Financial planner here! I cannot even begin to tell you how many clients I see force open doors only to watch it absolutely blow up in their faces. I know I’m just a stranger on the internet, but I am SO PROUD of the two of you for having the courage to not only stick with your leading and listen to what feels right, but to also share that experience with all of us. It is so rebellious in our current culture to make sound financial decisions and not leverage yourself to the teeth. There is disappointment involved in patience, but being good stewards of the things we are already given always pays off in the end. Thank you for once again living in a glass house as an example and sharing how important management of resources, regardless of your level of success! 💛
You are showing your children how to adjust their expectations to meet the realities of life. You are not settling for less, you are showing gratitude for what you already have. Each other and time to enjoy what you have. A huge burden of debt is rarely the right choice.
You're not ordinary, you're extraordinary 💖 You're not just growing gardeners, you're helping grow good humans 😍 You both model what we need most, Authenticity, affection, connection. 💞
Yes ❤ Yes ❤ Yes 👍🏻💯 🥰😊 I love ❤ them 😍, This Comment 😉💭 PERFECTLY SAID , That sneeze tho 🤧😂 I❤ y'all to bits n pieces Jess n Miah @Roots and Refuge Farm 😉💭❣️... Thanks for sharing your life n farm with us n Helping Us all be better People 🙏🏻💯🥰😂❣️
I SO understand Jess’s desire to have the forever house while all the kids are still home! We wanted our farm for our six kids, but didn’t end up getting it until we had grandkids. I still wish we’d gotten it sooner, but am grateful for the wonderful life we’ve had both with AND without the farm. Our “kids” now love the farm along WITH their families. The grandkids think it’s heaven on earth!😂
Wonderful idea. Just said that prayer. 🙏 We are wanting to build our dream home too. It's on hold as well. Oh my darlin' Jess, kudos for not compromising your integrity! ❤ TTFN Marianne 🌻
"Sometimes when we don't process what we're feeling, it can fuel us onto the wrong path"...wow, thank you for that. That hits home. I've also found that letting go of "what I thought my life was going to be like" is very hard, but is necessary to obtain peace. At 59, I'm still learning that focusing on God's Will and not my plans is most important.
I know this is random, but I loved hearing Miah say, “go look at the sun” (to force the sneeze). When I mentioned looking at the sun makes me sneeze, my husband looked at me like I was crazy. I’d always thought that was the case for everyone, but it’s not the case for him. I’m glad to hear I’m the normal one. 😂😂😂
One thing that blessed my socks off was your quote “turn your waiting room into your classroom “ . Until I met you on this channel, I would never have thought God could bring my dream of a little farmstead to fruition on a 1/4 acre and then after 3 years enable us to buy another quarter acre Nextdoor.
Debt free is wonderfully liberating. Your kids have a beautiful life and will have beautiful memories. You guys are living a dream many long for and your kids are living a fabulous healthy life. You guys are the best ❤
For me, my favourite parts of your videos are when you share the decision-making process, whether it’s “should I plant tomatoes in this spot” or “should I can these peaches” or “do we close that door so we can open another”. These moments are where the real learning happens and what a great lesson it is to learn that it’s ok to give yourself permission to assess one’s path and decide to put a goal on hold. Also, to watch TWO people navigate that decision-making process together is even more powerful. Thanks for sharing and I look forward to seeing what is next to unfold on this unscripted journey.
Was listening today to Jeremiah on the most recent podcast. Maybe this is his dream first for just a moment. It will make sense or not later but God knows! He's protecting you or there is something better- timing or financial.
Indeed! I was just about to take a sip of my coffee when he told the storm "Go get something to eat". Had I taken that sip my kid would have been wearing some of it I was so caught off guard 😂!!
I love how Miah makes you laugh uncontrollably and his eyes show so much love when he’s looking at you laugh ❤. Wishing y’all this love and happiness for a lifetime and thru every journey.
Jeremiah, when you say, “welcome to my workshop” you are speaking faith! Heb 11:1, Rom 4:17 May the Lord bless your plans and continue to guide you and all you do. Proverbs 16:3 🙏🕊️
We are in the same boat of building our “forever home” and I have been feeling the pressure to get there as soon as we can so our kids have time there. But then God spoke over me truth and said “It may not be where the kids grow up their whole life, but it will be where all your grandkids grow up their whole life.” Hope that gives some hope as it did me💗
I just want to share something about life and as 70 year old mom grandma and GG-great grandma. Although your children are getting older and may launch from your present home. Your forever home will be where your grandchildren and great grandchildren will have the best memories of their lives. Don’t give up your dream. It can and will happen. Maybe slower. Maybe one section at a time as you go. But it’s okay! ❤ Your family will grow!
Thanks for motivating me to finish my shop! I’m 71, a woman, and working with wood feels like an appropriate third act for the life I’m living gardening, knitting, sewing, cooking, preserving food and just living daily trusting the Guidance of a Power greater than myself. You go, Jeremiah! Build that shop. Woohoo!
When we built in California, we hired a licensed general contractor who hired US! He was working on a couple of other jobs so we were able to move on with our project under his watchful and educated eye on our own house. He was in and out and always there for inspections but for the most part we did the work with other subcontractors ,friends, and family as needed. Worked out well for all involved. Just a thought! Loved your laughter!!!
