The TikTok Star Who Killed His Wife -Case of Ali Abulaban
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“I lost the love of my life”
What a selfish narcissist. His wife is dead and instead of thinking about how SHE lost HER life, he’s just thinking about himself.
Yeah and a child lost Both her parents poor kids is a real victim after her poor mom
Honestly Anna chose WRONG and women need to be more careful when choosing a partner choosing out of emotional attachment alone is the worst this needs to be a proper partnership and the environment needs to be protected and safe for children BEFORE you bring a new life to the world. Both Anna and Ali are at fault for their failure to put their child first. they failed and they payed for it because God wanted better for their daughter. It’s the will of God in the end of the day and there are many lessons to learn here so glad this became viral that being said there’s misogynistic comments from men who focus on her deserving it but not him committing the ultimate sin, sadly this is the world we live in - learn edit apply edit then forward the knowledge learned to someone else who might need it, simplest purpose a human has. Being selfish is never the way .
@@ChefNourhanI...I don't have the mental energy to address how wrong you are. Can someone do it for me and tag me? Thnx, bestie💕
@@ChefNourhanno way you blame a woman for choosing this man
@@winniethepooht5776 would but I’ve got a full day work shift in several hours and am watching this instead of sleeping 😅
I’m replying so I can return to this clusterf* and either someone else would have managed, or else I’ll have to untangle the nonsense by BujiBites up there.
I remember when this all came out, I saw _so many_ comments from men saying she deserved it because she "cheated" on him, and when I told them they were in the middle of divorce because he abused her, they said she was "dramatic" and "gave up" on their relationship.
Disgusting.
A marriage is a ship that can only be sailed when two people are working together. Sounds like those people expected her to do all the work, bear all the abuse, and make all the sacrifices for him.
Pls this men☕️ make me sick. These are who follow andrew tate🍌😭 real trash.
Wow. Even if they were still together and she cheated, how tf does this justify murder…
@@vergils_plastic_chairSo true, it’s disgusting how some men argued about this…..
@@vergils_plastic_chair honestly I've seen so many men on youtube who've said similiar things in the comments. If you she cheats "she deserves what's coming to her" but when men cheat there's nothing wrong with it even if they have a few side chick's and baby mamas. It's madness
It’s so sickening that people keep saying she cheated. She filed for divorce, she kicked him out the house. She ended the relationship. They were separated. She did not cheat. He killed her, took the daughter’s mother away and ruined his own life. The hate for women is so backwards and it makes me want to never get married
Don’t forget murdered another man as well
He’s muslim so what do you expect?
I won’t get married for this very reason men want me to follow them I don’t want to I want to do my own thing but it’s annoying and I don’t want my boyfriend following everything I do also
@@mariahconklin4150exactly seeing husbands killing their wives all over the news really scares me and it really proves that you never know who someone really is.
Not all relationships are like that though. Men and women are made to be together and when there is healthy balanced masculinity and femininity, then beautiful balance and blooming growth happens. There are many elements of society that contribute to these very ill men and women that make us disenchanted with love on both sides. God guided love remains to be real and wonderful.
The fact that he was dishonorably discharged says a LOT! Believe it or not, it’s kind of hard to be dishonorably discharged from the military and the army. That’s one big ass red flag!!!
My brother got an “unclassified discharge” - he picked up his bed and threw it at his commanding officer 😬
(He was trying to get kicked out because our mother was diagnosed with a terminal illness)
@@mandypdx yeah, it’s kind of hard to get a complete Dishonorable discharge.
@@mandypdx suuuure
I met somone that got discharged for failing a drug test for PCP a couple days after taking extacy. Seems pretty petty. Especailly since robotussin is legal and at least back then would fail a PCP test.
And those ears 👂
I love that “ if men can’t control their emotions, we need to put them into day care institutions “
Yeah, I love the irony in that statement.
Considering it's the justification they've been using to restrict our rights to vote, own property, open our own bank accounts, work outside the home, gain custody of our own children, have autonomy over our own bodies, jail us in mental institutions etc. It just highlights the absurdity
also whyis it that society expects women to pamper men like that? like what
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@@yasminxx9329like we shouldn't have to deal with stuff like this and the way some boys agree with what he did because she "cheated" is crazy 😂 they think it's ok to murder because someone cheats CRazyyy out here 💀
@@mommyissue I know it's just mind baffling to me
I hate how he keeps calling her “his”wife. They were in the middle of a divorce bcuz HE abused HER. He is 100% the type of man to drag out a divorce just to make her suffer. He abused her, murdered her, and he still has the nerve to blame her for everything. A narcissist if I’ve ever seen one.
Also does it matter if they were divorcing or not? He was literally abusing her. She has every right to find another lover.
Well she wasn't his ex wife yet, why call her anything eles? A victim but still his wife and this was malignant domestic abuse
@@justinejustice_league1857they were in the process of a divorce, which is when most people come to terms with this and stop referring to each other as husband and wife. He didn't come to terms with this, was still possessive of her, and subsequently took total control of her life
@@justinejustice_league1857point is she didnt want to be his wife, and wouldnt want to be remembered as his wife. she was trying to leave him and he took her life for it. to then call her a title she didnt want after her passing is disrespectful to the wishes she had when she was alive. it traps her with him even after death
Most man who r insecure r narcissist so many of them r literally supporting this men, nd blaming the women for cheating
California state law says that if cops are dispatched for DV, it is MANDATORY to make an arrest. The fact that cops had been called several times and he was never charged with anything is absolutely infuriating. The cops broke the law by not arresting him, every single time. Fuck those cops that chose not to protect her.
Its Cause they were upper class
Smooth talkers get the cops on their side real quick, and after they do it once, every following time they up the ante. I recently saw a situation where, at the peak of the cycle, victim reaches out in desperation, and the cops reprimand them and tell them maybe they shouldn't "poke the bear" and that they need to just calm down, it takes two to tango, blah blah blah, it's always something and even with broken windows they'll say "well, you say he did it but he says you did it" and they basically get threatened and abandoned in their most desperate moment. A little piece of them dies each time, and they become less and less likely to even call the cops at all. Before you mention protection orders, you basically can't get one without video evidence, witness testimonies, hospital records, phone records, and if I keep listing it'll turn into a tasteless joke
Narcissism is becoming increasingly common in our society. He’s a narcissist. His ex wife moved on with her life. He felt salty about it (he received a ‘narcissistic injury’), so he decided to kill her. I’ve heard this story told over-and-over again since birth. Different faces, same MO.
no it is not. stop diagnosing people with NPD. you are not a doctor.
I believe narcissism has always been just as common, it's just that we have access to more people's lives nowadays to see it more. I think we just have a different breed now. Ickkkk
They're getting their supply from all new sources (online) or more accurately the widespread popularity of online fame is now available to more narcissists. We're also more aware of these parasites in our midst. @@chrissyp111
@@chrissyp111I agree with you. Narcissists have more resources now to be seen and known to the general public. So it seems like they’re more prevalent, whereas knowledge of them is all that’s more prevalent.
