Loving to be Alone︱*gym, cabin chores, food shopping etc.

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    Moody, misty nights have arrived 🫶🏻. Grim and I are alone in our cabin enjoying the changing of the season and the gorgeous blue light that has returned. Today you are hanging out with us for a full day of Svalbard life as we go through a day in our lives. Thank you so much for being here, I appreciate you so much! 🙌🏻✨
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  • @CeciliaBlomdahl
    @CeciliaBlomdahl  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +227

    Thank you so much for being here and supporting my channel! ♡ 🔎👒 Download June's Journey for free here: woo.ga/h48nt4

    • @heatherclayton-callaghan4270
      @heatherclayton-callaghan4270 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Those energy drinks are so bad for your heart Cecilia ❤️ They truly give people heart attacks, please think seriously about drinking them. Your choice, i know, but armed with the knowledge that they could cause a heart attack or stroke at such a young age , I hope you will seriously consider the evil effects on your body sweet young lady. 🇦🇺✝️🤗💞🙏👍👌✌️👊👏

    • @debbeebrooks7852
      @debbeebrooks7852 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I was just thinking this morning that you've haven't done a June's Journey in like a year, LOL. Grims food dishes are beautiful. Hi from CALIFORNIA

    • @saraanderson6615
      @saraanderson6615 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I already play June’s on level 900+ and love the game. Love your videos. Groceries are going up it seems like every day here in the states. Now it’s just my son and I since my dad passed away so luckily grocery bill isn’t that much.

    • @stormbear7330
      @stormbear7330 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I adore getting cosy ready for our Swiss Winter, my favourite time of the year. Furry pillows, cosy blankets, twinkling lights, candles, hot chocolate, soups with crusty bread rolls, cheese fondu, the chilly air kissing my cheeks when I walk the dog, the calmness and quietness which takes over my small village. ⛄🌨❄🐕

    • @Breanna3206
      @Breanna3206 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      You two are such a refreshing couple. I absolutely love the dynamic you both share together.

  • @kellyhauber7891
    @kellyhauber7891 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +785

    You perfectly expressed the joy of being alone.

    • @errollleggo447
      @errollleggo447 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Agreed.

    • @neresq
      @neresq 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      100% agree.

    • @mariavillagrana3483
      @mariavillagrana3483 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      So very true❤

    • @nataliekelz1529
      @nataliekelz1529 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Completely agree too .. my exact words everytime I get the chance of my own company ✨🤗

    • @skyheart1495
      @skyheart1495 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It’s the best 🩵🌼🫶🏼

  • @CoffeeandDonuts0001
    @CoffeeandDonuts0001 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +419

    The joy of being alone with 3 coffees, monster drinks, and donuts, and no one there to judge you…happy Friday, Cecilia! Your channel brings me joy every Sunday 😊

    • @CeciliaBlomdahl
      @CeciliaBlomdahl  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      Hahah living the lifeeee 🤣🫶

    • @michellemichelle648
      @michellemichelle648 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      And Avocado! All the things that bring joy to my life

    • @codysagert5209
      @codysagert5209 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@CeciliaBlomdahl can you reply to my comment about your intros?

  • @mom-ys9sb
    @mom-ys9sb 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I was a single parent with four kids and loved every moment of it .... the freedom was wonderful, my relationship with my kids has been close always because there was no friction ... I never remarried and found myself to be a happier and a more calm person .... In my late 70's now and still happy !!

  • @MsAabbo
    @MsAabbo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +129

    I’ve been married to my wonderful husband for 26 years, and while we love spending time together, I completely understand and appreciate the enjoyment of alone time. I feel that these little recharges, in which I can enjoy my own time and activities, is healthy and necessary. Overall, it makes us enjoy our time together even more❤

  • @felicitaschofield252
    @felicitaschofield252 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +229

    Best video yet. I love how you embrace being alone. So many people hate to be alone, but you’re not lonely. Grim is a great companion while Kristofer is away. You’re videos are so calming and I so glad I get to have some alone time myself watching them each Sunday ❤. Enjoy yourself!

    • @AlisonRuthless
      @AlisonRuthless 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      "Calming" is a perfect way to describe it. That's exactly the way they feel.