I was coming here to say that! My husband is a contractor and ABSOLUTELY would welcome the homeowner in to that role. ALSO, what are the rules about using a consultant?
Please don't stop sharing your plans or dreams with us. That's what endears us to y'all is your heartfelt openness and sharing the good and the bad instead of a Cinderella story. You have no idea how much you guys help others get through life. If the door is closing God probably has a better more beautiful dream for you guys. I bless you till next time
“The real grief is I want to keep my kids, I don’t want them to grow up”. Gosh, I feel this in every cell of my body. I have 4 kids ages 3-13 and I’m feeling this same way even though it’s not happened yet. You aren’t alone, and thank you for sharing this.
Children growing up is normal! If some illness or condition prevents them from growing up on time, that is sad. Just plan to enjoy every day with them that you possibly can and be thankful you have them and that you get to enjoy watching them grow, learn, and to be healthy and happy!
You will learn so much from building the shop that will come in handy when you build the house, and obviously having the shop to work from while you're building the house makes so much more sense. 100% the right decision!
Have you considered adding a bunk room onto the garage? Because people that want Miahs mentorship would definitely come sleep in a bunkhouse, just so that they could be around Miah and learn from him and work on the farm for free. And it would be extra help for Maiah... We all need a Miah in our lives❤
Having the workshop will massively enhance Jeremiah's experience of building your home. My father is a builder also and he built their home after my sister was married and I was in college but it still feels like home.
I totally understand how hard it is to tell people your plans are changing. But never feel that we, who love you guys, are ever disappointed in you in ANY way, shape or form. We feel your pain and understand. I’d much rather you feel like it’s the right time and then are able to enjoy the process! Thank you for sharing your lives, hopes, dreams and family, what a blessing for us!
I really appreciate your honesty and that you don't create artificial drama, not even in your video thumbnails. Change and disappointment are hard but we can get through it. When you build your forever home, it will still be a home for all your children and their own families. You will all create so many memories in that special place. Excited to see the workshop become a reality and I think the future house build will be much better because of having it. And when you do finally get the Coffee House going, I will happily drive 3 hours to come sit and crochet with you!
Yes! I can't stand drama. I see it a lot in people I used to watch...people I used to regard as intelligent and wise...not anymore. Petty, egotistical, childish. Oh, but their fan bases eat it up!! Sickening.
I think your decision was very wise. Having your property leveraged right now, in these uncertain times with all the weird things going on, is not a good thing. You were being guided well (in my humble opinion). Bless!
As an army kid (now grown and moved out), the dream home my parents have now is still home for me even though I didn’t grow up in it. It’s home because the people are there. Since the relationship is there, the house will be the home. And the generational beauty is that my brother’s kids (and Lord willing someday my kids) will grow up with my parents’ dream house as the family house where we all gather. God blessed us richly even though it wasn’t the ideal picture.
Jess & Miah, You two & you especially, are the most Loyal, Honest, Sincere, Dream Big, Sharing your heart people from experience I've ever met, who open your hearts to others as well! Love you with all my Heart ❤️🌻 Deb
I love how you include us in everything, the good, the bad and the ugly. This is real life and shows us that your family is real and you go through the same trials we do. Keep it coming!❤
@@MissChievousRN we have some Beautiful 😍 places n horse country here n also some of the best hospitals depending on where tho 😉💭💯❣️... I'm glad 😁😊 ya got to experience some of your Best years here 😉💭 😍❤️😘❣️... Take care n May God bless you n keep you Always 👍🏻🤗❣️ Hope you Get to come back n visit ☺️ too n get a Great time in while your here 👀😜🥰❣️
Maybe you could build yourself a temporary little covered "porch" where the porch will sit when the house is built. You could sit there and have coffee and enjoy the view while you wait! :). :). Jess's porch. Really happy Miah will get his workshop. The rest will come in good time. Miah is right, life is a journey.
Hearing your plans for the workshop makes me think it is the key to building your house. It may be your source for both doing AND funding the build. So don't regret the need for this pivot. Rejoice in it.❤❤
Such wisdom to listen when you don’t have Peace. I’ve learned too, that pushing through when there’s no Peace, is foolishness. Your honesty, integrity and authenticity is such a beacon of Light to all who have the privilege of knowing you through this channel. Thank you 🙏🏼 I bless you 🩵☺️
Jess and Miah, I have been watching your channel since 2017 and enjoy watching your videos and watching Ben since he was a little big boy ❤Do your life stuff and I will continue to watch. Your channel is very welcome 🙏 for this old lady who loves checking in and see what the day holds 🎉🎉🎉
You all are precious and authentic, and that’s why so many of us keep coming back, time and time again. Folks with such a large following bearing their disappointments reminds people that life is not always sunshine. Taking your time to process it before bringing it to video helps show that the rain and clouds don’t have to be terrible, good still comes. ❤
I haven’t frequented Roots and Refuge Vlogs but I find that I always come back to it when time allows. Jess and Mia, you have a wisdom and real charm about you that keeps people coming back. Your insights and visions for your future plans, dissappointments and optimism are a breath of fresh air. Keep up the great work whichever way GPS leads you on your journey. That workshop sounds like the perfect plan for you in this moment. As for the kids, “Home is wherever Mom is”. Always❤ Blessing to you
I’m sorry to hear your house dreams aren’t going to happen yet. It’s such a hard decision but you will be blessed for waiting. Love you guys, been following you since the beginning- the Lord has an incredible story that he is unfolding through your channel. He has you and blesses YOU! Ps. I will absolutely be there at the crochet circle.
