Hi Remrov i want to congratulate you on your new job it must be exciting and scary at the same time but at least you don't have to stress about eye contact or deal with in person. :) Sharing something close and personal about yourself if i could give you a huge hug from me from Rob in Perth Western Australia
I'm trans also! Congrats on coming out and starting hormones, and I'm glad you know you have the support of so many other people online and IRL who are going through something similar!
I’m so glad you found a job you like and that everything is going well!! Thank you for sharing your story!! That was very brave of you! I’m so happy you feel more comfortable with yourself now! And I’m so sorry you were bullied over this growing up!! Kids can be so cruel sometimes!! Even some adults unfortunately! I’m worried about my son getting bullied in school everyday! Since he is autistic and has trouble communicating I worry he wouldn’t know how to tell me if it was happening!
Thank you very much. When I was little I sometimes used to draw things to communicate things to people, because communicating with words was so difficult for me. Maybe this also works for your son.
Remrov you look so relieved and much happier as I am too. A world where everyone can feel comfortable being their true selves is a world I embrace. Your honesty radiates what a brave transformation I applaud you. Thank you for sharing this very personal layer of a manifestly complex human being with us. Please keep on smiling and feeling good about you but only one thing missing "Where is Echo?"
Thank you, and well done for sharing that with us. I've always enjoyed your videos and respected you, but now I respect you even more. I hope you will become happier all the time :)
thank you for being so honest and sharing something you have gone through that must have been very difficult. We love you. And I can see and hear your voice and your face changing
I am so proud of you for speaking out for yourself and for feeling so comfortable in who are to share this with us. I had thoughts that maybe you were trans when you did your interview with your mother. She mentioned having twins of a boy and girl and you spoke about your brother. I understand it is hard to feel different growing up. I have a trans friend that is also on the spectrum and he has shared some of his struggles with me. I accept you as you are and support your journey.
So am I!!!!! :-) I am MtF. I came out Oct 2014 and have been full time since Feb 1 2016. As a child I played with whatever I wanted, mostly. I did get scolded for playing with Barbies. And when I was younger I remember hearing a conversation where adults talked about how my dollies. They were "wrong" for me and I should give them up. But I was enamored with trains and cars, and spinning things so not one really bothered. Actually my mom told me many times she had to teach me how to play the right ways with toys. She also grew up playing with tractors and cars. I also had a lot of issues with severe bullying in school. One of the most common things I heard was a version of my dead name that is very derogatory. When I hit puberty I could not understand why I had certain body parts, well I know scientifically but I did not "know". I remember distinctly being so confused at puberty, like why I had body parts that were not right. I am the same age as you and when I was a teen I only knew about how the world viewed transsexuals, the term transgender was not around yet, and it scared me so bad. That and when I was in college I asked a friend a question and they said no one would do anything about it and inferred I would be deemed or seen as having mental illness. But, I am so happy for you.
Thank you very much. I'm sorry that you also had to deal with a lot of bullying. That's horrible. Everybody deserves to be who they are, and to be happy :)
Hi Remrov, thanks for sharing and sending you love. I just thought you were maturing. I only learned I was autistic 2 years ago but I also have sincerely searched my soul for gender identity. I have mixed hormones due to pcos and I have severe premenstrual dysphoria. I personally feel like I naturally transition back and fourth between female and male every single month. I would prefer the consistency of a fixed hormone cycle but I'm learning to embrace a mixed experience.
Thank you very much for sharing. I have heard of many others who transition back and forth between male and female. I hope you can find happiness within yourself and who you are. You worth it to be proud of yourself and to be happy.
@@RemrovsWorldofArtandAutism Thank you Remrov. Getting my autism diagnosis last month at 34 has been a huge boost to my understanding and acceptance of myself. Sri- Ram my parrot says hello to Echo.
I was a second child too and physically similar to my father although was a girl. Don't know if this is always the case, that second children look like the father. In my case I was always thin and liked to use the tools of my father. I used to be called to help him. But the male force is not my thing even though I was energetic. My sister which is the first is very like my mother instead. In my case never felt like I didn't belong to my body but did notice that my body was athletic kind and thin. Recently I read a post of a person on autistic spectrum that had some difficulties in physical development but she struggled to don't fall over the bullies and their comments. Wish you the best, that you find peace in your way and healthy living. Careful with doctors that nowadays cosmetic surgery is becoming a never ending business. 💓💓💓💓💓💓 Much love 💓💓💓💓💓💓
I had a thought: I'll bet Montreal has a university where you could get a trained psychometrist to administer an IQ test (at low cost or for free). This would be sent to Mensa. You're in! Before you do this, tho', take some on-line tests to get practiced. You will do fine. It's not as hard as people would think. And you will have fun being a Mensan! Also, a shrink can do a verbal interview to determine IQ. You only have to pass once....
