10 FASHION TRENDS THAT MAKE YOU LOOK CHEAP I Worst Fashion Trends

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  • @ms.frederique
    @ms.frederique  3 ปีที่แล้ว +564

    Bonjour my lovelies, I'm so happy you had a good laugh watching this video, I already read your comments and it's noted, next time I see a woman I don't know with a camel tow I will keep it for myself, keep smiling and don't forget to subscribe and share! Have a lovely day xxx Frederique

    • @genevieveb.guerrain625
      @genevieveb.guerrain625 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Salut Frédérique, you definitely got me a good laugh...all so true. Unfortunately, some people don't realize when they're doing too much and it doesn't look good. Being classy is so beautiful! Thank you for keeping us laughing. 👍

    • @suzannas.4965
      @suzannas.4965 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Do NOT comment on the camel toe. I think women do it on purpose to get attention. I highly doubt anyone would appreciate you bringing it to their attention.
      Also, yes... what's with the roots. If you can't afford to upkeep your hair colour then don't do it. You can do streaks instead or even just a different haircut will be a nice change.
      My absolute pet peeves is unnatural hair colour like blue or green, or red, or whatever. Especially once it's starts fading it and goes to 100 shades of blue. I have never . . . Ever seen a person with these colours where I thought yeah that looks good. I question... do people look in the mirror before they leave their house. How can they think it looks good . . . I just don't get it. I can hardly wait for this trend to be over. Sheesh

    • @freespiritedaquarius913
      @freespiritedaquarius913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I love your advice. Because of you I started eating more salads and drinking a lot more water to slim down. Your advice is classy and timeless and all women both young, old or any race should tune into you.
      💘 from 🇺🇸

    • @traceylafontaine8893
      @traceylafontaine8893 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Dailies Panty liners hide the front yoga pants problem 😁

    • @maryokeefe5351
      @maryokeefe5351 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I once pointed out to a woman at the gym that her tights were completely transparent and she was not wearing any underwear. It did not end well... Never again.

  • @Nicki17321
    @Nicki17321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1809

    When she said "Stupid Kardashians", I knew she was a wise woman.

    • @MsAmalia07
      @MsAmalia07 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I think the ppl who buy their crap and believe their lies are bigger idiots. They are simply catering to those who idolize them. Most ppl know better. Take Fenty vs. Kylie Cosmetics. Fenty by Rihanna is killing it- long term too. Kylie Cosmetics was short lived after ppl both tried her crap and realized there was at one point, a no refund policy. Ppl where literally getting empty lipglosses and couldn’t return them!

    • @n1h1L1s7ka
      @n1h1L1s7ka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @Cici Fancy Nails I think not only them but also the people who like them are also responsible for all that madness

    • @n1h1L1s7ka
      @n1h1L1s7ka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@MsAmalia07 That's one of the reasons I like drugstore products haha

    • @PS_testing321...
      @PS_testing321... 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      They are so trashy. Look at my fake big butt and big fake big boobs. Can you imagine what their tailoring cost is, to fit the giant parts and skinny parts? It’s unnatural. I don’t understand the attraction. Everyone knows it is all false and manipulated.

    • @elssa2tan
      @elssa2tan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Well they do make money 😉

  • @heathmeizer9446
    @heathmeizer9446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1370

    Finally a person with the balls to say the truth about some of today’s fashion and beauty trends. THANK YOU 🙏🤗🤗🤗

    • @barbarafairbanks4578
      @barbarafairbanks4578 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Heather Meizer - Balls? 🤣

    • @Irishjay-gu5pb
      @Irishjay-gu5pb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      YES!!!! This is the first time I've watched a video of hers and I laughed so hard!!! She's awesome!!! Totally subed!

    • @hapyangl82
      @hapyangl82 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Pretty sure your parents said the same of your generation. Leave the kids alone

    • @brendastarcher6294
      @brendastarcher6294 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I agree! I've never liked them or watched their show. They are so fake! They have had so much plastic surgery done that they don't even look pretty..... Like they THINK they do.

    • @nomtee_deefaer8109
      @nomtee_deefaer8109 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I see the outfit struggle have you'll seen the BBL trand😏😓

  • @NurseClaudia
    @NurseClaudia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    “Do not neglect yourself. You are precious “. I love what you said! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @gp4634
    @gp4634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    Once she said she hated the scrunch shorts and people were multiplying like little gremlins.... I fell in love with this woman she is on point with everything. classy love it... Keep it classy ladies!

    • @laurasaavedra1555
      @laurasaavedra1555 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh my gosh i hate those scrunchie leggings/shorts- they scream look at my butt! 😬👎🏼

  • @vanpak
    @vanpak 3 ปีที่แล้ว +610

    Summarizing: avoid any exaggeration, try to look natural and add a little effort to look nice! Balance is key! 👌 I totally agree!

  • @meechiebaby493
    @meechiebaby493 3 ปีที่แล้ว +493

    "Do not neglect yourself, you are precious." Thank you for this. I'm a 48-year-old mom of a 4-year-old boy, and I'm so tired. It's hard to make that effort but I try. I just needed to hear this today.

