I cheated on my girlfriend while she was in a coma, and I liked it.
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I kinda found this funny cause i literally found his channel today, instantly became my fav narrator about these stories on reddit, and he posted this video while I was listening to another different video of his. lol
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Yeah same but about 1 month ago. He has a good speaking voice and usually has good takes.
I joined about a year ago. I first found undersparked, listened for a few months, then tried reallyspark and like it instantly.
My best friend from 8th grade onward told me her father had SA-ed her for 3 years [until he hurt his back] in elementary and middle school. He'd had surgery that fixed his back and they were about to move out of town (so she could not escape to my house if she needed to) and she was terrified he would start doing it again, in high school. She told me about it and I knew she needed to tell her mom but was afraid her mom might be like this guy's mom was and not believe her. So, 15 year old me set it up so that she would tell our school counselor with me there and then he would arrange for her mom come in so she could tell her in his presence. That way, even if she didn't believe her, she would still have to contact police and let them investigate. I'm so glad that I thought that way, even as a child myself, because exactly what I feared might happen did. But because the police were investigating her father, had to move out of the house. And even though they still moved out of town, he wasn't allowed to be around her. Her mom kept us separated that summer and we were both very depressed and sick as a result. Early that August, he took a lie detector test and failed and finally admitted what he'd done. A year later, I held my best friend's hand in court where the judge sentenced him to 8 years, the most he could since all physical evidence was long since gone. I don't know what made me think to do that, but I'm so glad every day that I did.
I share this story because I think, if you're talking to your children about what to do if one of their friends tells them something similar, it's a good idea to have them take their friend to a trusted school official- counselor is ideal but principal or teacher could work, and have them set up a meeting where the parent and child can talk with an official present so that everyone is on the same page and an investigation _has to_ be done. I hate to think of what might've happened had my friend's mother's hand not been forced. She believed his lies and even thought I'd "helped her come up with the lie to stop [them] from moving from down the street to 20 mins away [from me]". In reality, she'd expressed her concern to me because she was terrified of being alone with him now that the thing that'd made him stop (an injured back) had been repaired.
That comment section was totally out of wack on that last one, wtf
in the last story's comments it sounds like a lot of people on that reddit post have never had friends through their parents before. like i have aunts and uncles who aren't blood related to me, but because my parents are close with them in their lives before I was born we have an almost extended familial relationship. and through all of them i have friends that i occasionally hang out with cuz we have things in common. stuff like this happens. i don't know to what extent, but yeah i think it's common enough. though because of how atomized and isolated people are in our current society, i can't exactly blame them for not knowing. i still think it's weird that they're really fixated on the status of OP's friendship though
For me in the first story OP is 100% TA. He should have waited until information was certain before making any sort of move like that. I have to cut him some slack thougg, being 21, not a full year into his relationship, utterly lost and confused about the whole situation, probably bricked up (for lack of a better word) after 4 months, meeting a girl that actively pursued him it seems like, its a LOT to wrap your head around but him not knowing the status of his GF should have been the very thing that stopped him making a single decision.
Nos his GF can never trust that should a similar situuation happen again, OP wont fuck up. In ahort he proved that when things go bad he isnt reliable, this can be worked on and changed though so it ultimately boils down to whether she can find it in her heart to trust him again and with all shes going through i dont think she will 🤣
He was told she might never recover, by the doctors. I do note she has no trouble trusting the one who put her in a coma, just the one who dealt with the ramifications of it
@@kevinj1855 her friend and her were in an accident; she didn't do it on purpose. He made a series of selfish inconsiderate choices; he _made choices._ This is not a good versus evil choices between two people.
@@availanila as far as he knew, she wasn't coming back. How long does he have to wait? A third of the entire relationship seems pretty fair to me. And again, I note there are no ramifications for the woman who put her in a coma with her bad driving
@@kevinj1855 could've ended the relationship via friend and family and been done with it. Again, this is barely an adult either way, he deserves some empathy. He shouldn't have cheated but he's still young and this is great learning opportunity.