@@chrissyp111 I feel like it's gotten worse now because people have gotten so comfortable showing their whole asses through the protection of a screen and eventually real life.
I feel so bad for their daughter. The day that he did, this was the day that she lost both of her parents.
Yes, so heartbreaking for her. I pray she is safe with family- or a new family that can protect her and help heal her trauma that she'll be forever imprinted with. God knows what she witnessed that day, but it must've been horrific! That poor child. 😞😔
@@TheKatarinaGiselle there won’t be no new family she needs her mothers family which I’m sure she went to
@@Hell.0itsMe that isn't always an option. We don't know the situation, hence why I didn't make an assumption.
Just lost family and friends a lot of friends there even though the main side of her family doesn’t live in the country most likely, she will either be in CPS custody, or with all the friends of her that were capable of fostering her until either she went back to her families, or her family came here to get her
Ironically, it's better for the daughter to lose that kind of father. If she were to be raised by that sort of druggie unstable narcissistic father, she'd certainly be the receiving end of many forms of abuse.
A man’s hurt ego is dangerous… I wish there was harsher consequences for domestic violence 🙄
Yes, as women, we should also learn how not to or avoid hurting a man's ego... Not only does it damage the relationship, but it also affects our man emotionally.
@@rogue8903 oh I’m aware that there are plenty of women that purposely do things for a reaction, I’m also aware that woman can easily accuse a man of abuse with little to no evidence… but Im talking about in this case & cases I know of personally there should of been harsher consequences 👍
@@reena_sha Yeah, you're right about the heavier consequences he should have faced. Monsters like him should rot in jail for a lifetime.
@@rogue8903 100% 😔
@@rogue8903this is the absolute wrong video to comment this on please read the room
What is insane is that people truly think cheating is worthy of death..... get a divorce, break up, move on. For you to take someone else's life is truly demonic. Someone's mom, daughter, friend. You really can't trust anyone. He looks like a killer smh
Guys will all share cheat stories with each other in pride but their girl takes a phone call from some other guy and they become a victim with a required bloodlust
@@esskityy for real
She didn't cheat
@@user-zn7dg6qs9z i didn't watch it
The way he was spying on her tells you how sociopathic he is. Be aware, ladies, from any man who can't handle a woman telling him NO.
I’m so glad his mom stood up for her. I’ve seen so many woman in my very religious culture stand up for their abusive sons instead of helping the victim out. I’m glad that his mother told the truth to the court
religiouns or culture?
@@aishakhalif9375 some cultures can be religious based. So when I said a “religious culture” I meant it
Exactly. Islamic sexism needs to be abolished everywhere in every social and political system.
@@bloodymetalangel287
What !!!!!
@@bloodymetalangel287in what way is it sexist?
Why are some guys so obsessed about whether or not she had an affair?! A woman lost her life!! She was MURDERED!! Her having or not having an affair is not going to change that and it definitely won’t justify murder!!
right!! thank you, some of these people sound crazy 😭
Men kill for a number not given so.... Cheating, divorce or whatever... It is a real f/ING problem because there is someone dead at the end
Right. Their significant others need to beware.
It’s not even an affair they were divorcing she was DATING after ending a relationship
They're misogynists who would defend men over women, always. But they are trying to defame her to minimise what the abusive killer did, as if woman need to be the 'perfect victim' to be believed and protected.
It’s scary because she did everything “right.” She drew the line and left him just for him to end her life. It’s like there’s no escape. The police failed her horribly by not investigating further after the first dv call
This man is truly inhuman. I mean, I don’t think I’ve ever seen this level of narcissism in a person before. I am filled with pure joy that he will never live out his “dreams,” that he’ll never become an actor, and that he’ll rot in prison and be forgotten. He will suffer for this the rest of his miserable existence. RIP Ana.
For real after killing his ex wife and her friend
Him and Oj so stupid
as someone who taught 5 and 6 year old kids, they’re more aware of death and violence than you think
yeah- its quite terrifying
We really do underestimate kids sometimes, I feel so bad for her, no-one deserves that
Some of my core memories are about violent situations i was younger than 5 ...
@@lily.97 same. when i was younger my cousin and i were at a sleep over at my grandmas house. he went to the bathroom and my brother and i were playing. it was a little under a hour before we decided to check on him. my brother got some food while i went to check on him. i opened the door and saw him faced down in the toilet. i was 13 so i thought he was just joking with me but when i lifted his head on his face was calm with a nose bleed. turns out he had a diary and in it was about his plan to kill him self.
that's my most vivid memory
@@lily.97 me too. im 14 now. my mom mentally abused me and my dad physically and mentally abused me. my sister is 16 and my younger sister is 7.
my mom is still with him. he keeps trying to get her to get rid of the charges on him ( she never pressed full charges on him ) he is in anger management classes and lives right next door to her. ( i live with my aunt but i still have to see him since we have to do therapy. ) this video reminded me of him so much. she refuses to divorce him. i don't live with them right now but he constantly tries to get in contact with me to harass me through the phone.
the abuse started at around 6 or 7 for me. my most vivid memory of when it first started was him kicking my mom out the house and threatening to beat her or, shoot her. she never spoke up about it.
if you're ever in a situation where someone is like this, please speak up. when your friends try to help you please just accept the help. i'm out of the situation now and safe but please speak up about abuse and domestic violence. you wont regret it.
the interview is insane. he genuinely looks like he believes he’s in a movie. stephanie’s analysis of his body language is so good. i’m impressed.
he is just irrelevant pathetic piece of cringe
He really did but It’s hard to miss his distinctive body language at the time though lol
it's crazy... even though he's raging and his emotions are out of control, he still acts like he's in a skit. i think he's so obsessed with making videos and so used to putting on a show that he just can't help himself.
I love your thought process my god when u told DV VICTIMSto delete there call log right on point never seen a TH-camr do that
Thank you for being you
What a waste of a handsome face 😢😢😢
I had to pause it at around 35 minutes. The deportation and citizenship threat happens SO much in abusive relationships. I came here from another country and could only get out of my abusive marriage when I became a citizen because my ex husband would tell me if I told anyone he would deport me, and we have a child together, so I shut up and put up. There is help for vulnerable immigrants but it isn't spoken about enough and this issue needs SO much awareness.
My best friend was murdered in a murder suicide the same day as this murder. These cases are horrible and create heartache for so many people. I hope he gets life.
I am so sorry this happened 😢
I'm so sorry Bethany that you lost your best friend in that HORRIBLE way...😔
It’s so insane when people think cheating is reasonable grounds for murder.