I think this is my first time to post on your channel. I started following you little over a year ago. Just want say that I love God’s timing! He made a way for you to continue your dream and you heard His voice. He is a good father! I live on a 100 + acre farm in Northeast Oklahoma and we live in a doublewide that I am so ever thankful for. He keeps us comfortable and out of debt! It's all in God’s amazing and perfect timing. God Bless!
It is so good to hear Jess laugh as much as you have on this video. You must be feeling so much better. I'm so happy for you. God bless you both, with all your vision and plans. God's plans.
I need the shop appointed with most finest of materials when I come down from the high castle. You know, the finest of mugs to eat out of and the softest of sofas with lots of change between the cushions. No pressure. 👑 😂
Life is a plot twist. We love that you share when things don't go as planned. It makes you much more human and relatable and it's why we love this channel. This is the best "reality TV" on the Tube. 😍💕
After your shop is built and the timing is more right, you might want to look into the Owner-Builder with a General Contractor as Consultant, if that's an option. You do pay a small fee to the General Contractor. You can use the shop as example to the Bank of Miah's abilities and that could sway things in your favor. May I suggest you look into the requirements for making the Shop Kitchen a commercial kitchen? It was nice to see you pivot with such grace. The double-wide is home because that's where you all share your lives and love. Also, Jess, you WILL survive the children growing up and flying the nest. You have been preparing them well. Hugs and God Bless.
This is a vivid example of Discernment from the Lord. He has favor over you both and you are an example of obedient in faith. I am so thankful you share like you. God has used you both in mine and my dad’s life. So thank you for being a vessel.
So one day maybe your grandchildren will grow up visiting their forever Nana and Poppa's home! Our daughter grew up in the small home we still live in. Our tiny home was the favorite for sleepovers and play dates. Believe me when I say that we couldn't even walk through the house with 5 little girls playing Barbie dolls, forts and My Little Pony! She had a "barn" built by her dad that was a favorite toy for all the girls! Today, she and her husband have a beautiful, small homestead. I hope she has wonderful memories of growing up in a small house filled with love!
It was wonderful watching Jeremiah interacting with you on a whole different level. I loved the lighter actual funny side of him. Listening to the way you processed the disappointment and feeling of grief on shutting the door to the house made me realize that there can be deeper reasons and feelings to life’s disappointments than what is on the surface. I always come away with new viewpoints and understandings . Thanks Jess ❤
As much as there was a lot in this video, and with everything you've been facing recently.......it was just lovely to see your relationship and the humour; nothing makes me happier than seeing those raw random outbursts of laughter. Thank you for sharing, and love to you all x
Man, I know God put your channel in my life 3 1/2 years ago. You guys are so cute and fun! So many times I am facing something that you talk about. And I will sit with tears rolling down my face because I needed to hear what you say, today is no different. Sometimes I get so impatient…but the pivot is necessary. Thank you for living in a glass house. You bless me by doing so. God speaks through you to get to me so much. I bless you and your family Jessica Sowards. So much love to you guys ❤️🥹
I was trying to force a door open, with an epic trip, to get to see you at the Homesteaders of New England Gathering. This video helped me accept that this is not the time for me to meet you. I'll keep on following your sage advice to “turn your waiting room into your classroom". I learn so much from you both. I adore how Miah helps you laugh soooo much! My dear Matt helps me find the humour so often. Even the planning of the potential trip was great fun. The workshop will be amazing!!! I Bless You. Thank you for living in a glass house, and sharing your hearts!!
Waiting is always a blessing at the end of the day 😊 God's leading is so amazing. I'm happy Miah is getting his shop. I can see the boys in your shop learning alongside dad.❤ I love your vision!! I am so excited to see how God is working in your lives. "I bless you" a retreat would be so beneficial in our crazy time. Thank you for sharing this change of life 😊 This has been a fun video watching both of you interact
Excellent testimony of trusting God with the details & pivoting your plans when he steers you in a different direction. Proud of you guys and love getting a glimpse to your walk & your homestead.
I just started a channel and it’s my health journey from fluffy to fit. You had health issues and you changed your eating habits to heal and I love that!! I started a garden because of you. I started a lot because of you. Your personality and family are so precious. I look forward to you guys all week.
I love the two of you together. So fun. Great couple. Your love for life is exciting. It brings others up and teaches joy. You are a blessing to all. The truth helps others to understand life is hard for all. It's so great to share and problem solve with others. It teaches and shares the ups and downs. Life is grand and we enjoy your life. Thank you for sharing,
I understand greatly how plans change. I thought after coming home from my vacation I thought I would dive back in to gardening. Because of an electric fire, I am rebuilding most of my home. I still feel blessed, no one was home. We are shifting in to having my 70 th birthday party in that yard and reclaiming my space with joy. Is there moments of stress? yes. My point is I understand we need to shift at times. I almost did so many things to update my home and decided to wait. Happy I waited.
I love the honesty and your faith in the journey that God has laid for you. I believe sometimes, manytimes God gives us wisdom and discernment about an issue. When we choose to override the information, we end up with more trouble. I pray God continues to bless you all richly both in your personal and professional pursuits.