    • @amandasommerville6327
      @amandasommerville6327 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You are so good at filming and editing Cecilia. Thank you for this video ❤😊

  • @amya8316
    @amya8316 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +114

    I’m 43 and have been single for the past 10 years. Quite frankly I don’t think I can picture a life in a relationship with someone who doesn’t also value alone time and time apart as I too enjoy time to myself and value my independence and freedom. I completely understand that mentality! We’re just a certain loner breed of people and the people we choose to let in must be something special 😉

    • @CeciliaBlomdahl
      @CeciliaBlomdahl  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Hahah 100% 🙌🫶

    • @Arianna-sl2hv
      @Arianna-sl2hv 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      I'm 62 ... totally alone for 20 years..... Love the peace.....

    • @user-goaway
      @user-goaway 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Arianna-sl2hvnow YOU give me hope!

    • @jennie9
      @jennie9 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I was in several relationships when I was younger and they were nice but I've been single for over 20 years and I love it. The freedom is part of it because I can do what I want when I want. However, I think the alone time is more important to me. I enjoy spending time with other people but I also enjoy spending a lot of time alone. I wouldn't get enough alone time if I was in a relationship, so I'm happy not being in one.

    • @ClaireNicole33
      @ClaireNicole33 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Amya i'm also 43 and feel exactly the same🧡🧡🧡

  • @michelleh.5090
    @michelleh.5090 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    I’ve been alone for all 46 years of my life and I love it for all the reasons you’ve mentioned. I’ve lived overseas, traveled around the world, bought a 5th wheel and drove it from TX to PEI in Canada, picked up and moved…and the list continues. Sure there’s moments I think, might be nice to travel this road with someone but overall I love my lifestyle and my aloneness. Granted I am 95% introvert so the 5% extrovert doesn’t speak up often. 😂🤣. Y’all’s cabin looked so cozy and I love the sight of snow as the promise winter is coming!

  • @marylyon1230
    @marylyon1230 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +87

    Wonderful vlog! Did you hear about the guy who was out walking his dog and saw a lady sitting in her yard talking to her cat? When he got home and settled down, he said to his dog, "can you believe she actually thought she was having a conversation with her cat?" 😊

    • @johnsoutherland3403
      @johnsoutherland3403 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      That's a cool joke

    • @jacquiandp-dog7755
      @jacquiandp-dog7755 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @mom-ys9sb
      @mom-ys9sb 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's really cute ! Thanks for sharing it !!

    • @BlackCatsandPumpkins
      @BlackCatsandPumpkins หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      But it's true. You think it could be strange if someone else does but when you do it it is something completely different. I always talked to my cats. They've passed over now and I still talk to them. I miss them every nano second of every day. Heart will always be broken.

  • @rebeccahorn5730
    @rebeccahorn5730 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +257

    Being born and raised in Minnesota you have given me a whole new joy and excitement in preparing for winter! I am so thankful for you and your channel. I have a new, reenergized excitement about getting cozy! I am thankful for you and Christoffer!

    • @Living_a_spoonie_life
      @Living_a_spoonie_life 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      That's so lovely. It's crazy how perspective can make such a difference.

    • @amyg.333
      @amyg.333 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Same. I’m in MN too! The darkness is starting… ✨🌝✨

    • @stormbear7330
      @stormbear7330 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I adore getting cosy for our Swiss Winter, my favourite time of the year.

    • @jacqueline-fc8wb
      @jacqueline-fc8wb 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Hi, Minnesota, I truly find Minnesota residents amazing. To be there in the winter, wow. Your got guts. I live in S.C.

    • @catwoman520
      @catwoman520 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Heck, I live in Georgia…my favorite season is late fall and winter. It used to be spring and summer…but the older I get…cozy is my vibe!

  • @kellz5135
    @kellz5135 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    My children flew the nest yesterday to go onto uni (twins) the silence is already deafening and I hate that this is what i need to get used too, as I was a single mum. Most of their life I'm so used to hectic.
    Thank you for showing me how lovely being alone can be. This evening I am going to cook myself a nice dinner, pamper myself and drink a nice tea and get ready for work tmrw.
    Have a blessed week all. Xx

  • @georgespencer3973
    @georgespencer3973 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    As a therapist once told me, “If you’re always together, you never have an opportunity to miss each other.” Alone time is good and healthy! You and Christoffer enjoy your time apart.

