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Signs You're Not Exactly A Man's Man
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 มี.ค. 2014
- All this stuff isn't what being a man is really about anyway.
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How to be a man:
1. Be as tranquil as a forest, but on fire within.
2. Find your center.
3. Be swift as the coursing river, with all the force of a great typhoon.
4. With all the strength of a raging fire, mysterious as the dark side of the moon.
Rose Ryuzaki Fucking Disney
Rose Ryuzaki There is no "dark side of the moon."
SaidSheThatsWhat Sure there is. The sun shines on one half of the moon, the other half is the "dark side"... it's called NIGHT.
However, it truly is no more mysterious than the daylight side. The "far side" is a different matter.
I Boarshock Yes. Just like the earth's "dark side."
Thanks for capitalizing 'night,' otherwise I wouldn't have understood.
SaidSheThatsWhat
Yep, it's surprisingly un-obvious. Sometimes when talking about a remote location I like to lower my voice and in a deep mysterious tone say "It's located on the dark side of the earth!!!" (when appropriate, of course). You can make any place sound irresistably exotic that way.
SOFT HANDS ARE ATTRACTIVE.
How to be a free human being: Screw any stereotype and gender role, and be who you are.
Justice has spoken
traits of a real man:
1.) wears pink
2.) wears any fucking colour
3.) wears pants
4.) wears skirts
5.) wears anything
6.) wears nothing
7.) when they say they are/identify as a man, thats it ! you are not less or more of a man for your behaviors, choices and/or genitals etc, etc, etc !
Mydra Xiarys Super gay.
+Ferdinand Cramer what's the problem? Are you against gays?
zach walker No, just sayin' that wouldn't look manly at all
+Mydra Xiarys Tumblr? Tumblr.
No you claiming to be male doesn't make you male. XX chromosomes make you male.
You don't see me running around as "transwhite" so I get my white privileges do you?
why are these things considered "manly"? these mean nothing? i hate gender stereotypes.
thank you
As a heterosexual man, maybe it's more important to be a "lady's man" (not saying that I am) than a "man's man". I'm kind of a modern guy. I like sports. I do my own auto maintenance. I like sex as much as the next guy, and I like beer even more than the next guy does. However, I also believe in not being a total tool towards women, and the importance of treating her like a lady. Many of us have daughters or sisters, and we all have mothers. Dudes need to evolve to a point when being a heterosexual man doesn't mean just the desire to bang chicks. We should enjoy the company of women, and thoroughly appreciate all that makes them feminine and interesting. I'm not saying that I'm above feeling just raw, primal, carnal attraction. Sure, I have seen gorgeous women, and have found myself unable to properly separate mere aesthetic attraction from carnal desire, but I believe it is possible to be respectful, while not repressing the primal part of my masculinity.
But a man's man is what attracts ladies - thus your argument fails. Most women still want a man that's taller than she is (no matter how tall she is), makes more money than she does (no matter how much she makes), and is stronger then she is etc etc
dothedeed That wasn't an argument. It was just an opinion. Anyway, I'm not weak by any sense of the word. Further, I happen to think that the views I've expressed enhance my strength, and do nothing to diminish my manhood. I'm talking about evolving, friend.
Well worded my friend, I agree with you 100%
You are freaking awesome. I wish I could give your comment more than 1 thumbs up.
That was beautiful.
Zach is adorable I love him so much, he's so cute
He could be like your lil puppy!
You think he is adorable, but is he the type to man you'd want to be a husband?
You think he is adorable, but is he the type to man you'd want to be a husband?
I gues everyone defines it differently what makes a guy a man.
Personly I dont care about sports, I dont drink alcohol, Can't really repair anything, can't grow a good beard and dont feel a need to discuss the looks of all attractive women I see walking by if I am standing with other guys.
But to me that doesnt make someone a man. Taking responsibility for your actions, and treating women properly is though. To me thats the difference between a boy and a man.
That and I find it more important what women consider to be a man than what other men consider to be a man.
Willem Verheij "That and I find it more important what women consider to be a man than what other men consider to be a man."
And this is, by definition of the term "man's man" (which is the topic of the video), what disqualifies you from being one.
Mr. T.B. There is room for both, I tend to persue what interests please me, but not at the expense of other people.
And it pleases me to try and be a gentleman towards women in a time when chivalry seems pretty much dead.
In a bus I'll always stand up for a woman if theres not enough seats, for old men too.
It just doesnt feel right when I dont do it.
Look, i'm not judging any of you... ok, maybe a little bit, but being a gentlemen is not about giving your seat to healthy woman in the bus who clearly can live trough a couple of bus stop on their feet. You want to be a gentlemen? A men of the people? Good on you, But being a gentlemen is not about trying to score some imaginary "good guy" points with the ladys, it's about trying your best to help others in need, it's about being pleasant, respectful and well mannered.