Oh my gosh, I needed to hear your story so badly. It's not a house for me, but going back to school to finish my bachelor's. "I'd rather be sitting in a hallway in the right timing than push open the door into what I feel is my promise". They's exactly what I feel is my situation also. I needed that today. Thank you. ❤
We had A very similar situation with a major remodel- hoping it could get done so that the eldest child could enjoy it through high school. It didn't work out that way but each of our kids have come back for a while in their young adult life . We were really appreciative to have the space then!
Jess, I can totally relate to your struggles with Jackson moving out. Our first child moved out two weeks ago today, and I was really caught off guard by the feelings of grief that I went through. I sobbed multiple times a day for almost two weeks. It's a huge life change, so it just takes some time to process all the feelings. But it's getting easier every day. Hang in there, momma! ❤
I have always enjoyed watching you two together. You show such kindness and grace. And Miah makes Jess laugh. That’s what I miss so much now. My late partner always said that he loved when I laughed. A real, loud, hearty, happy laugh. I’m lucky, I still have people in my life who give me joy.
I love that you say you know your viewers and those are the people you make your videos for! I’m sure I’m not alone when I say I talk about you like I know you personally. sometimes I talk about you to my family and friends as if you were a close friend lol. they ask me, oh how long have you known this Jess for? And it typically say oh around 2016 2017 lol I don’t normally correct them and tell them that I don’t know you personally. I feel like I do! ♥️♥️♥️Thank you for catching us up on your house fiasco but how exciting that all the pieces are falling into place! Lovely! Hope you’re having a fabulous day if you ever get around to reading this♥️
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Financial planner here! I cannot even begin to tell you how many clients I see force open doors only to watch it absolutely blow up in their faces. I know I’m just a stranger on the internet, but I am SO PROUD of the two of you for having the courage to not only stick with your leading and listen to what feels right, but to also share that experience with all of us. It is so rebellious in our current culture to make sound financial decisions and not leverage yourself to the teeth. There is disappointment involved in patience, but being good stewards of the things we are already given always pays off in the end. Thank you for once again living in a glass house as an example and sharing how important management of resources, regardless of your level of success! 💛
I feel like, on the channel, we've never seen this much of Miah's personality than this video. He's right. He was REALLY funny that day.
Agree 100%. I love his facial expressions and smirks. But what is really cute was his enamorment with Jess when she smiles and laughs.
Same I went to comment on just this. It's nice to see the funny side of him. He lights up and makes Jess light up as well
Came here to comment the same! It was so fun to watch and see Jess laugh so much :)
Dad jokes!
I always say, "His will not mine. I row, He steers."
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Exactly!
LoveLOVE that saying… I Row, He Steers♥️ 🙏
Great way to describe it! ❤
So good
You are showing your children how to adjust their expectations to meet the realities of life. You are not settling for less, you are showing gratitude for what you already have. Each other and time to enjoy what you have. A huge burden of debt is rarely the right choice.
I commented before I read this. I wish I could have made my comment so eloquently.
Yes! 👏🏻
Well said. Our current family Bible study is on contentment so this is right up that alley!
Perfectly said!!! ❤
Perfectly said!!!! ❤
You're not ordinary,
you're extraordinary 💖
You're not just growing gardeners,
you're helping grow good humans 😍
You both model what we need most,
Authenticity, affection, connection. 💞
and humor.
They’re the best!
Exactly and Add the Humor
I couldn’t have said that better !! Jess and Miah are precious in our lives and for those who will meet them later. ❤
Yes ❤ Yes ❤ Yes 👍🏻💯 🥰😊 I love ❤ them 😍, This Comment 😉💭 PERFECTLY SAID , That sneeze tho 🤧😂
I❤ y'all to bits n pieces Jess n Miah @Roots and Refuge Farm 😉💭❣️... Thanks for sharing your life n farm with us n Helping Us all be better People 🙏🏻💯🥰😂❣️
I SO understand Jess’s desire to have the forever house while all the kids are still home! We wanted our farm for our six kids, but didn’t end up getting it until we had grandkids. I still wish we’d gotten it sooner, but am grateful for the wonderful life we’ve had both with AND without the farm. Our “kids” now love the farm along WITH their families. The grandkids think it’s heaven on earth!😂
Very similar to our journey
Years ago a friend mentioned that a good prayer is to ask God to please put up a roadblock if what I'm pursuing/wanting shouldn't happen.
This is a strong point. We have prayed it and it has turned out long after to have kept us from harm. The Lord knows.
That's a fantastic prayer! I'm borrowing, er rather stealing, that one! :)
Wonderful idea. Just said that prayer. 🙏 We are wanting to build our dream home too. It's on hold as well. Oh my darlin' Jess, kudos for not compromising your integrity! ❤
TTFN Marianne 🌻
❤❤❤ Yes 🙏🏻💯❣️
@@Cyberfarm9❤❤❤ Yes 👍🏻 he does 🙏🏻❣️...
"Sometimes when we don't process what we're feeling, it can fuel us onto the wrong path"...wow, thank you for that. That hits home. I've also found that letting go of "what I thought my life was going to be like" is very hard, but is necessary to obtain peace. At 59, I'm still learning that focusing on God's Will and not my plans is most important.
