KC please do a video on how girls that already know U B4 your sexual market value is on the Rise start 2 hate & will say $mart @$$ remarks trying 2 down play your game they also act jealous weird & mental about seeing all of the new attention U R getting please I like 2 hear your thoughts on this
It really makes me not want to be in a relationship. Yeah you can adapt and learn to play this game but what's the point. At the end of the day you're just pretending to be something you're not just to keep her hooked on you
Wisdom dictates that the more you understand feminine nature, it is always better for you to deal with women that like you much more than you like them.
@@DadieBoachie It's simple. Then you must do something to *Raise Your Sexual Marketplace Value* so that you are attracting higher quality/more attractive women. As a man, you can't be afraid of putting in the extra work. Its a competition out here!
Women get to experience how it is to be with a man they are in love with. But most men will never know what it would have been like to be with a women they love. Women should definitely stop complaining about having their hearts broken. They are already far too privileged!
Chicks fall in love with the idea of a dude not the actual dude and what he provides, a guy falls "in love" with what a girl wants to show him. Either is a mirage.
@@wisdomking6109 thats getting you laid...but it doesnt work for maintaining a serious relationship. those seem to be impossible these days, if you arent especially lucky.
It’s as if we have to figure out a way to defy our own biology. Men are wired to idealize her, fall in love, build an attachment/pair bond etc. If we weren’t designed that way we’d probably stay far far away from woman because their nature is so damn destructive to men. Having awareness of all these concepts is one thing. Having the ability to override our own instincts is a completely different matter. The percentage of men that can transcend this (long term) will be exceptionally few. But we all must aspire to, otherwise we’re going to get crushed out there.
meditation/chi kung/breath work is exactly about and results in gaining control over your emotions and mental state...combine that with semen retention and you're on your way
I couldn’t have a said it better my man. You are absolutely correct and it really sux to operate in this manner as Man. I do it but it goes against everything in my soul…
I have found this to be true in my life. I’m 40 and any woman that I actually cared for has broken my heart or stolen many things. But the ones that I didn’t like we had hot sex all the time.
Depends on what being yourself is, growing up I thought being nice was a good thing because of how I was raised but I wasn't being myself, I was doing what I was taught. I was also the silent type so it did help with girls because it was mysterious. As I've gotten older I've learned to be myself always and because of that I attract a lot of people without trying in fact I'm 32 now and I always seem to attract younger women which is cool, but that's not my focus. Other than work I have a passion for martial arts TKD specifically, and constantly improving and reaching black belt has been my goal for over 7 years and in February of next year I will finally have achieved that goal.
You’re so right, I’m 60 yrs old and I was married for 22 years, I date many women and work with women, I have many women in my family, my dude you are so on point.
Dont take everything so literally. She has to believe that you dont give a damn about anything. You have your life and it doesnt matter if shes in it or not. Theres plenty of other women you can have and SHE has to prove that she is the one you want in your life. Dont be clingy, dont run after her and be cool. Dont be emotional and only give her serious attention when she deserves it. If you check all of these boxes then you will be married forever. 98% of men do none of these things so you'll be fine.
@@anonymissed3611 Make her work for it. She can have it if shes being good to you but not all the time and only if you really want it too. Its all about having control. Women naturally love men who take the lead and control. If you go on a date with her then be nice. Hold her hand and make it a special day for her but dont be an emotional goof. Dont Text her all the time and be busy with your own life. I know thats really hard if you have a huge crush on a girl but try your best. It shows superiority. If youre into her then be straight up and honest with her and ask her out on a date.
Imma have to agree with this. The only time I had a successful relationship was with someone I didn’t like at first. But eventually after we got together, I still didn’t like her so we broke up.
The man knows what he is talking about, his knowledge on this stuff is next level. Most dating coaches have a superficial understanding of why woman leave . The obvious being beta/clingy, needy ect. Casey really breaks down the small things which most people don't realise why there woman left them even after they thought they were doing everything 'right' or a self proclaimed 'Alpha".
From my own experience this is 100 % bang on . Marriage broke down over a year ago which broke me , together 23 yrs and im guilty of showing the clinginess even now as i want her back . I know i shouldn't and try my hardest to stop as i know its just pushing the divorce even closer but when there is kids involved and you lose the one woman that you have spent all of your adult life with its not as simple.
You’re in a difficult situation, bro. But you can still redeem yourself by stopping the clinginess ASAP, and getting in better shape, both mentally and physically. Do NOT contact her again (until she initiates conversation). And even if she does initiate conversation, do NOT show interest.
I wish I actually loved a woman this much, especially my wife. And probably because I don't is the reason why no matter what I do my wife just won't leave me. No matter how hard I try to make her leave. Maybe I should get clingy and maybe then she'll want to leave.
This advice is great for getting promiscuous women high in traits of narcissism or for high quantity low quality relationships, but when it comes to falling in love mutually, this is so problematic.
Actually he is vey accurate. It doesn’t matter the women, they are all wired this way. Promiscuous or not. It is very very rare for you to come across a woman who isn’t this way.
Yeah but the whole idea is that you don't fall in love mutually. That's the thing. If you fall in love as a guy, you're fucked. You should always be able, capable and willing to walk away. If you go knees over toes lovey dovey, you WILL get fucked and hurt, because at that point the women consciously or unconsciously know they have the upper hand. And at that point their attraction and respect for you starts sinking. Mutual love is a trap made by religion and love movies made for chicks
He's right on the money. All his videos are. But now in my late 40s I ask myself why all this trouble for a woman, if I want to kick back for a day or 2 and do shit why do i care what she'll think or if she loses interest in me because the way women are wired. At this point in my life I only care about my own well being and what I really want to do and if women get in the way of that someone else can have them. They're not my priority and I'm tired of playing games. It takes away my peace of mind and my freedom.
So this girl I was seeing I sent her clingy texts after I visited her. I'd tell her I had a good time and ask her if I upset her. She told to stop sending me those types of messages - that was quite kind of her.
A year or two ago, before Casey had went on this recent amazing rampage, I remember saying to myself "every single time I have ever THOUGHT the THOUGHT 'Wow i actually really like this girl' that girl exited or ghosted almost immediately after the thought popped into my mind" These videos finally explain why. It's a fundamental shift in how you treat the 6's and 7's in your world versus how you treat your 9's and 10's. And through these videos we can learn the huge mistakes we make with the latter category.
@@sphericalspice agree that 10's dont exist I dont ever call any girl a ten. There are definitely 9.9's though out there as far as the looks category goes
Guys in the comments don’t seem to understand that a strong masculine frame is most important when it comes to women. It doesn’t matter how much you like her or love her, when you let those feelings go to your head and you break your masculine frame, you weaken yourself on behalf of her. Men must have strong and independent control over their mind and emotions. You don’t force yourself to like her less. You have to value yourself more and have some dignity. This shit isn’t sad, this is the reality.
@Silence_between_waves mitochondrial DNA is matriarchal; men don't possess nor transfer mtDNA. Male angiosperm only fertilizer the egg and determine sex. Central Dogma of Molecular Biology-deletion; translations; transcription. Should ask Watson & Crick this question.... they got that poor girl drunk and stole her idea... ironically she died of cancer... andnshes a woman, and doesn't need to win a noble peace prize or compete intellectually for sexy time, just has to open her legs.... she never wouldn't published or realized it anyways. (Rosalind Franklin).