So please, dont give me this " I'll always stand up for a woman if theres not enough seats". Would you give your seat if the were only healthy guys on that bus, and if not what do you think this makes you, a gentlemen or a white knight full of misplaced good intentions? I'm going with the latter.
Mr. T.B. Well I do aim to be pleasant, respectfull and well mannered. Maybe I am a bit old fasioned but I simply try to be courteous to women.
I'm not doing this to try and hook up with a girl, I'm simply trying to provide a counter balance to the many pigs out there who give us men a bad name. Just showing them there's still descent men around.
Not that I mean that men who dont stand up for women are not descent, I just mean that there are quite a few men very abusive towards women.
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Wow, our society's stereotypes are ridiculous. Liking alcohol and sports is what defines if you are manly?
Many Manly Men do these things so yes, it is safe to consider that these are the things that define a "Man" in today's society.
hadezmage Well sports are okay I guess even though I'm not into them, but alchohol shouldn't be encouraged by society at all, there's nothing manly or attractive about a substance that causes violence, road accidents, unsafe sex and brain damage.
Bud Charles You sound like a magazine, man.
Pedro Machado I didn't know magazines were that sensible.
Bud Charles
Well it's not really about what's "encouraged". Just what is seen as manly traits, because it's a typical male behaviour. Times and perceptions can also change though, of course.
That awkward moment when you realize that men like this make tons more money sitting at a computer than men working every day of their lives in manual labor.
Nothing wrong in manual labour tho
That's why it's better to sit on a computer all day than do manual labour, because you get paid more money for doing the easier work .
That awkward moment when you realize that men who make more money sitting in front of a computer are more likely to be miserable and hate their jobs and be slaves of corporate greed
Steps on being a man.
1. BE FEARLESS
2. GIVE NO SHIT
3. GIVE NO SHIT ABOUT STEREOTYPES (or what man is suppose to be)
4. NO FAPPING, AND NO PORN, PURE HARDCORE DISCIPLINE
5. BE NO SLAVE TO THE MIND (Refer to step 4)
6. BE FEARLESS OF OPINION OF OTHERS
Phanteus I actually prefer to be a gentelman, it's nicer to the world to have more gentelman rather than "man", it's quite simple:
1.- Be respecfull.
2.- Don't swear
3.- Smile to everyone
4.- Be helpful
5.- Be confident
6.- Perform random acts of kindness
and the most important of all keep always your word (Don’t make a promise if you’re going to break it or if you cand do it)
If every man followed this rules the world would be a real nice place.
Maximo OG de LC Tip fedora?
I know this is going to sound very tumblr-esque, but I don't think gender is something to be fulfilled. If someone identifies as a man and they masturbate, they're still as much of a man as any other man. Not all men objectify the gender(s) they're attracted to. Although I'm attracted to men and look at porn, I don't harass them or treat them as less of a human being than anyone else, and I wouldn't think anyone else does (unless they're an asshole, but that's a whole other problem). And as much as I hate admitting this, if those assholes identify as men, they still have the right to be considered men.
Phanteus men who give tips to other men about how to be a man are total douchebags. usually creepy weirdoes. but you keep doing you. whatever floats your boat.
***** I didn't say no sex did I? Get the real thing or don't at all. Either way, it is weak to be overrun by one's urges. Slay and conquer the mind, or let it slay you.
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This is totally me. I hate it when people says I am not those kind of man. There is no one size fits all, I am not a stereotypical man..... I am sick and tired of hearing people telling me to man up.....
+香口膠 That is great! I think this will be me if I get a car one day!
Dude, if you're just putting a little effort to appreciate yourself, people Will see it, and you'll be whatever you desire. Muscles and beard dont go far. One step after the otter does. Go make the World a better place. I believe in you !
Me too :( im not that kind of guy that likes soccer and stuff and i would like to change myself to make them see me as a guy just like them.
Taeyeon Snsd Oh DEAR! You are a SONE and a Taeyeon fan and that makes you more of an awesome person that being any king of man will ever make you!
When I saw your name and there was a notification that someone commented here I was confused and thought it was a reply to one of my kpop video comments! But we SONEs are everywhere! SONEs fighting, SNSD fighting!
Taeyeon Snsd I don't like soccer, football or basketball. :/ And people say I am crazy, like I just don't.
Just because your bad at sports doesn't mean you shouldn't be able to catch basic objects, that's just pathetic...
Awe, darn. I'm pathetic.
Or you just don't have very good hand eye coordination :c
That's just bad coordination since we don't practice with sports... doge aside.
a bullet is a basic object so hmmmm dodge a bullet or catch it? :O hmmmm i don't want to be pathetic and less of man so i will catch it! :D wonder mouse will be proud of me!!!!!!! anything for you wonder mouse!!!!!
- RIP
It's ok. I'm not exactly a woman's woman.
neither am i
Neither am... oh wait, I'm a guy.
