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Extremely selfish. Chose other woman over wife even when they had separated... Your family comes first.. He walked out over 'issues'. In this life you are paid what you 😢 serve....
Wow my condolences to him and the family. I believed through him narrating the story, there were some red flags that was missed due to the cool war which was happening in silence btn him and his wife. The son was fighting in silence whilst needed perhaps their help. Hmm African father most don’t build up intimate relationship with their children because of our culture’s perhaps. I pray that we all learn from this than regretting later than being there for our children.
This gentleman is wise - even though he shares his story he was very careful to be balanced in his assessment of the situation. He didn’t paint her black and he took his own responsibility where necessary.
Must have put into consideration comments of earlier interview and Manipulated the story. Initially all blame was on wife and the heading was that she threatened to kill him
I don't judge until I hear the other side of the story. But that silent of her fast wife means she was depressed and felt that nobody need her,love her or even understand .And also the family were against her anyway may God see you through George.
Thank you for sharing your story "Baba", I related to everything you shared. For 2 weeks now, my wife and I sleep in separate rooms. After listening to your story, I am going back to sharing the bed with my wife. My deepest condolences for the loss of your son, may his soul rest in peace.
Big lesson concerning my children 😢 i pray I'm more careful in observing their ways, withdraws, critical follow up,loving them and being their for them 🙏
This has also given a life lesson to cherish the people we love and also tell them is how much we love them. And also to be keen on the behaviors of our kids
Quite a lesson. Wish we would have the wife share her experience...not for us to judge but to learn and strengthen our marriage relationships. May the lord restore your marriage and keep your sons strong
What should be done to this quite people? Sometimes people say that quite people are good better those who make noise because you can solve issues together. I don't advocate
Baba George is very atticulate and also very intelligent. So full of wisdom going forward I have learned a thing or two to practice in my marriage for the healthy outcome. God bless you baba 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
Boys are so sensitive to the well being of there mother but they will rarely confront their dad.Their is a reason as to why his son commited suicide.Mums tears really hurt biko and he decided to just not seeing his mum go through pains.
😢😢Sad..The worst part is when the son committed suicide..I hope and pray the other children will not be affected by separation of their parents plus the death of their brother..Healing to all of them cause they are going through so much pain..
I listened to your storey, & must say mental illness is the deadliest of all illnesses & the sad fact, is noone sees or recognize it, until it's too late. Mèntal illness, rob human beings of living.
This is an exceptional man! He has spoken about mental health and marriage openly ❤. Deepest condolences to you and your family. You have really inspired many of us. God bless you so much🙏
My marriage is more or less the same because we have very many issues that are unresolved for 9years.Personality differences,no affection then my husband giving commands instead of being involving.The marriage isn't working at all despite my husband not being violent.marriage entails alot that men don't understand
Marriage is a contract, you get what you put into it. If you feel that with all honesty you put in more than you get, re negotiate the contract or simply find another contract that is suitable. Just don’t destroy your marriage because of stupid ego. Women have ego too, and they want to usurp the roles of men. Haiwezekani😡
I like the part where Chacha takes responsibility for his own failures and mistakes. Surely when you do, it helps you heal and look at life better than just aportìoning blames. May God guide you through and many others with similar challenges. It happened to me.
Unresolved conflicts or rather sweeping issues under the carpet killed my marriage the moment it started. One thing beg to disagree with is for a husband to remain neutral in issues pertaining to in_laws. A true husband should protect his wife from the so called in- laws- I can't be more clearer on this
Well he should respect his parents and keep his immediate family from them. However I have the experience of wives involving their people and things they shouldn't be involved in. This killed my marriages but finally I have a woman who understands the importance of us doing our own thing.
A woman gets what she gives,if you treat in-laws with respect,you will get respect,but some women join their husbands families and disrupt everything.Respect in-laws,you mighty need them one day.
Coz she is a good person but the thing is ,he failed to be with the virtuous woman from God coz of infidelity and narcissist spirit from devil. But the Lord is faithful soon they will be together
I appreciate his willingness to share this story, it could not be easy. I also appreciate his humility. People, unfortunately, don't speak about these things and live miserable for years. This happens in the diaspora all the time. I hope he and his ex-wife both find happiness.
