Story 1: People really gave him shit for what op did? What did he do wrong? He pretended he didnt know until after the birth and was there for her during the birth. I think what he did was better than what she deserved for trying to lie and PASS OFF SOMEONE ELSES KID AS HIS.
Agreed. The danger of labor was over when he broke the news. Not that he would have been the asshole if he told her before, but it could have affected her delivery if he had told her during.
Right? I don’t get those people either. He walked away before putting his name on that birth certificate. It’s so difficult to have that scrubbed when dna proves that the child is not yours. Most courts won’t even accept it. So I say good on OP
The Disney trip story: They're lucky the ride didn't stop. It stops pretty regularly due to technical issues and letting wheelchairs off their handicap accessible ride vehicles. Could you imagine if it stopped right in front of Ursula, especially when Sebastian speaks over the loudspeakers and says Ursula might have caused it. That poor little girl would have been extra traumatized..
Story 1: the OP was actually compassionate to wait until after the birth to pull the move he did for the sake of the unborn child. Stress on the mother can adversely affect the unborn child.
I wish my birthgiver was like the mom of the last story. My half sister (who's 14 years older) acted like Sasha but worse. She was smothering, creepy, and had NO sense of boundaries and gave no fucks about my comfort. She basically wanted me to be her perfect little mini-me and then treated me like shit when I didn't want to be treated like a human barbie doll
You actually put into words exactly what I was thinking and couldn't figure out how to say it. Wanting to do things with her that acted out her own fantasies had she been a little girl herself. I think she is a narcissist by not caring what everyone else thought and put her own wants before everyone else's, including the little girl's.
@@1toshi32 Exactly! Gods, she's exactly like my half sister. $20 says when that little girl grows up, if she even knows Sasha by then, she won't like her and Sasha will be like "b-b-but I spoiled her ROTTEN why is she so UNGRATEFUL she hates me for NO REASON :(((("
@@andronaristy3144 It's usually the ones who are the most spoiled that appreciate what they have the least and are unable to deal with the real world because no one wants to have anything to do with them. I'm really glad they went no contact with them, though I do feel sorry for the father. Have a wonderful day.😁
@@1toshi32 Except... she didn't actually respect boundaries or do what the little girl actually wanted. No amount of pouring material gifts on somebody makes up for a lack of basic respect
Bruh, people who pull the "you're controlling" card aren't ready for a relationship. A relationship is a series of compromises. If you shout "patriarchy" everytime a compromise is proposed, you're a child.
Last Story: We have 3 kids (adults now). We wanted 2 kids and my wife delivered 2 daughters. We didn't intend for her to become pregnant again and were using multiple forms of birth control. My mother ended up calling her Fertile Mertal We announced her third pregnancy. The first two times that she told me she was pregnant I reacted with great joy. The third time we had already put the kids to bed, and were sitting on the sofa. When she told me I started cursing. She actually laughed and stated that this is why she waited to tell me until after the girls were in bed for the night. My immediate knee jerk reaction only lasted a minute, but I calmed quickly and grew more and excited as the weeks went by. Our third child, our some, is a bear of a man with think magestic hair, full beard, a deep rumbling voice, and a dry sarcastic wit. In that initial moment though I did feel my stomach drop and immediate panic. I am so proud of him and all my kids.
31:07 I disagree with the comment on therapy. I don’t care if my partner smokes or drinks as long as it’s not an addiction. But gambling is a form of addiction that you can’t get out of and you just keep digging up debts after debts. It gets to a point that you can’t climb out of it. It’s a deal breaker for me. I don’t even like scratch cards or the lottery. If I want to have a family I would have to see if my partner is this before getting pregnant. This person is going to be a leech on life and I would not want to have a child with this person. OP should have demanded dna test and walked away. Not kept talking and trying to make it work. It will never work.
honestly, It's probably better he did it after the birth of the baby, as giving the ex stress when pregnant could have gone bad for the unborn baby. I still don't agree for his reason, but it's probably for the best
Groomer ex wife story: OP’s NTA, and the point that you didn’t look for revenge or continue the back and forth cyber bullying, is enough of a sign you don’t hold anything against them. So they should keep their distance from you, because they just want to hide the fact they sold their child to a Groomer Predator… and her being a female Predator/Groomer is just a cherry on the cake.