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I'm so happy you love it, feel free to share xx

    • @ritageorge8748
      @ritageorge8748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      God bless you

    • @katiadelrieu5621
      @katiadelrieu5621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I can empathize! I am 50 and the single mom of a girl of 8 and à boy of 5. Life is hard on every level! But we need to enjoy what we have and do the Best we can.

    • @lovelyletter7460
      @lovelyletter7460 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I’m a 46 year old mom of a 6 year old boy! Hang in there, mama! ❤️

    • @joannateresa6639
      @joannateresa6639 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wonderful ♥️

  • @Jojo-ok7uv
    @Jojo-ok7uv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    “Do not neglect yourself, you are precious”. Thank you for saying the best thing I heard all day!

  • @christinaleisure1818
    @christinaleisure1818 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Thank God- a honest woman with common sense, we need more of this! Too many people look like they don't own a mirror or just plain ridiculous these days!

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you lovely christina xxx

  • @SimpleAbundantLife
    @SimpleAbundantLife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +691

    “Do not neglect yourself. You are precious.” Best thing I have heard all day. Loved the video. Thank you! 💕

  • @xrisanthihess2980
    @xrisanthihess2980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1228

    There is a 10-second rule when pointing out a flaw: Only point out a flaw if it can be fixed in 10 seconds. That would include things like lipstick or food on your teeth, fuzz or hair on your clothes, etc. Things that cannot be remedied quickly are likely to embarrass the other person and put them on the defensive.

    • @tthomas501
      @tthomas501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +118

      I have never heard this, but it makes sense! Thanks, I learned something new today👍🥰

    • @jayare6804
      @jayare6804 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      This is new to me, but will def adopt. Thanks for sharing!

    • @roseboursier2937
      @roseboursier2937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Love this

    • @carolebuckle7977
      @carolebuckle7977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 well said 👍🏻🇬🇧

    • @debra7241
      @debra7241 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      No wonder all the women in the reality housewife show’s are always fighting 😂

  • @beautifulyou2815
    @beautifulyou2815 2 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    "Dead eyelashes on the pillow in the morning " 😂😂

  • @mariemccormack8515
    @mariemccormack8515 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    As an esthetician, I have to comment that overly long extension eyelashes and heavy clumps of lashes (3,4 or 5 together) applied to a natural lash can cause breakage of your natural lashes. Not the look you are trying to achieve.I totally agree with all your comments!

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you marie good to know x

  • @claudiaharbourt9370
    @claudiaharbourt9370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +339

    I recently commented to a young woman how much I liked her outfit, including her heels and bag... She seemed genuinely shocked! Then smiled. I'm 60, and I can appreciate someone who takes some effort to pull it all together.

    • @thegillmachine
      @thegillmachine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      In all honesty, women who take the time to put themselves together often don’t get complimented like that. Often, the girls who don’t want to put in the effort will try to make them feel bad about it. She was probably shocked to hear a genuinely nice thing from another woman for once.

    • @tinydancer36
      @tinydancer36 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Wow...it's like the ultimate compliment when another woman tells you how nice you look.

    • @desertrat5543
      @desertrat5543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@thegillmachine I feel like I’m mostly stared at for how I dress. I think you are right- it is a shock when someone compliments my outfit/appearance. I don’t need it, but it certainly feels very good to know others see the effort I put into how I present myself. I like to also compliment other women for their style… they also have a similar look of astonishment. 😆

    • @lesliecrockett4108
      @lesliecrockett4108 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I like to causally , and briefly ,complement another woman, younger, or older, on a nice outfit, perfume etc. It almost always brings a smile. I'm 68 but have always done this. I don't complement men because too many automatically see it as a come on, especially when you are still young.

    • @vkngwmn6636
      @vkngwmn6636 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tinydancer36 women look at other women constantly

  • @mydog9997
    @mydog9997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    Since I am chronically ill, and always home, I try to make an effort to my clothing to make me feel better❤️💯

    • @ajohonly3721
      @ajohonly3721 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I’m sorry I hope you’re ok praying for your well being.

    • @mydog9997
      @mydog9997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@milakarr8327 Oh I’m sorry that you have to go through that🥺

    • @mydog9997
      @mydog9997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@ajohonly3721 thank you so much. I have been sick for three years soon. I manage☺️

    • @marienkablack6737
      @marienkablack6737 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m doing my class by Zoom right now and I make an effort every day to look good. Because of this I have finally mastered how to tame my curls.

    • @robinholbrook6576
      @robinholbrook6576 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I can’t go out anymore because of Covid. I live in Texas and only about 50% are vaccinated here and I’m high risk. And we’re ALL at risk with DELTA! (Have you seen our new guidelines?) But what do you mean, Pernille, that you “try to make an effort to your your clothing to make you feel better?’ I don’t understand that statement.

  • @jenniferwhitaker9139
    @jenniferwhitaker9139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    You're a true inspiration. I'm a natural, classy type of girl and sometimes question if I'm keeping up with the times but this reminds me classy and classic is always on trend.

  • @Soltice-ty2nf
    @Soltice-ty2nf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    "My name is Chanel . This is my channel an I say whateverI want"
    I love her immediately!!

