 Yassss Sir so true walk in it live in it an Yassss Chris 💯🤗 happy holidays too we all an safe happiness an joy wishing myself an y'all a healthy Right spirit of that Right one too become together as one of 2020☝️🙏💫👑🌹 Peace on Earth Peace within Peace too we All thank for reading 🌹

    • @QueenOfPrinciple
      @QueenOfPrinciple 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yesss thats what i I said because I had an ex who didnt say jothing when his family talked junk to me.
      Then you say something, they get mad

    • @nitoshiamitchell9352
      @nitoshiamitchell9352 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Be blessed

  • @hopewhite4308
    @hopewhite4308 3 ปีที่แล้ว +288

    I'm glad to see a black man speak about healthy relationships...I appreciate what you're doing to help us as women pay attention to what's necessary for a loving relationship!!❤❤❤❤

  • @carollove2427
    @carollove2427 4 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    My husband protects me to the fullest he doesn’t care who it is he makes them give me respect

    • @carollove2427
      @carollove2427 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      YES HE DOES CAR NOTE AND ALL OTHERS BILLS HOUSE MORTGAGE LIGHTS GAS POOL MAN ALWAYS HAVE I ONLY BUY GROCERIES I THANK GOD HE SENT MY HONEY TO FIND ME LIKE I SAID 35 WONDERFUL BLESSED YEARS THANK YOU JESUS THANK YOU

    • @disnalee
      @disnalee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He is a keeper and he loves you

    • @abeena7017
      @abeena7017 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Was he always like this or did you have to teach him

    • @pinkylovie
      @pinkylovie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      U r blessed. My boyfriend never defend me from his abusive family and friends. he even sided against me when i argued with his highschool female friend for always flirting with him. U really r blessed.

    • @disnalee
      @disnalee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pinkylovie my hubby flirts with just any female. It does not upset me bc when i do it to him unintentionally, he gets green.

  • @lisadeav73
    @lisadeav73 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    If the man wants me he'll go hard for you if he don't, he'll go ghost. Point Blank

    • @pococofamily3170
      @pococofamily3170 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me (MR OSEKHAMETALOR) how he help many people to bring there lover back.,

    • @pococofamily3170
      @pococofamily3170 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whxtapp me

    • @pococofamily3170
      @pococofamily3170 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +1 9-7-2 5 3 4-8 3 9 9

  • @phyllisbell-sutton3273
    @phyllisbell-sutton3273 4 ปีที่แล้ว +470

    Thank God my husband is IN love with me!!! He actually does all 5. I’m so blessed and grateful.
    .

  • @laurenalexander8720
    @laurenalexander8720 4 ปีที่แล้ว +274

    That's my husband, 30 years of marriage 🙏💓 he has always given me his last and put us before his own needs . I love him so much . I remember when we first got married and we didn't have much but he made sure we had everything we would ever need 🙏
    Be Blessed 🙏

    • @ingridcarney615
      @ingridcarney615 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You're so blessed🙏🏾🙌🏾

    • @JustDoRight
      @JustDoRight 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's my soon to be husband now. Although I've went through the valleys of the shadows of death, fearing no evil, God has truly blessed me this time around. Thank you Jesus! 🙌🏽 Blessed indeed.

    • @ladysafari01
      @ladysafari01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Count yourself blessed my dear!

    • @kstarrify
      @kstarrify 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      2nd good report - there is hope!

    • @katherineaddicks6468
      @katherineaddicks6468 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are very blessed

  • @reginasolomon6596
    @reginasolomon6596 3 ปีที่แล้ว +243

    My husband does ALL the above., MY man LOVES ME! IN LOVE WITH ME. I'm surely BLESSED. 21yrs and loving him more every year.

    • @teshabeauty79
      @teshabeauty79 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your truly blessed!!

    • @Ryal.One.
      @Ryal.One. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yay!!!! I love that ❤️❤️❤️❤️ god bless your union

    • @teresai1877
      @teresai1877 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's wonderful Regina!

    • @1real-taylor
      @1real-taylor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Praise GOD, so happy for you.

    • @itsamorlol1204
      @itsamorlol1204 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You is so blessed! I hope I could have the same type of relationship ☺️

  • @PrincessPeach7555
    @PrincessPeach7555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    Your love for your wife is so beautiful it made me cry. I want that for me.

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Right!!! I hope that I’ll be that blessed someday!

    • @PrincessPeach7555
      @PrincessPeach7555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@wshelby83 I hope that too, everyone deserves love so pure and kind.

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@PrincessPeach7555 thank you!

    • @Jesuslovesherr
      @Jesuslovesherr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And so it shall be! Work on yourself

    • @magarethecharles1085
      @magarethecharles1085 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You will have that sis.

  • @bosslady9108
    @bosslady9108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +263

    I'm praying and believing that I will find a man for me that has these five qualities. I'm tired of casting my pearls amongst the swine.

    • @gailhopkins5767
      @gailhopkins5767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      A man that find a wife find a good thing! Stop trying to find him wrong way. Pray the Lord will guide YOUR husband he has for u to find u!. Grace to all. gh

    • @bosslady9108
      @bosslady9108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@gailhopkins5767 Thank you.....