@@kevinj1855 being told she might never recover isn't the same as being told she will never recover. BIG difference there bud. Nothing was confirmed and that's the point I'm making here.
that coma story irritated me. OP is both apologetic yet not at the same time, saying he both understands his gf's feeling of betrayal yet also saying in the same post "can you blame me?". yes, yes we can blame you. your gf was in a damn coma and you decided to go out, someplace where DRINKING was involved no less, and, in a moment of weakness, bedded another woman. no matter how you look at it, it's fricked up, intoxication or not. i dont agree w/ Angela that "once a cheater, always a cheater" applies in this instance because there was a lot of high-strung emotions and alcohol involved. if he was more level-headed, i would hope OP wouldve not done this to his gf under any other circumstance.
i do ask: did his friend know the situation? did any of the invitees know the situation? did the WOMAN know the situation? if the answer to any of those questions were "yes" then theyre all the problem too. if any of the friends and aquaintances knew what was going on w/ OP's life in relation to his gf, they shouldve ensured he did not overdrink, especially if they were potentially aware how much hes already been drinking at home after the incident. if the WOMAN knew (or was told, since it sounds like this woman was not associated w/ the friend's birthday outing and was just some random woman at the bar, i could be misunderstanding), and STILL flirted w/ OP, thats incredibly disgusting on her part and shes just as bad as OP. if no one knew, i guess thats a bit more understandable why no one de-escalated the situation and kept OP's head straight, making sure he didnt make a big mistake. considering the OP's friend nodded to the woman and remarked shes obviously flirting, i'm under the impression they werent aware of the whole situation and/or assumed OP walked away from the relationship due to the stress. idk, if anyone has personally looked up that Reddit thread and saw relevant information in the comments, please relay the info here because i'm curious.
but, yea, regardless OP is TAH; i know this isnt an AITA post, but he is. i'm just glad hes trying to do what he can to help the gf on her recovery and giving her her space after telling her the truth, thats the LEAST he could do after what he did. hopefully they can work it out, but i'm w/ the gf here on this one and semi-agree w/ Angela that he doesnt deserve her. he committed infidelity at the woman's lowest point, what w/ her being in a literal coma and on death's doorstep and all, and he, as i said, doesnt seem fully apologetic for what he did. i personally think itd be better for her to just walk away, but if hes otherwise had a clean bill and been a good bf then maybe go to counseling and see if they can work it out
Fav narrator , wish you could do all the videos 😫
I gotten used to the 2 new narrators but I do like the old ones a bit more specifically for undersparked
OP in story one couldn’t even wait 6 MONTHS??? That’s crazy. If my husband was in a coma, you couldn’t get me away from his bed, even after 4 months. I would wait YEARS for that man. We’ve already agreed that unless we are brain dead and being kept alive by machines, if there’s even a 1% chance we’d live, then we put our faith and hope into that 1%
That’s your husband vs a girlfriend of 11 months though.
agreed. i know in this instance they were still young and barely a year into their relationship, but, if it was THAT emotionally stressful to him and affecting his mental health, he shouldve left, period
@@JADEN25235 and? bf/gf, husband/wife, if youre SO is in a COMA that does not give you a pass to jump into another man/woman's bed. i get he was under mental and emotional distress, couldnt think straight or rationalize well, but thats no excuse. he shouldve known better and, if he couldnt handle it, he shouldve bowed out if it was taking a toll on his mental health that badly. if/when she woke up in that instance, if he hadnt already moved on ofc, then they couldve just picked up where they left off before the accident if the feelings were still there
It's a relationship of 11 months, 4 months is literally more then a third of that time, he also thought she wasn't gonna wake up
Also that 1% means even if you wake up, you ain't gonna be the same, also it's very easy to talk the talk, but when it comes time, you will be singing a different song
Bro why are Reddit comments so OFF sometimes. Like. I don’t get why they kept trying to look too into Miles and OP’s friendship and their family’s friendship- that likely just put more stress on OP than advice. That made me so mad. I hope OP is able to heal the best one can from those injuries 😭😭😭
i hate ppl who majorly overstep trying to fix family issues that don’t concern them. a “manipulative liar with no concept of boundaries” is the absolute best way to describe op. i would’ve straight up divorced her.
just selfish
It's a textbook example of "the road to Hell is paved with good intentions".
This story read like the ones on Reddit where it's a guy crying about how he doesn't get enough poon tang and oh boo hoo me and then they go on to ruin their relationship and break their partner's heart because it wasn't all about their animalistic "needs".
Yeah just. Man you fucked up, own it. Be better.