Okay. Thank you. I have done the online Mensa test quite s few times, in the Netherlands as well. Without passing that test you didn't even get invited to take a test at Mensa itself.
Even though I’m not transgender- I stopped with girl’s clothes and girl’s toys at the age of 12 or 13-I was not proud of my puberty. Because a) it was scary and b) I also had a diagnoses of epilepsy-and when reaching puberty, my epilepsy worsened. But I’m doing better.I still wear boy clothes, buy animal, superhero action figures. I still hate wearing dresses or feminine clothes (even for a special occasion) I don’t behave like a female. And I’m proud of that.
Thankyou for sharing your experience with this. I have notesed that as well, several people I subribe to on TH-cam that there ch mainly is about there autism are also transgender/ the other things that go along with that. I would be interested if you find more information in your research. For myself growing up I was a tom-boy, playing with the boy ect...I still am. I where mens clothing and such. I relate more with boys but still have girls as friends. 💖
Remrov's World of Autism I don't really know the term for it but I've always viewed myself as like 80%boy out of 100%. The only way I think I would feel weird/oquard/distress in public is if I had traditional girl type clothing on, make-up and had to act like a girl. I do have girls as friends but most of my friends are boys. I do have vary long hair but the back behind my ears is shaved.
Where's Echo? (Hope all is well.) Genetics has a lot to do with your situation. Not to worry! I've been accused of being a robot. By the way, look at Mensa Canada.... they are generally accepting.
Really love your channel. It makes me feel not so alone about being autistic
Hi Remrov i want to congratulate you on your new job it must be exciting and scary at the same time but at least you don't have to stress about eye contact or deal with in person. :) Sharing something close and personal about yourself if i could give you a huge hug from me from Rob in Perth Western Australia
Thank you very much Rob :)
Thank you for sharing your life with us Remrov!
Thank you too for your support :)
From the start I new that something is going on😉I am so proud of you for sharing this with us! Big hugh from far faraway Serbia🕊💐❤️
Thank you very much :)
I'm trans also! Congrats on coming out and starting hormones, and I'm glad you know you have the support of so many other people online and IRL who are going through something similar!
You are one of the strongest amazing people. Your happiness and well being with yourself is so important.
Thank you very much Jeff :)
I’m so glad you found a job you like and that everything is going well!! Thank you for sharing your story!! That was very brave of you! I’m so happy you feel more comfortable with yourself now! And I’m so sorry you were bullied over this growing up!! Kids can be so cruel sometimes!! Even some adults unfortunately! I’m worried about my son getting bullied in school everyday! Since he is autistic and has trouble communicating I worry he wouldn’t know how to tell me if it was happening!
Thank you very much. When I was little I sometimes used to draw things to communicate things to people, because communicating with words was so difficult for me. Maybe this also works for your son.
Hello Remrov. I am happy to see you this morning.
Hi Connie. Happy to see you too :)
You're awesome. I'm so proud of you
Thank you very much Maria :)
Remrov you look so relieved and much happier as I am too. A world where everyone can feel comfortable being their true selves is a world I embrace. Your honesty radiates what a brave transformation I applaud you. Thank you for sharing this very personal layer of a manifestly complex human being with us. Please keep on smiling and feeling good about you but only one thing missing "Where is Echo?"
Thank you very much for your compliments. Echo was in a different room with Edward.
Thank you for sharing and opening up about it Remrov. I love The Netherlands! I went to school in Rotterdam and want to go back!
Thank you, and well done for sharing that with us. I've always enjoyed your videos and respected you, but now I respect you even more. I hope you will become happier all the time :)
Thank you very much :)
Great video as always! Thanks for sharing with us.
Thank you :)
thank you for being so honest and sharing something you have gone through that must have been very difficult. We love you. And I can see and hear your voice and your face changing
Thank you very much Caroline :)
I am so proud of you for speaking out for yourself and for feeling so comfortable in who are to share this with us. I had thoughts that maybe you were trans when you did your interview with your mother. She mentioned having twins of a boy and girl and you spoke about your brother. I understand it is hard to feel different growing up. I have a trans friend that is also on the spectrum and he has shared some of his struggles with me. I accept you as you are and support your journey.
Thank you very much Ashley :)
You seem more comfortable in your skin 🙂
I indeed do feel a lot more comfortable in my skin :)
I live with asperger and I am a trans man, It's pleasent to meet you on youtube to me.
Nice to meet you too!