It's sadly culture... Alot of my family and Friends Tell me that its ok to Hurt someone if they are a cheater. I can understand the pain but it's not ok to hurt another Human
@@n.m.3995But would they agree to that idea if it were a woman hurting their cheating husband ? In these kinda cultures it never goes both ways, it just an excuse to control and abuse women
@@Arithekiller That's correct! If a woman would hurt her husband, then the man is still the victim. because the poor man only follows his natural instincts and cannot resist the temptation 😂
@@n.m.3995 Well at least they admit that they're animals who shouldn't live in a society cause we women are too civilized to even be around them lmao
Thing is she wasn’t cheating. They were separating. But even then cheating isn’t an excuse to hurt someone. When my ex cheated and got another girl pregnant. Was a upset, hurt and angry? Yes of course. But I packed his things and made him leave my home for good. Just move on. If anything thinking of hurting a cheater is just embarrassing. Like they cheated and you hurting them is you letting them have control over you. But once again she wasn’t cheating. They were separating and she had every right to be with another person.
How was she cheating? She was in the process of getting a divorce? That's not cheating, she was done with him.
Fr, he’s disgusting
If you’re married but not legally separated, it’s still infidelity. If you get engaged or start a relationship publically then it can be used as evidence in divorce proceedings.
@@ladamalopez1840 did you not watch, they were literally separated
If you are in the process of getting a divorce, that means you are still married. Even if you are mentally and physically done with your spouse, have a little class and wait until your divorce is over. Get a bifarcation so you can legally be divorced while settling the assets and custody. At least then, you are not cheating.
Holy shit are u guys simple minded or something??? If someone is going through a divorce, the relationship is over and they can move on to other people. Even if it isn't finalized, they're getting a divorce for Christ sake, the relationship is gone, they don't owe their soon to be ex spouse anything
As someone who got out of an emotionally abusive long term relationship, people if you see red flags say something! It’s crazy how many people were like “yeah we saw some red flags but we didn’t want to say anything.” Especially if someone is being gas lighted like I was and slowly being isolated so I was only around people who thought he was sooo great. having honest feedback from friends and family can be helpful to combat that. Especially early in the game.
Yep. You are so right! If something is wrong, it's the right thing to speak up about it!!
Ikr, "Sorry, I don't want to hang with him, don't like his face. I'm not telling you to separate, just don't make us interact" is not am acusation but can still be a validation if something happens
This guy is definitely reminiscent of my ex-boyfriend. And you hit the nail on the head of DV victims not speaking up. I was very embarrassed about being abused and how my friends/family would see me.
Ana and I grew up in Okinawa together. It’s been difficult to read the terrible assumptions people who didn’t even know her were making behind their anonymity on the internet. Thank you for bringing light to this in a way that honors her. She was a fun person, a good friend, and a kind soul. She is very much missed.
I'm very sorry for your loss of Anna. She really sounds like a wonderful person to have known. In no way do I feel she did anything to deserve this. She was moving on with her life and finding support from her family and friends. I hope the ex gets life without the possibility of parole. That's a long time to keep remembering all the wrong he did. RIP Anna you are your daughter's guardian angel now. Condolences to Anna's family and friends, she really was beautiful inside and out. 🙏🙏🙏😢
I’m very sorry for your loss. And don’t listen to all the (mostly grooms boys) trying to assume and act like she didn’t deserve to be free form that terrible man. She didn’t deserve what happened to her and I wish her child the very best.
I’m sorry for your loss 😢
❤
Im soooo sorry for your loss💖💖💖💖
He didn’t care about his wife. He’s devastated he lost his life, his career, that he pushed away his wife and because he felt like she was his property; that was more important to him than her happiness. His ego and narcissism got the best of him and he became disgustingly unhinged and blamed everyone but his own self.
That interview of him was seriously scary to watch.
her happiness being cheating? srsly.
they are married before any fame, game or whatever that is.. i know cheating is not an excuse for murder but how come you all side with the cheater and pretend its all good.. see it from his perspective.. and mind you ignore all the “crazy” things he liked to be bcz that’s what the wife saw and still married him and still kept up with him.. if she was so much better than him she could leave him way sooner then why she stayed? also.. like i said murder is not reasonable at all but see it as (a possessive husband seeing his wife cheating on him) if this was a movie you all would side with the guy idc if it was mid-divorce couldnt she keep her legs tight together until they are done KNOWING how possessive and crazy her husband is?
@@somi4755I mean, as stated in the video, there is actually no evidence that they did cheat. Yeah, there is still a possibility, but he stated that what he heard on the ipad was them talking and giggling what send him into the ‘dont cheat on me spiral’. He at first denied that he killed them and then stated after that he saw them kissing on the couch. Cheating is definitely wrong if it was the case, but it’s not confirmed yet.
Also the comment is referring to her happiness in general, not happiness by cheating.
So I definitely completely understand your point, but let’s first wait until all evidence is confirmed!
@@somi4755Youre just blaming her while saying others are being unfair by not blaming her. She doesnt need to keep her legs closed for an abusive ex shes separated from and agreed on a divorce with. She would not feel unsafe because she was literally living in a different home from this psycho. Hes just too much of a fucking psycho and decided to find her and kill her because he was spying on her talking with a guy. Remember, all she was caught doing was talking with a guy in HER home. And he killed her over that. Like, literally primitive ape behavior.
Dont give me the bullshit that Id defend him in a movie. Hes a fucking weirdo and the only ones whod defend him are the ones who dont see that someone cheating isnt an excuse to be an emotionally disregulated rampaging ape. What a weak man. And her ass didnt even cheat! He just couldnt even handle that she didnt want him anymore after all his bs.
@@somi4755 "if this was a movie" THIS IS REAL LIFE. the victim blaming is crazy, because you seriously think a divorce would've stopped him? when he had a goddamn ipad under her bed to spy on her during their separation? just stop lying, you *do* think cheating justifies murder. otherwise you wouldn't be in here typing a paragraph about how a murder and abuse victim should've "kept her legs tight together" when there is not even hard evidence that she cheated in the first place.
@@somi4755 I think lots of people get comfortable in relationships. People stay in abusing relationships in hopes people change. It’s also stated he cheated multiple times while they were together before they separated finally. We don’t know their inside life but also no one in their right mind expects their partner to kill them either. Murder still isn’t right whether he or she did something negative in the relationship. Murder is still murder. She probably finally sought comfort in another man and their friendship and that happens as well during separations. & if he was so good and valuable as a man to get anyone he also could have left as well and respected her in their decision in separating. People are grown ups and capable of making their own decisions. Murder is still wrong and in no means is it okay to murder anyone, harm anyone, put their hands on anyone just because they see fit to it.
This story actually relates so much because when I was about 24 my ''husband" started abusing me and even poisoned my boyfriend that I started dating 2 months after our divorce. He's in prison now and I'm 30 years old with 2 kids and a loving new husband🙏
Wow 2 days
@@institucijabakaprase5824 Divorces can take a looooong time. They don't mean that they started dating someone 2 days after they broke up, but 2 days after the actual divorce, which can take a year or more.
@@institucijabakaprase5824 I meant two months sorry😅there is no way i can date someone after only two days of divorce.
I hope you learned your lesson in staying away from these types of dudes. I'm sorry that that happened to you. Glad you're out of there.
Dude was cheating on her throughout the marriage somehow thought he was allowed to cheat and she had to stay faithful even after they seperate.