    • @QueenNia
      @QueenNia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm so with you on that...

    • @gailhopkins5767
      @gailhopkins5767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@bosslady9108 u be Bless & trust in the Word of Jehovah God& no i am not a Jehovah's witness. My mom was . bless her heart i am a christian & i know the Lord has many names, King of Kings, i am that i am, Lord & Saviour, master, etc. I just like to call him by his name as we have names too. So i want to say to u Boss lady910. That it is no secret that what he does for 1 he will also do for u. & his word is tried & proven true. So u just KEEP your faith & he shall bring it to pass for u. I am celebrating your HUSBAND finding u before. Why because i am standing in faith with u Boss lady 910. Grace keep u & all. gh

    • @gailhopkins5767
      @gailhopkins5767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@QueenNia Ms. Veiro u too be bless all your days of a long good life. Simply because u believe in the word of our Lord. Grace to u & all. gh

  • @DynamicallyDC
    @DynamicallyDC 4 ปีที่แล้ว +428

    A man in love with you will always be consistent with courting you and engaging you the way he did initially to win your heart. 🙌🏽👌🏽

    • @ministerstayfly9213
      @ministerstayfly9213 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And what does she do to deserve all of this.

    • @rashawntaylor4316
      @rashawntaylor4316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good morning real good man will sacrifice too make you happy n also ask what ‘ s you need help with , what ‘s your future goals ! A real man will send you roses , keep gas in your car , also has God in life n make you first properity , help you with the bills , take you too work on your off days ! A real man will work too bones too make should you didn’t have too work that hard !

    • @rashawntaylor4316
      @rashawntaylor4316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’ m just being real n honest

    • @rashawntaylor4316
      @rashawntaylor4316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for replying back

    • @ugobestelectrical4252
      @ugobestelectrical4252 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi dear| if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person I know of a man| who helped me bring my ex back he can also help you❤️

  • @DELIVERANCE-TODAY
    @DELIVERANCE-TODAY 4 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    #1. He will sacrifice for you
    #2. He won't intentionally hurt you
    #3. He will defend you
    #4. He will be consistent and completely faithful to you (watch for signs, and be honest with yourself!)
    #5. He will apologize

  • @tiffanyjohnson4271
    @tiffanyjohnson4271 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    I pray God send me a man with these qualities!

  • @danawright8306
    @danawright8306 4 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    This confirmed that the only man who was in love with me was my first boyfriend. I was too young and broken to know it. I know it now. No regrets. I had to go through what I had to go through to love me first. I'm truly loving me. So when the next man who is in love with me comes along....I AIN'T LETTING HIM GO!!!

    • @michelleclay1494
      @michelleclay1494 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dana Wright my sentiments also. My very first BF was all these things. Now, another woman has been reaping the benefits of a good man all these years. 23 to be exact!

    • @michelleclay1494
      @michelleclay1494 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh, and I’m twice divorced. ☹️

    • @danaglover6801
      @danaglover6801 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Dana Wright.. I totally understand where you’re comin from. He wasn’t my first boyfriend but he was definitely in love with me. I was just too young broken and unhappy to see it. I’ve only had duds come into my life since😳🤨😓... if and when given another chance I’m there for it. I’m grown today so I know better now🤔💯

  • @Jules_TX
    @Jules_TX 4 ปีที่แล้ว +281

    Be blessed. Tony isn't lying either when he talks about how he interacts with women. I went to one of his seminars and he was kind, helpful and humble. Tons of beautiful woman at the seminar but for him it was strictly business.

    • @9188jenni
      @9188jenni 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      As it should be ..some of these men still cant get past understanding they shouldnt have a harem of female friends

    • @TonyGaskins
      @TonyGaskins  4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Jules Arebalo thanks for that stamp Sis! Bless you!

    • @jillcooper4854
      @jillcooper4854 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      This brother truly care about his black sistas. I know that all the black dusty, brother hate on him because he's spilling the tea on there game and giving us the upper hand. We know now! No more excuses. Thank you bro. Gaskins. God bless you and your family.

  • @laren2479
    @laren2479 4 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    Yep, all true. My Hubby been this way since day one. It took my slow behind a year to figure it out and not mess it up. I love him forever for it. Be Blessed...
    17 years and still in love.

    • @akuasalaam490
      @akuasalaam490 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      La Kesha Hayes That’s beautiful... Godspeed...

    • @saneeshaf
      @saneeshaf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      When and how did you realize he was in love and that you could trust and rest to marry him?

    • @briana14333
      @briana14333 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      beautiful

    • @bevjohnson22
      @bevjohnson22 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congrats

  • @LifeasLeah
    @LifeasLeah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Aww my boyfriend told me he’s in love with me last week on top of him doing end showing all of these signs from the very jump of our relationship we are going on two years in June..

    • @MayaDTV
      @MayaDTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen!