Amen 🙌🙌🙌
I know this is random, but I loved hearing Miah say, “go look at the sun” (to force the sneeze). When I mentioned looking at the sun makes me sneeze, my husband looked at me like I was crazy. I’d always thought that was the case for everyone, but it’s not the case for him. I’m glad to hear I’m the normal one. 😂😂😂
My hubby and all his kids are photic sneezers. I’d never heard of it before.
Since i was a child and until now, everytime i go outside in full sun i sneeze lol
Yes! I always look at the sun or if I’m inside I look at it bright light and then I sneeze!
Love this for you guys !
@@tonjapembrook1132 I have heard that is you look at a bright light, it will either force the sneeze or lose it. Either way, it's over!
You will never regret having the shop when you are building the house. It will make so many things easier. Congratulations!
One thing that blessed my socks off was your quote “turn your waiting room into your classroom “ . Until I met you on this channel, I would never have thought God could bring my dream of a little farmstead to fruition on a 1/4 acre and then after 3 years enable us to buy another quarter acre Nextdoor.
Congratulations!❤❤❤
So happy for you...God is good ❤
how much were you looking for? bank
Miah parenting the weather coming in,just cracked me up😂😂,love his personality ❤
I'm EXCITED it see Miah build the shop. It's gonna be amazing🎉 ❤
Debt free is wonderfully liberating. Your kids have a beautiful life and will have beautiful memories. You guys are living a dream many long for and your kids are living a fabulous healthy life. You guys are the best ❤
For me, my favourite parts of your videos are when you share the decision-making process, whether it’s “should I plant tomatoes in this spot” or “should I can these peaches” or “do we close that door so we can open another”. These moments are where the real learning happens and what a great lesson it is to learn that it’s ok to give yourself permission to assess one’s path and decide to put a goal on hold.
Also, to watch TWO people navigate that decision-making process together is even more powerful.
Thanks for sharing and I look forward to seeing what is next to unfold on this unscripted journey.
Yes we ❤ when you do these talks together.😊
Was listening today to Jeremiah on the most recent podcast. Maybe this is his dream first for just a moment. It will make sense or not later but God knows! He's protecting you or there is something better- timing or financial.
@Roots and Refuge Farm
Jess n Miah ❤❤❤😍✋🏻💯❣️
@@mountaingardenamma8730
❤❤❤ True Story Mamma ✋🏻💯❣️
Miah’s sense of humor and Jess laughing at him are probably my favorite moments in all of the videos. You guys are quite the comedic team❤
Indeed! I was just about to take a sip of my coffee when he told the storm "Go get something to eat". Had I taken that sip my kid would have been wearing some of it I was so caught off guard 😂!!
I love Miah's sense of humor so much. So much joy watching you guys keeping each other in giggles despite the hardships. 😊
I love how Miah makes you laugh uncontrollably and his eyes show so much love when he’s looking at you laugh ❤. Wishing y’all this love and happiness for a lifetime and thru every journey.
It’s ok to share your dreams whether or not they come to be. We all love hearing your story as it unfolds.
Jeremiah, when you say, “welcome to my workshop” you are speaking faith! Heb 11:1, Rom 4:17
May the Lord bless your plans and continue to guide you and all you do. Proverbs 16:3 🙏🕊️
Oh my gosh, Miah had me cracking up. When he “mewed” his jaw line, I lost it. The rum in your water joke 🤣🤣 He was extra spicy today lol!
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We are in the same boat of building our “forever home” and I have been feeling the pressure to get there as soon as we can so our kids have time there. But then God spoke over me truth and said “It may not be where the kids grow up their whole life, but it will be where all your grandkids grow up their whole life.” Hope that gives some hope as it did me💗
I just want to share something about life and as 70 year old mom grandma and GG-great grandma. Although your children are getting older and may launch from your present home. Your forever home will be where your grandchildren and great grandchildren will have the best memories of their lives. Don’t give up your dream. It can and will happen. Maybe slower. Maybe one section at a time as you go. But it’s okay! ❤ Your family will grow!
❤❤❤ This GG ☝🏻☝🏻☝🏻 Yes
Thanks for motivating me to finish my shop! I’m 71, a woman, and working with wood feels like an appropriate third act for the life I’m living gardening, knitting, sewing, cooking, preserving food and just living daily trusting the Guidance of a Power greater than myself. You go, Jeremiah! Build that shop. Woohoo!
Excellent working, odat! 🎉
When we built in California, we hired a licensed general contractor who hired US! He was working on a couple of other jobs so we were able to move on with our project under his watchful and educated eye on our own house. He was in and out and always there for inspections but for the most part we did the work with other subcontractors ,friends, and family as needed. Worked out well for all involved. Just a thought! Loved your laughter!!!
I was coming here to say that! My husband is a contractor and ABSOLUTELY would welcome the homeowner in to that role.
ALSO, what are the rules about using a consultant?
Love this idea!
We(the community you built) love you.
Please don't stop sharing your plans or dreams with us. That's what endears us to y'all is your heartfelt openness and sharing the good and the bad instead of a Cinderella story.
You have no idea how much you guys help others get through life.
If the door is closing God probably has a better more beautiful dream for you guys.
I bless you till next time
Agreed❤
100%
Yes ❤❤❤
So true!!!
Crochet meet ups!!!! I am HERE for it! 🎉
“The real grief is I want to keep my kids, I don’t want them to grow up”.