You're the alpha narrator
Op, you messed up. If you can’t fix it then part ways
The doctors said they were unsure she would wake up. Plus he did tell her about the one night stand.
so the gf should just let it go? he was under emotional distress, had no idea about her condition and was intoxicated so he gets a pass? i'm sorry, but thats no excuse. knowing how his mental and emotional state was at the time, he should not have allowed his friend to pressure him to join the birthday celebration at a place where alcohol would be involved
And? There's no excuse.
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I'm the jealous girlfriend story with the play wedding, the commenters are so dumb its giving me an actual headache. They are duller than a 2 by 4. I hate reddit for this reason
19:30 did anyone else get an audio error
Yeah, I had a bit of audio issues when recording this one. Sorry about that! I think the issue will be resolved next video.
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@@ABadPassword k,thx I didn't know if it was my headset or not
Aww I'm early so I can't read the comments while hearing the story's.
Story 2: What kind of parents force their child to give birth to an SA baby? Where is CAS during this? Those parents belong behind bars.
I hate the people who force partners/friends to see family members they've cut off. Selfish assholes. It's like setting everything they own on fire and expecting them to be happy.
I... sort of understand the coma story. He was probably thinking she was never going to wake up. You can't formally end a relationship with an unconscious person. I am not saying he's somehow *morally correct* or something, but exactly how long should he have waited before he was allowed to start moving on? There's no clear answer to that question, it's just a really messed up situation in general. Sucks for everyone involved. She has every right to be hurt, but yeah, would people be responding the same way if it had been 6 months? A year? 2 years? What a crappy situation. I'm glad she woke up, though. I hope she's able to recover fully.
I agree with you mostly. But I think the guy is an asshole because of how he describes his internal processing. Honestly, if your partner is in a coma for more than a third of the duration of your entire "awake" relationship I don't think it's wrong to move on. I think the problem here is that there doesn't seem to be a point where the OP formally ends the relationship INTERNALLY. Could he break up with her properly? No. He cannot inform her of the relationship ending. But throughout the whole story it seems as if he is constantly thinking of her as his ongoing significant other. If you accept that someone may very well never wake up, you grieve them properly, and you move on. If he wanted to sleep with someone else, internally, he has to accept that his gf is now his ex-gf. If he still thinks of her as current, but just couldn't keep it in his pants, that makes him an asshole. None of this, obviously, would make a difference to the girlfriend afterward. But his own perspective lacks moral high-ground without it.
12:54 ok Mr reallysparked love u both
The coma story is complex... In any other situation, I'd call OP a cheater and move on. But in this case, there was no telling when his girlfriend was going to wake up. Chances of recovery drop dramatically after the 1st month in coma. Yes, she woke up after 5 months, but that could as well have being 5 years, 15 years or never. Was OP really supposed to put his life on pause indefinitelly waiting on her? I don't think so.
OP went through the grief of losing his GF and started to move on. And I totally understand his GF being mad at him, especially if time was paused for her during her coma. However, I do believe they should have a heart to heart conversation, just the 2 of them. She needs to understand that she literally came back from the dead, and she found her BF there, ready to support her. I give props to OP for both coming back to support his GF after she woke up and to come clean about what happened while caring for her. IMHO both need to realize OP is not a cheater for moving on with his life. Even if they decide to part ways at the end, both deserve closure.
third story makes me mad because OP didn't mean any harm YES there was an obvious reason as to why OP's husband cut off his mom but that's something you share to avoid situations like this NO maybe not in detail but he could of simply explained "I have trauma caused by her I'm not ready to talk about" instead of ignoring OP anytime Op asked, Yes OP should not have done what they did but OP is NOT the only one at fault they BOTH lacked proper communication and it is something they can work on. It made me upset hearing how harsh people were without actually putting themselves in OP's shoes. If you marry someone NATURALLY you're gonna want to at least meet your MIL or at least KNOW about her, what OP did was out of CURIOSITY not STUPIDITY but the WAY she went about it was STUPID
I understand your point and respect that, but in my opinion, OP was TA. I understand being curious about why your husband is estranged from his mother, but what OP did was way out of line. The husband obviously had a lot of trauma and guilt from his stepfather SA’ing him, his mother not believing him and saying he was jealous, and feeling like he was the cause of his mother’s miscarriage. Sometimes that trauma can leave a nasty scar that even if you love the person you’re with, you don’t feel comfortable sharing. I understand that OP tried to talk to him and he still refused to tell her, but that did not mean she should’ve went and planned a “surprise visit” so that her husband and his him could reconnect. And she also lied to her MIL, saying that her husband was becoming more open with it and they were making progress. That was completely unnecessary to lie like that. It doesn’t really make sense actually, since she wanted them to reconnect, but broke her husband’s boundaries and lied and said he was more open to it than he was before when her husband didn’t even want to talk about the reason why. I understand why you would think it’s miscommunication though, but the husband was clearly still traumatized from it and that’s why he was scared to talk to her about it. Maybe he thought she would judge him or feel that he was lying like his mom did. Good reasoning from you though.