There is more to this story than meets the eye 👀 have kuna shida mahali, we need the wife's part of the story. This whole situation caused his son to sink into depression.
I like the way he expressed himself, May the Lord give you strength and you'll heal and your wife will also heal and God will make your marriage work it's not too late.
I agreed with him that the one thing you can’t do it to leave your bedroom,and resolve the issue before bedtime.I relate to this story.thanks for sharing your story.
This man is a good person, may God give you strength to carry on. My brother I Love you with the Love of the Lord. I feel your pain and God will see you Through. One Love
Lack of communication, and leaving your matrimonial bed will ruin a marriage. Thank you for man’s perspective. I m living it now and i have lost hope in any reconciliation. Praying for God to heal our marriage.
From the way this guy is talking, he is actually a humble guy with wisdom. Very few will still talk good about their broken marriages. I walked out after 19 years of marriage. It still pains me. But i know God will give me a man whom we can start a new life. My hopes are high.
I wish the wife could be available to also give her part of the story. Unresolved issues over the years pushed these couple to a bitter end...but hearing from both parties will give a clear picture of the real issues
You should have simply loved their mom...the best gift any man can give his kids, the rest will fall into place..Can anyone really make us be what they want though,..just wondering? Those kids😢😢
May God bless you baba George and I pray for healing in your marriage and if ever it can not be restored may the both of you learn from the mistakes and move forward to greatness and be friends for the sake of yourself and your children.
There is so much emotion in this video, you can sense how emotional this things has affected this man from his voice. I sincerely appreciate him for sharing his stories. God heal him and grant him strength.
I watched an interview of the Kagia couple whose daughter became an alcoholic but later was transformed. They learnt about their different temperaments and how to communicate better. Mr. Kagia in particular did a strling job to hold the rocking ship. Love triumphs against all odds
My dears let us learn and embrace family meetings be it on monthly or even after 3/4 months, in that ways we get to know each others problems and how to go about
some family gathering are the reasons of some marriages shattering down. If see someone not involving family and relatives in their marriages dont blame them they have reasons as to why
Marriage is about communication, once it breaks then you are done. May God heal your hearts for the loss. I hope you can sit down and reconcile as we also wait for the lady's right of reply.
My marriage is heading here and I always pray it does not affect my kids, my hubby is a contributor, I am heading for the door, I believe there is some story from the wife too
What a wonderful message to families from a personal story of pain and tragedy. Indeed this gentleman has taken full responsibility on his part which is a rare gesture today.
I always say, no one belongs to anybody. Marriage is 2 people who want and choose everyday to be together. They are both grieving 2 deaths. Marriage and son
George, God has given you wisdom to handle every situation, may God continue to strengthen you more it's my prayer one day you will write a book that many generations will pass through and it will be useful.
I'm so sorry for what happened in this family. I pray that there is still room for rekindling this marriage. Could we find Mrs. Chacha and ask her what really happened? Mr. Goerge sounds like a very legit husband, it would be nice to get to hear what mrs. Chacha went through as well.
In the previous interview he said he has another family, happily married even him and his new wife share the same password on their phones. I am surprised he has left out some very important details he gave in earlier interview.
Mr. Chacha, life's challenges are for all humanbeings. Focus on people who lift you up. Only God knows it all. Sharing your story will help many people. God Bless You Abundantly Always.
This show was very important full of wisdom from a Man of intelligence, I appreciate Sir I have learnt that we should resolve each and every issues whenever they come up and move.
You're a great man And u did ur best She too is a very good woman And a lovely mother, i hv learnt A lot 4rm ur story u. May God bless you And ur family
I respect this man for being honesty for what happened to his marriage..thanks for being an African black man who highlighted the major issues which makes a marriage soar..If couples put God first..all these problems will be solved and continue with a normal health relationship...A teaching to all us ..a powerful testimonial discussion l enjoyed to listen to
I salute you George and I wish all married couples would listen and watch this video. What I have learned from you is that you are very humble human being. What is trash for somebody else is a TREASURE for someone else. So wish my ex husband would listen to this message because he was very selfish and abusive when we were still staying together. Hoping that you find peace and closure in your new chapter and God gives you the right direction to move on with your life. What I know is that life goes on.