Gosh, I feel this in every cell of my body. I have 4 kids ages 3-13 and I’m feeling this same way even though it’s not happened yet. You aren’t alone, and thank you for sharing this.
Try not to think that. There is joy in every age. My babies are 43 and 41 and I am so proud of the adults that have become
Children growing up is normal! If some illness or condition prevents them from growing up on time, that is sad. Just plan to enjoy every day with them that you possibly can and be thankful you have them and that you get to enjoy watching them grow, learn, and to be healthy and happy!
You will learn so much from building the shop that will come in handy when you build the house, and obviously having the shop to work from while you're building the house makes so much more sense. 100% the right decision!
Have you considered adding a bunk room onto the garage? Because people that want Miahs mentorship would definitely come sleep in a bunkhouse, just so that they could be around Miah and learn from him and work on the farm for free. And it would be extra help for Maiah...
We all need a Miah in our lives❤
I turned and told my husband while watching, I will be at one of their small retreats one day. I love you guys 🌻💕
Me too 🥹🤗
I must say; his his humor has been on point this video. The “rum” part was my favorite ❤️!
Having the workshop will massively enhance Jeremiah's experience of building your home.
My father is a builder also and he built their home after my sister was married and I was in college but it still feels like home.
Thank you for sharing this Leeza!
I totally understand how hard it is to tell people your plans are changing. But never feel that we, who love you guys, are ever disappointed in you in ANY way, shape or form. We feel your pain and understand. I’d much rather you feel like it’s the right time and then are able to enjoy the process! Thank you for sharing your lives, hopes, dreams and family, what a blessing for us!
Ditto that!
The hills and valleys are all part of the testimony. ✝️❤️
Refreshing to hear people with integrity
I'm thrilled for Miah that his workshop vision is coming to fruition!
I really appreciate your honesty and that you don't create artificial drama, not even in your video thumbnails. Change and disappointment are hard but we can get through it. When you build your forever home, it will still be a home for all your children and their own families. You will all create so many memories in that special place. Excited to see the workshop become a reality and I think the future house build will be much better because of having it. And when you do finally get the Coffee House going, I will happily drive 3 hours to come sit and crochet with you!
Yes! I can't stand drama. I see it a lot in people I used to watch...people I used to regard as intelligent and wise...not anymore. Petty, egotistical, childish. Oh, but their fan bases eat it up!! Sickening.
I love you and sweet miahs dynamic! He still makes you giggle and blush.
I think your decision was very wise. Having your property leveraged right now, in these uncertain times with all the weird things going on, is not a good thing. You were being guided well (in my humble opinion). Bless!
Just in from the writers: “Anonymous donation!!” 😂😂❤
Go Fund Me? 🤷♀️
As an army kid (now grown and moved out), the dream home my parents have now is still home for me even though I didn’t grow up in it. It’s home because the people are there. Since the relationship is there, the house will be the home. And the generational beauty is that my brother’s kids (and Lord willing someday my kids) will grow up with my parents’ dream house as the family house where we all gather. God blessed us richly even though it wasn’t the ideal picture.
Jess & Miah, You two & you especially, are the most Loyal, Honest, Sincere, Dream Big, Sharing your heart people from experience I've ever met, who open your hearts to others as well! Love you with all my Heart ❤️🌻 Deb
YES TO THE RETREATS!!!! Give enough time for us that need to save for them to come as well!
I love how you include us in everything, the good, the bad and the ugly. This is real life and shows us that your family is real and you go through the same trials we do. Keep it coming!❤
Loved seeing Miah so playful and happy. The two of you together are an inspiration. Good decision and God bless the build!
I don’t comment very often, but have followed you for YEARS! Feels like since I was young, lol.😊
Me too. I say to my Husband "My friend Jess..."
and he says "You don't HAVE a "friend" named Jess"
Or "does she know she's your friend?"
🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
Me, too!
@@MissChievousRNYes 👍🏻 She Knows 😉💭😂 He Just 🚫 know what level of a Yes ✋🏻 We're All Here Friendship We have here 💯👀❤🌱🌞🥰😍😅😂
@@KentuckyNaNasLife Spent my 20s in KY. I miss it so much!!!
@@MissChievousRN we have some Beautiful 😍 places n horse country here n also some of the best hospitals depending on where tho 😉💭💯❣️... I'm glad 😁😊 ya got to experience some of your Best years here 😉💭 😍❤️😘❣️... Take care n May God bless you n keep you Always 👍🏻🤗❣️ Hope you Get to come back n visit ☺️ too n get a Great time in while your here 👀😜🥰❣️
You have the vision for the property. God has the order and timing. Y’all are amazing!
Maybe you could build yourself a temporary little covered "porch" where the porch will sit when the house is built. You could sit there and have coffee and enjoy the view while you wait! :). :). Jess's porch. Really happy Miah will get his workshop. The rest will come in good time. Miah is right, life is a journey.
Hearing your plans for the workshop makes me think it is the key to building your house. It may be your source for both doing AND funding the build. So don't regret the need for this pivot. Rejoice in it.❤❤
Such wisdom to listen when you don’t have Peace. I’ve learned too, that pushing through when there’s no Peace, is foolishness.