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wow!!! That’s so nice. I wish you guys all the best

  • @sharonkelly5945
    @sharonkelly5945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +513

    Amen !!! My husband just passed we were married for forty plus years he was every thing for me on the day he died he had returned the drug store for me and an hour later died , we loved each other and I still love my husband❤️👍🏽

    • @ericawilliams5174
      @ericawilliams5174 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I'm glad to hear you had a wonderful 40 plus years. And made it through the up and downs. I can imagine your loss was difficult. I pray that God heals your heart and gives you the understanding you need in this situation. So that you may accept it and be able to avoid the darkness that always sits and waits on us to come that way. If you have already been healed by God then that is absolutely awesome. I loss my boyfriend in 2018 to a car accident. And that blew my mind. We had recently broke up but were still very much communicating. And I know that's not a marriage but that hurt was massive. I had to quickly reach out to the Lord and take a look at my son and ask God to please help me because I didn't wanna go to the dark side of depression and being upset with God. I had to ask for understanding at its fullest. As of now I still miss him and I do shed a few tears here and there but I thank God for helping me through it all. May God bless you my sister and all your days to come. Remember, reach for God and believe that he will heal your heart. You have to believe and actually want to be healed. And that doesn't mean you cannot grieve your husband. Just try not to lie in it forever. And think of what your husband would want for you which is happiness.

    • @michellejackson1096
      @michellejackson1096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I am very very sorry for your lost Beloved my GOD bless your soul.

    • @lowcalgyal406
      @lowcalgyal406 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      So special ❤️

    • @ifyoucantmexiCAN...9948
      @ifyoucantmexiCAN...9948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Rev 21:3,4
      Too be commended...👏👏👏

    • @laquitawallers5744
      @laquitawallers5744 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Prayers n my condolences to you Queen you have a Angel now blessings sitting with God my ex passed Jan 29th 2020 of this yr from Cancer I miss him became my bestfriend n I got hurt by his family of jelousy never made it to the Funeral it hurts y'all I was only 1 there for n threw everything but God is good still in the midst of a storm

  • @alharris1643
    @alharris1643 3 ปีที่แล้ว +600

    My wife asked me to check this out and it made me feel good as I evaluated my relationship with my wife but at the same time it made me realize that there’s still work to be done on my end. Thank you for this video and be blessed!

    • @Glhug
      @Glhug 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      you’re truly a king for wanting to change for the better!

    • @Myhiddentalents_64
      @Myhiddentalents_64 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      That's beautiful that you are so humble to admit improvement.

    • @oluremi595
      @oluremi595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You are a high value man 👍

    • @chloethemessenger
      @chloethemessenger 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Aawwww. She’s blessed to have a man who wants and is actively working on youre relationship ♥️

    • @chloethemessenger
      @chloethemessenger 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Glhug amen to that!

  • @pongkham143
    @pongkham143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +404

    You can’t make anyone fall in love. It comes naturally if it’s meant to be.

    • @DC-8-8-8-
      @DC-8-8-8- 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      True

    • @jonasbheart
      @jonasbheart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      100%

    • @lynniepoo6206
      @lynniepoo6206 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Nailed it! That is the bottom line, and we simply need to just accept that fact and not take it personally.

    • @Fulltimefreedomvibe
      @Fulltimefreedomvibe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Right Right. A guy said I can make you fall in love with me. I said that’s not how I roll

    • @Eevanova
      @Eevanova 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can

  • @cynthiabaker9177
    @cynthiabaker9177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I AM BLESSED!!! My husband is a true gift from God. He is everything God said a husband should be God has blessed me exceedently and abundantly above anything I could ask or think. Thank you Father.

  • @daughteroftheking4301
    @daughteroftheking4301 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I admire the way you talk about your wife. So happy to see a faithful man who sticks by his wife's side and show true agape love. God bless y'all marriage. Love it!

  • @TheNillyp
    @TheNillyp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    This revealed to me that I have never really experienced real love even with the father of my kids... it hurts but I needed this, thank you❤️ it’s really sweet to see a black man speak so passionately about his wife

    • @darrelljackson484
      @darrelljackson484 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No disrespect. I have always been curious. After the first child and the father doesn't marry you. Why do you have more children with him?

    • @darrelljackson484
      @darrelljackson484 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No disrespect. I have always been curious. After the first child and the father doesn't marry you. Why do you have more children with him?

    • @darrelljackson484
      @darrelljackson484 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No disrespect. I have always been curious. After the first child and the father doesn't marry you. Why do you have more children with him?

    • @ms.ladysanders3939
      @ms.ladysanders3939 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@darrelljackson484 It's a choice.

    • @ugobestelectrical4252
      @ugobestelectrical4252 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi dear| if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person I know of a man| who helped me bring my ex back he can also help you❤️

  • @ericmuhammad8920
    @ericmuhammad8920 4 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    I agree don't let nobody disrespect your wife, not even your own children... I agree with that.

  • @namiereed2383
    @namiereed2383 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    When I got in an accident my man was right there everyday came to my house I couldn't do nothing I could walk or the bathroom wash up or nothing he was right there to do it that's a real man

  • @CoachHC
    @CoachHC 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    A big difference, care for you, have love for you and in love with you. We definitely have to know the difference . Be Blessed

    • @TonyGaskins
      @TonyGaskins  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks!! #BlessedFam

  • @faithfullyscratchinnewyork
    @faithfullyscratchinnewyork 4 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    This Is No Old Wives Tale. ACTIONS SPEAK VOLUMES! SHOW ME, NOT JUST TALK MY HEAD OFF WITH WORDS! 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @StandupGirl-ym3ey
      @StandupGirl-ym3ey 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yessss!!!