And people are dragging her name through the mud because she "might have cheated". I don't see very many pointing a finger at him. Double standards much
Exactly 💯. That's why she left. Plus the fact he was abusive
The whole attitude of "MY furniture, MY money, MY wife" gives me chills. My ex-fiance had the same mentality. He did some horrible things to me, but I got out. I feel awful for her, and everyone who wasn't so lucky. I hope that little girl is able to overcome this somehow.
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I feel you. He reminds me so much of my abusive ex. I too got out but it breaks my heart to those that haven’t been able to 😢🙏❤️🩹
5 months into dating, my ex was living with me, he was a hard core alcoholic. Well his breaking point, (I had many, i was trying to kick him out from the start) was when he called my pet snake "our" snake and I corrected him. It started a whole argument about how he thought everything was "ours". Meanwhile we had separate bedrooms, that's your bed, your TV, your xbox. But no no, I was such a terrible person for thinking we were separate people. Some people are truly crazy
i’m happy for u that u were able to leave!! i hope u always stay safe and happy!!
I'm so proud of you that must have been so hard, good for you girl! ❤️
I don't understand the "but she was cheating" thing. They were getting a divorce. Shes a single woman, it's not cheating. RIP to both victims. I hope that justice is served for them both.
hes middle eastern and that way of thinking is common. my dad is the exact same. to them “divorce” isnt a real thing.
@@maybe3631 This is true! A close friend of mine is half Arab and her father is the same. He abused his wife and after she divorced him he told her "This doesn't matter because in the eyes of Allah, you are still my wife!"
@amiyahep If they were all mutual friends then that means they were flirting and showed interest in each other before her and Ali got divorced. After the divorce it took no time for her to sleep with another man. Use your head dude
@@urayogurtmale use my head? You literally just made that up and acted like it was true lmao they were in the process of divorce and he went off his head because she was with another man in her apartment and KILLED them both. Stop trying to make it ok by saying she somehow deserved it. Use ur head dude!
Not to mention he would cheat on her more than once!
What an awful man. No remorse, no sadness, just "poor me" the whole way through. Absolutely selfish
"my whole life is destroyed" well whose fault is that hm? 🤨
My god. Having a kid that was 5 not that long ago, knowing what she understood then and could process, that little girl had to feel pain and heartbreak right away. What a monster !
I don't even know if she was able to understand that, but all I can imagine is how confusing and unbearable it must be for her.
I agree. It depends on the child, and how they were raised, their personality etc... my friends son is 5 and he absolutely understands things like that. Once she was talking about her ex (the sons own father) and we used a completely different name, so she coukd tell me something "mark or Bob etc" said without her son hearing her talking about his father. Immediately the kid says,' are you talking about dad?' (She said, no, a friend, named Mark ) Another time a chicken wound up getting hurt, and I rushed in the house. My friend and her kid were there and seeing the state the bird was in, her son said "She looks hurt really really bad! Is she going to die?" I said I don't know...and he said "did a big animal try to take her away into the woods and that's why she's bleeding?" No one ever told him about foxes, raccoons etc snatching chickens. He deduced on his own, the hurt bird and her wounds being severe enough she could die, as well as what coukd have caused this. As another chicken couldnt, none of the dogs hurt birds, no person would either- so he deduced on his own, it must be some unknown animal that tried to take the bird. Childrens' brain absorb everything like a sponge until they are about 7. Some children may use that info, some may not, but if they see or hear something at that age, it's being recorded. They also gain reasoning skills at this age. I know if this situation happened with my friends son, he would absolutely be able to deduce what the father was saying to his mother on the phone. I can just see it- he would have the understanding....and would start crying. Because he would know what it meant.
@@pegasusgenesis360 Thats horrible! I'm sorry your friend's son had to experience that aftermath of that fox attack. 😧
@@renanel8915she's 5 not a new born
@@purplelove3666 I know.
Women if a guy even jokingly says he’ll kill another guy for being near you or anything like that, get away from him.
I would lowkey find that hot
i thought many guys make that sort of jokes
No one says that
@@sakatadgintoki6046 yes they do. Just because you never heard it doesn't mean it doesn't happen.
It's not normal! It's at least sllightly a red flag
My heart goes out to anyone dealing with DV. I pray that these beautiful men and women find the strength to leave and to see their worth 😢
Ali is my step cousin, i was heartbroken when i found out what he'd done. I hope he gets the book thrown at him, Ana was such a sweet person. I'm frustrated his case keeps getting pushed back
Imagine their daughter will grow up and have access to all the recordings and see how unhinged her dad was
She'll need therapy.
I work at a strip club and this dude came in 3 days before he did this. I remember him specifically because I had just started recently and he was the rudest dude I had met there so far. He demanded to talk to my manager and be given special treatment because he was "famous" when the news came out we were all shocked and saddened but I honestly was not surprised. Shakes me to my core to know I came face to face with a murderer. So sad for the victims families.
What a disgusting man
I am disgusted by this double standard. She was 'supposed to' stay away from men during the divorce, but he can go and visit stripclubs and that's okay?
@sydneypaul878 I am not judging your work, just the double standard mindset of the murderer.
@@FabeFangsikr
this adds a whole other narrative to it. If he was visiting strip clubs he has no right being angry over her with a man
there's something surreal about following someone on tiktok, and then years later, when you think they just fell off, you find out they committed a horrific crime.
He has such a narcissistic attitude. My ex-husband was like that. He believed he was right, and everyone else was wrong. He'd manipulate my emotions and my head to force me to believe him. He opened up insecurities I never knew I had, to make me believe that I needed him and he was the most important above all. It's literally emotional and mental abuse. Having kids made me realize that the relationship was not just going to negatively effect me, but also my kids... and I didn't want that. I finally had the courage to leave for a better life for my kids. My kids are my saving grace.
It haunts me to think how close she was to freedom and living life to her full potential. She could have been an excellent mother, professional, friend and partner. All of that was prematurely robbed from her by an abusive manchild.
Exactly. Manchild. He's messed in the head. I can't believe how egotistical he is, delusional, and such a narcissistic person. He needs mental help. I hope he rots in jail and never get pardon.
agreed, even if its considered cheating she dosent deserve to die, and he was only thinking about himself, not HER child. or her
@@mhiadollxx8888
“Then he heard his worst nightmare…R&B music” 🙈
😂 💀
R. Kelly
Nice catch 🦋
I can’t! That means only one thing 😏
@@BarkingForBroccoliBG what song was it? I bet it was TP-2 or it seems like you're ready...
My friend's step-dad killed her mom then himself when she was 4. She was next door playing they heard everything. We're in our 40's she's been in therapy her entire life she still has nightmares and PTSD. I imagine that little girl will have a rough time. I hope she is safe and whoever has custody is getting her help.
My now ex husband set up a camera on his nightstand while we were going through divorce (in the guest room, facing the stairs coming up to the hall)...I will never know why because HE was the cheater. Some people are just insane.
He was projecting.
Please tell me you divorced him
@@mxnna4895 Absolutely!!
