"Our Kids Were Taken Away" | Steve Wilkos

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  • @HoneyBellissima
    @HoneyBellissima 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1657

    *Steve:* My nose itched this morning
    *Audience:* Oooohhhh
    *Steve:* So I scratched it
    *Audience:* _OOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHH_

    • @scorpio.lover1406
      @scorpio.lover1406 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      underrated comment lmao

    • @deziraeeatmon8124
      @deziraeeatmon8124 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Camryn Love stRtdodoigss

    • @deziraeeatmon8124
      @deziraeeatmon8124 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Camryn Love fy

    • @anonamoose2229
      @anonamoose2229 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Even funnier is watching Steve rub his nose when he talked about talking coke lmao.

    • @TheWaynelds
      @TheWaynelds 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yeah really, where does Steve find these morons in n his audience?
      Steve: Everyone in the audience are fucking idiots.
      Audience: 👏 👏 👏
      EEEEEEHHHH!! Eeehhhhhh!! 👏 👏 👏

  • @MadamTickTickBoom
    @MadamTickTickBoom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +835

    Your kids aren't there for _you._ That's a huge burden on a child.

    • @brownskin_girl6014
      @brownskin_girl6014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Well said 👏🏽🙏🏽.. you’re supposed to be there for your kids. And your kids can be there to help you when it’s needed.

    • @samdolan09
      @samdolan09 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Very true. While I will say my son is the reason I push thru the hardest things in my life - and I have no clue what I would do if I ever lost him (he's near 12 now) I would absolutely never put my wellbeing on him- in any way. One of the most important things I do different than was done for me as a child- is I do not put information or problems on my kids shoulders that he has no control over. If you do that- all you will succeed in is stressing them out- causing so much worry- and handing them problems they aren't equipped to handle yet.

    • @cathygiuliana9089
      @cathygiuliana9089 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Madam Scuttlebutt I agree💯 Madam! Poor children! My heart breaks for them!

    • @candancebailey9095
      @candancebailey9095 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, it is.

    • @jessicarink7793
      @jessicarink7793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My parents are always there for us but we are always there for our parents. Meaning when kids get older in there 20s, 30s, 40s, and so on the kids should also always be there for there parents. Family sticks together no matter what.

  • @kiikiicms
    @kiikiicms 4 ปีที่แล้ว +863

    You were doing coke and you get upset because CPS got called?

    • @kimberlyarrington5721
      @kimberlyarrington5721 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I just look on the bright side that she not doing right now

    • @samdolan09
      @samdolan09 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      She's clean now. I have worked with addicts... I'm a nurse. So often they just don't or can't see the problem they have until something slams them in the head with it. Sometimes that's not enough. Simply put- addiction is a disease. It's a mental illness. I'm glad the grandma did what she did- so mama could wake the hell up. Hopefully this will be all that it takes to keep her clean.

    • @leannegibbs1064
      @leannegibbs1064 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I'm a coke addict too 🤣 I drink at least 2 a day

    • @exhaustedanimations1254
      @exhaustedanimations1254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Should have done Pepsi smh

    • @stacyjankowski7754
      @stacyjankowski7754 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@exhaustedanimations1254 or mountain dew

  • @xerikl
    @xerikl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +422

    She fails to understand that the state took her kids, not her mother. She only has herself to blame

    • @44BlessingsTV
      @44BlessingsTV ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ye and she had no business getting up in her mothers face like that.. it couldn’t have been my mom lol

    • @tristyy404
      @tristyy404 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Cause & effect. She could’ve been the worst mother in history, without that phone call she’d still have her kids CYS wasn’t investigating her. Her parenting resulted in them being taken, but her mom DEFF took the kids.

  • @bubbaluv5740
    @bubbaluv5740 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1412

    Her mother made all the right calls, took all the proper right necessary steps in protecting these kids....good for her.

    • @saidavalet6710
      @saidavalet6710 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @Brooklyn Queen It truly is, although her husband was explaining the reason why he did cocaine while Steve was telling him "I know what you're going to tell me".
      I don't know if you noticed but he- the husband - said "it was because of the allegations of abuse..." 🥴💀🤦😮🤯
      If you want to hear it by yourself, go back to Steve opening his test results and you will be shocked!!!
      Basically, he admitted to abuse their own children so as much as she hates her mother, this one was right about it all.
      It doesn't matter if it's not the both of them abusing their children, one is more than enough for the DCFS/CYS to remove the children from the arms of the suspected abuser(s) which was no one else but this pathetic junkie abusing his children.
      Maybe he was also freaking out about the allegations of molestation pending over his head...

    • @immortal-fatexx7040
      @immortal-fatexx7040 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      She made all the right calls for her grandchildren but not her own child that was living in her house

    • @bubbaluv5740
      @bubbaluv5740 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@immortal-fatexx7040
      Her mother is not on trial here... this is about now the safety of grandchildren.