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Consistency is more important then actions nowadays. Some people will do certain things to act as if they care about you. But once they feel like you are all in. They show the real them.

    • @TheElokim
      @TheElokim 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      YOu are SPOT on...ACTIONS!!! i've been with someone to where its all WORDS and no actions!!

    • @faithfullyscratchinnewyork
      @faithfullyscratchinnewyork 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheElokim It's A Waste Of Time Period. Thank You!

    • @faithfullyscratchinnewyork
      @faithfullyscratchinnewyork 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ladennayoung2939 True Statement Sis, I Agree. 💯

  • @mimidph
    @mimidph 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    I was married for 22 years before I divorced him, because he was not that apologetic man. He has told me, “Let me make my mistakes.” What the heck?!😳 Some men never grow up. They just grow old. “So, out with the old!”

    • @ugobestelectrical4252
      @ugobestelectrical4252 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi dear| if you seriously want help to get your ex back or a specific person I know of a man| who helped me bring my ex back he can also help you❤️

    • @ugobestelectrical4252
      @ugobestelectrical4252 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ***Wh'|sapp him for help****

    • @ugobestelectrical4252
      @ugobestelectrical4252 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ✝12086496208⏯⏯⏭⏭⏯⏯⏯⏯????????????????????????????????????????????????????

    • @ugobestelectrical4252
      @ugobestelectrical4252 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ✝12086496208⏯⏯⏭⏭⏯⏯⏯⏯????????????????????????????????????????????????????

    • @ugobestelectrical4252
      @ugobestelectrical4252 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ✝12086496208⏯⏯⏭⏭⏯⏯⏯⏯????????????????????????????????????????????????????

  • @paulettesingleton9077
    @paulettesingleton9077 4 ปีที่แล้ว +245

    I’m a blessed woman. My husband does all 5 of those things and more!

    • @vadiamondgirl
      @vadiamondgirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bless you!!!

    • @zoeelauren4649
      @zoeelauren4649 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      :-) Wonderful!♡◇♡

    • @ministerstayfly9213
      @ministerstayfly9213 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And what do you ma'am?

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💞

    • @niar3730
      @niar3730 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Happy for u my husband does all these things too😍🥰 love being in love

  • @BoswelliaLuna8
    @BoswelliaLuna8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Couples rarely talk about the butterflies anymore.

  • @reginapayne3501
    @reginapayne3501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    If he in love with u and let people disrespect dont say nothing u dont need him period

  • @christinacaravello6461
    @christinacaravello6461 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love how you say no one will disrespect your wife not even your mom or sister. That is something beautiful in that

  • @Woosahbrant
    @Woosahbrant 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Pride and Real Love can’t dwell in the same temple. If that man truly loves, apologizing will come natural for him. Also, apology without change is manipulation.
    Thanks for your awesome works. They are 💯!
    Be Blessed!

    • @Woosahbrant
      @Woosahbrant 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Eternity With Christ Thanks!

  • @krystlemccray420
    @krystlemccray420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Absolutely facts!!! Myself and my Husband do all of these things for each other! We've been together for 3 years and everything is the same since day one! We are best friends!!!

  • @LifeofToniesia
    @LifeofToniesia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Be blessed , I’m dealing with a man now who does all of these things but I was to blind to even see it ! You literally opened my eyes ! Thank you

  • @thomiaburgess2689
    @thomiaburgess2689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Ladies stop looking for a good man , and pray for a godly man .

  • @janicesewell7634
    @janicesewell7634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Be BLESS!! 43 Years married. Went together for 2 before we got married. THANK GOD.

    • @cynthiajune2818
      @cynthiajune2818 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love that you say " went together" ❤

  • @faactivate1
    @faactivate1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    My husband does all of it n a hundred times more..he loves me more than I love him..thnk god n m really grateful..he is sent by God for me 😭😭

    • @jocelovesart2911
      @jocelovesart2911 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That a true blessing

    • @14kurtismiller
      @14kurtismiller 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      You better start loving your husband just as much as he loves you. Don't be o.k with giving him less, it sounds like he deserves you're very best.

    • @deidrasaunders6606
      @deidrasaunders6606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@14kurtismiller I was saying the same thing...uhh
      "He loves you more "...🤔

    • @SS-vk1xn
      @SS-vk1xn 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen 🙏🏾

  • @pamelawilliams6331
    @pamelawilliams6331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    I’m 59yrs old & never had that real love in my life but still hopeful.

    • @moorebeautymua6362
      @moorebeautymua6362 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      It's never too late Ms Pamela. My aunt found her soul mate at 55. Never give up your love story just hasn't been written yet. Oxoxox

    • @flamboyant731
      @flamboyant731 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      same

    • @carollove2427
      @carollove2427 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      A man is suppose to search for his mate The Woman is supposed to wait until he finds her most women go out to find a man that’s why they end up with Lil boys playing kid game and please don’t bring any Baggage or Attitude from any of your past Relationships you must not think all men are the same this will interfere with your new Journey and your new progress with LOVE

    • @cynthiastevens8302
      @cynthiastevens8302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It will happen for you!!

