Is This Rude Behavior At The Antique Mall - Shop With Me For Vintage & Antiques - Springfield Ohio
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In today's shop with me video I need YOUR opinion down in the comments, is it rude behavior...let me know YOUR perspective!
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Dear Vintage ; When faced with that situation , I go to another booth that's near it. It doesn't cost anything to be polite. I have a pet peeve in this vein , when shopping a discount food rack I can't abide pushy people that snatch stuff and act like rude children. RUDE People ruin the world everywhere they go .😊
Praise! Both are free options, just choose the one that stays fresh!
Wait my turn
@@The.Cult.Of.Vintage 😉
Wait your turn, I do not like people on top of me.
I don’t like people on top of me, nor do I like being on top of people. Especially when the booths aren’t always huge. I move on to another one. 😊
That’s like people stopping right in the middle of the aisle in a grocery store.. Really 🤦♀️
Especially after Covid-people need to respect personal space/boundaries. ALSO, if someone is recording, for goodness sakes, wait in a nearby area. No one is having an emergency in the antique mall!
I wait my turn!! If there was something in there I wanted and someone else snagged it, I just figure it was not meant to be mine!!
I usually wait until they exit the booth completely because I always look on my way out so assume others are doing the same so I stay out of their way.
It depends on the size of the booth. That particular booth is tight so I would wait since there are other booths to visit. However, if I see something I love in there and don't want to take a chance of losing it - I would pick it up if the person is not near it.
Was the rude behavior entering a public space someone else was in? Do you always expect someone entering a public space you are occupying to excuse themself? It was 90 seconds from when you were in front of the swan to when they were walking out. Doesn’t seem like much of an intrusion. Was the “rolling up” comment loud enough for them to hear? If so, I’d say there was rude behavior on exhibit here.
Conventions for social distancing vary by circumstance, context, culture, and personal preference. Most, but not Americans, prefer generous spacing, which is also preferred in northern Europe. I don't think most 'transgressors' of this cultural norm do it intentionally. Personally, I only find it irriating when someone hovers so close you have to execute a back-flip to get out, or they reach over you to pick-up something. If that happens, I usually say "I beg your pardon, or can I help you?," which sends most people scattering.
I think it’s great that you are open to different perspectives. Rudeness is a hard one to figure out in 2023. I think there is intentional rudeness and people that honestly don’t mean to offend.
I kind of agree, it seemed people were kinder during Covid but now they’re even ruder than before. Some lady drove right into my big butt grocery shopping, I turned around and said “two words, excuse me and I’ll be happy to move, is my ass not big enough for you to see.”
I’d feel crowded and slightly claustrophobic, so I always wait. Plus, that’s kind of a huge place. Surely there are other places to look until the booth empties.
I would wait or come back! Not looking to get up close and personal with anyone!😅 It's too small!
I am so going to wait, I get so irritated when other shoppers get so close. And I do not have a poker face, so they usually realize it quite quickly😂
Michael, that Majolica plate was a dandelion.
The leaves were the giveaway.
Shaped like lion’s teeth or, in French, dents de lion. ( dandelion )
There’s a bit of information to tuck away for future reference. You never know when you might need it !
( I might need to get out more. ) 🥴
Fair game if it's only 1 other person, if there's a group, I wait.
I always go on to the next booth. I will keep an eye on them to get in there when they leave. I hate it when people squeeze into an already occupied booth. It forces me out.
I wouldn't go in a booth if I saw a chap talking to himself.😂😂😂❤❤
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Michael,I always go to the next booth and give the person time and space to finish their look through. I come back when the booth is empty, thus it is my turn. I loved that you said something out loud when they walked into your time in the booth. OMG I said to myself, you go Michael….and I was laughing so hard. You are so cute and honest, love that about you!
I would wait. What if the person holding the Swan was startled, and dropped it. I would feel so bad.
I would wait until you were finished shopping that booth .
Dandy Lion the flower on the plate. Sweet finds enjoyed the looky round .Keep Rocking 🤙 the good stuff 👍 Beautiful person 🤗 the 🖖🐇
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I go to the next booth and then backtrack … I prefer to shop the booth alone. Love shopping along with you!
Wait your turn and I hate the blue and white tassels on that table runner.
For just one wild moment i thought you said 'chocolate ' bunny and that pretty much tells you all you need to know about me.
WOW, that large owl was everything 😮😮😮
Love how you suggest ways of displaying vintage pieces, not everyone has that knack!
I love it when you say, "Michael, stop it!". Reminds me of me when I am going through online auctions. Tracey, stahhp it!
I'd wait! I was brought up to respect others and I don't like people too close!!
I love that perfume bottle!! Too bad too pricy.. Love the 'not your average' kitchen witch!!🧙♀️
Michael when you do surgery on the pink rabbit, reuse the filling
Dont use new filling on a vintage pluchy
Love this red eyed bunny.