  • @isaojable
    @isaojable 3 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    100% agree with everything you said. I see them here in Santa Monica with their leggings too tight from morning to night, it's really depressing especially for a Parisian like me. Unfortunately we live in a time when vulgarity (lack of sophistication) is seen as the equivalent of sexy. Thanks to the Kardashians who popularized the codes of porn in everyday fashion.

    • @luv2travel2000
      @luv2travel2000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Great comment! Yes, vulgarity (lack of sophistication) is not sexy.

    • @patriciamays8873
      @patriciamays8873 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      So true, go shopping at Walmart, try not to gasp! Way too small sweats, Lycra pants and shirts on 300+ lb. people, male and female.
      I'm American and think it's gross.

    • @cathyk6319
      @cathyk6319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Ladies wearing leggings that are way too tight ugh ... stretched to a point I can see their underwear _in the smallest details_. Too much information, thank you !

    • @annamossity8879
      @annamossity8879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My girlfriend is not happy with her body from the waist down so what does she wear?! Those blasted yoga pants, day in day out!!

    • @lindahollander3588
      @lindahollander3588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I wish people knew good taste

  • @katiepowers513
    @katiepowers513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +387

    I’m a firm believer in the 5 minute rule: if someone is having a malfunction that can be fixed within 5 minutes, (spinach in teeth, lipstick smudge) tell them. If they can’t immediately fix it, (like an item of clothing isn’t working and this person is already out) then telling them will only serve to make them self-conscious

    • @loulouncmtn
      @loulouncmtn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      How can you not know you have a camel toe?!? Ouch!

    • @screeningmimi
      @screeningmimi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@loulouncmtn After some of the intentional style faux pas we've just seen, it's entirely possible that some camel toe 'victims', especially those in skin tones, think it's sexy to look as though they are missing their pants and showing it all.

    • @chefpwn5210
      @chefpwn5210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@screeningmimi :o Oh my!

    • @riehafsah4469
      @riehafsah4469 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@loulouncmtn they do it deliberately
      They know average men out there enjoy it

    • @loulouncmtn
      @loulouncmtn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@riehafsah4469 I think it would be like ball huggers, they obviously know they’re wearing ball huggers and the average woman does not enjoy looking at it (them). Really, we don’t! 😂

  • @ronniblue1
    @ronniblue1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love how you don't hold back and you say what you think. You are amazing. On the Camel Toe question, I would not point it out as it would probably embarrass the person and they could not immediately fix it. Your comment about lycra shorts "It's like the Gremlins, they multiply. You don't feed them after midnight" was gold!

  • @marie-francerancourt4133
    @marie-francerancourt4133 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Frédérique! J'adore ta chaîne. Ça fait tellement du bien d'entendre quelqu'un dire toutes ces choses que les autres n'osent pas. Merci merci merci!

  • @tinamarieschaffer-sick4456
    @tinamarieschaffer-sick4456 3 ปีที่แล้ว +312

    Frederique, you are hysterical. The comment about the bike shorts in the cafe' at eye level - not impressive. I laughed out loud. So funny. I truly enjoyed this video. Thank you.

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ❤️

    • @jacqueline4749
      @jacqueline4749 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I laughed out loud too!! 🤣 I totally agree

    • @valeriebays2993
      @valeriebays2993 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Isn’t it the truth? It’s hard to avert your eyes when right in front of you😱

  • @Rosispergia
    @Rosispergia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +829

    I cannot agree more that the Kardashians have distorted the perception of what is beautiful. So many young ladies are ruining their bodies :( Not to mention that we now have supermodels with plastic surgery ladies...Gosh I miss the 90's supermodels. They were goddesses.

    • @danif.9414
      @danif.9414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @Vanora
      Indeed.. Think about Naomi, Claudia, Linda, Helena, Cindy, Christy and all the others.. Also more recently Gisele, my God..
      No interest whatsoever in this modern day 'beauty' standards 🙌🤷‍♀️

    • @hollygolightly8048
      @hollygolightly8048 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I miss the 60’s models who were naturally beautiful and true trend setters: Susie Parker, Colleen Corby, Jean Shrimpton, and even Twiggy.

    • @carmenyellow20
      @carmenyellow20 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @BRIGITTE SHROPE and they all look the same. I can't tell an influencer from the other. Same content, same look, same style....

    • @ekaterinajot
      @ekaterinajot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Totally agree

    • @kdmil2002
      @kdmil2002 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@danif.9414 If you believe none of these women had any plastic surgery...I have some swampland in Florida that I want to sell you.

  • @tenaarchibald3352
    @tenaarchibald3352 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    A woman after my own heart 💜. On point on all 10! I’ll be glad when we are sexy, fashionable and classy again. Some of these women either don’t know, have not been taught or just don’t care how they look. 😢

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing and liking xx

  • @PS_testing321...
    @PS_testing321... 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I realized the importance of eyebrows when my teenage son said, Mom, you don’t have eyebrows. I do but my hair is graying and the brows went first. I used to get all over hair color, but it was too harsh, so now I get balayage that incorporates my gray and I don’t have to worry too much about roots. I had my eyebrows tinted with my hair color, but it would only last about two weeks, then I had to pencil them in again. I got some Anastasia brow stencils, I chose the one I liked from the pack, and now I just hold it on and use a brush and eyebrow powder to color them in. This has garnered my best results.