    • @1tnt833
      @1tnt833 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tell me about it 🤦‍♀️

  • @mika2707
    @mika2707 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It makes me smile….the way you talk about your Wife and date night. Thank you for your videos!

  • @vernitaechols9376
    @vernitaechols9376 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    You know for sure when you get really sick.Get hospitalized he's starnding over your bed crying & doesn't leave your side.

  • @tiredofalwayshurting4838
    @tiredofalwayshurting4838 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I taught my son from Day NEVER LET ANY MAN OR WOMAN COME BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR WIFE....I said son , NOT EVEN ME,YOUR MOTHER, YOU PUT YOUR WIFE BEFORE YOU PUT ME SON.. Because to me that's what God says, go forth to make HIS OWN FAMILY..and if I love my son I wouldn't disrespect the love he has for his wife or make him choose... Jus sayin I agree with you putting your wife first .

    • @reenasambaza8462
      @reenasambaza8462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      TiredOf AlwaysHurtin
      I wish Men could copy-these valuable principles!!

    • @wonnielee3407
      @wonnielee3407 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bless you. You taught him very well.

    • @carollove2427
      @carollove2427 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s right Moma you have taught
      him very well and taught him how to Truly Respect His God His Mother & Father whether he’s known’s his Father or not His Self Worth this teaches him how to forgive with a open Heart then when his Children Come He Has Come Full Circle when a Son see’s His Parents Sacrifice and have enough courage to teach him how to be a man then he is free to love a Women Unconditionally

    • @carollove2427
      @carollove2427 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@reenasambaza8462 Well God Made Man To Pursuit and Hunt for His Women Your doing this backward a man was create it to Love You And Provide for you to Cherish You And Protect You And You Are His Help Mate this means to Love & Cherish him Make him feel like a Happy, Proud and Loving Man this doesn’t mean you have to change him or fix him if you have to do all of that he is not the one This doesn’t mean You take care of him you spoil him some men are looking for a fool to use WHO’S FOOLING WHO I’m sorry that’s not a man that a boy trying to show out in front of his boys a real man won’t put you threw This mess always know your RED FLAGS most women see them but for some reason SEX ALWAYS WIN’S Over Common Sense Beware of the man with the candy in his hand you don’t need no man Cuter or finer then you you don’t need any competition from a man just pray baby and ask God to send you your KING THAT HE Create it just for you and be very pacific of what you want I pray for a humble man a loving man a working man a man that loves me more than he loves his self A man who knows what a man supposed to do for his wife and family I didn’t look for any man I stayed Focus oh my career and my love for God so I would be ready now you must bring something to the table too becuz when times get rough he need to lean on you a little bit also and you must be ready and My Husband found me two years later we dated for another three years and now we’ve been together 35 years when you know you’re getting sick of being sick and tired of going through the same thing over and over and over you’ll slow down just think about what you want and you must be fair because if you’re not you’re going to find the same dudes I never thought I could be so happy I never thought then I will stop bumping my head looking for him but it turns out God knew BEST GOD WANTS YOU TO HAVE HIS BEST IN YOUR LIFE THE BEST OF GOD’S LOVE

    • @dinnipinni4810
      @dinnipinni4810 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thats very good advice :)

  • @rasheemastevenson5833
    @rasheemastevenson5833 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Be blessed...after being in a few bad relationships I have finally been given the man meant for me by God..we go on dates every Saturday and I don't pay for anything..he sees things that need to be done and does them without having to be asked..the man has his own place and helps me pay bills in my house.. today, he took the day off work to go to another city to buy new tires for my truck when he could have been making money, AND paid the shop to put the tires on just so I wouldn't drive out of town on bald tires..I'm all in with this man and he has my ❤️..our love is everything.. thanks Tony!!

    • @patjohnson9794
      @patjohnson9794 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's a good man! Happy for you! Stay blessed.

    • @moriahcoleman275
      @moriahcoleman275 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Happy for you, you deserve it!!! 💛

  • @Peachypeachpea
    @Peachypeachpea ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much for this message. Absolutely makes so much sense. I’ve been married for over 3 years and we have a 1 year old child we are raising and sadly I’m now dealing with the Jezebel spirit of my mother in-law, who is definitely trying to destroy my marriage and ruin my child. Needed to hear this. Now I know how to proceed. I will definitely be in my Bible, continue to serve my husband, and stay prayed up. This demon loves chaos and confusion. I’m ready to fight this battle and the demon will never win or succeed. BE BLESSED! 🙏🏾

  • @NativeAmerican10
    @NativeAmerican10 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    I found this. 27 years ago still going strong

    • @jocelovesart2911
      @jocelovesart2911 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That a true blessing

    • @julietchilaka2680
      @julietchilaka2680 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I thank God for you and mine will last this long and more amen

  • @lanaeshaw8724
    @lanaeshaw8724 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    A male friend of mines while we were walking he found a dollar and he tore the dollar in half and gave me a half. I said, “you found it, now it’s no good.” He retorted, “apart it’s no good, but when you bring the pieces together there nothing we cant do together.” I was sorta speechless, but I did receive the explanation with a smile. Am telling you this and any one reading my note there are a ton of great guys who brings all they have to the table, so let us be swift to hear slow at times to speak.