Your honesty, integrity and authenticity is such a beacon of Light to all who have the privilege of knowing you through this channel. Thank you 🙏🏼
I bless you 🩵☺️
Jess and Miah, I have been watching your channel since 2017 and enjoy watching your videos and watching Ben since he was a little big boy ❤Do your life stuff and I will continue to watch. Your channel is very welcome 🙏 for this old lady who loves checking in and see what the day holds 🎉🎉🎉
Joy and disappointment, lovely humor. Your real life intention, actions and dreams are what is inspiring! Thank you.
You all are precious and authentic, and that’s why so many of us keep coming back, time and time again. Folks with such a large following bearing their disappointments reminds people that life is not always sunshine. Taking your time to process it before bringing it to video helps show that the rain and clouds don’t have to be terrible, good still comes. ❤
Be glad that the debt is not progressing and be grateful for what you have
Oh my goodness, Miah was his absolute best Dad humor self in this video. 😂 I’m so glad I scrolled back to catch up on this summer.
Extremely Wise, Period!
I haven’t frequented Roots and Refuge Vlogs but I find that I always come back to it when time allows. Jess and Mia, you have a wisdom and real charm about you that keeps people coming back. Your insights and visions for your future plans, dissappointments and optimism are a breath of fresh air. Keep up the great work whichever way GPS leads you on your journey. That workshop sounds like the perfect plan for you in this moment. As for the kids, “Home is wherever Mom is”. Always❤ Blessing to you
Perfect decision and explanation!
I applaud you…I applaud you…I applaud you!
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God is smart. He knew a detour was in order.
I’m sorry to hear your house dreams aren’t going to happen yet. It’s such a hard decision but you will be blessed for waiting. Love you guys, been following you since the beginning- the Lord has an incredible story that he is unfolding through your channel. He has you and blesses YOU!
Ps. I will absolutely be there at the crochet circle.
I think this is my first time to post on your channel. I started following you little over a year ago. Just want say that I love God’s timing! He made a way for you to continue your dream and you heard His voice. He is a good father! I live on a 100 + acre farm in Northeast Oklahoma and we live in a doublewide that I am so ever thankful for. He keeps us comfortable and out of debt! It's all in God’s amazing and perfect timing. God Bless!
It is so good to hear Jess laugh as much as you have on this video. You must be feeling so much better. I'm so happy for you. God bless you both, with all your vision and plans. God's plans.
I need the shop appointed with most finest of materials when I come down from the high castle. You know, the finest of mugs to eat out of and the softest of sofas with lots of change between the cushions. No pressure. 👑 😂
You’re the worst but I do love you 😂😂😂😂
I don't comment much.
I love when Miah is on you
Because your laughter is so infectious . Laughter is good for the heart and soul.
❤🐇🐔
Life is a plot twist. We love that you share when things don't go as planned. It makes you much more human and relatable and it's why we love this channel. This is the best "reality TV" on the Tube. 😍💕
After your shop is built and the timing is more right, you might want to look into the Owner-Builder with a General Contractor as Consultant, if that's an option. You do pay a small fee to the General Contractor. You can use the shop as example to the Bank of Miah's abilities and that could sway things in your favor. May I suggest you look into the requirements for making the Shop Kitchen a commercial kitchen? It was nice to see you pivot with such grace. The double-wide is home because that's where you all share your lives and love. Also, Jess, you WILL survive the children growing up and flying the nest. You have been preparing them well. Hugs and God Bless.
You guys make my heart happy! I love the authentic way you share your life.
I love it and love y’all! Take your time and continue to put God first and be authentically you! Miah?!!!!! The scare attack was genius, it worked!!!!
OHHHHHHH Jess and Miah you both warm my heart to the fullest! Hugs to you all!
This is a vivid example of Discernment from the Lord. He has favor over you both and you are an example of obedient in faith. I am so thankful you share like you. God has used you both in mine and my dad’s life. So thank you for being a vessel.
So one day maybe your grandchildren will grow up visiting their forever Nana and Poppa's home!
Our daughter grew up in the small home we still live in. Our tiny home was the favorite for sleepovers and play dates. Believe me when I say that we couldn't even walk through the house with 5 little girls playing Barbie dolls, forts and My Little Pony! She had a "barn" built by her dad that was a favorite toy for all the girls! Today, she and her husband have a beautiful, small homestead. I hope she has wonderful memories of growing up in a small house filled with love!
I was thinking same thing
@susanmatthews ... It sounds like she must have!
❤❤❤ Yes 💯 ❣️
I am throughly entertained, you are a hoot MIAH!!!! So funny!
QUALITY.
The one word that I think of when I think of you two.💗
We are cheering for you from Forest Edge Gardens! Keep following the path God has laid out and being your wonderful, inspiring selves!
Miah is so happy talking about the workshop, is great to see!
It was wonderful watching Jeremiah interacting with you on a whole different level. I loved the lighter actual funny side of him.
Listening to the way you processed the disappointment and feeling of grief on shutting the door to the house made me realize that there can be deeper reasons and feelings to life’s disappointments than what is on the surface.
I always come away with new viewpoints and understandings . Thanks Jess ❤
Miah & the storm conversation 😆
You two are so cute and adorable. I always love watching your vlogy like videos like your streams in the past.