Almost everything you have said, is what I’ve been doing wrong. God bless you brother, you’re helping me save my relationship I never thought was possible to save. But you know what? The funny thing is I learned all this by paying attention to people in high school. I was a pretty popular guy, so I knew a lot of people to observe and learn from. I just forgot it all over the 7 years I’ve been with my gf. I lost who I was just trying to please her. You explained that in one of your other videos. Your opening my eyes again! Again, thank you for making the content that is helping almost a half million of us going strong!
It does NOT work for a longer time. A woman admired me a lot and wanted me to to become her boyfriend. We dated a bit and had nights together. But I was not sure about it and she cooled down fast.
You have to first contextualize what the scenario is. Zander was talking about a fling/shortterm hookup type girl when you show NO interest. In the scenario you personally had, that was more of a girlfriend type thing, so in that scenario, you DEFINITELY show interest, but you temper it by the amount of interest she show YOU...and then you maintain a balance in which she show more interest whilst you STILL remain a solid bf to her for the rest of your lives together Those are the two scenarios, and in those two scenarios, the man's interest is either not shown, or always perpetually less than the woman's shown interest.@@marguskiis7711
Casey, watching your channel is becoming a daily routine to me! Your messages a very clear and they hurt sometimes too🤦🏻♂️. But they are true! My wife broke up with me two months ago after 11 years. I have to face, that it was predictable, bc of my behavior and clinginess! That’s the truth! I didn’t know better,or when I started to slowly internalize your advices, it was already too late! But I will be prepared for my future life and relationship, by watching and listening to you over and over again! Thank you for your support and truths with your hard and enduring work 🙏🏼God bless you!
Yet I agree but here's the issue with all of Casey's videos and your assessment. It's coming from the angle always that the man did something wrong. Why isn't it ever maybe the woman is not a good woman or she fucked up. Maybe you were clingy maybe you weren't. I do admit a lot of men make these fundamental mistakes but none of it should matter in the end. If two people like each other it should build from the beginning and blossom into something great as long as both people are treating each other good and the same. These stupid things that can make a woman lose attraction for you is idiotic at best. I'm not arguing against it because I lost 3 or 4 girls where I gave complete effort and reciprocation and nothing bad ever happened, so I completely understand how women are retardly wired but my issue is it can't always be men blaming themselves on why the woman lost attraction or left.
Man, did I recently learn this the hard way... I've always played this game well, and didn't realise it. Got out of a marriage of many years, back in the game. Had plenty of interest and was back on the horse. Hooked up with a girl that I thought was amazing, really connected and all that... then completely f'd myself, and did everything opposite to what I normally do. Burnt the bridge fast, and she couldn't even figure out why she lost interest, your videos were a proper slap in the face and a "wake-up!" I made so many "mistakes" that I just never did before, I just figured I was older and more mature being in my 40s and her in her late 40s.. nope, they're wired the same as you describe, even at that age. Real shame, but I won't make that mistake again. Really appreciate your videos, Casey.
Very straight forward and informative. Always good to rewatch your content to humble myself to keep up the daily grind. Definitely scoring hotter women these days then I did in my early 20s
"It's not in a mans nature to nurture a relationship". That really hit home and the reason why I lost attraction from some women. Don't be too excited and let her do the work. Your job is to be a man. Although I did enjoy bringing my girl her daily afternoon coffee when I was in an actual healthy relationship and we were working from home, those things, almost like an inside joke which she can rely on, I would still do
If a woman wants to break up with you, set her free. If she comes back, set her free again. If you screwed up, and you let her come back, she'll never forget it. If you didn't screw up, and you let her come back, she'll never forget that, either. To allow a woman back into your life after a breakup is the epidome of male weakness, and she'll never truly respect you afterwards. When it's done... It's done. Walk away and learn from the experience.
Great vid and being on your own path, in motion will also naturally decrease your need for women's validation so it has the effect of you not being as invested.
The fact that I can vouch for this knowledge due to my own experience is beyond mindblowing to me. I went out with a girl for about a week that I didn't particularly liked at the beginning but was decently attractive and over the top nice to me. She did anything and everything for me whenever and wherever I was. Fast forward a week and I thought to myself: "I can actually get used to this, I want her to become my girlfriend" so I started to become more physical, steer the conversation more towards sexual topics and started to tease her. At the time she was really receptive to all my moves and i never got the vibe that she didn't like it up until the last time I saw her. Well, It took her 48 hours to change her mind. Haven't heard from her since yesterday. I'm so glad to come across Casey's channel as this is all fairly new information to me and I definitely need to internalize most of these topics
So true. Casey, when I married my wife we went to the mall. She pointed out a couple walking in the dept store holding hands. She sh..t tested me. She said, "isn't that cute, see them holding hands". I reached out and took hold of her hand. To hold it while we were walking. She pulled her hand away. I reached for it again. She told me angrily that she didn't like that. She then didn't walk beside me. She was ticked off. Now I know why.
I'm 54 and I have learned so much from Casey. I liked this one certain woman after my divorce and I really demonstrated this to her. I even wrote her a song. lol. She immediately put me in the friend zone. I currently have several women interested in me now. I barely acknowledge them. I let them come to me. I can't believe this works!
It does NOT work for a longer time. Several women admired me a lot and wanted me to to become their boyfriend. We dated a bit and had nights together. But I was not sure about it and they all cooled down fast.
Have fun boys Get married - She'll see you take a vacation - You just lost value - You'll hurt your back and need to take 2 days to let it heal - You just lost value - You'll get sick and have a 103 temp and need to take a day or 2 off work - You just lost value - You just finished building a back deck and decide to relax on it - You just lost value - You just finished a 16 hour work day and want to relax listening to music - You just lost value Women are awesome
Dear Casey, You are Incredibly Good at conveying these messages, I also believe your understanding of women is Amazing. Ive recently applied some of your advice with a lady friend of mine, and shes decided to quietly pull back, thats ok with me, lets see where this goes.
If she's pulling back you were not at the top of her list since you're not giving her what she wants. But also know what she want's from you is not the same as what she wants from the guy at the top of her list, so move on.
@@oscargonza2748 how am i supposed to control myself during sex or when we kissing them ima feel a lot more and remember everybody is different so different women have different attraction.
So just enjoy the moment with them and after words give them space to miss you so they would want more of you, keep in mind, attraction grows in space, bruh
I believe that birth control and antidepressants in women can cause this to reverse and then, as has been demonstrated elsewhere, women on these drugs get involved with men who they would ordinarily never be interested in... to disastrous effect . This kind of situation breaks people and destroys marriages
@@xXavorxit's something you can look up: women on BC are into the softer and more beta side, when they come off the BC they want to get railed by alphas -- this is how the progressive girl who marries destroys everything happens in reverse too, if she's into you for your looks or whatever, don't encourage her to go on hormonal BC and watch out for shlubs if she does
I agree with the concept 100% But you cant show NO interest at all.... they are not going to keep pursuing you indefinately... you need to show some interest
Ive watched 5-6 videos from your channel in the last and ive been implementing a few things with my wife and she is acting totally different lol. This material does make perfect sense.