The tiny part of God in me feel empathy and wants to help him however the demon on my shoulder dosent say its desrved but he put himself in this situation
I highly disagree with the therapy comment Sparked. How many times do you want OP to be robbed? He’s finally free and you want him to willingly walk back into an abusive relationship? Open himself up to more pain? Therapy doesn’t fix everything. Sometimes you just gotta stop giving bad people chances.
The more the story went the more groomer vibes I got. Just listening to it made me uncomfortable, I can only imagine how off putting it was for the parents
Did dude MARRY the new girl? If not, her daughter is NOT your step, much less your "kid." Gotta make that crap official before calling things what you want them to be.
That's why i agree with the comments saying that he's using them to fill the void. Just because you attend therapy doesn't mean you're incapable of unconsciously having toxic behavior.
43:21 I feel like, someone can be a child predator, even without the sexual aspects. Someone who sees a child, and rather push them to do what they want, groom them to be their play thing. Eventually someone like Sasha may even try to dictate all sorts of things that are deemed inappropriate as she gets older.
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Story 1: People really gave him shit for what op did? What did he do wrong? He pretended he didnt know until after the birth and was there for her during the birth. I think what he did was better than what she deserved for trying to lie and PASS OFF SOMEONE ELSES KID AS HIS.
nope dude
Agreed. The danger of labor was over when he broke the news. Not that he would have been the asshole if he told her before, but it could have affected her delivery if he had told her during.
Right? I don’t get those people either. He walked away before putting his name on that birth certificate. It’s so difficult to have that scrubbed when dna proves that the child is not yours. Most courts won’t even accept it. So I say good on OP
@@fandomfan2800explain your reasoning
Knowingly
Honestly, kudus for Brian to straight out admitting, being transparent and offering to stay in touch w OP
And kudus for OP to not blame him for it.
The confused "upda-eee..te..?" lmao
Lol
Lol😂😂😂😂
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Looks like that slipped through the cracks 😂
@@ABadPassword yep
The Disney trip story:
They're lucky the ride didn't stop. It stops pretty regularly due to technical issues and letting wheelchairs off their handicap accessible ride vehicles. Could you imagine if it stopped right in front of Ursula, especially when Sebastian speaks over the loudspeakers and says Ursula might have caused it. That poor little girl would have been extra traumatized..
Story 1: the OP was actually compassionate to wait until after the birth to pull the move he did for the sake of the unborn child. Stress on the mother can adversely affect the unborn child.
Cheating is bad 👎👎
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@@dezimoon2021huh
@@Tritonspeedrungonna take a guess mkay as in southpark
@@wiresculptor5951 as in @reallysparked
@@wiresculptor5951ohhh
Your commentary is hilarious, sir. One of the best reddit commentators out there. I like your channel a lot.
I wish my birthgiver was like the mom of the last story. My half sister (who's 14 years older) acted like Sasha but worse. She was smothering, creepy, and had NO sense of boundaries and gave no fucks about my comfort. She basically wanted me to be her perfect little mini-me and then treated me like shit when I didn't want to be treated like a human barbie doll
You actually put into words exactly what I was thinking and couldn't figure out how to say it. Wanting to do things with her that acted out her own fantasies had she been a little girl herself. I think she is a narcissist by not caring what everyone else thought and put her own wants before everyone else's, including the little girl's.
@@1toshi32 Exactly! Gods, she's exactly like my half sister. $20 says when that little girl grows up, if she even knows Sasha by then, she won't like her and Sasha will be like "b-b-but I spoiled her ROTTEN why is she so UNGRATEFUL she hates me for NO REASON :(((("
@@andronaristy3144 It's usually the ones who are the most spoiled that appreciate what they have the least and are unable to deal with the real world because no one wants to have anything to do with them. I'm really glad they went no contact with them, though I do feel sorry for the father. Have a wonderful day.😁
@@1toshi32 Except... she didn't actually respect boundaries or do what the little girl actually wanted. No amount of pouring material gifts on somebody makes up for a lack of basic respect
Bruh, people who pull the "you're controlling" card aren't ready for a relationship. A relationship is a series of compromises. If you shout "patriarchy" everytime a compromise is proposed, you're a child.