I'm wishing you all the best for your 2nd puberty, Remrov :-)
So am I!!!!! :-) I am MtF. I came out Oct 2014 and have been full time since Feb 1 2016. As a child I played with whatever I wanted, mostly. I did get scolded for playing with Barbies. And when I was younger I remember hearing a conversation where adults talked about how my dollies. They were "wrong" for me and I should give them up. But I was enamored with trains and cars, and spinning things so not one really bothered. Actually my mom told me many times she had to teach me how to play the right ways with toys. She also grew up playing with tractors and cars. I also had a lot of issues with severe bullying in school. One of the most common things I heard was a version of my dead name that is very derogatory. When I hit puberty I could not understand why I had certain body parts, well I know scientifically but I did not "know". I remember distinctly being so confused at puberty, like why I had body parts that were not right. I am the same age as you and when I was a teen I only knew about how the world viewed transsexuals, the term transgender was not around yet, and it scared me so bad. That and when I was in college I asked a friend a question and they said no one would do anything about it and inferred I would be deemed or seen as having mental illness. But, I am so happy for you.
Thank you very much. I'm sorry that you also had to deal with a lot of bullying. That's horrible. Everybody deserves to be who they are, and to be happy :)
Hi Remrov, thanks for sharing and sending you love. I just thought you were maturing. I only learned I was autistic 2 years ago but I also have sincerely searched my soul for gender identity. I have mixed hormones due to pcos and I have severe premenstrual dysphoria. I personally feel like I naturally transition back and fourth between female and male every single month. I would prefer the consistency of a fixed hormone cycle but I'm learning to embrace a mixed experience.
Thank you very much for sharing. I have heard of many others who transition back and forth between male and female. I hope you can find happiness within yourself and who you are. You worth it to be proud of yourself and to be happy.
@@RemrovsWorldofArtandAutism Thank you Remrov. Getting my autism diagnosis last month at 34 has been a huge boost to my understanding and acceptance of myself. Sri- Ram my parrot says hello to Echo.
Good video Remrov..
Thank you Andy :)
You are so welcome Remrov..
I was a second child too and physically similar to my father although was a girl. Don't know if this is always the case, that second children look like the father.
In my case I was always thin and liked to use the tools of my father. I used to be called to help him. But the male force is not my thing even though I was energetic.
My sister which is the first is very like my mother instead.
In my case never felt like I didn't belong to my body but did notice that my body was athletic kind and thin.
Recently I read a post of a person on autistic spectrum that had some difficulties in physical development but she struggled to don't fall over the bullies and their comments.
Wish you the best, that you find peace in your way and healthy living. Careful with doctors that nowadays cosmetic surgery is becoming a never ending business.
💓💓💓💓💓💓
Much love
💓💓💓💓💓💓
Thank you very much :)
I had a thought: I'll bet Montreal has a university where you could get a trained psychometrist to administer an IQ test (at low cost or for free). This would be sent to Mensa. You're in! Before you do this, tho', take some on-line tests to get practiced. You will do fine. It's not as hard as people would think. And you will have fun being a Mensan! Also, a shrink can do a verbal interview to determine IQ. You only have to pass once....
Okay. Thank you. I have done the online Mensa test quite s few times, in the Netherlands as well. Without passing that test you didn't even get invited to take a test at Mensa itself.
Even though I’m not transgender- I stopped with girl’s clothes and girl’s toys at the age of 12 or 13-I was not proud of my puberty. Because a) it was scary and b) I also had a diagnoses of epilepsy-and when reaching puberty, my epilepsy worsened. But I’m doing better.I still wear boy clothes, buy animal, superhero action figures. I still hate wearing dresses or feminine clothes (even for a special occasion) I don’t behave like a female. And I’m proud of that.
You can definitely be yourself and be proud of yourself.
That’s what I like being. 👍
Even though I still keep my long hair
That's good. I've never had long hair after I turned 3 :)
Thankyou for sharing your experience with this.
I have notesed that as well, several people I subribe to on TH-cam that there ch mainly is about there autism are also transgender/ the other things that go along with that. I would be interested if you find more information in your research.
For myself growing up I was a tom-boy, playing with the boy ect...I still am. I where mens clothing and such. I relate more with boys but still have girls as friends.
💖
And how do you feel about being seen as a woman in public for example? Does that cause you distress? Or do you feel just as much as a woman as well?
Remrov's World of Autism I don't really know the term for it but I've always viewed myself as like 80%boy out of 100%. The only way I think I would feel weird/oquard/distress in public is if I had traditional girl type clothing on, make-up and had to act like a girl.
I do have girls as friends but most of my friends are boys.
I do have vary long hair but the back behind my ears is shaved.
I totally understand. I've always felt 100% boy :)
Where's Echo? (Hope all is well.) Genetics has a lot to do with your situation. Not to worry! I've been accused of being a robot. By the way, look at Mensa Canada.... they are generally accepting.
Thank you. I should try to gt into Mensa again. I've done tests in the Netherlands. Echo is fine. He was in a different room :)