He seems like a classic abuser and narcissist. Wanted her to be alone and isolated without any support and not go out and have fun and be with her friends. It sounds like he thought marrying Ana meant that he'd own her and her life. So disgusting. RIP to the victims.
For real. Have no rights as
Woman or human being.
@@manal9514There is no proof that she went clubbing often, or even that she cheated on him. We have only his words, the words of a cold-blooded killer who bugged his wife's apartment like a madman and then tried to lie about everything that happened. I don't think for a second she did anything wrong. She didn't drive him crazy, he is simply evil and a truly shitty person. He can rot in prison forever.
@manal9514 I hope after marriage your partner don't let you go anywhere without him and demand you change yourself how he or she wants you to be even if before marriage he or she didn't have any problem.
Of course this channel thinks women are good and can do no wrong. This is a one sided story
You scatter brain far too much and you say some outrageous things some times..
I can't anymore with this channel tbh..
Enjoy tho your style isn't for everyone I guess..
Rest in peace Ana and every woman who lost her life due to domestic violence. 💔
Men lose their lives to domestic violence too. 😢
@@crackpiemilkbar2889 she’s talking about women right now though. Why do y’all do this? The conversation is about women but y’all feel that both have to be mentioned every single time. That’s so weird.
@@crackpiemilkbar2889yeah no fucking shit but this video is about a woman
@@tenwaystowearit Why discriminate against some people? It's so weird.
@@crackpiemilkbar2889no ones talking about men right now mate, were talking about woman, a particular woman so leave men out of it. the woman was the VICTIM here not the man, obviously men go through it as well but we are not talking about a MAN being the VICTIM.
CLASSIC narcissistic controlling broken ego breakdown!
Such a beautiful woman, inside and out. 😢
I hope he rots in jail. I dated a narcissist and can tell that he definitely is one. Can’t believe people blame the women. Those people should be in such a relationship and feel how it’s like before they say something so cruel
I sympathize with you and your journey. It's a living nightmare, drains so much time and vitality; unstitches your life.
I love watching Stephanie and her husband break these down. I feel like it’s my one stop shop to understanding these cases and I’m just really grateful for all the clear information and great delivery.
Her HUSBAND love to read it 🐼🥭 🥹❤️
@@sinengambu83 not yet but soon so might as well start using the title 😅
@@stresswars that’s pretty weird tbh.
Think of it like this:
You don’t even refer to your partner as wife/husband/true love/love of your life.
But strangers do that….
And not out of some sort of mistake.
But intentionally doing so.
Yeah, if you didn’t know they weren’t married but you just assumed they were, that’d make sense/be fine.
Also, no. Not “might as well.”
What if something happens before they tie the knot? They break up/end thd relationship before getting married.
You’re being selfish by putting pressure on them. You’re being disrespectful for calling them something which they are not.
And you know better, but you choose to act this way anyways.
Imagine if they break up, and now see all these comments.
Or, I’d one of them is having doubts. But because of people like you, they feel pressured to go through with it.
@@stresswars I don’t think you’re being nefarious, or intentionally rude.
I just don’t think you realized the implications of your actions. Which is completely acceptable, if you correct them after learning that you were in the wrong.
Yes, it’s nice to be optimistic. But be aware, divorce and engagements ending days and even hours before officially getting married are happening at an exponential rate.
And it’s easy to say “well, my comment should pressure anyone.”
But humans are social creatures. Even if it’s extremely insignificant, we impact each other.
And then it’s not just you specifically. But it’s everyone else going “oh might as well.”
I hope I didn’t hurt your feelings, or made you feel bad. That wasn’t my intent. As I do believe you’re coming from a good place, but as they say in many different languages and cultures:
The roadway to hell, is built upon good intentions.
Lol, thanks for saying it's her husband/fiancé! I'm new to her channel, so I always wondered who's the person that's talking at the other end. 🫂😌
Why is a mans worst fear always their woman cheating? Mine is a man doing something like this to me.
Maybe bc that's the worst that usually happens statistically. It would've been nice if cheating was also women's biggest concern
Because it's a fact. 40% of parental DNA testing in the USA proved the fathers weren't the real father
Stanford statistical research from 2016 to 2020, 360 thousand spouses across 49 states, says 87% of spouses cheated on the first year of their relationship.
To admire the numbers, go out of your house and count 10 houses, including yours, at least 8, and almost 9 of these families cheated. So... . Something very wrong out there
@@draugn5823 Yeah, if getting murdered by one’s husband weren’t so common, women could push worrying about him cheating could be bumped to the top worrying category.
The weird thing is its even the worst fear for men that routinely cheat on their spouse. The hypocrisy is wild.
Lol men statistically cheat more than women. Also the woman in this case was not even cheating. They were literally separated.
Honestly I feel so bad for that kid. Losing both your parents at age 5, that honestly sound horrific
A minute in and I’m so glad I’ve never seen this man before in my life
The comments I’m seeing about this case on TikTok are so terrifying. How can do many people believe that someone deserves to die for leaving the person that abused them?
I agree. Even if she was cheating, which is not likely, This is not an excuse for murder.
it's just how you're average TikTok user acts. That app Literally filled with disgusting people.
im in an abusive relationship and one time i went in a comments section for help… that was the worse decision i couldve made. every person that replied to me told me it was my fault and when i would explain to them how im not at fault, they would make up another reason that its my fault that im being abused. or they would tell me “why dont you just leave😂” the internet is a horrible place, i really dont know what to do right now and only ONE reply to my comment was a nice one:/
@@mommy.Phope you are in a better place now 🙏❤️
@@mommy.P can u tell anyone close too u and get help to leave quitly with him knowing where u are ? I hope u can get the help u need, ur strong and can do it and don’t deserve any abuse . I hope u are in a better place ❤
Can we all appreciate not only just the links to domestic violence resources but the genuine care Stephanie puts into informing viewers and treating victims with respect and care
just a question, do you know why she said to clear your browser and call log after reaching out to a hotline ? 4:58
@@loooooooo8 I personally think it's due to the possibility that the abuser could see the call logs or website visits which could anger them more and escalate to more violence.
@@loooooooo8 I think it’s probably because when you’re in an abusive relationship and your partner finds out about you calling a hotline or checking a DV website, they could potentially become more violent, so it’s better to clear your history and your call log so that they don’t find out.
@@loooooooo8seriously? That’s a common sense question…
@@Laughingatyouu absolutely amazing to shame someone
As a child who was born into a family in which father abused mother, I didn't understand exactly what was going on when he was hitting her but I was really scared and worried. And the night in which he nearly killed her I thank my neighbours for calling police. I didn't realize how bad it was at that time since I was 5 but now that I am 16 I needed therapy for this. So when she grows up she will remember. She will.