Ankush Sehgal
made my day :D
Ankush Sehgal Lulz xD
What do you mean?
I'm not a man's man..... AND I'M PROUD OF IT!!!
Same here!
Honestly most girls now a days find it cute
'Cause it is lmao ^^^
I actually like these kind of guys, I find them cute.
+Yair Chotam why is cute a bad thing?
Yair Chotam
No it's not
Yair Chotam
not at all
what's up with this dude? if was called cute i would not complain
Guys like this don't get laid.
All of these are, except jars, but I'll explain why this isn't because "I'm not a mans man"
Can't grow convincing facial hair - that all depends on levels of testosterone, something you can't control without pharmaceuticals
Concerned about the presence of bugs - how does jumping away from something that pops out of nowhere make you less manly?
Alcohol tastes like fire - it does taste like fire. People who say it doesn't are lying, and they're lying because they don't want people to think they aren't manly, but IMO, integrity/honesty is more important than pretending to enjoy straight spirits.
Helpless at auto-repair - so because I spend my time learning stuff more useful than auto-repair, I'm not manly? It should be that people who don't study science aren't manly.
Shy away from ogling women - my workmates ogle women all the time, I don't join in because I think it's disrespectful, she is someone's sister/daughter/mother/wife, I'm not going to go all crazyhorny and start going "damn dat ass is fi-ine" just so people think I'm manly.
Sports not being your strong suit - jeez this stereotype... why is liking sports manly? Why isn't being academic more manly than liking sports?
This is how it's been for the past centuries. I myself am not a "ladies man" but you can never change these stereotypes.
You can control your testosterone levels. Eating right and regular exercise increases your testosterone levels. Stop making excuses for your laziness.
Pissing your pants over a tiny fucking spider is effeminate. Stop making excused for your cowardice.
If you have a car, then you should know how to maintain it. The underlying message is self-sufficiency, not necessarily auto repair.
You don't need to ape out when checking out women. No matter how much of a fedora-tipping white knight you act like, it'll all be in vain because it's not like women will think highly of you for not being attracted to them.
You don't need to like sports, but rather be athletic and enjoy things that require teamwork and coordination.
Rusty Shackleford Your views on masculinity are predated and misogynistic.
I pity your infallible ignorance.
KiwiShane247
I literally can't tell if you're trolling or not.
Nathan Pollard Shush, peasant.
Wow it must have been embarrasing to have been picked to do this video.....
Big balls you must have to play that role so I conclude he is the manliest of us all.
julittok Its not a role.
I'm in the middle of some calibrations.
Garrus glad to see you suvived the reapers in 3. To bad for Shepard, a damn fine soldier.
kubajz b.. Give me a fucking break, Garrus could live or die in ME1 and ME2 though he does survive in 3. Shepard could live or die in ME1 and ME2 though for Shepard it can go either way in ME3 if you dont make a few mistakes which are spoilers. There is no spoilers here. If you have not played ME1 or 2 DO NOT play ME3. You will regret it.
Anyone out there who thinks this is actually adorable?
He's a funny one. Sometimes he's actually hot and other times he's just goofy looking (which some girls like). He's sort of hot in a nerdy way I guess. Don't think guys like to be called 'adorable' though. They get all sensitive over it.
Madeleine Hammersmith lol. Theyll be fine. It really is cute, though. Ive always had a thing for nerdy... geeky guys like this. C:
Nope I don't. because he's a little bit stupid ! and has lack of social skills
Honey Badger
It's cause you know for sure if you got into a relationship with a guy like this, you can be the dominant one. And secretly that turns you on. Have at it lol. Us real men will be busy changing the clutch on our car and bouncing your texts cause we don't have the time to play your games
olskoolnewpaint what? No, dominance has nothing to do with it... its the sweetheart and the sympathy that we love. I have a boyfriend like this. Even though hed get killed in a fight over me, he still tries《3 he is the type of guy to watch the notebook with you and bring you icecream... go out 12:00 at night to buy you pads... its adorable. And we love being treated like this. And they love being who they are and doing it for us if they have a woman respectable and loyal enough to do it for.
Zach is like my ideal man.
***** Explain?
Brittany Schaubhut Why would you want a man that's more effeminate than you??
Brittany Schaubhut me too….and i'm a man….
Cesar Garcia What's wrong with being feminine? I find these traits endearing and even attractive in a partner.
Brittany Schaubhut Then might as well date another girl.
Some jars are packet so tightly that you can't possible open them without breaking the glass. So instead of pretending to be "manly", be smart and poke a hole in the can to release the pressure. Now anyone can open the jar.
rapu Thank youuuuu
I do tend to panic when I see a bee, wasp, or hornet; that's because I'm allergic to their venom. That's not un-manly, it's my survival instinct kicking in...
I can relate...