  • @Leamie19
    @Leamie19 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +150

    The hygge factor in this video is over 9000 ❤❤❤

    • @tshelby5212
      @tshelby5212 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hygge ?????

    • @Altearithe
      @Altearithe 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@tshelby5212 Hygge is essentially "a feeling of cozy contentment and well-being through enjoying the simple things in life."

    • @BlackCatsandPumpkins
      @BlackCatsandPumpkins หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Altearithe Like big cushions, soft blankets, and the only lights that are on are fairy lights and candles. And drinking an oat or almond drink hot chocolate and eating cinnamon rolls. Oh god. That is my happy time.

  • @astralsenkuu
    @astralsenkuu 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +113

    seeing you getting excited over friday coffees, donuts and sjm books made this whole video even more wholesome 😭🫶🏼

  • @BaileyBeats
    @BaileyBeats 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    "I think I'm gonna drink this coffee in bed" ❤❤❤ the vibe of the day

  • @jaxattax7357
    @jaxattax7357 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    i spent most of my 20s trying to find the love of my life that i would take any relationship just not to be alone. then after my 33rd bday i decided i was gonna think about myself first and everyone else after. i’ve been single for most of my thirties but i’ve had such a blast with myself with making new friends and with doing whatever i feel like. one day he’ll show up…or he won’t but i’m so happy with my life that only someone that’s going to making it better am i willing to accept. being alone is something that people forget is also important.

  • @trishaeverton9592
    @trishaeverton9592 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Girl, bachelors do what they want, eat what they want , and drink as much coffee as they want. Live it up!

  • @teresamoscatiello
    @teresamoscatiello 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Cecilia this is exactly why I love you and your channel. I want to see positive, happy, self reliant, independent women living life, has nothing to do with you being in Svalbard.❤ Your partner is away and you don’t freak out, you just live life calmly and happily and look forward to him coming home. My husband is starting a big new career tomorrow and I have been thinking about like what I will do with more spare time, so this was perfect!

  • @ngairewest8442
    @ngairewest8442 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    You pretty much described how I feel when I'm alone. I have been in a relationship for 28 years. I get so excited when my hubby goes away. I love being alone and I think it's healthy to have some alone time.

  • @tinahardy9361
    @tinahardy9361 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    There is a difference between being alone and being lonely. I have always enjoyed being alone. I would spend hours in the woods with my dog when I was young, 7,8,9. We lived out in the middle of nowhere, and we would just roam. Now I am 61, and I still like my alone time. Thank you for sharing. Stay safe and see you in the next one! Give Grim a lot of love from Oklahoma.❤

    • @Nostalgictravels-kt3is
      @Nostalgictravels-kt3is 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Absolutely, there's a profound distinction between being alone and feeling lonely. Your experiences of spending quality time in the woods with your faithful companion, especially during your childhood, sound incredibly meaningful and fulfilling.

  • @ellenhynes8393
    @ellenhynes8393 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's never an insult to the people you love, but there are those of us that enjoy the moments alone. Enjoy the quiet and the independence and the freedom to do things at your own pace. To have meals at whatever time or portion that appeals to you, to sleep in however long on days off when you want to. I love the people in my life but I'm not afraid of being in my own company. It doesn't mean I don't want them around, I love their company and the lovely chaos it brings, it just means that I'm not scared of the quiet and I find it a wonderful time to recharge.

  • @saarar
    @saarar 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Its truly a blessing to be able to enjoy being alone. So many people belittle it without realising how calming and freeing it can actually be, even just for a moment.

  • @AlexandraAndStuff
    @AlexandraAndStuff 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I am generally a total sun and summer lover, I get depressed when it's cold and dark outside, but Cecilia and her videos are able to make me feel a little bit better about it.
    I truly appreciate it, because winter is hell for me, and I live in Poland, we have many cold months here.

  • @happytobealivelulu1587
    @happytobealivelulu1587 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Glory to God to all his beautiful creations. Praise the Lord.