    • @tinalettieri
      @tinalettieri 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I use a light touch of mascara. It works and looks completely natural because it is YOUR eyebrows, not a drawing of them.

    • @PS_testing321...
      @PS_testing321... 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tinalettieri My problem is that I am a red head, so mascara doesn't work. I actually use a reddish brown eyeshadow and a spoolie.

    • @tinalettieri
      @tinalettieri 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PS_testing321... whatever works for you! What's a spoolie

    • @sharroon7574
      @sharroon7574 ปีที่แล้ว

      I use the brow mascara from anastasia and I like it, I brush it back and forth to build volume.

  • @avey4422
    @avey4422 3 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    "...It's like they multiply. It's like the gremlins if you don't feed them after midnight..." hahahaaaaaa!!! cheap.cheap.cheap.everywhere! 🤣 Love you, girl!

  • @tiffanygreen7115
    @tiffanygreen7115 3 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    Oh my goodness, yes. Those claw nails are one of my biggest pet peeves. Long or short, they are one of those rare things that legitimately do not look good on anyone.

    • @michelehenne2477
      @michelehenne2477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      One of my aunts always had longer toenails, not as long as the ones on the video, but long enough. They always freaked me out, as a child. 😁

    • @tiffanygreen7115
      @tiffanygreen7115 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@michelehenne2477 Yes! The long toenails creep me out, too. I can't understand why anyone would want to do that, especially since it can't be comfortable or very functional.

    • @kimineasttexas4090
      @kimineasttexas4090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      They're just nasty looking be it the fingernails or toenails. They collect bacteria under them. And how do people with long claw fingernails wipe their buts??? Gross! They look like cheap hookers. 🤮

    • @livableincome
      @livableincome 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I never knew about the foot one until today. Goodness! How do they even walk? Or don't they?

    • @tiffanygreen7115
      @tiffanygreen7115 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kimineasttexas4090 Exactly and I will see these beautiful girls and then they will have those long claws and it just looks so awful and ruins their otherwise very pretty hands.

  • @ked7426
    @ked7426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I'm really loving the French woman's way of life, with self care presentation, food, it's about balance, fun, enjoyment, class. I agree with your thoughts on beauty, and I would say something, it may not go down well, but it will have an impact later. I've made a few mistakes with clothes, maybe if someone had whispered in my ear, you're showing off too much, it looks tawdry, I'd have twigged. Following trends can be, bad especially the lip thing, as it could cause unrepairable damage. Enjoyed merci.

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you lovely so much xxx

  • @AdventurousGeek
    @AdventurousGeek 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    “If you do this, and you think you’re classy, you’re not.” 💀🤣

  • @Happytrails24
    @Happytrails24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Thank you, thank you for saying these things OUT LOUD!! I so agree with everything you say in your videos. Seeing someone make such cheap looking choices that promote negative attention is sad. I have received so many positive comments over the years on my 'looks'. My husband's friend told him recently that I always "look timeless", and I am a thrift store junkie! Thank for continually showing us how to make good choices!

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you so much lovely, keep watching xxx

  • @g.d.anonymous8235
    @g.d.anonymous8235 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I came across your channel while browsing, and I absolutely love it! You are so much fun, classy and naturally expressive. Love your taste. I've been binge-watching you all morning😅

  • @carolynlunel9382
    @carolynlunel9382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    This was sooo fun! And so true!! On the serious side.. the very young women using fillers & getting plastic surgery will be so messed up when they're older!! I truly feel sorry for them!! Aging naturally is classy and can be very beautiful. Thanks for this, Frederique! Ciao! & kisses 💋💋

    • @bonnieroberts6082
      @bonnieroberts6082 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Fillers or plastic surgery in moderatuon do not age the face, in fact they can do the opposite. Chemical peels are also very good for anti aging in a less invasive way.

  • @tammietaylor5870
    @tammietaylor5870 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    J'taime ! Your sense of humour, combined with innate elegance is so very appreciated in a increasingly over exposed world.

    • @Weeeewriter
      @Weeeewriter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      *I'm 47 and I remember my grandmother telling me when I was young...to dress like I have a secret lol Give them something to dream about, not expose it all.*

  • @suzy8109
    @suzy8109 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This was hilarious. Your accent, your sense of humour, and your personality ... all are so appealing.❤️

  • @noodlessurprise
    @noodlessurprise 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    The accent, the advice - my inner Francophile loves this.

  • @breanne2117
    @breanne2117 3 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    I was walking behind a woman in nearly translucent black leggings and said nothing. She had a guy/partner with her. He should have said something. If it's a friend I will speak up, random stranger, no. I live in America, it's unfortunate, but 80% of the population wears lounge wear all the time. I compliment people that make an effort regularly. I ignore the rest.