Idk how I’m just discovering this channel but I love how captivating your story telling is!!! And you bring honor to the victims!!!
a huge problem with many men is that they view their gfs / wives as their 'property' .. these particular type of men have deep rooted self esteem issues such as this Ali individual .. in this case resulting in a sad and horribly tragic event
Definitely. Women are not seen as people. We're like a 2nd or 3rd class citizen. We're seen as objects and something to obtain. I also believe these manchilds do not know how to love or how to cherish someone. They believe they can act anyway they want and that person should stay
@@Kayla-kd8ovsadly, you’re 100% right. :(
“Many Men” speak for yourself you filthy animal.
What country do you live in? I’m so sorry, I’ve never felt that way
The way men see the abuse of women as so minimal is concerning. I remember a few years ago there was a viral post about this man who tortured and then unalived his girlfriend for a week all bc she cheated. Yes that sucks for him, but this is not an action that validates the horrors he committed. And all the comments were men saying slurs about the woman’s DJ saying she deserved it. Unhingeeeddd
You mean some men.
If they meant “some men” they would have said it. Misogyny and sexism are pervasive throughout multiple cultures and even so called feminist men often do, say, or think sexist or misogynistic things. And there aren’t convenient warning labels as to which men are safe. Any man is a potential danger until he proves otherwise.
@@natalievu4399 i understand the "not all men" comments when someone is talking about abuse (they piss me off but i understand them), but I do not understand how you are saying this here. ALL men see abuse towards women as minimal damage because ALL men are at least a little bit misogynistic. You are delusional if you think the men in your life would protect you from abuse as readily as they would protect their male acquaintances from an accusation.
Please stop saying “unalive “ it takes away all of the seriousness of the words MURDERED and KILLED. Thank you 🙏
@@maevemaiden no it doesn’t and they have to say it that way so the videos don’t get buried or deleted by TH-cam. Take it up with YT and not creators who get punished for saying those words.
I really have found my favorite True Crime podcast. Been watching your videos all week! I love that you give a sweet message with your trigger warnings, with words of encouragement. I love how in depth you go into these cases for us true crime nerds 🤓 ❤️ keep up the amazing work you guys.
Oh Lord, this Ali guy reminds me so much of my ex. Someone who would always blame others over his own faults, constantly gaslighting people, and never being able to see others happy. Just toxic overall 😢
I've never heard of Ali before listening to this story, so I guess you're not that famous, man 🤷🏻 he doesn't even deserve being in jail, where he'd be fed three times a day and get adequate medical attention
May Ana and Rayburn find peace in heaven 🕊️ and I hope her daughter can overcome her trauma :'(
We need to take the option of Ana "cheating" off the list. Bcuz even if she was having full-blown intercourse with the friend, it would NOT be cheating bcuz she was not with Ali anymore. He was moved out, and they were getting divorced. I hate that Ali's "supporters" are saying that they'd hate if they're wife did that to them too. They were broken up! She was only "his wife" via technicalities, formalities, and paperwork. And that paperwork was in the process of stating "divorced". So even if there had been proof that she had sëx w/that friend, nothing wrong with that.
Ali is from Palestine..
That alone is enough to know why he reacted the way he did.
I mean c'mon, I bet his "inner Palestine" came out everytime he held a gun.
@@Rexorazor Using this case as an excuse to be racist is disgusting, especially considering that their child, who is also a victim, is half Palestinian. I mean seriously wtf is wrong with you?
@@RexorazorI agree and was thinking the same.
@@RexorazorI agree and was thinking the same.
@@margottamarriemer5299if we go by Muslim grounds it’s actually impermissible to “honor” kill and has no grounds legally in shariah law, it’s very much linked to the culture of the area where honor killings were a thing before Abrahamic religions were even a thing, then with them it slowed down then after the fall of big empires and the new era of colonialism it went up. Again, very cultural sadly, still very bad and a lot are advocating and fighting every day to change it educating that it has no moral religious or humane grounds, but let’s stay historical. Ali is obviously a very manipulative, narcissistic man with toxic behavior and anger issues, and a poor woman fell victim may she Rest In Peace
I broke down in tears watching this. I didn't know Ana's dead. She's my classmate in one of my subjects. May she rest in peace. Such pure soul, she used to bring me lunch when i don't have any 😢
💔🕊️
I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I could've met her myself, she seems like a lovely person who was taken from this world too soon.
@@eve5226I’m so sorry for your loss :(
I'm so sorry your loss❤
Thank you so much for these videos. I really enjoy all the input you have and the advice you releay to your viewers about the help available if they are in a bad situation it's very much appreciated.❤
The fact that he had hundreds and millions of followers and not once did I come across his videos is hilarious to me😂...
I love that she said “clear it from your call log, clear it from your browser history” ❤❤
It’s so easy to forget the loose ends when reaching out for help in these types of situations!
I love that your husband hangs out behind the camera and asks questions and his general reactions are so great, it helps make this feel even more like just some friends hanging out and you're telling us about a true crime story you just learned about, plus I find it hard to tell stories without someone there to actually talk to, just talking to a camera feels weird and impersonal so I imagine its easier with him there😅
I find his "Wow" rather annoying
I was going to say the same, I feel like his reaction reflects mine ... and he asks questions that I would want to ask. More importantly, I think it is great that he supports Stephanie 100%.
wow
@@rahmi.digitalwow
👍❤️🙏
This guy's poor lawyer. She looks so embarrassed during his outbursts.
Sad story, horrific. But I love your videos and the thought put into each one in sharing these tragedies. Just showed my bf your channel and we watched a couple on the big screen together!
She wasn't even cheating cause they were getting divorced, he was kicked out, they were broken up, they were just waiting for the government to split their things up between them. She was already his ex
Technically it is still cheating if you aren't actually divorced yet.🤷♀️ But that guy was a psychopath so I get it.
@@Witchmeeno it was not technically cheating. She made herself clear that they were split up and over. The government can't decide whether or not someone cheats
@@Witchmee Legally they were married, but the relationship itself was over. Cant cheat if youre not in a relationship 😁
@@Witchmee I disagree with your statement. Their relationship was definitely over and they were just waiting on the legalities to catch up. The Justice system sometimes takes longer than we are comfortable with. That shouldn't keep us in an abusive situation or even keep us with someone longer than we want to be. He understood that the relationship was over. He's just using her "cheating" as an excuse for his crime. I've known many abusive men and women and, whether it happened or not, they would tell people their partner was cheating. It seems that abusers expect that an acceptable way to justify the abuse.
@@chelelee6321 I'm not saying she has to live with him. But she definitely shouldn't go looking for a new guy without actually being divorced. I mean look at it, she wasn't the only one who was killed, she got that random guy killed along with her. If your husband still has the keys to your house, maybe don't be looking for new guys.
My heart goes out to that little girl. She'll have to grow up without her mother, who obviously doted on her, and she'll never be able to forget that it was her father who took that lovely woman's life.
Great channel, Rotten Mango. Always compassionate coverage.
Love the amount of detail & content u put in! Love TH-camrs who really draw u into their content 🦾🦾
I remember when this happened. The comments on her tiktok were obscene. So, so, so many men believe what he did was justifiable. He did nothing but cheat on her, yet she had a male in the house & it’s ok he kills her? I was fighting in her comments for days arguing with these morons.