I think it was also implied that he had trauma though, from how he avoided the topic. Usually, you would be more comfortable with talking with a spouse about something that was not super traumatic instead of something that was super traumatic to you.
Man, that kid in the story that found out his Mother is really his sister... He has so much guilt about misbehaving. Well that's just what kids do. He sounds like he's being very normal kid/teenager. But the only way he needs to "pay her back" just by living a good life and that will make her happy. I am a mother and that is all I want for my kid is to live her best life. That is the only payment I ever want or need. Also the sacrifices by changing jobs and not dating ours. You know sometimes reality of single moms. I have not dated for 9 years almost 10 because my daughter comes first.
First story it just like de first anime i saw: kimiga nozomu eien 😂
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The first story I thought it was 8months also this guy never saw rugrats
damn, I never expected to be a cake the one which would make you be so extreme lol
Sooooooo op is a piece of crap 2:29 yes u can be blamed op it is your fault u slept with another woman wall your gf was in a coma and thinking she might not wake up again u thought we’ll time to cheat
5:26 at ops age and how recent yeah true on the reoffend prat 9:06 damn I actually tried / still try to not be one of those disobedient teenagers I’ve always dis liked them I faked sometimes but it’s worked for the most part
Having a loved one in a coma is like having them pass away multiple times in front of you. My grandma had a stroke and fell into a coma. We mourned her three separate times, once when the doctors told us she might not wake up, once after almost 3 weeks when the doctors told us she was likely already gone and we’d need to make a decision on what to do, and once again when they took her off life support and she actually passed on. Can imagine how it feels to essentially have three deaths within the span of a month? The emotional state you’d be in? I truly hope you never have to know how that feels.
All that is to say that OP isn’t the monster you’re painting him as. He didn’t sneak behind his GF’s back to sleep with other women, he had a drunken one night stand while going through emotional torture and not knowing if his GF was going to live or not. When his GF woke up he didn’t hide it from her either, he came clean and let her know. While her feelings are valid, what he did shouldn’t be put into the same category as people who intentionally cheat on their partner
@@FrostLordOni 1 I’m sorry u had to go through that 2 ahh the oh he was drunk and didn’t know better and from how I see it if he thought she wasn’t gonna wake up wuoldnt he want to spend as much time as possible he made bad decisions no matter how u think of it or try to spin it he’s responsible for what he dose drunk or not if you get so drunk u can’t control your actions u need to stop drinking for a bit and try to control yourself yes he was acting like that was the wasn’t right emotionally but that’s no excuse this 1 comment probably won’t change your mind hat damn it
If she might not wake up again, the relationship is over. It isn't cheating if she isn't in the relationship. True, it's not her fault she isn't active in the relationship, but it isn't his either, and I note she had no problem going back with the person who DID put her in the coma.
@@kevinj1855 to me personally that’s still cheating and if it’s not still a crappy thing to. Do as far as I’m concerned
You call op a POS, but he was trying to move on, you can't exactly break up with someone in a coma, all you can do is move on, it's so easy to say something when you yourself have never been in, what y'all want is for op to suffer for who knows how long just because it strokes your egos. Op was moving on, he suffered for months, and in his time of weakness, he made a mistake, a drunken mistake. But I guess when it comes down to men, when they make a drunken mistake, it's on them.
Me personally, Everyone thought she would be dead- while I get that OP’s GF is upset about being cheated on, I don’t really think that- it was cheating, considering OP thought GF was going to die- and had a high chance of doing so-
Not to mention if op did leave her, everyone would be still saying he was wrong, I say this was a dumb call, in a bad time
It is cheating.