    • @saidavalet6710
      @saidavalet6710 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Exactly, you put it perfectly!!!
      She even went back to have a polygraph test about it and all her results were the same: she had no idea it was happening.
      Mind you, her childish daughter chuckled at her results and even went to the extent of saying she was very surprised her mother passed - with flying colors nonetheless - because, I quote her own words and she is both blind and stupid as it gets " Yeah I'm surprised because I told her stuff!!! That my sister told me!!!" 🥴🤦👌
      It was almost the end of the show and she still didn't get that her sister was the one who lied about everything, everyone, was the one who called DYS on her Mom to have the children put in the system instead of staying safe, protected, cared for and loved in a safe and stable environment.
      Even made more accusations against her sister which were false to the opposite of their own mother who called DCFS to have these precious little children removed from the "care of their parents who were beyond neglectful, were doing drugs in front of them and fighting with each other in front of these poor little young children as well.
      Pathetic parenting at its finest...SMH
      Steve himself said it while talking both to his wife, the audience as well as the family on stage "The sister was the one making the CALLS but it wasn't hard to find this one out."
      So, who knows, if she's capable to make so many lies against her own Mom and her own sister, maybe she's never been molested. Especially with a Mom so alert, vigilant and paying close attention to everything and everyone.
      I might be wrong, again, this is only what I suspect due to the aftermath of the whole situation targeting everyone on stage.

    • @immortal-fatexx7040
      @immortal-fatexx7040 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bubbaluv5740 No one is on trial here. Facts are facts.

  • @Lenape_Lady
    @Lenape_Lady 4 ปีที่แล้ว +650

    When a mom says “my children are my BEST FRIENDS” about a 5YO CHILD...that is super toxic and unhealthy. She relied on those poor kids for emotional support.

    • @gachalife-minimovies4883
      @gachalife-minimovies4883 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      Not really, if you look at it from my POV I’m best friends with my mom because we like to do things together and have a strong bond. I rely on her for support she doesn’t really on me.

    • @dbl_adhmastic2257
      @dbl_adhmastic2257 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      Danielle Waked that’s not how it works, when she says they are her best friends it’s because she loves them and they have fun together, not that she treats them like they are her friends at her age

    • @samdolan09
      @samdolan09 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Ya responded to another person saying something similar - that mama needs parenting classes like there's no tomorrow. You want to know when to be your kids friend? When they are an adult. Children need parents and boundaries and love. Not besties from their mom.

    • @sakuraogami6885
      @sakuraogami6885 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Samantha D. You can be both a friend and a parent to your child. Maybe you’re just upset that you can’t seem to find that balance.

    • @ziannafinney5281
      @ziannafinney5281 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Samantha D. My mom has always been my best friend but she has been my parent when I needed her to be my parent.

  • @MzGumby02
    @MzGumby02 4 ปีที่แล้ว +454

    This sounds like the same mess that happened to me when I was little. God bless anyone who takes action to protect children. The trauma stays with you for the rest of your life.

    • @MarinaRhymin
      @MarinaRhymin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Same. I’m still dealing with it even after 15 years of therapy. And I still can’t help but feel responsible for my parents’ wellbeing. There’s a lot of suicide in my family & it scares me that one parent says I’m the only color in their life.
      I’m so glad your heart & humanity survived & you seem to have insight into your situation. Godspeed & God bless you, sis. 🤍🤗🤍

    • @storyteller6418
      @storyteller6418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Prayers ,Love an hugs to both of you..
      It Never goes AWAY..
      Never

    • @trolling9493
      @trolling9493 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      that's tru
      my dad hasn't hit me in 3 yearn n I still flinch around him

    • @mistydawn2717
      @mistydawn2717 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm 47 and I still flinch when my parents raise there voice or move towards me..
      And I'm still my mother's therapist.
      It never goes away it made me a more protective parent

    • @storyteller6418
      @storyteller6418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mistydawn2717 so sorry you went thru what you did..

  • @subz6739
    @subz6739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    You can see how violent and physical that lady is, getting in her mothers face like that. Just imagine how she is at home behind closed doors.

    • @WarGrowlmon18
      @WarGrowlmon18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She was innocent, wrongly accused, lost her kids and was living with that piece of shit. I'd get angry too. Now that they know the truth her mom can actually help her

    • @kerstieamiya4880
      @kerstieamiya4880 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Imagine her out of control on coke

    • @lizGatten88
      @lizGatten88 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The grandmother was harmful to her daughter and grandkids as well everyone is commenting about how the grandmother was right but in reality she just wanted her rent paid and as soon as this episode was aired she finally admitted to only wanting the money

    • @njjnjnjnj9460
      @njjnjnjnj9460 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@WarGrowlmon18 she aint innocent lol. she was taking drugs ,etc. the state took her kids away for a reason ,not her mom.. she is just caring for them so they wouldn't be put for adoption and she is their grandmother.

    • @WarGrowlmon18
      @WarGrowlmon18 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@njjnjnjnj9460 But she's not guilty of what she was accused of was the point. There's a difference between doing one wrong thing and being wrongly accused of something else.