  • @amycampbell2264
    @amycampbell2264 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Im a nurse and watching u on my day off is sooooooo calm and relaxing

  • @susyholbrook8644
    @susyholbrook8644 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +88

    Cecilia, I'm old enough to be your grandma, but can relate to everything you portray in this video. I look forward to each new video every Sunday. I'm half Norwegian, and just returned from a weekend meeting a first cousin for the first time. She's also Norwegian. Our connection was fantastic! I told her about your videos and the beauty of Norway and Svalbard. We are both from the US. We'd love to see that part of the world! I'm getting a little off track. I've been on my own with my son for the past 15 years, and by myself for the last 9 years, when he graduated from high school, and I love living alone! I value my alone time and never feel lonely. If I feel a twinge of loneliness, I can always call a friend, play games on the computer or listen to music. I completely understand about not having to worry about another person's needs. Don't ever feel guilty for that feeling. You are so lucky you've discovered the secret at a young age. I truly hope to be able to come to Svalbard one day with my newly discovered cousin and look you up. I love the life you're living! Thank you so much for sharing it with all of us!

    • @tshelby5212
      @tshelby5212 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are clearly not from the US if your are Norwegian

    • @_rmel
      @_rmel 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think she's saying she has Norwegian heritage, obviously. @@tshelby5212

    • @TheCelestialhealer
      @TheCelestialhealer 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Beautiful❤

  • @MP-bx3uj
    @MP-bx3uj 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    Proud of Grim for his hallway behavior!

  • @jenniferbeck7984
    @jenniferbeck7984 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When my husband goes out of town I clean the apartment and watch tons of girl movies with wine and it is the best 😂 so totally feel you

  • @andreainfla898
    @andreainfla898 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    You could easily film an hour of just ambiance in your home. The view, lighting, and fireplace are amazing!

  • @deborahhobbs7664
    @deborahhobbs7664 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I was single into my 30's. Had kids mid 30's and haven't had much alone time since. Its an amazing feeling not to have to worry about someone else and I miss that freedom of mind and space. Enjoy your alone time.

  • @megandurkee4940
    @megandurkee4940 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Thank you for expressing how unique being alone is like. I love being alone, I love the joys of looking out for yourself. I also love getting to be with your own thoughts. Thank you for that.

  • @rose281396
    @rose281396 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I used to be 100% a summer girlie but now as I am about to hit mid 40’s I am now 100% a fall/winter girl for all the warm cozy hibernation vibes! It is so peaceful to me and I really just turn into my self and enjoy my quiet peaceful time

  • @Velouria2024
    @Velouria2024 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Most people cannot live such a life of leisure and most would never be able to have the kind of home you have on Svalbard. It’s a fantasy escape to watch your videos.

  • @epilz1978
    @epilz1978 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

    I am sizzling at 32° Celsius. Watching your video today was a relief. I am also so ready for autumn an winter and your cozy videos during polar night. ❤️

    • @schmup53
      @schmup53 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      42ºC here today. This video makes me feel cool.

    • @ryan-bq9ds
      @ryan-bq9ds 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It’s 107 degrees in Texas. You’re not sizing to say the least 😂

  • @KathyW5
    @KathyW5 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    When I still had kids at home I loved the solitude when they went off hunting for a week. It was like having a little vacation from everyone else's schedule, wants and needs. Now I live alone and I'm fine with it. I love being around my family, but I don't have to be with them all the time. This video made me feel cozy and warm.

  • @cassia1797
    @cassia1797 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I laughed out loud with your caffeine shenanigans! This is probably one of my favourite videos of all time. I really appreciate how you are not always talking in the videos- there are moments for us to just follow you along or watch and think about the scenery. Beautiful! Things for sharing.

  • @TheBennie102103
    @TheBennie102103 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    7:31 . . happiest dog in the world ❤

  • @milicaskenderovic1306
    @milicaskenderovic1306 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I absolutely share your thoughts! Being alone is AMAZING. I love my partner in a way I didn't even think was possible, but spending time on my own is always such a pleasure.

  • @NYDaughter1972
    @NYDaughter1972 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    At the age of 50, I aspire to be more like you. You are teaching me the joy of simply being alive. Love as always from the USA. ❤

  • @coryelton3356
    @coryelton3356 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think we have the same favourite word...........cozy!! While it's still a little warm here in Ontario, Canada, I know that fall is on it's way. And, with that, comes the first fire of the season, as I heat my little cottage with a wood stove. Warm fire, candles lit, good book or something good on TV, and treats............just cannot be better than that!!!