  • @BettyblackBlack
    @BettyblackBlack 3 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    MY MOM TAUGHT HER FIVE DAUGHTERS THAT LOVE DOESN'T HURT.

  • @milyonroberts6226
    @milyonroberts6226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm Listening 🎧 to this with 😢 in my 👀 eye's open..!! Y'all be blessed 🙏..!

  • @chloeporter3820
    @chloeporter3820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    Where are the single men that thinks like you?

    • @iusedtolovecheesecake2205
      @iusedtolovecheesecake2205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Gurl, im convinced they don't exist. The ones that do, are all married.

    • @eleanc9675
      @eleanc9675 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Based on the men I see out there. I have to take a pass. If God don't send him I don't want him.

    • @valh.9120
      @valh.9120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@eleanc9675 Amen my sister, they are so full of games, rather be in love with Jehovah than a man.

    • @melissarichardson6168
      @melissarichardson6168 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good question.

    • @shanaydee
      @shanaydee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Married 😂

  • @monicacoleman6995
    @monicacoleman6995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +252

    This means that I’ve been in a 3 year toxic relationship and I knew this. I’ve been getting myself together to leave this relationship because it’s not heading anywhere.

    • @danitadavis3
      @danitadavis3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Best of love to you and you will get out keep planning and when you get out stay out, stay blessed.

    • @PREGOMILLIE
      @PREGOMILLIE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      So sorry. Better late than never

    • @marykayyolo
      @marykayyolo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @Size24 NO More! so true. When we are done...it is done.

    • @beefaye6861
      @beefaye6861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Good for u....you deserve better !

    • @jmsmurfy9
      @jmsmurfy9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Maybe time to go!!...if you are not happy, leave it alone!!

  • @legal_beagle5294
    @legal_beagle5294 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    “But, the Bible I read...” You betta preach it Man of God!!

  • @mineandmine4528
    @mineandmine4528 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you Tony for providing the ointment I need to heal my wounds that got from my ex husband. I am on the road to recovery and am living a peaceful life

  • @cameliagentry3307
    @cameliagentry3307 3 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    I have been married for 16 years and I must truly say you are 100% correct!!!! This is my husband to the tee..lol

  • @fiyaak7609
    @fiyaak7609 4 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    When he said “ because I love her & ain’t nobody gone disrespect her “ 💯Salute 👑

    • @embracewithwuv
      @embracewithwuv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He do all of these but he still pushing me away because of financial why

    • @melissaosman3780
      @melissaosman3780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      My ex that recently died never allowed any one to disrespect me not even his family.

    • @MyPainCenter
      @MyPainCenter 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@embracewithwuv ⁰]00⁰⁰)⁰00

    • @MyPainCenter
      @MyPainCenter 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      ⁰⁰0

    • @akuasalaam490
      @akuasalaam490 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shivers...

  • @geraldhoward4168
    @geraldhoward4168 3 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    As a man, I feel so much better by these words. Thank you, my brother.

    • @Nessa67
      @Nessa67 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thank you My Brother for your words

  • @tawainahollis4770
    @tawainahollis4770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Dear GOD,
    Thank YOU for placing me in the arms of the man who truly LOVES ME & enjoys showing me his dedication. It's gonna be amazing to learn what this feels like. I am so happy and grateful for the gift of TRUE LOVE!!!

  • @KeepinUpWithKalia
    @KeepinUpWithKalia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Lord, I pray my husband is watching this video! That he is desiring and preparing himself to be a Husband in Jesus’ name!
    I’m so glad I know my worth and how I know and believe I’m suppose to be treated and protected ❤️.

  • @Ashmac777
    @Ashmac777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    💯 accurate!
    My own personal experience a man can leave to work on themselves and come back apologies and be the man you deserve but he had to do he's own self worth first and foremost to be love.
    This was great as a women to hear this advice and teaching, good men can be overlooked Or belittled purely because women like the lie . Women need to understand their own fathers haven't been able to show what love looks like either and the game keeps playing out in their hands and prespective of what they believe a man or love should look like.
    Love your talks, your honesty is a blessing.

  • @esapressy13
    @esapressy13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Im glad I finally found a REAL MAN that loves me fully for me and am BLESSED to say he is MINE 😁😍🥰 THANK YOU

  • @debbiemculloch76
    @debbiemculloch76 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Omg, my man is in love with me. He does all of the rings you are talking about ♥️💍♥️

    • @GinaT5678
      @GinaT5678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤️

  • @nancylee6893
    @nancylee6893 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Right now since all my male family members are unavailable you have been like a father to me. God bless you for this.

    • @amyjjewel
      @amyjjewel 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is literally me

  • @sloanpowellspeaks
    @sloanpowellspeaks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow, after 30yrs and now divorced. I know my worth and what I want. I WON'T take less.

    • @JM-qg9bo
      @JM-qg9bo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great! When you know your worth it truly makes a difference!