I hear you, it's a sad life when you realize that if you want to be with someone who loves you, you won't love them and if you want to be with someone you love, then they won't love you! No wonder life long marriages are rare!
Ouch. The whole liesure thing is true. It's stupid as hell, but my ex-fiance bounced immediately after I decided to chill before moving to a new job. I had plenty of money, I didn't need to go back to work for yeeeeaaaars. She freaked out and bounced. I actually don't regret her leaving, she can go to hell, but this point was super true.
In the movie "The Warriors" there is a great interaction between Swan and Mercy. She is attracted to Swan but he shows little romantic interest in her. At one point he even pushes her away from him when she is practically begging him for sex and he pretty much calls her a whore without saying it. Near the end he picks up a little corsage of flowers that were dropped by a prom girl and as they get off the train he picks it up and gives it to her. When she asks what they're for he tells her he doesn't like to see anything go to waste. The scene itself in the train before this part is incredibly well written and filmed. At the very end he says he's going to leave Coney Island and she basically tells him she's going with him if he will let her. A lot of other stuff goes on between them after they first meet, but importantly he shows by his actions, not his words, that he can protect and take care of her and she falls crazy in love with him for it. He is being totally masculine at all times without even thinking about trying to impress her or garner her favour. Right from the start he takes no shit from her. That's how every guy should be because it's what women want. P.S. If you want to watch the movie get the theatrical release not the annoying one with cartoon comic book bits in it because they spoil the flow and feel of the movie.
@@kimmorrison9169 Wasn't so much getting deep into it because it was there right in front of your face and a good bit of character development. I suppose if you're just looking at the screen only interested in the fight scenes rather than watching the movie then how the characters react with each other might not be important to you.
Happened to me a bunch because my sex drive is naturally low tbh. But this one woman offered me a hook up and I str8 up told her no I’m not interested. We ended up hooking up once and she enjoyed it but for that reason she’s still attracted to me. She had a kid by another guy after that so now I really don’t give her the time of day but even when they were dating she still liked me.
This is TRUUUUEEEE, and it sucks. I've SEEN this more times than I'd like to remember. They will swoon over you, and the MINUTE you catch feelings, they are DONE with you. FINITO, baby. NEVER catch feelings. EVER.
Facts! This is the most important video of them all and it works. I'm talking to two girls right now. If all men acts this way girls should be chasing us by now
why would anyone want to have a woman who likes you for being detached and uninterested, if you are detached and interested there is no point getting with that woman in the first place. But yeah Casey is right and understands psychology, it's just that there are no interesting women out there anyway.
If u aren't the guys she sees on TV or her gram feed of famous content creators then she is not seeing you as high value on the external. I've come to learn that women don't like the guys they can get or have already. All their novelistic porn is always about the guy who she isn't with and or married to.
@quarlmephystodot2201 Eventually likely she will. But because today's more digital then ever, they are getting the stimulation they want off these fantasy. ESPECIALLY gen Z.
@@quarlmephystodot2201 Staying in contact alright.....with Your resources. The one constant with any flake is, if You stop handing out freebies given enough time they'll loose interest. When you stay loyal to the Funda-mental principles, there's always a money trail that either dries up or leads You to the perp.
Awesome vid as usual. But I'd argue that in today's day and age, for a really hot woman (8+ /10) to even LOOK your way, you'll need to have some sort of status, stability, and looks. I'm not saying you gotta be a model or famous or wealthy, but you have to be well-off financially (having your own nice car, apartment, etc), and look the best you possibly can.
Wow, Casey u nailed it on the head once again. I was that ‘guy’ in your beginning segment. Relationship done after 12 plus years … with kids … u pretty much described me, had to learn via trial and error as this material was not available 10 years ago 🤙🏼
This is so true, I just blew it with a woman I really liked, treated her too “nice”, and she lost attraction immediately! I know this, WTF was I thinking! Oh well on to the next.
This is actually true, now that I’m ok with everything. She actually gets more clingy like for example I used to say, no I don’t want to leave “i miss you” and then demonstrate clingyness. The less clingy she was to me. Now she tells me “im tired imma go to sleep”. I just kiss her and leave. And she just hug me and don’t let me go😂 the less clingy you are, the better and you can treat her good, it doesn’t matter.
Keep it up bro You are the best among the other redpill youtubers. I learned a lot from them too. They had so many common teachings. But your content is the deepest and the most meaningful and the most easy to understand Thank you
Casey, you are an excellent dating coach. There was even a female dating coach on TH-cam who was recommending you as a good coach. Of course I believe do not get dating advice from women. God is speaking through you. May God Bless you and your family forever brother 🙏🙏🙏
I lose attraction too when a woman starts to like me too much. I'm not being mean or applying these principles but the enigmatic effect really hits sometimes even if u do totally nothing.
Casey thank you for all you say and do . I personally made all of those mistakes. That you mentioned, snd truly feel sorry for women that they are wired to think the way they do. If they didn't this would make it a better world. That said. Guess I have been a super simp cause I treated a lady with the outmost respect and love only to be rejected and or ghosted. You are 100% correct you can't show high interest and that you care cause that is the kiss of death of the relationship as you say. Thank you for opening my eyes and all the caring guys out there. Merry Christmas Urrah.
Casey always keeps it real raw and uncut. I respect that. I found myself trying to nurture my marriage and failed. She resented me until I focused on me and tried to come back. No ma'am. But now i know better
@@producerx1015 there is no such thing like "modern woman". Women are the same like always. When I was young 20 years ago young women acted even more horrible than nowadays. Btw, I acted pretty the same way like CZ suggests: I was cold and pretty arrogant, working and doing studies. It did not work. No women were interested in me. They were interested only in men's money or popularity. To get girls without them was hopeless.
Its actually so true, I am dating a girl and we have been 2months now, everything was perfect until 1 week ago, when she didnt reply me the day i set the date. I acted cold and a bit distant from the beginning but 2 weeks ago I started to give her more attention because she was acting good with me (she cooked for me, etc) so I decided to reward her a bit. Then she disrespected me like I said, so I told her that i wont waste my time that she can text me when she wants to see me (i was not going to propose another date), she replied me that she was sick (that was true but its just an excuse) and that she really wanted to see me so i told her that if she wants to see me then she knows what she has to do (its been a day and she has not replied but i actually dont gaf). The point is that the moment I showed her a bit of interest she pulled back and started behaving like this. Now i removed all atention from her and became totally distant, maybe shes gonna text back or maybe not who cares, the fact is that if you show any interest in her she will pull back without any hesitation. Stay strong kings and just focus on yourself.
@@vladthepistol3974 I took 2 days to respond her text so now she is taking long too but idc, I think its a shit test to see if a lose my frame or I act emotional after her pulling back. I must stand my ground and not text her back unless she replys. Have a nice day brother and stay strong💪
@@TeacherToolkitDemo bro she came back 4 days later she said she didnt reply cause she was mad and she told me she was sorry this happened cause she really likes me, she said that she didnt reply too cause she knew i was doing my things and she didnt want to bother me and that she understand that she cannot come back like nothing happened, and she also wished me a happy christmas with my family
15:10 thanks for telling them as it is about female nature. They are not wrong, they are not backward, they are not evil nor bad, it's just how NATURE has it. Not because men & women are classified as humans, it means both think, feel, operate etc in the same way. Ying & Yang is VERY important in this life.