  • @msjamereia9393
    @msjamereia9393 4 ปีที่แล้ว +375

    Intentionally doing coke...i say he's guilty.

    • @jessicadavis2079
      @jessicadavis2079 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I agree 100%!!
      I also wonder with them saying cocaine, could they really mean crack and not coke?? Not sure if you know, and correct me if I'm wrong, please. I wonder if crack is more addicting...?? 🤷🤷🤷

    • @KoldBreeze
      @KoldBreeze 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      As opposed to unintentionally doing coke? I mean, coke is coke.

    • @kenn.6
      @kenn.6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KoldBreeze no like they mean he intentionally made sure it was in his system before the show

    • @starrchild254
      @starrchild254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jessicadavis2079 as someone who's been addicted to both I'd say if you're using cocaine intravenously then it's a lot more addictive than crack because the high and come down is so much more intense and you'll do anything to stay 'up'

    • @chrisgillette1260
      @chrisgillette1260 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely

  • @whitexchina
    @whitexchina 3 ปีที่แล้ว +410

    "My kids are my best friends"
    No, they are your children!
    Behave like a mother, not like a buddy or whatever!

    • @davidruble7699
      @davidruble7699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Exactly right, it’s always the people who lose their kids who claim that they were their best friend or that they were their world...bullshit!

    • @raegenpayne3237
      @raegenpayne3237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Periodt

    • @amberportal416
      @amberportal416 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      They can be your best friend when they’re grown and out of the house, but that does not mean that you can’t parent your children now! I swear.

    • @crystalhayter9370
      @crystalhayter9370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Emotional incest

    • @pdslixey
      @pdslixey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bro not lying the blond haired women is my aunt and she is write about doing what she did

  • @adrianasalazar6242
    @adrianasalazar6242 4 ปีที่แล้ว +384

    I swear Steve Wilkos is the best, he sometimes laugh at stories that don’t even make sense at all

    • @jimmyblais1502
      @jimmyblais1502 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      He is pretty fantastic!

    • @badvoodoo2097
      @badvoodoo2097 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The mother of the kids knew the guy did drugs and she was going to do them as well
      She’s a terrible liar

    • @darkpisces8125
      @darkpisces8125 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I wouldn't say he's the best when he blamed a husband for his wife's suicide. He literally blamed the husband. So no he's not the best.

    • @YoungHaveNot
      @YoungHaveNot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Didn't he get arrested for dui? Putting innocent people and kids at risk? Hmm

    • @berviemaynard8140
      @berviemaynard8140 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@YoungHaveNot odd

  • @thekavestation
    @thekavestation 4 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    he's guilty
    I was so pissed at the mom for a second when she asked if he just got the call last night, I thought she was trying to set up an excuse for him but I was thankfully mistaken

    • @edwardofhydeiii666
      @edwardofhydeiii666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That's exactly what she was doing though. Sure she's mad at him, but she 100% was trying to think up excuses for him.

    • @jessicarink7793
      @jessicarink7793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She definitely thought up excuses for him for sure

    • @nothuman3083
      @nothuman3083 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@edwardofhydeiii666 no that's the you bitched at me for not getting clean and I had to force you to do something difficult and you gave me a hard time.

    • @emre_love
      @emre_love 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's exactly what I thought and felt...

  • @taylorglover4416
    @taylorglover4416 4 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    6:06 Kristy’s Lie Detector Test
    6:41 Carli’s Lie Detector Test
    8:03 Steven’s “Lie Detector Test”

    • @jeremiahtheflydragon8112
      @jeremiahtheflydragon8112 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Taylor Glover thanks

    • @randipinney7132
      @randipinney7132 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      You should be on every steve clip providing this awesome service! (And be compensated!)

    • @melissab3192
      @melissab3192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      They always do the guilty party's test last. Unless, of course, they're all guilty.

  • @bbjfam8248
    @bbjfam8248 4 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    Time to cut bait with him if he's not in treatment, he will cause you to never get your kids back. He needs treatment and if he refuses..✂✂

    • @Kellz11
      @Kellz11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      And he'll keep her using drugs too.

    • @VoltairesRevenge
      @VoltairesRevenge 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Kelly Rose She uses on her own. She doesn’t need him.

    • @annettecadet5364
      @annettecadet5364 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Even if he goes to treatment and stays clean as soon as CPS leave them alone he’s back to the same thang and then she will fall as well. She just needs to turn her back she had the proof on how much he cared when he couldn’t show up to the show clean.

  • @caligirlmarti
    @caligirlmarti 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    It's not your mother's fault that you did drugs around your kids. You are responsible for making sure your kids are safe. You are responsible for raising your kids right. Take responsibility for your own actions! I hope she left him and I hope she's doing things right now.