That's actually so sad to read and know there were people/men primarily, I'm assuming that justified that man's actions. It makes sense why so many of my friends are still single because a good man is hard to find.
@@s.k.1603 100% most men do not value or care about women as anything more than objects.
He also killed the man. He killed two people and men still put the blame on the dead woman who moved this crazy bastard Out but he was spying on her.
So glad you were doing that. I’m a friend of Louie his cousin. He cheated on her a lot!’during the entire marriage and allegedly with some transgender women too. They were completely in a separation and he encouraged her and insisted she stay in their condo while he’d stay at a hotel. He only did that knowing he was gonna make a copy of the key. Complete narc and I was once invited out to hang out with him. Glad I never went.
This kinda shows that marriage is still very much used as ownership over women
he reminds me of my friend’s ex, who stalked her for like 2 years after they broke up. it was always about how she was hurting him by not staying, when he had beat her, cheated on her, and gaslit her throughout their entire relationship. she was so brave to leave him. not everyone is as lucky to be able to escape.
I’m being stalked and harassed right now by my former abuser who loves to play victim and try to garner sympathy about how I’m so wicked for leaving after being beaten, burned, starved, isolated, and forced to ingest soap. Whether it’s a romantic/intimate partner, a friend or family, this shit is terrifying and you’re right, some of us don’t make it.
you are SO good at keeping the story interesting i love u
Love your insightful news.
She couldn’t have possibly cheated because THEY WERE SEPARATED!!! Classic abusive narcissist. He saw her as property. Nobody could have her except him…
that's exactly what i think!!
Lol seperated does not mean divorced. So it is still adultery in the eyes of God. But he is a pos for taking her life. Just move on.
ig though not really cheating since they were on the brink of divorce they both knew about
@@SUBZEROUKSNo God.
@@rossothecrimson7 your blasphemy will not go unpunished.
I live in San Diego. Thanks for telling this story. So crazy! One of the reasons why I remain single. Hard to trust people these days and sadly they end up being murderers.
Being attracted to men is a curse c,:
when i validly state why i don’t willy nillyingly meet up with guys from dating apps and they act like i’m too paranoid and i watch too much true crime.. 🚩🏃♀️🏃♀️
@@twothousandandchew In 2021, 34% of all female victims of murder were killed by an intimate partner. So no, you’re not paranoid at all!
I wish I knew about
covert Narcissistic patterns before,
I married with my ex-husband who violently abused me from my pregnancy till my daughter became four years old and we escaped.
Yeah, ie.
Chris Watts' case
@@WHEREYHERE hey girl…as someone who has also survived a relationship with a covert narc- I just wanted to reach out and send you some support. You are an amazing mom for taking your bb girl and running for the hills. I know for a fact that you have suffered greatly. You should have never been made to endure that abuse. You made it to hell and back, and lived to talk about it. I hope you are healing and living your best life. You and your daughter deserve that much💙
Omg Rotten Mango, I just stumbled on your content. You’re such a good storyteller. I just get immersed into your videos. Love it. New subbie
I am sorry Stephanie! I have to skip the ads everytime coz I can't wait how the story unfolds. I really love how you tell the story. It's as if I am watching a movie.
As someone who lived with domestic abuse, it’s very embarrassing and hard coming forward about domestic abuse. We are the best actresses because no one knows what’s going on behind closed doors. We hide it because we are so afraid of what our abusers are capable of doing. The things that are threatened , you wouldn’t believe. Taking our kids, killing our kids, killing our parents, cutting our parents up and sending the pieces to us, I’ve had that and worse. So no one knows and the mind games and manipulations are unreal
I hope you're in a better spot now. 😢 And don't ever be embarrassed about it. It's not your fault.
@@pangkoulee7648 I am I a better place now, thank you. The worst part now is being alone, because it’s so hard to trust and feel safe enough to trust that you spend most of your time alone now. I feel safer now alone, than with someone and it hurts to be alone because people aren’t meant to be alone. It’s a vicious cycle. Lots of therapy and counselling. People think that you should be over it in a couple years but I will spend the rest of my life battling the PTSD, depression and anxiety from the years of mental, emotional, physical, and sexual abuse. When you are conditioned over the years to believe you are nothing and that you aren’t worth shit. You question why you were ever born, when he speaks to you he has you wondering if you are losing your mind, if your going crazy. Did you say that? Or didn’t you? Your going crazy right? Your nuts? He has you questioning your sanity? Wondering should you kill yourself? Would it be better for the world if you would just put yourself out of your misery? Just do it cause your making everyone’s lives miserable! You are destroying everyone’s lives, I’m the problem, I’m the screw up. The only way to fix anything is for to get rid of me. That’s how they make you think. He had me, still had me sometimes wondering why? I still fight most days wondering why, because I’m alone and I wonder why? Will anyone every want me? Love me?
@@melodybudden6245 So glad you got out safely and ALIVE!!! Thank you for sharing your experience and story with all of us. ITS NEVER, EVER YOUR FAULT!
There is always help and support waiting for you. Free of charge. They will always help you to escape, no matter the situation, or how hard. You must, plan, plan, and plan some more, to escape safely. It. Will get better. It’s a long road,and it’s totally worth the risk. Because you are 100% worth it. 100% of the time.
Never let them put you in a mindset, that you are “worthless” and no one cares. Because.DV abusers always use those lies, to manipulate and control, their victims. But strong survivors will always persevere. And take their control back. Where it belongs. In their hands.
They are the insecure, out of control, Loser, Abuser,big bully and unstable control freaks. They are NEVER the victims. They need victims and validations to cope In their disgusting, pathetic little minds.
NEVER give up on your freedom or control. Or They will always win, if they take it from you. Control is their fuel. Without it they can’t operate. (Which is why you need to make sure their tank is always running on empty.)
Never go against your gut. Your gut always leads you in the right direction. 8/10 times. Always trust and believe your friends and family. They are on the outside of your relationship. They can see what you cannot. As I was. Never push them away, or allow your partner to convince you to do so. They always have your best intentions at heart. Being put in isolation, is there ultimate goal. In order to fully control, they need you isolated, and away from support.
I know, my daughter was in one. We fought for 3 long years to get her out. And we did. It’s still very raw to her. But she is healing, and slowly finding her old self again. Which he totally decimated and took away. It’s great to see that smile and personality returning. (God knows how much I missed it.) There is a man. A great one. Just waiting in the wings for you. When you’re ready to trust again, and be loved. Not controlled. But loved and adored. As it was meant to be. Good luck. Live, dream, and most of all be happy. That’s the best revenge medicine out there.
Stay safe ! 💜
More power to you ❤
@@vidya_iris thank tou
Stephanie makes true crime so interesting, I’ve never really been into it but her videos is a new type of addiction
Ikr, i would even watch my own murder case if she was the one who says it
@@Asuri754 true!!!
its all so gossepie almost makes you think is she even telling one word that's true, if these weren't documented she describes what people were thinking before and after they did something which is a bit cringy, i know shes trying to tell a story and make her brand slightly different in that regard but its a bit off putting
@@ohara. dont care I love the way she tells stories
I mean it’s kinda healthy to initially think true crime is not interesting but at the same time being curious about human nature is perfectly natural and Stephanie’s coverage is always empathetic immaculate and respectful as well as intriguing and attention grabbing
To Stephanie,
You are the best story teller ever !