It is sad that they had to part ways. He sounds like such a wonderful man. One of the many who try to keep a marriage going. Thanks for sharing your story
Imagine when there was this silent war between the parents, the most responsible son Got silently affected mentally. And no body was there for him. This is so unfortunate. LET US SPEAK OUT.
Thank you for coming out to share. You have spoken life giving words. I have learned a thing or too. I'm inspired may the Lord heal you and entire Family. Kudos
The story is touching but I fear. Narcissists are normally so eloquent and always presenting to be smart,wise and calm when they know the world is watching! I fear!👀. Sorry about your son.😭
To me you are a good man. There is so much wisdom in your talking sir. Indeed issues need to be sorted out same day. And indeed in marriage dialogue is very very important. God help us. May God give you peace
To be sincere both men and women we are suffering cause of luck of communication and ignorance (and more than that not allowing GOD to drive our marriage).
You can’t change anyone in marriage. After 14 years, I can say that don’t leave any issue unresolved even if the other person is adamant continue to push getting help to break the ice. We can move past anything if both parties are willing to communicate and put our EGOS aside.
May the Lord of all peace and reconciliation visit this family in a mighty way. May those young men know Jesus and hold on to Him. He is the answer for the fallen world we live in. My heart goes out to this family.
So brave, so selfless, so vulnerable in public view - to help broken people, marriages and families ... I pray for your complete healing and that of your family ... and may your story be a true lesson to many who are seeking the courage to conquer their mountains ... namaste 🙏
Ur history ,ur background tells me a lot !there was lack of communication may be due to fear or abuse that coarse her to bottle in! Family the know the true story than what u telling us
I am sorry sir. Mental health issues are very real. Its unbelievable how someone can just behave normal one second and decide to leave this world in the next moment. I have lost a close relative this way and its very painful. May your son rest well. Poleni sana.
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Maybe she also has her story to tell
Extremely selfish. Chose other woman over wife even when they had separated... Your family comes first.. He walked out over 'issues'. In this life you are paid what you 😢 serve....
Lynn Ngugi kindly do this episode....
Pp
He has to reconcile with the mother of his children
What a gentleman ! To take respect and stand accountable as an African man is very very rare. I salute you sir
So so rare
Wow my condolences to him and the family. I believed through him narrating the story, there were some red flags that was missed due to the cool war which was happening in silence btn him and his wife. The son was fighting in silence whilst needed perhaps their help.
Hmm African father most don’t build up intimate relationship with their children because of our culture’s perhaps.
I pray that we all learn from this than regretting later than being there for our children.
Connecting the two stories, your broken relationship with your wife took a toll on your son.
This gentleman is wise - even though he shares his story he was very careful to be balanced in his assessment of the situation. He didn’t paint her black and he took his own responsibility where necessary.
Must have put into consideration comments of earlier interview and Manipulated the story. Initially all blame was on wife and the heading was that she threatened to kill him
That's sth rare to find in men... They will paint you black like you didn't exist...
I don't judge until I hear the other side of the story. But that silent of her fast wife means she was depressed and felt that nobody need her,love her or even understand .And also the family were against her anyway may God see you through George.
Thank you for sharing your story "Baba", I related to everything you shared. For 2 weeks now, my wife and I sleep in separate rooms. After listening to your story, I am going back to sharing the bed with my wife. My deepest condolences for the loss of your son, may his soul rest in peace.
Thanks alot for sharing your experience coz you HV helped me alot and I know many will learn from this,I wish you all the best in life.
I hv learned smth too,I haven't gone such deeper ...... Bt using Ur advise this must end.
Big lesson concerning my children 😢 i pray I'm more careful in observing their ways, withdraws, critical follow up,loving them and being their for them 🙏
oh, my goodness! this was so terrible! 😢 so sorry for your family!