    • @rrrusty49
      @rrrusty49 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I long for the day when we had a skosh of decency. It's not that hard to achieve *sigh*

    • @monicas2269
      @monicas2269 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I've seen the white leggings where nothing is left to the imagination. I assume they knew what they looked like.

    • @ueo7078
      @ueo7078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I see such scenes every single day in grocery store, mall, shops in US. Seems like tiktok pants is a must for all the ladies.

    • @jadiegirlcatsmith3257
      @jadiegirlcatsmith3257 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think some people don’t have a full length mirror. At one time I didn’t but our women’s restroom at work did. I remember deciding to never to wear a particular dress after checking myself out.

    • @alcogito8287
      @alcogito8287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ueo7078 "ladies"?

  • @Mei-zc1eh
    @Mei-zc1eh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    Thank you so much. This was an eye opener. I have been single for a long time and like... three years ago I completely lost any interest for dating and self care. I thought like: "nobody's going to notice me anyways, so why bother?" So no effort here. But I've understood that I need to take care of myself FOR myself. If someone notices me, that's a plus.
    So... at home I can wear whatever I want, but I will try to make some effort when going out. Thanks!

    • @tinalettieri
      @tinalettieri 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If you want to be noticed, make the effort. I went out to a lecture about a month or so ago after being "green passed" for so long. I didn't have one. I had on a simple black dress, a beige pashmina and Italian shoes that tied the two together. I had on some whimsical earrings that I got in Sicily but no other jewelery. I was just sitting there waiting for it to start and a man walked in. I literally saw his eyes widen and stare for a second or two too long. He didn't approach me, but the eyes said it all. The lecturer, who was quite a bit younger was also really smiling at me. The same Intitution is having a big do tomorrow. It will be partly outside in the evening. I'm trying to decide what to wear but it will be interesting to see what unfolds.

  • @esgara8446
    @esgara8446 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love your sense of humor and it is contagious

  • @vickierayhill4637
    @vickierayhill4637 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Subscribed for her accent alone! Her humor is a bonus...

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Woohoo welcome ans thank you x

  • @lorenlash9174
    @lorenlash9174 3 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    You might think about starting stand up comedy on the side, you keep me laughing!

  • @dianaparker4807
    @dianaparker4807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Your personality is infectious! I met so many lovely people in France over the years like you I wish more people all over the world would realize how wonderful French people can be! Loved this video! I agree with you on all the fashion faux pas you pointed out.

  • @fatemaalbalooshi1980
    @fatemaalbalooshi1980 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are absolutely right about all 10 points. We need reasonable looks indoor and especially outdoors 👍 Love your sessions ♥️

  • @user-cn5hz1kg1x
    @user-cn5hz1kg1x 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I've been watching you FOREVER! This is my first comment. Thank you for telling us what to do-and what NOT to do!

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are so welcome!

  • @s.ewasiuk7715
    @s.ewasiuk7715 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    On point as always, Frederique! You also just named everything the Kardashians do.

    • @jmg1619
      @jmg1619 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That is what I call very tacky people. More money than sense.
      It just got to the point of deforming their own bodies.

  • @mmcs4973
    @mmcs4973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Couldn't agree more! too many young women modelling themselves after a totally surgically enhanced family with not an ounce of class or self-respect. Those toe nails tho'...ugh!

  • @dinahweisberg750
    @dinahweisberg750 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm so late to watch this, but you are SPOT on with these points! I used to have the lash extensions (although I tried to keep them "reasonable") and it was such a relief after I got them removed, and I started working on my natural lash health. A waitress the other night had MASSIVE fake lashes/extensions and it was so distracting it was difficult to take her seriously. Was she going to fly away? Would they fall into our food? ugh. These other "trends", camel toe, yoga up-the-butt pants, talon toenails, etc, just make me cringe. Your way of presenting this was absolutely delightful and humorous.....thanks for making my day. BTW I just subscribed.

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Woohoo, thank you for subbing and welcome xxx

  • @marilynmolinari8599
    @marilynmolinari8599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Frederique, you are very endearing, amusing and honest. Thank you for that. I love my time watching your videos!

  • @suziejames7510
    @suziejames7510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Agree 100% with everything. My motto is never go out of the door without making an effort. xx

  • @robinholbrook6576
    @robinholbrook6576 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Oh! I am so happy to see you in simple earrings instead of the large Pearl hoops you usually wear. These earrings are so much prettier on you! The pearls are, well, just so bulky. I LOVE pearls! But I don’t love those pearls. They are just overpowering for you and not refined enough. Jewelry that stays closer to your face…whether studs or hanging down…is more complimentary to you. Thank you! I love you! Please take this the way it was meant: only with good intentions and from my heart to yours. Robin 🌹

  • @marysusansaballa5317
    @marysusansaballa5317 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really appreciated your reminder when you said, "Don't neglect yourself, you are so precious." I needed that. And of course, i was laughing out loud with your way of saying things.🤓😄

  • @deeannemason7003
    @deeannemason7003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your channel is fabulous! I always get a pep talk from you and a laugh too! ❤️

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your kind comment merci 🙏 xx

  • @anye76
    @anye76 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    The gremlins 😂😂😂. I agree with everything you said. Be careful with saying anything to people because they get so offended and ready to fight.