  • @0romanova
    @0romanova 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are my favorite creator, it always makes my Sundays seeing your uploads! My grandparents & I all hang out and drink wine while watching your videos on the weekend and my grandpa enjoyed your channel so much that he watched every single one of them from the last year. They're hooked now too (and don't quite understand how you want to live there LOL)! :)

  • @ladysparkymartin
    @ladysparkymartin 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Such a huge difference btw being alone and being lonely. I prefer being alone but am never lonely. Not everyone gets it, but you do! Lovely video. Thank you! 💃💐

  • @amylewis1857
    @amylewis1857 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Alone time is still SO so important in a relationship. I love how you represented it in this video. It’s not the want to be away from the other person, it’s the need to reset yourself and reground with those things that make you, you. I find peace in both togetherness and solitude.

  • @lavender_coffee
    @lavender_coffee 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your videos about your home life and alone/cozy time are so relaxing and therapeutic. It helps to ease my stress and anxiety. Thank you for making them and sharing your life on Svalbard.

  • @marendajudkins1262
    @marendajudkins1262 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Grim is the happiest dog in the world all the time 😊❤

  • @rinnyrindawg
    @rinnyrindawg 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    As someone who lives in Southern California I live vicariously through the seasons on your channel 😂

  • @TheOtherSteel
    @TheOtherSteel 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    It's Sunday! Time for Grim and those two humans that he loves! (Okay, only one human this episode.)
    I hope Olivia will be willing to show us her baby. (Like dogs and cats, I like babies.)

  • @cherlgolja5402
    @cherlgolja5402 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love being a widower! Don’t misunderstand me I loved my husband with all my heart ! But I have always been independent! I TREASURE my ONENESS!❤

  • @kimsan5572
    @kimsan5572 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    This has got to be one of my favorite videos of yours!!! I loved the "douche bag parking" comment 😂
    I loved the cozy vibes, the autumn colors, the rain, the talking to Grim, wood chopping...UGH I JUST LOVED IT ALL!

  • @tammygood253
    @tammygood253 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Being alone (not lonely) is wonderful! And I am SOOOOO looking forward to polar night!

  • @runlife195
    @runlife195 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Love my Sunday morning coffee ☕️ with Cecilia and Grim ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @deniseangers5980
    @deniseangers5980 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I can completely relate to you and your journey of being in solitude and comfortable in your own skin. It is such a blessing to be with a special person to share your experiences, but a wonderful, liberating feeling to enjoy your alone time, and all that it brings❤

  • @MagicLlama66
    @MagicLlama66 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m glad I am not the only woman who is comfortable being alone! However, I am a dedicated bachelorette now that I’m age 56, and prefer to be a bit reclusive. Love people (don’t get me wrong), but in small doses, LOL! I come and go as I please, have a lot of time for hobbies, learning new things, and running my businesses; now that my children are grown, being able to travel without worrying about coordinating work schedules between two people is great. Oh, and Hi Grim! Another great episode today, as usual. You bring joy to so many people, Cecilia, Christoffer, and Grim!

    • @MsAabbo
      @MsAabbo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Agreed on all counts! I think as we get older and wiser, we are more at peace with ourselves and don’t feel the need to do things or see people out of obligation. At 55, I am more happy and content than ever before❤

    • @MagicLlama66
      @MagicLlama66 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The independence is wonderful. You and I come from a time where we lived up to predefined roles as men and women. Subsequent generations do not live with those old expectations and I am so glad for them! I raised my daughters to fall in love, but to always be independent and a have the skills and temperament to be alone lest get caught up in a stereotypical life that they may not want. Relationships are partnerships, not co-dependencies. They way I see CC and Christoffer is as a partnership, but of course, I don’t dont know them personally, but that it how I imagine them to be. I was never able to find a partner that didn’t expect me to be the subservient one, which is not in my nature, and if I did, they were much younger than I, so love never worked out for me, and there is nothing wrong with that.

  • @everydaypresent444
    @everydaypresent444 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Thank you for another lovely day-in-your-life video, Cecelia. No, there is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to have a few days where you only have to think of yourself. When your dear Christoffer comes home, you will be happy to be together again because this time away gave you some needed time for reflection and relaxation.

  • @mademoisellecm1
    @mademoisellecm1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I really like the lighting choices around your home. They are so relaxing and inviting. I am also looking forward to the polar nights so that I can see the Northern Lights again. I truly want to see them in person before I pass on. Thank you for sharing parts of your lovely life with us.