Thank you for taking us along X
The majolica plate has a Dandelion on it. I saw a tiny snowman you dit not looked at. The pegdoll you bought is very sweet. ❣️
I'm definitely a "wait person". Mostly because I avoid unnecessary talking. The introvert in me just shudders thinking about it.
The bunny is everything!
I can’t wait to see what you do with the bunny🥰
I despise rude behavior in a person
Love shopping with you, you save my husband a lot of money 😂
Wait your turn for sure!! There is such a thing as shopping etiquette. In that case, I always go to a nearby booth until that person has finished.
ALWAYS enjoy your videos and sense of humor!!! 😊
I usually wait unless the person in the booth is super friendly and wants to chat. I prefer my personal space these days, just sayin’. Thanks Michael! Happy shopping ♥️
I also as most have said go to another booth then when it's clear I go back that owl was massive I have one that's a lamp love it
The glass owl was FABULOUS but where would you put such a beautifully huge piece of glass. And can you imagine the shipping 🫣😵💫 The pink bunny is very sweet as is, however a little fleshing up couldn’t hurt. Right? Thank you for taking us along. Tell Richard we missed him. ♥️
I had one of those cute corks. Gave it to a sweet friend with a winery. He liked it!
I was a big fan of shouting out "Six Feet!" during Covid. I still think that it's a good rule though. If you can't give someone 6 feet of personal space, then you're too close!
Would love to see your toy room with your new little couch. Love your items you pick out. 😊
Well, if I recognized MT, I would really want to go in!! 😘 If I saw something that was on my bucket list, I might sneak in but only if I wasn't "in the way," get in and out. Not just to browse.
🥰🥰 I look forward to the day!
Big pink bunny. The way he is posed reminds me of the velveteen bunny.
Good call on NOT getting the perfume bottle.
Depends, if the shop is full of people you may have to share space, otherwise no. I don't want a stranger in my space. Unless they are cool.
🤣🤣🤣 I'll share my space with you Denise!
I think some people will never get it! I know my body size and would never go into a tight area, no one needs my bumper in their space and vice versa.
The mouse on the shelf above the pink fairy lamp
I wait my turn. I either go to another booth or scope it out from the aisle until the other shopper is finished. Most booths are too small for multiple shoppers to be comfortable in there, unless you’re shopping together. I’ve never run across anyone filming but I would definitely step aside if I did.
I foolishly resold my bittersweet swung vase that I bought for $25. My only reselling regret. 🤷♀️
At 21:40, it was a dandelion. :) If a person is obviously leaving the booth, and there is plenty of space to pass them, I would not think it rude to enter as they are leaving. Crowding someone or reaching for something another person is looking at would be very rude, of course.
Antique malls typically have many many booths, wait your turn and go to another booth.
Loved the scruffy bunny...ty for letting me shop with ya.
Oh the blue and white throw me off too
Yes yes yes!! I'm all about using those vintage and antiques. I love it. Keep it up Michael! Cheers!
I was lucky my Mother taught her children Manners. I'am often told I'am very polite. When I hear that I say to myself thanks Mom. I like the little witch, she's so cute. This place has some items. Thanks for the take along Michael.
As long as they're not in your space and reaching across or getting by you ... But if you're on one side and on the other side there's something they want they can grab it without being considered rude.... As far as how I personally feel
Fair enough
I absolutely Loved the Round Silver Butter Dish!!!❤ Looking Good Michael!!!😘💕Fun Video!😅
I was at an estate sale. I stopped for a bit looking a painting. A hand reached in front of my face. He took it!! I gave him my you're rude look!!
Love that bougie kitchen witch! ❤
Honestly I think I have done both. Moved on or walked in and shared the space. I always try to maintain distance and I am not trying to be rude. Sometimes people just take forever and I like to go in all the spaces and look around. Afraid I will miss something. Next time I will be more careful and give others more time and space now that you pointed this out to me.
In an antique shop, wait for sure!
I loved the purple cat!
A lot of great finds!
I just go to a different booth!! I only like to go in a booth if it is empty I like my space!!
Mr. Todd, I could watch your playful goofiness all day! Your impression of the Swedish Chef is spot on!
No, I’d wait! There are lots of things to see around it without getting that close..
Absolutely wait your turn. Also, very pretty table runner... but I'd lose the blue and white tassels. They don't match it at all.
People have no etiquette anymore or are they conscience of personal space, it's sad. I always go to another booth and wait.
Michael Todd… ➡️➡️HOW⬅️⬅️ can you be such a treat to watch and shop with?!?!?! Never stop being you… 💋💖✅
The flower is a dandelion🌼 on the plate
Love the witch!
I always wait my turn. I don’t like to be crowded.
WAIT YOUR TURN!
Wait!!! I’m annoyed when folks do that.