Last Story: We have 3 kids (adults now). We wanted 2 kids and my wife delivered 2 daughters. We didn't intend for her to become pregnant again and were using multiple forms of birth control. My mother ended up calling her Fertile Mertal We announced her third pregnancy. The first two times that she told me she was pregnant I reacted with great joy. The third time we had already put the kids to bed, and were sitting on the sofa. When she told me I started cursing. She actually laughed and stated that this is why she waited to tell me until after the girls were in bed for the night. My immediate knee jerk reaction only lasted a minute, but I calmed quickly and grew more and excited as the weeks went by. Our third child, our some, is a bear of a man with think magestic hair, full beard, a deep rumbling voice, and a dry sarcastic wit. In that initial moment though I did feel my stomach drop and immediate panic. I am so proud of him and all my kids.
31:07 I disagree with the comment on therapy. I don’t care if my partner smokes or drinks as long as it’s not an addiction. But gambling is a form of addiction that you can’t get out of and you just keep digging up debts after debts. It gets to a point that you can’t climb out of it. It’s a deal breaker for me. I don’t even like scratch cards or the lottery. If I want to have a family I would have to see if my partner is this before getting pregnant. This person is going to be a leech on life and I would not want to have a child with this person. OP should have demanded dna test and walked away. Not kept talking and trying to make it work. It will never work.
honestly, It's probably better he did it after the birth of the baby, as giving the ex stress when pregnant could have gone bad for the unborn baby. I still don't agree for his reason, but it's probably for the best
Consider yourself loved buddy
Groomer ex wife story: OP’s NTA, and the point that you didn’t look for revenge or continue the back and forth cyber bullying, is enough of a sign you don’t hold anything against them.
So they should keep their distance from you, because they just want to hide the fact they sold their child to a Groomer Predator… and her being a female Predator/Groomer is just a cherry on the cake.
She’s a Cheater,Predator, and Groomer, evil trifecta!😡
The tiny part of God in me feel empathy and wants to help him however the demon on my shoulder dosent say its desrved but he put himself in this situation
I highly disagree with the therapy comment Sparked. How many times do you want OP to be robbed? He’s finally free and you want him to willingly walk back into an abusive relationship? Open himself up to more pain? Therapy doesn’t fix everything. Sometimes you just gotta stop giving bad people chances.
Pretty sure sparked meant separately. Not to reconsile, but to figure out how to stop repeating bad patterns.
wow, I bet Sasha wants the daughter to be her own 😑😑😑😑
The more the story went the more groomer vibes I got. Just listening to it made me uncomfortable, I can only imagine how off putting it was for the parents
Did dude MARRY the new girl? If not, her daughter is NOT your step, much less your "kid." Gotta make that crap official before calling things what you want them to be.
That's why i agree with the comments saying that he's using them to fill the void. Just because you attend therapy doesn't mean you're incapable of unconsciously having toxic behavior.
@13:46 "uPdAAAte" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
9:56 baby jumpscare
43:21 I feel like, someone can be a child predator, even without the sexual aspects. Someone who sees a child, and rather push them to do what they want, groom them to be their play thing. Eventually someone like Sasha may even try to dictate all sorts of things that are deemed inappropriate as she gets older.
Why the hell would he keep taking her back in when she's a thief and serial liar?
*badpassword how you been*
I've been good!
Women have really done a mind job on men regarding giving birth. Yeah it hurts like heck but it’s not that dangerous.
I sense a man.
Damn l girlfriend skibidi rizz bro
🔫 me fir that plz I beg of you I’ve gone down the darkest path
Brother there is darker paths than this. Also easy solution just hit “don’t recommend channel” or not interested.
@@NoUsername-470 it’s a joke
that poor boy