I know you are not telling stories but describing reality. I think you are just the best. I also love your intro music, your theme music and video. You are simply the best, I feel compelled to listen and you have me hooked. Thank you
I so love your channel you telling the stories pulls me in
Reminder to those who may be too naive, you have a right to privacy in a relationship. If your partner is putting up cameras, listening devices, going through your phone, or in any other way invading your privacy, that is abuse. If they do it after breaking up, they are a stalker and you need to call the police. Don't let "love" be a reason people commit crimes against you. Trust me.
This is true for family too. These are HUGE red flags someone is, bare minimum, toxic and controlling if not outright abusive. RUN when you can.
Cases like this is why im so weary of the passport bros coming to the Philippines. Filipinas aren't submissive but we are patient and most of the time its taken advantage of by a few insecure foreign men who assume that we are easily controlled.
Dating a Pinoy now. She is submissive and i love it. But then again i dont have criminal records and dont get into bar brawls with a gun like a psycho. We treat eachother like we want to be treated and we fill our roles. Nothing wrong with a traditional relationship.
Interesting and refreshing perspective.
@@bartonnink3896dogs are submissive, not humans (yeah women are human, shocking i know). Gross
You don't have a criminal record? Good for you, but it sounds like you're protesting a bit too much.
or stop trying to come to the state by marrying an American citizen lol. stay in your own country.
@@bobbyma1822 tell that to passbros bragging how much easier it is to be with Filipinos than western women
What a great video. So informative. I’ve never heard of this case. I am disgusted by Ali. He needs serious help. Poor poor Anna. And her friend seemed like such an awesome guy. The good always die young. No one wins here. That little girl loses the worst. Poor baby. I’m at a loss of words about this one. I’ve been in more abusive relationships than I’d like to admit honestly. It’s so tough. But she finally left. Only for him to take her life. And this my friends is why women don’t leave. Because this is real!!! This happens!!! This is why we stay out of fear!!! Ugh. I pray anyone dealing with the same situation finds a way out. ❤❤❤
I love all the info for help with numbers and websites and then especially the tip to delete browser history and I love you for that. ❤❤ You have an amazing way of telling these stories and I love that you have so much empathy and compassion for the victims. I love that there is no judgement here about Anna. Love it and you!!
RIP Anna & Ray ❤😢
Imagine killing a couple that you’re not even involved with because you’re so caught up with yourself and your fame 😒 this dude is ridiculous.
I’ve been waiting so patiently for your coverage of this mindless case Stephanie. I was flabbergasted seeing and reading about this case. No doubt in my mind Ali Abulaban is typical abusive narcissist with no self control and zero sense of accountability for his actions, the way he kept asking the court for leniency and I quote because HIS life is ruined and the fact that he was found driving down the highway with his 5 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER and a LOADED GUN in the car, is enough evidence and reasoning to lock him up for the rest of his miserable existence. The audacity he had to cry about how his life was affected by the arrest and how he lost his wife ( whom he murdered and then his daughter like he did nothing wrong and bad things are just happening to him from thin air! Typical case of narcissistic personality disorder, The poor child who will grow up an orphan with the trauma of knowing her father killed her mother. Hope she finds peace of mind and heart in her future. Thank you so much Stephanie you are a warrior for covering so many powerful cases with such respect and compassion. Love you beautiful Ms. Mango 🥭❤️
@@Rloveslife She was drugged and drunk and had violent and jealous tendencies built from abuse that wasn’t dealt with in her youth she was definitely a narcissist as well another lesson to learn there for sure but THIS mf had a 5 year old child and it made absolutely no difference! Both cases are disgusting but this one in my opinion is without a shadow of doubt the worst example so far of what obsession with firearms , control, and fame can do to people especially those with clear narcissistic traits.
Steph l always look forward to these, you inspire me 😊thank you
@@riannedaemul Cute little mango I’m sure Steph is inspired by your sweet comments too 🥹💜🥭
Is his TikTok account still open ,I really want to see their interactions on daily basis and his falling from grace?!
@@Wooooohoooo940 I don’t think it’s him , someone is uploading on his behalf I think 💭
It's so sweet that she adds support to people in need in the beginning!!
I remember this case. He was a complete maniac and control freak. I feel for her daughter she lost both of her parents.
I recently left a obsessive and abusive relationship and after listening to this video I see so many similarities in Ali and my ex. It’s scary to think how if I didn’t leave that my circumstances could be similar to Anna’s. He definitely took advantage of her kindness and compassion. Praying for her family and her. May she rest in peace.
This man is insane. The way he speaks about what happened as if we would sympathize with him. As if we would think it was justified because he built the furniture? He's beyond help. He really thinks HE lost in this scenario? HE MURDERED HER.
Just discovered you.
You are sooo great!!!
He is the type that would say if I cant have you, no one else can. I feel bad for the little girl, I hope she is with the mom's family.
Femicide is huge in most to all West Asian cultures n families, I’m dealing with my own and my mom’s generational trauma due to it. Thank you so much for sharing this, please advocate for us and keep it up!!!
It's huge everywhere I think, even Stephanie mentioned a statistic about approximately half of women's deaths are at the hands of intimate partners or something like that. But idk if she was referring to America or worldwide.
Sorry if this comes across as minimising a geographically/culturally specific issue, that's the opposite of my intention. I want to express solidarity, since in eastern europe (where I'm from) it's also a pretty bad situation.
Unfortunately, most cultures are still extremely patriarchal and it's endangering our lives across the globe, even though we do so much to keep our societies and communities running.
@@teodorasavoiu4664 actually you are minimizing the extreme oppression placed on middle eastern women. Dose your society have “honor killings” that are sanctioned by the state? No? Then amplify our voices n don’t minimize it by saying “ iT hApPeNs EvERy wHeRE”
@@unefemme9260 she wasn’t middle eastern wasn’t she filipino?
@@Hell.0itsMe the murderer was Palestinian
@@Hell.0itsMeshe's talking about her piece of sh!t ex husband who's Arab and they tend to feel that they have the right to unalive people which in middle Eastern culture and religion is normalised and hourned
This is so sad, thank you for always being respectful and cautious when posting
thank you for also saying to delete your call history, too many victims have been so close to escaping and had something like that mess it all up!!
rewatching this coz i miss u so much...no other youtuber can make me happy like stephanie can 😢 i miss u guys
he looked so familiar to me and i couldn’t figure out why exactly until you played the npc videos. i remember watching those videos in a jenna marbles video and dying laughing. looking back, it’s incredibly chilling to think about.
Yeah
same. this is so awful, rest in peace to the beautiful anna
I was so shocked once I knew who he was ..