  • @conniecline201
    @conniecline201 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Could not agree more

  • @joykelly440
    @joykelly440 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes! to everything you are saying!
    Tackiness has become a norm.
    Let's spread love & good taste.

  • @cerealkiillar
    @cerealkiillar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I adore your videos! Everything you say is completely spot on and said with such grace and humor. I've learned a great deal just now and I truly appreciate you!

  • @ValuedVintage
    @ValuedVintage 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    “Too much people on the balcony.” Hilarious!! And true.

  • @MyCrownstar
    @MyCrownstar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    The thumb nail of those toes had me dying of laughter. Love your sense of humor and content. What a breath of fresh air you are to the You Tube community!

  • @tristanarnold9616
    @tristanarnold9616 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so glad to find your videos! My beautiful, beloved mother was very conscious of style rules. She taught me well, but sadly she's passed away now. You're my fashion guru now!

  • @SadieMae099
    @SadieMae099 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    French women are my inspiration for fashion and makeup,they are truly beautiful

  • @analauramendez6050
    @analauramendez6050 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you for this! I've always had my own style and you can say it's mostly vintage and modest. I never leave the house in lounge clothes. I only wear them to sleep. I always get compliments on what I wear all the time and my boyfriend even tells me how he likes the way I dress. You said what most of people are thinking and I think we can all learn something here. Lol ps I hate leggings. 😅

  • @lorie6196
    @lorie6196 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Class and elegance have a look, just like other looks. You’ve done a great job outlining all the major points. Thanks! ( I would never say anything about what you mentioned to a stranger. If it was my daughter who was still learning about dressing I would absolutely reel her in … but I also wouldn’t allow her out of the house wearing something like that in the first place). 💐

    • @elizabethwoolnough4358
      @elizabethwoolnough4358 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I had to reel my mother in once. She was wearing a black bra under a white top. I said "You're not going out like that, are you?"

    • @LilyAmongThorns
      @LilyAmongThorns 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@elizabethwoolnough4358 my daughter has better fashion sense than I do as well. I learned some of my fashion booboos from her gentle advice and also observing how she does it…she has it naturally but I have to work harder at it 😉

    • @elizabethwoolnough4358
      @elizabethwoolnough4358 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LilyAmongThorns my mother is knowledgeable about fashion, whereas I have little or no knowledge of what's in or out. Mum taught me a few things years ago, eg never have a gap between the hem of your skirt and the tops of your boots, that I still adhere to now. I'd say wearing a black bra under a white blouse, where it's visible, is sloppy.

  • @SzazaM077
    @SzazaM077 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    People in the the UK live in joggers/leggings/jeans. I swear I haven't seen elegant people where I live (Surrey). When I dress elegantly (trousers plus blazer, dress with espadrilles, skirt with blouse), they call it glamours!😆🙈 I think I would fit better in France or Italy - Bella Figura lifestyle.❤️

    • @lindahollander3588
      @lindahollander3588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Keep up your good looks,I can't stand sloppy unless you are cleaning out the garage

    • @booker0110
      @booker0110 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I bet they’re quite envious of your style, who knows how many women are influenced by YOU ❤️

    • @seda161
      @seda161 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know right 😅 was living in Surrey -Godalming while working at the American company... anyways : it was such a beautiful and green place-it might be normal for people to wear casual clothing 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @paulapapaconstantinou5998
      @paulapapaconstantinou5998 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      A vast generalization

    • @SzazaM077
      @SzazaM077 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@paulapapaconstantinou5998, just do a school run and you will see, and then shopping in one of the supermarkets. People dress up to night clubs, maybe or on a date. Other than that, it's casual/relaxed 'I don't care' kind of look.

  • @silvialola1346
    @silvialola1346 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Gosh, I love this lady! She tells it like it is💯😜.! I have to agree with you Frédérique, all of those things you have just mentioned are just simply and quite honestly DEFINITE NO NO’S..! I love love love watching and listening to you😍🥰.! So happy I found your channel a few days ago, always super interesting content.
    Please carry on😅.! Greetings from Amsterdam, Holland ❤️🌷❤️

  • @nelvarinard6469
    @nelvarinard6469 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely lovely lady. Class and elegance always. I am old school, my parents taught me how to dress, speak in public, have manners and love myself. So grateful to them for everything they did for me. I am teaching my children exactly what I learned. Thank you for being so kind and showing this generation what is like to be a lady.

  • @Chahlie
    @Chahlie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I think quite young women, like under 20, look cute with the false eyelashes, it's fun on them.
    If you can't afford an expensive handbag just have a small plain wallet, no bits hanging off, pompoms and so on. I keep a tote in my car with my extra goodies, but a clutch type wallet that co-ordinates with shoes is always classy.
    Just recovered from one of my worst migraines and Frederique made me smile :)

  • @beautyfollower3934
    @beautyfollower3934 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Had such a laugh with toenail and big lips! :) Hugs from Greece!