  • @kayladavis4846
    @kayladavis4846 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The moment when you are contemplating getting another coffee is literally me everyday. There is no such thing as too much caffeine ☕❤‍🔥

  • @3388sdwyer
    @3388sdwyer 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My husband says you should make a Yule Log Video. 1 hour of your fireplace and Grim walking in and out. It would be so COZY!

  • @andrearenee7845
    @andrearenee7845 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love your positive outlook. Living on your island is not easy, but you all make it look so cozy, and joyful. Thank you for your wonderful story telling. Looks like snow is moving in very soon.

  • @sweigh72
    @sweigh72 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Aww Grimm being so chill whilst waiting for you brought me joy ❤

  • @carolinegreenwell9086
    @carolinegreenwell9086 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I also treasure my alone time. Not that I don't like other people, I enjoy their company, but alone time is when you can be yourself

  • @CousinAAE
    @CousinAAE 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I could stare out of those windows all day. You have one of the best locations in the world for enjoying nature without disturbance of the crazy world.

  • @debbiefondow7871
    @debbiefondow7871 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Such a beautiful, calming video, Cecilia. Love seeing the gorgeous landscape and change of seasons there and of course, sweet Grim. ❤❤

  • @BagznBirdz
    @BagznBirdz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I so get what you say about being single! It's brilliant in the sense that you can make decisions and change your life just like that, without having to consider anyone else.

  • @queencersei2644
    @queencersei2644 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The way your teaching Grim is called positive reenforcement and he his doing so well. As a professional dog trainer I think you are doing a great job.

  • @Annieriannie
    @Annieriannie 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am glad I am not the only person that really just likes being alone. I can be alone for a long time. Living together with my boyfriend, 2 cats and 2 bunnies. If he is gone with friends, I cozy up. I just thought about the fact that I did not see 1 single friend all summer and I am really chill and relaxed. It drains me to have appointments next to my job. I work in the city, and I am so glad when I ride my bike after work and getting closer to home, the nature around our house. Sometimes I think something is wrong with me 🦧 but I am doing much better having much me time. Currently on vacation in the Dolomites. Lots of nature and I am bummed to go back home. Other than missing my sweet animals at home, nothing is calling me to go back to the busy times at home. Nature is the best medicine.

  • @sarahfarrell8214
    @sarahfarrell8214 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Cecilia, it's so cozy there! You're amazing; you're like a viking the way you chopped that wood. It seriously is so beautiful there. I can understand why you're looking forward to Polar Nights. It must be amazing to see the Northern Lights! Thank you for sharing your life with us.

  • @mayflowergal6794
    @mayflowergal6794 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Y'all Cecelia REALLY LOVES her Polar Nights...catch her Christmas Eve video too! Last year's was hilarious and I'm looking forward to this years!

  • @marylove909
    @marylove909 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Watching this made me want to get all cozy in my comfies and curl up with a book and a nap. It's 80 degrees F here, sunny, and my husband is home. I guess I'll have to live the comfy dream another day!

  • @winnichick1
    @winnichick1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I get the joy of being alone. I was single until I was almost 37 and was able to travel and move and has as many pets as I wanted and I loved it. I also loved finding my soul mate and he is a lot like me. We love to be together but also can be alone in different parts of our home without the need to talk much. I get how you feel! Always love your videos!

  • @kristinlueb5606
    @kristinlueb5606 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    I love the orange tundra! It looks so nice in the fall!! Good Morning Cecilia and Grim!!

  • @hollylane47
    @hollylane47 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Yay!!! Sunday mornings with Cecilia!! ❤️ I swear each video you do I think is my new favorite. The crystal clear pictures of everything around you, your choice of music, the food, Grim, everything is so magical and beautiful. Also extremely calming, just like a good dream. It's all rainy and dark here in Pennsylvania this morning and it's the best cozy morning. Thank you again Cecilia for sharing your life and making these videos. I treasure them more than you can know. Be blessed and have a great week.

    • @marysalmon2367
      @marysalmon2367 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Here in PA, loved the storms that rolled through last night. Wishing for a cooldown.