This has also given a life lesson to cherish the people we love and also tell them is how much we love them. And also to be keen on the behaviors of our kids
Quite a lesson. Wish we would have the wife share her experience...not for us to judge but to learn and strengthen our marriage relationships. May the lord restore your marriage and keep your sons strong
Effective communication is very important in marriage! Resolve the issues and FORGIVE!
What should be done to this quite people? Sometimes people say that quite people are good better those who make noise because you can solve issues together. I don't advocate
Very important indeed
Well said..that's actually why their marriage failed..
@@shalommediahub1639u nailed it
Baba George is very atticulate and also very intelligent. So full of wisdom going forward I have learned a thing or two to practice in my marriage for the healthy outcome. God bless you baba 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
He truly is.
May God heal him
The host is beautiful and I like how she listens. ❤
❤ thank you so much for your kind words.
Boys are so sensitive to the well being of there mother but they will rarely confront their dad.Their is a reason as to why his son commited suicide.Mums tears really hurt biko and he decided to just not seeing his mum go through pains.
She really is a good listener
I love this man's strength the Grace he carries,,,most men they die inside out quietly
😢😢Sad..The worst part is when the son committed suicide..I hope and pray the other children will not be affected by separation of their parents plus the death of their brother..Healing to all of them cause they are going through so much pain..
I listened to your storey, & must say mental illness is the deadliest of all illnesses & the sad fact, is noone sees or recognize it, until it's too late. Mèntal illness, rob human beings of living.
This is an exceptional man! He has spoken about mental health and marriage openly ❤. Deepest condolences to you and your family. You have really inspired many of us. God bless you so much🙏
Communication, communication & communication. The oxygen of marriage & all relationships!
Sure.....
Louder .... so true.
If only this could be a lesson to couples.
Louder please😊
My marriage is more or less the same because we have very many issues that are unresolved for 9years.Personality differences,no affection then my husband giving commands instead of being involving.The marriage isn't working at all despite my husband not being violent.marriage entails alot that men don't understand
A commanding and a so controlling man is just a psychological torture in marriage even if hes not violent😢
Men rarely accept when on the wrong. When you raise an issue it worsens as he will even assault you verbally to show you hes right
Y don't u teach him since u know his challenge/??
Marriage is a contract, you get what you put into it. If you feel that with all honesty you put in more than you get, re negotiate the contract or simply find another contract that is suitable. Just don’t destroy your marriage because of stupid ego. Women have ego too, and they want to usurp the roles of men. Haiwezekani😡
@@chrpmaginaatsyaya3888 😓
I like the part where Chacha takes responsibility for his own failures and mistakes. Surely when you do, it helps you heal and look at life better than just aportìoning blames. May God guide you through and many others with similar challenges. It happened to me.
He admits also his failures.
He sounds genuine.
@@franciscawaigwa2779 True
A touching story very educative
Surely goodness and mercies shall follow you all the days of your life 🙏🙏
I believe Mr Chacha’s sincerity. I wish him and his family healing
No communication is the main killer of marriage.
Yaani.....everything dies..😢😢
Very true😢
So sorry George, for the loss of your dear son and marriage, may God strengthen you as you heal from these painful experiences
Unresolved conflicts or rather sweeping issues under the carpet killed my marriage the moment it started. One thing beg to disagree with is for a husband to remain neutral in issues pertaining to in_laws. A true husband should protect his wife from the so called in- laws- I can't be more clearer on this
Well he should respect his parents and keep his immediate family from them. However I have the experience of wives involving their people and things they shouldn't be involved in. This killed my marriages but finally I have a woman who understands the importance of us doing our own thing.
A woman gets what she gives,if you treat in-laws with respect,you will get respect,but some women join their husbands families and disrupt everything.Respect in-laws,you mighty need them one day.
@@pamelaayieta6071 You must be a very painful in law to have. This is a rare comment
Mad respect to you sir! I love the way you have put across your sentiments, not once have you talked bad about your ex-wife. Learnt a lot from this
Coz she is a good person but the thing is ,he failed to be with the virtuous woman from God coz of infidelity and narcissist spirit from devil.