As much as there was a lot in this video, and with everything you've been facing recently.......it was just lovely to see your relationship and the humour; nothing makes me happier than seeing those raw random outbursts of laughter. Thank you for sharing, and love to you all x
Man, I know God put your channel in my life 3 1/2 years ago. You guys are so cute and fun! So many times I am facing something that you talk about. And I will sit with tears rolling down my face because I needed to hear what you say, today is no different. Sometimes I get so impatient…but the pivot is necessary. Thank you for living in a glass house. You bless me by doing so. God speaks through you to get to me so much. I bless you and your family Jessica Sowards. So much love to you guys ❤️🥹
I was trying to force a door open, with an epic trip, to get to see you at the Homesteaders of New England Gathering. This video helped me accept that this is not the time for me to meet you. I'll keep on following your sage advice to “turn your waiting room into your classroom". I learn so much from you both. I adore how Miah helps you laugh soooo much! My dear Matt helps me find the humour so often. Even the planning of the potential trip was great fun. The workshop will be amazing!!! I Bless You. Thank you for living in a glass house, and sharing your hearts!!
Waiting is always a blessing at the end of the day 😊 God's leading is so amazing. I'm happy Miah is getting his shop. I can see the boys in your shop learning alongside dad.❤
I love your vision!! I am so excited to see how God is working in your lives.
"I bless you" a retreat would be so beneficial in our crazy time. Thank you for sharing this change of life 😊
This has been a fun video watching both of you interact
Excellent testimony of trusting God with the details & pivoting your plans when he steers you in a different direction. Proud of you guys and love getting a glimpse to your walk & your homestead.
I love your dog who rarely lets you, Jess, out of his/her sight.
His name is Bear. He’s my best bud ♥️♥️
I just started a channel and it’s my health journey from fluffy to fit. You had health issues and you changed your eating habits to heal and I love that!! I started a garden because of you. I started a lot because of you. Your personality and family are so precious. I look forward to you guys all week.
You guys are so entertaining! Also, I deeply appreciate your integrity. It means so much.
I love the two of you together. So fun. Great couple. Your love for life is exciting. It brings others up and teaches joy. You are a blessing to all. The truth helps others to understand life is hard for all. It's so great to share and problem solve with others. It teaches and shares the ups and downs. Life is grand and we enjoy your life. Thank you for sharing,
I understand greatly how plans change. I thought after coming home from my vacation I thought I would dive back in to gardening. Because of an electric fire, I am rebuilding most of my home. I still feel blessed, no one was home. We are shifting in to having my 70 th birthday party in that yard and reclaiming my space with joy. Is there moments of stress? yes. My point is I understand we need to shift at times. I almost did so many things to update my home and decided to wait. Happy I waited.
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I love the honesty and your faith in the journey that God has laid for you. I believe sometimes, manytimes God gives us wisdom and discernment about an issue. When we choose to override the information, we end up with more trouble. I pray God continues to bless you all richly both in your personal and professional pursuits.
The jokes did slap. I was tickled a little bit 😂😂. But, I’m glad you guys shared this part of your journey. 💜
Oh my gosh, I needed to hear your story so badly. It's not a house for me, but going back to school to finish my bachelor's. "I'd rather be sitting in a hallway in the right timing than push open the door into what I feel is my promise". They's exactly what I feel is my situation also.
I needed that today. Thank you. ❤
We had A very similar situation with a major remodel- hoping it could get done so that the eldest child could enjoy it through high school. It didn't work out that way but each of our kids have come back for a while in their young adult life . We were really appreciative to have the space then!
Jessica, your laughter makes everything feel better!
Miah reminds me sooo much of how my husband is, Handyman, a good sense of humor, and Such a family man, we both are Blessed.❤❤
Jess, I can totally relate to your struggles with Jackson moving out. Our first child moved out two weeks ago today, and I was really caught off guard by the feelings of grief that I went through. I sobbed multiple times a day for almost two weeks. It's a huge life change, so it just takes some time to process all the feelings. But it's getting easier every day. Hang in there, momma! ❤
I have always enjoyed watching you two together. You show such kindness and grace. And Miah makes Jess laugh.
That’s what I miss so much now. My late partner always said that he loved when I laughed. A real, loud, hearty, happy laugh. I’m lucky, I still have people in my life who give me joy.
You guys are so cute, and the way Miah is toward you is adorable and sweet.
Loved Miah being silly today 😂 Gotta let the low-end drag, right!? ❤
I love that you say you know your viewers and those are the people you make your videos for! I’m sure I’m not alone when I say I talk about you like I know you personally. sometimes I talk about you to my family and friends as if you were a close friend lol. they ask me, oh how long have you known this Jess for? And it typically say oh around 2016 2017 lol I don’t normally correct them and tell them that I don’t know you personally. I feel like I do! ♥️♥️♥️Thank you for catching us up on your house fiasco but how exciting that all the pieces are falling into place! Lovely! Hope you’re having a fabulous day if you ever get around to reading this♥️
Miah! The scare technique is for hiccups! Looking up(not necessarily at the SUN!) is for sneezes. Y’all are too funny! I just love yas!
A spoon of sugar stops hiccups instantly
OMG, sweet Miah! That sneeze scare.... 😂😂😂😂. I loved it! Now THAT is day-in-the-life spontaneous fun! ❤❤
❤ I love that you guys are real and honest about the joys and the sorrows in your life. Thank you for sharing! @RootsandRefuge
You two are the reason I bought a freeze dryer and above ground planters! Would love to see more freeze drying videos!!!! Hello from Arkansas!!!