    • @hollylane47
      @hollylane47 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @marysalmon2367 oh I'm with you!:) I open my front door and just stand there watching the lightning and listening to the thunder. It's intoxicating. Yeah I'm so done with the 90+ temps. Bring on Autumn! 😊 🍂

    • @susanunger4700
      @susanunger4700 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      So ready for Fall to arrive here in PA!

  • @kellybryson7754
    @kellybryson7754 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Being married, with 3 children (now adults) having time that you can have alone, and not considering the other people sounds like a dream.

  • @charlottes95
    @charlottes95 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've had free time to myself for the very first time in about 10 year's, my oldest started school right when my second was born and of course then I was home with him until he started school. I do enjoy the hour I set aside for myself after Ive accomplished all that needs doing in a house hold. I am learning the value of slowing down. Not every hour needs to be filled with stress, Even though that is how the world has made it. It's ok to not be busy and stressed. Life is not meant to work yourself tired and then die. Your videos are very calming.

  • @heathermorse2018
    @heathermorse2018 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I totally feel the same as you about being alone. I also have a partner and no kids, but what you said about being alone I 10000000% feel the same as you. 😊

  • @heiker.4549
    @heiker.4549 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Dear Cecilia, I 100% agree with you about cozy evenings. I also love enjoying them with a tea and a book. 🥰 But this week there is another heat wave hanging over Germany. So watching your video is really chilling. 😍🤩

  • @christaallen2105
    @christaallen2105 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So excited for polar nights!! I love fall and winter, some people don't understand lol. They love summer and I hate it lol.

  • @dowzoo
    @dowzoo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I absolutely LOVE Grim, and you can tell how much he's loved and how much he loves you. I like being alone sometimes, but I would totally freak out to be on my own so far from people and civilization.

  • @mariannegrochol8384
    @mariannegrochol8384 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The last few minutes of your video were perfection - cozy fire, gorgeous rainy weather, playing with Grim, and looking forward to your yummy breakfast avocados. I hope everyone can experience a small moment of that peace for themselves. My winter clothes are calling even though our weather is still very warm. I can 't wait for a chill in the air.

  • @jcc6789
    @jcc6789 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Grim crunching his treat is the cutest along with his walkie excitement 🐾🐾 autumn is almost here in the N GA Blue Ridge Mountains, then winter right behind ~ beautiful video as always 🐾⛰

  • @pattiburton9976
    @pattiburton9976 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Alone time is great for the soul - enjoy your polar nights

  • @imcurlyblue
    @imcurlyblue 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Im married. And I know exactly what you mean when you have the house to yourself. It’s not the same when you go away. There’s something when you have your house the comfort of your belongings, the house to yourself. You don’t have to worry about anything but yourself. It’s a nice feeling. But it’s a treat. It’s nice to have hubby but when he’s away the house is quiet, I make what I like for me not having to consider him. I get it.

  • @sammyzimmermann
    @sammyzimmermann 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Great video Cecilia. With 8 in my household I love it when it's just me and my dogs at home. So peaceful

  • @donquixote1502
    @donquixote1502 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Fall has come to Halland, Sweden. Our daylight is getting shorter and we can see small changes in the tree colors. I too enjoy the dark season. Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @syedamarmusa6512
    @syedamarmusa6512 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can feel how beautiful & peaceful lives people in Svalbard, Norway 🇳🇴 must be living to fullest tbh 🥺

  • @slastenushkaslast3402
    @slastenushkaslast3402 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I understood why I love watching your channel. You are just a happy person. I bet you have some down days and down time. But in general. You are just a very happy person. You happy when it's rain, or sun or dark, or cold or warm or time with coffee or time to go get coffee cause you ran out of coffee. You are happy alone and happy with Christopher. You are happy to cook and not cook, read and not read. You are jsut a happy person. And in here, in US it's such a theme to.. be NOT happy. Competition over who is gonna be more unhappy. And I love the way you look at life. Thank you

  • @neresq
    @neresq 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love this video -- and I totally get what you're saying! My husband and I have been together for over 43 years, and as much as we love each other, I also cherish having quality "me time" and, over the years, have frequently taken solo vacations, even solo cruises. He is not as comfortable traveling solo so, other than work trips (some of them quite long), has never done it, but has no problem with me doing it. We both benefit from the "alone time".