  • @MrsStepford
    @MrsStepford 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh Frederique you are a delight! You are saying what we (well, I for one) are all thinking xx

  • @marblehead2500
    @marblehead2500 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so right about the eyelashes and the nails!

  • @ginasanderson6056
    @ginasanderson6056 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are Fab & Funny & you make me smile! 😊 Xx

  • @lynnwalker
    @lynnwalker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The over the top eyelashes are beyond me! I have to agree with you on all points Frederique!!

  • @johanneleroux6076
    @johanneleroux6076 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your no nonsense attitude !!!!!!! We need to hear it !!!!! Merci !!!!!!

  • @soniat1348
    @soniat1348 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent points❤love your honesty 👏

  • @ghenetkidane8311
    @ghenetkidane8311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I don’t want to get a slap by a stranger, so I wouldn’t say a word! 🤣🤣🤣

    • @Hamaden1962
      @Hamaden1962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      A slap, would be lucky if they don’t shoot you in today’s world.

  • @AngelBomb5000
    @AngelBomb5000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    Oh, you made me laugh! ESP “stupid kardashians!” 😂😂😂 I agree with you 100%! Regarding the camel toe issue: I would only say something as kindly as possible to someone I know. The other women? Well, just keep making videos like this and hopefully they will figure it out on their own! ❤️

    • @JennyBaty1
      @JennyBaty1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I think they know. HOW could they not FEEL it!?!?!😳

    • @marcietorrence5361
      @marcietorrence5361 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You would be doing someone a favor if you told them their cameltoe outfit makes you want to vomit

  • @valhepple73
    @valhepple73 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Totally agree with everything you said. It’s so sad to see people who just do t seem to care about how they look. Thank you for highlighting these areas. 😍

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your kind message xxx

  • @darkmenagerie3749
    @darkmenagerie3749 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m obsessed with your videos. You are a joy to watch!! 😍

  • @veestu9308
    @veestu9308 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m so happy that someone is not afraid to tell the truth. I enjoyed the video and agree 100%.

  • @migdaliarosado4137
    @migdaliarosado4137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I agree with u 100%

  • @oliviaknight1123
    @oliviaknight1123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are such fun frederique! I'd love to have a coffee with you and people watch, it would be great 🥰 keep up the good work and keep smiling and enjoying life, you are wonderful! I appreciate you so much, thank you 😘💋❤

  • @slthomas
    @slthomas 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 Loved this my lovely! I couldn’t help but think of you while I was at work this past Saturday night. The things I saw people wearing while shopping😱!

  • @suebryant4237
    @suebryant4237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You have really made me laugh whilst watching this vlog🤣 but the thing is, everything you’ve listed is so true! Well done for pointing these things out, keep up the good work Frederique

  • @did4999
    @did4999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    I would add ripped jeans as well

    • @TheOpy83
      @TheOpy83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yeeesss! I hate those jeans! I have never worn ripped jeans. Why would you wear ripped clothing?! Why?? It does not make sense to me.

    • @carmagurl317
      @carmagurl317 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Haha I know what you mean but now I love ripped jeans!! I like how it shows a bit of skin and can tone down a dressy top. Now they are so common it can be pretty hard to find Jean's without rips!

    • @annamossity8879
      @annamossity8879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I like my ripped jeans. They tone down a dressy top and shoes. I feel a bit more down to earth, rather than looking like I’m trying too hard in a very casual atmosphere. On the other hand I believe in dressing for the occasion. Have you seen what is going on at the symphony, opera or the ballet?! Shorts and flip flops. 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @lindahollander3588
      @lindahollander3588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@annamossity8879 I think ripped jeans are more important to the young

    • @booker0110
      @booker0110 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes ripped jeans totally cheap and nasty, however expensive they are!

  • @cynthiaferrer5429
    @cynthiaferrer5429 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’ve been binge watching your videos each one has made a laugh at least once or twice.... you are so funny and such a fun person! I love when you go ‘ooooooh no no no’. Well done so fun xo

  • @gemmaryan5095
    @gemmaryan5095 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The outfits you showed at 3:43 are things I would purposefully pick out and choose to wear because I think they are really cute!

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for watching xxx

  • @judymastrullo4348
    @judymastrullo4348 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great video, and I agree 100% with these awful fashion trends .... no no no!! Can't wait for them ALL to disappear.

  • @isabellfox2915
    @isabellfox2915 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    The sad thing is that it doesn't matter if even they have a really good figure or are really thin these things still look terrible........I let my grey grow out a few years ago it saved me a small fortune and it looks good once you get used to it!!

  • @Mistressillyanna
    @Mistressillyanna 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are a breath of fresh air and this post made me smile and then laugh so much! I'm 47 and a bedraggled mum of 3 who has let herself go due to bereavement (RIP mum) and I was always being told by mum that 'your hair is your beauty' and 'a slick of lipstick and nice nails and noone will notice you're in Jean's and tshirt'. I MUST start to take care of myself again as I'm sliding down a slippery leggings wearing slope! I looked in the mirror and realised that I hadn't cleansed my skin in weeks so out comes the posh creams and lotions she always bought me for my birthdays/Christmas. Thank you for the inspiration and pick me up. You're such a tonic! X

  • @stamperssecret5379
    @stamperssecret5379 ปีที่แล้ว

    Under any other circumstances, we would be best friends. I love your outlook and sense of humor. You’re honesty is refres😢

  • @annakozoriz
    @annakozoriz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    So true😂😜….. gremlins multiplied 😂😂😂😂….. love your videos Fred! Merci!🌺❤️

  • @dianagb9770
    @dianagb9770 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    your personality is the best! so funny and always gives me a smile. Thank you!