Although you didn't say it today, but this is indeed your most important video. Women hate men who tell or show them that they are going to have some fun too. Its first hand experience. Just act like we are so busy just in work. Men are actually confused. They think that if they look attractive and act like a playboy then women will sexuall desire them more. This is why all this simping but the reality is shown in a old movie lady Chatterley.
Basically show her you like her without telling her and make sure she earns your attention. Her reward is only getting her back broken. Give a little more to her when she is the first to invest in you. It's a thing of balance. She reacts and men adapt.
Great video that was well explained. Part 4 I think a lot of guys know but it’s probably the hardest to live. Also, to go along with part 4 I see a lot of guys my age in their 30’s eventually setting down with a girl that’s wayyy below their league. When they have done better in dating.
First time I watched absolutely true value content As I have lots of experience across the world and I have had many relationships with different races in different geographies of this globe No wonder you have almost a million subscribers I am just moving around having minimalist lifestyle and many shapes and sizes I wish you the best my friend You are waking up so many unsuspecting souls Cheers ❤❤❤❤❤
So, we will never get what we like since what we like doesn't like us to like them... Or to get the one you like do you constantly need to put up a facade of not liking them back??? Now, I learnt how to play the game, I just need to learn how to enjoy playing it 😢😢. Is there a way of still touching her, flirting her, telling her romantic things without getting her biology to repulse????
You do all the romantic things once you are sure her heart is fully into you. Its gonna be a surprise for her. Until then you have to act disinterested
@@genshinsage I disagree. see his previous (I guess) vid. he always talks about getting from 10/10 interest to zero, so you can repulse her by excess interest at any level. She can give you lots of credits tho.
Second time watching this lecture. Whenever I call off sick for work, my wife doesn't like that. That's right. I've been married 33 years. Casey's wisdom is spot on.
Good contents brother! I appreciate how you make your point and repeat so it all sinks in. Reiterating at the end is a nice closure. Well done and much success to you
I’ve been a hyper responsive individual my whole life. Varsity athlete starter captain all that but every single time EVERY SINGLE TIME I took 10% of my attention to my goals nd put it towards my gf at that time it was all downhill from there not right away but definitely downhill momentum started leading to them breaking up with me. FELLAS, stay on your personal purpose whatever that is to you I’ll never make that mistake again I have my gf now who is on board and every girl that broke up with me is on my 🥜 still. GODSPEED BOYS💯
Painfully great thank you. Welll, i am bitter & pissed off, being human. But. I comprehend no one cares about my feelings. So. I can still validate my own feelings, while keeping them to myself. It's tactical
Man, that work one hit hard. One of the reasons why i got left was because of that. I work in health care so i work 12 hour shifts on the floor. Well, 3 days hit me at full time, and when i pick up an extra shift a week, i get around 96 hours. Money was never a problem, but this one woman i was dating from summer till December got irritated with me when i had like 3 or 4 days off, and i went fishing or was enjoying my time off. I guess i should work myself to the bone, but i can't do 5 days at 12 hours, i have no life to go do stuff and its stressful as hell.
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@@Lorgicwhy talk like this to someone who’s helpin u lil bro
@@ileemi2487 helping me with?
Seems like your getting only narc women, Casey😂
KC please do a video on how girls that already know U B4 your sexual market value is on the Rise
start 2 hate & will say $mart @$$ remarks trying 2 down play your game
they also act jealous weird & mental
about seeing all of the new attention U R getting
please I like 2 hear your thoughts on this
Painful to realize that the more we like her, the less of a chance we have. Sad but true.
Yeah I noticed that also
It really makes me not want to be in a relationship. Yeah you can adapt and learn to play this game but what's the point. At the end of the day you're just pretending to be something you're not just to keep her hooked on you
You have to be good looking with social proof other woman desire you for it to work , average ugly guys and above average dont have that ,
loser mindset @@puertoricanprince7690
It becomes increasingly hard if you want to fix a relationship after 10 years.
Wisdom dictates that the more you understand feminine nature, it is always better for you to deal with women that like you much more than you like them.
Date them to attract the others the others you wanted will show themselves and interest you can either smash or then turn them down out of spite
Ouch the truth hurts
But what if you aren't attracted to those women?
@@DadieBoachie Exactly!
@@DadieBoachie It's simple. Then you must do something to *Raise Your Sexual Marketplace Value* so that you are attracting higher quality/more attractive women. As a man, you can't be afraid of putting in the extra work. Its a competition out here!
Dude it’s so true. When you feel “damn I like this girl she’s gf material” you’re in trouble! Gotta stay cool and not be clingy!!
Yep. Even if you are aware and careful with your words and behaviour, just carrying this energy internally will fuck things up....
I wish I knew this earlier. Even less attractive women have this nature
Women get to experience how it is to be with a man they are in love with.
But most men will never know what it would have been like to be with a women they love.
Women should definitely stop complaining about having their hearts broken. They are already far too privileged!
agreed if this is true
Chicks fall in love with the idea of a dude not the actual dude and what he provides, a guy falls "in love" with what a girl wants to show him. Either is a mirage.
Facts.
Welcome to the gynocentric Western world.
This is why we as western men have failed and everyone else around the world is laughing at us 💯
I have always noticed that the girls that I saw only as a friend had the highest interest for relationships
That's it... just be cool with minding your own business and they'll be forced to come to you themselves!!
@@wisdomking6109 thats getting you laid...but it doesnt work for maintaining a serious relationship. those seem to be impossible these days, if you arent especially lucky.
Basically all women are hoes treat them as such and you win. Try and wifey them your out.
And I bet they weren’t that attractive
It’s as if we have to figure out a way to defy our own biology. Men are wired to idealize her, fall in love, build an attachment/pair bond etc. If we weren’t designed that way we’d probably stay far far away from woman because their nature is so damn destructive to men. Having awareness of all these concepts is one thing. Having the ability to override our own instincts is a completely different matter. The percentage of men that can transcend this (long term) will be exceptionally few. But we all must aspire to, otherwise we’re going to get crushed out there.
The wilderness of women, hmm?
Good point.
meditation/chi kung/breath work is exactly about and results in gaining control over your emotions and mental state...combine that with semen retention and you're on your way
Well said!
I couldn’t have a said it better my man. You are absolutely correct and it really sux to operate in this manner as Man. I do it but it goes against everything in my soul…
I have found this to be true in my life. I’m 40 and any woman that I actually cared for has broken my heart or stolen many things. But the ones that I didn’t like we had hot sex all the time.
Best girlfriend material is a girl that you find attractive but you don't really want as your girlfriend.
He was right
Interesting. It’s been the opposite for me
@@avve9001dude that’s genius
@@michaelhouse5276
So why bother with the channel if you're already winning?
To sum it all up... there is very little hope for us men to be ourselves and have a woman to love. Thanks for the reality shiiit sandwich, Casey!
Shift your goals from women, to what YOU want to do with your life, then you get to be yourself 24/7, and women just become the cherry on top
Depends on what being yourself is, growing up I thought being nice was a good thing because of how I was raised but I wasn't being myself, I was doing what I was taught. I was also the silent type so it did help with girls because it was mysterious. As I've gotten older I've learned to be myself always and because of that I attract a lot of people without trying in fact I'm 32 now and I always seem to attract younger women which is cool, but that's not my focus. Other than work I have a passion for martial arts TKD specifically, and constantly improving and reaching black belt has been my goal for over 7 years and in February of next year I will finally have achieved that goal.