But the Lord is faithful soon they will be together
I appreciate his willingness to share this story, it could not be easy. I also appreciate his humility. People, unfortunately, don't speak about these things and live miserable for years. This happens in the diaspora all the time. I hope he and his ex-wife both find happiness.
Am sorry for the loss of your son. May God heal your marriage
Very informative ... through this the man became marriage counselor.
This guy is full of wisdom may God give him a successful second chance 🙏🙏
There's nothing hard before God may he touch the heart of this woman this man is really hurting
There is more to this story than meets the eye 👀 have kuna shida mahali, we need the wife's part of the story. This whole situation caused his son to sink into depression.
True
This man is hurting 😢. May God lead your ways sir
I'm in awe of his gentleness and wisdom. I hope he finds his peace soon. That is all he needs right now
What about the woman who caused him all that
🙏🙏🙏
@mosesmaxpunchlinetv8478 we should listen to both sides
Even serial killers are gentle🙄
Sir, you are right.
Full of wisdom, knowledge and understanding.
Your are a good father.
I salute you.
George keep going.
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I like the way he expressed himself, May the Lord give you strength and you'll heal and your wife will also heal and God will make your marriage work it's not too late.
May the Lord give you strength and answer your prayers.
I like the fact that he accepts that both of them were victims of each other
We've got the same name, both names
It's such a painful touching story. Sorry for having gone through such trauma and thanks for sharing your story with the world.
Soo sorry for loosing your baby may God give you peace which surpasses human understanding.
I agreed with him that the one thing you can’t do it to leave your bedroom,and resolve the issue before bedtime.I relate to this story.thanks for sharing your story.
This man is a good person, may God give you strength to carry on. My brother I Love you with the Love of the Lord. I feel your pain and God will see you Through. One Love
Thanks for sharing with us. Am not yet married but I have learnt a lot on what happened to you sir. Only God knows your pain 🙏.
Lack of communication, and leaving your matrimonial bed will ruin a marriage. Thank you for man’s perspective. I m living it now and i have lost hope in any reconciliation. Praying for God to heal our marriage.
Thank you. "Onge matek" nothing is too difficult. U hv A beautiful family, I pray that ur family find inner peace and love. I love you all.
I love the composure of this man.he loved his family and has alot of respect for his family.
He is a narcissist
From the way this guy is talking, he is actually a humble guy with wisdom. Very few will still talk good about their broken marriages. I walked out after 19 years of marriage. It still pains me. But i know God will give me a man whom we can start a new life. My hopes are high.
May God heal you and give you what your heart desires all the best❤❤❤
Marriage is hard work. We learn as we go. May God give us strength & wisdom as spouses & parents.
I wish the wife could be available to also give her part of the story. Unresolved issues over the years pushed these couple to a bitter end...but hearing from both parties will give a clear picture of the real issues
true. i would like to know why she wont forgive
Yees very true
@@MyJOSE2013 hapo hata Mimi ningetaka kusikia
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I second you, wish we could hear from the woman
You should have simply loved their mom...the best gift any man can give his kids, the rest will fall into place..Can anyone really make us be what they want though,..just wondering? Those kids😢😢
May God bless you baba George and I pray for healing in your marriage and if ever it can not be restored may the both of you learn from the mistakes and move forward to greatness and be friends for the sake of yourself and your children.
Amen
This man is real . He recognises his mistakes and very couregous to talk about his life ...while waiting to hearing from the wife thank u Sir.
Life is spiritual, the devil is attacking in many dimensions like octopus,we should do everything possible to fight the enemy spiritually.
There is so much emotion in this video, you can sense how emotional this things has affected this man from his voice. I sincerely appreciate him for sharing his stories.
God heal him and grant him strength.
I watched an interview of the Kagia couple whose daughter became an alcoholic but later was transformed. They learnt about their different temperaments and how to communicate better. Mr. Kagia in particular did a strling job to hold the rocking ship.