    • @lizGatten88
      @lizGatten88 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They are actually both clean and married now they have each other to support them and help them both thru recovery

  • @deneilbaker
    @deneilbaker 4 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    At least she didn’t say “tooken”. Someone on this show ALWAYS says “tooken” 🥴

    • @melissab3192
      @melissab3192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👩‍🏫

    • @jensnow6551
      @jensnow6551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      So what it doesn't matter how one talks.

    • @ellyelisabeth2783
      @ellyelisabeth2783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Always a "drugged" instead of "dragged". Big difference in meaning but they still say it 🤷

    • @melanieelliott3310
      @melanieelliott3310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Nope it’s (axed) instead of ask

    • @charleneblack2792
      @charleneblack2792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      They add "en" to the end of lots of words. It's hilarious and sad at the same time. 😆

  • @danktankdragkings7117
    @danktankdragkings7117 3 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    As a registered foster parent THANK YOU GRANDMA!!! "She is my best friend" and drugs = a baby born with a job and that's emotionally abusive at minimum.

    • @kellywood354
      @kellywood354 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not always x but most of the time they are thinkin of the next hit xx

    • @natejohnson9738
      @natejohnson9738 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      As someone who grew up in the system, I hate cps. And I hate foster parents

    • @vggggg3905
      @vggggg3905 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@natejohnson9738 and that’s absolutely okay to feel that way. you owe nobody an explanation to your feelings and it’s your decision if you decide to forgive the system and the ones who wronged you. i am so sorry you didn’t have the childhood you deserve❤️

    • @bobmanders8635
      @bobmanders8635 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cool name

    • @1stcal11-b2
      @1stcal11-b2 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bobmanders8635 I wouldn't even have looked had I not read your comment, but you're right it is a cool name I concur

  • @Kae278
    @Kae278 4 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    Steve explaining something
    Crowd :ohh
    Steve:still explaining
    Crowd:ooooohhhhhhhhhhhhh

  • @DVohnaOfficial
    @DVohnaOfficial 4 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    During the mother telling her story.. she said “my daughter is five. She was all I have for five years.” Why did they censor that “five years” out ?

    • @XCmilesxx
      @XCmilesxx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Normally they cannot reveal the child’s age. 😁

    • @saidavalet6710
      @saidavalet6710 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@XCmilesxx I know, they usually do but while I was reviewing Steve's shows... for the thousandth time...
      I noticed that in one episode specifically, they said the ages of the children, young children, for everyone to hear and the same children's ages were blurred before the results.
      And in a few other episodes, you can hear the age of the child/children all along the episode.
      I know Steve and his wife are not the ones editing the episodes but, to me, the ones who are in charge of this seem to be on vacation or reported sick quite a bit...

    • @ForcedHandleName
      @ForcedHandleName 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I think if the children are still that age, they edit it out for safety. If it's an incident that took place when they were younger (and they're no longer that age), the age is left in.
      The questions usually specify the younger age (i.e. When XXXX was 2 years old, did you do this? vs. Did you do this to Sarah's XXXX-year-old child?)

    • @VoltairesRevenge
      @VoltairesRevenge 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Saïda GUERRA VALET It’s probably inconsistent because they have no script supervisor, like there is on a scripted show. The supervisor is ensures that the show is consistent in just about every way.

    • @immortal-fatexx7040
      @immortal-fatexx7040 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@XCmilesxx I believe it's whether or not the parents consent to saying their child/ren's age on air. There've been many shows where the age has been censored and also many where it hasn't.

  • @xileddynasty4108
    @xileddynasty4108 4 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    Steve: I just remembered, I left my wallet at the house.
    Croud: Ooooooooooohhhhhhhhhh!! Aaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!

    • @warriorsorb1111
      @warriorsorb1111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Steve: I grew a strand of hair.
      Crowd: OHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

    • @fxlln
      @fxlln 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I hate the crowd 💀

    • @HoneyBellissima
      @HoneyBellissima 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @patrickruth153
      @patrickruth153 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Rachelle: honey the chairs are destroyed. Steve:yeah that was me

    • @omegawilliam95s36
      @omegawilliam95s36 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That one guy in the audience: *Agressive chair slapping*

  • @maraha_
    @maraha_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Steve is absolutely ageless.

    • @KeeYoung_
      @KeeYoung_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He really is!

  • @courtneyhart2777
    @courtneyhart2777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    i’m a recovering heroin addict, me and my husband both are. we both got pregnant when we were in addiction and started recovering at 4 months. i couldn’t imagine my life w/o my daughter, i couldn’t imagine having my daughter grow up watching us high and i’ll do the same damn thing to my daughter if this situation ever came. never pick drugs over your kids! PROTECT OUR CHILDREN AT ALL COSTS!!!

    • @ripwesbryant
      @ripwesbryant 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good for you!!!

    • @sierranichole2020
      @sierranichole2020 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congratulations!!! So proud of you!!!!