You’re so right, I’m 60 yrs old and I was married for 22 years, I date many women and work with women, I have many women in my family, my dude you are so on point.
What have you noticed about them?
Yup. I'm roughly the same age and Casey is 100% on point. It's refreshing a chap this young has figured this out. Took me a bit longer 😅
So the only way to get a woman is to not want her. So what's the point of being with a woman you don't want?
You missed the point.
You meet a woman you like... don't simp. Be cool.
Dont take everything so literally. She has to believe that you dont give a damn about anything. You have your life and it doesnt matter if shes in it or not. Theres plenty of other women you can have and SHE has to prove that she is the one you want in your life. Dont be clingy, dont run after her and be cool. Dont be emotional and only give her serious attention when she deserves it. If you check all of these boxes then you will be married forever. 98% of men do none of these things so you'll be fine.
Right. Don't show physical or emotional interest. Then what?
@@anonymissed3611 Make her work for it. She can have it if shes being good to you but not all the time and only if you really want it too. Its all about having control. Women naturally love men who take the lead and control. If you go on a date with her then be nice. Hold her hand and make it a special day for her but dont be an emotional goof. Dont Text her all the time and be busy with your own life. I know thats really hard if you have a huge crush on a girl but try your best. It shows superiority. If youre into her then be straight up and honest with her and ask her out on a date.
Imma have to agree with this. The only time I had a successful relationship was with someone I didn’t like at first. But eventually after we got together, I still didn’t like her so we broke up.
The man knows what he is talking about, his knowledge on this stuff is next level. Most dating coaches have a superficial understanding of why woman leave . The obvious being beta/clingy, needy ect. Casey really breaks down the small things which most people don't realise why there woman left them even after they thought they were doing everything 'right' or a self proclaimed 'Alpha".
From my own experience this is 100 % bang on . Marriage broke down over a year ago which broke me , together 23 yrs and im guilty of showing the clinginess even now as i want her back . I know i shouldn't and try my hardest to stop as i know its just pushing the divorce even closer but when there is kids involved and you lose the one woman that you have spent all of your adult life with its not as simple.
You’re in a difficult situation, bro. But you can still redeem yourself by stopping the clinginess ASAP, and getting in better shape, both mentally and physically. Do NOT contact her again (until she initiates conversation). And even if she does initiate conversation, do NOT show interest.
😂stupid, let go dude theres better things to be focused on.
You should start dating her best friend or her sister! 😉🏆✨
I wish I actually loved a woman this much, especially my wife. And probably because I don't is the reason why no matter what I do my wife just won't leave me. No matter how hard I try to make her leave. Maybe I should get clingy and maybe then she'll want to leave.
@CzarPharo you act clingy she will get turned off and leave lol
This advice is great for getting promiscuous women high in traits of narcissism or for high quantity low quality relationships, but when it comes to falling in love mutually, this is so problematic.
Nope. It's not your job to be an emotional chic. It's akin to gravity. You can uselessly fight it or just be the man
Actually he is vey accurate. It doesn’t matter the women, they are all wired this way. Promiscuous or not. It is very very rare for you to come across a woman who isn’t this way.
Agreed. Its horse shit. He should label the video "How NOT to love a women."
tend to agree but good luck finding one that's not like that
Yeah but the whole idea is that you don't fall in love mutually. That's the thing. If you fall in love as a guy, you're fucked. You should always be able, capable and willing to walk away. If you go knees over toes lovey dovey, you WILL get fucked and hurt, because at that point the women consciously or unconsciously know they have the upper hand. And at that point their attraction and respect for you starts sinking.
Mutual love is a trap made by religion and love movies made for chicks
He's right on the money. All his videos are. But now in my late 40s I ask myself why all this trouble for a woman, if I want to kick back for a day or 2 and do shit why do i care what she'll think or if she loses interest in me because the way women are wired. At this point in my life I only care about my own well being and what I really want to do and if women get in the way of that someone else can have them. They're not my priority and I'm tired of playing games. It takes away my peace of mind and my freedom.
So this girl I was seeing I sent her clingy texts after I visited her. I'd tell her I had a good time and ask her if I upset her.
She told to stop sending me those types of messages - that was quite kind of her.
It's amazing how almost all women react like this
Visiting her was your first mistake. That's out of frame. If she's interested she can visit you, even if you pay for it.
A year or two ago, before Casey had went on this recent amazing rampage, I remember saying to myself "every single time I have ever THOUGHT the THOUGHT 'Wow i actually really like this girl' that girl exited or ghosted almost immediately after the thought popped into my mind" These videos finally explain why. It's a fundamental shift in how you treat the 6's and 7's in your world versus how you treat your 9's and 10's. And through these videos we can learn the huge mistakes we make with the latter category.
@renegadezen7841 - Treat the 9's and 10's like 6's and 7's, and you've got it made !
@@mtlicq
Yes, but's easier said than done though.
Treat the 7s like sweeties. They are. Treat the 10s like pure trash.
I treated even 5's, 6's, and 7's like decent humans. Big mistakes!
(8's and 9's too. [10's doesn't exist.])
@@sphericalspice agree that 10's dont exist I dont ever call any girl a ten. There are definitely 9.9's though out there as far as the looks category goes
Guys in the comments don’t seem to understand that a strong masculine frame is most important when it comes to women. It doesn’t matter how much you like her or love her, when you let those feelings go to your head and you break your masculine frame, you weaken yourself on behalf of her. Men must have strong and independent control over their mind and emotions. You don’t force yourself to like her less. You have to value yourself more and have some dignity. This shit isn’t sad, this is the reality.
And being in masculine frame means having more value for yourself.
Keep that masculine frame in court too. They love that
@Silence_between_waves mitochondrial DNA is matriarchal; men don't possess nor transfer mtDNA. Male angiosperm only fertilizer the egg and determine sex.
Central Dogma of Molecular Biology-deletion; translations; transcription. Should ask Watson & Crick this question.... they got that poor girl drunk and stole her idea... ironically she died of cancer... andnshes a woman, and doesn't need to win a noble peace prize or compete intellectually for sexy time, just has to open her legs.... she never wouldn't published or realized it anyways. (Rosalind Franklin).
@@Kyle-fp5lmyou'll never end up in court if you never marry her. Never marry, it's old fashioned and always bad if you're a high paid male
@@maxk880 That much is true, well save for cohabitation and kids involved. But other than those , you’re right.
Almost everything you have said, is what I’ve been doing wrong. God bless you brother, you’re helping me save my relationship I never thought was possible to save. But you know what? The funny thing is I learned all this by paying attention to people in high school. I was a pretty popular guy, so I knew a lot of people to observe and learn from. I just forgot it all over the 7 years I’ve been with my gf. I lost who I was just trying to please her. You explained that in one of your other videos. Your opening my eyes again! Again, thank you for making the content that is helping almost a half million of us going strong!
I've said this from the 2000s. The girl MUST like you more than you like her.
It does NOT work for a longer time. A woman admired me a lot and wanted me to to become her boyfriend. We dated a bit and had nights together. But I was not sure about it and she cooled down fast.