Love triumphs against all odds
It would be great to hear from the wife too. Untold pain is real.
My dears let us learn and embrace family meetings be it on monthly or even after 3/4 months, in that ways we get to know each others problems and how to go about
some family gathering are the reasons of some marriages shattering down. If see someone not involving family and relatives in their marriages dont blame them they have reasons as to why
So painfull story that only God can give strength, I had the same problem 'silence" it killed my marriage too, I don't believe in love and marriage
My silence has saved mine
I play dumb
@@nurugizani3075 you're being abused
Marriage is about communication, once it breaks then you are done. May God heal your hearts for the loss. I hope you can sit down and reconcile as we also wait for the lady's right of reply.
Thanks for sharing your story sir. You have saved someone's marriage and life.
My marriage is heading here and I always pray it does not affect my kids, my hubby is a contributor, I am heading for the door, I believe there is some story from the wife too
I pray that this will be a message to so many couples going through uphills in their marriage. it is really heartfelt
What a wonderful message to families from a personal story of pain and tragedy. Indeed this gentleman has taken full responsibility on his part which is a rare gesture today.
Wow, what an experience!! He is a gentle man. A lot of lessons learnt. Thank you for sharing your experience.
Silence is the first killer of marriage.refusing to discuss issues.
Very true....it is very important to have communication on all issues... silence is a killer....
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Keep strong George.God will make everything beautiful, at His own time.
Very educative ,I have learnt grt lessons ...similar cases in Uganda
Very wise intelligent man, it's a pity he could not fix is marriage.
It's not intelligence that fixes a marriage
@@nurugizani3075 I was not saying intelligence fix a marriage.
It takes two responsible people to fix a marriage
@@akotheffie8087 correct I agree.
It would be fair if we heard Mrs Chacha's side of the story... However I like the fact that Mr Chacha's has acknowledged his role in the breakup.
I always say, no one belongs to anybody. Marriage is 2 people who want and choose everyday to be together. They are both grieving 2 deaths. Marriage and son
If only we could hear from the wife...life is not easy better a separation than being in a coffin
George, God has given you wisdom to handle every situation, may God continue to strengthen you more it's my prayer one day you will write a book that many generations will pass through and it will be useful.
Very well articulated. Sorry for what life has dealt you. Perhaps you could turn the poems into a book in your son's memory?
Yhooo what a polished or refined gentleman. Unfortunately life is not always a red carpet. You such a gallant with wisdom. Mind opening!
I have learnt a lot. Family life is hard. Lets invite God into all that we are. God bind us with one accord. Love is the key to all.
I'm so sorry for what happened in this family. I pray that there is still room for rekindling this marriage. Could we find Mrs. Chacha and ask her what really happened? Mr. Goerge sounds like a very legit husband, it would be nice to get to hear what mrs. Chacha went through as well.
I thougth so
Usikute ni kiboko ndio ilifukuza huyu mwanamke, juu wa Kuria huwanga wakali na kuchapa wife ndio zao... adding that he is also a military.
@@zaitunisagwa2082 😳😳😳💃💃💃
@@zaitunisagwa2082 eti kiboko😢😢
In the previous interview he said he has another family, happily married even him and his new wife share the same password on their phones. I am surprised he has left out some very important details he gave in earlier interview.
Without communication there is no relationship, without trust their is basis , without respect there is no need to continue
Communication is the key to any relationship 💯. Talking 👄 to each other is very healthy 👌
The boys are grown ups now, they should look up their father and try to appreciate him, he is also hurting .
Mr. Chacha, life's challenges are for all humanbeings. Focus on people who lift you up. Only God knows it all. Sharing your story will help many people. God Bless You Abundantly Always.
MR. CHAHA
I THINK AND HOPE THAT I KNOW YOUR SISTER IN THE NETBALL TEAM .
TUONGE BAADAE.
This show was very important full of wisdom from a Man of intelligence, I appreciate Sir I have learnt that we should resolve each and every issues whenever they come up and move.
