How Our Marriage Survived After Our Baby Died: Coping with Stillbirth)

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  • @marleec8548
    @marleec8548 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    i had a stillbirth at 37 + 3 in march and i find comfort in finding others with similar stories.

  • @MrEddyFoss
    @MrEddyFoss ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My wife and I had a still birth at 38 weeks, followed by another the following year at 21 weeks. It's just heart breaking...I can identify with everything said in this video. We now have an amazing baby boy, 1 year old.

    • @BuildingWithTheMasons
      @BuildingWithTheMasons  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Ed Thank you so much for taking the time to share your incredibly personal story with us. We are truly touched by your willingness to open up about such a painful experience, and we're honored that our video resonated with you.
      Our hearts go out to you and your spouse for the unimaginable loss you've endured with the stillbirths of your precious little ones. It's a grief that no parent should have to bear, and we understand how difficult it is to put those feelings into words. As we shared the story of our sweet Leah, it is a comfort to know that we are not alone in our journey, and we appreciate your vulnerability in reaching out.
      We are absolutely thrilled to hear about the arrival of your baby boy! What a beautiful testament to resilience, love, and hope. We can only imagine the joy and gratitude you must feel as you cherish every moment with him. We sincerely wish you and your family all the happiness and love in the world as you continue to grow and thrive together.
      Again, thank you for connecting with us, and for being a part of our TH-cam community. We hope that you will continue to find support, understanding, and connection here, as we all navigate the complexities of life and loss. Your story is a reminder that even in the darkest times, there is light and hope.
      #KeepBuildingAndStayUnstoppable 🧱

    • @MrEddyFoss
      @MrEddyFoss ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BuildingWithTheMasons Thank you 🙏🏾. I appreciate you taking the time to respond. Thank you guys for sharing your story as well. It touched my heart and I'm sure many others who finds themselves in similar situations will be encouraged, as I was. Good bless you guys ❤️.

    • @jeana0115
      @jeana0115 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏🏾

  • @jenc3259
    @jenc3259 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I just delivered a stillborn baby. I was 22 weeks. I had to wait a week to be induced. That week was the biggest mind fuck I have ever experienced in my life. I was alone when I learned the news. My husband was my rock through it all. He was amazing. He is heartbroken as well, but it has brought us together stronger than before.
    I was in labor for 17 hours. They put me in this depressing area of the birthing unit where i wouldnt hear babies. Everyone on my walk in said congratulations. About broke me on my way.
    The labor was worse than any of my other labors. I held the baby. Loved on her. Leaving without a baby broke me. I walked out 5 hours after having her. It felt so wrong to leave her in the morgue. It goes against every bone in your body. Went to the funeral home this week also broke me. I wanted to see her. That little baby coffin is sooo traumatic to see. It is just so wrong.
    We will try again in 2 months.
    No parent deserves this. I wish this hadn't happened to you all.

    • @heistruth2865
      @heistruth2865 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is an online community that has immensely helped me.
      So sorry 😞 ❤

    • @nyamading3958
      @nyamading3958 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I just went through the same thing. I was also 22 weeks. I hope all is well for you now.

    • @heistruth2865
      @heistruth2865 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@jenc3259 thank you for sharing this...I experienced something similar with our 1stborn 2/16/24 & it has been a very hard journey.
      I wish I could hug you & simply sit with you.

  • @kitate8621
    @kitate8621 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Such a strong partnership even through the unimaginable moments💕 love black love and your phrase Maker of miracle marks ❤

  • @dshay-lk2er
    @dshay-lk2er ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Got me crying this morning! 😢 It definitely brought us all closer together. 💕

  • @melodyrmason
    @melodyrmason ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a moving episode. Had me in tears like it was yesterday. Love you guys you are amazing!💕

  • @amandacoombs6968
    @amandacoombs6968 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your story is relatable. Thank you for sharing. When my baby was stillborn, I was also sent home and I remember praying so hard that my baby would move. It was psychological torture. May God continue to heal and bless your family❤

  • @bawaanita
    @bawaanita หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had such experience 18th of August, will be 2 months 18th of next month. mine was full term, i had almost 74 hours of labor that ended in C-section but my baby came out weak and was transferred to intensive care unit but couldn't hold on 2 hours later.
    I'm still trying to let go of her little voice i heared when she cried, just once but its so fresh in my head.
    i feel worst cos i didn't have the opportunity to touch or hold her in my arms
    its my first child and now i will have to wait to heal for atleast 6 months before trying again.
    I pray no pqrent experience such cos yhe pain is crazy.
    my husband has been my strength else i would have lost my mind.

  • @jeana0115
    @jeana0115 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a strong and beautiful couple. Thank you for sharing and all praises to the Most High for keeping your faith and your bond and blessing your family abundantly. 🙏🏾

    • @BuildingWithTheMasons
      @BuildingWithTheMasons  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much, and we appreciate you tuning in! May god continue to bless you as well. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @shanastaton5202
    @shanastaton5202 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lawdy got me crying I remember being at the 3D appointment…I thank god for my nieces everyday love y’all ❤

  • @chrisjones4131
    @chrisjones4131 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the dynamics of your family! Thank you for sharing your experience, i was in full tears but so happy to see the blessing on the other side!