Even worse, I'm scared shitless of them even though I've never been stung before. The way people describe the pain makes me shiver in fear ఠ_ఠ
Any man would be scared. Well I mean, I guess I'm not a man since I walk through bees everyday :/
Restrain from ogling a woman doesnt make you a man but a gentleman.
SilentMover95 You are confused. It is perfectly honourable to comment privately to a fellow man. What would be ungentlemanly would be to disturb a strange woman, or to make obvious your attention to the woman (by comment, or by obnoxious body language) when in company of other women.
No, it makes you a mangina. Why is lust "un-gentelman-like"?
+WiggaMachiavelli Exactly, it's perfectly normal to look at somebody you find attractive. It's just stimulus and response. There is also nothing wrong with subtly noting the attractive person to your friend. As you said it's crossing the line when you become an annoyance to the person with unwanted overtures, comments, or gestures.
YES!! And NOT catcalling! Plus points if us men don't do that.
+Yasper MADMOON nahhh ogling a woman is fine,doesn't really creep women,and it is not as bad as catcalling
Zach is adorable. Who cares if you aren't manly.
Honestly, these are the kinda guys I like.. The adorable ones.
+Debra-Ann Walker same
+Sabrina Manly men have problems too.
He's so cute!
+Debra-Ann Walker OH where are you? WHERE
I actually prefer guys like this, not really into the whole macho thing
so you like little pusies
johnathanru you could say that, yeah
johnathanru iy rike peepo hoo kin spel.
Knowing how to repair cars or sports has nothing to do with being macho, it's just a stereotype.
when things are oky around u yes but when not u will wish this macho man
"Doesn't make you less of a man" - Said no woman ever
The woman who made this
@@krishnamckay3247 she wouldn’t date him though
Girl be saying "he's so cute actually i like him" , " i prefer him than the other manly men" , " he's kind he's so cute " in comments in real life be like : i like you as a friend don't get me wrong but we're friends
Right!? Women don't know how they respond emotionally. I've seen and heard about this many times. It's all sunshine and rainbows for a little while but later on they will begin to loose interest and essentially resent them for being too soft because surprisingly enough, women don't like being the man in the relationship. Now going back to what you said, guys like this will almost always get fried zoned by the same people who say they perfer this type of guy.
This doesn't happen. "Alpha" males are getting salty because nowadays no one likes them and they try to shame other men for succeeding😂
@@khanusmagnus577 end of the day none of this nonsense matters. It's about looks if someone's not physically attracted then it's a deal-breaker for most people.
Exactly
Nahhh thats not always true. I have plenty of friends with married parents who have either reversed roles or mixed/genderless roles. I, personally am ONLY attracted to feminine guys, same with my mom and my sister (yes my dad is 'soft'.)
I would date this man more than others :3
Andrea Guzmán And you'd get tired of him after a week of not being able to do shit.
why? what do you find appealing about him? and you're not allowed to comment on looks
The first two replies to this comment are just ridiculous. She's not allowed to comment on looks? Why do you have have authority on what she says? Why can't she like this guy? I can tell you right now that Id rather be with a guy who is nice and sweet than be with a douche bag like you.
Crystal because of the context of the video :)
Andrea Guzmán hey i have soft hands...
I never shy away from looking at girls.
I sometimes have trouble with jars, but only one days when my artistes is bad.
I never really liked it just seems meaningless.
I don't like alcohol, it just taste terrible.
I'm helpless when it comes to mechanics things.
I can cook like a chef.
I'm a good shot and I can maintain and repair firearms.
I can get a injured person back on their feet and if I'm given a enough time I can nurse them back to health.
I have no mercy on bugs like fleas, ticks, mosquitoes, roaches, and spiders.
I'm loyal to people that I love and would gladly die for them.
Just because you can't do something that's considered "manly" doesn't mean that you're a useless man.
Men should breakout of the stereotypes.
Being able to repair a gun isn't manly.
Ya.
That's why I watch My Little Pony.
The show is awesome jelly.
Nah. Men should only drop the stereotype of not being able to keep their dick in their fucking pants when they see women. Other than that, they're fine.
Kierron Moore The more violent the offense is the more manly it is. Guess who you are not going to fuck with? The murderer.
Zach Mandelpoop Real men don't use weapons.
Strength of character is more important for a man than strength of muscle.
Strength of character is more important for males and females....why is strength of character only important for "men"?? Thats important for both
robbbyyy25 nobody perfect, dude.
Yes, that is why we always say, "Be a man" and "Man up."
Kaze Kumo
Those who think they are perfect really annoy those of us who actually are perfect.
Srsly though this is exactly my type.
katyapoloni Okay, if I saw a spider I'll be secretly howling in my mind but won't let a soul know that I'm shivering with fear inside.
Alcohol do not taste good.
Jars are not a problem for me.
I can probably catch a can of soda thrown from a distance.