    • @shanicestanley5809
      @shanicestanley5809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good job to both of you keep up they clean and stay positive and blessed

  • @garnet9788
    @garnet9788 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Steve Wiloks audience never let’s him down 😊

  • @killuminatianonymous5551
    @killuminatianonymous5551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Whenever Steve asks if everyone liked their results the next person failed 😂😂😂 it’s a way to say everyone can know the results are truthful when someone fails. I love it!

  • @robertsimmons7556
    @robertsimmons7556 4 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    I cant imagine any mother chooses drugs over their own kids.

    • @gachalife-minimovies4883
      @gachalife-minimovies4883 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She didn’t....

    • @immortal-fatexx7040
      @immortal-fatexx7040 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It sadly happens, even to some of the best mothers. Once you're in drug addiction, for many, the drugs come first because they're not physically and/or mentally strong enough to stop.

    • @samdolan09
      @samdolan09 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I've seen it a thousand times. But I'm a nurse. I've seen worse than just choosing.

    • @greenbanana1001
      @greenbanana1001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      My mom did this with me as a child

    • @jackiejones2689
      @jackiejones2689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@greenbanana1001 I'm so sorry that that happened to you. I hope that you had a better adulthood than childhood!! BLESS YOU SWEETIE!!

  • @riawally5627
    @riawally5627 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    "Did you think about my kids when you made that phone call?!"
    *_Did you think about your kids when you chose to snort cocaine?_*

  • @hayleeatkins7118
    @hayleeatkins7118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    They are addicts. I'm a recovering addict and it makes me so sad to see someone doing this to their kids. Your kids come first ALWAYS

    • @sommerclark8623
      @sommerclark8623 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed! And congrats in your recovery I too am a recovering addict and I never chose drugs over my kids my kids always came first and i have always taken care of my kids no matter what

  • @neubianqueen6839
    @neubianqueen6839 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Grandma a fighter she did every thing right to protect her grandchildren and she showed her daughter she wasent afraid of her and she wasent backing down go grandma!

  • @kaizenchaosprimordial8945
    @kaizenchaosprimordial8945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    This stuff sucks cause my mom left me for drugs when I was around 4yrs old. She's just recently returned into my life at the age of 25yrs old. Also I have no reasons to forgive her cause she had the audacity to say she was a great mother denying she did anything wrong.

    • @sierranichole2020
      @sierranichole2020 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My birth mother is the same way

    • @symbiotex5795
      @symbiotex5795 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My mother allowed me to to be violated and abused, and denies that to this very day. It's the utter shame, immense guilt and accountability for their actions that makes them not want to own up to their mistakes. We, as kids, were NEVER in the wrong, but are made to believe so, in order to spare guilt and shame towards these "parents" of ours.

  • @josephbalan8384
    @josephbalan8384 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    He figured it all be out of his system like that😂😂😂

    • @samdolan09
      @samdolan09 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sure... cocaine only gets me high for this long- so should be out in like twice that huh? Does this dude not have a smart phone even? You can find out how long online moron.

  • @sydswagg
    @sydswagg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    The grandmother was right the mom said she had drugs in her system when the kids got taken away. The guy came on the show with drugs in his system. That's not a place for kids.

    • @anonymousanonymous2577
      @anonymousanonymous2577 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      But the mother isn't using drugs she choose her kids over him and drugs

    • @sydswagg
      @sydswagg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@anonymousanonymous2577 I'm referring to the grandmother's initial choice to remove the children from the household. Yes, the mother is currently clean, but she wasn't when the children were removed and (as discovered on the show) the other adult in charged with providing and caring for the children is still on drugs and in her home.

    • @Cortney1120
      @Cortney1120 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@anonymousanonymous2577 that's not true.

  • @erinallure972
    @erinallure972 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Finally a mom that doesn’t pick her man over her kids , good mom

    • @sakuraogami6885
      @sakuraogami6885 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      She didn’t pick her man, she picked coke 🤣

    • @jessicarink7793
      @jessicarink7793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She's a horrible mom. She didn't protect her kids one bit. She's most likely still with him

  • @youinanotherform1965
    @youinanotherform1965 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love how Steve got on dude for doing coke, then rubs his nose right after. Hahaha

  • @NipponKiwi
    @NipponKiwi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Man this story is complicated! Call me thick, but I had to watch it twice to figure it out!

  • @alexlambert5830
    @alexlambert5830 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Locked in their room for hours? What the hell?My stepdad locked me in my room for months I was forced to stand in the corner for an entire day I was put in a choke hold and had my larynx crush and was so malnourished I was 13 and 89lbs. He was a meth addict and was very violent and nobody took me away.

    • @YourAverageChick
      @YourAverageChick 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Shit ,I didn't exactly experience what you have and thank goodness you got out of your situation but my siblings and I were taken while younger (I 5,little brother 3,and little sister 1)then we were placed back at "home"two yrs later 1989-1991 going on 92 .My "m"was a teenager with 3 kids so when she got us back I thought it wouldn't be so bad. Everything was ok at first but it started within 3 or four weeks of us being back home the beatings,not having food to eat at times,seeing domestic violence between her and her at the time boyfriend, smdh it was alot to take in at 8 yrs old and beyond and no one spoke up.The school only intervened because I wasn't going to school and they threatened to remove us from the house.They only involve themselves when they want to be nosey.