@@marguskiis7711 yes, but you misunderstood...you have to reciprocate interest
The balancing act is that the woman IMPLICITLY likes her Man more.
@@EriPages So, I still should have the interest too? Zander says man should NOT have ANY interest in the woman.
You have to first contextualize what the scenario is.
Zander was talking about a fling/shortterm hookup type girl when you show NO interest.
In the scenario you personally had, that was more of a girlfriend type thing, so in that scenario, you DEFINITELY show interest, but you temper it by the amount of interest she show YOU...and then you maintain a balance in which she show more interest whilst you STILL remain a solid bf to her for the rest of your lives together
Those are the two scenarios, and in those two scenarios, the man's interest is either not shown, or always perpetually less than the woman's shown interest.@@marguskiis7711
@@marguskiis7711no man. You have him working. Just don’t treat her like she’s the prize. U are the prize.
Casey, watching your channel is becoming a daily routine to me! Your messages a very clear and they hurt sometimes too🤦🏻♂️. But they are true! My wife broke up with me two months ago after 11 years. I have to face, that it was predictable, bc of my behavior and clinginess! That’s the truth! I didn’t know better,or when I started to slowly internalize your advices, it was already too late! But I will be prepared for my future life and relationship, by watching and listening to you over and over again! Thank you for your support and truths with your hard and enduring work 🙏🏼God bless you!
Yet I agree but here's the issue with all of Casey's videos and your assessment. It's coming from the angle always that the man did something wrong. Why isn't it ever maybe the woman is not a good woman or she fucked up. Maybe you were clingy maybe you weren't. I do admit a lot of men make these fundamental mistakes but none of it should matter in the end. If two people like each other it should build from the beginning and blossom into something great as long as both people are treating each other good and the same. These stupid things that can make a woman lose attraction for you is idiotic at best. I'm not arguing against it because I lost 3 or 4 girls where I gave complete effort and reciprocation and nothing bad ever happened, so I completely understand how women are retardly wired but my issue is it can't always be men blaming themselves on why the woman lost attraction or left.
Advice. "Advices" doesn't exist in English. (it can be pluralized in other languages though)
Man, did I recently learn this the hard way... I've always played this game well, and didn't realise it. Got out of a marriage of many years, back in the game. Had plenty of interest and was back on the horse. Hooked up with a girl that I thought was amazing, really connected and all that... then completely f'd myself, and did everything opposite to what I normally do. Burnt the bridge fast, and she couldn't even figure out why she lost interest, your videos were a proper slap in the face and a "wake-up!" I made so many "mistakes" that I just never did before, I just figured I was older and more mature being in my 40s and her in her late 40s.. nope, they're wired the same as you describe, even at that age. Real shame, but I won't make that mistake again. Really appreciate your videos, Casey.
Very straight forward and informative. Always good to rewatch your content to humble myself to keep up the daily grind. Definitely scoring hotter women these days then I did in my early 20s
"It's not in a mans nature to nurture a relationship". That really hit home and the reason why I lost attraction from some women. Don't be too excited and let her do the work. Your job is to be a man. Although I did enjoy bringing my girl her daily afternoon coffee when I was in an actual healthy relationship and we were working from home, those things, almost like an inside joke which she can rely on, I would still do
If a woman wants to break up with you, set her free. If she comes back, set her free again. If you screwed up, and you let her come back, she'll never forget it. If you didn't screw up, and you let her come back, she'll never forget that, either. To allow a woman back into your life after a breakup is the epidome of male weakness, and she'll never truly respect you afterwards. When it's done... It's done. Walk away and learn from the experience.
Wow
Great vid and being on your own path, in motion will also naturally decrease your need for women's validation so it has the effect of you not being as invested.
Snort the coke instead.
Most realistic content on subject. Thank you, Casey.
The fact that I can vouch for this knowledge due to my own experience is beyond mindblowing to me. I went out with a girl for about a week that I didn't particularly liked at the beginning but was decently attractive and over the top nice to me. She did anything and everything for me whenever and wherever I was. Fast forward a week and I thought to myself: "I can actually get used to this, I want her to become my girlfriend" so I started to become more physical, steer the conversation more towards sexual topics and started to tease her. At the time she was really receptive to all my moves and i never got the vibe that she didn't like it up until the last time I saw her.
Well, It took her 48 hours to change her mind. Haven't heard from her since yesterday. I'm so glad to come across Casey's channel as this is all fairly new information to me and I definitely need to internalize most of these topics
Casey we appreciate you and we hear ya. Stay up!!
So true. Casey, when I married my wife we went to the mall. She pointed out a couple walking in the dept store holding hands. She sh..t tested me. She said, "isn't that cute, see them holding hands". I reached out and took hold of her hand. To hold it while we were walking. She pulled her hand away. I reached for it again. She told me angrily that she didn't like that. She then didn't walk beside me. She was ticked off. Now I know why.
Entrapment.
Theyre nuts
That's crazy. I never had any issues like that when I was dating my wife. We held hands and cuddled all the time.
She belongs to the streets you made a mistake marrying her.
@@mhaas281lol did this go over your head?
I'm 54 and I have learned so much from Casey. I liked this one certain woman after my divorce and I really demonstrated this to her. I even wrote her a song. lol. She immediately put me in the friend zone. I currently have several women interested in me now. I barely acknowledge them. I let them come to me. I can't believe this works!
What ages are these women?
It does NOT work for a longer time. Several women admired me a lot and wanted me to to become their boyfriend. We dated a bit and had nights together. But I was not sure about it and they all cooled down fast.
Haha lol so funny you wrote her a song
Last couple of videos were original and good. Now we’re back to the old (but gold) content. It’s repetitive as hell but still worth it.
If you win the lottery and become lazy, she will stay with you for the stuff, and cheat on you with the contractor building your mansion.
Exactly 💯
Or they fake it until you marry them. Never underestimate them.
Have fun boys
Get married
- She'll see you take a vacation - You just lost value
- You'll hurt your back and need to take 2 days to let it heal - You just lost value
- You'll get sick and have a 103 temp and need to take a day or 2 off work - You just lost value
- You just finished building a back deck and decide to relax on it - You just lost value
- You just finished a 16 hour work day and want to relax listening to music - You just lost value
Women are awesome
No wonder im so happy alone
If you do just 1 thing wrong you will lose value, at this point just date mentally ill women
Way too awesome. Treat her like shit to keep her on the toes
Dear Casey, You are Incredibly Good at conveying these messages, I also believe your understanding of women is Amazing. Ive recently applied some of your advice with a lady friend of mine, and shes decided to quietly pull back, thats ok with me, lets see where this goes.
If she's pulling back you were not at the top of her list since you're not giving her what she wants. But also know what she want's from you is not the same as what she wants from the guy at the top of her list, so move on.
forget that lady friend of yours, go find a hot bitch in del rio
Keep bringing that pressure Casey😤💪🏾🙌🏾 Awesome video along with some tough love and facts🤝🏾🤝🏾
It's a matter of being stoic and not let your emotions get the best of you when dealing with hot chicks, plain and simple
but that doesn’t mean i can’t have attraction right?
Yes of couse you can show attraction, but keep it subtle, less is more, bruh
@@oscargonza2748 how am i supposed to control myself during sex or when we kissing them ima feel a lot more and remember everybody is different so different women have different attraction.