Cannot repair a broken down car engine to save my life.
Gawking at women, not my thing.
I just recently learnt how to open my car bonnet.
Am I your type?
+caveman861 Same as the video, except for the facial hair and jar "problems"...
+katyapoloni Oh gosh mine too. So freaking cute! I have done my fair share of dating these kinds of guys though. I like them timid as well (blushing guys are
a d o r a b l e and so HOT) but it usually ends because I do like guys with bit of a will. Like a little bit of "go" in them. I'm fine taking the first steps, and most of the steps really, but it's SO BORING taking *all* of them, ya'know? I want this kind of guy as long as he can "man up" a bit occasionally. XD
+katyapoloni Oh gosh mine too. So freaking cute! I have done my fair share of dating these kinds of guys though. I like them timid as well (blushing guys are
a d o r a b l e and so HOT) but it usually ends because I do like guys with bit of a will. Like a little bit of "go" in them. I'm fine taking the first steps, and most of the steps really, but it's SO BORING taking *all* of them, ya'know? I want this kind of guy as long as he can "man up" a bit occasionally. XD
Ahah guess your type is men who are useless
Nice to meet you? I cant remember the last time i let a stranger cook in my kitchen, even if she was attractive
Makeveli The Don that's the office's kitchen... so yea, maybe she is a new coworker.
+Makeveli The Don :It was more like an Office Pantry area where ppl can grab a bite from the snacks, few workplaces provide free snacks for employees working in shifts..!!
Every guy has a few "unmanly" attributes about him, whether he'd like to admit or not. I long for the day people can just be human and not get caught up in these gender stereotypes.
I hear ya, but there are things that do define a man’s man.
Being a man is easy, you only need one thing : a Y chromosome.
Lmfao! XD
being a man is one thing but thing a manly man is another
Valen son REDBULL + ESPRESSO FTW
Avalanche Being manly is impossible.
Manliness is subjective. It's like beauty, or justice, orpity, or love. Every one of these are human ideas, with no reality by itself.
Everybody has his own definition of love, and justice and manliness, but at the end of the day, it's not real, and since it's not, it's impossible to achieve.
Conclusion : to be 'manly' you need a Y chromosome, and deal with the rest as best as you can.
Oh and don't take it the wrong way : you can be in love with someone, and it's very real for you, but it's not for me, not for anyone else. It's your reality, not THE reality. That's what I mean by "not real". If you're not here to express it, it stops existing.
Valen son I caught your yes man reference. Not lost on everyone :)
Everyone's bashing masculine man and this same girls will go to masculine guys.
This doesn't happen lol. Nowadays masculine men are just getting cucked or screwed
@@khanusmagnus577 and feminine men are not? you are crazy
Fun fact: the BuzzFeed Try Guys have lower testosterone than a man over 80.
HAHAHHHAAH YES
Yep! There is a media agenda to emasculate men
Should be defined by the way he treats others, not whether or not he can fix a car, open a jar, or even ogle a woman.
Well being respectable is something all humans should have. these examples are traditionally associated with masculinity
One could take this video with a pinch of salt. Knowing buzzfeed they're probably just poking fun at the unreal standards we as a society have set for ourselves.
Binyamin the Basketweaver Not all of us can be ultra-manly, because then there will be no one for the manly people to be compared to. Also, soft hands are nice
Funny how most of the people here who complain about not being fully man are alll having an anime profile pic.
Conclusion; Anime = not manly.
Grant Williams You're 6th grade hipster, don't tell me what to do!
***** Go away.
Well, asians like me rarely get a full beard, oh and I like animes. Hahaha. I just think it is more associated with lineage than manliness.
Grant Williams Don't pick a fight with people, then. You wanted this.
Grant Williams We knew, but remember that we have your full name and any person on the internet with the time and the ability can track you down.
Dan and Phil most likely have these "problems"
And Dan falls down every time he sits down in a chair and Phil always has a terrible pun for everything, but they are both my type of man
+Kassandra Gomez I love them too 😂
yes
Becky? .... Becky with the good hair? Smh.
she actually has alopecia and ended up shaving her head
Dude this was 2014
+MsMcBreezey what is that again I forgot 🤗🤗
Chris Chamberlain a type of hair loss that occurs when your immune system mistakenly attacks hair follicles
Sign you're not a mans man:
You own a Volkswagen Beetle
not being manly doesn't mean you're not a man
so what your saying is not being gay doesn't mean your not gay?
liam quinn
no thats different smartass
for example, Justin bieber is still a man .
liam quinn he's saying not "acting gay" doesn't mean you're not gay.