Im watching for the second time 😊 Imagine stepping on that flower frog. Oh yeah, that would make one do a little swearing 😂 Every time I see a shelf of gorgeous bittersweet, I crave candy corn. Im so looking forward to Fall season and the upcoming holidays ❤ I adore the anthomorphic salt and peppers. The lettuce and tomato was my favorite
I was taught basic courtesy so I would just move to another booth and wait for you to be done. That said, I generally prefer to keep space around me and get over crowded easily. When my daughter was in Girl Scouts I used to volunteer there and the things I heard and saw children do during scouting. I spent a lot of time teaching what respect was. Children learn by example so parents be good people!
hello, if i saw you were filming i would def wait, but if not i would go in and be polite and get out of your way because you were there first. I am always respectful and I really appreciate good manners.!!
I would wait. I would not want to other shopper to feel rushed. When in a thrift shop or antique store I love to take my time. I wouldn't like feeling rushed, therefore I would not make another shopper feel rushed.
Oh, the thrift is a store is a WHOLE other story, people get crazy in there!
I love your videos so much especially all the information you provide about the items , thank you Sir 💜👍😊
I personally don't like to be up next to people when I'm trying to look at stuff. If it's a big roomy booth than 2 people can be in there but don't come right next to me. Go on the other side and when I move then have at it. I have a lot of anxiety and don't like to be crowded.
Please tell me you're going to take the blue and white tassels off of the runner.😮
Ya know, I don't know, I am really torn over it as it's original...but it so not my taste either!
I would go look at another booth and come back. 😊
To quote Miss Congeniality….”I’M WALKING HERE!!!”
I would ask the person if they were finished in the back of the booth and minded if I scooted by them. I just found the Jeanette Junior dinner set at Goodwill for $24. I’m not a reseller so that price was great for me and my granddaughters to use for tea parties 💕
Thank you for that perspective, I think asking is an added step I too shall incorporate! ❤️
Usually I would wait my turn. HOWEVER - I have been known to almost climb over someone, - say when I found a Weller Jardiniere at a GW. I did say "Excuse me" while climbing over them though 😏
Hehe!😅
The plate you asked if the flower was a chrysanthemum is actually a dandelion. The leaves tell the story.
The rosaline epergne is so stunning. At that price, I would have left it too...lol
I do love that (glass?) shoe that was next to the perfume bottle. I think the shoe might be Murano if it was glass.
I would be ok If a person asks, “Can I please pop in real quick and look at that piece?” With the focus being one item, then they can pick it up and move out of the booth to look at it more closely. But going into a booth within arms length of other shoppers, not ok. Especially if you have to come close to each other to exit the booth. No one likes feeling trapped.
You know...I think that's it. A quick excuse me or do you mind would you SO make it a different situation l.
I definitely wait, especially in this day and age. I am still cognizant of staying farther away from people. Plus, it is polite. I agree with someone else's statement, I go to another booth or area and then proceed when people have moved on. No shade, it's just what I do and what I prefer.
The Tonala owl next to the green canisters was too cute. I wait until the person is finishes 1. Because i don't want them to feel rushed and 2. Because I'm very clumsy so I will worry that I will knock something over.
I will wait or just go to another booth and come back. I am all about keeping out of peoples bubbles and them staying out of mine. I had the chance to visit that mall this past May and can’t wIt to go back. Love seeing all the new things through your videos.
I always either look at a shelf on the opposite side of the booth or bypass the whole booth then, come back. If the item is not there anymore then, I wasn’t meant to have it. Omg …I understand the locked cases but, I hate waiting and feel pressured to decide quickly if I want the item or not while the employee is standing there staring 😢😳
I wouldn't feel right crowding a person like that or being crowded like that. Sometimes you just have to wait your turn. It helps if the person doing the crowding at least bothers to say "excuse me" but sometimes I still wish they would just wait their turn.
ARIANNA BUNNY 🐰🐰🐰WE ALL NEED ONE … i LOVE WHEN YOU SHOW THE FLORENCE BOOTH 🩷🩷🩷
I’m coming in especially if I’m going to beat you to the fabulous flower frog that will complete my collection. I may even push you over to get it. 🥰😂🥰😂 Just Kidding. 😇🤣🤣
love the perfume bottle !!!!!!
Loved that wood turned , pedestal bowl! I know47$ but really nice
Great items, love the bunny!
Something I don’t get about these seasonal themes…Is people in America changing their whole interior for every holiday? 😉
YESSSS!!!!! Might have to do with stores forcing it on you !! Halloweens been on shelves for couple weeks. October Christmas starts !
You needed Richard to rein you in today. I love bunnies but I would not have bought the pink one at any price. And the doll ugh. I would wait for someone unless they were taking an inordinate amout of time and I was in a hurry. At that point I would ask them if I could go in. If the answer was no I would just move along.
I never go into a space or booth if someone is already looking, I will come back to it, or look at the space adjacent to it. 😊