  • @yolandaneely6431
    @yolandaneely6431 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank God, I found this wonderful woman that I can relate to!
    I dated a guy who wanted me to cheapen myself with all the wrong things!
    I finally I decided nope, I love meself the way I am, after all I was raised by a great elegant mom
    Who has good taste👍
    Thank you for confirming elegance and style is not out of fashion!♥️

  • @jayne59brohammer
    @jayne59brohammer 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am 62 and just found your channel, I have liked and subscribed.
    I agree with you, buy quality and timeless clothing and handbags,jewelry. I don't have alot of clothes but two nice quality pants,skirts and very nice blazers.
    I spend a bit more for the quality and they last long time and if you know what to get they never look dated.
    At night wear a sexy camisole under a nice blouse with a extra button undone, looks great. Don't forget very good nice shoes,watch also.
    When you buy quality it will cost alot more but you always feel great and look well put together. A French women taught me this years ago and she was right!
    Thank you for your show,good job👏👏

    • @ms.frederique
      @ms.frederique  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Woohoo, thank you for subbing and welcome xxx

  • @mrskaa7584
    @mrskaa7584 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great video Frederique. Very reasonable and rings so true to me. In my opinion, if you have something done, like lashes, brows, lips etc.. nobody should be able to tell. I am a bit younger than you, but when I practiced yoga in the late 90s/early 2000s, Yoga Pants were generally in reference to a stretchy pant that typically had a straight leg or flared bottom, and the waist rise also varied. Usually black.
    The skin tight "Yoga pants" we see today are something I have always called leggings. They have been around forever, we used to see them under tunics and cardigans, that is where they look best IMO.
    A true (to me) Yoga pant is actually pretty versatile. I might go figure skating in my black flared bottom pants, and afterwards I can throw on sandals and a pretty top with my summer straw tote, and the look is quite flattering. They are not my first choice if I am otherwise not exercising, normally I would choose jeans or a long summer skirt, but they work just fine multipurposing if I need that. I cannot imagine myself wearing leggings like a pant, if I wear them they are dark with a top that well covers my ass, and they don't double well as something I would wear out to lunch.
    I also wholeheartedly agree with having a nice bag. Quality leather bags are not necessarily expensive, neither are many faux leather bags. I usually carry a tote with a black or brown leather clutch inside so I can pull that out if I don't feel like carrying the whole tote everywhere.

  • @jackieharper5520
    @jackieharper5520 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I have a wardrobe full of beautiful good quality excellent condition handbags and nearly every one was from a Charity Shop here in the UK...

  • @iceladi01
    @iceladi01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your videos. You are informative, sensible with a wonderful sense of humour

  • @jjh8367
    @jjh8367 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would recommend finding flowy dress slacks and a wrap top. They are WAYYY more comfy than yoga pants!!!! A light linen slack or trousers are awesome.

  • @rydia91
    @rydia91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    In response to your question, I heard that you should only mention it if they can fix it in the moment (something in the teeth, some food on their face etc). If it's something like the pants, they can't run home and change so I would leave it be. I appreciate you talking about the yoga pants and big lips. As a lady in her 20s, I feel like there's a lot of pressure to "fit in" and unfortunately that style is popular right now. Thanks for your guidance on how to be classy!

    • @alcogito8287
      @alcogito8287 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      There are a lot of young women in my family and friends who don't dress "cheap". I think cheap-looking styles are only popular in certain groups, probably best avoided.

  • @screeningmimi
    @screeningmimi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    OMG - Those toenails!!! I was speechless for a full 3 minutes. Just looking at the picture of the nails, it looks as though there is a 100 lb bird somewhere in the jungle, with gigantic, pointy claws.
    If indeed there is a woman attached, I wonder how much bedding they shred to bits - not to mention partners?

    • @harpgal9950
      @harpgal9950 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I have not seen toenails like these. They are beyond horrible! It has to be mental illness.

    • @luxmifrei9759
      @luxmifrei9759 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@harpgal9950
      Ghastly...ugh🙄.

    • @barbarafairbanks4578
      @barbarafairbanks4578 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Screeningmimi.'"if, indeed, there is a human attached to them"...🤣 Priceless!
      As for me, I was kinda hoping
      the pedi-claws were part of a 🎃Halloween outfit. No??Not!???
      (I feel traumatized😱)

    • @screeningmimi
      @screeningmimi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@barbarafairbanks4578 Thank you Barbara, you give me hope! :- ) Then again, we may have to learn to live with PTSD from that macabre sight!
      If it's any comfort, the wearers of this look, probably feel pity on US, for our lack of toe glamour. :-D

    • @heathermanning5368
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