Defplay Mustapha HELL NO
I found it
This is it
This is the video
It describes me, perfectly, in my life
+ChapterNineTv pussyyyyy!!1
+ChapterNineTv yep.....except the alcohol part, I actually like it :) (not getting drunk of course, this is the worst)
cringe
Is that your mom in the profile lmao
SOY BOY
zach, i know you're not as manly as any other man, but you're a cutie patootiee to me
Joey Joe Joe what is there to be embarrassed about? he's a sweet guy. he's super cute. he may not be adept in the "manliness" category, but that doesn't make him less of a man. is rather have a guy like him than a typical "bro~douche" any day of the week.
69th like hehe
I shy away from ogling women, but it's called respect
What happened to you ? You think looking at women is disrespect? How'd you get so broken?
***** Preachin' the truth over here!! Thank you for that.
***** As long as you're not cat-calling them and making them uncomfortable, by all means.
***** Feminism pretty much made it a crime to be a man in this world. Women can go around with the tightest dress hiked up to her ass and cut in front down to her belly button, but if a man looks he's a pig. Gotta love it.
19red80 I doubt a feminist would be wearing that, so there's that.
I know it's staged and all, but that was rather sweet at the end there.
Man were created to support there loved ones, men should be aloud to explore. It is not easy being a man.
A man: Respects other men (and women)
Respects nature (But isn't a tree hugger)
Appreciates good food & beverages (not always alcohol)
Has hobbies or interests (not only sports)
Doesn't brag or is a bigot
Put up a video about unmanly men and all of a sudden being gay comes into it. The ignorance in some of these comments is unbelievable...smh
But you gotta admit that car he was driving was pretty gay.
Baby Sniffer yeah a pink buggy puts sexuality into question lol
I got some gay friends and they all act like the guy in the video, maybe except the fact that my friends can be more fabulously flamboyant. One thing is forsure, you're still a man in my book if you have a penis. I don't know what else there is to it than that.
***** Glad to see someone is supporting my theory.
Rhapzodic Well, I am gay and I don't act like all of this. I love and do sports, I can open a jar myself and so on. There are gay men that are more like the guy in the video and there are gay people like me who act like "normal" man and you can't even see that they're gay because they don't look like that. So... yeah :D
The best way to help gain true equality in this world is to throw out societies expectations on what a man should be.
Achieving true equality is very hard. It's nothing that will magically be achieved by sissifying men.
Djentard
Its only considered sissifying because of societal constraints on what men should be. Consider this cooking a professional field that is fairly male dominated is still considered by marketing companies and many people to be too feminine for men to want to pursue.
Arella17 I'm sorry, but we as species of animal have hundred of thousands of years (hell, fucking millions) of evolution behind us and men were always the stronger, more dominant gender that was hunting for the family. It's in our nature, simple as that.
It can be changed, however, but believing it can be done in a matter of a generation or two (or even half a millennium) is cute, very cute. Ofcourse you can force the genders to go against their very own nature, but that is a very (excuse the misuse of the word) fascist thing to do. Should we let men who are effeminate be effeminate, sure. Same with masculine women, if they want, let them. But politically supporting some radical feminist idea of the abolishment of genders, no, no, no.
We should seek true harmony, not true equality. Where man helps woman and woman helps man in their respective fields where they lack. Because what you are trying to achieve is to find one unique butterfly, a very beautiful, but a very rare and unique butterfly, it only exists 1-10 of them, that rare, in a rain forest.
Good luck.
Lmao, its comments like these that make me cringe. To gain equality we don't need to throw out our identities, we just need to learn to respect other peoples identities and realize that every person and culture has their pro and cons. Not become one giant grey human blob.
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Oh yes because forcing someone to be married with kids they don't want is so beneficial to society as a whole.
If you are not afraid of spiders you are possessed by something dark.
Im not afraid of spiders😐
Soyboys 👩🦰👩🦰
I've always found myself more attracted to men like this. I like wirey build, no facial hair and not overtly masculine. I look at guys that are super masculine more like brothers than a love interest.
Ok, I just wanted to point out, when it comes to women liking guys like this, it is all personal preference. I know that I am not attracted to a 100% "man's man". I like guys who are awkward and skinny. I am more attracted to skinny guys than to muscular guys (Truth!). But I know that it is because (And No Judging, Because You All Know It's True) my father was very skinny and he was my rock growing up. Thus, I feel like I idealized him, which extends to my choice in partner. That's how it works, people!
As a 6'2, almost 6'3, 160 pounder, this is great and comforting news.
It sounds more like you are into hipsters. Which is its own dichotomy of psychology.
Well, I guess it depends on your definition of hipster. I mean, I don't know if you would classify Brendon Urie as a hipster (well...maybe..), but I have always thought he was hot.
Hipster is a mentality, nothing to do with the physical.
Yeah, that's what I mean. I am not attracted to only what I think of as hipsters. I don't think me or anyone really can put what is their personal attraction into a box. It's variable. Even if one or two things are what you notice, it's the whole being you really notice...This went really philosophical on me...
I used to be that guy as a teenager, then I discovered lifting.