    • @ShaShaLuva414
      @ShaShaLuva414 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Divorced after 30yrs 4 kids. I wanted to have a ever after but realized the role I had allowed myself to succumb to was not the role of a Happy Wife😒 I was a Kept Woman and I thought that was ok. My Bad Happily Divorced 🥳

  • @Hisdesire1st
    @Hisdesire1st 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    I already knew I was blessed and this only confirms it. Thank you Lord. I was laying here last night in the dark just blushing. We’ve been married 34 years. It is a growing process. But it is beautiful to be loved this way and to love this way.

    • @sarahko1014
      @sarahko1014 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      blessings to you

  • @moniquestuckey-kirkham7762
    @moniquestuckey-kirkham7762 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I am so blessed, I love my Partner He is 100% in love with me. I can say this with emphamitically. I am 100% in love with him. I thank God for bringing this man into my life!

    • @moniquestuckey-kirkham7762
      @moniquestuckey-kirkham7762 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Be blessed, Thank you. For the first time in my adult life I am in love sure I was married but I was never in love with my ex husband, I had been in only a few serious relationships but never was in Love, I cared and Loved them but never was in love and now knowing because they were never in Love with me. And I thank you for this Message because I truly know that not only he in Love with me that I am in Love.

  • @erikaeyasvergara6175
    @erikaeyasvergara6175 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I neglected all the red flags because of love and still ended being cheated on. Never again. :(

    • @ministerstayfly9213
      @ministerstayfly9213 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Because this isn't love it's game on women who grew up on fairy tales. Get in her head so you can get in her bed.

    • @kingsnina8272
      @kingsnina8272 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Life is filled with lessons grow through it. You are not alone in this but just remain you. The right one will come.

  • @dalebentley5312
    @dalebentley5312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are so accurate with this one!!! I dropped a guy after 2 months. This is a winning formula to attract the right man. Thank u.

  • @sharonmassetti2685
    @sharonmassetti2685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Married 20 yrs only 2 bad fights. That taught us both a lesson not to repeat. We talk things out no yelling and screaming.

    • @darlenesweet-wright7985
      @darlenesweet-wright7985 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So glad to hear that Sharon. We don’t communicate well at all. I’ve put my foot down and stop accepting the way he talks to me and I’ve let him know not to talk to me crazy. He’s called me out of my name once and it showed me what he really thinks about me.

    • @curlyisconfident
      @curlyisconfident 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amazing ❤️ thanks for the testimony

    • @lotusphoenix8
      @lotusphoenix8 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How beautiful is this! I'm looking forward to this for my love life and my future. Thank you for giving us hope.

    • @sharonmassetti2685
      @sharonmassetti2685 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lotusphoenix8 oh by the way I was 51 when I married him.

    • @lotusphoenix8
      @lotusphoenix8 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sharonmassetti2685 Hallelujah! Even more hope! Bless you!😍

  • @Acombhair
    @Acombhair 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    It’s crazy how a 30 year old man has no intentions on learning or being great. Im 29 and I wanna be a great woman & wise up!

  • @sabrinascott5024
    @sabrinascott5024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you Tony and thank your beautiful wife for allowing you to do what you do. You and RC Blake keep it 100. I love you my brother! I just pray that every woman that hears you will meditate on every word that comes out of your mouth because they are God inspired. May God continue to bless you as you are such a blessing to us women 🤗

  • @anointedstilettos
    @anointedstilettos 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    My husband barely apologized at all, and he definitely DID NOT genuinely apologize to me. Be blessed ✌🏾.

    • @anointedstilettos
      @anointedstilettos 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Eternity With Christ We been together since we were 16 and in our 40's now. We have also been apart for the last 4 years.

  • @thedreeffect1821
    @thedreeffect1821 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Didn't realize what love was, until I chose a man that didn't love me back. Love for myself was lost in the process. #SelfLoveLifeLessons #FallingBackInLoveWithME

    • @KeegiiBaby
      @KeegiiBaby 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same thing happened to me. Wish you nothing but pure happiness in the process! You got this , selflove is the only real unconditional love

    • @Designsbytatty
      @Designsbytatty 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too and now all he tells me is that no one will love me until I love myself. The issue isn’t with me it’s with him.

  • @latinabrame5779
    @latinabrame5779 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Be blessed. I pray that this kind of love finds me.

  • @naomis.sharif
    @naomis.sharif 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Be blessed. Walk in your assignment, to the glory of God.

  • @taraMimi717
    @taraMimi717 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Be Blessed 💕💕✨I’m now single from being involved with a Narcissistic Virgo ♍️ For 11 Years💃🏽💃🏽✨Still healing

    • @joyb5353
      @joyb5353 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why did you mention specifically a virgo... 🤔

    • @marquita948
      @marquita948 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Becky Jade what that mean ??

    • @KhaliahAli
      @KhaliahAli 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me 6 1/6 yrs with the same 😥

    • @taraMimi717
      @taraMimi717 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Joy Biwott Bcuz I wanted too 🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️ when your Birthday 🎂

    • @taraMimi717
      @taraMimi717 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Becky Jade So if a person beliefs are different from you is that abomination ijs 🤷🏽‍♀️ We all are different & have Our own beliefs You Christians are a mess & You should try your own Connection that might collaborate with your beliefs instead of quoting something that you didn’t Write or didn’t Witness

  • @ceceliadiaz8989
    @ceceliadiaz8989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Everything he said is on point, i can listen to him all day long, may God bless his soul

    • @chloethemessenger
      @chloethemessenger 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too and he’s funny as hell and I love to laugh 😆 . I take life too seriously sometimes.