  • @katiefox5457
    @katiefox5457 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This video is soooo relaxing from the music to the fall colors to Grimm being such a good boy! 🍂🍁🌿🍁🍂

  • @user-zc5bs2zk7p
    @user-zc5bs2zk7p 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I want to thank you for letting us into your home. I love watching your videos and seeing what life is like out side of my home, South Africa!! Thank you!!!

  • @noemisolano4748
    @noemisolano4748 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cecilia, it doesn't sound bad when you said you can choose what you want to do without considering another person.
    In my opinion, it's good for a couple to spend time alone. Because a couple are with each other all the time except if they work then that's the only time a couple don't see each other. A couple needs time to recharge.
    I enjoy quiet time, freedom and I enjoy time by myself. But those days and times are rare for me because either I am working or at home with my husband.
    You explained being alone perfectly!! ❤️

  • @susanpharr6809
    @susanpharr6809 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for all the calming sweet moments you have shared with us! You give us permission to enjoy the elements, the seasons and life itself. The world needs more of your kind and caring ways - happy polar nights to you!

  • @crystalkewe
    @crystalkewe 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Just found the channel! Love the video Cecilia. By the way, anyone notice how Cecilia just becomes this excited goofy relatable person as soon as she's alone and OUT AND ABOUT?! 😆 Don't worry! I blame it on the 3x coffees and the monster drink. Definitely way too much caffeine for a day, but that's not a lot for people like us who love it :)

  • @sandeepsharma9833
    @sandeepsharma9833 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think I can relate to that christmas-y feeling she talks about in the end part. I used to feel that when I was a child, still do sometimes but not with as much intensity. It is my most urgent goal to move to a place like in the video - less people, lots of empty space occupied mainly by nature with the weather being on the cooler side, It will bring me peace of mind.

  • @johanna7254
    @johanna7254 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    As someone who lives with 3 other people, yes, it is indeed a treat to have the house to yourself for once! 😆 Ahhhh the shots of Grim in the entryway are ADORABLE!

  • @gabrielleszafir
    @gabrielleszafir 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    It's amazing how quickly the seasons are changing! I make TH-cam videos in a similar spirit as you about my life traveling full time on the road with my two cats and because I'm usually out in nature, I feel like the subtleties of the changing seasons are so much more pronounced! Glad you're getting some alone time - so important! Sending love from my corner of the world to yours!

  • @sheilabundren2037
    @sheilabundren2037 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Your home is so cozy and beautiful. I couldn't agree more, I've always been good at being alone. Can't wait for Polar nights again. Have a great week.

  • @jessicachapados
    @jessicachapados 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Alone with moody view, coffee and ToG sounds amazing

  • @offtomilan
    @offtomilan 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I will take sun brightness and warmth over gloom grey cooler weather anyyyyyy day of the year. Also, being alone is very important to balance things out. My husband of 16 years, we often spend time apart, trips, week-end getaways. We love it but we also love to travel together as often as possible. Still, breaks are needed and a great way to just be with yourself. And ur doggie :):):)

  • @michadybczak4862
    @michadybczak4862 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Watching in hammock under the birches, in 27 degrees, full sun, after a 30 km biking. Love September this year. Usually it's immediately cold, wet and gloomy, but this year is sunny and warm, very summery. Of course, coffee and brownies - perfect chill time, with Cecilia's video :).

  • @CatLoverX74
    @CatLoverX74 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Yay! Return of nighttime 😂 Absolutely doesn’t sound bad. Everyone needs some alone time. It’s very healthy to have time away from one’s partner. Also it’s really healthy not to feel you need someone to “complete” you. Yes it’s wonderful to have a partner but you shouldn’t feel you need someone to be happy. It’s wonderful to be comfortable with yourself to be ok being alone 😊 Besides you got a very happy smiling doggo with you 😆 I’m looking forward to polar night! Absolutely by far my favorite videos of yours are polar night 😁 So cozy! Love cold,snow and the darkness ❤

  • @gretchengraham6266
    @gretchengraham6266 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't mind rainy and moody weather either! It makes me much happier, calm and productive. This last couple weeks has been much too bright, hot and humid here in VA and I'm OVER it!!! I want it to be brisk and moody. I lived in central Colorado for a few months with a sister and the constant sunshine and buzzing activity of the community around me depressed me and I had to leave! I felt so over-stimulated ALL the time! Gray days are my happy place! The joys of being an introvert, I guess. Looking forward to polar night!