I discovered lifting now I’m just this guy but buff
damn, I was cringe af 8 years ago
Girls actually like guys like these, you think they want to listen about sports, hang with the "bros"? Have a guy who can't settle with just one girl? These types of guys are actually much better, trust me I know from some of my friends gal friends
***** Just stfu and gtfo u shit brained bitch.
TehCyxion No, i disagree, i think insulting a sexist pig like that is needed, and thank you for agreeing with me, tho i am not a "ma'am" you sexist, why did u think i was a girl?
So now I'm a sexist, lol. Alright, you are dilusional. I had simply read your first comment wrong and thought you were a girl, I'm sorry, mistakes happen. And now you're calling me a sexist even thogh there is nothing sexist about it. All this rage makes you look foolish. Sir. Or plant, or whatever you are.
***** This is unbelievable. I'm almost regretting even agreeing with this guy, I mean geez. Calm down a bit, will ya? D:
TehCyxion no, i will do what i god damn please, this is my comment, i can say what i want because i'm standing for what i believe in, suck it if you don;t like it.
More male-shaming videos from Buzzfeed.
Make one called "How To Be a Real Women" next. I would love to see the reaction from Wikipedia-trained feminists.
How in this video are men shamed exactly?
@@Herosparkaj41 apparently men aren't men if they are soft
When I was younger I couldn't understand why straight men would want to be a man's man, shouldn't they want to be a women's man.
Oh... this is me...
''That doesn't make you less of a man.'' EXACTLY. Should be more videos like this, a lot more.
When you look tough and masculine on the outside, but are a big huggable teddy bear on the inside. ❤️
misandrist
AKA the kind of man I would be into.
hi
andkontos i died hahahahaha
OMG I totally agreed with u...... :)
I was thinking that the whole time when I was watching the video. :D
Ditto. The lady downstairs is married to a "man's man," and he's a complete brute. There is yelling downstairs every 4 hours of the day, and all he cares about is his 5-foot-lift truck D:
What kind of mam drives a red beetle?
Mhahaha thought the same.
xD i understand having a mini but a red beetle... :/
Antti Jaakkola Minis are awesome, they drive really nice and sporty :P
Dick's so big he doesn't need to prove a thing.
Sappler Soup LMAO! amen to that honey!! :)
And that woman at the end proceeds to friendzone him and get with the bearded guy in the beginning.
This guy is exactly the type of guys I go for. I hate the typical macho, "manly" men
That moment when you realize that guy is you... Shit...
We need Signs You're Not Exactly A Woman's Woman video just to be fair enough :)
Sally D
Ash Lastname Oh gotta check it out thank!
*****
glad I could help :-P
They already did it. Just not the same title.
Sally D
Signs of being ladylike is not your fart.
... im 23
More then half of these are stereotypes..
honestly i am way more attracted to this kind of guys than the machos running around hitting on everyone
Sure you would ..... he's totally the kind of guy that will let you be the male in the relationship. That's what you're actually after, control.
Trust me Chads are way better than machos
@@Race353 Or maybe what they're after is someone who doesn't treat them horribly, and who they can rely on as emotional support, which machos often fail at.
I think gay is spelt wrong in the title
😂
:38 that car.... that...... car
RED PUNCH BUGGY NO PUNCH BACKS! *punches in arm*
***** Ow... no fair
***** **Punches in arm.**
the car says it all
*****
I thought it was pink?
you either have to be very manly, or an outgoing and funny person. If you are not one of these two, say goodbye to the dating game
wielded1 Not necessarily. Some girls like a less traditionally masculine man. Others don't. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
i dont care if your a man or a woman if you have the car at 0:43 you should be ashamed
even if your a genderless sack of shit you should know how to at least open the hood of a car
L44tsmasher735 even if you're a genderless sack of shit you should at least know how to be mature on the internet
Jetzido Honestly though, that car or no car? I'd definitley go for that one rather than an old rusty car (but, hey. that's just me)
@@believesteven9499 The internet is not a mature place though
@@goodsamaritan8417 not a mature? Agree but its also not a place for cursing you know?
I hate seeing a spider on the ceiling above my head. I always get the feeling that it's going to drop on me or descend from a thread and when I look up and it's right above or on my face.
Aha I swear!
The worst is when you seen a spider but when you look back its gone, thats when I use Raid like its Axe body spray.
I thought I was partially lame until I saw this... now I just feel superior.
Well I can tell you any man who works for buzzfeed is certainly not a man's man
Buzzfeed is a fun place to work at lots of hot women and cool stuff
I would love to work there
no kidding, totally my type.
Of course his hands are smooth, he applies lotion every night
So basically you're calling this man a metrosexual hipster?
This video just focuses on masculinity. I think its more important to be responsible, independent, dependable, respectful and ambitious. Rather than just having a beard and opening jars. (although beards are pretty manly)
But if you cant change a flat tire thats pretty weak. :)
I used to do all these things, I'm gay now.
lol you can still do them even if you are gay.