    • @immortal-fatexx7040
      @immortal-fatexx7040 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm sorry you went through those horrors. I hope you have been able to get the help you need to deal with that traumatic abuse and are able to live a long, happy, and healthy life❤

    • @alexlambert5830
      @alexlambert5830 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Immortal - FaTeXx I was able to play baseball last year unfortunately it got canceled this year I made a full recovery and I’m doing my best to stay healthy

    • @samdolan09
      @samdolan09 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The world is full of sick people. I was abused horribly for about 6 yrs by my step dad- every type of abuse that exists I lived with daily. When I finally ran to my grandparents at 12... when it came out- judge was all this is the worst case of abuse I've EVER seen... in 25 yrs on the bench. I was terrified so I didn't get the words out on the stand - but they had tins of evidence- so he got a whopping 10 yrs- in Iowa that means 5... 1 day for every day served. Yeah. I'm 35 and just got out of an abusive marriage that lasted 11 yrs. That shit when it happens young- it screws up something I think in your brain. That's what the psychiatrist and therapist say... I feel for every child put through abuse. And I don't have the words to say how much I feel for you- going thru what you did. I truly empathise.

    • @kuroichan101
      @kuroichan101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The system fails all the time. They cant and dont take everyone.

  • @myragreen3045
    @myragreen3045 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Just realized I keep watching these without leaving a like 🤦🏾‍♀️!

  • @kmorrow982
    @kmorrow982 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    That poor mum, she'll be better off with out them, I'm sure she'll get her kids back!

    • @renelacomb8737
      @renelacomb8737 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She's a horrible mom

    • @ohitsmimi096
      @ohitsmimi096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      she needs to do better.. you should be saying “those poor kids” bc they have a crappy mother

  • @heathernichole5259
    @heathernichole5259 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I love you Steve!! Get the perverts and child abusers

  • @KingFresh1
    @KingFresh1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Nothing but respect for the mother on her behalf to look out for her grandkids because some either harm them or mistreat them as well 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽

  • @savannahl2115
    @savannahl2115 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Can’t believe I actually got a notification this time

  • @carlosballi267
    @carlosballi267 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Steve is absolutely correct. 👍

  • @WarGrowlmon18
    @WarGrowlmon18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "Steve???" "He's a big boy." "No I wasn't talking for him I had a question for you."🤣🤣🤣

  • @Laurencita
    @Laurencita 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The situation must’ve been horrendous for DCF to have taken the children on their very first visit.

    • @lizGatten88
      @lizGatten88 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It wasn't the first visit, cys had been to their house several times in over a year and it was the grandma calling cys telling them to bring her grandkids to her and making up all these lies to get cuss on her side
      After the show aired she finally admitted to the police and cys why she wanted the kids and that she was being told she was gonna lose her house if she didn't come up with some cash so she thought she would get a fast payday

  • @catdog6187
    @catdog6187 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Steve is a legend

  • @natejohnson9738
    @natejohnson9738 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Anybody who uses drugs knows how long shit stays in their system

  • @carolinegames3282
    @carolinegames3282 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I wanna call on the show and get my mom and her ex tested because i feel like her ex did smt to my little sister.. And my mom let it happen... But my mom is on drugs and we can never find her and he does drugs all day. 😔😞 i am glad that my mom does not have any visiting rights. My dad got clean and owed up to all he did and now he is the best dad and he is always there for me.

  • @clarejennings5049
    @clarejennings5049 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    She seems like a good mom. She's just in a tough spot and needs rehab

    • @amandafox5855
      @amandafox5855 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Um no. Now her mother on the other hand is a good grandmother. She's trash

    • @minkyfran8307
      @minkyfran8307 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh please ! Save your sympathy for the poor kids

    • @YandereWaifuBean
      @YandereWaifuBean ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@minkyfran8307 honey when you on drugs, you are not longer yourself. You don't understand how it starts. Yet you are not god! And you have no room to judge others!

  • @dntcrwtuthnk
    @dntcrwtuthnk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What kind of grandma!!!??!so sick I'm so shocked

  • @darrellsadler2848
    @darrellsadler2848 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    She doesn't know much about drugs? Hunny, open your eyes to the world going on around you... 90% of the U.S. population is on sort of "drug" and more!

  • @selinaogorman8380
    @selinaogorman8380 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I think he done something he is probably hiding something he chose drugs over his children that’s just sad😔hopefully there will be a update in this and ca come back and do another lie detector test.

  • @itslilsadeee6991
    @itslilsadeee6991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "steve"
    "no, wait hes a big boy"
    "i wasnt talking for him i was talking to you"

  • @SohaibKhan1
    @SohaibKhan1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    When the results are revealed at the very end of the video, you know it will be a pass.