  • @lashondahoward5885
    @lashondahoward5885 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My husband was controlling and made decisions without me. When I got sick, things got really bad. I finally got courage. When he sold our home and thought he would control 100% of the money. It was time to go. I was not trapped and wasted 14 years. It's been 4 years and I believe my ex-husband had mental issues he didn't tell me.

  • @kdaempress7212
    @kdaempress7212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    MADE ME CRY... 🤷🏾‍♀️ HAVEN'T HAD THAT IN 21 YEARS... BE BLESSED

  • @aprilmilan2222
    @aprilmilan2222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    OMG the butterflies is sooooooooo true! We are very in love wi each other new relationship approaching 2 yrs soon. We dress up like to flirt wi each other.. you name it we do it!! Finally found my person as he says to me. That loves me the way my soul yearned for.

    • @zippyt632
      @zippyt632 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is awesome - gives me hope, thanks!!

  • @deezdymonds
    @deezdymonds 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you Tony!! Be blessed you're the only one out there giving true man insight to us women & I appreciate you 💜

  • @teelee-83
    @teelee-83 4 ปีที่แล้ว +417

    I usually get the apologies when it's too late after a breakup lol by then who cares

    • @TinaTina-ui7tn
      @TinaTina-ui7tn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Tee Simmons I agree

    • @RobertaS127
      @RobertaS127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Better late than never.

    • @teelee-83
      @teelee-83 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@RobertaS127 Chile lol please there's always a motive lol

    • @Dina-zf8ft
      @Dina-zf8ft 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Forreal though, why is this a common pattern?

    • @jasminemartin6998
      @jasminemartin6998 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You ain’t lyin!

  • @evarose4349
    @evarose4349 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I have been with my man for Alittle over 4 years He shows me every day that kind of love everyday.

  • @terribooth8223
    @terribooth8223 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you so much for your encouraging words.
    I just found you. Perfect timing for my struggle. God bless you for glorifying the Lord and showing women honor
    young man🌞

  • @joycesparks3777
    @joycesparks3777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    That was so my husband for 21 years . I lost him 5 months ago. He loved me and I loved him. You are on target with God’s word.

  • @KS-rn4co
    @KS-rn4co 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    I pray she gets better soon. She has been unwell for a couple videos you posted.

    • @angelnetworkascension2039
      @angelnetworkascension2039 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Prayers for Tony's wife. You're right. He's mentioned her not feeling well for some time now. 🙏😔🙏

  • @hildawise3057
    @hildawise3057 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    My man does ALL of these... we have 10 years of ups and downs! The last 3 years have been a continuous growth of our relationship. I am Blessed to have him in my life. I am 55 and he is 65... I thought I was done with relationships and his patience with me over the past decade has blown my mind. He isn't perfect but he is perfectly mine...

  • @meagon177
    @meagon177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Lol “you saw her butt too” 🤣 it’s human and we need to be more secure. As long as it isn’t an ongoing thing. It’s ok!

  • @timdand
    @timdand 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    He does all 5 ❤🥰 I am blessed.

    • @midnightintercessor416
      @midnightintercessor416 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same.☺

    • @timdand
      @timdand 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Paul Hogue Actually it does when its the right person. Sorry 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @timdand
      @timdand 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Paul Hogue Well from my 16 year experience with 2 of the wrong ones. I know and fully understand what the right one looks like, smells like, feels like, speaks like, walks like, lives like etc...As a woman who's went through much growth in understanding myself and the decisions from my past. I know wholeheartedly that the right man has found me.

    • @timdand
      @timdand 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Paul Hogue You can't fake being the wrong one but for so long. Women often ignore the bad because we HOPE the good will come out. But if a man is not good for you we know from the beginning. We just rather not believe it.

    • @timdand
      @timdand 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Paul Hogue Again, People don't change their core values, you can't fake character, you can't fake integrity either you have it or you don't. Either you are paying attention to the one you're with and realizing the red flags or you are ignoring them.

  • @Bgrace15
    @Bgrace15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Thank you Tony. I don't even have a man to recognise these signs in 😂 in His time 🙏🏾 now... Back to the video!

    • @martipaul7864
      @martipaul7864 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Be blessed

    • @Bgrace15
      @Bgrace15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@martipaul7864 likewise sis 🙏🏾

    • @cherh
      @cherh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lmao! Same sis same. 2020 our year!

    • @lornaswasey4687
      @lornaswasey4687 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right,back to the video

    • @lornaswasey4687
      @lornaswasey4687 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      My man

  • @cookingwithms.theresa6729
    @cookingwithms.theresa6729 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I'm literally almost in tears because I wish someone would have told me this and maybe I wouldn't be getting a Divorce right now and wasting literally part of my life with the wrong person. 😔

    • @reginaclaxtonministries
      @reginaclaxtonministries 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Heal and be well, Sis. You will recover and there is no shame in learning from poor decisions. Love God, love yourself & love others. May God's peace rule within you. May you arise stronger and may restoration enfold progressively. 💝