So just enjoy the moment with them and after words give them space to miss you so they would want more of you, keep in mind, attraction grows in space, bruh
@@oscargonza2748 if they reach thier absolute limits of wanting you then do i still do it the same?
I learned this the hard way back when I was younger but now I know. Still a lot to learn. Main thing is always focus on yourself to be better.
masculine is the mission, forward progress and movement... the boy CZ speaks truth as always!
I believe that birth control and antidepressants in women can cause this to reverse and then, as has been demonstrated elsewhere, women on these drugs get involved with men who they would ordinarily never be interested in... to disastrous effect . This kind of situation breaks people and destroys marriages
I’m surprised no other comments mention this 💯💯
What are you talking about?
@@xXavorx bro. What didn't you understand?
@@xXavorxit's something you can look up: women on BC are into the softer and more beta side, when they come off the BC they want to get railed by alphas -- this is how the progressive girl who marries destroys everything
happens in reverse too, if she's into you for your looks or whatever, don't encourage her to go on hormonal BC and watch out for shlubs if she does
my girl is on both how do you know that to be true?
I agree with the concept 100% But you cant show NO interest at all.... they are not going to keep pursuing you indefinately... you need to show some interest
Ive watched 5-6 videos from your channel in the last and ive been implementing a few things with my wife and she is acting totally different lol. This material does make perfect sense.
Wow can u mention exactly those since already it's flooded with so.. many ideas.. a live example will help much .plz illustrate if u don't mind
Already over when you are married,
I hear you, it's a sad life when you realize that if you want to be with someone who loves you, you won't love them and if you want to be with someone you love, then they won't love you! No wonder life long marriages are rare!
Ouch. The whole liesure thing is true. It's stupid as hell, but my ex-fiance bounced immediately after I decided to chill before moving to a new job. I had plenty of money, I didn't need to go back to work for yeeeeaaaars. She freaked out and bounced.
I actually don't regret her leaving, she can go to hell, but this point was super true.
In the movie "The Warriors" there is a great interaction between Swan and Mercy. She is attracted to Swan but he shows little romantic interest in her.
At one point he even pushes her away from him when she is practically begging him for sex and he pretty much calls her a whore without saying it.
Near the end he picks up a little corsage of flowers that were dropped by a prom girl and as they get off the train he picks it up and gives it to her. When she asks what they're for he tells her he doesn't like to see anything go to waste. The scene itself in the train before this part is incredibly well written and filmed.
At the very end he says he's going to leave Coney Island and she basically tells him she's going with him if he will let her.
A lot of other stuff goes on between them after they first meet, but importantly he shows by his actions, not his words, that he can protect and take care of her and she falls crazy in love with him for it.
He is being totally masculine at all times without even thinking about trying to impress her or garner her favour. Right from the start he takes no shit from her. That's how every guy should be because it's what women want.
P.S. If you want to watch the movie get the theatrical release not the annoying one with cartoon comic book bits in it because they spoil the flow and feel of the movie.
That’s very deep. That’s very true.,
Saw it 3 times. Didn’t try to get that deep into it🤪
@@kimmorrison9169 Wasn't so much getting deep into it because it was there right in front of your face and a good bit of character development. I suppose if you're just looking at the screen only interested in the fight scenes rather than watching the movie then how the characters react with each other might not be important to you.
Happened to me a bunch because my sex drive is naturally low tbh. But this one woman offered me a hook up and I str8 up told her no I’m not interested. We ended up hooking up once and she enjoyed it but for that reason she’s still attracted to me. She had a kid by another guy after that so now I really don’t give her the time of day but even when they were dating she still liked me.
This is TRUUUUEEEE, and it sucks. I've SEEN this more times than I'd like to remember. They will swoon over you, and the MINUTE you catch feelings, they are DONE with you. FINITO, baby. NEVER catch feelings. EVER.
Judge Casey Zander!!! how much truth are y ready to sink in!!
Facts! This is the most important video of them all and it works. I'm talking to two girls right now. If all men acts this way girls should be chasing us by now
If all men stopped simping in their dms and profiles theyd chase us
why would anyone want to have a woman who likes you for being detached and uninterested, if you are detached and interested there is no point getting with that woman in the first place. But yeah Casey is right and understands psychology, it's just that there are no interesting women out there anyway.
If u aren't the guys she sees on TV or her gram feed of famous content creators then she is not seeing you as high value on the external. I've come to learn that women don't like the guys they can get or have already. All their novelistic porn is always about the guy who she isn't with and or married to.
This
Exactly 💯
u miss the fct those guys are on a tv screen and she craves contact
@quarlmephystodot2201
Eventually likely she will. But because today's more digital then ever, they are getting the stimulation they want off these fantasy. ESPECIALLY gen Z.
@@quarlmephystodot2201 Staying in contact alright.....with Your resources. The one constant with any flake is, if You stop handing out freebies given enough time they'll loose interest. When you stay loyal to the Funda-mental principles, there's always a money trail that either dries up or leads You to the perp.
Awesome vid as usual. But I'd argue that in today's day and age, for a really hot woman (8+ /10) to even LOOK your way, you'll need to have some sort of status, stability, and looks. I'm not saying you gotta be a model or famous or wealthy, but you have to be well-off financially (having your own nice car, apartment, etc), and look the best you possibly can.
Wow, Casey u nailed it on the head once again. I was that ‘guy’ in your beginning segment. Relationship done after 12 plus years … with kids … u pretty much described me, had to learn via trial and error as this material was not available 10 years ago 🤙🏼
Your really really killing it, God bless you Uncle c
This is so true, I just blew it with a woman I really liked, treated her too “nice”, and she lost attraction immediately! I know this, WTF was I thinking! Oh well on to the next.
From beta to Alpha instantly
Uncle Casey carrying the torch, bringing the fire 🔥!
Illuminating the path for a generation born in the dark.
God bless you.
This is actually true, now that I’m ok with everything. She actually gets more clingy like for example
I used to say, no I don’t want to leave “i miss you” and then demonstrate clingyness. The less clingy she was to me. Now she tells me “im tired imma go to sleep”. I just kiss her and leave. And she just hug me and don’t let me go😂 the less clingy you are, the better and you can treat her good, it doesn’t matter.
This guy understands..thanks Casey
Keep it up bro
You are the best among the other redpill youtubers. I learned a lot from them too. They had so many common teachings. But your content is the deepest and the most meaningful and the most easy to understand Thank you
Casey, you are an excellent dating coach. There was even a female dating coach on TH-cam who was recommending you as a good coach. Of course I believe do not get dating advice from women. God is speaking through you. May God Bless you and your family forever brother 🙏🙏🙏
He is wrong many ways. I have been indifferent a lot of times and have lost all the women.
Eye opening, the high interest part not equalling evilness or herself in any way. Wonder how many this can help
Too fackin’ much hard work fellas.
I lose attraction too when a woman starts to like me too much. I'm not being mean or applying these principles but the enigmatic effect really hits sometimes even if u do totally nothing.
Casey thank you for all you say and do . I personally made all of those mistakes. That you mentioned, snd truly feel sorry for women that they are wired to think the way they do. If they didn't this would make it a better world. That said. Guess I have been a super simp cause I treated a lady with the outmost respect and love only to be rejected and or ghosted. You are 100% correct you can't show high interest and that you care cause that is the kiss of death of the relationship as you say. Thank you for opening my eyes and all the caring guys out there. Merry Christmas Urrah.