  • @v33kirikino84
    @v33kirikino84 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Doing coke is your best friend not your children!

  • @izukubf
    @izukubf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lol her rolling her eyes at Steve lmfaoooo

  • @briecheese2523
    @briecheese2523 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    "IT WAS FEBUARY FOURTH"

    • @briecheese2523
      @briecheese2523 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      "Didnt you get the call last night"
      "No it was feburary fourth"
      THAT WOMAN IS A P.O.S.

    • @immortal-fatexx7040
      @immortal-fatexx7040 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@briecheese2523 she sarcastically said " or DID you just get the phone call last night". She wasn't making an excuse for him, she was putting him on blast

  • @justdanilee9524
    @justdanilee9524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She keeps saying her kids but only talking about the 5yr old girl!! How many children does she have..

    • @lizGatten88
      @lizGatten88 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      At the time 2
      5 year old girl and 1 yr old boy
      Now 11 yr old girl, 7 yr old boy, 3 yr old girl!

  • @amanda_who8307
    @amanda_who8307 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How does she get money and her rent paid by taking in her kids? Wouldn't it be more expensive to take them in. Idk lol

  • @DizzyHempstead516
    @DizzyHempstead516 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Kids are a priority i hate those kinda parents that put themselves first and their kids second I dont even have kids but i have a goddaughter who i make sure eats before me gets everything before me and im not even a parent i just have parent qualities i hope one day i get to share in that happiness to have a kid of my own one day 😔 i would like a little girl 😊 teach her how to treat herself and walk properly and how to watch out for guys and such it'll be refreshing and new for me one day 😊😊😊

    • @briellesmith935
      @briellesmith935 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's cute 🥺
      And also that's disgusting why have a kid if your gonna choose drugs I feel bad for people who can't have kids and want them and then there is people like this

    • @prettyinink1661
      @prettyinink1661 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awww you're so sweet . Kudos to you 👏

  • @robinwilliams5841
    @robinwilliams5841 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had custody of my grand babies and I never got a check bc it was kinship and I had to prove I was able to take care of them. They told me if I was a foster parent and they weren’t related to me I would of got almost 1300 a month.

  • @dantles
    @dantles 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    and my friends ask me why do I hate people, this is why, people are evil to the core (not all but most)

  • @darkfairy9240
    @darkfairy9240 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can believe the nosebleed is from dry air cause that use to happen to me when I was younger.

  • @kacydavidson1061
    @kacydavidson1061 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I almost thought this was about my family for a second lmao my birthers name is christy too 😂😂

  • @AK94913
    @AK94913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    If my relative had kids and didnt take care of them, instead spent their time doing crack, damn right I'm calling someone.

    • @megrit9742
      @megrit9742 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Had a cousin choose drugs over her 2 kids. Would show up to visits high, so they got cancelled as soon as they started or just wouldn’t show up at all. My mom adopted them so I got the great pleasure of having a little brother and sister growing up. But the damage it has done is unbelievable. They are teens now and we still have a long road of recovery ahead for them. Their mom on the other hand is still the same POS and will never see them.

  • @LeviTheLoser
    @LeviTheLoser ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My mother and father were addicts, my father chose the drug over my family in a heartbeat, my mother on the other hand chose her kids, she got clean and managed to work through helll and years of in and out of rehab to get my dad clean, we moved states for a fresh start and my dad turned to alcoholism instead he went to rehab a couple of years ago and now he’s back, he was abusive the entire time, I’m so glad my mother chose me and my siblings, her kids over my dad or any addiction. I hope these kids are safe form all of that 💜❤️❤️

  • @markharrisllb
    @markharrisllb 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When your children are children they should never be a friend, they should be your children. Saying a 5 year old is your 'best friend' is ridiculous. What best friend things did they talk about?

  • @davionna220
    @davionna220 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That messed up

  • @betterbetty3542
    @betterbetty3542 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How do you get paid for taking kids out of an abusive home?

  • @nataliemscrzysxycoolharris9623
    @nataliemscrzysxycoolharris9623 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    How can one be cleared from something he/she did🤔? Especially when convicted.

    • @Frosty0762
      @Frosty0762 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't think it was a conviction, I believe it was an accusation they were looking into. I could be wrong though

  • @donkeyslayer4661
    @donkeyslayer4661 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You can't fool me, that's Jabba, the Hutt.

  • @0chio928
    @0chio928 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    2 year old on drugs??! I think it's the parents fault😶👀 but first😊

  • @thatbitch9753
    @thatbitch9753 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    So you passed all the drug test after the 1st one ..girl... it’s been a month! Pfffff

  • @TheWalkingMegan
    @TheWalkingMegan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hope the mom will stay clean and kick him to the curb if he is not willing to so that she can get her kids back. The kids don't need to be in a drug filled home, but often times foster homes are just as dangerous and toxic.