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Story 1. I think OP should just move on, but he is NTA. He has been in limbo for 8 months while she was in a coma and now is in limbo again. I'm not excusing what OP did, but he did think she was probably lost to him. He acted out of grief, but that does not excuse his actions.
You're excusing him. He's the asshole.
why did no one acknowledge the fact that Angela technically is the cause of the accident
Yeah i was thinking about too
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God I hate "hubby". It sounds so gross and childish. Just say husband, please.
I don't understand how anyone could think the first op is an asshole.
because he cheated on his comatose gf? being in emotional and mental distress as well as not knowing her fate is no excuse to cheat. if he couldnt handle it, he shouldve broke up w/ her THEN went jumping into another woman's bed
@@Mariewolf_94 How could he brake up with her?
@mwalton9526 easily? tell her loved ones and leave a note for her for if/when she wakes up? if he still cares about her and everyone in her circle, he can help however way he can still to lend his support, but no one is expecting him to stick around. in this situation, it is expected to be in high emotional distress, especially considering they have no real confirmation she'll wake up again. hes not family (obviously) and hes not married into this family, he is under no obligation to stick around, hes allowed to move on. him moving on would make him look less like an ass than what he did (cheating). if any of OP's gf's family or friends think of him as an ass for leaving while shes in a coma, thats on them. hes only human and he has to look out for his own mental health
@@Mariewolf_94 I hope for your sake that you can find a partner that agrees with you on this matter.
@mwalton9526 any compassionate person w/ common sense and decency would agree, so i'm not worried. a comatose partner is not a hall pass. youre either all in or not at all, theres no in-between. you cant be there for someone then dip your hands in other cookie jars w/ the excuse of not knowing your loved one is going to awaken or even live
first op was under the impression that his girlfriend was not waking up. it’s not like he could’ve broken up with her.
i saw a movie like this once tho
You can breakup with someone who’s in a coma. You just need to make it clear to those close to them you’re leaving them. It’s a complicated, difficult thing, but it can be done. They’ll just wake up single *if* they wake up.
cant break up w/ her? ofc he could! he shouldve told her family and close friends, etc that he cant handle this stress and, given they dont know if she'd ever wake up again, hes going to move on. maybe left her a note if she ever DID wake up (which she did) that explains that, though he wished her a full recovery and wishes her well, he cant do this and, if/whenever she wakes up, they are no longer a couple. just because she was in a coma doesnt mean theyre "on break", or whatever, and he has a pass to cheat on her. intoxicated or not, he screwed up and he should own up to it. he kinda did, not saying he didnt, but he also kinda isnt apologetic for it at the same time because he was like "can you blame me?"
@@Mariewolf_94 Your understanding of time dilation is atrocious from multiple directions, and you have zero empathy. All you have is misplaced judgment. She would suffer the exact same if it was 2 month coma or a 2 years coma or if it was a 20 year coma. You suggest suffering for all parties with every sentence you wrote. I am actually, _genuinely_ horrified by the implications in this comment.
@YourWaywardDestiny so hes allowed a hall pass just because he doesnt know if his gf will awaken? it is far kinder to have her wake up to him gone, potentially moved on w/ another woman, than wake up and learn he cheated on her during her weakest time. everyone giving him a pass is the one w/ zero empathy, for either OP or the gf. on OP's behalf, you would rather he suffer w/ uncertainty and heartache as he waits for his beloved to awaken? then for the gf, as i said, whatll be crueler: waking up to a bf who walked away or to a bf who betrayed her trust by sleeping w/ another while she was literally comatose and on death's doorstep? not to mention, what if she did die, hm? how do you think OP wouldve felt, knowing he committed infidelity and then she heaven forbid passed? he cant take that back, he can never apologize, hes going to live w/ that guilt forever. so tell me: whos the real unempathetic one here? cheating is cheating, comatose or not. if he couldnt handle the emotional strain, no one would blame him for walking away for his own mental health. nor would it have to be goodbye forever, they could always pick up where they left off, if they still felt the same way about each other
@@Mariewolf_94 There would definitely be people who’d blame him for walking away if he did, but you know what they’re like. They’d rather he be miserable and stay with her than let him take care of himself and leave.