You're a great man
And u did ur best
She too is a very good woman
And a lovely mother, i hv learnt
A lot 4rm ur story u. May God bless you
And ur family
Communication is key in any relationship.
I respect this man for being honesty for what happened to his marriage..thanks for being an African black man who highlighted the major issues which makes a marriage soar..If couples put God first..all these problems will be solved and continue with a normal health relationship...A teaching to all us ..a powerful testimonial discussion l enjoyed to listen to
Abuser's do not have time for self analysis, as they lack empathy and compassion.
Say that again, I'm talking from experience
Right
This is a good man! I pray he finds true love.
I literally cried expressing that you love her even now. Wow. May God guard them always and you too.
I salute you George and I wish all married couples would listen and watch this video. What I have learned from you is that you are very humble human being. What is trash for somebody else is a TREASURE for someone else. So wish my ex husband would listen to this message because he was very selfish and abusive when we were still staying together. Hoping that you find peace and closure in your new chapter and God gives you the right direction to move on with your life. What I know is that life goes on.
Amen
It's better a broken engagement than a broken marriage
I need to hear the other side, he's not saying the wrongs on his side
It doesn't matter the fact remains both sides are no longer together
its better a broken marriage than couples killing one another
Sure
@@MyJOSE2013 sure better
Councelling and therapy is very important for you and the sons and your wife also to help with the healing process. Best wishes.
this is real courage. he is ready to heal.
Thank you very much George, a lot of wisdom and great insights.
So sorry George for what happened to your marriage but it's good you left coz may something worse could have happened
It is sad that they had to part ways. He sounds like such a wonderful man. One of the many who try to keep a marriage going. Thanks for sharing your story
Imagine when there was this silent war between the parents, the most responsible son Got silently affected mentally. And no body was there for him. This is so unfortunate. LET US SPEAK OUT.
If God allows & I get married,I promise to apply his knowledge into it coz his.a great speaker.
Be blessed George am Justine Jolly from Ug
Thank you for coming out to share. You have spoken life giving words. I have learned a thing or too. I'm inspired may the Lord heal you and entire Family. Kudos
The story is touching but I fear. Narcissists are normally so eloquent and always presenting to be smart,wise and calm when they know the world is watching! I fear!👀. Sorry about your son.😭
I think the wife was a dismissive avoidant attachment personality
To me you are a good man. There is so much wisdom in your talking sir. Indeed issues need to be sorted out same day. And indeed in marriage dialogue is very very important. God help us. May God give you peace
To be sincere both men and women we are suffering cause of luck of communication and ignorance (and more than that not allowing GOD to drive our marriage).
Watching from uganda. Tnx for the show, av learnt something.
Thank you so much for watching
You can’t change anyone in marriage. After 14 years, I can say that don’t leave any issue unresolved even if the other person is adamant continue to push getting help to break the ice. We can move past anything if both parties are willing to communicate and put our EGOS aside.
Very well spoken Gentlemen, although there were so much Emotional Abuse involved. Thanks so much for sharing. The Host is the Best. Keep up Kawira
May the Lord of all peace and reconciliation visit this family in a mighty way. May those young men know Jesus and hold on to Him. He is the answer for the fallen world we live in. My heart goes out to this family.
Great advice indeed!. Thanks a lot George. May your son Rest in Peace. Shalom.
So brave, so selfless, so vulnerable in public view - to help broken people, marriages and families ... I pray for your complete healing and that of your family ... and may your story be a true lesson to many who are seeking the courage to conquer their mountains ... namaste 🙏
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Ur history ,ur background tells me a lot !there was lack of communication may be due to fear or abuse that coarse her to bottle in! Family the know the true story than what u telling us
This man is full of wisdom and a nice man i wish the woman wld come out and we hear her side too.
I am sorry sir. Mental health issues are very real. Its unbelievable how someone can just behave normal one second and decide to leave this world in the next moment. I have lost a close relative this way and its very painful. May your son rest well. Poleni sana.
For sure Mr chacha you're strong man may God heal your heart
This type as a hubby is pure red flag....😎
How? Too calm?
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