  • @kg0672
    @kg0672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Steve: e.
    Crowd: OOOOOOOOOHHHHHHH

  • @gardener5857
    @gardener5857 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Okay, I'm old yep I am but when did grown adults start saying that their little kids are their best friends? That's not even a little bit appropriate you're not supposed to be their friend you're supposed to be their parent. You get high with your ADULT friends not your kids lmao.

  • @alishaward7401
    @alishaward7401 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Steve “don’t do drugs”
    Everyone who knows they’re gonna fail “haha it’s Opposite Day buddy”

  • @suzannabell2401
    @suzannabell2401 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can’t stand how many names the government use for children services. CPS, DCS, CYS etc. it’s confusing.

  • @taytodi818
    @taytodi818 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The mom was all up in the daughters face and the daughter kept moving back, Steve only reacted when the daughter reciprocated the moms actions. Smh

  • @donnaporter9736
    @donnaporter9736 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You show is so good and the way you help people on your show is very good and I like you show

  • @TeddyHoe
    @TeddyHoe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ppl in the back round ooohhhhhhh

    • @DVohnaOfficial
      @DVohnaOfficial 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂 none stop

  • @Monika-bc3dq
    @Monika-bc3dq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Girl, get back on Earth. In the introduction you admitted to taking cocaine... It would be a neglect, if appropriate services haven't been called. And the guy is still actively using, so she probably also is, just didn't before the show, because she knew she's going to be tested.

  • @brianagarcia7415
    @brianagarcia7415 ปีที่แล้ว

    Addiction is a bitch, i can tell you that right now. I was an addict for 7 years & when i went to get help i found out i was pregnant, right then and there i stopped and i prayed and prayed for god to forgive me. My son is now 5 years old, he is a very smart handsome boy & i love him with all my heart & soul!!❤ I have been 6 years clean and im very happy ❤

  • @kinooshino
    @kinooshino 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Steve: *Breathes*
    Audience: *wooOOAAAAAAAH!*

  • @thomasvetor7420
    @thomasvetor7420 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    In order 2 get her kids back , most definetly kids parenting class should b monthly , random check in , definetly random drug test ... Her man goes 2 a rehab out of state for awile ...

  • @jimmyblais1502
    @jimmyblais1502 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I will admit, I wake up every morning to blow my nose...because its so effing dry; nose bleed.

    • @melodeemcclain9600
      @melodeemcclain9600 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cocaine.

    • @immortal-fatexx7040
      @immortal-fatexx7040 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@melodeemcclain9600 I doubt a 5yr old is snorting cocaine😒

    • @melodeemcclain9600
      @melodeemcclain9600 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@immortal-fatexx7040 I was talking about Jimmy

    • @MsClemmons
      @MsClemmons 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mines 2 but I had surgery on my noise

  • @CooldownCentral
    @CooldownCentral 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    YO WHY STEVE GOT A BLONDE WIG ON ??? LMAOOOOOOOO

  • @vanessaarnell
    @vanessaarnell 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She says "kids" but only speaks about her daughter. Favoritism much ?

  • @travisvalois8858
    @travisvalois8858 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Repeated failures of drug use and she's getting in her mother's face about being concerned abt it??

  • @dawnisles6363
    @dawnisles6363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sad story all round!!

  • @kevinraymcgaugh7164
    @kevinraymcgaugh7164 ปีที่แล้ว

    That mom needs to stay out of her Daughter’s Life it’s not a crime to put kids in their room.

  • @Pierat253
    @Pierat253 ปีที่แล้ว

    Realize that it’s no one’s fault but your own for getting your kids taken.

  • @kimjongil3990
    @kimjongil3990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Steve is ONE SMART STRONG DUDE

  • @Raichous.mom.moments99
    @Raichous.mom.moments99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sooooooooooo I question these mother's so much.
    I know I have a very addicting personality. So for my child's safety. I stay away from even cigarettes, I would rather never have a high and my child be safe. Then put my child in a dangerous place

  • @michellelewis9519
    @michellelewis9519 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lady if u want your kids back then leave him

  • @Ohhhoneyyy
    @Ohhhoneyyy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    CYS? Children Youth? Services? Here it’s called CPS

  • @theomartin7339
    @theomartin7339 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    People have no clue what can happen when you snort that stuff!

  • @adamhiley2308
    @adamhiley2308 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    10 years ago Steve would of verbally laid into a wrong doing guest, He has definitely mellowed over the years

    • @NOAHSMOMMY
      @NOAHSMOMMY 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I heard he had to because of heart issues or something like that.

  • @dawsonag310
    @dawsonag310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is the locking your kids in a room for hours that bad? … my parents used to lock my ass up for the whole day and I turned out fine 😂

  • @meganmose
    @meganmose ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That is what drugs do to you. Look how she talks to her mom

  • @TheChaoticLoser
    @TheChaoticLoser 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    some people shouldnt be parents

  • @MsBee-ct4nw
    @MsBee-ct4nw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Umm hello, your kids are not your best friend.. you are their parent...