    • @BuildingWithTheMasons
      @BuildingWithTheMasons  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Brother Chris! We're so glad that you enjoyed the video and loved the dynamics of our family! Your words truly mean a lot to us. It's heartwarming to know that our story connected with you and brought out a mix of emotions. Sharing our experiences and the blessings that have come after challenges is what our channel is all about!
      We would be absolutely delighted if you joined our tribe by connecting with us on our website. We have a wonderful community there, and we'd love to have you as a part of it. Please visit www.buildingwiththemasons.com/#join-the-community and sign up, so you can stay up-to-date with all our latest news, stories, and adventures.
      Also, don't forget to subscribe to our TH-cam channel, if you haven't already, to make sure you don't miss out on any new videos. Your support means the world to us, and we're grateful to have you on this journey with us.
      Thank you once again for tuning in, and for sharing your warmth and positivity. Here's to many more shared smiles, tears, and moments of joy! 😊
      #KeepBuildingAndStayUnstoppable 🧱

  • @verneeldh5007
    @verneeldh5007 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Masons, I had to watch your video in parts because I lost my son two weeks ago at 24 weeks. I am trying cope with everything including funeral arrangements. This video is super helpful and thank you so much for sharing your story.

    • @BuildingWithTheMasons
      @BuildingWithTheMasons  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey, first of all, I want to extend my deepest condolences for your loss. Losing a child is an unimaginable pain, and I can only begin to understand what you're going through. Take all the time you need to grieve and process your emotions. Remember, it's okay to take things one step at a time.
      I'm glad that our video was able to provide some support and help you in your journey. Sharing our own story was a way for us to open up about our experiences and connect with others who may be facing similar challenges. It's not an easy road, but know that you're not alone in this.
      Coping with the loss of a child is an incredibly difficult process, both emotionally and mentally. It's important to surround yourself with a strong support system that understands your pain and can offer comfort when needed. If you haven't already, consider seeking professional help or joining support groups where you can share your feelings and find solace in the experiences of others who have gone through similar situations.
      Remember, healing takes time, and there's no right or wrong way to grieve. Allow yourself to feel whatever emotions arise and give yourself permission to lean on others for support. Your strength in seeking help and finding resources, like our video, shows your determination to navigate this difficult time.
      Once again, I want to express my deepest condolences to you and your family. Please know that we're here for you, and if you ever need someone to talk to or share your thoughts with, don't hesitate to reach out. Take care of yourself and know that brighter days will come, even if it may not feel like it right now. Stay strong, my friend.

    • @verneeldh5007
      @verneeldh5007 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BuildingWithTheMasons Thanks you so much for these words. Postpartum has been very difficult for me in addition to grief 😔 sometimes I just want to give up. I super appreciate your kind words ❤️

  • @jasonhsu3711
    @jasonhsu3711 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this. Thank you for sharing your hearts.

  • @crystalnicolafamilytv
    @crystalnicolafamilytv ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing this.

    • @BuildingWithTheMasons
      @BuildingWithTheMasons  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for taking the time to watch our video and leave a comment. We understand that the topic we discussed is a deeply personal and emotional one, and we truly appreciate your kind words. Our aim is to provide support and understanding to those who may be going through similar experiences, and we're glad that our story resonated with you.
      Please know that our channel is here to offer a safe space for conversations and shared experiences. If you have any questions, suggestions for future content, or just need a listening ear, feel free to reach out. We're here for you and our community.

  • @kennethlewis3256
    @kennethlewis3256 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love the strength, been there before.

  • @jamilaray7636
    @jamilaray7636 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing your story!

  • @pinkkay7235
    @pinkkay7235 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just lost my baby boy “ Joseph “ . I’m so hurt right now.

    • @BuildingWithTheMasons
      @BuildingWithTheMasons  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lashika and I are truly devastated to hear about the loss of your precious baby boy, Joseph. Our heart aches for you, and we want you to know that you’re not alone in this journey. It’s completely natural to feel hurt and overwhelmed. We’re here for you, just like family, and we’re sending you all the love and support during this incredibly difficult time 💔❤️

    • @pinkkay7235
      @pinkkay7235 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BuildingWithTheMasons thank you soo much for the encouraging words 🩷🩷🩷.

  • @niongg8042
    @niongg8042 ปีที่แล้ว

    Our relationship did not make it i regret everything i couldnt do and did not do enough .Since that day my mourning came for about a half year we went into a downwarth spiral.I mis het i lost everthing that gave meaning to my life.

    • @BuildingWithTheMasons
      @BuildingWithTheMasons  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am sincerely sorry to hear that you’re experiencing this heart-wrenching loss and the subsequent impact it has had on your relationship. It’s clear that you are carrying a heavy burden of grief and regret.
      It’s important to remember that mourning such a profound loss is an intensely personal and unique journey. It’s not easy and it can indeed strain the strongest of bonds. In these moments, it might be beneficial to reach out to a professional or a support group where you can share your feelings and experiences with others who understand the depth of your sorrow.
      Remember, it’s never too late to seek healing and forgiveness, both for yourself and with your partner if circumstances allow. As you navigate this unimaginably difficult time, try to give yourself the grace to feel all that you’re feeling without judgment.
      While it may seem nearly impossible now, there is still a future ahead, a future where you can find meaning, purpose, and perhaps even joy once again. It won’t be easy and it won’t be quick, but day by day, step by step, you can build a life that honors your lost loved one and the love you had for them.
      Sending you strength and compassion during this time. #KeepBuildingAndStayUnstoppable

  • @byronholman9228
    @byronholman9228 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙌🏾💯🙌🏾

  • @matildantombifuthi5628
    @matildantombifuthi5628 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Same story with me.... I am currently waiting for Monday 08/10/2024😭😭😭😭 i am 6 months pregnant
    My baby was due 13 January 2025

  • @kayser152
    @kayser152 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing this.