As a short, Mexican man that identifies as a tall Italian lesbian, I can honestly say this is good advice
Casey always keeps it real raw and uncut. I respect that.
I found myself trying to nurture my marriage and failed. She resented me until I focused on me and tried to come back. No ma'am. But now i know better
But he is wrong many ways.
@@marguskiis7711 everyone situation is different definitely. I think he does a good job overall explaining modern women nature and how to counter it.
@@producerx1015 there is no such thing like "modern woman". Women are the same like always. When I was young 20 years ago young women acted even more horrible than nowadays. Btw, I acted pretty the same way like CZ suggests: I was cold and pretty arrogant, working and doing studies. It did not work. No women were interested in me. They were interested only in men's money or popularity. To get girls without them was hopeless.
Its actually so true, I am dating a girl and we have been 2months now, everything was perfect until 1 week ago, when she didnt reply me the day i set the date. I acted cold and a bit distant from the beginning but 2 weeks ago I started to give her more attention because she was acting good with me (she cooked for me, etc) so I decided to reward her a bit. Then she disrespected me like I said, so I told her that i wont waste my time that she can text me when she wants to see me (i was not going to propose another date), she replied me that she was sick (that was true but its just an excuse) and that she really wanted to see me so i told her that if she wants to see me then she knows what she has to do (its been a day and she has not replied but i actually dont gaf). The point is that the moment I showed her a bit of interest she pulled back and started behaving like this. Now i removed all atention from her and became totally distant, maybe shes gonna text back or maybe not who cares, the fact is that if you show any interest in her she will pull back without any hesitation. Stay strong kings and just focus on yourself.
Let her be, watch shell text u back and apology for her disrespect
@@vladthepistol3974 I took 2 days to respond her text so now she is taking long too but idc, I think its a shit test to see if a lose my frame or I act emotional after her pulling back. I must stand my ground and not text her back unless she replys. Have a nice day brother and stay strong💪
So what happened? It’s been 2 weeks. Time for an update lol 💪
@@TeacherToolkitDemo bro she came back 4 days later she said she didnt reply cause she was mad and she told me she was sorry this happened cause she really likes me, she said that she didnt reply too cause she knew i was doing my things and she didnt want to bother me and that she understand that she cannot come back like nothing happened, and she also wished me a happy christmas with my family
@@MrBubleYThahaha it's so funny, I am wondering how do you control your need for intimacy, do you not do it at all?
Best channel for men when it comes to understanding the fairer sex.
15:10 thanks for telling them as it is about female nature. They are not wrong, they are not backward, they are not evil nor bad, it's just how NATURE has it. Not because men & women are classified as humans, it means both think, feel, operate etc in the same way. Ying & Yang is VERY important in this life.
The goat back at it
Although you didn't say it today, but this is indeed your most important video.
Women hate men who tell or show them that they are going to have some fun too. Its first hand experience. Just act like we are so busy just in work.
Men are actually confused. They think that if they look attractive and act like a playboy then women will sexuall desire them more. This is why all this simping but the reality is shown in a old movie lady Chatterley.
Yep that true . A girl hates to see you have fun.
My favorite Channel on this type stuff keep dropping videos love this
Basically show her you like her without telling her and make sure she earns your attention. Her reward is only getting her back broken. Give a little more to her when she is the first to invest in you. It's a thing of balance. She reacts and men adapt.
Great video that was well explained. Part 4 I think a lot of guys know but it’s probably the hardest to live. Also, to go along with part 4 I see a lot of guys my age in their 30’s eventually setting down with a girl that’s wayyy below their league. When they have done better in dating.
"This will be the count down to the end of the relationship." that one got a belly laugh out of me. Dig this channel.
First time I watched absolutely true value content
As I have lots of experience across the world and I have had many relationships with different races in different geographies of this globe
No wonder you have almost a million subscribers
I am just moving around having minimalist lifestyle and many shapes and sizes
I wish you the best my friend
You are waking up so many unsuspecting souls
Cheers ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank You Mr Zander...
He's absolutely right.
The Force is strong with this one.
These videos keep me balanced 🙏🏾
Okay, i can admit you have good points better than most I've seen.
One of your best videos. Eye opening. Whoa
Hey Casey, I'm literally on the floor laughing so hard beacuse its completely ridiculous 🤣 but completely TRUE.!
Livinlovin being strictly stoic.
Upload daily casey ❤️..... 100% facts and truth 💯
Wisdom beyond his years
So, we will never get what we like since what we like doesn't like us to like them...
Or to get the one you like do you constantly need to put up a facade of not liking them back???
Now, I learnt how to play the game, I just need to learn how to enjoy playing it 😢😢.
Is there a way of still touching her, flirting her, telling her romantic things without getting her biology to repulse????
shit sucks
You do all the romantic things once you are sure her heart is fully into you. Its gonna be a surprise for her. Until then you have to act disinterested
@@genshinsage so can i ask her out but still look disinterested?
@@genshinsage I disagree. see his previous (I guess) vid. he always talks about getting from 10/10 interest to zero, so you can repulse her by excess interest at any level. She can give you lots of credits tho.
@@D0NTSCR3AM I think not
Second time watching this lecture. Whenever I call off sick for work, my wife doesn't like that. That's right. I've been married 33 years. Casey's wisdom is spot on.
That some ruthless right there.
Good contents brother! I appreciate how you make your point and repeat so it all sinks in. Reiterating at the end is a nice closure. Well done and much success to you
Bullshit by a coke addict.,
I’ve been a hyper responsive individual my whole life. Varsity athlete starter captain all that but every single time EVERY SINGLE TIME I took 10% of my attention to my goals nd put it towards my gf at that time it was all downhill from there not right away but definitely downhill momentum started leading to them breaking up with me. FELLAS, stay on your personal purpose whatever that is to you I’ll never make that mistake again I have my gf now who is on board and every girl that broke up with me is on my 🥜 still.
GODSPEED BOYS💯
Respectfully this information can mitigate domestic disputes universally!
Yeah , 100% i agree but these are the reasons why they usually leave also lol.
Casey you are genius man.
There's a movie called Rules Of Attraction that had an effect on me, profound. Your content reminds me of that. As do my life.
Painfully great thank you. Welll, i am bitter & pissed off, being human. But. I comprehend no one cares about my feelings. So. I can still validate my own feelings, while keeping them to myself. It's tactical
Best of luck going into the new year bro .I love you vids always spot on accurate. Cheers from Canada Casy.
Keep going 🔥🔥 all dis is facts!!!!!
Please do a video explaining the difference between not needing intimate touch and removing intimate touch being validation for women
Again a great video, you are getting better by each video.
Man, that work one hit hard. One of the reasons why i got left was because of that. I work in health care so i work 12 hour shifts on the floor. Well, 3 days hit me at full time, and when i pick up an extra shift a week, i get around 96 hours. Money was never a problem, but this one woman i was dating from summer till December got irritated with me when i had like 3 or 4 days off, and i went fishing or was enjoying my time off. I guess i should work myself to the bone, but i can't do 5 days at 12 hours, i have no life to go do stuff and its stressful as hell.