Same
I'm not comfortable enough at school to be myself anymore
That makes you effeminate, not gay.
I don't have any of those problems, but I think they're all quite normal.
He could really use some Old Spice.
Asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness. I think real 'men' have the courage to ask for help
My man needs to pump some iron and Eat a steak with some potatoes. Get him buffed out.
Zach from this video could use plenty of protein and some time lifting weights. I try to lift every three or four days or so. A shame that I can only bench 68 to 70 pounds at the moment.
@Palpatine Always happy to tap into the Dark Side while training, my lord. Wonder if Zach will, too.
@Palpatine Always. The Sith Code resonates with me big time since I'm a hardgainer.
I can see myself as having some of these signs, but some others aren't like me at all. I like sports, and insects don't creep me out very much, but I don't know much about automotive repair, and I don't like it when other guys look at a woman like that. I'm not a stereotypical manly man, but I'm not gay either lol
So they're trying to teach us that if a guy is different than the other guys in any way he's not manly enough...That's bullshit
he reminds me of amazingphil
YAsSS!! He so cute just like him☺️😘😘
yas
Yes and Dan
How to be a man:
1. Be born with XY Chromosomes
Then poor men with XX Chromosomes
Some men are born with klinefelter's syndrome which consists of XXY chromosomes.
And what does that do ?
It means they usually have bigger breasts than XY males and usually less body hair and higher than normal estrogen levels.
All the real men with XX chromosomes please stand up.
i actually find this kind of guy is a lot more attractive.
And this is what;s wrong with the world !! Probably many guys cheated/dumped u, so u need a gay guy next to u ! am trying my best not to be mean !
Sic Lusifer When did this become gay?
Nick Newell Ever since Sic Lusifer became troll...
***** i dont hate them but i hate the notion that society is encouraging such behavior ! and fyi I just criticize , and no Men are not douchbags , neither am I .
Ryan13572nayR Am actually not trolling , am really disliking Men acting like little girls , Its not normal !!! then wats normal :/
this is applied to before I began transitioning to female:
1: I'm really good at sports, but don't make a big deal out of them
2: I used to grow a wicked beard, looked like wolverine (loved it) but hated the itch of facial hair
3: I act as if bugs don't matter to me, but put me in the presence of a pine beetle, expect a ear piercing shriek of terror
4: I can drink as if I had a void at the end of my mouth, but I gave up on it a few years ago because I found nothing appealing in the taste, and I found it a waste in money
5: I was raised by a mechanic/electrician. I know my way around a vehicle
6: I may be transitioning to female, but I've always been attracted to them, so I won't pass up taking in the beauty of another woman
7: Jars...Why is there this strange understanding that jars are hard to open? I've never had any trouble opening them.
8. Again, good at sports, just not religious about them
9: I have a nice thin figure and soft delicate hands/wrists. Who really needs extra size to do daily stuff? I'm stronger than most guys I know :P
Who else here would date Zach?!?
TOTALLY MEEEEEE
I would
You bunch of liers
how to be a man:
1) be swift as the coursing river
2) have all the force of a great typhoon
3) be mysterious as the dark side of the moon.
Done.
I wasn't going to judge on any of those until I saw the pink buggy...
Awwww! That guy is so adorable! :3
too bad this is the same guy who is too shy to talk to you.
Wwattz If I knew a guy liked me and I was interested in him then I would be the one to initiate the relationship.
Adorable? Bitches like you make me sick.
Deshawn Jones Considering you instantly called me a bitch, I can tell you're a classy guy. Guys like you make me single.
suicune2001 bitch, anyone can be called a bitch. Classy guy indeed, I treat the girls I date with the utmost respect. Calling a guy adorable is flat out degrading. We aren't fucking little play toys. If you like soft ass partners, date a girl.
When you have the testosterone levels of an 85 year old but you’re young.
You are supposed to open jars with jar openers because they have some kind of magic seal or something. Do you *seal* what I did there?
This fits me perfectly...
As a gay guy of course I went through all of that every single one.
Every single one of those describes me PERFECTLY. . . except the facial hair. . . I'm 12 and I have an almost but not quite Moustache
get off the internet
. . . Nah I think I'm good
YT should set an age limit/ rating system ... srsly, kid you should go watch more cartoons / sci-fi / gaming stuff... leave this stuff until you're a few more years older...
:T
PokéCenter Me for example, 18 and can grow a full beard since late 17.
When i say a full beard, i mean, no empty spots or not dense enough on some areas, no, its all the same size and growth speed. But i kinda dont need it couse im a cook and i have to shave in 2 to 2 days.
I'm a transgender boy and everyday I feel the pressure to be hyper masculine even if I'm not. It's nice to see that even cis man go through this things.